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the link between love and money

Written by Blaze from the blog yajika lento on 01 Oct 2008
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whats with life these days? indiphendukele mna. not so long ago one could easily find a girl in a taxi or in the streets, all u had to do was to ask for their number, call them and simply say etla konna da, and she comes one thing leads to another and u have urself a chick. THESE DAYS ull be ignored etaxini because u dont have a car, when u get numbers u cant say etla konna, u gotta say sum along the lines tsa bo outing, cofi, ftv u kno, bo cappello. damnit what happened to love? the message is clear gents no car, no action. kuzofikwa njani e mall,?nge taxi?? a yaphela ngo six. im gonn buy a car nkampane sankgama sekoloto.

147 Comments

Blaze
01 Oct 2008 04:12

ladies why do u find richer guys more appealing? talk to me. u dont know the f***cker, he doesnt look that good. when u talk to him he is clueless. but u shag him just for the car???

cleve
01 Oct 2008 04:17

that is a good question???

Shuga babe
01 Oct 2008 04:17

Blaze I'm so glad i didn't grow up in that time where i can just get myself a man in the taxi.

Sana Lwam
01 Oct 2008 04:19

...but u shag him just for the car???

No Blaze not for the car but like hell I'm gonna go sleep in a dingy small room and live behind my flat (wish I can say townhouse). Not to mention the fact that he will then most likely say I should pick him up from work after the end of his shift from work.

Sorry bro, I always say stick to you kind or just aim higher. Sistas please tell me you feel me.

Mathaz
01 Oct 2008 04:25

im gonn buy a car nkampane sankgama sekoloto.

Now if you buy a car and you are not financially stable, how are you going to spoil her?

Toodecent
01 Oct 2008 04:26

As much as am dissapointed in the 3 line (in word) article let me respond to them anyway. Somehow its true, there is no link between the two. Anyhow relationships are about compromising so I guess people do compromise for money too.

Vesa
01 Oct 2008 04:28

(Singing) U gotta have a J-O-B, if u wanna be with me....no romance without finance!

Nonny
01 Oct 2008 04:31

LOL

carino
01 Oct 2008 04:35

there is no link...

Cande
01 Oct 2008 04:39

(Singing) U gotta have a J-O-B, if u wanna be with me....no romance without finance!

Amen to that Sista!!

carino
01 Oct 2008 04:39

I think we first need to define what love really is.

Blaze
01 Oct 2008 04:40

sorry for the short article TDC ill do better next time to meet your high standard.

sanas
01 Oct 2008 04:40

Amen Sanalwam, i feel you masista:-)

felfel
01 Oct 2008 04:42

You can't eat love dear............

felfel
01 Oct 2008 04:44

You can't eat love dear............

belz
01 Oct 2008 04:45

hihihi felfel.

Toodecent
01 Oct 2008 04:47

TDC ill do better next time to meet your high standard.>>> Not mine bosfssss but for your loyal readers. Cool now back to business kanti wht do some women actually think that just because you sleep together or you told each "i love you" when the hormones were working at their best then it means they are entitled to your money and all? Just asking.

Toodecent
01 Oct 2008 04:49

You can't eat love dear............>>> Thats what am talking about, then wake up and go to work. Mosadi tshwene o jewa mabogo.

Firstdvd
01 Oct 2008 04:52

Ja it goes hand in hand!

Vesa
01 Oct 2008 04:55

You can't eat love dear............

Vesa
01 Oct 2008 04:56

You can't eat love dear............LOL!!

Cande
01 Oct 2008 04:56

Mosadi tshwene o jewa mabogo.

Funny men only apply this when it suits them, sorry TDC brother but you gotta provide for your woman..
obviously there are some guys that women meet and they can tell if this guy can provide or not, i am sorry but LOVE only is NOT enough...

JadaPinkett
01 Oct 2008 04:57

Ungamenzani usinethwa naye umuntu azothi uma ekubiza ekude ashaye ifluid or sreaming at ur name, I think we need to go with these guys who just hoot when they calling us.

felfel
01 Oct 2008 04:59

LOL @ TDC

Toodecent
01 Oct 2008 05:02

sorry TDC brother but you gotta provide for your woman.. >>> True that and I do where neccessary. Nna I feel for them m^fackas being chowed alll in the name "she is my gal" while they women say it " No Money/ Job... we cant work Out" shem.....anyhow ge o latlhile o latlhile bosfsssssss.

Pooky
01 Oct 2008 05:03

Sistas please tell me you feel me.

I FEEL YOU SANA LWAM...i've dated a jobless man before, well i was in my late teens then & yena in his mid twenties and nami ndingaspani coz i was still in school and in the six months si jolla we only went out on a date once,we did i-window shopping (heheheheh kweku madoda), then went to the movies(watched The Mummy, mxiim) and then kwa KFC wangithengela iStreetwise two eneh roll(yeerrr) and he didnt have any coz wayesithi akana appetite and i knew the real reason was coz he didnt have enough money, wayendijongile the whole time ndisitya ichickin yami,engasayibaweli ndaqondba asoze ndikuqhekezele ne piece le...afterwards ndisalambe ndinjalo ke phofu wathi masigoduke before iitaxi ziphele..........so i've experienced dating broke brothers before and it aint fun shem......am not saying be rich ke but at least have a job, a good one and a nice car +my allowance, that's the least i could ask for

Cande
01 Oct 2008 05:06

ok when coming to cars i personally dont think it has to be an "expensice" car, as long as it can transport us but it shouldn't be a skorokoro that can phoxa us on the highway!!

carino
01 Oct 2008 05:06

ROFLMAO @ Pooky

hayi uyayithanda i finger licking good yakho shlobo...

Cnglemother
01 Oct 2008 05:12

LOL@ Pooky with he appetiteless man,yoh! but its sweet!

Felfel i have been eating love for 9 months now and it aint delish at all but i have hope that things will get better next year when his Afropop/kwaito CD drops in the market LOL. My altimatum was Sept but I have extended it to Feb nxt year.

Vesa
01 Oct 2008 05:13

ok when coming to cars i personally dont think it has to be an "expensice" car, as long as it can transport us but it shouldn't be a skorokoro that can phoxa us on the highway!!......kwa kwa kwa kwa!!!!

Beyonce
01 Oct 2008 05:16

LoL at Felfel...... havent laughed so hard in a long time!!!

Pooky
01 Oct 2008 05:19

hayi uyayithanda i finger licking good yakho shlobo...

Cariri ndandingena choice coz as much as ndandibawela ukuyotya kwa Spur ngalomini i had to settle for uKFC. It was either loKentucky or Taxis fish &chips, so i thought i might as well end my "fab" date nge bourra le chickin then ama slap chips.........heish siyabunyamezela ububanxa singabanye abantu all in the name of love

felfel
01 Oct 2008 05:19

Sho cnglemama hang in there gal, atleast you can see that little light somewhere...hehehehehe.......lets hope he wont be u One Hit Wonder ke neh......otherwise u'll have to fill up on love only again..................lmao

sanas
01 Oct 2008 05:23

Guys kulate ngoku, Unyanisile Felfel uthando lodwa aluhluthisi mntase, Yes i'm working but i wo'nt date a broke dude actually i do'nt attract 'em.

felfel
01 Oct 2008 05:24

Say that again Pookystan if u gon' be buying grocies in ur hizza cookin for him then ma'facka had betta give ya'll a break from rice & gravy and take ya'll to Spur or sumthin'..........

Cnglemother
01 Oct 2008 05:24

heish siyabunyamezela ububanxa singabanye abantu all in the name of love - say that again Pooks, things that we put up with just for the sake of love & the other thing *wink-wink*

Pooky
01 Oct 2008 05:25

LOL @ cnglemom...angakushiyi ke once he's famous

felfel
01 Oct 2008 05:31

The thing is Sanas in the age we in now there's no space for experimenting, if umfana has no stable career ngoku then wat are the chances zokuthi he'll ever get anywhere anytime soon. The thing is ngoku "dating nje" is no longer that attractive , sibadala ngoku. Sifuna umfana ozonyuka nengalo, when u meet someone as much as you probably like them you want to rest assured that atleast he has something (cos nawe u got ur own).

myname
01 Oct 2008 05:34

Lol blaze but let me read the replies first b4 ndiphefumle

Pooky
01 Oct 2008 05:39

things that we put up with just for the sake of love & the other thing *wink-wink*

(nokuba its small, we put up with it coz of uthando) tl tl tl

Strolicious
01 Oct 2008 05:40

Ubuhle bendoda imoto ne saka layo

Best-Achiever
01 Oct 2008 05:46

if you cant afford yourself, how r u gonna afford me, let alone our family? Nada ....a man should provide for his family and you better show me you are capable of that while dating .....

mayandie
01 Oct 2008 05:46

@feflel:Sho cnglemama hang in there gal, atleast you can see that little light
If I'm not mistaken she can see the light in the tunnel beware maybe it cud be a train waiting to hit her hard ifact chop her into pieces....
there is nothing ekukunyamezela in a relationship why do have to do that?????
Coz onceafumane omnye he'll forget even the fact that wawukhe wanyamezela...
Put yourself in his shoes & ask yourself a question if Yena can do exactly what you r doing if HE was you.......
Cnglemama do not hang in there this guy will leave you & we'll see you kwiSunday world.....

Lela
01 Oct 2008 05:46

Yho @Single ma sister, I know exactly how you feel and please hold on shame, things do get better with time, mina I've been there and I can never trade the love and care he gives me for any money. He is not a millionair yet but atleast he now affords to take me out and spoil me with gifts and yha he does have a car that is not top of the range but it does take us from point A to B. But ke nam I know what it means to eat love for months. Point is in that industry esijola kuyo uqale utye uthando then imali!

molibelis
01 Oct 2008 05:47

I think in relationships u must have somebody who is going to help u, Financially, Sexually and other ways cause if u fall in love with someone who dosnt have love,money so how are u going to benefit from that? u must have someone with Car if he or she dont have house but not both......imagen u went to school for 4-7 yrs and then u fall in love with someone who dnt have matric, we dnt sleep with this ppl for their money cars or fame but satisfying each others needs cause they are also having needs,even having sex with them is still a need he or she cant satisfy her or himself............

Cnglemother
01 Oct 2008 05:48

Eish felfel.

felfel
01 Oct 2008 05:49

Kudala amalady benyamezela ububhanxa, ahlale nomfana ade amithe embona sisirhama somntu esi ahleli naso........lol

Cande
01 Oct 2008 05:52

if you cant afford yourself, how r u gonna afford me, let alone our family? Nada ....a man should provide for his family and you better show me you are capable of that while dating .....

Amen Sista

carino
01 Oct 2008 05:54

Cnglemama do not hang in there this guy will leave you & we'll see you kwiSunday world.....

LOL

myname
01 Oct 2008 05:54

Ok Blaze i hear you sana but these 2 things come as a package. Darling everything needs money & nam i wouldnt dare date a broke nigga. Ikuku iyahlanjwa sana & you luv the smelling of ur woman's perfume & where do u think she get it? Andisathethi nge lingeria joe & iyhooo kwiR200 u only get one bra & wena u come with your foot foot broke nonsese & tell me you are not ATM. Sana If u r not willing 2 do these things HELLO!!!! I will find some1 who will do it. Sana sibaninzi & im sure maybe there is a woman whose luking for love only & tell me umthole which Planet coz the one im living hayikhona babes. At least makubekho umehluko coz uyayidla sana le kuku. Show me ukuba you are the MAN

Cande
01 Oct 2008 05:59

Cnglemama do not hang in there this guy will leave you & we'll see you kwiSunday world.....

triple LOL

molibelis
01 Oct 2008 05:59

@ Strooooo Ubuhle bendoda imoto ne saka layo (Botle ba Monna bo ka Phokothong ) Hey stroooo whats up ka yr phone i called u last week but it went straight to voice mail..........

Pooky
01 Oct 2008 06:00

hitsho upinda Felfel, umntu athi baby masenze umntwana oloxesha akaphangeli but he just only wants a child(preferbly a boy) just for the sake ba kuthwe naye he's got a kid to show off to his friends and community and to have some kind of hold on you beacuse uyayibona idirection yakho ba iyanyuka ebomini njengoba yena ehleli esisrhama.......

felfel
01 Oct 2008 06:00

Thank you Molibelis we are not necessarily looking for the Motsepes, NO we looking for support......we ai'nt carrying this load alone tu.
If he's paying the bond, i'll gladly buy my own car, but once those babies start popping, (depending on his salary scale) then he must take over financing my car and i'll assume all responsibilities where the house and the kids are concerned.

Asifuni abovuzi mali thina esingabazi noba bagxothwe phi, we want just a man who can sustain his own ass financially and thus our relationship too. Lets put our money together and go on a holiday once in a while, lets have fun in our relationship cos we can afford to and not wait for your perfomance bonus (and u know ur perfomance is shady....LOL)

Sana Lwam
01 Oct 2008 06:00

Ubuhle bendoda imoto ne saka layo
and
inkomo zakhe...Sorry wethu Blaze that's not us talking but the old people and the old are wise.

Pooky my worst was meeting this other broke ass dude at East Gate Mall (my first year at Tech) and he had a schoolbag/backpack on his back. I thought to myself never never and never again.

Cngle another person I know waited for the album to hit the shelves and when the brother started rolling in the cash, he disappeared into the Jozi air, so be warned.

myname
01 Oct 2008 06:00

ingaba sakuguga imiphantsi im telling you......

Cody
01 Oct 2008 06:02

hai this article is sad but true. goodluck Blaze i hope you are not going to buy a Tata Nano or usparkie.LOL

belz
01 Oct 2008 06:06

LOL!!!!

felfel
01 Oct 2008 06:10

Yazi wena Myname on that note, there's a male friend of mine he likes to sell some accessories, abo Versace, Gucci, Channel sunglasses and watches....etc. He always comes to me first to see what i like, as a friend not as a salesman. I told him today i don't have money for any of the sunglasses (and they are stunning yho) at only around R700 (originally R2000...etc), and he says to me "mara nina nidliwa mahala ngalamadoda wenu, u can't even call indoda uthi Baby ndicela undigcwalisele nge R700 I want to buy some serious sunglasses", and i know he always buys his galfriend these accessories (a very unappreciative galfriend by the way). He was even planning on upgrading her VWPolo to a Mini Cooper and i stopped him cos i know his financial situation. He's a not a Motsepe but he's financially supportive (he's an ordinary white collar brother).

Best-Achiever
01 Oct 2008 06:12

Asifuni abovuzi mali thina esingabazi noba bagxothwe phi, we want just a man who can sustain his own ass financially and thus our relationship too. Lets put our money together and go on a holiday once in a while, lets have fun in our relationship cos we can afford to and not wait for your perfomance bonus (and u know ur perfomance is shady....LOL)

You can say that again felfel .....

Nonny
01 Oct 2008 06:14

LOL @ Felfel's responses!

ocean1
01 Oct 2008 06:15

ingaba sakuguga imiphantsi im telling you......
hahahahahahaha myname that's priceless LMAO

Cnglemother
01 Oct 2008 06:16

Kudala amalady benyamezela ububhanxa, ahlale nomfana ade amithe embona sisirhama somntu esi ahleli naso........lol LMBAO! once again eish!

Stefano
01 Oct 2008 06:16

Stefano
01 Oct 2008 06:17

HARAMBE24
01 Oct 2008 06:20

Felfel...sister please i need those Gucci glasses.....

Nna i refuse of jiwa mahala. I was screwing a tertiary kid and voetsek no matter how good ntoto ya gae was...i refuse to date broke ass negros...a million per annum pay is my new barameter..LOL

myname
01 Oct 2008 06:22

Thank you felfel. Again let me rephrase it again "We are not looking for Motsepe" but some1 who can make a difference & even if it didnt work but u can luk back 7 say I AM HERE BCOZ THAT GUY MADE A DIFFERENCE IN MY LIFE.

sanas
01 Oct 2008 06:23

LOL @ "mara nina nidliwa mahala ngalamadoda wenu, u can't even call indoda uthi Baby ndicela undigcwalisele nge R700 I want to buy some serious sunglasses",

pariri
01 Oct 2008 06:25

@ felfel sana men like ur friend are very hard to find coz la akhoyo ase afune ukutya kwale yakho imali ngoku
"...i refuse to date broke ass negros...a million per annum pay is my new barameter..LOL" LMAO H24 u're sooo right hahahahahaha

Toxic
01 Oct 2008 06:27

LOL!!!!

Nonny
01 Oct 2008 06:28

a million per annum pay is my new barameter..LOL
hahahahah nice one H24.

myname
01 Oct 2008 06:29

Stefano from Days of their lives, 50/50 my foot darling...... Ngithe if you are not willing to do anything except umdavazo bcoz you always ready for that, i will find some1 whose not competitable with Myname. Then whats up with your b'day present?? I will buy it ngemali yakho

Lela
01 Oct 2008 06:31

Whatever the case but indoda must be financially stable (as well as the woman). If the man is not there yet you must see ipotential, eg, if he is starting a business is it a sustainable business? At the end of the day women want security esp if you are talking ifuture. So if unyamezele as a woman nyamezela because you can see that at the end you will be able to havee financial security with your man.
To those abajola kule industry yam no Single, if uyacula qha ingakhona ingxaki in future, there must be other things that he can do in the business side of things, eg Production. He must also be able to save and invest for your future angabi ngaba who just want to flash their celebrity status and die broke.

felfel
01 Oct 2008 06:32

Pariri this dude is really a sweetie shame, things are not even going that well in his relationship but he still maintains his girl, she works too by the way. And he's always suprised when i'm broke, and asks me if i'm dating umalala pipe nah......lol

molibelis
01 Oct 2008 06:33

@ Thank you Molibelis we are not necessarily looking for the Motsepes, No u are the one who mentioned Him, i just said u cannot be inlove with someone who is jobless and moneyless, So u can have yr Motsepe

myname
01 Oct 2008 06:34

Spot on Felfel LOL.......en when im buying you a present i will wait for sale

playgal
01 Oct 2008 06:39

guys there should b a compromise there 50/50 depending on how well u guys both earn. my man doesnot earn much but he is able to take care of the both of us and thats great but what am i gonna do when that money and probably the love doesnt exist anymore? how will i be able to sustain my 'expensive' standards that he has taught me to live by? but all in all a man needs to take care of his woman coz he wouldnt like it if one day i have an afro and the next i have this straight hair who da hell does he think did my hair? but the car shouldnt be that important becoz u neva kno if his drowing in debt whilst trying to keep ur ass from taking public transport becoz he loves u!!!

myname
01 Oct 2008 06:41

Ocean1 yhini e-priceless in those words i've written above?............& Felfel Shame ichomi yakho

Best-Achiever
01 Oct 2008 06:42

I think the ladies should also contribute financially, you cant expect me to keep on pooping money while you cant even afford to take me out once (not that I cant afford it) or even buy me a decent birthday present. Whatever happened to 50/50 or does it not apply when it comes to money?

@Stefano .... i can maintain myself and i can take a guy out as much as i want to and take him out for a weekend, buy him present on his birthday or occasionally and that's what i want in return and more.

Cnglemother
01 Oct 2008 06:43

myname have i dissapointed you mkhaya LOL!

molibelis
01 Oct 2008 06:53

@ Plygal guys there should b a compromise there 50/50 depending on how well u guys both earn. my man doesnot earn much but he is able to take care of the both This Girl is right, imagen Dating someone who is not meeting u half way....he/she cant help u buy Mazda3/5/6 the only thing lizo Gibela Taxi Waya Waya and when u tell them u want Montecarlo Bedroom Suit he/she will Scream at U(O a nyela,Mosadi towe o nahana hore ke nka kae Chelete) Choose someone who will say(Pick anything my Hubby/Wify i will pay,dnt worry about the Price i done Pricing and Marketing)

myname
01 Oct 2008 06:57

@Cinglemum Oh no standwa sam, if u have hope that one day nam i will b madam sitting e-front seat wearing i-sunglasses bambelela, but if you can see there is not light ndithi Baleka (in Ringos voice)

myname
01 Oct 2008 07:02

LOL Mo "i done Pricing and Marketing"

Feza
01 Oct 2008 07:06

I feel you Sana Lam, Stick to your kind or aim higher. By the way, i'm still looking and waiting for a white guy to approach me. sigh!

Shuga babe
01 Oct 2008 07:06

There's a joke ngamaxhosa ethi. intombi yomxhosa uma ithole iboyfriend enemali ibhalela ekhaya ithi " Ndiwufumene umsebenzi"

yebo kumele indoda ibe nemali and must drive imoto ephambili ne latest cellphone. khona we ladies sizobhalela ekhaya sithi "Ndiwufumene umsebenzi bandinike imoto ne cellphone ye company" hahaha!!!!!! we go gals>>>>

To Xhosa Ladies, NO OFFENCE!!!!!!!

Lela
01 Oct 2008 07:08

@Cinglemum Oh no standwa sam, if u have hope that one day nam i will b madam sitting e-front seat wearing i-sunglasses bambelela, but if you can see there is not light ndithi Baleka (in Ringos voice)
LOL@ myname.

TerryN
01 Oct 2008 07:08

I met this guy, we used to work together in the previous company and we hooked up recently. We are just craze about each other.
He's working alright...but i get the feeling the he's just plain sting.
He looked like the kind of guy who will never take u anywhere decent and sit and chat. We alwayz meet on the street or on each other's car.
He's driving "old" VW polo classic, me the new Hyndai Getzz
And there's no way I am gonna take him and flash my money on him...he must just forget it!

Strolicious
01 Oct 2008 07:09

SB udla ngezitsha ezifayo manje wena

myname
01 Oct 2008 07:12

@ Cinglemum sana let me tell u something. I've dated some1 who have money but the way he was so stingy i couldnt compare him with anybody. So a person like that is exaclty like some1 who's broke coz awutholi niks. So i decided to try something & my plan worked but ndadikwa coz i have 2 shout if i wanted money hehehe umntu kudala edibana nezimanga nonoza. ............See u later my beautiful blockers im going 2 lunch

Feza
01 Oct 2008 07:16

Haaaa Cinglemother all the best, i actually (for your sake) hope that he remains "grounded" after the launch of his CD. some people fame e ba ya ko tlhogong and they forget gore you've been "eating" love and water for almost a year with them.

Stefano
01 Oct 2008 07:23

Best-Achiever, you are my kind of woman.

belz
01 Oct 2008 07:32

LOL!!!!

molibelis
01 Oct 2008 08:12

@myname LOL Mo "i done Pricing and Marketing" So make sure u choose the right guy,Angaso ku Memezela

PY
01 Oct 2008 08:32

Sorry for the long reply this a true story

Hey guys...some of the articles just tell exactly my problem...I’m still in this relationship....I don’t see any future with my boyfriend....in 2006 he told me to give up on him by 2008 if he had not done anything about his life...I feel like I have a responsibility ...always trying to make him see the way...but doesn’t want to, the only important thing to him is his friends and that we should have a baby(just bcoz he want to show the people that he has a child with me)....
I’m doing my in-service training now (graduating next year)....all I can see now is that he’s after my money...while he was still having his piece jobs he was very stingy…as a student I would have to ask my parents for toiletry…..when he’s taking me out we use a taxi to this nearest mall (same mall all the time) to KFC, and at Spur(only 2 times)…never forget a day when we went to Truworths (to buy his clothes) don’t forget that he had a credit….u know what he did he just bought himself a jean and a shirt….I was stirring at this lovely top telling him that “I like this one babe” (hoping that he will buy it for me) guess what, he did not…..few months later I asked him “do you remember when we were at Truworths and I showed u a top & u didn’t even bother to buy it for me”? …the answer was “u didn’t ask me to buy it for u”…hah I was like aaa…”what were u thinking?”
One day he said to me “do u remember when I gave R50.00 to buy ur small pizza @ Debonairs (sp) and u never gave me back my change back”……I mean guys what the hell…I think I should stop now coz I will write for the whole day about this guy…its been 5 years…guys 5 years….

PY
01 Oct 2008 08:36

sorry guyz for all the mistakes in my reply...such as this one u never gave me back my change back .... i need some advices i'm in trouble

HARAMBE24
01 Oct 2008 08:46

PY - u got urself into this mess..next tym date authi with a bit more moola...nna monna wa mahlalela -NEVER!!!!

belz
01 Oct 2008 08:54

Hawu PY, usalindeni?? he cant be that good in bed, even if he is, jsut make him you shag buddy.

Blaze
01 Oct 2008 08:54

@ PY nigga has bn wit u for 5 years, he has his mistakes, has bn havin them all along u tolerated but now that u working umbonga nge pleit lamasimba. women!!!

why is it that you now find it difficult to tolerate his shortcomings?? cause u workin, uv seen better looking guys. the 20 percents.

Shuga babe
01 Oct 2008 08:58

Mna I just wonder what keeps i relationship strong even if umama unemali kudlula ubaba. look at Connie and her husband Shona Ferguson even though abantu bethi uConnie unemali more that uShona but they still happly married.

felfel
01 Oct 2008 09:00

hahahahahahahaha...........PY wats going on, change for R50 pizza???????? WTF....uzodliwa unye wena once uphangele yazi.......this man is waiting for your first salary, uzocela ipayslip yakho and guesssss wat PY........u gon' oblige, cos u been obliging all these years..........ubelievable chicken I tell you..........iyho......
I never go around telling people to leave their partners cos i don't know bahleleleni mara there's no such shame......This guy has a strategy ngawe, he said you should give up on him by 2008.....wat kind????....wat kind of goalless, unambitious person is that??????????

TerryN
01 Oct 2008 09:02

One day he said to me “do u remember when I gave R50.00 to buy ur small pizza @ Debonairs (sp) and u never gave me back my change back”……

@ PY
hahahahhhhahah...ROFLOL ...Pathetic! Pathetic!
Shame gal you having a dilemma...right there...;-)

Pooky
01 Oct 2008 09:03

PY PHUUUUUUUUUMAAA NOW........get the hell out of there , you've got nothing to lose...this dude u -stingy engena mali how much more xana sele efumene ispananyana epeya lomalana, he most certainly wont spend it with you, he'll probably want to spend it on some low life gal just to impress her and totally forget about you and your 5 yrs sokunyamezela ububanxa...i 5 yrs ayonto tsana lam, if awonwabanga then get the hell out....believe me i know what i'm talking about....Phumaaaaaaaaaaaaaa apho

Toodecent
01 Oct 2008 09:09

Le Harambe? Yah goa nyewa..........I gues whoever said true love doesnt exist was somehow right. tjo....

TerryN
01 Oct 2008 09:09

ndithi Baleka (in Ringos voice)

PY

Toodecent
01 Oct 2008 09:11

@ PY nigga has bn wit u for 5 years, he has his mistakes, has bn havin them all along u tolerated but now that u working umbonga nge pleit lamasimba. women!!! >>> CTFU tl tl tl tl tl....

Cande
01 Oct 2008 09:14

It reminds of the guy i dated last year, he was very slow and didnt seem like he has direction back in cpt..
now i hear he has a clothing range up, and he is busy going for overseas conferences...
eish, i just hope i didnt loose out

what aka mathata
01 Oct 2008 09:14

ka sekoloto,you killed me.

NO,dont do that,problem is we always go for wrong ppl
,
Ok plan A.

DONT defend nature,let nature take good care of you,if you met someone tell her you plans n dreams,n make sure in 6mns atleast you tryd something,is not a sin if you dont have whatever,all you are looking for is someone who appreciate small things like myself,who will be a good leasoner.as long as you work together NO PRO

my question is,you ppl after you get good job you change like weather,me before ,i was not looking for car or money,AS LONG AS YOU HAVE GOOD TRANSPORT,IM TALKING ABOUT SHOES.

DONT IMPRESS PPL,JUST TELL THE TRUTH,like i love you or i want to f you ke tshabe,but sekoloto is no good.

just wait,or go n buy but hide your self n condomise,all i can say dont spend more than you earn.

impress someone who will be there even if you have one eye

PY
01 Oct 2008 09:16

@H24, belz,felfel,Tazzy....thanx for ur replies (smiling)
@shuga babe....at least Shona is trying to meet Connie halfway....
@Blaze...as i said before i could write a book about this man..I think he the one ongubonga ngeplate lamasimba buy asking me to buy him clothes...

PY
01 Oct 2008 09:21

@ Pooky......this dude u -stingy engena mali how much more xana sele efumene ispananyana epeya lomalana, he most certainly wont spend it with you, he'll probably want to spend it on some low life gal just to impress her and totally forget about you and your 5 yrs sokunyamezela ububanxa...one of my friends is telling me exactly what u just said....

pariri
01 Oct 2008 09:27

hhahahahahahaha LOL PY usengxakini my dear hahahaha I can't help but LOL at this part:
"One day he said to me “do u remember when I gave R50.00 to buy ur small pizza @ Debonairs (sp) and u never gave me back my change back”……I mean guys what the hell…I think I should stop now coz I will write for the whole day about this guy…its been 5 years…guys 5 years…."
Gosh !! talk about one stingy and selfish n!gga, shiya lomntu sisi

myname
01 Oct 2008 09:27

iyhooo PY & Blaze WTF???????Its not about the years they spent its about the way we were treating each other. Kanti whats wrong with you???? Hayi PY are you for real?

Toxic
01 Oct 2008 09:28

PY: leave!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Pooky
01 Oct 2008 09:32

@H24, belz,felfel,Tazzy....thanx for ur replies (smiling)

haibo PY what about me, i also advised tyini i worse ba i also had this type of brother you have so i know exactly what you talking about...i also deserve to be on that thank you list infact right at the top...LOL

awelani
01 Oct 2008 09:34

hello good fell-asss

what aka mathata
01 Oct 2008 09:40

to be honest who want to die poor?

PY
01 Oct 2008 09:41

Sorry Pooky i saw ur reply after i had posted that one...Thanx again Pooky, my name, Toxic, stingy and selfish n!gga true pariri....and hi to you too awelani

belz
01 Oct 2008 09:44

LMAO!!!! @Pooky.

myname
01 Oct 2008 09:45

eish iyandinyisa iEnglish andiyazi le *bleep!* ndiyibhale phezulu apha plz 4give me ......PY BALEKA!!! RUN sana b4 ube namasa (b4 ur heels crack)

felfel
01 Oct 2008 09:46

to be honest who want to die poor?

ROFLMBAOTIPAL.........................

Toxic
01 Oct 2008 09:49

Ma Daphney Hlomuka-Ngubane affectionately known as "Sis May", passed on this morning after a long illness.

Hlehle
01 Oct 2008 09:51

Mina it does not matter if he has no car, as long he provides for me in any case. Ziyakhipha la missed u guys.

sjura
01 Oct 2008 09:56

i am late as usual..mfxiimm!!!!!!!

Cande
01 Oct 2008 09:57

who is that Toxic??

PY
01 Oct 2008 10:00

Toxic....is this Sis May from Sdumo, the was who was in Gugu & Andile recently....tell me u are kidding...

PY
01 Oct 2008 10:02

Corrections
the one who was in Gugu no Andile

Toxic
01 Oct 2008 10:07

Daphne Hlomuka.......

Toxic
01 Oct 2008 10:08

Cande, she was Gugu's grandmother in uGugu no Andile, Sis May in Sgudi Snaysi.

belz
01 Oct 2008 10:09

OMG!! Tox, shame maan, and she was such a hilarious, good actor!!! God takes away the best yazi, May her mgobhozi soul rest in peace!!!!

Cnglemother
01 Oct 2008 10:11

Yo PY u are scaring me dear - Eish i will see ngo February next year.

awu bantu ngo Sis May, thanks Tox I am gonna let my mother know, she loved her to bits.

myname
01 Oct 2008 10:11

Lol Pooky for ukufostela & become a celebrity for seconds. My beautiful people im leaving let mi go home. Cheers! Dont 4get PY to RUN sana. Take care

sjura
01 Oct 2008 10:12

Lol @ Belz....shame man she's gna gobhoza ezulwini ke manje that's if uyakhona.

PY
01 Oct 2008 10:16

Eish i will see ngo February next year...what do you mean Cnglemother?
I won'nt 4get myname

Nonny
01 Oct 2008 10:19

OMG, did mum Dephney really die?? Oh Nkosi yami, I loved her so much in Sgudi'snaysi, I have the entire entire DVD collection. Shem bandla, ngathi umama engalala ngoxolo.

carino
01 Oct 2008 10:27

haibo! umama Daphney besithetha ngaye izolo, njena... watching Chisa, saying what if she was playing Precious' grandma....

yho.. umama makalale ngoxolo.... nna i'm still saying whoever dies now is very fortunate coz, once Malema rules the country, we don know whats gon happen, so, better die already and escape the great revolution.

what aka mathata
01 Oct 2008 10:33

atleast shis going to replace her grave.no one can,it just a big lost

Nonny
01 Oct 2008 10:41

"It is with great sadness that we inform you of the passing on of one of our shining First Citizens, Ma Daphney Hlomuka-Ngubane affectionately known as "Sis May", passed on this morning after a long illness. "Sis May" is adopted from the character she played in the popular TV show 'S'gudi S'nays'; one of the many colourful and engaging characters she played in her illustrious acting career. At the time of her death, she was working as a Call Center Agent for the SABC and was a valued member of the team. You will be advised of funeral arrangements in due course."

I just got this on email, I didn't even know she was a call centrer agent for SABC. Neway RIP ma.

Shuga babe
01 Oct 2008 10:41

Shame my mom loved amahips ka Daphney. may her soul rest in peace.

Pooky
01 Oct 2008 10:42

am smiling now PY, thank you..LOL
RIP mamDaphney shem, heyi uzekakubi u2008, hayi mntwabantu akakho great at all...Hi AWELANI!!!!!!!!!!

Toxic
01 Oct 2008 10:43

She's going to replace her grave? o tlo replayca le bitla la hae?

Toxic
01 Oct 2008 10:45

Mara guys have u noticed that information on local stars' deaths is slow coming from the SABC? If Paris had sprained her ankle, it would be all over the news by now......hope Julius does something about this!

sjura
01 Oct 2008 10:53

ha ha ha Shuga Babe that is sooo funny.........m sooo lafing at your statement!!!

Cnglemother
01 Oct 2008 10:55

Tru dat Tox.

Dimago
01 Oct 2008 11:02

At the time of her death, she was working as a Call Center Agent for the SABC and was a valued member of the team.
Oh nkos' yam...what happened to her acting? Shame, she can't have died a rich woman after all she contributed to she SA art scene....Anyhoo, may her soul rest in peace!

what aka mathata
01 Oct 2008 11:03

jaa yena na pakile,even Bricks can fall for her.

sjura
01 Oct 2008 11:05

hello Dimago

lol at d-maths

Nonny
01 Oct 2008 11:13

If Paris had sprained her ankle, it would be all over the news by now......hope Julius does something about this!
So true Tox, tis sad hey!!

LMAO @ amahips kamam Dephney lawa ekuthiwa engasanganisa ngisho uBricks.......heheheh bloggers, the things ya'll say.

Neway, cheers, nisale kahle and happy blogging to the night bloggers, ninake bominenhle, see u in da morning!!!

Dimago
01 Oct 2008 11:14

Hey Sjuju

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