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Amores Perros

Written by tha - bang from the blog blah blah on 07 Oct 2008
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Never did i think ,when youve got it all figured it out life gives you another sucker punch and you find yourself in a little hole.Like the guys from coldplay you start singing "Yellow" and "trouble".What to do,continue as life was or travel the road less travelled where it leads no one knows.Do you stick to the rivers and the oceans you know or you venture out and dare to be a daniel.
All relationships reach that point were you ask yourself is this worth it? Is this what i want? Is this anoying person going to be with me for the rest of my life? We all know the annoying person is also the person you care about, the one that makes you laugh at times and sometimes holdsyour hand when you need a shoulder.
But when everything goes pear shape and the are other short lived adventurers beckoning you on.Is it better to live a short while than never to have lived at all? They say a bird in hand is better than two in the bush,is chancing going it alone better than trying to work things out and where there is a chance in 5 years time you might regret why you did not walk out when you could.
Such is life , you make up the script as you go and hope all the choices you make a right and nly time can truely tell if you were on the right path or not.
I'm confused don't try to make sense of my rant,my poor heart is aching and its all my fault .sweet




66 Comments

Best-Achiever
07 Oct 2008 09:34

Binary Talk .....LOL

@tha-bang .... i will just say my view and how i would do things.

Well all relatioships have ups and downs and it is that graph that most of the time make them stronger. but it all depends on individual some things are worthy all the effort of working them around some are not ..depends on what you need, could settle for and live with. I believe when most  of us get into a relationship with the opposite sex, we get there believing for the best and happy ending, but when things start heating up some of us look at the nearest escape gate and some of us look for the fire estinguisher and calm the flames down. In my case when the things im looking for in a relationship are outnumbered by those that i dont want .... i look for the nearest escape gate and leave(call me coward but i cant stand being emotional and phyisical drained all the time), when i know(have sound proof) that my partner is cheating on me, i leave, when im forced to compromise certain principles, i leave, when i spend most of the time crying over the relationship than laughing or smiling ...i leave.

But i do believe that every road that i travelled or still to travell in my life is worthy it because no matter what the end result could be, but it build me and lessen the expectations i could have of the next person.

so ya.

Nonny
07 Oct 2008 09:38

All relationships reach that point were you ask yourself is this worth it? Is this what i want? Is this anoying person going to be with me for the rest of my life? We all know the annoying person is also the person you care about, the one that makes you laugh at times and sometimes holdsyour hand when you need a shoulder.

If u have a  good thing, u just know it man and the ups and downs are part of all relationships. I'm also in ur situation, lately I tend to be asking myself is it really worth it. And guess what, I think it's worth it. So yah man, lungisa izinto, afterall u did say it's ur fault.

Cande
07 Oct 2008 09:39

am a bit confused...

belz
07 Oct 2008 09:40

Oh thabs, i hope this is not about umakoti to be. Nkosi yam'.

carino
07 Oct 2008 09:40

um confused too....

JadaPinkett
07 Oct 2008 09:46

What you trying to tell us Thabang coz we don't get the point ay kabi

belz
07 Oct 2008 09:52

Guys, he's just throwing a tantrum, he's hurt and im sure nothing makes sense when you're hurt.
I'm confused don't try to make sense of my rant,my poor heart is aching

carino
07 Oct 2008 09:52

still confused.

Renegade
07 Oct 2008 09:53

Jada, Tha-bang is just ranting, I think you need to take of it what you will.

Tha-bang, the best things in life don't come easy, and they are not always sugar coated. You will to stick it through will determine whether or not it's worth it. 

All the best

Nonny
07 Oct 2008 09:53

Oh thabs, i hope this is not about umakoti to be. Nkosi yam'.
I think it is about umakoti to be.

Renegade
07 Oct 2008 09:56

Guys, he's just throwing a tantrum, he's hurt and im sure nothing makes sense when you're hurt.
I'm confused don't try to make sense of my rant,my poor heart is aching

Dankie Belz

Cnglemother
07 Oct 2008 09:57

eish thabs yini manje?

PY
07 Oct 2008 09:57

All relationships reach that point were you ask yourself is this worth it? Is this what i want?....m in this situatuion ...where u reach  that point where u asked urself many questions
Well all relatioships have ups and downs and it is that graph that most of the time make them stronger.....it used to make me stronger but now im becoming vulnerable .... afraid what might future bring....sorry tha bang but u have ...rubbed salt in my old wound...

Shuga babe
07 Oct 2008 09:59

"All relationships reach that point were you ask yourself is this worth it? Is this what i want? Is this anoying person going to be with me for the rest of my life? We all know the annoying person is also the person you care about, the one that makes you laugh at times and sometimes holdsyour hand when you need a shoulder. "
 hooooooooooooo!!!!!!!!!

Toxic
07 Oct 2008 10:00

I'm in the same headspace, more or less, thabang so i am not going to say anything else.

Cnglemother
07 Oct 2008 10:02

I just googled the amores perros to get the meaning.

belz
07 Oct 2008 10:04

Shame you guys, everyone is just going through the same thing, nami futhi uyazi. poor thabs, he is even writing in tongues, the topic of the blog.

Nonny
07 Oct 2008 10:07

 Tha-bang, the best things in life don't come easy, and they are not always sugar coated. You will to stick it through will determine whether or not it's worth it. 

Amen Rene. Not so long ago, we (older bloggers) had a chance to hear u speak abut how fulfilliug ur relationship is. I was so excited abt ur engagement and I had this cyber feeling that u and ur "gal" are made for one another. But ke as Rene has put it best, u will stick it through if u are determined to make it work, coz there is no love without pain. There are times when u feel all confused and u sometimes wish to go away, but those are the times where u have to show ur determination and ur love for ur partner.

carino
07 Oct 2008 10:08

what is the meaning, Cnglema???

poor thabs, he is even writing in tongues, the topic of the blog.

LOL




Nonny
07 Oct 2008 10:10

Shame you guys, everyone is just going through the same thing, nami futhi uyazi. poor thabs, he is even writing in tongues, the topic of the blog.
hahahahahahha Belz, eish yazi I was getting all emotional, thinking abt my situation but manje u have took all the seriousness away and I am laughing at "talking in tongues".........heheheheeh

carino
07 Oct 2008 10:10

When i first saw the heading of this i thought its arecap for some LSM10 programme..

What does it mean, Cnglema??




carino
07 Oct 2008 10:10

When i first saw the heading of this i thought its arecap for some LSM10 programme..

What does it mean, Cnglema??




Dimago
07 Oct 2008 10:11

Thabs, whatever it is, it will pass...

WhiteSockGirl
07 Oct 2008 10:12

I can certainly relate to the name of the article...

Can't comment,... because the ish that I am dealing with...

However, I hope it is just temporary for you!

Nonny
07 Oct 2008 10:12

what is the meaning, Cnglema???

I know I am not Cnglema, but a friend of mine likes using this phrase, it means "love is wretched" (love's a bitch). ... and it is so true yazi!!!!

Nonny
07 Oct 2008 10:13

what is the meaning, Cnglema???

I know I am not Cnglema, but a friend of mine likes using this phrase, it means "love is wretched" (love's a bitch). ... and it is so true yazi!!!!

Nonny
07 Oct 2008 10:14

When i first saw the heading of this i thought its arecap for some LSM10 programme..
LOL

Cnglemother
07 Oct 2008 10:15

cariri -  Love's a bitch - googlerised.

maddie
07 Oct 2008 10:16

why is it that people(guys/gals) will insist on being a part of your life and when you finally let them in, they hurt you terribly 

carino
07 Oct 2008 10:16

eish, thabs...

andi01
07 Oct 2008 10:18

@ Tha-bang

 Just remember mfethu it takes both the rain and sunshine to make the rainbow

belz
07 Oct 2008 10:20

maddie: the answer to that is Ameros Perros. But then lets keep on loving guys.

andi01
07 Oct 2008 10:20

@maddie- sometimes people dont hurt us, but we hurt ourselves by refusing to accept them for who they are and by having extremely high expectations. Remember to have a great lover, you yourself must be one.

Nonny
07 Oct 2008 10:22

why is it that people(guys/gals) will insist on being a part of your life and when you finally let them in, they hurt you terribly
Eish, it's hard to explain, but I know what u mean Maddie.

pawagie
07 Oct 2008 10:24

LOL...I  JUST HAD TO MENTION this word LOL coz i never use it..so i thought why not..let me jus LOL,LOL

andi01
07 Oct 2008 10:24

people we have to understand that, when two great people or personalities meet, they bound to clutch and the result is explosive, but after the dust has settled you both learn a lot from rubbing off one another. (in chemistry it is referred to as proton donation and proton acception)

Nonny
07 Oct 2008 10:25

maddie: the answer to that is Ameros Perros. But then lets keep on loving guys.
hhahahaha Belz -  I see usukhuluma ngezilimu already gal.

mabhebheza
07 Oct 2008 10:27

Eish i think its a virus thats spreading around faster than ebola..Ameros Perros 4sho!
Indoda asazothandwa yimi is not yet born..mayb in the next life masengiyi phela!

Cutie Pie
07 Oct 2008 10:28

@ Nonny - "love is wretched" (love's a bitch). - That's not true doll. Love is very beautiful and fulfilling.  Yes every relationship goes through a rough patch, but love is pure, don't confuse it with a person. Yes a person can be a bitch, but definitely not love...You need to heal sthandwa sam..you are very angry right now..

@ Tha-bang - If you beleive in prayer, lock all the doors, take a chair , place it right in front of you. . and prentend as if GOD is sitting in that chair. Talk to HIM, say everything, I mean everything that you can't say to anyone. Cry to HIM because even though you pretend that HE's there, HE's actually there. HE heals. Your head will clear after that. Ask HIM for solutions and happiness in your relationship

Remember, HE never gave us a snake when we asked for fish, HE never gave us stones when we ask for bread. And HE will not fail you now.

All of you bloggers that are going through some emotional baggage, i would say have a "ME"  moment, where you will just be alone and be able to think things through. It helps

All the best

belz
07 Oct 2008 10:31

Thanks Cutie Pie!  LOL mabhebheza, iphela pho?

andi01
07 Oct 2008 10:33

is chancing going it alone better than trying to work things out - NEVER give up, if you feel like you can try one more time. If you still have it in you, and want to try, just do it, you have nothing to loose.

Nonny
07 Oct 2008 10:37

@ Nonny - "love is wretched" (love's a bitch). - That's not true doll. Love is very beautiful and fulfilling. Yes every relationship goes through a rough patch, but love is pure, don't confuse it with a person. Yes a person can be a bitch, but definitely not love...You need to heal sthandwa sam..you are very angry right now..
OK..........thank u for the free online counselling session, but I don't wanna heal right now, I love being a "Mad Black Woman"....LOL just kidding, thanks gal for the Dr Phil talk, I needed it.

Moving on to Tha - Bang. I think u and ur gal will sort things out, in the mean time, read this verse below.

Corinthians 1 verse 13:

4Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

carino
07 Oct 2008 10:38

LOL...I JUST HAD TO MENTION this word LOL coz i never use it..so i thought why not..let me jus LOL,LOL

kwa kwa kwa kwa .. bloggers, niyahlanya, yazi... each one has got their own way, nje... of craziness...

belz
07 Oct 2008 10:41

LOL pawagie, LOL indeed, im just LOL LOL LOL.

mabhebheza
07 Oct 2008 10:43

u do have sumthing 2loose andi01 Ur dignity ur mentality 
@cutiepie
ur very optimistic i wish i had a pinch of that but manje becoz im angry as inja athethelwe ithabo emlonyeni... ngigane unwabu! *screaming *Ameros perros till infinity.!!!!

Yes Belz iphela mayb the is true luv kwama phela!!

Nonny
07 Oct 2008 10:44

LOL...I JUST HAD TO MENTION this word LOL coz i never use it..so i thought why not..let me jus LOL,LOL
@ Pawgie while u at it, u might as well say LMAO, I don't remember u ever saying it vele.........hehehehe

Nonny
07 Oct 2008 10:49

becoz im angry as inja athethelwe ithabo emlonyeni... ngigane unwabu! *
OK, let me rephrase this correctly for u Mabhebheza, coz I can see u are also a bot too angry to speak proper Zulu. Neway, the saying u are looking for is: "I am angry as inja ephucwe ithambo emlomeni"...........nazoke gal.

belz
07 Oct 2008 10:53

so pawagie, you dont have a comment on the matter, you judt needed space to LOL.

Nonny
07 Oct 2008 10:55

so pawagie, you dont have a comment on the matter, you judt needed space to LOL.
ROTLMAO *another one for Pawgie to say*.........hihiihihhi

Shuga babe
07 Oct 2008 10:57

"becoz im angry as inja athethelwe ithabo emlonyeni... ngigane unwabu! *
OK, let me rephrase this correctly for u Mabhebheza, coz I can see u are also a bot too angry to speak proper Zulu. Neway, the saying u are looking for is: "I am angry as inja ephucwe ithambo emlomeni"...........nazoke gal." 

@Nonny as far as I know *ukuphucwa* ukususwa izinwele ekhanda. i think she meant *Inja emukwe ithambo emlonyeni*

mabhebheza
07 Oct 2008 10:57

tanxs Nonny maar aksalayo ungzwile....Tha-bang hope 2moro ul b singing a different tune....becoz mina il b singing the opposite if Amero Perros tonite..LOL (pagawie) 

Nonny
07 Oct 2008 11:00

@Nonny as far as I know *ukuphucwa* ukususwa izinwele ekhanda. i think she meant *Inja emukwe ithambo emlonyeni*
@ Shuga babe, go to google isiZulu and they will tell that ukuphucwa is also to "take away", and yes I know it aslo means ukususwa izinwele ekhanda.

On that note cheers bloggers. Sengihembe.

mabhebheza
07 Oct 2008 11:02

17h00 Zulu class siyabonga madurbanites!

maddie
07 Oct 2008 11:04

Ameros Perros 

excuse my stupidity but what does this word mean bathong

Nonny
07 Oct 2008 11:06

17h00 Zulu class siyabonga madurbanites!
hahahah phela thina siyayazi imvelaphi yethu.

Ameros Perros
excuse my stupidity but what does this word mean bathong

It means - Love's a b!tch!!!

Toxic
07 Oct 2008 11:19

it's Amores Perros...........

Firstdvd
07 Oct 2008 11:31

I can imagine and relate to what you are going thru tha-bang...[some] ppl they don't know how to appreciate of of what they have til it's gone. Sometimes u even try to sit down to make things to normal only turns to be worse than before. We give and give love 'almost' all and that's when THEY take advantage. In my situation, i had to blame, HER, him, and myself *i'm glad u did that* that's the healing process.

Pooky
07 Oct 2008 11:54

@ Tha-bang - If you beleive in prayer, lock all the doors, take a chair , place it right in front of you. . and prentend as if GOD is sitting in that chair. Talk to HIM, say everything, I mean everything that you can't say to anyone. Cry to HIM because even though you pretend that HE's there, HE's actually there. HE heals. Your head will clear after that. Ask HIM for solutions and happiness in your relationship 

i always do that, it helps. He's the best shrink i know..

Brown Shuga
07 Oct 2008 13:54

<<<<poor thabs, he is even writing in tongues, the topic of the blog.>>> tl tl tl tl tl lt tl tl tl LOL heeheheheheh

Sorry Thabang...ho tla loka!

Molilo
07 Oct 2008 16:31

We learn everyday now my vocab has amores perros thanx Tha-bang

carino
08 Oct 2008 07:30

Just had to come read this again....

Nonny
08 Oct 2008 07:37

OK Carino, thank u for making me follow u for nothing.........LOL

kick-s
08 Oct 2008 07:40

And i followed you nonny. Are we that bored?

Nonny
08 Oct 2008 07:42

And to think kick-s u made me come here again for nothing......LOL
And yes love, we are that bored.

carino
08 Oct 2008 07:46

LMAO.... to think I just followed you two here..... i thought you had a good conversation going on....

ngwana
13 Oct 2008 02:03

Tha-bang, when i clicked on this blog i thought it was about the Movie.
I feel your heart ache. Been going through same *bleep!* recently, and i concluded that some force out there just does not want me to be happy.


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