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Written by sisan from the blog Straight Talk on 20 Feb 2009
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Hey there beautiful bloggers, im very interested to know what people are going to say about this topic, and it is directed to all genders and mostly people who are involved.

Alot of us have been cheated on, and it is more worse for the patner who cheated to even lie more when being confranted even though they know and realise that they have been cought. I realy fail to understand that why do people lie, why do you go and do some thing in the first place that you know you are not proud off? people must learn to do things that they will stand up for when confranted about.

Coz realy i hate it when i confrant a cheater about why they did it and they still deny it and even though they know that you saw them and you've got all the facts right, but they still donts want to admit it, why donts they just admit that they were tempeted they see that they were wrong and move on. so bloggers tell me your stories about your patners liying to you when you confront them and cheaters tell me what going on in your minds at that stage.

102 Comments

sisan
20 Feb 2009 12:59

i get very upset when my partner lies to me about him cheating, i realy get angry coz i want to know all about it in order for me to get past it.

Lessie
20 Feb 2009 13:13

.....but they still donts want to admit it, why donts they just admit

ROTFLMAO

ms.tebby
20 Feb 2009 13:13

it hurts hey?

ms.tebby
20 Feb 2009 13:14

LOL Lessie...you making me see things I overlooked! kwa kwa kwaaaaaaa!

andi01
20 Feb 2009 13:16

Cheating is like smoking, Like eating 2 much sugar, like eating chocolates, like drinking- you know its bad for you and the people concerned, but its soo much pleaserable. When you cheat, its not like u dont love/ respect your partner, its just one of the earthly temptations.

The self confessed cheater.

ms.tebby
20 Feb 2009 13:16

but what happened to people's names....now we have "What do you do at this situation"

awelani
20 Feb 2009 13:18

LMAO....is this who i think it is?? but they still donts want to admit it, why donts they just admit >>>Have been seeing a lot of these l8ly, LMAO

awelani
20 Feb 2009 13:19

LOL @....the SCC

andi01
20 Feb 2009 13:20

I realy fail to understand that why do people lie- its stated in the bible as the opposite of truth, and in physcis terms, for every action, there is an equal but opposite reaction, so I guess I answer you gore why bana ba boa maka.

andi01
20 Feb 2009 13:21

why do you go and do some thing in the first place that you know you are not proud off?- dont tell me you have never done this. we all are guilty of this but it depends on teh severity of the result.

Strolicious
20 Feb 2009 13:22

there is no excuse for cheating.....u cant say i wasn't thinking.....
aaaaaaah vho Awelani

andi01
20 Feb 2009 13:23

Coz realy i hate it when i confrant a cheater about why they did it and they still deny it and even though they know that you saw - if you saw them, so whats teh confrontation for, obviously you confront them with the little hope that he will say it was a mistake, nci nci nci, you just putting urself in pain qha wena. I say ask no questions, hear no lies. There are things to confront about, but how can u ask someone something obvious.

andi01
20 Feb 2009 13:24

One advise though, we cheaters, hate to be cheated on, so when u suspect he is cheatin, act as if you are cheatin, he will never, nooit nie, ek se vir julle.

Dimago
20 Feb 2009 13:27

your spelling leaves a little to be desired

awelani
20 Feb 2009 13:30

LMAO..andi01..

Aaaaaaaaaa Vho-Strolishiyas\

Not that um defending Andi01 and company(cheaters,lol)..but sometimes there are resons y ppl cheat,,

awelani
20 Feb 2009 13:30

Hi Dima...

J-Girl
20 Feb 2009 13:32

@ andi01 thats very true; act like u're also cheating, see your partner changing his/her ways very very fast, coz really cheaters hate being cheated on. (sorry for the tautology) but I know this from personal experience...

Pooky
20 Feb 2009 13:33

.....but they still donts want to admit it, why donts they just admit

looks familier...

Pooky
20 Feb 2009 13:33

familiar

Sana Lwam
20 Feb 2009 13:34

kwa kwa kwa @ Dimago -

My comments reserved something is traumatizing me about the blog, but won't mention what it is!

blueroze
20 Feb 2009 13:35

confrant
donts
>>>>ROFLMBAO>>>>>>>>tltltltltltlt
spell check se botlhokwa nako e ngwe

Dimago
20 Feb 2009 13:36

Hi AWEsome!...*waving like a luni*

Sana Lwam
20 Feb 2009 13:38

hehheheheheheheh

Donts do this to blueroze coz my manager will confrant me. LOL

KeleFabulous
20 Feb 2009 13:39

he lied to protect you. now moving along>>>

ms.tebby
20 Feb 2009 13:39

eish this is the Queen's language bathong!

awelani
20 Feb 2009 13:40

@What do you do at this situation...TIP..Its always smart to type ur dilema/story(not article/blog) on MS Word,, the pc daz spelling checks and corrections for u.......please...ur errors are on ol ur stories, so please make use of ur MSWord....please

ms.tebby
20 Feb 2009 13:40

LOL Sana Lwam!

Ms. Jay
20 Feb 2009 13:47

i agree di - i have to read it again to understand - but anyway this cheating thing is a serious problem in ms trelationships - an it starts like a joke. And there are many ways we cheat - I read it in a book that even when we discuss our mates intimately - like chows and problems with others - its cheating as we introduce the listner to our partner (indirectly) and when they start to "counsel" its like cheating - coz only you and your mate r meant to discuss and sort issues out no t everyone else...will look for the quote and post it so u can udnerstand wat i am tying to explain

andi01
20 Feb 2009 13:47

In Martin Luther Kings voice
I have a dream, that one day tvsa articles will not be judge by the spelling errors but by the content of the article.

Now seriously, people can we please focus on the content of the article and forget the spelling mistakes, haykodwa when will this end, when black crushes black. this is not our mother tongue but we trying and for what its worth, we doing great.

Moving along- Cheating and being caught is bad enough, it hurts the cheat-ee, and having the audacity to admit gore "hay sure, ngimdlile loya mntana", its not on. ha-a.

Dimago
20 Feb 2009 13:48

eish this is the Queen's language bathong!
hence there's spellcheck tebs...there is no excuse!!!

zapiro
20 Feb 2009 13:50

i like pulling my pants down especially at parties , and all my friends are so used to this they laugh and look away, so one day i had a friend over and the music was pumping, madam walks in and finds me with pants down and said "mara le wena jong orata go tlhobula" and she apologise to this other woman for my behaviour.

Ms. Jay
20 Feb 2009 13:51

Sana - you ganna make me pee on ma self.............hehehehehehehe

zapiro
20 Feb 2009 13:52

im not finished telling this story, i will be back manje bangane bam.

Sana Lwam
20 Feb 2009 13:53

Hayi wethu what more should we say about cheating men/women. There are so many stories on that here at TVSA so I am not gonna comment.

Anyway let me walk on by >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

Ms. Jay
20 Feb 2009 13:55

andi - i agree cheating is like cancer - we always think gore it will happen to SUMone else and not us - its other peoples problems but when it hits us we then realise it exists

mjj
20 Feb 2009 13:59

Hi sinas? Oooops its sisan, eish I meant Susan....damn I give up.....let me go get a copy of drum, maybe I can hve a commen after reading Drum...... I'm liking your articles, can I ask a favour tu? Can you write an article about Gospel Times on Monday? Please my sister or brother...

zapiro
20 Feb 2009 14:05

mjj are serious mpintshi? i have a reason why ngibuza skhokho sam.

myname
20 Feb 2009 14:08

Buts baby donts ever let any1 play with your feelings. If she/he really cares 4 u, she/he will neva do something that willl hurt u. Donts sweetheart, plz DONTS. There is a field for i soccer & wena u r not a playfield

Pooky
20 Feb 2009 14:09

hahahahahahahahahahhaha

Pooky
20 Feb 2009 14:10

@gospel times article

Toxic
20 Feb 2009 14:11

LOL myname!

awelani
20 Feb 2009 14:15

LMAO @ Myname,, now um remonded of Mathata,,lol

ms.tebby
20 Feb 2009 14:16

myname...kwa kwa kwa kwaaaaa!

zapiro
20 Feb 2009 14:17

myname pooky toxic.pliz stop buts pliz donts hayi maan shtop its.LOL..Pump up the volume guys.

zapiro
20 Feb 2009 14:20

eish ke tletsi ditsego jong! and ngidle ibrooklax i thought yi normal shokolade.
the SH*@T starts now buts i wonts
..kwaaaaaaaaakwakwakwakwaaaaaaaaaaa.

putsununuh
20 Feb 2009 14:23

hey peeps! i thought i was gonna break up with my bf hes a lyin cheatin bustd, an i was so sure that m ova him hawemah i met him izolo e mal ebabani ! n tomorow hes takin me out i am so xcited i dont knw what to do ngaye ...

Ms. Jay
20 Feb 2009 14:26

putsununuh - you forgave him? hope you can work and pick up the pieces after this - just be careful hey - get that bugger tested for Hiv and Sti if he chowed the person - you can never be sure....we don wanna loose u

zapiro
20 Feb 2009 14:28

tl tl tl tl tl , so putsununuh uthi ufuna ukuthini? i dont know how to ask you a question,wait wait.....eish eligama lithi putsununuh..i will be back..guys help i cant stop laughing.

Cande
20 Feb 2009 14:29

I have moer se headache

putsununuh
20 Feb 2009 14:35

no worries Jael w nt gonna do the dingamaling soon, ts just that u guys dnt understand ive bn wt hm since 2003 and ja..... its not easy

zapiro
20 Feb 2009 14:38

Zimpintshi. i have apologyzd to putsununuh for my silly'ness. and wished her well.putsu ngicela ubheke Pm yakho mntwana.

Cande why une headache?

myname
20 Feb 2009 14:41

Putsununu darling, u got a big heart u know, You even know he is a lying cheater, still u r going back. A leopard neva changes its spots dear so plz take care of that beautiful face & when he cheats again, i am here to dry ur face.

putsununuh
20 Feb 2009 14:41

sengcheckile zapiro ts k i knw and umnganami akangkhulumisi she hates the guy

putsununuh
20 Feb 2009 14:44

tnx may name lol lol lol lmao

zapiro
20 Feb 2009 14:53

putsu awuyifuni i O baby? hayi manje whenever you ready pm me jou lekker iets.
OKAY?

putsununuh
20 Feb 2009 14:57

EISH ZAPIRO! WHATS UR DEF. YE O ?

Cody
20 Feb 2009 15:01

triple lol at zefrench in TVSA !!!!! lol

JadaPinkett
20 Feb 2009 15:04

Ey' mina I don't understand this cheating things coz I caught my boyfriend that he was cheating then I wanted him to choose beween me and the girl frnd for sure everyboyfrnds ukhetha lomuntu okhona ngaloso sikhathi then i said to him " if u stil want us together then u need to end this relationship of u and ur new girlfrnd now ... Then he phoned the lady and tell her that she phoned at the wrong time coz he was with me. then ngathatha ifoni yebf yami ngachecker if he was phoning her ngempela then it was true then i stole inumber ka sistaz which is wrong thing i don't like to do coz usuke uzibizela ukuphatheka kabi uma uzofonela obanga naye...then the next day ngamfonela usista...ngambuza ukuthi basathandana yini neboyfrnd yami....U won't believe this" usistaz wamane waphika wathi"Ay'bo mina noG...........(My boyfrnd's name) kudala sahlukana maybeowesibili lonyaka" ngamane ngaphela amandla coz wesevumile Uboyfrnd wami.

zapiro
20 Feb 2009 15:08

( please read ssslooowly) Bheka baby ungamemezi dumpling yam.Im no lier im no cheater. mamela ke , i only take my pants down epatini phela neh? and mina ngikuthanda njenge guava esesihlahleni ,uthi ma Uyibheka UNDENDE (SALIVATE).uyiwilson yam emnyama ephula amazinyo arhalayo.
If i O ishela so iyi O putsu. njengam.LOL.

u4me
20 Feb 2009 15:08

putsununuh, your name sounds familiar,lol

TheLady
20 Feb 2009 15:10

Are you ok zapiro?

zapiro
20 Feb 2009 15:14

@TheLady... NO IM BORED! besides i thot she needed to lighten up shame uputsu, i cant handle la pain yakhe.

mathata
20 Feb 2009 15:14

if someone cheat on you that means you dont do something right.

Why they lie?because he doesnt want to hurt you.he feels shame you.

is not about lies,lack of communication.

before you ask him questions ask yourself what are you doing wrong.

JadaPinkett
20 Feb 2009 15:14

an i was so sure that m ova him hawemah i met him izolo e mal ebabani!
LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!@Pustununuh

JadaPinkett
20 Feb 2009 15:16

@mathata...............................Ukhuluma iphutha

Mabuu
20 Feb 2009 15:17

Jeez zapiro!!!

mathata
20 Feb 2009 15:21

@JP.before you blame someone ask yourself some questions,

yes,he done you wrong,why??lack of communication
is that liphutha?

zapiro
20 Feb 2009 15:21

haa mathata thats not true.why blame yourself when he/she has no sense of respect.do you know the pain that one goes tru when cheated on joe. you can have it all but its hard to re gain that self worth joe. what about the self esteem?

zapiro
20 Feb 2009 15:24

Mabuu.no joe i was bored ngiyadlala ngwana.phela i have missed this space.LOL.

mathata
20 Feb 2009 15:26

ke mang a batlang patla or a bam?if someone says you have bad breath why cant you try something with this problem.

fix dont blame.if you dont want to fix that means you dont want to learn.

tshepiso
20 Feb 2009 15:41

ke mang a batlang patla or a bam?if someone says you have bad breath why cant you try something with this problem..........

Mathata pata e better than pencil, it leaves you with memories.

tshepiso
20 Feb 2009 15:41

ke mang a batlang patla or a bam?if someone says you have bad breath why cant you try something with this problem..........

Mathata, pata e better than pencil, it leaves you with memories.

mathata
20 Feb 2009 15:50

@tshepi,dont say,kwa kwa kwa,i dont want to see.

andi01
20 Feb 2009 16:07

if someone cheat on you that means you dont do something right.- I beg to differ, cheating has nothing to do with the other person, it has everything 2 do with the cheat, finish and klaar. I cheat OK, so I know

myname
20 Feb 2009 16:12

Guys chau chau, Monday people. Bye

Mabuu
20 Feb 2009 16:23

Thank God is Friday! enjoy your weekend guys!

Foxxy
20 Feb 2009 19:37

LIER, patner, confrant, cought, realy, donts, tempeted, liying...

This is just hopeless, but the worst is donts. I'm just wondering, how do they actually pronounce it?

zapiro
20 Feb 2009 20:01

sisan
23 Feb 2009 11:35

if you are not in the mood to participate than just keep your sily remarks to yourselves, im tired of hearing this spelling *bleep!*, why dont's you just focus on your own mistakes than to judge me and my spelling errors, and angidingi ukuthi ngiphendule kunina about my mistakes, sometimes it just shows for other people how they were brought up, coz they attitudes sucks and aspecial to someone you've just met and have no idea of how they look and how well educated they are/not. so pls people in the future do not participate/reply to my articles if you are going to be this rude, coz it just a shame on you, this shows how short minded you are and you are even going out of the subject and not repliying to what being asked, you know yourselves that who you are, there is no need for me to mention names, ALL I CAN SAY IS THAT, YOU ARE NOT FORCED TO REPLY TO MY ARTICLES SO JUST DO NOT BOTHER, and as for you mjj, all i can do for you is just PRAY one day you will eventualy grow-up from that nasty attitude of yours which is not impressing at all, maybe it is to your fellow friends but to me SORRY

Nonny
23 Feb 2009 11:42

LOL

putsununuh
23 Feb 2009 11:49

sisan gal um sure bebengazi bathini love dont mind them or take lento personal we all make ama mistakes isho ungabheka their lines nabo bawenzile so ungabanaki well m glad ubatshelile nathi ngeke besasnamathela in future

mjj
23 Feb 2009 11:57

Me nasty? When an where? Please pray for me my sister, the power of a prayer is awesome, while at it also ask GOD to protect me from the Devil..... I love you and still waiting for you to come to my place for a prayer session.... Ps: I never joke about Prayer

sisan
23 Feb 2009 12:04

you nkow mjj sometimes you amaze me, it like you are out to get me, and next you are nice to me, who are you?

Sana Lwam
23 Feb 2009 12:18

kwa kwa kwa bwah bwah bwah tl tl tlt tl hehehehehhe

ms.tebby
23 Feb 2009 12:24

ROTFLMAO....MJJ so have a Joseph's coat of many colours!

ms.tebby
23 Feb 2009 12:26

sorry cancel the *a* just before Joseph

mjj
23 Feb 2009 12:31

Ms T - I give up now, how can you think someone who doesn't know you is out to get you......Sisan I love you and I invite you to my place for dinner and a prayer.....you can bring a friend if you want 2..... Sana Lwam- how you doing my sister in this beautiful Monday afternoon?

Sana Lwam
23 Feb 2009 12:36

I'm strong mjiza njengo mthandazo wo mama base Wesile. LOL

fashion disaster
23 Feb 2009 12:46

who would nt lie when they r caught out ?

Pinkpoodle
23 Feb 2009 12:50

lol@ fashion distaster as a username

Pinkpoodle
23 Feb 2009 12:54

A cheater will always be a cheater, i broke up with my bfriend a year ago and because he was cheating on me , and he has been trying to get back with me.
I stay in Mpumalanga and he is in Port Elizabeth, so yesterday he calls me and says hi did i leave my wallet there?? and i say hello he asks the same question and i then ask him are you sure its me you want to talk to , he just cut the phone and called later to say he thought it was a guy ... hello can you beleive how many times i said hello.. they will always lie

BigMama
23 Feb 2009 12:58

LOL@Mjj and Sana Lwam.........the two of you must get saved......

Sana Lwam
23 Feb 2009 13:01

hey Bigmomma

BigMama
23 Feb 2009 13:03

hey Sana, l see you are having a great Monday.

BigMama
23 Feb 2009 13:06

The poor kid is even using bold letters to prove that she is very upset. Sorry kid, don´t take any comments seriously on this site. Everyone is LOL

MAPHOSH
23 Feb 2009 14:19

YOU KNOW WHAT I HATE CHEATERS COZ THEY BREAK OUR HEARTS .......MY EX BOYFRIEND CHEATED & HER MISTRESS GOT PREGNANT .....MAN I WAS SO UPSET & I COULD'NT HOLD MY TEARS THE WHOLE DAY .WHEN I CONFRONTED HIM HE DENIED IT FOR MONTHS SAYING I'TS NOT HIS BABY BUT THE DNA PROVED IT WAS HIS BABY ........CHEATERS DON'T TELL THE TRUTH THEY ARE LIARERS ................

Ms. Jay
23 Feb 2009 14:21

Mjj and Sana - Sisan's 2 favorites...esp Mjj sorri sana!!

sisan
23 Feb 2009 14:28

LOL jael

mathata
23 Feb 2009 14:33

@sisan,im sorry i do feel you.

Ms. Jay
23 Feb 2009 14:35

yipeeeeeeeeeeeeeee you got my name right Sisan!!!!! you go girl!!!

zapiro
23 Feb 2009 14:39

Hi all.mina ngiyaxolisa Sisan and i will never do that again. im am soooo sorry!
I played along and now i see that it was not funny.

zapiro
23 Feb 2009 14:40

im am ..."i am " apologies