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G.Dingaan

Written by reborebo from the blog My Point is..... on 03 Nov 2008
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I guess it's quite true that we will never ever be able to understand the opposite sex....It doesn't matter wether you are male or female, we should all just quit trying to figure out how the male species brains function......I'm sure at this point you are probably wondering what the heck am I going on about well here goes something....

Recently I've been approached by more than 4 guys who insisted that I give them my numbers as they find me intersting to know and also gorgeous....I refused profusely but after arguing tirelesly about giving out my contanct details I finally decide to give in and just hand out my digits....Ooh please note that this happend in different ocaaaions it wasn't all four guys asking for my digits at once....anyway moving swiftly righ along all these guys called me about once or twice and I swear to you about the third time calling me they all ask "Hao, Why haven't you called me?" Iyo! I mean seriously do what are you asking me hear??

First and foremost If I wanted to add yet another human being on my expense list/telephone bill list I could have easily aked for your numbers.....and as for the question the one guy asked me "Don't you miss me" Ooh hell no dude I do not miss you at all.....Get this through your thick skulls I am not interested in you hence I'd refused to give you my numbers in the first place!!!! this kind of reminds me of the Cell C add where the guy hands out his numbers to this one chick and she goes like "Hey wena! Yazi uyangihlanyela! haven't you heard of i half tiger, you call me"!!!!

My point is.....why ask for my numbers if you're going to ask me to call you instead??? Mara why? my other point is if I don't call you then it simply means I'm not showing interest and if I'm not showing interest then that simply means I'm not Interested!!!! Period!



68 Comments

carino
03 Nov 2008 12:29

CANDE!!!!!

reborebo
03 Nov 2008 12:42

CANDE????? Am I missing something????

Dimago
03 Nov 2008 12:49

Shem i understand.

carino
03 Nov 2008 12:29

CANDE!!!!!

Sana Lwam
03 Nov 2008 13:01

"...why ask my numbers if you're going to ask me to call you instead??? 
Girl you have answered yourself in the first line of your blog :"I guess it's quite true that we will never ever be able to understand the opposite sex...."

Mara why? my other point is if I don't call you then it simply means I'm not showing interest and if I'm not showing interest then that simply means I'm not Interested!!!! Period!
But then again, if you were not interested why did you give out your numbers in the first place. I think you just enjoy the attention you get from the guys or you just want your cell to be busy like i-call centre yakwa Vodacom.
"...as they find me intersting to know and also gorgeous..."
Interesting I could agree/disagree(that's my opinion) judging from the title of the blog and gorgeous could mean lots of things again. 

Cande
03 Nov 2008 13:04

what did i do Carino? you going to make everyone think i wrote this...LOL

Why not ask them Dingaan? i am not the right person to answer

TerryN
03 Nov 2008 13:05

think you just enjoy the attention you get from the guys or you just want your cell to be busy like i-call centre yakwa Vodacom. 

LOL

reborebo
03 Nov 2008 12:42

CANDE????? Am I missing something????

TerryN
03 Nov 2008 13:06

what did i do Carino? you going to make everyone think i wrote this...LOL 

For once i thought u did it Cande...LOL

carino
03 Nov 2008 13:07

No man..... 

I meant to ask cande to ****sigh*****

Dimago
03 Nov 2008 12:49

Shem i understand.

Sana Lwam
03 Nov 2008 13:01

"...why ask my numbers if you're going to ask me to call you instead??? 
Girl you have answered yourself in the first line of your blog :"I guess it's quite true that we will never ever be able to understand the opposite sex...."

Mara why? my other point is if I don't call you then it simply means I'm not showing interest and if I'm not showing interest then that simply means I'm not Interested!!!! Period!
But then again, if you were not interested why did you give out your numbers in the first place. I think you just enjoy the attention you get from the guys or you just want your cell to be busy like i-call centre yakwa Vodacom.
"...as they find me intersting to know and also gorgeous..."
Interesting I could agree/disagree(that's my opinion) judging from the title of the blog and gorgeous could mean lots of things again. 

Cande
03 Nov 2008 13:04

what did i do Carino? you going to make everyone think i wrote this...LOL

Why not ask them Dingaan? i am not the right person to answer

TerryN
03 Nov 2008 13:05

think you just enjoy the attention you get from the guys or you just want your cell to be busy like i-call centre yakwa Vodacom. 

LOL

TerryN
03 Nov 2008 13:06

what did i do Carino? you going to make everyone think i wrote this...LOL 

For once i thought u did it Cande...LOL

carino
03 Nov 2008 13:07

No man..... 

I meant to ask cande to ****sigh*****

GML
03 Nov 2008 13:52

I guess it's true that some guys dont get the message. but i will not under no circumstances will i give out my number to anyone.

You should do the same. And the fact that you still answer their calls means you do like the attention. If they call you more than once and you entertain them on the phone it means you want them to call.

Otherwise just give out the wrong number... or ignore them all together... Simple

andi01
03 Nov 2008 13:54

I say give them the right number but the wrong name, for when they call u tell them yo dont know that person. coz if u give them the right number and they call u while u standing there and they realise taht u gave them a wrong number, then u'l be embarassed

cleve
03 Nov 2008 13:57

this is so childish...........  so high skul!

reborebo
03 Nov 2008 14:01

Andi....I think that's the best idea ever "give them the right number but the wrong name" .........I really get annoyed by stupid calls and honestly don't have the energy to entertain silly conversations with these guys...

To be honest giving these guys my numbers is the easiest way to get rid of them....they'll never get away from you unless you just give them the digits.

Cande
03 Nov 2008 14:03

ja but what exactly are we talking about here??

Cody
03 Nov 2008 14:03

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reborebo
03 Nov 2008 14:04

Cleve,  My point exactly!!!! It's just childish! it really and truly is.....I wish these guys could just grow up!

witty lady
03 Nov 2008 14:20

Mina I just give them one of my friend's numbers and the name as well... hehehe

GML
03 Nov 2008 13:52

I guess it's true that some guys dont get the message. but i will not under no circumstances will i give out my number to anyone.

You should do the same. And the fact that you still answer their calls means you do like the attention. If they call you more than once and you entertain them on the phone it means you want them to call.

Otherwise just give out the wrong number... or ignore them all together... Simple

andi01
03 Nov 2008 13:54

I say give them the right number but the wrong name, for when they call u tell them yo dont know that person. coz if u give them the right number and they call u while u standing there and they realise taht u gave them a wrong number, then u'l be embarassed

cleve
03 Nov 2008 13:57

this is so childish...........  so high skul!

reborebo
03 Nov 2008 14:01

Andi....I think that's the best idea ever "give them the right number but the wrong name" .........I really get annoyed by stupid calls and honestly don't have the energy to entertain silly conversations with these guys...

To be honest giving these guys my numbers is the easiest way to get rid of them....they'll never get away from you unless you just give them the digits.

Cande
03 Nov 2008 14:03

ja but what exactly are we talking about here??

Cody
03 Nov 2008 14:03

....................................................and the writer appears.......................................

reborebo
03 Nov 2008 14:04

Cleve,  My point exactly!!!! It's just childish! it really and truly is.....I wish these guys could just grow up!

Shuga babe
03 Nov 2008 14:40

"Mina I just give them one of my friend's numbers and the name as well... hehehe"

@witty lady
, I use to do that to my gals. but when my friend did it to me I cried. a guy called and he said he's been waiting for me for hours @ some place. I tried to tell him that I'm not what he think I am. yooooo he threaten to come by my place calling me by my name. "we kissed last night, I'm not a fool you B##ch! don't do this to me I love you" . my silly friend gave him my address as well.  
I know my gal didn't mean to hurt me, but the guy was so Rude.  so Witty lady i think you should STOP doing that, if you love your friend, coz some guys are something else.LOL

witty lady
03 Nov 2008 14:20

Mina I just give them one of my friend's numbers and the name as well... hehehe

reborebo
03 Nov 2008 14:46

"some guys are something else" my point exactly!!!!

Iyo Hectic yong!!!! but why give the adress as well??? I mean the whole point of giving incorrect details is to lose track...and get no come backs!

Shuga,I think your friend did a bad move by giving the address as well....and I'm sorry to hear about your ordeal....

Shuga babe
03 Nov 2008 14:40

"Mina I just give them one of my friend's numbers and the name as well... hehehe"

@witty lady
, I use to do that to my gals. but when my friend did it to me I cried. a guy called and he said he's been waiting for me for hours @ some place. I tried to tell him that I'm not what he think I am. yooooo he threaten to come by my place calling me by my name. "we kissed last night, I'm not a fool you B##ch! don't do this to me I love you" . my silly friend gave him my address as well.  
I know my gal didn't mean to hurt me, but the guy was so Rude.  so Witty lady i think you should STOP doing that, if you love your friend, coz some guys are something else.LOL

reborebo
03 Nov 2008 14:46

"some guys are something else" my point exactly!!!!

Iyo Hectic yong!!!! but why give the adress as well??? I mean the whole point of giving incorrect details is to lose track...and get no come backs!

Shuga,I think your friend did a bad move by giving the address as well....and I'm sorry to hear about your ordeal....

Shuga babe
03 Nov 2008 15:03

@reborebo, She didn't mean any harm, but it was very stupid of her to give him my address, maybe she had more that enough to drink. LOL

But really, I don't ladies give the guys their friends' ditails. ithat  can harm the friendship. coz if it wasn't me *i don't always take things personal* she was going to be sorry for the rest of her life. hahaha!!!!!!!!!.

Shuga babe
03 Nov 2008 15:03

@reborebo, She didn't mean any harm, but it was very stupid of her to give him my address, maybe she had more that enough to drink. LOL

But really, I don't ladies give the guys their friends' ditails. ithat  can harm the friendship. coz if it wasn't me *i don't always take things personal* she was going to be sorry for the rest of her life. hahaha!!!!!!!!!.

Shuga babe
03 Nov 2008 15:06

"I don't ladies give the guys their friends' ditails" u - I don't encourage ladies to give the guys their friends' detail.

Shuga babe
03 Nov 2008 15:06

"I don't ladies give the guys their friends' ditails" u - I don't encourage ladies to give the guys their friends' detail.

PY
03 Nov 2008 15:08

This is the guyz thing....once a guy greet you the next thing will be "can u give ur number babes"to be honest I used to give them my numbers not that I was interested in them just to make my phone busy......i got irritated by that coz my boyfriemd would fight with me asking whos these guyz... when i told him the truth he would say then why did u give them ur real number.....(they call u while u standing there and they realise that u gave them a wrong number, then u'l be embarassed)...that happened to me a couple of times....andi01
Did you ever lie to a guy saying that u dont have a cell phone and ur phone just rings immediately??....this is so embarassing....
Now i refuse to give them my number ...but they will beg for it...until u give up just bcoz u wana get rid of them.....my phone is not that busy now....but i have this naughty friend of mine who gives these guyz my number....when they call i just say i'm her couzin shes not available @ the moment leave a message......until a guy got tired & stops or starts to be rude...that its when i swear @ them....
when we(my friends) ask my friend about this she would just lough....when u do it to her...she tells u that u gona create problems between her & her boyfriend...dah....we always tells her the same thing but she does not stop...

PY
03 Nov 2008 15:08

This is the guyz thing....once a guy greet you the next thing will be "can u give ur number babes"to be honest I used to give them my numbers not that I was interested in them just to make my phone busy......i got irritated by that coz my boyfriemd would fight with me asking whos these guyz... when i told him the truth he would say then why did u give them ur real number.....(they call u while u standing there and they realise that u gave them a wrong number, then u'l be embarassed)...that happened to me a couple of times....andi01
Did you ever lie to a guy saying that u dont have a cell phone and ur phone just rings immediately??....this is so embarassing....
Now i refuse to give them my number ...but they will beg for it...until u give up just bcoz u wana get rid of them.....my phone is not that busy now....but i have this naughty friend of mine who gives these guyz my number....when they call i just say i'm her couzin shes not available @ the moment leave a message......until a guy got tired & stops or starts to be rude...that its when i swear @ them....
when we(my friends) ask my friend about this she would just lough....when u do it to her...she tells u that u gona create problems between her & her boyfriend...dah....we always tells her the same thing but she does not stop...

reborebo
03 Nov 2008 15:10

"I don't ladies give the guys their friends' ditails"  You had me confused there....but I thought maybe you are speaking the new english or you are bringing back the Shakespear into our english. LOL!!!!

reborebo
03 Nov 2008 15:10

"I don't ladies give the guys their friends' ditails"  You had me confused there....but I thought maybe you are speaking the new english or you are bringing back the Shakespear into our english. LOL!!!!

Shuga babe
03 Nov 2008 15:15

"You had me confused there...but I thought maybe you are speaking the new english or you are bringing back the Shakespear into our english. LOL!!!!"

LMAO @RB

Shuga babe
03 Nov 2008 15:15

"You had me confused there...but I thought maybe you are speaking the new english or you are bringing back the Shakespear into our english. LOL!!!!"

LMAO @RB

witty lady
03 Nov 2008 15:19

Shuga babe, I would never give the guys my friends addresses, and I know my friends ke di chobolo!! bayaphoxa!

But it is scary.... that thing ya the guy that had the address....

witty lady
03 Nov 2008 15:19

Shuga babe, I would never give the guys my friends addresses, and I know my friends ke di chobolo!! bayaphoxa!

But it is scary.... that thing ya the guy that had the address....

reborebo
03 Nov 2008 15:26

Girls and possibly boys, thank you so much for Joining in on this conversation, as much as this might have sounded like a dumb thing to talk about truth is it happens to me everytime I walk out from home, or at a resturant waiting for take aways or at the mall waiting to meet with my friends, not only is it annoying but it's also exhausting......

......SO talking about it made me see the funny part in it and some of Y'all's comments made me realise that as much as we victims in this ridiculous act but we are very much in control and have to choice to be plain rude and unwelcoming in the begining so the guy won't even think about asking for your numbers....

Or you can give your real numbers with an incorrect name or give your friends numbers away...whatever you choose just remember to play it safe. Lot's of love: G.Dingaan! outtta here!

reborebo
03 Nov 2008 15:26

Girls and possibly boys, thank you so much for Joining in on this conversation, as much as this might have sounded like a dumb thing to talk about truth is it happens to me everytime I walk out from home, or at a resturant waiting for take aways or at the mall waiting to meet with my friends, not only is it annoying but it's also exhausting......

......SO talking about it made me see the funny part in it and some of Y'all's comments made me realise that as much as we victims in this ridiculous act but we are very much in control and have to choice to be plain rude and unwelcoming in the begining so the guy won't even think about asking for your numbers....

Or you can give your real numbers with an incorrect name or give your friends numbers away...whatever you choose just remember to play it safe. Lot's of love: G.Dingaan! outtta here!

Tshd21
03 Nov 2008 15:26

Don't distribute your numbers if you don't want to be contacted

tracy
03 Nov 2008 15:26

@andi01- I say give them the right number but the wrong name, for when they call u tell them yo dont know that person. coz if u give them the right number and they call u while u standing there and they realise taht u gave them a wrong number, then u'l be embarassed
why go to so much trouble just dont give your number its not like anyone is holding a gun to your head.
@PY-Did you ever lie to a guy saying that u dont have a cell phone and ur phone just rings immediately??....this is so embarassing.... 
atleast he will get the message

Tshd21
03 Nov 2008 15:26

Don't distribute your numbers if you don't want to be contacted

tracy
03 Nov 2008 15:26

@andi01- I say give them the right number but the wrong name, for when they call u tell them yo dont know that person. coz if u give them the right number and they call u while u standing there and they realise taht u gave them a wrong number, then u'l be embarassed
why go to so much trouble just dont give your number its not like anyone is holding a gun to your head.
@PY-Did you ever lie to a guy saying that u dont have a cell phone and ur phone just rings immediately??....this is so embarassing.... 
atleast he will get the message

Centrepiece
03 Nov 2008 15:41

I don't give my numbers to anyone period!!!!!!!! And i always tell the truth (i don't want to give you my number), you can beg as much as you can i don't budge, and if you start to irritate me i become rude!!

Centrepiece
03 Nov 2008 15:41

I don't give my numbers to anyone period!!!!!!!! And i always tell the truth (i don't want to give you my number), you can beg as much as you can i don't budge, and if you start to irritate me i become rude!!

Toodecent
03 Nov 2008 16:30

I once had a chick from West gate who used to guve guys my number whenever they ask for her's. And I had strange calls all the time ;-(

Simmone
03 Nov 2008 16:33

In this situation I fail to get your predicament. When you give a guy your number it means “I am open to possibilities”. A brisk and concise no may do the trick and letting him know it’s not up for discussion and you aren’t interested from the word go. Playing games for me is juvenile.

carino
03 Nov 2008 16:51

This phone number thing is really stupid....A guy that still asks for amaphone numbers in this age... is an ar$e that you just shouldnt even waste your time with...

Guy: "ndicela inumbers zakho"

Girl: "eish... niyasokolisa abantu beLotto... ina.. 8, 12, 14, 25, 36, 48.... "

Centrepiece
03 Nov 2008 16:55

LOL!! @ Carino

Toxic
03 Nov 2008 17:13

LMAO Carino!!!!!!!

Lushi
03 Nov 2008 23:18

eish... niyasokolisa abantu beLotto... ina.. 8, 12, 14, 25, 36, 48.... "
Hi hi hi!!!!!!!

reborebo
04 Nov 2008 08:55

Carino u ya rocka sana!!! I think that's the mos hilarious thing ever! Ayoubaness!

Lushi
03 Nov 2008 23:18

eish... niyasokolisa abantu beLotto... ina.. 8, 12, 14, 25, 36, 48.... "
Hi hi hi!!!!!!!

reborebo
04 Nov 2008 08:55

Carino u ya rocka sana!!! I think that's the mos hilarious thing ever! Ayoubaness!

Sobza
04 Nov 2008 23:00

Iyhooooo Carino, undigqibile this time.

Sobza
04 Nov 2008 23:00

Iyhooooo Carino, undigqibile this time.

Sobza
04 Nov 2008 23:00

Iyhooooo Carino, undigqibile this time.


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