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What do you want!

Written by Mitz001 from the blog What do men look for, in woman?? on 07 Jan 2009
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OK, I really need to know! What do Men actually look for when they look for a Woman?m Is it only looks, or do they actually go further and look for something else like personality etc???????
I am not sure if there are any decent guys left out there, coz the only ones I meet have one thing on there mind!

49 Comments

Best-Achiever
07 Jan 2009 08:04

try to change the places you go to....maybe you are only going to wrong places

Toxic
07 Jan 2009 08:06

as they say.....that's the sh*@t right there.

pameng2003
07 Jan 2009 08:12

LMAO @ Best A....ja madam aim higher then u will meet u mr rite..condomise en eliminate the element of suprise!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Feza
07 Jan 2009 08:34

Eish girl, I know what you're talking about, first of all, you need to remove that mentality that "are there any decent young men out there".

Yes there are! and man are they plenty!

choose the places you go to

Dress decently and act in a decent manner then you'll attract decency. Remember the law of attraction from the Secret?

belz
07 Jan 2009 08:53

realist
07 Jan 2009 11:19

Ncence
07 Jan 2009 11:34

coz the only ones I meet have one thing on there mind!

They need prayer.................

cleve
07 Jan 2009 11:35

Firstly I look for beauty then body shape and lastly brains. If the relationship goes past the shagging then brains becomes the top priority and the rest do not matter. I can’t believe I replied to this.

@ realist you are a true realist. It makes sense.

There are plenty of good men out there. baningi. Don't ever settle for second best because they always want you to believe that there is no good man out there. So you can stay for K@*K Wait for him he will come.

@ Feza that is true!

GML
07 Jan 2009 11:35

I think that we attract a certain kind of people because of the way we behave and carry ourselves.
If you are loud and act all crazy in town you will attract guys from Ekasi who are into loud women. They see you as a party gal who drinks and is just perfect for taking out to the shebeen.

realist
07 Jan 2009 11:42

If you are loud and act all crazy in town you will attract guys from Ekasi who are into loud women. They see you as a party gal who drinks and is just perfect for taking out to the shebeen.
Trust me; these are the ones that get married. You know why? They are not compliant.

pameng2003
07 Jan 2009 11:47

They are not compliant...realist wat do u mean...guys prefer ladies abanga bambi umthetho..i thought guys want suumbody to submit to them...plz elaborate on that statement!

realist
07 Jan 2009 11:47

If you are loud and act all crazy in town you will attract guys from Ekasi who are into loud women.
What is wrong with Ekasi guy? I am from Ekasi and no regrets. I will agree with you on the loud women. They are a pain to go out with.

realist
07 Jan 2009 11:59

guys prefer ladies abanga bambi umthetho..i
Not this guy, I want a woman who is wild but polite and a bit shy. Must not have too many friends and must have manners. Above all she must be able to think on her own two feet.
i thought guys want suumbody to submit to them...
Again not this guy, then she becomes a pain and a liability. Think about it for a moment.

realist
07 Jan 2009 12:16

@ realist you are a true realist. It makes sense.
Thank you very much.

GML
07 Jan 2009 12:21

There is nothing wrong with Kasi guys. What i'm saying is guys who like to drink alot would want a loud womw\en who potrays certain characteristics that will show him that she will tolerate his drinking. More often than not women who like to act all crazy are drinkers and they are not shy at all. And that's what i'm saying.

You do find Kasi guys who are good that hate loud women who drink and party hard. They want someone who behave like a lady in public.

Lets face it. Most guys from eksi do not have the the characteristics that say I can love you

cleve
07 Jan 2009 12:25

They are not compliant...realist wat do u mean...guys prefer ladies abanga bambi umthetho..i thought guys want suumbody to submit to them...plz elaborate on that statement!

@ Pameng, guys like both actually but guys today actually get tired of the "yes baba" women. I think they want someone who can speak for themselves and gives them a challenge. That's my opinion.

andi01
07 Jan 2009 12:27

I will say "different strokes for different folks", some guys prefer ama"virgins" while others prefer the "experienced" girls. Some prefer abofohloza and adas abosncinza. It depends really on the persons personality. It goes wrong when people go out with someone just to please others, not satisfying his true self. i.e a guy would date a "nun" just bcoz his parents expect that of him, while he prefers the "sharon stone" kinda girl.Persevearance only last for a while, then the guy shows his true colours, then you will hear the woman going "usushintshile 9u've changed", but the truth is the guy been tired of fakin it, he realises that life is 2 short for him 2 be stuck with "oros" while he prefers 100% orange juice and can afford it.

Mbalenthle
07 Jan 2009 12:35

angaz to say...but ive been lucky i think bcos i see the bull my friends go thru and i ask is it necessary..the dating scene has become whack no matter which angle you look at it.

tshepiso
07 Jan 2009 12:36

In this millenium years guys looking for everything girl looks for in them.

1. If you owns a house (not RDP)
2. A car (not a Gusheshe)
3. How many digit you have in bank

THey don't care of your physical apprearance, Health or background
Just show that and you won't MARKET men anymore instead you will MARKET happiness.

J-Girl
07 Jan 2009 13:03

another age old topic on tvsa with reshuffled responses!

tshepiso
07 Jan 2009 15:05

what aka mathata
07 Jan 2009 15:38

@tshepi. im with you with that,Stop nagging,stop to ask tooooo much,

One thing you must ask ,just say.....are you here to f*** n go or to stay. b4r he start to scratch his head.

take a condom n say lets F** each other if is what you want,make sure you always doit at your house.n it must be hell clean.

the time he go to the bathroom,he will ask himself 100 questions,if he didnt come back is for best,his afraid of challenges.

when you are with him,tell your frnd to call you with private no,n just say to the caller im not interested pls give me time,oooooh jesus.

he will say who is that?my F*** ex,i dont know what he want.

Next quest ion in his mind.life goes on.

andi01
07 Jan 2009 15:53

LOL @ what aka mathata- spoken like a lady who sure knows what she wants, advice taken

Cody
07 Jan 2009 15:54

Triple lol Mathata!!!!!!!

LM
07 Jan 2009 15:56

Shoo, Mathata wena le Tshepi, haaai ke a le tshaba....

what aka mathata
07 Jan 2009 16:20

113%true,if you dont ask how are you going to know who you dealing with in bed,men are like bees,bees always look for sweat rose.

we ask tooooo much,money,worse part comfort,your hands dont get cold for asking?always may you..... may you.for heaven sake his human too.

work hard,spoil yourself,you can even buy vibrater hide in side the pillow,n have fabulous life.

invite him,drink wine or red grape tizer.show him you have life without him,use expensive condoms But give him warning that next time he must buy same one.

in the morning just say ,see you next time,but dont give it to SARA,he will prove you wrong.he will come back.

he will start to reviel everything.

andi01
07 Jan 2009 16:32

put BEEFSTOCK in your punani and de nigga will be hooked for life, it works better than velabahleke. lol

what aka mathata
07 Jan 2009 16:44

otla tsha a tseba mou a xadileng hee.beefstock............

andi01
07 Jan 2009 16:55

@mathata, please translate tuuuu

Pooky
07 Jan 2009 17:18

hainoko Andile ibeefstok nalapha ezintweni mfazi ahahahahahahahahahahaha

Mama
07 Jan 2009 17:25

Beefstock??????
Pls tell me u joking.....................

Supa
07 Jan 2009 17:40

Eish!

what aka mathata
07 Jan 2009 18:08

@andi.it will burn....hm he will know where he come from.

suzzy82
07 Jan 2009 22:12

LOL...LOL...LOL

andi01
08 Jan 2009 08:56

@Pooky- Ngqumakho

Pooky
08 Jan 2009 09:47

heh Andile uyazelaphi wena lonto, sokhe wayizama ngokwakho phof lonto sisi? LOL

andi01
08 Jan 2009 10:20

Hay Pooky, a friend of mine is dating this guy, apparently this guy is vat en sitting with another cherry, so when the guy doesnt return home and spends the night at my friends place the "vat en sit" complains and say "hay ndiyabona ba le yalacherry i punani i nebeefstock, le yam inetyiwa qha" lol

Mitz001
08 Jan 2009 13:24

Everyone keeps telling me im going to the wrong place, but where do you consider to be the "RIght" place to go then...need some spots and any girlz that can help with the dressing, I grew up with to many guys and have a llove for speed and cars etc, so not really a girly girl, i would wear like jeans and a shirt..HEHEHE

TheLady
08 Jan 2009 13:30

Some guys are into women boyish chicks...no need to be uncomfortable with some frentch tips uphuze some cocktail when all you wanna do is sit ekesini in some tavern ne black label.

andi01
08 Jan 2009 13:33

LOL @ The Lady- eish sani "kwamama uyandichaza" LOL

TheLady
08 Jan 2009 13:37

kwa Sis Doris,Andi01 LOL

andi01
08 Jan 2009 14:07

@ TheLady, kwa sis-May (could be Nomayenzeke turned Mavis, turned May)

felfel
08 Jan 2009 14:26

Aren't all guys from ekasi (and ezilalini), or are there some who were born and raised kwi suburbs???? Just a question...

what aka mathata
08 Jan 2009 14:29

@mitz,ompolaelang your name sound like you like clothes,MITZ WAREHOUSE......try sissyboy it will give you ladylike style.eish le wena.

Cande
08 Jan 2009 14:34

there are some people who were born n raised in the suburbs

tshepiso
08 Jan 2009 15:01

@ andi01 >>>>>>>> huh BEEFSTOCK tota?
I think she must go buy STAMETA phela ba re NNYOKO e nale sqheto.

mATHATA please antswele maoto o mo ise go mmamosebeletsi kwa ntlong e mo khoneng

NtandoN
08 Jan 2009 15:02

You can't pinpoint one thing that guys look for in a woman, it's about the whole package, ie looks, behaviour and intelligence.

Most of us guys first experiment with different ladies before we can make an informed decision. It's like food: you first taste different dishes before you can say chicken curry is your favourite.

Maybe you are always caught in the experimenting phase, make sure you know what are your man's intention before you sleep with him.

Cnglemother
11 Jan 2009 11:09

Have u noticed that both Mr Realist and Ntara made looks priority number 1?mmh!so noone wants omubiza kahle-kahle?

realist
12 Jan 2009 06:26

Have u noticed that both Mr Realist and Ntara made looks priority number 1?mmh!so noone wants omubiza kahle-kahle?
Initially. Long term brains will do.

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