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Written by lelly from the blog why all the good men taken on 20 May 2008
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Why are all the good men always taken?Why are they either married,engaged or in a serious relationship?If not that their'e too busy earning money than falling inlove?Ladies please inform me on why only bad boys are interested in relationships.Lastly,why do we always fall for them???

34 Comments

Dimago
20 May 2008 02:02

Lelly, there has to be some good men left. I refuse to believe otherwise cause it means my hope is in vain. So i suggest you dont give up sisi, keep on searching, you are bound to lend up with one. Also broaden your search criteria, dont put urself in a box in terms of status, age, background - give other people a chance but still be cautious. You never know where your luck is...

Onna
20 May 2008 02:25

Yes Lelly it does seem like there are nt any good men out there because there are so many bad men. And i bet most women will tell you about some bad ex. I will assure you there are good men, thou very sparse but if you were meant to find one you will.

Nonny
20 May 2008 02:27

OK!

carino
20 May 2008 02:32

Mna my good man is with me.... so....NO COMMENT!

Cande
20 May 2008 02:34

that is something i want to understand myself Lelly....but i believe you shouldn't loose hope..
are you "the other woman" in your relationship?? or you going out with a bad guy?? just curious...

Nonny
20 May 2008 02:38

@ lelly, yazi there are good men out there and when the time is right u will have one urself, just remember that we are complete individuals without men and u must not seartch for ove, coz true love will find u!!!!

Nonny
20 May 2008 02:39

I meant - u must not search for love!!!!

andi01
20 May 2008 02:44

I use to have the same sentiments, i used to think there are no goodmen out there, they are married, taken or gay. but i have just be proven wrong, there are goodmen out there, but we alwasy want what we cant have, we always look for love in the wrong places, u will get a goodmen i promise you, i had to go through 14 men to finally arrive at the good one, so hold on sister you might be in for a long ride. And always rembere all men are rats but there are good rats and there are bad rats. period

Cande
20 May 2008 02:47

does this mean you and Steve are officially an item Andi??

Nonny
20 May 2008 02:48

There are good and bad rats Andi01???, and I thought all rats are bad...........LOL

Hlehle
20 May 2008 02:49

Yes guyz not all men are bad there are gud guys out there but they are hard to find more especially if u are looking for them. It took me years to find what i call my gud man so gals dnt look for them they'll look for you.

Hlehle
20 May 2008 02:49

Dimago
20 May 2008 02:51

u must not seartch for ove, coz true love will find u!!!!
i'm not sure about this...
i had to go through 14 men to finally arrive at the good one
LOL Andi...i lost count and am still searching...

Best-Achiever
20 May 2008 02:54

Dear, there are good men out there but that depends on your expectation ... dont expect someone to be something you are not or someone to give you something you cant give. you might have been with bad guys before but that doesnt conclude that all guys are bad ... The guy that you find bad today might be happily with someone tomorrow(bacause they find them good), sometimes it only means that things were not meant to be

Dimago
20 May 2008 03:01

Yes BA, as they say one woman's poison is another woman's steak or is it russian?

andi01
20 May 2008 03:01

@Cande does this mean you and Steve are officially an item Andi??, Yebo yes

andi01
20 May 2008 03:02

@Dimago Yes BA, as they say one woman's poison is another woman's steak or is it russian? lol, I'll stick with sausage

Toxic
20 May 2008 03:04

good is relative....

Chix
29 Oct 2008 11:34

Lelly sisi just hang in there you will find that guy!!! There are many good man out there you just need to find that guy that fits spot on on all those empty areas in your life....relationships are like a puzzle...you can have one hundred pieces that all belong to one puzzle but each piece fits perfectly in one area only..even if you can try to fit it in another you will never succeed becaus eit is meant and shaped for that part only!!! ALL THE BEST TO ALL THOSE WHO ARE STILL SEARCHING!!!!

HARAMBE24
29 Oct 2008 11:41

SWEETIE - ALL GOOOD MEN ARE GAY..........LOL....GO TO ONE OF THOSE ADDICKTED PARTIES IN JOZI...O TLA BONA WENA....

loved one
31 Oct 2008 13:30

Men are not bad at all,,unless they are in jail.but I blieve everybody(yes men included) just wants to be loved so why wud they be bad on purpose?. its about clicking and yes,it all depends on whether it was meant to be or not. I try to find goodness in every man i'm with,and most times,they do 1 thing wrong and we wanna call them bad.I know I found a good man (in Aug),but we will see if we are "good" 4 each other in the long run.But I pray it goes all the way..and to think that he doesnt even have a single attribute that was on the "list".MMMHHH life neh!!!

carino
31 Oct 2008 13:36

Reply from: carino 5/20/2008 2:32:17 AM
Mna my good man is with me.... so....NO COMMENT!

My chest just tightened reading this.... It's amazing how one's world can just change so drastically...

loved one
31 Oct 2008 13:39

carino thetha kaloku!

TerryN
31 Oct 2008 13:40

Why are all the good men always taken?Why are they either married,engaged or in a serious relationship?If not that their'e too busy earning money than falling inlove?

I just recover from major depression, after i learn that the guy i really, i mean really like at work is so young. (same age as my younger brother). He's got the body to live for, i was so sure he was my age or bit older. So the chances for us being together are zilch. It will never work...not in this lifelime:-(

loved one
31 Oct 2008 13:44

LMAO at Tazzy- shame askies ne..I guess the search still continues 4 u neh? Kuzolunga. There's lots of nice bodied men out there,so dont be tempted to murder the poor chicken.Ha!!

TerryN
31 Oct 2008 13:50

LMAO at Tazzy- shame askies ne..I guess the search still continues 4 u neh?

@loved one
U bet!!

Oritoni
11 Jan 2013 16:37

Never look for love because you will deny it the chance to look for you.

VusiK
13 Jan 2013 22:41

Why are all the good men always taken?
Not all good men are taken... there's a new one born every day.
Good parents make good men & women... uninvolved parents create bad men & women.

Why are they either married,engaged or in a serious relationship?
They know what they want & probably have a real sense of purpose.

If not that their'e too busy earning money than falling in love?
Making money has nothing to do with falling in love.

Ladies please inform me on why only bad boys are interested in relationships.
They are not interested in relationships ... they are interested in themselves & conquests.

Lastly,why do we always fall for them???
Your fault.

VusiK
13 Jan 2013 22:43

Why are all the good men always taken?
Not all good men are taken... there's a new one born every day.
Good parents make good men & women... uninvolved parents create bad men & women.

Why are they either married,engaged or in a serious relationship?
They know what they want & probably have a real sense of purpose.

If not that their'e too busy earning money than falling in love?
Making money has nothing to do with falling in love.
Falling in love has nothing to do with how they wish to spend their time.
How they spend their time has everything to do with who & what they are.

Ladies please inform me on why only bad boys are interested in relationships.
They are not interested in relationships ... they are interested in themselves & conquests.

Lastly,why do we always fall for them???
Your fault.

VusiK
14 Jan 2013 17:21

lmao!
talk about Hungry !!!

You can be anyone's gf alex21

lmbao !!!

Cnglemother
14 Jan 2013 22:24

i am being seriously pursued by a good man,uyangibhora shem!vuma yonk'into!phones me zillion times I cant!too predictable and clingy for my liking.@this rate he's two wks away from handing over his pay cheque to me.no more complaining about men on this thread from mwah.i want a mobster lol!

Cnglemother
14 Jan 2013 22:25

VusiK
15 Jan 2013 09:10

lol

Get Yo'self a Gangsta Cngle , someone who's goin' be your N.I.G.G.A.
...
the best kind is the thug with a PhD, they're good men, but will never be boring ... I only know of one, lol
...
But know ... You'll miss him terribly when he's gone ... I know many sisters who'd bleed themselves to get those BORING good men back in their life-space.

LMAO !

sisila
15 Jan 2013 13:07

@Tazz your loss I know a couple where the guy is 7years younger and they are so inlove and the guy is really so murtured for his age you wouldnt tell. They been together for 11years.

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