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Written by Sbuhleza from the blog Home affairs on 20 Sep 2007
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i just wanna take this opportunity and invite bloggers who wanna come to my umemulo, malobolo and engagement. everything has been finalised and it's all happenning from the 27th - the 30th of September 2007.

27 - 28 Sep - will be umemulo, we gonna first be undergo virginity testing, then kugidwe(zulu culture)
29 Sep - will be amalobolo
30 Sep - will be engagement and for those who gonna come may they please let me know for catering purposes


the big day will be on the 14th - 16th od Dec
14 th will be the white wedding
15th will be the Zulu wedding
16th will be umabo
 then honemoon

61 Comments

Mickey Mouse
20 Sep 2007 08:39

Congratulations, all the best on your marriage. Just name and the place and time will be there!!! Are you still a virgin Mary!

Xhosa Chick
20 Sep 2007 08:44

Huh?

Sbuhleza
20 Sep 2007 08:45

well yes, i grew up going virginity test(it was my choice and still is) as most of the girls in my neighbourhood doesnt like virginity testing. I just loved it and before can have umemulo you have to go through it. i love it dearly.

the place is Richard's bay .... Northen KZN. umemulo will start Thursday 14h00 i'll be flying on Thursday 12h00

Lerata
20 Sep 2007 08:46

She has to be, or else she wont be lobolad!

Lerata
20 Sep 2007 08:47

I just wanna say CONGRAGULATIONS!

spice
20 Sep 2007 08:48

First tell us who the lucky fish you are getting married to is, and I am pissed @ you why didn't you write the recap of HA's last episode

Dimago
20 Sep 2007 08:48

Wow Sbu, September is a good month for you ne...Congrats!!!

What's with the virginity testing? Will it have any impact on your lobola/wedding?
Do you have to do it, are you comfortable doing it?
Where are the festivities taking place?

Sorry for the 101 questions, just curious....

Sbuhleza
20 Sep 2007 08:48

Well - Lerata i am and whether i am or not has nothing to do with amalobola, the only reason i will be lobollad is because im loved and loving

belz
20 Sep 2007 08:50

Congrats Sbuhleza, wow gal yu still a V Mobile. all the  best!!!!!

<we gonna first be undergo virginity testing,> you and who? yo man?

Sbuhleza
20 Sep 2007 08:56

@spice ... im sorry gal i didnt watch it and didnt like to write based on what i've been told.

@Dimago -- i just love virginity testing and im doing it just because i love it and to prrove to my neighbours who said i slept my way to my man's heart. No it doesnt have anything to do with my wedding it is my choice, infact my BF was suggesting that i musnt do it because guys will try to rape me(but at the end we agreed that i must do it because he can see that i like it, and promised he will love me no matter what, hope he sticks to his promise). well i dont have to do it but i just like doing it and @ home we are four gals and im the only one who is doing this. Things will be happening in my Home town Richard's Bay Empangeni.

WhiteSockGirl
20 Sep 2007 08:57

Congrats!  May you have a wonderful engagement.

Sbuhleza
20 Sep 2007 08:59

@belz .... not my man (with him we only gonna go HIV/AIDS test after we marriage just before we can do any shagging), it is only gonna be me and my volunteered friends

Lady D
20 Sep 2007 09:00

CONGRADULATIONS This sounds soo interesting!!!!

Sbuhleza
20 Sep 2007 09:00

thanks WSG

spice
20 Sep 2007 09:01

SBu i thought you were in your late twenties or maybe early thirties you sound so mature this virginity thing are you serious is your man one just asking

Sbuhleza
20 Sep 2007 09:02

@Lady D ... thanks gal

Toxic
20 Sep 2007 09:05

CONGRAGULATIONS!

KeleFabulous
20 Sep 2007 09:06

congrats sbuhleza! unfortunately can only make it if it's in jozi...will the wedding in dec be in jozi? cos then i can def make it.

why do the hiv/aids test after the wedding? don't people normally do it before? are u sure u'll be able to contain urself cos once ur married there's nothing holding u back...???

Mickey Mouse
20 Sep 2007 09:09

Its good to see people who still follow their culture coz people have forgotten their background. There are so many religions thiz dayz and people are confused, THEY GET MARRIED WITHOUT LOBOLA NOT THAT I'M AGAINST THAT BUT YOU HAVE TO KNOW WHERE YOU ARE COMING FROM. So gal keep up the good work. Congrats!!!!!!!!

Sbuhleza
20 Sep 2007 09:11

@ spice  .... i turned 21 last year Dec, i'll be 22 this year Dec. i had a BF while i was in high school in my matric, i make it a point that i tell the opposite sex my principles, what i can offer and what i wont compromise with in a relationship and sex it is. Well we broke up with my High school BF because he culdnt stand not sleeping with his only GF, well it wasnt worthy it i told my self. then i met this guy last year, we have been going out since April

Gucci
20 Sep 2007 09:11

Congrats Sbuhleza...u havent told us who ur Man is.....Will let u know which Ceremony I'll attend. I wonna come to at least one!

Sbuhleza
20 Sep 2007 09:15

@Kele ... thanks we can also do it before marriage but it wont make any difference. This is all about love, i love the guy so his status wont make any difference to me, that's only if he will still wanna be with me

nonkez
20 Sep 2007 09:22

congradulations to u Sbuhleza and direre with your engagements.

happy happy happy happy!!!!!!!!

now and till ..................................... part u by.

monchooza
20 Sep 2007 09:23

ali li li li li li li li li, gwa gwa gwa gwa gwa gwa kwi, kuhlw kwethu....baba mnumzane.....uyeee sivulele singene.....sangena sangena....iyo sangena phakathi.............ali li li li li

mayo
20 Sep 2007 09:25

UKUZALA KUZOLULA!!! sana Congats!!! wish u nothing but the best kodwa ke girl who is he tell us kaloku mna i dont want to book iticket kanti ndiyokubona uMofokeng ehamba on the aisle with one of my sisters!!!

coz i wont hold my peace!!! he he he

but girl I AM SO PROUD OF YOU!!! for standing up to that BF who dumped for no shaggin' i so wanna see his face when he sees u on the cover of DRUM!!!

mabhebheza
20 Sep 2007 09:25

Congra Sbuhleza wow all this ceremonies phela i will have to relocate to KZn 2attend all nam get me a man who will lobola me ngalapho then i will maybe sishade sonke ,,hi hi hi congra

Gugs
20 Sep 2007 09:29

Congrats Sbu I hope Mr. Man do realise that he has struck a gold with you I hope he is as descent as you sound..... I wish all the best.....

myname
20 Sep 2007 09:29

Is it real? OMG what can i say CONGRATS GIL!!

Tshd21
20 Sep 2007 09:33

Hau hau hau congrats sis neh???  

Iyo sangena phakathi...iyo sangena sangena..... continuation  yaka  Moonchooza


Feela feela feela ngwanyana....................
feela ngwanyana o se lale matlakaleng.........................
Dikuku di monate..............................
iyo iyo lenyalo le boima...........................
feela ngwanyana o se lale matlakaleng...............................
Hilililililili   aiaiaiaiaiaia    thintsa lerole ngwanayanaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa...................

Tshd21: I  now pronounce you husband and wife
All tvsa bloggers: Ameniiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii

mayo
20 Sep 2007 09:42

AAAMen!!!!!!!!!!

mayo
20 Sep 2007 09:44

Oh hey mabblogers this is out of topic but uZhico says hi coz tvsa has been blocked at her work!!!!

Xhosa Chick
20 Sep 2007 09:51

Whooo, shame, Zhico.

Capella
20 Sep 2007 09:57

Sanibona
ngicela ukwazi kwenzakalani kule site ngisathe im getting in tune cha ngeke
who is who and what is what in this zoo?
Caps

mayo
20 Sep 2007 10:01

ha XC are you still here coz i think uSbari lo uCapella needs some phoxing since mna andikwazi im handing him/her over to you!!! uthi TVSA yi ZOO 

LM
20 Sep 2007 10:12

Sbu girl...Congrats sis....All the best!

LM
20 Sep 2007 10:15

@ Sbu: Shooo! what have I written now...I meant to say Congrats sisi. 

Capella
20 Sep 2007 10:19

lol ha ha ha wo wo wo easy galz! its just a saying otherwise i wudnt be chilling in this place. its kinda kool i love it Mayo

Lerato
20 Sep 2007 10:25

Congrates SBU and wish u al da best in your marriage, im too far dear wont be able to attend, just give me your contacts ill courrier my present.

alilililililil ali ali alu ali alu ali

Mambox
20 Sep 2007 10:27

Hi Sbuhleza, this is probably the first time you hear from me...i just wanted to say congratulation...i really really respect you for the person that you are. We never our virginity until we lose it. I'm 24 and lost my virginity about a week ago. Biggest mistake of your life i tell you...i've never felt so dissapointed in myself. All the best and i hope your husband to be really appreciates you...

Capella
20 Sep 2007 10:33

at sum point VGnity needs to make way for sex.
its NATURAL its jus greed saying after your VGnity is gone u feel bad, but u had sex on purpose u cant have sex and still be a virgin.
give VGnity up or dont try sex 

hope im not quarreling NEone

Mambox
20 Sep 2007 11:48

I get your point Capella but sometimes you we do thinking we are ready and only realise later that we we're wrong. Anyway i was just praising Sbu for keeping it real for herself that's all. Sharp!

lizzy14
20 Sep 2007 11:54

it's so nice to see that there is still someone (more especially) full of love like u Sbuhleza gul i wish u all the best for those days and the future

Beyonce
20 Sep 2007 12:09

wow Sbuhleza, congrats gal!!! ungowaseMpangeni(Ngwelezana perhaps? or eSkhawini?)- right next to my parents house eMtubatuba.... 

I will go first, ...first on the VIRGINITY testing line--- I am proudly Zulu and Virgo :)

Emshadweni ke gal sobe sikhona,

Capella
20 Sep 2007 12:35

umphathe kahle umamezala Sbuhlez. Ningalwi.

Sbuhleza
21 Sep 2007 01:27

Thanks bloggers ... i real appreciate your gud wishes
@Bey ... my parents stay at richard's Bay  meer en see,  cormorant  that's where everything will be happening

zulugal
21 Sep 2007 01:43

congrats Sbuhle gal, all the best for everything, just promise that the wedding will take place in gp then all the bloggers azobe akhona

Sbuhleza
21 Sep 2007 01:49

@Zulugal ... as much as i would like to promise you that but i cant for now, we havent yet finalized the date on the three venues that we currently have (i.e Table mountain CT, Monte Casino GP and Beach Front DBN) it is a tough decision that we still need to make and various things that we must consider so once everything has been finalized i will let you know, that i can promise you

azHOT
21 Sep 2007 02:14

congrats sbuhleza! i will try and make it cause i have family ko Richards Bay......

tshepiso
21 Sep 2007 02:38

CONGRADULATIONS sBU! 
So, tell me, what if you find out after marriage that your guy got a size of a pencil? 

pleeese break that virgin with him before any regrets. 
because mama o tla itshola!

Floh
21 Sep 2007 02:43

Kwakuhle Kwethuuuuuuuuu!!!!!

Congrats Sbuhleza and I wish you all the best my Sister.

I wish I can turn back the clock, but it's too late for me.

Sbuhleza
21 Sep 2007 02:44

@Tshepiso ... to respond to what you are saying i can only say IM MOSTly CONCERNED WITH THE MATTERS OF THE HEART MORE THAN ANYTHING ELSE, hope you get my point.

As for breaking my virginity, that i can not do NOT until im married that is a promise i made to myself and im gonna keep it no matter what, not unless i can be raped

tshepiso
21 Sep 2007 02:45

Tshd21 ----- it is too early to pronouns them as hubby & wifey 
what if hubby is not a virgin but a carrier?

what if wifey will use alony on the day of the test? 

there are so many things to suspect

Floh
21 Sep 2007 02:50

Hhayi ke Tshepi, ........

I repeat CONGRADULATIONS SBUHLEZA hope ngizobe ngikhona Empangeni but it's too far from my home FILIDI. Anyway I have to make a plan.

Sbuhleza
21 Sep 2007 03:01

@Tshepi .... fyi i never said i will marry my BF if he is a virgin or whatsoever, the only condition im gonna marry the guy is if anf only if we are still both inlove with each other, which for now it is.

As for me dear i wont use anything in the day of test and btw nobody forced me to do it, i was the one who asked for it, i know who i am and where i stand, you can even come to witness, that is one thing im so sure of about myself. and our marriage is NOT based on that!

Lex
21 Sep 2007 03:14

Congrats Sbu,unfortunately I wont be able to make it to the KZN do.But if the December one is in Jozi,then u can definitely count me in.

Kakapana
21 Sep 2007 11:43

Gal u r so like me, it's scary (your morals and the whole virginity thing. that is 1 thing i value in my life). i
f u do happen 2 get dis messy plz give your e-mail address coz I  would reaaaaly love 2 come. i'll be going down 2 visit my folks dat wknd in Richards Bay. I'm from Aquedene but we r moving 2 Birdswoods.

By da way which skool did u go 2 coz u're also my age? I jst hv dis funny feeling dat i know u!! if u do happen 2 get dis messy enventually, hola @ my e-mail address: misoehlihle@yahoo.co.za

BIG UPs SBU

Sbuhleza
25 Sep 2007 02:38

@Kakapana .... i did my primary school at St Phillip's primary, then went to Dlangezwa Girls high for two years then i went to Start of the Sea Hih school where i finished my matric.. That will be so lovely to have you in my ceremony. will send you all my details shortly

Floh
28 Nov 2008 00:20

@ Sbuhleza, tell us please. How was your wedding, umemulo, amalobolo.

U just posted the article and dissapear, hhayi suka akwenziwa njalo. Please manimbona nimtshele ukuba akhumbule ekhaya.

Mablogers, I am looking for a place where I can buy gifts for UMEMBESO and UMABO at a very reasonable prices, I can't afford to overspend.

Please help. I've googled, probably MAIMAI doesn't have a website.

Floh
28 Nov 2008 00:23

Yhoh, just googled MAi Mai and they say it's a home of MUTI.
Pls don't read the last sentence.

Floh
28 Nov 2008 00:20

@ Sbuhleza, tell us please. How was your wedding, umemulo, amalobolo.

U just posted the article and dissapear, hhayi suka akwenziwa njalo. Please manimbona nimtshele ukuba akhumbule ekhaya.

Mablogers, I am looking for a place where I can buy gifts for UMEMBESO and UMABO at a very reasonable prices, I can't afford to overspend.

Please help. I've googled, probably MAIMAI doesn't have a website.

Floh
28 Nov 2008 00:23

Yhoh, just googled MAi Mai and they say it's a home of MUTI.
Pls don't read the last sentence.

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