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Scandalous Khanyi Dishes Dirt

Written by TVSA Team from the blog Interviews on 26 Feb 2010
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khanyi_150x215On Wednesday (24 February) the Scandal! studio's turned more scandalous than usual when Khanyi Mbau spent the day on set filming scenes for upcoming episodes.

She'll be appearing on the soapie in early May for three episodes - in the guest role of Katlego, who's described by the soapie as: "A wealthy 25 year old woman who is married to a BEE millionaire. She is a wannabe socialite and everything she attempts she doesn’t do so well with i.e. singing, acting, etc. She is based on Paris Hilton but is probably less wealthy."

I caught up with Khanyi for us in between filming to scoop the latest. Here's what she had to say:

Tashi: So Katlego’s obviously based on the real-life you?
Khanyi: That’s correct, but she’s more of a bimbo. They’ve made her out to be so blonde and so airhead that it’s disgusting to be honest with you. The whole idea of being scandalous and being on Scandal! is nice - I think that it’s also an honour that somehow I’ve really made a mark as an actress. I probably wouldn’t have made her so stupid - I would have given her more substance.

Tashi: The description of her says that she’s a wannabe socialite - would you say that’s you too?
Khanyi: She’s a wannabe Paris Hilton.

Tashi: Would you say you are?
Khanyi: I’m not a wannabe because I do the things that I want to do in life. As much as Paris does the things she wants to do. A wannabe is a person that only dreams of being a certain person or doing certain things.

Tashi: What’s your best line that you say as Katlego?
Khanyi: “With me life is just a party, party, party. I live a life that people only dream of.” These are also the lines I use in my life.

Tashi: In your life, you’ve done so many scandalous things. What would you say your most scandalous has been of all time? So far.
Khanyi: I think my most scandalous was the “Khanyi Mbau Goes Broke” story. “Loses Lamborghini, Gets Kicked Out of Michaelangelo,Gets Divorced ... Is This The End?”

That’s the most scandalous I’ve ever had to face you know.

Tashi: Was everything that was reported true?
Khanyi: Everything that you read of was true, I mean, my marriage doesn’t exist anymore, the Lamborghini’s are really gone and yes we did get kicked out - but I wasn’t down and out.

Tashi: What scandal can you spill for us about the whole Theunis Crous saga that nobody else knows?
Khanyi: That Theunis Crous and I are really together and beyond all the scandal we are actually happy. A lot of people think that right now we’re probably feeling so bad, because people are labelling us “such evil people,” and his wife is looked upon as an angel but funnily enough we’re at our happiest moment ever.

Tashi: I haven’t understood what’s happening properly - are they still married?
Khanyi: They’re not married, I mean divorce papers were sent, she just needs to sign them. Their marriage is over and we’ve both agreed that they’re not going to now play a ping pong match or a sling mud fight you know.

She knows the truth and he knows the truth so they’re no longer together and their marriage had broken down long before I was in the picture. It just so happens that it’s Khanyi Mbau and everything has been blown out of proportion.

Tashi: I have to ask - what do you see him besides his wallet? I’ve seen the pics, woof!
Khanyi: Yes, besides his wallet, I’ll be honest, he’s developed a side of me, when it comes to business, that no other man has. Most rich men never want to develop you as a human being because it gives them upper hand and they know that you are fully and entirely dependent on them.

He’s one man who’s always pushing me by saying: “Khanyi, you need to be somebody without anybody.” I think I fell in love with his heart more than his looks or anything like that.

Tashi: Who’s your scandal icon? Your most scandalous hero in the world?
Khanyi: It would have to be Angelina Jolie because she’s a very scandalous person but she really knows how to work the media and work it to her benefit.

Another icon of mine, who’s my all-time and I live by her philosophy in life, is Marilyn Monroe - unfortunately she isn’t alive anymore but she’s the best.

Tashi: You were obviously on Angelina’s side with the whole Jen and Brad thing?
Khanyi: Not necessarily, I don’t agree with everything that she does, but I love the way she comes out of scandal and makes it work for her. In entertainment, scandal, being controversial, always being the talk of the town comes with the business.

A lot of people fail to understand, that you have an actor, who’s a 9 to 5 worker and then you have an entertainer, who doesn’t necessarily need to be on a show to be famous.

Tashi: You’ve been on Mzansi, Muvhango and now Scandal! - which show would you most like to be on next?
Khanyi: Well I’d love to be on Scandal! - this is just a cameo role so I can’t really compare it to the other shows that I’ve done because I spent more time on them. I got to know their shooting style and how they produce their show so I’m not a position to say that Scandal! is less or more than any other other production.

So far so good - Scandal! is very professional in terms of how they treat their stars - every star in the show, even if you’re a cameo, you have your own changing room.

You are treated like royalty, like a professional actor and you're taken into consideration about any decision they take, you’re taken into consideration - they ask your opinion and how you feel about anything.

Tashi: What future scandal would you like to be part of - in the real world?
Khanyi: Maybe, “Khanyi Mbau Marries The President”. I’d be number seven because number seven’s my favourite number so I’d be his seventh wife.

Tashi: What’s your message to your haters?
Khanyi: My message to my haters is, though you may hate me, you know, you know that you’re always the first one to want to hear about me. Your hate is more of envy - you are the one that keeps me going and pushes me further every single time.

Tashi: And to your lovers?
Khanyi: My lovers is, you know, every single day one of y’all stops me for a picture or finds my number and manages to talk to me on the phone. Throughout all the stresses and envy and hate you guys push me and urge me to love even more. Thank you.

Ends


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143 Comments

Green.arrow
26 Feb 2010 01:55

their marriage had broken down long before I was in the picture. ....i know i've had this line a lot. In Spike lee's kinda movies, or ko bo ma Judge Judy/Mathis/Hatchet....bo Ricky Lake show...just cant put my fingaz to it?
Anyhow......

SistaBB
26 Feb 2010 07:35

Eish, here we go again...

felfel
26 Feb 2010 07:55

yeah GA even Alicia Keys is spinning the same line about Swiz and his wife, home wreckers!!!!!

baby e
26 Feb 2010 08:06

Stupid Khanyi stupid stupid seetuupeetee. 
@ Felfel - i am just wondering how Khanyi and Alicia would feel if someone pulled the "it was long broken long before i was in picture.' it is us women who hurt other women. they should ask Halle Berry. go botlhoko.

cleve
26 Feb 2010 08:26

LOL!!!!!!!!!

Mathaz
26 Feb 2010 08:35

Maybe, “Khanyi Mbau Marries The President”. I’d be number seven because number seven’s my favourite number so I’d be his seventh wife. LOL

I like her but i don't agree with what she did to Primrose but Sunday reports indicated that Crous was with his wife and they are back together again mos.

dali
26 Feb 2010 08:49

khanyi u wrecked Mandla's family en now itz Theunis when will u stop! sies maan!

Tholi
26 Feb 2010 08:54

....i know i've had this line a lot. In Spike lee's kinda movies, or ko bo ma Judge Judy/Mathis/Hatchet....bo Ricky Lake show...just cant put my fingaz to it?>>. tltltltltltltltl!! will see if Khanyi can really work to make money because she's so used in opening them legs to make money..

Vesa
26 Feb 2010 08:57

their marriage had broken down long before I was in the picture

It's a difficult one, and maybe the men are feeding them a different story that's believeable? I really dunno

hlobimk
26 Feb 2010 09:05

I just love this woman! There is nothing pretentious about her at all!

Green.arrow
26 Feb 2010 09:08

come to think of it....o right dali, she used to say the same thing about Mandla's marriage,that it was over befpre she came along.....weeee...even Alicia Mkhize felfel?.....aretse ruri...

myname
26 Feb 2010 09:12

sigh'

myname
26 Feb 2010 09:15

ja nhe with bloggers like Makisto i never have a dull moment in TVSA.

TRIPPLE LOL!!!!!!!

felfel
26 Feb 2010 09:19

yup GA  Alicia Mkhize is a home wrecker too, the man is Swiz beats (the one featured in that 'Transform U' vid ka Chris Brown). They been having an affair for a while now and she's spotting some bling ring on her ring finger, funny enough though the affair has been on for so long yet Swiz a an 8 month old baby with his wife so that means he been cheating on them both, sies!!!! the wife has publicly appealed to Alicia to back off  her man and let the divorce go through smoothly before she pounces again but Alicia ain't sleepin with no broken heart!!!! yeeeeerrrrr

myname
26 Feb 2010 09:22

I hope u have a lawyer ke Makisto..........I wouldnt like 2 c u being taken by those guys who r driving X5 with blue lights.

LOLX20......can u imagine a Calculating whore & Male whore!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! yuuuuuuuuuu 100XLOL

NIZZ (Ndahleka Impundu Zam Zatshotshozela)

Best-Achiever
26 Feb 2010 09:34

eish this gal takes things too far waitse

nice
26 Feb 2010 09:40

enjoyed reading the interview

blueroze
26 Feb 2010 09:46

KTKBKP (Ka Tshega Ka Ba Ka Phinya)



*hides*

TerryN
26 Feb 2010 09:46

@Makisto............i think i like u (a lot)

just T
26 Feb 2010 09:46

Khanyi is a liar, who is she fooling? She wants Crous so bad that she hopes that he divorses wifey. I mean she even went to togo for muti, now that it is not working she is trying so hard to drive Primrose away. Even if things don't work out, Crous won't marry her, he just wanted "status" and chowing her kuku of course. I would love to see Khanyi when she is 30. No one will be touching her. Who want to chao kuku e jeleng ke bakgalabje? itjooo... she is a professional whore period and now its her tym to shine, once the kuku is loose, she will be history, maybe she will move to Togo and twasa

Cande
26 Feb 2010 09:53

I love you Khanyi, keep going!!! Well done on ur latest projects, hopens it opens door for her!!

myname
26 Feb 2010 09:55

Oh guys my stomach hurts hahhhhhhhhhhhhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa Just T, U r on fire hhhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhaaaaaaaaaaaaa iyuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu

myname
26 Feb 2010 09:57

Makisto stop it OK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Im shinified!

felfel
26 Feb 2010 10:00

Actually i think there's people here moTvsa who whore around worse than Khanyi. As far as we can speculate she's slept with 2 madalas and one she was married to. I dont particuarly like this girl but commenting on the condition of her kuku from just sleeping with these 2 madalas is rather not quiet on point. There's some bloggers who wrote about their sexcapades with madalas and how they also benefit financially, now aint that the same thing? Her kuku won't be loose at 30 at all maybe her face might sag from all the hectic make up, she might pop her silicone boobs, possibly get osteoporosis from calcium difficiency...etc endless possibilities, but i doubt her kuku will age from the 2 madala sexcapades. Just my bit on the kuku comment.

Dini
26 Feb 2010 10:01

Ok Bloggers why is it a woman who gets all the blames can't we blame this man as well they have a responsibility to love and care for their families and they don't.
I won't be surprise if Mr Crous divorce his second wife and as for Primrose can't somebody call her a home wrecker as well just asking.
I think it's about time we blame the man for not being there for their families

Dini
26 Feb 2010 10:04

Thank you felfel well said and should Khanyi say No to money I won't

just T
26 Feb 2010 10:10

which papers are you reading @felfel? Prince from limpopo:, Sabc bosses (not sure how many)? ngaka ya ko Togo? aowa that's a bit too mcuh, she sleeps with all this man to maintain her expensive life style. And they all do it just to get taste of her kuku not because they love her. I am just being realistic, this is not a movie, it is life, by the tym she turns 30, there will be another 20 year old Khanyi mbau and no one will be talking about her. she must just remember that tym flies and kuku le yona e ya lapa e tswe swikiri

Dini
26 Feb 2010 10:14

Banna ba dom le bona go for it Khanyi

just T
26 Feb 2010 10:16

mina i would say no to it if there is my kuku envolved (and no love). Crous ran to sowetan, exposed her of what a whore she really is. i mean if she was not after money she would have left the old man alone. but because she knows that without Crous, she is back to thousands, she did whatever she did to win him back. Eventually she will be alone, trust me, all these men are aware that she is a professional whore, they give her money, they get the cake. when the cake start tasking like "koek soda", they will run away

Vesa
26 Feb 2010 10:20

@just T....I'm no supporter of Khanyi, but I must say they both bargaining from the whole thing. The man wants her kuku and he's probably getting it, she wants money and she's getting it......so they are both getting what they want from the relationship.....

FrndofGod
26 Feb 2010 10:22

Sho Makitso!

just T
26 Feb 2010 10:25

true that Vesa, but they have mollah, kuku gets tired and mollah stays, if she is smart, she should start saving now so that when the kuku can't take it anymore then she can maintain her expensive life style... she is not saving cause when Mandla went down, she was left with Nothing, what an Idioooot!

Dini
26 Feb 2010 10:27

But why do you have a problem with Khanyi's kuku it is her body and her life if it makes her happy so what/
How many woman who sleep around to get money for their children school fees?
How many woman who sleep around for booze?
And as for Khanyi whether we like it or not she is making money with 
Interviews
Appearing on soapies and 
Sleeping around and she is not a whore her relationship with BabaMandla did not work and she moved on with her life and find another way of making money.
Imagine you loose your job what do you do you don't just sit back and cry you look around for another job.
you had a job that paid you R50 000 a month and you lost that job and start looking while you were looking you find another one that pays you R2 000 I will not just accept it you will look around first and try to negotiate a better offer

Dini
26 Feb 2010 10:35

@ MakistoBecause we live in a society where it is traditionally acceptable that a man should sleep around and our leaders lead by example in this regard

Bull I am not going to accept the fact that the man should sleep around why Him if He can why can't I?????
My point it we should stop pointing the fingers at woman call them names like home wreckers it is a responsibility of a married person to save his/her marriege you find that in some instances if a man is sleeping around people start blaming the wife saying things like IF SHE CAN START WEARING GSTRINGS THE MAN WON"T SLEEP AROUND. O SKA MO TIMA MO FE HE WON"T SLEEP AROUND.
Change your wardrobe he won't sleep around. Look how beautiful Primrose is but the old man is still sleeping around and do you remember Crous 1st wife? very beautiful look at Tiger Woods people say if he was married to a black woman he was not going to cheat that's Bull Bull and Bull

just T
26 Feb 2010 10:36

@dini* she gets paid peanuts in the soapies cause her g-string cost more than her salary, so thats more like she is not working cause tata crous still maintains her life.  She is in the public eye and thats why she is not compared with those who are not in the public eye. I don't blame her for home wrecking cause she does not force this men to do it, i blame Madala wa se Togo, damn that guy wa loya mann.

dikozeer
26 Feb 2010 10:36

Mafresh
26 Feb 2010 10:39

No guys, kuku has no EXPIERY date.

Taba ena e so, the more men he gets, the more they want her.

Dini
26 Feb 2010 10:40

@ Just T peanuts is still money and peanuts can put your bank balance as well the very same peanuts that we want the thing is I was married to someone my age we met when we were in High School after having my baby I did pickup some few kilo's and I was blamed for my ex's sleeping around people said I pushed him to sleep around but he was no longer interested in us in our marriege who's fault was it HIM ME OR THE OTHER WOMAN not even one by the way

Dini
26 Feb 2010 10:41

And does pipi have the expiry date?

dikozeer
26 Feb 2010 10:41

OOhhhh Makitso
My dear they way you fell about that bimbo khanyi, is the way I fell too, she think that she is so beautiful and NOT  they are beautiful ladies outside there like aboNonhle Thema, Carol Bouwer, Bonang etc. People who have money they talk about money bashayela izinto zabo phansi manje ngobayena ngu FAFAFA, UYAPHAPHA.
 from Konkorizer

just T
26 Feb 2010 10:42

@dini, pipi is forever strongggg, even at 90 you can still get it up

Dini
26 Feb 2010 10:45

Thank you makisto
Just T you do not need to get it up because you are born with it being up check an 8 day old baby boy in the morning

Mndeni
26 Feb 2010 10:47

kwakwakwakwakaw @ just T

just T
26 Feb 2010 10:48

my point exactly, 8year old pipi = 90 year old pipi
8 year old kuku will never function like a 90 year old kuku... thats where expiry date comes in...---> take notes the Fresh one

Dini
26 Feb 2010 10:52

But money does not have expiry date ba je Khanyi girl leave them broke and they will seek a shelter in Kempton Park

just T
26 Feb 2010 10:54

kwakwakwakwakwakwaaaaaaaa well said @makisto, i love your thinking chana

felfel
26 Feb 2010 10:54

My point is simple, the condidtion of her kuku will not deteriorate from so-called "whoring" she'l just gain experience on how to please the next and the next and the next. Kuku does not deteriorate, it has muscles, it may lose some elasticity but that is easily fixed with a few kuku exercises and some yoga too. When a woman gives birth da kuku stretches and may even tear and it just gets sewn up on the side and with a few kegel here and there its tight as brand new. Even professional whores have tight kukus cos they know how to take care of them mos qha. U can preserve ur kuku by slicing it off and put it in a big bottle and preserve it with salt and vinegar or brine, now thats preservation right thuuuurrrr.

blueroze
26 Feb 2010 11:08

when the cake start tasking like "koek soda", they will run away



what a Friday!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
buuuuuuuuuuwwwwwwwwwaaaaaaakkkkkkkaaaaaaa
kkkkkkkaaaaaaaakkkkkkkaaaaaaaakkkkkkkkaaaaaaaa

to infinity!

jeslik

Mafresh
26 Feb 2010 11:10

@ Just T..... yiza nazo mfazi.... 
Where have u've been? u seem to know what u a talking about. Come now, tell us about yo experiences with different pipi's of different ages.

Mafresh
26 Feb 2010 11:12

Yes Felfel... and even go for a cosmetic surgery to bring back virginity

just T
26 Feb 2010 11:20

@Mafresh, if i had one i would definately take care of it. If you don't believe that it wrecks, then go and take a try when you are done come back and tell us. Trust me, when that thing is tired, it starts smelling like feeeeeshhhhhhhh (dead baboro). Some galz when they stand up, you ask yourself who died, if you never used a taxi in summer you won't know  what i am talking about. Freshh o nyaka go golwa ka go bona, go ahead and experiment.

nekzo
26 Feb 2010 11:21

Mafresh le Just T le tsheba ditaba tsa batho ba ba holo.....LOL

just T
26 Feb 2010 11:24

sorry @nekzo, we should have put PG before the conversation began.

Mndeni
26 Feb 2010 11:24

hawu Just T uthini na?maybe some girl when the kuku starts to smell it's because of some sickness infections or whatever

FrndofGod
26 Feb 2010 11:33

Sho ma TV.SA Bloggers untwana bantu nimphethe shame yazi, I wish she could read ol of these coments

Mndeni
26 Feb 2010 11:34

kwakwakwa @ makisto

Sana Lwam
26 Feb 2010 11:37

Modimo! kuku kuku kuku kuku kuku kuku kuku kuku

makisto are u sure u dont want a slice of the Mbau kuku?

felfel
26 Feb 2010 11:37

Oh its always sad when men comment on women's body parts with limited knowledge really sad indeed. Kuku don't smell cos its 'tired' , it smells cos either one has a bladder/urinary infection (which can be caused by excessive washing or any random thing that can upset the pH levels of ikuku and yet treatable with antibiotics or Betadine douche) can also smell cos one doesn't wear pantyliners so the kuku secretions land on bare panty, stain and smell. This is no longer about Khanyi i'm just doing my fair share of friday community service teaching u about a womans anatomy. So don't go around assuming that young gals who have that foul smell are whores and sleep around and their kukus are tired, they could be suffering a very humiliating and embarassing little infection which just needs a 5day course of antibiotics and they good as brand new. Class is dismissed.

cleve
26 Feb 2010 11:46

Okay guys this is getting out of hand. Kuku smelles coz of infections and stuff and not of sleeping around. That's not the matter here. 

Khanyi has a daughter and I don't know how that poor daughter will grow up with a mother flaunting things like this like it's acceptable in society. She is nto the first one to do this but society still does not accept it. REMEMBER: Umuntu u muntu ngabantu............... In life sometimes you NEED someone to pick you up.

realist
26 Feb 2010 11:47

Got to give it to you felfel. Makes sense what you are saying on your replies.

baby e
26 Feb 2010 11:51

I thought i read somewhere in Drum that Primrose and the Mdala started the project together. she even mentions how they only had a bakkie and they started from scratch. Primrose loves her man, she is a real woman. 

khanyi le ene bathong. o tlhabisa kgala

Dini
26 Feb 2010 12:21

baby e a real woman does not tolerate *bleep!* like Primrose does because she also likes money she will tolerate this is pure abuse I don't know what the hell is this Primrose waiting for

Sobza
26 Feb 2010 12:25

Iyhu....niyathetha zihlobo, ikuku (sasiyibiza i bhe*** ngoku besisakhula) kaKhanyi ewaxu-waxu okanye ezakuwaxuzela xa efika ebudaleni. Uphila impilo yakhe uKhanyi, kodwa mna ndiyadikwa yinto nje edibene naye....uyafana nje nonomokhwe.

Nawo lamaxhego anamanyala, shem uMandla wabantu....uphi ngoku. Nalo elixhego lomlungu lakwa Crous liyazithanda izinto....lileqeka emva konondatshaza owaziwayo nodume ngokuba yinkcukuthu.

lady gaga
26 Feb 2010 12:36

*Yawn*

Mndeni
26 Feb 2010 12:42

thanks for clarity felfel.nami I know that kuku doesnt smell because of sleeping around,but beacuse of infections,sometimes cervic cancer can cause a very bad smell kuma last stages

nwaira
26 Feb 2010 12:44

This week's drum has got Primrose as the cover page and telling a different story about how happy they are with crous and all that and that khanyi is out of the pic manje angisazi mna tjooooo the saga continues am telling you big time...

Mafresh
26 Feb 2010 13:25

Nothing retains its size like kuku...

MakaLu
26 Feb 2010 13:27

@nwaira, i bot that drum this morning also, am really confused.  Anyway .................. Khanyi u really need to think now.

Tholi
26 Feb 2010 13:38

@Nwaira and MakaLu, i have the mag infront of me. its really funny how Khanyi went to Primrose's  house wearing Pjs..tltltltl the gal was really on a mission.

baby e
26 Feb 2010 13:49

@ Dini i doubt that Primrose is after money if what i read form drum is true. 
Khanyi didnt save her marriage, she should have advised her ex to invest wisely. now she is destroying what prim rose has built with her husband. 

KWPKS - class dismissed

Lobby the girl
26 Feb 2010 14:08

Khanyi is living in a dream World, there is no relationship between her and Crous, 
last time when she was interviewed she said they were not datiing and now they are happy..bathong this girl needs dithapelo ka nnete, I am just feeling sori for the poor child of hers, every child looks up to her mother as a role model when she is young, but yena is a different story all together, I am not jugding her or anything, what pisses me off is bcause women like her are the ones who makes men thinks we all sluts..

poshspice
26 Feb 2010 14:32

why call a woman a home-wrecker, Khanyi is right, clearly when a man or woman cheats it shows that the damage in the marriage has been caused already before you even came to the picture, the person has been looking for comfort elesewhere....

if a man or a woman is happy (ya'll testify) even Tyson Beckford or Sade lookalike won't tempt you...you stick to your vows....

Shy Girl
26 Feb 2010 14:35

Dini
26 Feb 2010 14:36

Primrose is a home wrecker too

Segololo
26 Feb 2010 14:54

"women need to have more respect for other women," she says. "It takes a lot of work to put together a marriage, to put together a family and a home. … You have to have enough respect for other human beings to leave their lives alone. If you admire that life, build it for yourself. Don't just try to come in and take somebody else's life." - Elizabeth Edwards

http://www.oprah.com/relationships/Elizabeth-Edwards-Surviving-Breast-Cancer-and-Her-Husbands-Affair/1

myname
26 Feb 2010 14:55

Damnnnnnnnnnmmmmmm i  missed!...............hai guys niyakhuluma nhe!

Segololo
26 Feb 2010 15:11

<<I hope u have a lawyer ke Makisto..........I wouldnt like 2 c u being taken by those guys who r driving X5 with blue lights>> KSKD!!

realist
26 Feb 2010 15:13

There is no such a thing called love. If there was then there is no need to sign a contract when you both decide to get married. The only thing that there is, is self interest. If you don’t believe me, trying living together without a contract and see how far you are going to last without thinking of cheating. Better still sign the out of COP contract and see if you are going to stay interested.

Dini
26 Feb 2010 15:19

Who is the shy girl

cleve
26 Feb 2010 15:33

see how far you are going to last without thinking of cheating

@ Realist
it's human to think about cheating. There is no one out there who hasn't thought of it. Human beings can look beautiful sometimes..............

poshspice
26 Feb 2010 15:42

Seg I was happy when the blame was put on Zuma abt his many affairs, because as long as women blame other women more than men we won't even make a dent in the fight for faithfulness in relationships...... It is the man who said his vows in front of God,congregation and wife to be,he has kids and the head of the family btw a husband and a khanyi who would you say is more -accountable and should know better? Stop treating men as if their some weak and retarded people who get lured to these things easily, it is husbands who persue us single women tirelesly, I have more than 2 married man who frequent my work space almost daily for the past year or two wanting to lay me, I've said no but they won't give up, so you need to keep these husbands away from us, do something, give them a BJ or strip for them...we are sick of-these married men

Dini
26 Feb 2010 15:50

Thank you poshspice thank you so much sweety love you and your comment I said it before and I am saying it again why should a woman always be blamed and be called home wreckers and we come and claim that man are like that it's like it is acceptable for a man to cheat if it is then who should he cheat with?

Mathaz
26 Feb 2010 15:52

I find it strange that when a man strays, it's the woman's fault, she does not treat him well that's why he behaves like a stray dog.  It's never the woman's fault, men cheat because they can and there's always a woman available to cheat with them.

Dini
26 Feb 2010 15:58

And there's always a wife to forgiv them and people claiming that the woman is saving her marriage that's a big BULL because this woman tolerate abuse and run to Drum magazine to brag about this and that while their husbands has moved out coming back when it suits him.
I don't think Primrose is really happy and she also like the moolah for the fact that she cannot leave her old man sis

poshspice
26 Feb 2010 16:34

 Primrose is a Khanyi at heart,she just doesn't flaunt it, why would a beautiful, young woman marry an old man who have children her age, did you see Crous children in pictures with Khanyi...those kids are either Primrose age group or older....

she wants what Khanyi wants....she probably took Crous from another white madam!! 

on another hand, it is amazing how we forget that some women found their men with other women, made them choose,  did not walk away trying to make the other woman happy, he said to you he was not happy with the other woman or his ex who is the mother of his children..you took him

so when it happens to you, it's like someone has committed a crime... when others were dumped for you!!!

Just be a woman of Prayer and find  solutions to your problems through your family, church, your support structure whatever it is...without blaming the other woman, with a hope that he come to his senses and return home

Sureya
26 Feb 2010 16:35

so sad about some of the comments.

sjura
26 Feb 2010 17:55

SMH

mashy
26 Feb 2010 21:08

Poshspice you are saying that bcoz it never happened to you, let it happen to then you will know how it feels. or you are also a man eater trying to dofend your friend.

poshspice
27 Feb 2010 06:55

Seg I was happy when the blame was put on Zuma abt his many affairs, because as long as women blame other women more than men we won't even make a dent in the fight for faithfulness in relationships...... It is the man who said his vows in front of God,congregation and wife to be,he has kids and the head of the family btw a husband and a khanyi who would you say is more -accountable and should know better? Stop treating men as if their some weak and retarded people who get lured to these things easily, it is husbands who persue us single women tirelesly, I have more than 2 married man who frequent my work space almost daily for the past year or two wanting to lay me, I've said no but they won't give up, so you need to keep these husbands away from us, do something, give them a BJ or strip for them...we are sick of-these married men

poshspice
27 Feb 2010 07:10

mashy,I was married and cheated on,fought with women until I realised that for how long am I going to be blaming different women,the problem is the man who bring all these women into our marriage...I dont do married men cause I know exacle how it feels like,bt based on my experience men get away with a lot that is why they will always cheat without any guilt while we women are fighting each other

poshspice
27 Feb 2010 07:30

I don't agree with Khanyi's gold digging career, education and independence,making your own money is importance than relying on rich men, bt if men are stupid enough to date her knowing what she is all abt well why blame her....if married men were committed to their wives, held accountable for their actions, the khanyis of this world would not have anyone to date...if we hold men accountable for this, you will see the difference..

Lindakie
27 Feb 2010 17:13

Black women please have sum dignity. Why should primrose run to the papers, in the end the 1 who will end up hurt is your kids coz wen th grow up thy will read this stories. If you started this business 2getha 4rm scratch, why don't u just get your share n move on? U r young n beautiful n no meta how difficult th situation is now, 1day everything will k again. I don't understand y should u allow that pig in your arms again cos he will never change. What comes around goes around. When he left his 1st wife 4 u, i dd not c her running 2 th papers because sh knows that a women never fight 4 a man, thats his job 2 protect his family. I think u married that old man 4 his money thats y u cant let hm go. U n khanyi are th same u luv sugar daddies 4 the mani. Stop whining n let that pig go. Khanyi is nt th 1 2 b blamed here coz he was never married 2 u. Blame your sugar daddy. Khanyi dd what u have done 2 crous's 1st wyf. Now test your own medicine..... WHO LAUGH LAST,LAUGH BEST N THTS EXACTLY WHAT CROUS'S 1ST WYF IS DOING. LMBAO  

Tiger_Zuma
27 Feb 2010 23:35

Koek has an expiry date, believe me. You just need to take a trip to Avalon cemetery - expired koek. Dick expires too. Khanyi number 7 watch it...

Lindakie
28 Feb 2010 10:29

SMH

mathata
28 Feb 2010 20:58

i dont know who want to die poor?bo radi klaklap tsa kaizerchiefs they want to F* good cake,who baked it to be fabulous?

if words didnt kill Mam makeba......khanyi has long road to go.

if you want  to f* good thing just pay n stop doing wiw wiw on our ears.

men must learn to take good care of women,crous his the men(we have money but we want more kwaaaaaaaa), muti muti se gat,no men can stay for bad cake,

khanyi .......fabulous in bed,cut the air with knife if you have too\


Green.arrow
28 Feb 2010 21:41

a women never fight 4 a man, thats his job 2 protect his family...very true Lindakie

Dini
01 Mar 2010 08:48

Thank you Mathata well said especially about Mam makeba how many times did that woman get married??????Did her koek expire???????

Buligirl
01 Mar 2010 09:16

HI MABLOGGERS SHE MUST REMBER AIDS KILLS AND TRUST ME MOST MADALAS DONT LIKE TO USE CONDOMS.  "MILLIONS" ALSO COME WITH THIS DREADFUL DESEASE, WHETHER SHE LIKES IT OR NOT SHE IS PROBABLY NOT THE ONLY PERSON CROUS IS CHEATING ON HIS WIFE WITH AND IF I REMEMBER CORRECTLY MANDLA ALSO CHEATED ON HER.  KHANYI JUST BE CAREFUL

cleve
01 Mar 2010 09:34

Lindakie I agree with you. Primrose and Khanyi are birds of a feather. The 1st Mrs Crous must be laughing her head off....... The way you got a man is the way you are going to lose him, esopecially if he is married

baby e
01 Mar 2010 10:01

@ Dini ao mma.

baby e
01 Mar 2010 10:22

But i must say i LOVED her performance on LIVE. K

Mathaz
01 Mar 2010 10:25

Babalwa Shota of City Press wrote an open letter to Primrose, hope she reads it, very valuable advice.  True indeed..you do unto others as you would like them to do unto you.

Dini
01 Mar 2010 11:10

Can you send us the letter please Mathaz I did not see it

baby e
01 Mar 2010 12:01

But i still believe that Primrose is nothing compared to Khanyi.

Dini
01 Mar 2010 12:04

Ba stout bana ba ba rata zaka

Mathaz
01 Mar 2010 12:09

@Dini..it's not yet uploaded on their site but get yourself yesterday's copy of City Press.

Sbam
01 Mar 2010 12:16

shoooo

Dini
01 Mar 2010 13:33

makisto the girl is making money both ways eish i wish

Beyonce
01 Mar 2010 13:53

Was Mr Crous married when he met Primrose? Did Mr Crous leave his wife to marry Primrose? If the answer to both my questions is YES, then Prim deserves whats coming her way... What goes around comes around, thats just how life is...

Cande
01 Mar 2010 14:04

You making sooo much sense Poshspice, and @ realist me and you feel the same way about this whole love/marriages issues

realist
01 Mar 2010 14:14

@ Cande: I don’t know why most people get angry with what khanyi is doing. No man is married to a woman; it is the other way around. If that guy wants to commit himself to a contract why should they blame Khanyi for that? As I recall she did not force or point a gun to anyone who wanted to commit to a contract, did she?

Lovie
01 Mar 2010 14:25

UKhanyi is a bitch waitse..........lol

Zilda
01 Mar 2010 14:35

love or hate her, Khanyi is the entertainer, check all these replies!!!

baby e
01 Mar 2010 14:40

@ Realistic - how would you feel if Khanyi did the exact same thing to your own family that is either your sister, mother or aunt. its immoral what she is doing and she whatever your reasons are it does not justify her to get into a family and say  - the marriage was long done before i was in picture.

Tshd21
01 Mar 2010 14:42

if words didnt kill Mam makeba......khanyi has long road to go....




Like, WTF Mathata????

realist
01 Mar 2010 14:46

baby e: Answer me on this: Is a man married to a woman? If your answer is yes then you can blame khanyi for messing up. If your answer is no then blame the guy. It takes to two to tango but somebody got to propose and I cannot imagine woman proposing to a man, can you?

Holiday
01 Mar 2010 14:46

@Lovie..Do you use that mouth to eat?

Cande
01 Mar 2010 15:17

and baby e, Khanyi is not the one @ fault here, Theunis is the problem, he is the one who lied to this chick and said he will be with her forever

Zilda
01 Mar 2010 15:32

@Makisto you need to relax. Why are you so emotional about Khanyi?

baby e
01 Mar 2010 15:47

@ Realistic and Cande 

i blame Khanyi because it shows that it is her habit to do what she does her history - wrecking families. first it was Mandla then its primrose. i dont know much about how primrose and e man started but if what i read from Drum that the met around 2006 (stand to be corrected) how come we have never heard about her BUT is now on the spot light after the Khanyi issue. 

Cande
01 Mar 2010 15:58

That is men dont have respect for some of women. Because when he messes up, you dont attack him but the other woman. How low and pathetic. Theunis said those vows to Primrose, Khanyisile was not there... Its upto Theunis to keep up with his vows, Not Khanyi because she is not married and doesnt owe Primrose anything!!

zozoe
01 Mar 2010 16:18

shoooo

baby e
01 Mar 2010 16:22

and Cande we women allow them to do so and because they know that we women will do that they do it. women have no respect for other women. khanyi has no respect for primrose in this case.

Cande
01 Mar 2010 16:40

and Theunis is even worser than Khanyi is this case, and Primrose i cant even start to describe her for letting Theunis walk all over her like this and still be brave enough to act like he still cares for her just because he buys her expensive watches. She is as bad as Khanyi if not worse

Cande
01 Mar 2010 16:42

and a gold digger two, why isnt anyone saying anything about getting a man her age? because that is an argument for most people when they try to label Khanyi a gold-digger? Isnt Primrose one yena??

nwaira
01 Mar 2010 16:48

@nwaira, i bot that drum this morning also, am really confused. Anyway .................. Khanyi u really need to think now.

@Nwaira and MakaLu, i have the mag infront of me. its really funny how Khanyi
went to Primrose's house wearing Pjs..tltltltl the gal was really on a mission.

the saga continues bethunani molweni and byeeeee

Cande
01 Mar 2010 16:48

I was shocked to read on YOU magazine that they working things out, and how Theunis said he accidentally 'bumped' into Khanyi @ the met and how much she thinks hubby still love them because he bougth her the watch and a car!? WTF?? Is she that desperate?

mathata
01 Mar 2010 19:37

Khanyi must iron this motenos,he didnt call him,anyway shis just playing a game

why isnt anyone saying anything about getting a man of her age?....im sorry bo may i have R100.

primrose upstairs is noooo goodo,something is not right with this two women,both of them they depend on this punk,

theunis business what about theirs maara,pls im asking????

Lindakie
01 Mar 2010 19:58

OMG. I cant believe that no1 is blaming crous. Is he not the 1 who left his family behind? If kanyi is a gold-digger so is primrose coz  crous is the same age or older than his father n thats disgusting. Kanyi n Primrose are the same but kanyi knows how to play the game far better than her. If you snooze you loose

lady gaga
01 Mar 2010 21:05

Cnt believe u guys think khanyi is nt wrong here,shame on u!

Dini
02 Mar 2010 08:13

Crous is the wrong one here and Prim does not have pride she is the one allowing this man to play all over him and he is not going to stop with Khanyi so to khanyi I say milk him dry till he's got nothing like Mandla and to Prim leave the man and continue with your business if you have any or look for a job babes

baby e
02 Mar 2010 08:30

and the fact that we all know that men in general cheat. with the current situation where our president has 20 children with different women its an indication that our society is sick. 
my point is if we women dont take this married men into our homes, open our legs for them, they will also appreciate their wives.
there is this married man who is after me, i have told him that i am not interested. by the sound of things all is not well with the wife. should i date him and just say things were not all well before i met him. NO. 

baby e
02 Mar 2010 08:41

TheUnis is in the spotlight because of Khanyi. If it wasnt for that we will not know him. take for example Queen's marriage - it wasnt all that and she came out after the divorce talking about how she stayed in the marriage which was not really working and so forth. Basetsana Khumalo - we have heard rumors that all is not well in the family. in this case its just that Khanyi is in picture if it wasnt for that. we will not know a thing - that is WHY I BLAME Khanyi

Zilda
02 Mar 2010 09:22

Peace Makisto, I understandand how you feel and it seems you know Khanyi well. I am not her fan, I don't care what she does, go jewa kuku ya gagwe moes )hopefully with a rain coat). I've been there, I was once a mistress (unaware), then a Mrs who got cheated on. So cheating and being cheated on can happen to anyone, it is a pity Khanyi is a tabloid fodder!!! It is not because the wife cannot perform in bed, it is the MAN, the pig. From my experience, if I were Primrose, I'd take this madala to the cleaners... If she really contributed and started the business from scratch. Even if Crouse leaves Khanyi, he will find someone else to cheat with knowing that Primrose will fight for him.

Why is Primrose hanging on after such a humiliation? I think there is more to the story!

This old madala have lived their lives and they continue doing so with young women to make them feel macho, it serves them right for women like Khanyi to milk them!!!

Cande
02 Mar 2010 09:58

yes Zilda, why is this Primrose woman still fighting for such a marriage?? Why is she not told to go find a man her age? She is lying man, she couldnt have dated a poor old guy with a bantam because she loves him..datz a big lie!

Cande
02 Mar 2010 10:00

No Baby e, if it wasnt Theunis Crous for having an affair with Khanyi we will probably not even know the Crous' family exist. He is to blame for all these, nogaal he still went to Khanyi knowing ver well what she is famous for..In my eyes its all Theunis's fault!

baby e
02 Mar 2010 10:24

in my eye is Khanyi to blame. Khanyi went to Theunis because he has money. i wont be suprised if Khanyi is seen with Juju boy because apparently he has money.

i have always asked why South African fine ladies are dating old guys. remember the article that was written by a young girl who needed advise because she was dating some old lecturer in Swaziland and i asked the question and no one answered.
we have - the forgive and forget presenter who is dating a men twice her age,

cleve
02 Mar 2010 10:46

yes Zilda, why is this Primrose woman still fighting for such a marriage?? Why is she not told to go find a man her age? She is lying man, she couldnt have dated a poor old guy with a bantam because she loves him..datz a big lie!

Prim wfana no Khanyi excatly................ yena what was she doing with such an old man. Obviously for the money you get what you deserve in life

Dgirl
15 Mar 2010 13:19

Khanyi give us the love potion ur using to attract old billionaires!I want to take Patrice Motsepe.

sibuuu
19 Jul 2010 11:46

@Dgirl lol, what Khanyi needs to do is to get a job and support herself and her kids, and stop selling herself to rich men,

Fiefie
16 Aug 2010 17:32

shhh about khanyi guys.....hau

clee
20 Aug 2010 14:39

i lov khanyi bt sumtyms she may be way ........................2 yah i min how can she do this,it lyk shes playing in a mans world were every man could'nt resist her aagg sies maan

VusiK
11 May 2011 22:56

Hayi Ke! I missed this one ... Ngenxa youkuthi ingalentombazanyana ezidla ikhekhe Layo!

I would have had plenty to jump in with ... but I split my sides with laughter ....


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