As u all know that things have been happening in my life lately and they were not gud, from relationships to family matters.
I arrived in Cape Town 2005 and live with my uncle and things were great at first and at the end of 2005 things were'nt great as they used to be.I told myself that what ever happens is God will mna what i came here for was my studies i just have to concentrate on that. My Dad was the one paying my fees and when ever he did'nt sent me the money i wont pay fees for that month and my uncle told me that i shud forget about him and he'll pay my school fees and he never did. The next month my father paid the fees.
Okay then i finished the course i was doing and i carried on living there and late 2006 i got a job and things went frm bad to worse frm my uncle and aunt coz now i'm working i shud do everything frm groceries to the toiletries for everyone in the house. I kept quiet and i just did as they say. Early 2007 it was May 08 i slept over at boyfriend's for the first time then i came back the next morning, my uncle was angry. He called me names that i'm a hore and i must pack my bags and go back where i cum frm.
Aunt was away on business trip then she came back Saturday afternoon and i greeted her and she did'nt greet me back and i was like fine. Then we were not in speaking terms, me and my uncle and aunt ever since that friday. Everytime my boyfriend calls and i get shouted that its this boyfriend of mine and i disrespect them, why do i still take calls frm him while they told me to never talk or see him again. I did'nt say anything.To cut the story short my uncle asked me to move out of his house if i'm not going to obey his rules and i packed my bags and left.
I stayed with a friend & i did'nt want to live with my boyfriend, he was living here by that time and he was transfered to EC late 2007. Then they were bad mouthing me and they even told my boss to fire me bcoz of what i did and my boss told them that i'm old enough to take a gud care of myself and what happenned at home has nothing to do with my work.
Now my mom's older sister came here in the Cape to live with my uncle, and things got bad for her too. She is an alchoholic and uncle beat the hell out of her and asked her to move out too. She stayed with her friend and everytime she cum visit me at my place, she asks me for money and i gave her. Now i am no longer giving her money, she'll cum and ask me for money and i tell her no i dnt have it she'll call me names even in front of my friends. My friends now understand the situation.Everytime i meet her friends they always tell me she said this and she said that. She is bad mouthing me everywhere she goes now people are laughing at me that mna i'm nothing but a looser.
I dnt know what to do anymore i confronted her several times and she denies everything. I dnt know what to do anymore.