Life

carino
14 Nov 2008 15:05

PrettyPree
14 Nov 2008 15:11

PRAYER!!!!!!!

carino
14 Nov 2008 15:11

Well im at the part of my life where i feel everything is just stagnent and nothing is promising any future benefits. I feel like everything i do might not even bear any fruits. I feel as if im just living life for the simple fact of living, im here cause i have to. I dont see the reason of being here anymore. Im lost or maybe im just caught in the fog or mist but what ever it is i feel i need HELP.

Sweetheart.. i'll come back now and give you the link to two of Toxic's great articles....the one was when we were still feeling foggy and helpless like you are now.. then the second is THE SECRET put to the test - when we were enjoying life to the fullest...

I'll say this for now....

Change your attitude - the more you say you are miserable, the more miserable you will get. Start saying more positive things about yourself... see light.. and the light will definitely come to you....Look at other great things that are happeing in your life, and spend time being thankful about them, then it will be easier to get out of your present state.

carino
14 Nov 2008 15:13

I need someone to push me in the right direction someone to show me the way or just someone to notice my lifeless life.

That "someone" is Jesus... sit by yourself and just start telling God how you feel and what you would like him to do for you...

Porsch
14 Nov 2008 15:18

well said Carino!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Best-Achiever
14 Nov 2008 15:21

dubed out ... It happens to all of us sometime in our life. You article just reminded me of Living:45(a quarterto living) by Toxic, sometime ago (http://www.tvsa.co.za/default.asp?blogname=revelationsoftv&ArticleID=10091). ..and this is what i said

Reply from: Best-Achiever 4/17/2008 6:24:27 AM

You have already taken the first step .. speaking it out to someone else

I believe everyone at some point reach a point where everything seems pointless, well at least i do and this is what i do to draw back the strength and energy.

- i medidate on the Promises of God and stress the point that He said He i not a son of man to lie, so He will never lie
- i pray and pray and pray ... if constructive sentences cant come out of my mouth i just believe that God is seeing my heart ... most of the time these prayers end without an Amen.
- i look back and see how far i have come, the challenges i have overcome and that real gives me strength
- i also look at what i believed to be the future and somehow it brings hope to know that i still have a chance to live it, since im still breathing.
- I talk to God and tell him how exactly i feel, how do i do it;
i find quite time(where there is absolutely no one who can disturb me, switch of my phone, lock all the doors, switch of anything that can caught my attention) i normal sit on the bed, take a chair and put it opposite me(i directly sit and face that chair, nd imagine that God is sittig on that chair) and say everything that is in my heart, i dont leave a word ... it always take longer that i could think, the more i talk the more i feel that some weight is taken-off my shoulders, i talk, cry, wipe tears, talk again until i feel He is listening to me.

This has been working for me and it still does, i believe you'll also find a way to deal with the way you are feeling right now ... all i can say is You Cant Give Up Now, There is Much More Power Within You, There Is a Hero In You .... God Gave You The Authority Over Everything That is In The World .... Say What You Believe Your Life To Be even if it feels like you are lying to yourself But The Power of Life and Death Lies in Your Toungue; So Keep Saying It ....

months after that she wrote a very positive article about faithtitled THE SECRET put to the test (http://www.tvsa.co.za/default.asp?blogname=Quizd&ArticleID=9696) ...so that meant that staged passed. i believe this will be helpful

Toxic
14 Nov 2008 15:23

Yeah dubed out, i've been right where you are and felt just like you feel. i'll let Carino post them links, hope they help you:)

In actual fact most of us take that appeal on life so what about the people who think life is what we make of it !

approach maybe?

Best-Achiever
14 Nov 2008 15:24

Sweetheart.. i'll come back now and give you the link to two of Toxic's great articles....the one was when we were still feeling foggy and helpless like you are now.. then the second is THE SECRET put to the test - when we were enjoying life to the fullest...

Ooops carino ..i didnt see this, probably because i was busycopying and pasting LOL

carino
14 Nov 2008 15:25

You article just reminded me of Living:45(a quarterto living) by Toxic

thats the one i was talking about, BA.... thanks

Nonny
14 Nov 2008 15:27

I need someone to push me in the right direction someone to show me the way or just someone to notice my lifeless life.
The person whom u are looking for is within, that peron is urself. Stop looking around and be that person u are looking for. U can push urself to the right direction.

carino
14 Nov 2008 15:28

Here's the other link, dubzzz....

hope they help you....

read through the replies, as well.. http://www.tvsa.co.za/default.asp?blogname=Quizd&articleid=9696

belz
14 Nov 2008 15:33

Dub, you'll be fine, just follow the links, i promise it will help you, shame you poor thing,i know how you feel.

Toxic
14 Nov 2008 15:36

Oh, posted before i saw BA's response.......

Toxic
14 Nov 2008 15:38

BA's first link takes me back to this article LOL!!! Here's the right one:

http://www.tvsa.co.za/default.asp?blogname=Myramblings&ArticleID=7672

carino
14 Nov 2008 15:40

I served my boss with a resignation notice this week.. I wasnt happy anymore so I decided make a selfish decision...

The 19th of December will be my last day on this chair... what the next step is, I'm not sure yet.. but i know it will be what makes me happy and what I will enjoy doing... I miss the excitement of waking up to a new thing everyday, so...I've decided to drop the "settling-down" mentality and live life.... Im only 24 and life's too short to be unhappy.... So, dubzzz.... smile, and the world will smile back at you.

Ziphezinhle
14 Nov 2008 16:08

YOU NEED SERIOUS HELP!!!!!!

Well i know this may sound cliche but you need to take some time to find yourself. You need to take sometime and think back to how did you get to where you are today.think of all the good and the bad things that have happend to you from then till today,i'm sure somewhere in your thoughts you will find your purpose again,the reason why you were put here.

GOOD LUCK FINDING YOURSELF!!!!!!!!!!!!

GML
14 Nov 2008 16:38

We sometimes make life what it is.

Make decisions that will change your life.
i.e- You're unhappy at work look for another
You are not happy in you relationship get out of it- even if it's for a short while
If your family is too demanding tell them
If you are not in the right frame of mind ask yourself why and be honest with yourself.
And lastely: PRAY

carino
14 Nov 2008 15:05

PrettyPree
14 Nov 2008 15:11

PRAYER!!!!!!!

carino
14 Nov 2008 15:11

Well im at the part of my life where i feel everything is just stagnent and nothing is promising any future benefits. I feel like everything i do might not even bear any fruits. I feel as if im just living life for the simple fact of living, im here cause i have to. I dont see the reason of being here anymore. Im lost or maybe im just caught in the fog or mist but what ever it is i feel i need HELP.

Sweetheart.. i'll come back now and give you the link to two of Toxic's great articles....the one was when we were still feeling foggy and helpless like you are now.. then the second is THE SECRET put to the test - when we were enjoying life to the fullest...

I'll say this for now....

Change your attitude - the more you say you are miserable, the more miserable you will get. Start saying more positive things about yourself... see light.. and the light will definitely come to you....Look at other great things that are happeing in your life, and spend time being thankful about them, then it will be easier to get out of your present state.

carino
14 Nov 2008 15:13

I need someone to push me in the right direction someone to show me the way or just someone to notice my lifeless life.

That "someone" is Jesus... sit by yourself and just start telling God how you feel and what you would like him to do for you...

Porsch
14 Nov 2008 15:18

well said Carino!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Best-Achiever
14 Nov 2008 15:21

dubed out ... It happens to all of us sometime in our life. You article just reminded me of Living:45(a quarterto living) by Toxic, sometime ago (http://www.tvsa.co.za/default.asp?blogname=revelationsoftv&ArticleID=10091). ..and this is what i said

Reply from: Best-Achiever 4/17/2008 6:24:27 AM

You have already taken the first step .. speaking it out to someone else

I believe everyone at some point reach a point where everything seems pointless, well at least i do and this is what i do to draw back the strength and energy.

- i medidate on the Promises of God and stress the point that He said He i not a son of man to lie, so He will never lie
- i pray and pray and pray ... if constructive sentences cant come out of my mouth i just believe that God is seeing my heart ... most of the time these prayers end without an Amen.
- i look back and see how far i have come, the challenges i have overcome and that real gives me strength
- i also look at what i believed to be the future and somehow it brings hope to know that i still have a chance to live it, since im still breathing.
- I talk to God and tell him how exactly i feel, how do i do it;
i find quite time(where there is absolutely no one who can disturb me, switch of my phone, lock all the doors, switch of anything that can caught my attention) i normal sit on the bed, take a chair and put it opposite me(i directly sit and face that chair, nd imagine that God is sittig on that chair) and say everything that is in my heart, i dont leave a word ... it always take longer that i could think, the more i talk the more i feel that some weight is taken-off my shoulders, i talk, cry, wipe tears, talk again until i feel He is listening to me.

This has been working for me and it still does, i believe you'll also find a way to deal with the way you are feeling right now ... all i can say is You Cant Give Up Now, There is Much More Power Within You, There Is a Hero In You .... God Gave You The Authority Over Everything That is In The World .... Say What You Believe Your Life To Be even if it feels like you are lying to yourself But The Power of Life and Death Lies in Your Toungue; So Keep Saying It ....

months after that she wrote a very positive article about faithtitled THE SECRET put to the test (http://www.tvsa.co.za/default.asp?blogname=Quizd&ArticleID=9696) ...so that meant that staged passed. i believe this will be helpful

Toxic
14 Nov 2008 15:23

Yeah dubed out, i've been right where you are and felt just like you feel. i'll let Carino post them links, hope they help you:)

In actual fact most of us take that appeal on life so what about the people who think life is what we make of it !

approach maybe?

Best-Achiever
14 Nov 2008 15:24

Sweetheart.. i'll come back now and give you the link to two of Toxic's great articles....the one was when we were still feeling foggy and helpless like you are now.. then the second is THE SECRET put to the test - when we were enjoying life to the fullest...

Ooops carino ..i didnt see this, probably because i was busycopying and pasting LOL

carino
14 Nov 2008 15:25

You article just reminded me of Living:45(a quarterto living) by Toxic

thats the one i was talking about, BA.... thanks

Nonny
14 Nov 2008 15:27

I need someone to push me in the right direction someone to show me the way or just someone to notice my lifeless life.
The person whom u are looking for is within, that peron is urself. Stop looking around and be that person u are looking for. U can push urself to the right direction.

carino
14 Nov 2008 15:28

Here's the other link, dubzzz....

hope they help you....

read through the replies, as well.. http://www.tvsa.co.za/default.asp?blogname=Quizd&articleid=9696

belz
14 Nov 2008 15:33

Dub, you'll be fine, just follow the links, i promise it will help you, shame you poor thing,i know how you feel.

Toxic
14 Nov 2008 15:36

Oh, posted before i saw BA's response.......

Toxic
14 Nov 2008 15:38

BA's first link takes me back to this article LOL!!! Here's the right one:

http://www.tvsa.co.za/default.asp?blogname=Myramblings&ArticleID=7672

carino
14 Nov 2008 15:40

I served my boss with a resignation notice this week.. I wasnt happy anymore so I decided make a selfish decision...

The 19th of December will be my last day on this chair... what the next step is, I'm not sure yet.. but i know it will be what makes me happy and what I will enjoy doing... I miss the excitement of waking up to a new thing everyday, so...I've decided to drop the "settling-down" mentality and live life.... Im only 24 and life's too short to be unhappy.... So, dubzzz.... smile, and the world will smile back at you.

Ziphezinhle
14 Nov 2008 16:08

YOU NEED SERIOUS HELP!!!!!!

Well i know this may sound cliche but you need to take some time to find yourself. You need to take sometime and think back to how did you get to where you are today.think of all the good and the bad things that have happend to you from then till today,i'm sure somewhere in your thoughts you will find your purpose again,the reason why you were put here.

GOOD LUCK FINDING YOURSELF!!!!!!!!!!!!

GML
14 Nov 2008 16:38

We sometimes make life what it is.

Make decisions that will change your life.
i.e- You're unhappy at work look for another
You are not happy in you relationship get out of it- even if it's for a short while
If your family is too demanding tell them
If you are not in the right frame of mind ask yourself why and be honest with yourself.
And lastely: PRAY

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