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Perfect Match

Written by Segololo from the blog Bookworm on 22 Jan 2008
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I just finished reading a fiction novel Perfect Match by Jodi Picoult. The book is centered around Nina Frost, a prosecutor who discovers that her 5 year old son, Nathaniel, has been sexually molested and is now mute. The trauma of the assault has rendered her son mute. He can’t tell her who, how and when the abuse happened. Her son has been violated in the most horrendous way possible, what can she do to further protect her son? Nina and her husband, Caleb, now have to start rebuilding their lives and focus on their son so he can reveal who has done what was done to him. 

Perfect Match
Perfect Match

I picked up the book as I was fascinated by how a person overcomes such trauma; because in all levels it is traumatic to everyone involved. How do you protect your child before anything like that happens to him/her? How do you deal with it if it does with all the measures you take to protect them? At 5, or younger, how is a child able to conceptualise what has happened to them and relate it to a grown up? What would you do as a parent that discovers that your son cannot talk after a traumatic experience?

Nina is a workaholic who often handles cases of abuse and has seen countless of parents suffer an injustice when the case finally gets tried and the perpetrators walk free or get a jail term that never amounts to the life the child is forced to live after the abuse. She understands and lives the law. But if she worked less and focused on her family, could she have stopped the abuse? Could she have known?

When someone is eventually caught for Nathaniel’s abuse, Nina takes the law into her hands and kills the perpetrator before the bail hearing. Now she faces murder charges as Nathaniel’s case is dropped since there is no perpetrator to try. To what lengths is a parent expected to protect his/her child? Is Nina wrong in killing the perpetrator before he is even tried? What would you have done in Nina’s case? Was Nina protecting her child or getting rid of a pedophile that might harm someone else’s child? Is what Nina did right or wrong?

I was glued to the book for a good 3 days; I loved the entire writing style – focused on everyone’s emotions and mannerism– sometimes tragically, graphically and shockingly on the perpetrator as he abused Nathaniel. Every character in the book has a story to tell, who they are, what they think of Nina and their feelings on her actions. I keep hoping Hollywood will not try to make the book into a movie and kill the entire story in the process. But I would give the book “Great Read” score therefore 3,5 Segololo’s thumbs up! 

Segololo's worth a read rating: Great Read!

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5 Comments

KeleFabulous
23 Jan 2008 04:49

this is deep Sego. was watching law and order svu last night and it's incredible how the same people who are supposed to protect our children end up being the ones (by way of inaction) hurting them...

Tashi
23 Jan 2008 16:16

Great blog Segs! We've shifted it to the General blogs section instead of TV - whene you add a review I reckon you should post a link to it on the General Discussion of the forum - dunno if you've seen - we've just recently launched the section and there's been lots of talk about books .

Amazingly
24 Jan 2008 05:26

I have just read this book too!
It's my first Picoult book and I was not disappointed. 

I also loved the way she told the story - by giving all the characters a voice. Wonderfully done and intergrated. 

Regarding the story, Nina really thought she was doing the right thing. She thought she had all the facts but unfortunately she didn't.  But put in her shoes what would I do? I can only imagine the  guilt she felt - any parent would feel that they had failed to keep their child safe -  so what would you do to make your child see that you would go to any lengths to protect them. 

After i read this book i immediately reread an old John Grisham book, A Time To KIll, about a dad that killed his daughters rapists, also before they went to trial. 

Although there are different slants to the story, it has the same theme. 
Both books were thought provoking and deeply disturbing in parts. 

I went between agreeing with Nina and then not ageeing, disliking her even at times.  Picoult did a great job at bringing out all the emotions in me.  And it really made me think:
  How far would you go if someone hurt your child? 

I hope I never have to find out. 

THANX Segolo for the review!

belz
24 Jan 2008 05:44

Whenever i watch such movies, i sob the whole time, i wonder if i should get the book, probably wont see half of what's written coz the pages will be soaked. Segololo i would really love to commend you on your beautiful writing (reviewing) skills, i love reading and you just dont understand how helpful this is, next time i go to the book shop i wont have to spend 30min browsing, i'll just get whatever is on your preview, like this one, definitely getting it. Kele, you think i can get this estratweni?

Segololo
25 Jan 2008 09:30

Thanks!

belz - you can get the book at kalahari also at a nice price but those street vendors are amazing, you find really great books there too


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