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How often do u take note of ur dreams?

Written by Hlehle from the blog Okay!!! on 25 Sep 2008
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Hi guys,

I know some of u missed me, guess what ? i missed u too.

Some of u know that i was suppose to be overseas by now but hey i'm here in SA. Something stopped me and let me tell u what happened grand grand.

Here is the background of all this. My mom died 5 yrs ago and as i was to leave SA i told myself to go to her grave and have a little chat with her.

Yes i did exactly that, I even asked her to give me a sign or tell me if i'm making the wrong decision by going.I was suppose to take a flight on the 15th to Ghana and take a cruise frm there to London. Guess what ? the night before my flight i had this "DREAM"

I was sitting in a couch at my grans place with my mom, we were having coffee and she was telling how life is. She also said i must appreciate what i have and some ppl dnt have the staff that i have, i must not tell myself that money is the only thing that makes a person happy.She also added that money yes is a way of making a living and sometimes it can tempt me from making wrong decisions.Lastly she warned me about going and said there is something bad that is going to happen to me if i leave.

So as i know that sometimes my dreams become a reality and i got scared and told myself that i'm not going anywhere. I was born here and i'm going to die here.

So bloggers my question is how often do u take note on your "DREAMS"?

Yes i'm back and i'm looking for a full time job. I have a half day one. Working frm 13h00- 17h00.

Have ur say.

67 Comments

Hlehle
25 Sep 2008 08:29

I'm back by fire by force. Hi bethuna kunjani kodwa?

faraimagic
25 Sep 2008 08:35

More Than a Dream!!!!

Mathaz
25 Sep 2008 08:35

I'll let this one pass coz i'm a firm believer of the dead speaking to the dead only even in dreams.

zowee
25 Sep 2008 08:38

Hi Hlehle,yima ndiyabuya need to go to the ladies first and I'll come with my responce.

But before I go did you try and find out if the plane you were going to take got to London safely?

Dimago
25 Sep 2008 08:39

Interesting topic, i just started, 2 weeks ago. But i only remember parts of the dream, so i just note those. But its nothing like what you are describing Hlehle...

Hlehle
25 Sep 2008 08:41

@ Farai - how's that? Elaborate plz.

Toodecent
25 Sep 2008 08:41

Should a wet dream come then it means a brother seriously needs a shagg.Thats how seriously I take them ;-)

zowee
25 Sep 2008 08:43

lol at TDC ha ha ha

faraimagic
25 Sep 2008 08:44

Well i have leaved in London and let me tell you this!!!!life is much more better and easier that side than here....so if you want to further yo dreams pliz i wud encourage you to go there,make a living and come back to Africa a rich woman!

yes a sittuation can be that hard coz you are going to start over in a new place and environment!!!!!!yes dreams may turn to decide wats best for you,but sometimes you have to take that risk! I THINK YOU ARE SCARED OF STARTING OVER!

carino
25 Sep 2008 08:45

Hey Hlehles...

Good to have you back, Buliezzz...

That was just your subconscience, my dear... that what dreams are....In the deepest place of your thoughts, you knew that your mother would not have approved your going to wherever you were going....So, when we sleep, our conscious mind goes to sleep and gives way to the subconscience to work....
Thats how all those thoughts came created all those cartoons that played in your mind... more like a movie, basically, that your brain makes out of all the info that stucked up in your subconscience....

faraimagic
25 Sep 2008 08:45

Hlele go and read an article i once wrote...its called more than a dream!and Goodluck with yo decissions!!!!

pariri
25 Sep 2008 08:46

welcome back hlehlez even if kange ube sahamba we missed u gal !!!!
ohhhhh ppl am I the only one having problems accessing tvsa ?

carino
25 Sep 2008 08:47

Well i have leaved in London and let me tell you this!!!!life is much more better and easier that side than here....so if you want to further yo dreams pliz i wud encourage you to go there,make a living and come back to Africa a rich woman!

So, basically, Farai... you also came back a rich man????

faraimagic
25 Sep 2008 08:49

Carino dont go there pliz! I Leaved in U.K as a student!!!!!!!so i came back wiser!LOL!

myname
25 Sep 2008 08:49

I dont remember my dreams so no comment hlecks

Cnglemother
25 Sep 2008 08:49

Only when its a bad dream with death and harm involved. I once moved from an area i stayed coz of a dream that bothered me and the same dream cropped up showing the same thing happening at work but now i couldnt change jobs like that and nothing happened as the dream had predicted, so I dont know if i was paranoied.

Hlehle
25 Sep 2008 08:50

Lol @ TDC. @ Zowee i didn't sisi and i dnt even want to know. Maybe u right Farai but hey mina i believe in my dreams. Actually i was excited about all this but now all that has changed since that dream. I dnt know really.

faraimagic
25 Sep 2008 08:50

and no Carino Im not Rich anymore!!!!!!!

zowee
25 Sep 2008 08:51

I Leaved in U.K as a student!so i came back wiser...

Nice one Farai LOL

zowee
25 Sep 2008 08:54

Farai dont you mean to say "and no Carino Im not WISE anymore" since you "leaved in U.K as a student"

Hlehle
25 Sep 2008 08:55

Thank u for welcoming me back Carino and Pariri. Yazi i'm glad i didn't go coz at least i know how my life here is. Unlike to predict how things are going to be there. Its scary guys believe me. Now i'm asking myself if how will i know that the dream was for real?

Toodecent
25 Sep 2008 08:55

Hlehle my apologies for this:
Tick tock.........Waiting for the right time to make an announcement or a statement so as to say ;-) And I hope its just not a dream LOL Watch this space............

Sexyzimasa
25 Sep 2008 08:59

Hello Hlehle, my mom passed away on the 02/08/08 and she has also appeared in my dream but mine had to do with my boyfriend. She was shouting at me( which she usually did when alive) but I could not get what she was saying. For some reason she pointed at my b/friends car and there he was with a girl and a baby.

Our relationship is still new so when I told him the dream he confirmed that he does have a baby but calmed my nerves by introducing me to the whole family and the said child

carino
25 Sep 2008 08:59

tdc... are you planning on proposing????

felfel
25 Sep 2008 09:00

hahaha...Farai.. u can go to any country and come back rich kodwa ubunzima base mzantsi buzokubuyisela phantsi.........unless u know how to maintain....

Pinkpoodle
25 Sep 2008 09:01

my dreams dont normally come true , but everytime i dream am at a funeral someone dies , so now i get so scared whenever

Toodecent
25 Sep 2008 09:02

tdc... are you planning on proposing????>>> Nope ...I aint saying a thing for now.Apologies again Hlehle.

carino
25 Sep 2008 09:06

apologies, Hlehle...
tdc... um really really dying to know... Did you get a job at Y?
sorry Hlehle...

Hlehle
25 Sep 2008 09:09

I'll be waiting for the Anouncement TDC. Hope its something good.Those are scary ones Pinkpoodle.

Luksta
25 Sep 2008 09:11

TDC... the suspense is eliminating me. Out with it!

Hlehle
25 Sep 2008 09:12

@ Carino atleast he told u that he is not planning on Proposing.Curiosity iyabulala Carino but ke nami i'm dying to know cant help it.

pariri
25 Sep 2008 09:13

the suspense is eliminating me, LOL Luksta

faraimagic
25 Sep 2008 09:14

Well Let me get into something Heavy then.......here is the truth about dreams!!

Wen i was learning Magic........i learned that Dreams are not real,but are just like an ELLUSION !something happening but NOT REAL!! so dreams are the things that you think,so its like the things yo brains think while you are Sleeping!only that they come in a form of a motion picture!!!!!HLELE my FREND YOU ARE JUST AFRAID OF GOING TO ANOTHER PLACE!!!I mean Country!

Pinkpoodle
25 Sep 2008 09:14

@ Hlehle yes they are, the problem is you never know who is going to die
Both my parents are still alive and i dread those dreams because i am still to give them a grandchild.

Sexyzimasa
25 Sep 2008 09:15

kr kr kr kr kr ....the suspense is eliminating me-Luksta. that sentence eliminates me

Toodecent
25 Sep 2008 09:16

Apologies Hlehle.
It aint about me but a TEAM just watch this space_________________

Luksta
25 Sep 2008 09:21

Dreams that involve people who have passed on are taken seriously in my culture. I think you have made a right choice, now go back to your mother's grave and tell her about your decision. Who knows, you may get the full-time job sooner.

Hlehle
25 Sep 2008 09:22

What team TDC? Where u like or not uzositshela coz uyafuna mos nawe why the clues if u dnt want to tell us. Stop apologising neway.

@ Pinkpoodle are u preggies or u planning or getting PREG?

Hlehle
25 Sep 2008 09:25

meant on not or

Cody
25 Sep 2008 09:32

Hi Hlehle!!! dreams are sometimes dreams. i dreamed about my mother telling me to name my child this horrible name, i asked my gran about the name and she told me that it is my late brother, apparently he was born before me and died after 3 days. I didnt even know i had a late brother!!! shooo! she advised me to name the child exactly that,but i dont like this thing of naming children after dead people or anyone for that matter.

I dont normally take my dreams serious unless they happen repeatedly. This one with your mother, i think it was your instincts telling you that you are not ready to take such steps. Maybe a permanent job will come up. i am glad u r not gone! because we can now get the pleasure of seeing you in a wedding gown!!!! yiepeeeee! but sad that you have lost out on a bloody good opportunity!!!!!

carino
25 Sep 2008 09:47

What tdc???? will chiefs give the poor players the rest of the money??

Hlehle
25 Sep 2008 09:47

@ Cody Its a bloody good opportunity indeed.

Toodecent
25 Sep 2008 09:52

Carino for the last time gal......Yes its something good something I have longed to see happening and right now am waiting for a simple confirmation and media that I go ahead with the Eclusive................For now hang in there..

carino
25 Sep 2008 09:57

TDC... that announcement better be In The Zone soon, coz im dying with impatience...

goodnight, peeps... see y'all tomoro,,....

Firstdvd
26 Sep 2008 00:34

Wow! Hlehle you here :-) miss u sana. Ja, it wasn't an easy decision to take but it was a CHALLENGING DECISION, and believe u me, they're always RISKY and that's what life is all about. Neway, EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON. It was meant to be. :-)

Firstdvd
26 Sep 2008 00:35

Are you back from Kaap S?

Firstdvd
26 Sep 2008 00:40

@Cody, what was the name? I had a dream few weeks ago about...?Lol!

Best-Achiever
26 Sep 2008 00:47

Hlehle .... I'll have to agree with Farai on this on, i think the fear or leaving everything you know in mzansi took over you and you started to doubt thinking your mother wont like it and that's why you ended up having your dream.

PY
26 Sep 2008 03:18

@Hlehle..is this ur fisrt time to have a dream like this?... if no..... did they come true.??..
I dream about sth when i;ve been thinking about it...
i dream about a horror movie...when i had watched it...
I dream about terrible thingz that i have seen during the day...such as car accident, stubbed person etc...
But sometimes my dreams becomes strange... like dreaming of the old folks in the rural areas, sangomas, river, sea, the dogs (in my culture they are associated with the ancestors),
I usually asks my father about these kinds of dreams...my father will (for an example) ask me "how does the old folks looked like in ur dream"...i would tell him everything i saw and "he will say that was your grandfather (my dad's father)"...these kinds of the dreams just happen without me thinking about something related to them...and when i had these kinds of dreams i usually have the funny feeling... like its real happening...

@Hlehle...I think u should deferentiate... ur dreams...if u had that funny feeling when u'were dreaming about ur mom...and u'were not thinking about her before you went to sleep...that means that ur dream is true....

Strolicious
26 Sep 2008 03:42

Strolicious
26 Sep 2008 03:47

eish sori abt dat......Hlehle wld ur mom be happy with decision?
for sho she wld want u to progress in life,as long u wont regret later...it's good to have u back.

Simmone
10 Nov 2008 16:36

Someone please solve this for me before I go insane.

Lately I have been having this recurring dream and it’s very unsettling. I have been dreaming about my late sister and each dream, she is alive and I meet her on the streets and at our favourite hangouts when she was still alive and each time she doesn’t want to come home. I even dream that I bump into her accidentally and it turns out she didn’t die but she refuses to come home and I am so excited to tell our parents she is still alive but she refuses to come home or even allow me to tell our folks she is still alive.

I don’t know if this dream has a meaning or just my imagination running wild with me.

andi01
10 Nov 2008 16:43

Eish simmone- i used to be good at interpreting dreams, but I have decided to stop bcoz my interpretations are based mostly on culture. And i dont want to upset u.

myname
10 Nov 2008 16:44

Simmone sana she is in Gwadana(its where the witchies put their zombies), Witchcraft babes but sori about your sis dear. I gotcha leave. bye

andi01
10 Nov 2008 16:44

How did ur sister die simmone???

Simmone
10 Nov 2008 16:48

Thanks for your honesty myname as puzzling as it maybe.

Andi01 she was murdered.

Shuga babe
10 Nov 2008 16:50

I have noticed that if I think about someone or something before bed definately I will dream about that person or thing.
Simmone maybe you thiking a lot about your sister. or maybe its a sign of something. but you need to talk to your elders about this and hear what they have to say.

andi01
10 Nov 2008 16:58

Pyschologically

Ur sister died a sudden death, you werent ready or prepared for her to just be gone liek that (we never prepared, but its better when she is sick). Subconcioucly u havent accepted that ur sister will never live again. a apart of u still believes that one day u will wake up from this nightmare and she will be back. U dont want 2 talk about this 2 ur parents bcoz they have accepted and they are trying 2 deal with this even though its hard, bcoz u dont wanna upset them. the 2 people in ur dreams are ur sister and u, is the 2 sides of ur mind, the one that has accepted she is dead but misses her dearly (her), and the one that believes she is still coming back (you). She (the brain that plays her) doenst want u to tell ur parents bcoz she is aware that ur sister is dead

Ask any questions!!!!!!!,

andi01
10 Nov 2008 17:00

The location of ur dreams- i,e , symbolises that those are the places that u had the greatest times and ur mind has cuptured those beautiful moments. So when u think of her (subconciously), these all link 2 geda 2 create a perfect scene (dream)

Nonny
10 Nov 2008 17:05

Yes i'm back and i'm looking for a full time job. I have a half day one. Working frm 13h00- 17h00.
Have ur say.

And I thought u were my friend Hlehle, and instead I find this out eTVSA???? Haiybo choma ibi yini i-sms ka 35c after 8????....LOL.........just kidding, my friend u know me, as long as u're happy with the decision u made, nami I'm happy. Oh kodwa yeka leya mali, most don't even make that in a year!!!!!

Toxic
10 Nov 2008 17:09

wish i could help simmone:)

Simmone
10 Nov 2008 17:09

What you are saying Andi makes a whole lot sense and a friend of mine booked a psychologist for me when I told her about the dreams and I think I need to take her up on her offer.

Half of me was hoping that it was not all in my head and there must be some unexpained reason behind them.I needed to accept things as they are.

andi01
10 Nov 2008 17:16

@Simmone- I also do have a (what I call, black-belief), but I wud rather not elaborate on that hence it will bring a lot of confussion, unnecessary hopes and a long healing process.

Nonny
10 Nov 2008 17:19

have been dreaming about my late sister and each dream, she is alive and I meet her on the streets and at our favourite hangouts when she was still alive and each time she doesn’t want to come home. I even dream that I bump into her accidentally and it turns out she didn’t die but she refuses to come home and I am so excited to tell our parents she is still alive but she refuses to come home or even allow me to tell our folks she is still alive.

Simmone dear, u have to speak to the elders abt this, coz ur dream could mean many things like the fact that usisi wakho udingwa ukulandwa la umphefumulo wakho wahambela khona and maybe that's why engafuni ukungena nawe ekhaya coz she feels like uyantanta nje and akawamkelekile at ur home. Or maybe u just need to make peace with the fact that she is gone and literally won't come back home but she will forver be in ur heart.

andi01
10 Nov 2008 17:28

@Nonny-Simmone dear, u have to speak to the elders abt this, coz ur dream could mean many things like the fact that usisi wakho udingwa ukulandwa la umphefumulo wakho wahambela khona and maybe that's why engafuni ukungena nawe ekhaya coz she feels like uyantanta nje and akawamkelekile at ur home. - possible but not really since she isnt crying in the dreams. When spirits arent rested well, they cry, they talk and say things like "i dont know where I am" but ke she must look at ur point as well.

Simmone
10 Nov 2008 18:59

also do have a (what I call, black-belief), but I wud rather not elaborate on that hence it will bring a lot of confussion, unnecessary hopes and a long healing process

Thanks Andi and Nonny, i will be going home this sunday and as scary as the results that may come out of these dreams, i have to seek clarity and i have to find closure.

Floh
10 Nov 2008 19:27

I agree with Nonny, Simmone tell your parents about your dream, It might happen that her spirit is not hapilly rested.

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