BEFORE u go on, this is not to prejudice any race or whatever, it is just my opinion. and if you cant take the heat get out of the Kitchen!! dont you just love democracy and freedom of speech?
Bin dating this white guy 4 over two weeks now and everyday since then we went out on super dates, but had never done it until last weekend. here's a recap of what happened.
He picked me up on friday @ exactly on time and he took me to this luxurious game lodge I’ve never been to. The whole way he was holding my hand when he was not changing the gears and we were stealing naughty looks at each other. When we got there, we checked in and went straight to our room (a suite nogal). BTW, the receptionist was black and she actually winked at me!!!! (4 a second there, I thought maybe she could be one of the bloggers! Hahaha, anybody works @ a game lodge?).
Any-who we got to our room and being the gentlemen Jaco (not his real name, you’ll never know who is reading this) is, he asked me if I was okay, or if I needed something to drink or if I wanted my feet massaged (really!); he later told me he was just nervous. I told him I'd rather have a bath. He offered to prepare the bath for me and he put all those exotic bath salts that they had in there, the bath was so inviting and very big. Being the generous person I am and wanting to save water and Eishkom I invited him to join me, being the sweet guy he is, he agreed. I won’t get into details about what happened afterwards, but we emerged from that room the next day, after having breakfast in bed!!!
Later in the afternoon we went for a game drive, and he was showing me all this animals and plants, telling me their names and their habits. Of course being the nature freak I am, I knew most of them but I didn’t want to spoil his mood. He was so excited to teach me all those things(hayi valungu!), meanwhile I couldn’t wait to get back to our room (there’s so much a girl can take you know).
All in all the weekend was lovely and romantic. We went through a countless packs of Rough Riders, at one point on Sunday morning we had to stock another two more boxes (tsk)!!!!!!!
Did I enjoy the weekend? Yep, I enjoyed it.
Will I do it again? Don’t think so
Why?
As sweet and gentle Jaco was, I really missed the touch of a black man (call me crazy).
When we were in that Jeep, I kept thinking if he was black his skin would've been dark chocolatish and shiny when kissed by the sun. I missed the feel of strong hands (not that Jaco’s hands were no strong), it was just not the same.
I missed running my hands over a bald, dreadlocked or even coarse hair.
I missed the tight buttocks and strong thighs of a black man.
I missed the fullness of a strong black man inside me (don’t get me wrong, Jaco is gifted in that department).
I missed them biceps man! Those strong, dark and shiny biceps only a back brother can posses.
I missed sharing a bill (believe it or not) in a restaurant or wherever (ja, aarme Jaco insisted on paying for everything).
I missed the sound of my name pronounced the way is supposed to be pronounced!!!
I am not Vhuu-tu---me, my name is Vutomi.
I missed the sound of a black man whispering sweet nothings in a nguni language (mmmm).
I missed the smell of a black man.
Like what one poet said “there is nothing more beautiful than a black man”. In a way I don’t regret my experience with Jaco, because I learned to appreciate my black brothers.
Has any of you ever been with a man/women of a different race?
How did you feel after that?
Share any qualities of a black/white/Indian/coloured man/women you just can’t trade for anything.
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