What is a crush? A crush involves admiring someone from a safe distance. You feel a hugely powerful emotion, stronger than anything you've felt before. You obsess over this person. You would die for them. You think about them constantly. You are thrilled when you are near them and miserable when you are away from them. You desperately want to tell the person how you feel - but are frightened of it at the same time. I always had this thing called icrush and always tell my sister abt it and she would tell me that
I have too much love and that I don’t know what to do with it…for a moment I thought she was write coz I always read too much from the crush…I would not differentiate btwn fancying some1 and loving some1..all that I saw was
love..and in a few months down the line..the love is gone and I then notice that
damn what a waste of time it was not really uthando bt icrush and I would beat myself for being such a fool.
On my first yr at varsity I had a huge crush on this tall, handsome and man of my dreams…the crush lasted for 2 months…
I was talking abt the guy 24/7 and I would imagine him also looking at me…my friends thought I was obsessed and and me I thought it was LOVE…oh my God I remember thinking life without him would be meaningless…how foolish of me..and every song that played just had sumthing to say abt us..uyazi ke R&B…
Bt then it got to a point that he noticed…I could go on 4ever ppl bt what hurt me the most was that the guy didn’t love me the way I did…which I could say was pretty scary looking from now…I waaaaas so hurt..I hated him for not loving me
Some ppl even hv crushes on their
friends which I think is very painful coz of the impacts it may cause if the other party does not feel the same…some on
teachers…some on very old ppl..and some on
celebs that they only see on TV..remember the Sphiwe story on Gen..
Some ppl would keep their crush to themselves for years…kanti what are we to do
This love this is really confusing me…
Or do I hv a problem coz some say they don’t usually get icrush…iyho beta them than me…
Ever had a crush and didn’t know what to do???
If you had..would you have guts to tell the person???
Is it okay to hv icrush on ur friend??
What are the restrictions???
While I was googling I found some symptoms of this crush disease Here are just some of the symptoms:• You love them yet you don't even know them
• All you can think about is them and what if...
• You've planned your whole future
• You follow them round like a puppy on your lunch break
• You go red whenever you see them
• You lose the power of speech and co-ordination in their presence
• Butterflies in your stomach
• Pounding heart
• You stammer/stutter something like "have you got the time?" at them
• You imagine hours of conversations with them Ppl tell me now
How to cope ??? My friend is dying of this disease and does not know what to do..i told her to swallow her pride and tell the guy…or stalk him nge e-mail..bt that could be going overboard…you never know the person might be feeling the same bt don’t have enough guts
I confess mine iku Sizwe Dhlomo…mmmmm that boy just kills me
Confess U guyz..dont be shy