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Nothing but the truth

Written by ayashah from the blog ylcm on 25 Oct 2012
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nothing but the truth

A lot of people don't associate sex with God - they associate it with Satan and darkness, as if sex weren't holy.

The bible is explicit when it comes to sex. Sex is holy within marriage, and there is no prescribed style. Nowhere in the Bible does it say that the missionary position is the only sexual style. Not discussing sex in a relationship leads to divorce!!!!!.

some woman complained: my husband treats me as if I were his brother. ' I am tired of getting sex fortnightly, like a salary". she was lucky to be getting sex fortnightly, since some wives only get it on big days, like elections.
Many husbands leave their wives to seek sexual pleasures in Hillbrow. Have you ever asked yourself what those wives have that you don't. (was just passing by)

Wives have become very frigid and even sleep with their panties. If you're a married woman, you should sleep naked and let your bum touch your husband.
Today you find men going out of their way to get a glimpse of a vagina. They page through magazines and even go to lingerie departments in stores hoping to see what's hidden under panties, because their wives hide it from them.

Marriage is about being free with your body in front of your partner. A woman should parade naked and do some modeling to tempt her husband.
There are many married women who don't know what their husbands’ penises look like. They only feel it when he enters
her. They've never switches off the lights before undressing. A penis is a wife's toy - she is supposed to play with it. . You find many couples who've been sexually starved for years.

God created sex for procreation and also for pleasure. You can't marry and not have a good time in bed. WHO SAID YOU CAN ONLY HAVE SEX AT NIGHT? Why can't you drive home during lunch and have a quickie with your wife? We're all equal in sex - it's not just about a woman satisfying a man.

You have to satisfy each other. Have you ever seen a woman who has been satisfied? Have u noticed how she glows and becomes energetic?
May the Lord Bless you. This is the "Whole Truth, Nothing But the Truth" So God Help Us From The Beginning.

even though am not yet married this is my point of view on sex in marriage what are your vies guys???

100 Comments

ayashah
25 Oct 2012 10:57

here we go again!!!

Friend
25 Oct 2012 11:09

R18, SN

Green.arrow
25 Oct 2012 11:18

Preach!!

zdwesha
25 Oct 2012 11:20

i totally i agree

ayashah
25 Oct 2012 11:25

lol friend

mangqezu
25 Oct 2012 11:34

LMAO didn't expect this but its true

The only prob is when people get married or they get settled in their r/ships they start putting other things first before their partners. There's bills to worry about, kids' homework, dinner to be made, laundry etc the list goes on and on and by the time u retire for the night u are dog tired and rocking like a Duracell bunny is the last thing on your mind.

The most controversial thing that's been said over and over is that you should always put your husband first even before your kids (yes I'm sure most mothers are thinking wth) but if you want your marriage to work put him first. Make sure u meet his needs esp in the bedroom otherwise u'll have a problem in ur hands.

As for sleeping in ur birthday suit that I was told about a long time ago when my grandmother said it we were in stitches but my partner insisted on it until I got used to it except that ngimncintsha kunjalo *embarrassed* lmao

I also need to learn to play with my toy it seems I have become lazy of late lol

Friend
25 Oct 2012 11:47

I only sleep butt naked in summer, not in winter. But i still davaza the hell out of him 4 times a week coz i no longer feel like doing it everyday like before.

ayashah
25 Oct 2012 11:49

As for sleeping in ur birthday suit that I was told about a long time ago when my grandmother said it we were in stitches but my partner insisted on it until I got used to it except that ngimncintsha kunjalo *embarrassed* lmao

kweeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee hahahahhaha

Dhee
25 Oct 2012 11:53

I sleep with a birthday suit

Friend
25 Oct 2012 11:55

@Dhee, even in winter?

ayashah
25 Oct 2012 11:56

The most controversial thing that's been said over and over is that you should always put your husband first even before your kids (yes I'm sure most mothers are thinking wth) but if you want your marriage to work put him first. Make sure u meet his needs esp in the bedroom otherwise u'll have a problem in ur hands.
you have got a point mangqezu
@friend keep on davasing gf lol

Kandyfloss
25 Oct 2012 12:02

Heela Friend i salute you...give me some energy please. I do my birthday suit everytime we are together, its jus our tradition. The birth of our son strained my libido away that i feel guilty at times. Friend help me out..

Kerrie
25 Oct 2012 12:04

Hahahahaa...Friend and Mangqezu, you killing me!

i also sleep in my birthday suit in summer even when i'm alone, it's a norm! Friend, four times a week is ok, dude,you must take Friday to Sunday off so you can catch your breath cos ntho e ya lapisa maan! THEY SAY A WEEK OF SEX MAKES ONE WEAK! Kodwa mna ke ngizithandela ukuya ecansini ngipholile, no hurry, taking it slowly......

Dhee
25 Oct 2012 12:05

@ Friend as long as we are together love i dont wear anything, I want fo feel his warm body against mine *hides*

Kandyfloss
25 Oct 2012 12:09

I jus dont like the sight of the Toy when its "sleepin". Its UGLY! I used to mock my boyfie a lot about it.

Kerrie
25 Oct 2012 12:11

Wee Friend, lidavazana kang'ngaki in one one night you sure have the energy ntombazana? mna ngiyithatha ivikilonke, once a month, kanye ebusuku nasemini, phela umuntu wam uhlala kudekunam......

Dhee
25 Oct 2012 12:17

Yoh Kerrie once a month no galfriend I dont think i would manage, I dont stay with my partner but he knows that if I didnt see him during the week definetly the whole weekend is ours.

Friend
25 Oct 2012 12:20

'The birth of our son strained my libido away that i feel guilty at times.

same here gal, but do nto starve your men too much, just do like your sis(me) 4 times a week, 2 rounds each day." Kerrie we do it Mon, Wed. fri & Sat. but not on my first, 2nd day of menstruation, even though he doesn't mind.Dhee have been there too. Mangqezu the toy needs to be caressed, sucked, whacked, don' b lazy wena maan! lol. fore play yona omg, him licking my clit, inserting his long middle finger before shoving it in = multiple orgasms.

Dhee
25 Oct 2012 12:24

'The birth of our son strained my libido away that i feel guilty at times.

same here gal, but do nto starve your men too much, just do like your sis(me) 4 times a week, 2 rounds each day." Kerrie we do it Mon, Wed. fri & Sat. but not on my first, 2nd day of menstruation, even though he doesn't mind.Dhee have been there too. Mangqezu the toy needs to be caressed, sucked, whacked, don' b lazy wena maan! lol. fore play yona omg, him licking my clit, inserting his long middle finger before shoving it in = multiple orgasms

This is my kind of fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuun!

mangqezu
25 Oct 2012 12:25

Friend uphuzani pliz sharisha sisi lmao

Kandyfloss I'm in the same boat.

Before baby anytime was tea time now hayi plus baby refuses to sleep alone. At least these days sekubetter previously she would wake up and sit on the bed watching, one day she even cracked up I just joined her u can imagine my b-friend wasn't impressed yavele yalala lol

ayashah
25 Oct 2012 12:36

Before baby anytime was tea time now hayi plus baby refuses to sleep alone. At least these days sekubetter previously she would wake up and sit on the bed watching, one day she even cracked up I just joined her u can imagine my b-friend wasn't impressed yavele yalala lol
hahahhahaa lol ay i can imagne the baby loling kakakaka wena mangqezu i realy wanna c u u crazy hahhah tltltltlt wish to see you all

Friend
25 Oct 2012 12:44

one day she even cracked up I just joined her u can imagine my b-friend wasn't impressed yavele yalala lol

Kwaaaaakakaka for days by this. Andiseli kwanto sana, it's jus that i taught my hubby well, he knows how i wanna be handled. I love deep penetration & being in control so i sit phezu kwayo & hlokoloza. Doggy is my best coz my hands will be free to rub my clit while he is busy thrusting in & out, in & out....... until we both cuuuuummmm, you should try it ladies, you won't regret it.

zdwesha
25 Oct 2012 13:48

oh my this house is on fire..............

me i want foreplay to be long and slowly andthen sex i want it to be smooth but a little bit rough. me and my bf we r naughty we name sex....... we have a bicthy sex where we do all sorts of style every where endlini shooo kuba yi mess, andthen ku car that when i become a driver, so than me on top ngalomini andthen chicken, hayi ke lomini oyazenzela mna ndivula imilenze ndijonge phuzulu....

lol (hiding too much info)

i only wear my birth suit when i c him coz we c each other once a week or in two weeks.

one day she even cracked up I just joined her u can imagine my b-friend wasn't impressed yavele yalala lol

shuuuuuu!!! i can imagine the look on his face!

mangqezu
25 Oct 2012 14:21

ha ha ha ha ha yeh that was a moemish moment indeed lol

Aya u'll be shocked at how reserved I look in person

Eish I have never done it in a car I must do it ......almost did kwashota icover ya lapho ngaba nguDr Wet ngempela

ayashah
25 Oct 2012 14:29

kakakakkakakakkakaka dead hahahahah zdwesha hahaha o mpolaile sana tjo hahahahaha

Dhee
25 Oct 2012 14:31

Angazi ukuthi uZakhe uwukhiphe nini umpipi.
Ngizwe usushisa phakathi kwamathanga.
Ngiqinise ipenti lami.
Ngizake ngibone ukuthi uzowufakaphi.
Kodwa ave ushisa kamnandi emathangeni.
Uma eke walidabula nje iphenti uyobe ungidlwengulile.
Maye okuyiphenti ngokungathembeki.
Avele avule imbobo ngasemilenzeni, kuzinwebekele.
Ngiwuzwe umthondo ungena phakathi ngenkulu inkululeko.
Uqhekeze izindebe zegolo ushise kamnandi.
Angifende engicindezela odongweni.
" Awu! Awu! Awu! ngibabaza ngihambisana nokufenda kukaZakhe.
Bengingalindele ukudliwa ngaloluhlobo e "Office".
Mina bengidlala nje ngimqhanyelisa.

Whats your take ladies!

Kerrie
25 Oct 2012 14:36

hahahahaha @hlokolozing on top of him!
i have never liked being on top cos i like it slow and that feeling where nothing else matters, when it's just the two of you, whispering sweet-nothings to each other, you know, to heaven and back!

Friend
25 Oct 2012 14:37

Lol, Dhee.

"Awu! Awu! Awu! ngibabaza ngihambisana nokufenda kukaZakhe. Bengingalindele ukudliwa ngaloluhlobo e "Office".
Mina bengidlala nje ngimqhanyelisa."

I'm finished.

ayashah
25 Oct 2012 14:46

hayi ke lomini oyazenzela mna ndivula imilenze ndijonge phuzulu.... yah neh i can i magine lkkk

mangqezu
25 Oct 2012 14:49

hlokolozing on top gives u more control as to how far u want it in

Dhee honestly u4.30 usekude bo sengikhumbula isthandwa sami lol

Dhee
25 Oct 2012 14:54

Yho Mangqezu mina ke lapho ingathi newashi ngingavele ngiliphushe kanti nezulu liyavuma sana kuzobe kungongaphansi nongaphezulu. I just wish it was Friday ngizolithola kahle ngingavuki.

@ Kerrie uyaziphuthisela sana kumnandi kabi ukubangaphezulu ulibuke liphuma lingena nalo qobo lwalo ulizwe kahle kubesengathi liza lana esinyeni, uzomane umbuka kancane umuntu wakhona ezinhlamvini zamehlo.

ayashah
25 Oct 2012 14:56

Maye okuyiphenti ngokungathembeki.
Avele avule imbobo ngasemilenzeni, kuzinwebekele.
Ngiwuzwe umthondo ungena phakathi ngenkulu inkululeko.
Uqhekeze izindebe zegolo ushise kamnandi.
Angifende engicindezela odongweni.
" Awu! Awu! Awu! ngibabaza ngihambisana nokufenda kukaZakhe.
Bengingalindele ukudliwa ngaloluhlobo e "Office".
Mina bengidlala nje ngimqhanyelisa kakakakkakakka dead on my way to mutuary

hahahahaha @hlokolozing on top of him hahahaha lol kerrie same here i dnt think i will be able to hlokoloza ahwa

mangqezu
25 Oct 2012 15:02

Dhee awukhuzekile sekungathi ngifunda iMills and Boon LMAO

ayashah
25 Oct 2012 15:02

hlokolozing on top gives u more control as to how far u want it in @ mangqezu and dhee what if i fail to hlokoloza on top of him is he not going to lol at me? or run away from me imao

mangqezu
25 Oct 2012 15:03

zdwesha is it not uncomfortable in a car or are u not afraid of being caught ??

mangqezu
25 Oct 2012 15:09

what if i fail to hlokoloza on top of him is he not going to lol at me? or run away from me imao

LMAO no u will be fine ........u can sit facing him which I like its noce to see those facial expressions lol or sit facing away holding onto his ankles and he can hold ur waist

Dhee
25 Oct 2012 15:11

@ Ayah you will never fail love, he can teach. You can sit ontop of him like you squarting and he will hold you on you figure, bit by bit lifting yuo up and down, or better yet you can sit ontop of him ( like the kids when they are watching something interesting on tv, ever noticed how they sit, sitting ontop of thier legs) then lie on his chest from there he can bang you until you speak in tongues.

Kandyfloss
25 Oct 2012 15:12

Am so dead... You people. My boyfie isnt good with quickies, u plead for a quickie u end up havin a loooong session. I like them quickies. They help a lot. Am certain Mangqezu, kerrie , friend and dhee Need one Now Shem. Lol

ayashah
25 Oct 2012 15:13

this blog is on fire yooo..........................just love the fact that you are coming with points i mean my mom cannot tell me this

Dhee
25 Oct 2012 15:14

@ Mangqezu doing it in a car its almost the same as doing it on a chair.

Dhee
25 Oct 2012 15:18

@ Kandy speaking of quickies i love the one when you almost ready to leave and the hubby will request for a quick one, you just pull up your skirt sit on top of the doggy style and .............. the rest is history.

ayashah
25 Oct 2012 15:20

@ Ayah you will never fail love, he can teach. You can sit ontop of him like you squarting and he will hold you on you figure, bit by bit lifting yuo up and down, or better yet you can sit ontop of him ( like the kids when they are watching something interesting on tv, ever noticed how they sit, sitting ontop of thier legs) then lie on his chest from there he can bang you until you speak in tongues.

wow ask me after 5 years hahahah will tell you whn i get married imao,nice advice i got first skill keep the coming, second style? kikikikiki

mangqezu
25 Oct 2012 15:25

Quickies should be spontaneous u dont need to think about whether u are ready or not .......

I like the ones in bwtn cooking u just wake up sekusha amabhodo and carry on like nothing has just happened

ayashah
25 Oct 2012 15:25

Kandy speaking of quickies i love the one when you almost ready to leave and the hubby will request for a quick one, you just pull up your skirt sit on top of the doggy style and .............. the rest is history.hahahhahhaha

ayashah
25 Oct 2012 15:34

you realy made my dae guys serious **pointing with finger number 4 lol** mangqezu,dhee ,friend and zdwesha i realy wanna knw you

Kandyfloss
25 Oct 2012 15:46

I like quickies when someone is waiting for me outside, or when am supposed to be in the middle of something important. We used to call them short circuts with my ex.. Once i felt like in a fittin room. My boyfie turnd me down though he wanted. I stil fancy that

Friend
25 Oct 2012 15:46

@Aya, i am a virgin,& never been kissed. lol.

myname
25 Oct 2012 15:56

It's nice to be here. We've got free sex therapists. WOW! LOL GUYS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Just carry on don't mind me........*going back to my hole*

mangqezu
25 Oct 2012 16:00

hayi Kandy uworse when someone is waiting LMAO

shuu
25 Oct 2012 16:08

48 replies already! i think this will beat the 1000 mark soonest!

Kandyfloss
25 Oct 2012 16:10

Yes dear. As long as the person's not your Pastor or parent. Its great, try it.

Chix
25 Oct 2012 16:12

Kwaaaa you guys are so explicit... yhoooooo

Heee lolling at inserting his long middle fingure... deep penetration... doggy style whilst you play with your clitoris... low libidos...!!!

market
25 Oct 2012 16:13

guyz when u tak a shower 2gether enza into yakhe emumva n the water running all ever ur body.

Chix
25 Oct 2012 16:16

Ask Cheesa... or quickly create a new login and then just use it to ask the question!!! You can act like it wasn't you... make a comment first and ask later!!!

better do it now whilst we are still here giggling!!!!!!!

Chix
25 Oct 2012 16:17

Hawu Makisto... uzomenzani umntana!!! you are going to teach her naughty stuff wena!!!

Dhee
25 Oct 2012 16:31

Well guys and gals its time to go and practise what u've been preaching. A great evening aeveryone!

Kerrie
25 Oct 2012 16:36

Am certain Mangqezu, kerrie , friend and dhee Need one Now Shem. Lol......Kandyfloss, you don't understand, it's been too long!

Let me love and leave you my friends...i'm going to hlokoloza ko Serowe this weekend, talk to y'all on Monday! Have a super-duper weekend neh and cross your legs!

ayashah
25 Oct 2012 16:37

hahahaha cheesa i dnt think we will jugde you, you free to say what you want and to ask what you wanna ask,

zdwesha
25 Oct 2012 16:44

zdwesha is it not uncomfortable in a car or are u not afraid of being caught ??

no we dont do it in a car we call it car becoz i will be on top driving him mad he usually ask me "dont you feel lyk driving today?"

Sobza
25 Oct 2012 17:21

IMITHETHO YOKUBHEBHANA. 1.Ayikhethwa indawo yokubhebhana. 2.Kuyabhejwana noma ngabe yisemotweni, endlini, ematoilet, nase office. 3.Ungahlali isikhathi eside uqhanyelwe ngoba uzosheshe uchame uma usungena emgodini wezimanga. 4.Bafana kuyacwilwa ngobuso engquza, iyakhothwa inkomo, ayibhuxekwa nje umthondo kuphela. 5.Mantombazane kuyahlabelelwa, thatha umthondo lo uwuncele, uwukhothe indoda ize ikhiphe zonke izindaba ezenzayo zokuganga. 6.Akushintshwe izitayela. 7.Mantombazane iyagitshelwa indoda, nawe uke uzibuyele ngaphezulu uzichome epipini ebese uyamfenda u-basterd kube sengathi ugibele ihhashi. 8.Bafana ningarobhi izingane zabantu, ungesabi ukufenda slowly kumenza alizwe kahle ipipi. 9.Ungafendi ingane yabantu sengathi u-pumper i-prama stove, ukufenda usheshise akusho ukuthi uyakwazi ukubhebha or ubhebha kahle. 10.Mantombazane uma uya endodeni yomuntu ungalokothi ufake idilozi ngoba kungenzeka ulikhohlwe. 11.Akungabhejwana sengathi akusophinde kubonwanwe, bhebhanani nishiyele ikusasa. 12.Mfana ungabhebhi intombazane ukhululeke sengathi intombi yakho kanti iyakuntshontshela, nawe ntombazane ungavuli indunu amadolo aze ashaye emadlebeni uma ubhebhisa indoda ekungeyona eyakho ngoba hleze ikufune njalo. 13.Ningesabi ukushiya izivakashi zibuka iTV nina niyobhebhana ekamerweni. 14.Ntombazane ungayigodleli indoda ingquza, ivulele yonke izitike. 15.Uma unomthondo omkhulu musa ukuwujikijela sengathi uphoseka emnyango we-garage, ufake kancane sakufenda uze ungene wonke bese kuyima umdudula ngawo strong. 16.Ungalokothi ubhebhise indoda yomngani wakho ngoba hleze ikufune njalo. 17.Ntombazane ungesabi ukuzicelela ukubhejwa uma ubhontshisi wakho uwuzwa uluma. 18.Uma usuchitha ungenzi into ezothusa or ibalekise umbhejwa e.g ukuthimula, ukukhwehlela, ukukhala, ukumemeza, ukuhleka ubange umsindo, ukukhalisa okwembuzi. 19.Qinisekisa ukuthi emva kokubhebhana wonke umuntu wenelile and uthokozile khona eyophinda akubhebhise nangelinye ilanga

Green.arrow
25 Oct 2012 17:47

Hm! Haai no le a ipsina mann! Good for yall ladies!!

Virgolady
25 Oct 2012 18:56

Guyz what can i take 2 boost my libido*worried*

TaniaG
25 Oct 2012 19:34

Hw does a person ply wit their clit guyz I try bt I hardly fil anything or its cos my clit is small?

Favoured
26 Oct 2012 08:03

#sigh#

i wish i had a man

Dhee
26 Oct 2012 08:27

Dont worry Favoured your time will come too!

Favoured
26 Oct 2012 08:56

i will keep hoping

mangqezu
26 Oct 2012 09:00

Sobza yhu LMAO

ayashah
26 Oct 2012 09:52

Aya, i am a virgin,& never been kissed. lol. wena friend a virgin ihaaa mxm tellme u are joking

lol Chix, I wanna have the priviledge of helping her make her dream come true
lol makisto haa

Friend
26 Oct 2012 10:08

Good Friday crazy happy family!!

Come here
I wanna have the priviledge of helping her make her dream come true
wena friend a virgin ihaaa mxm tellme u are joking

It's a joke guys, am married with 2 boys. thought you figured that one out from my previous posts.

Eish I so wanna comment and ask something on this article but some of you know my face..... this is a problem...... lol

Don' live on what people say dear.if you really wanna know, then ASK. No one will judge you.

Favoured
26 Oct 2012 10:42

please answer this question ladies

Guyz what can i take 2 boost my libido*worried*

ayashah
26 Oct 2012 10:50

@ friend i did recognise that you were joking i think otherrs didtoo they wre just creating conversation

mangqezu
26 Oct 2012 11:02

There's a few things that I know u can try

Exercise and Lose Weight if u are obese - its good for blood flow and stuff and can help improve it

Reduce anxiety and stress - esp for new mothers don't try and do it all by urself, get help and I don't mean just a helper here but get some people to babysit for u whilst u and ur partner get some 'couple time' without the kids. U can start a working mother's group. I found this idea on the internet where a group of mothers take turns babysitting whilst the others run their errands for the day u can try that.

Stop Smoking if u do

Sometimes ur birth control could be the culprit. Speak to ur health consultant and see if u can change it if possible

Eat healthily I hear strawberries are a good aphrodisiac to get u in the mood thet dont just work in movies doll lol

Feel good about urself maybe get a makeover if u need one it will boost ur self esteem and before u know it u'll have ur groove back

Gud luck

blackiekagiso
26 Oct 2012 11:04

Girls you remind me of this book ya Fifty Shades of Grey.

Friend
26 Oct 2012 11:06

Guyz what can i take 2 boost my libido*worried,

Eat boiled horse meat,no salt or spices, tomatoes etc. but your man will ran away coz you will crave for mdavazo every sec.

Aya,thought as much

Kandyfloss
26 Oct 2012 11:36

Shee Friend! Horse meat.. Iyho.

shygal
26 Oct 2012 11:43

Solving libido problems: Masturbate

MsKim
26 Oct 2012 11:56

lol horse meat!!!!

ayashah
26 Oct 2012 12:14

Eat boiled horse meat iyooo friend wena o tseba dilo yoo

Dhee
26 Oct 2012 12:28

@ Friend are you for real1

Favoured
26 Oct 2012 13:34

Eat boiled horse meat
friend are you by any chance from Lesotho? i hear women that side bashaya istena blind (apparently zibondiwe in the sex department)

lol i hope @Virgolady is helped, you guys are the best lol

Friend
26 Oct 2012 13:52

I'm not frm Lesotho, lol. Don't you guys watch Daily Sun TV? that's where i saw 2 Freestate women boasting about it.

mangqezu
26 Oct 2012 14:05

@ Friend is the meat assumed to give u horse power or something ? lol

Another option is to buy those China sweets on the streets of Jozi lol just joking those things haven't been tested on the side effects but I read an article in the paper about how popular they are

Friend
26 Oct 2012 14:14

" is the meat assumed to give u horse power or something ? lol"

YES, too much of it that you might end up raping your man.

market
26 Oct 2012 14:19

This house it on fire man.

ayashah
26 Oct 2012 14:23

lol hahahahhh

maud
26 Oct 2012 14:57

hayi i am too young for this, PG is Advised

ayashah
26 Oct 2012 15:19

hayi i am too young for this, PG is Advised
kwekwe kwe DEAD HAHAAAHA LOL

LM
26 Oct 2012 15:26

Hehehe! yah, neh!

Pastor Khathide should be credited for this article...

Dhee
26 Oct 2012 15:34

Uma usuchitha ungenzi into ezothusa or ibalekise umbhejwa e.g ukuthimula, ukukhwehlela, ukukhala, ukumemeza, ukuhleka ubange umsindo, ukukhalisa okwembuzi. is it possible to do this especialyukukhwehlela, ukuthimula,ukuhleka. hayi ke eyokukhalisa okwembuzi its a different story altogether.

Dhee
26 Oct 2012 16:00

Tips from askmen.com on how to make her a morning-sex person:

Gently wake her
Your woman most likely does not want to be greeted immediately by your erect penis waving in her face, so take it easy. Touch her softly and slowly.

Give her little kisses all over her face and body and let your fingers play with her hair.

This sensual approach will ensure that she wakes up in a positive, loving mood and makes it much more likely that she'll take pleasure in morning sex.

Make her feel sexy
Your girl might not feel very sexy when she first wakes up, so to get her in the mood, be sure to tell her how beautiful she is, even if she's a bit of a mess. Ignore the disheveled hair, the pillow creases on her face and her less-than-pleasant morning breath, and tell her how badly you want her.

If you find it difficult to keep a straight face while telling her how hot she is first thing in the morning, try using a position that doesn't put you face to face.

Spooning her from behind is romantic and sensual, while it also conveniently allows you to avoid the misery of morning breath.

Prepare the night before
In order to avoid having to get out of bed in the morning before initiating your early loving, you should do some preparation the night before.

Keep some breath mints near the bed so you can quickly take care of your dragon breath before things start to get sexy.

Also, be sure to go to the bathroom before you go to sleep to prevent having to get up to take a leak as soon as you wake up. Don't forget to have a condom ready to go within arm's reach too.

Set your internal alarm
It's important to wake up early enough to get a little action in before either of you are due at work.

So, set your internal alarm clock to wake you up with enough time to enjoy a little morning make-out time to start your day.

It's best if you can wake up before her so you can rouse her into consciousness with your smooth moves.

Remember, you might be ready to go, but it could take a while for her to get warmed up, so factor this in when you're figuring out how much time you will need for your morning sex.

Like anything, having morning sex every single day will get old after a while, especially for your girlfriend, who typically does not peak sexually in the morning hours like you do, so be sure to mix it up and get busy at other times of the day too.

Galie
26 Oct 2012 16:07

shoo ...@Maud to young for this.....

i have learned so much here,when i find a bf hayi ndizobaba lol
@friend
is the meat assumed to give u horse power or something ? lol"

YES, too much of it that you might end up raping your man.
shoo i dont even wana try it lol

Cnglemother
26 Oct 2012 16:50

i have no appetite for sex @ all,my personal issues are eating me up so much that i dont even want to smell a man nxt to me.

Dhee
29 Oct 2012 08:17

@ Cnglemother you definetly need help, a gal has to get some once in a while.

ayashah
31 Oct 2012 13:09

i just visit this site for a good lough

Chix
31 Oct 2012 13:27

@Virgolady... i hope you will still get to see this comment!!!

All that Mangqezu mentioned is true but other ways of enhancing is to think about your man all day long... try to miss him because with us ladies it is not that our libidos decrease but its the fun that dies when you are married or staying together!!!

try doing it at different venues like if you are always doing it in the bedroom after lights off, when the kids are always asleep... change and just steal a quicky whilst you are cooking and you guys quickly run to the bathroom to do it differently at a different time than the usual!!!

Just try to be adventorous because as women we get tired of ROUTINE and it turns us OFF!!! men don't care even if they have it exactly the same all the time as long as they are going to have it!!!

hope it helps!!

Kerrie
31 Oct 2012 22:52

sex therapists in the making...

you right Chix, been through that! you end watch flies bonking on the ceiling rather concentrating on your own dusting and then you eventually fall asleep and your man won't be impressed at all! he might be left feeling inadequate cos he can't please enough that you even go to sleep with him busy humping on top of you.....!

mbulela
31 Oct 2012 23:20

Eish. let me read and catch up.

mbulela
01 Nov 2012 00:03

okay. enough of the reading.let me go and do some practicals. My driver is waiting. good night!!

Kerrie
01 Nov 2012 06:21

hahahaha, Mbulela, did you succeed with them practicals!?

ayashah
01 Nov 2012 09:11

kakaqkakakakak lol mbulale hope you suceede in your practicals imao

mbulela Thursday, November 01, 2012 00:03 AM do you sleep wena or you were here for the manuals so that you can practise imaoo

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