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Dating by Star Signs - Part 3

Written by maddie from the blog Dating by Star signs on 08 Apr 2009
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Hello beautiful people, this is the third installment of my horoscope articles.

I have decided to put all the star signs this time because of the demand and also that everyone can comment. This is not written on stones, it's just a guide, ENJOY

LIBRA 

No one is more romantic and inclined toward the one-to-one relationship than Libra. Libra literally uses the relationship as a mirror, as having another person around to reflect things off reinforces Libra’s feeling of being alive. The one problem Libra has is accepting that not all romances turn out the way they would like. Sometimes this happens because Libra doesn’t put enough work into the relationship, but most of the time it occurs because Libra expects a lot more from a partner than most people are willing to give. Libra needs a strong personality in a partner; someone who keeps enforcing boundaries and showing Libra that there’s a lot to be gained by using one’s initiative. Mental stimulation is very important to Libra too. A relationship partner must be able to relate to Libra’s refined mind, and also be prepared to help Libra make decisions. In return, Libra’s partner will receive the kind of love most of us only dream about, as well as a best friend for life. 

ARIES

Aries people need partners that help them keep their inner fire under control. This aggressive, impulsive personality grates at some people and enlivens others. The Ram delights in physical activity and is a passionate lover, but Aries’ selfish tendencies can often interfere with romantic prospects. Love is a give-and-take proposition, and much to Aries’ dismay, life isn’t always all about them. When there’s a dispute, Aries people like to clear the air. Their tempers can go off with the force of an atomic bomb, but once they’ve made their point, they forgive and forget with ease. Sometimes it’s hard to pin Aries people down long enough to make them listen to what you have to say. Even when they’re sitting still they will shake their legs or twiddle their thumbs. They’re always on the move, and they change hobbies and interests as often as they change their clothing. Their unpredictability is sometimes enough to make you want to pull your hair out! But there is one thing about them that you can depend on: life with an Aries person is never, ever dull or boring.
TAURUS

Taurus needs a partner who will reinforce feelings of comfort and familiarity. Also, Taurus needs someone who’s willing to stand on principle, and hopefully, prevent Taurus from getting stuck in a rut. Taurus can become very bossy in a one-on-one relationship, so this “my way or the highway” approach would be best met by at least as much persistence and vigor. Taurus also needs a partner who encourages deeper analysis of people’s feelings and motivations. Taurus can easily be caught in the material aspect of life, and unless someone is able to nudge Taurus into occasional encounters with emotion and spirituality, Taurus would be missing some very important aspects of life. Because Taurus is ruled by Venus, it’s especially important for this pleasure-seeking person to feel “good” about a relationship. In general, Taurus’ stability makes for a person who is easily domesticated and an ideal marriage partner, so long as the Taurus person can be drawn away from a self-centered existence that consists mainly of keeping things just the way they are. 

GEMINI

Gemini needs variety, so originality and versatility in a partner are the most important attractions. Also, Gemini needs a partner (or partners) who won’t require constant attention and devotion. Gemini’s restless nature is tuned into the mood of the moment, so these mentally oriented souls will often find happiness is keeping more than one person close at any given time. Gemini rarely has only one “best friend”, and has been known to love more than one person at a time. Obviously the partner Gemini bonds with will have to be able to tolerate being left alone from time to time. Gemini needs almost constant stimulation, so this is the kind of person who will almost have the television, radio or audio system on. They also like to stay connected to their network of friends, so Gemini’s partner might find that many conversations get interrupted by cell phone calls and “urgent” e mails that have nothing to do with what’s being discussed. To keep Gemini’s interest, make the effort to follow the constantly changing sea of ideas that emanates from this fascinating person’s mind. 


CANCER

Most Cancer people are looking for someone to nest with – for a VERY long time. This is probably the most loyal sign there is, but all this love and devotion can come at a price. These emotional souls need almost constant reassurance, and they don’t let go easily. They can become fiercely jealous and possessive if they don’t get enough attention. Once the Cancer person matures, the desire to nest and have children becomes all consuming. It’s important for the person who falls in love with Cancer to realize that Cancer will get very serious about the relationship very quickly. Cancer is a self-starter, and will take action to prevent anything bad from happening to a loved one. Their protective nurturing can be very comforting to a partner, and Cancer will try to arrange things so the partner cannot live without Cancer’s love and support. Being coddled, cared for and smothered in unconditional love isn’t such a bad thing, so many of other zodiac signs delight in being swaddled by Cancer’s brand of TLC. 

LEO

Leo’s strong personality can intimidate potential love partners, but once the surface bravado is penetrated, anyone can see that this is one of the zodiac’s most soft-hearted characters. Leo can be showy and self-centered, but Leo can also be extremely warm and generous. Leos have so much energy that it can’t help but emanate outwardly to the people they want to share their lives with. This makes Leo a very desirable partner. What Leo needs is a person who can tolerate the shows of ego and see through them for what they are: an attempt to let the world know that Leo’s love is available – all a person needs to do to get it is just say “thank you!’. There are lots of ways of doing that, but among Leo’s favorites are lavish praise, ego-boosting compliments and long, adoring massages!
As a lover, Leo is dramatic and demonstrative. Again, lavish praise will get you extra attention, and your appreciation will be met with additional hours of pampering in the Royal Bed Chambers. 

VIRGO

Virgo places a very high priority on relationship and takes it extremely seriously. But the person who becomes involved with a Virgo will have to realize that there is more duty involved in Virgo’s feelings than there is emotional abandon. Virgo doesn’t like to lose control of any situation. So although it’s possible to have a very satisfying relationship with a person born under this sign, it’s a good idea to realize they don’t respond well to purely emotional appeals. Virgo needs to know that a relationship will produce practical returns. And to this service-oriented person, that translates to partner who will be willing to be subjected to Virgo’s improvement program. Virgo will constantly be concerned with making things as perfect as possible, and that includes the partner’s looks, personality and business dealings. As long as you don’t mind having a (very loving and thoughtful) constant caretaker telling you how to run your life, a relationship with Virgo could be a very good thing! 

SCORPIO

Scorpio has a reputation for being one of the scariest signs in the zodiac, but this intense sign is much gentler than many people believe. The tough façade these people put on is there to protect the deep sensitivity that lies beneath the surface. Scorpios want to be loved so desperately that their relationship partners often find themselves being controlled and manipulated into doing things they would never do if they were asked outright. Making relationship partners “prove” their love is one of Scorpio’s ways of making sure that they’re getting the love they really want. Being loved and admired is essential to Scorpio. It’s the one thing that might make them feel secure (well, almost!). To handle a Scorpio, the romantic partner must be clever and willful, and strong enough to make Scorpio own up to the little manipulation games that go on. The reward for all this work is the most satisfying sex life imaginable. Scorpio is capable of deep emotional intimacy and incredible levels of sexual satisfaction.

SAGITTARIUS

Sagittarius has a lot of drive to make partnerships, but it’s very hard for them to stay put in one place for two long. It’s not that this dynamic sign isn’t loyal; it’s that they are just so curious about everything the world has to offer, they might not make their relationship their first priority. Because of this, the best match for Sagittarius is a person who has enough of a life outside the relationship to keep life interesting while Sagittarius is off on individual adventures. Sadge’s partner needs to have a hearty physical constitution, too, or at least an interest in sports and games of all kinds. The other thing Sagittarius seeks in a partner is someone whose intellect is active, and who is interested in a wide variety of topics and talking points. Conversations with this wise but whacky person can meander along some surprising paths, so flexibility is another key to keeping Sadge happy. In return, the lucky partner gets the joy of the laughter and light that comes from simply knowing a Sagittarian


CAPRICORN

Capricorn isn’t complicated at all, but there are lots of pleasant surprises that await the unsuspecting potential partner. Besides being ambitious, hard-working and responsible, Capricorn is also extremely sexy. Under the cool, professional and unemotional exterior, many Capricorn people conceal an earthy, pleasure-seeking, sensual hedonist. But just because they enjoy sex, don’t pigeon-hole the serious Capricorn into the “pervert” category. What they’re really working for is a happy domestic life. Capricorn seeks someone who will provide a warm and secure home base. This person must also be extremely dependable, and have the desire to follow family traditions. Capricorn works hard to build a solid foundation that can always be counted on, so any prospective partner must be willing to follow through on this ambitious plan. And of course, the idea that Capricorn dishes out some of the most delicious sex there is can be an ample reward in itself.

AQUARIUS

Aquarius needs an equal partner who’s strong enough to pursue a life that’s somewhat separate from the relationship. Aquarius can be a very committed lover, but only when it fits in between the rest of the activities Aquarius is so fervently involved in. The right partner for this independent soul will be very secure, yet able to make occasional sacrifices for the sake of Aquarius’ special causes. Aquarius is often accused of being emotionally cold, but it really isn’t the case. They just don’t like to be involved in or affected by the drama that emotionally insecure people can bring to them. Aquarius wants to find ways that the entire world can benefit from knowledge and ideas. It’s hard for an Aquarian to tolerate a person who is so irrational and insecure that they would think their feelings matter me than the good of society. To keep an Aquarius, the partner must be alert and intellectually stimulating. In bed, all Aquarius asks for is someone to hold and demonstrate an ability to sink all that compassion and vision into an excruciatingly sensuous love-making session. 

PISCES

Pisces is the most gentle sign in the zodiac, and they approach love very gingerly. They realize that the union between two human beings can bring them closer to the divine experience, and so they seek out a partner who will have a similar belief. Unfortunately for Pisces, they live in a rather ideal world, and often get their feelings hurt when they find it so difficult to achieve this deep a union with the people they meet. They really need to find people who are willing- and capable- of taking care of them. This isn’t because they’re weak. This is because Pisces is always taking care of other people, and they often don’t have the desire to come down to earth and work on the practical areas of life that concern other signs. What Pisces has to offer a partner is a gentle, constant love that goes far beyond what most humans are willing or capable of achieving.
















42 Comments

maddie
08 Apr 2009 11:00

warning: this blog is long

Cande
08 Apr 2009 11:04

Just read Libra, and its tru abt me

dali
08 Apr 2009 11:18

thanx maddie!!!!!!!

tru i did not think im leaving in my ideal world......... i want the perfect man so i dump a guy immediately if i sense that he's taking me fo a ride, i dont want a man who just wants sex, i want a man whose gonna be evrything to me and more and if i cant have that then im fine with being single. sho i guess its tru then that we pisceans live in dream land.

dali
08 Apr 2009 11:20

so which star sign does pisces match with maddie?

Best-Achiever
08 Apr 2009 11:34

well i dont take interest in stars but what is said about sagittarius is Very true .

TheLady
08 Apr 2009 11:40

I understand why I am still friends with most of my exes...I am a Libra after all. I just don't do ama vase-hell no brothaman better be freakin intelligent!!!

Pooky
08 Apr 2009 11:41

Being loved and admired is essential to Scorpio.
very essential....most of what  is said is true

Zah000
08 Apr 2009 11:44

Being loved and admired is essential to Scorpio.
true dat

Scorpio is capable of deep emotional intimacy and incredible levels of sexual satisfaction. 
hehehehe *clearing my throat*

maddie
08 Apr 2009 11:53

@ cande and TheLady

I recently met this Libra guy who's very interested but I cant because of my commitment.

what a gentleman! i have never ever cuddled with a guy and felt like i'm in heaven like I did with him. yhoo have u seen an  expression on a baby's face while sleeping on it's mother's bosom, i felt that and it was scary.

he'll never come on to you forcefully, he's gentleman in a true sense of the word

@dali
 try taurus and scorpio

TheLady
08 Apr 2009 11:56

hmm Libra + Libra...I have never done one, my best friend is a Libra-gosh he just loves women-if it wears a bra he'll have it...

Zothile
08 Apr 2009 11:57

Capricorn dishes out some of the most delicious sex there is can be an ample reward in itself. 

I miss my man already...Can't wait for the day to end...


tizoz
08 Apr 2009 12:00

Sagg glorious Sagg oh how wonderful you are!

People I am a saggitarian and I am dating a Saggitarian WTF! it works and it doesnt work but I love it cause it is two crazy individuals... strange enough I dated Leo's and Vorgos before Dang those people are a headache!

myname
08 Apr 2009 12:01

As long as you don’t mind having a (very loving and thoughtful) constant caretaker telling you how to run your life, a relationship with Virgo could be a very good thing!  Its very true. I know for a fact. I dated many Virgos!!

I become speechless ngesam istar. I am a Leo baby.

Lbg
08 Apr 2009 12:03

Am an Aquarian and I used to date a Sagi we were to busy pursing our things so it couldn't work out.......so I guess this is true somewhat.

dali
08 Apr 2009 12:06

maddie there's a taurus guy whose just submmitted his cv wow maybe i should give him a chance............ if this works out maddie i'll invite u to ma wedding as the guest speaker!..........LOL

cleve
08 Apr 2009 12:08

Gosh it's so true about Scorpio's. I am a scorpio and most of the things said there are true! So beware the sting.

Pooky
08 Apr 2009 12:11

Scorpio is capable of deep emotional intimacy and incredible levels of sexual satisfaction.
hehehehe *clearing my throat* 
LOL @ Zah00.....
the fire in me scares the sh@t out of me sometimes LOL...

Zah000
08 Apr 2009 12:13

@ Pooky are you also Scorpio dear??

Pooky
08 Apr 2009 12:16

yes i'm a Scorpio Zah00

tizoz
08 Apr 2009 12:18

maddie there's a taurus guy whose just submmitted his cv wow maybe i should give him a chance............ 

Alarm bells.... boredom!!!!!!!!!!

Zah000
08 Apr 2009 12:19

*Heeeyyyy* Pooky. And do you know how sharp a Scorpio's sting is?? Sometimes it scares me too

maddie
08 Apr 2009 12:26

i  have a girl friend of mine who is also a scorpio and i know about that sting.
 luckily for us we don't take things personally, there's no pretending in our friendship, she's the best, i'll tell her when her hair looks bad, her house, her face, her outfit and she'll never take things personally.

@dali

please don't mention astrology to your potential, give it a try and let urself experience a relationship with him, remember that things like a person's background might also come into play, but all in all this is a strong match

TheLady
08 Apr 2009 12:29

oh dali-you are already thinking wedding bells??

maddie
08 Apr 2009 12:31

oh dali-you are already thinking wedding bells?? @ TheLady

she's a pisces after all

felfel
08 Apr 2009 12:33

Maddie didn't you post another article before this one about characters of other star signs like u did with Gemini,  i don't see it on right hand side.

Pooky
08 Apr 2009 12:39

...but i must say, i'm one of the sweetest , loving and  most sensitive scorpios you'll ever find...i dont sting.....................unless if you ask me too LOL

dali
08 Apr 2009 12:40

TL u wanna come to ma wedding?????????? ill also write an article about wedding songs, so mabloggers start compiling!

THANX AGAIN MADDIE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! but i'll wait fo him to call me, i wont call him.

Zah000
08 Apr 2009 12:42

...but i must say, i'm one of the sweetest , loving and most sensitive scorpios you'll ever find...i dont sting.....................unless if you ask me too LOL

i know exactly what you mean *wink*, lol

Lela
08 Apr 2009 12:46

I don't beleve in the stars but what is said about the one i'm supposed to fall under( Virgo)is true.

maddie
08 Apr 2009 13:05

@felfel

i wanted to profile each star sign into depth like I did with gemini and her compatibility with other signs but then i guess it's more nicer putting them altogether in that way everyone is included

sharsk
08 Apr 2009 13:11

The Lady, you Must try a Libra,coz I am also one. They are the best lovers ever. Unfortunately, I lost my 2 exes who where Libra's.

maddie
08 Apr 2009 13:11

I don't beleve in the stars but what is said about the one i'm supposed to fall under( Virgo)is true.

I never used to believe in stars as well but my profile was so spot on, it was better than paying a shrink to analyse ur behaviour, i don't do the daily, weekly, monthly and yearly forecast though

GML
08 Apr 2009 15:22

I'm Aquarius is so true. I hate being emotional because there so much drama involved in that. And I cannot stand it when people cry because I cannot hold them and tell them alles is gonna be fine. Commited yes, I cannot stand cheating- I just dont see myself with more that 1 guy. I would get caught within days

Nonny
08 Apr 2009 15:39

Pooky mzala I can't believe u're a scorpio, scorpios love keeping secrets so much!!!!

Pooky
08 Apr 2009 16:26

hawu mzala wam ubungayazi kanti...

DJ Why why
08 Apr 2009 18:00

@ Maddie, is there anyways of knowing who is better paired up with who?

Cnglemother
08 Apr 2009 20:18

How do people handle virgo women those people are hard to please?such perfectionists its scary.they dont settle for second best and hate it when they lose control.they are so goal-orientated.im a cancerian i can relate to the above,raising a virgo young man.

Mafresh
09 Apr 2009 09:24

Cnglemother, I am 1 of those pushy women, but pleasing me is so easy, I just love flowers nje. I agree gore I also like things to go my way and iyavuka icompetition ne!!! I am trying not to loose control though its not easy.

maddie
09 Apr 2009 09:36

is there anyways of knowing who is better paired up with who?

I can do that DJ wHY wHY but it's going to be a long blog cos I'll have to do for all star signs

TerryN
09 Apr 2009 09:56

Taurus would be missing some very important aspects of life. 

which is??

Kakapana
09 Apr 2009 10:16

freaky how true this is....

odie
09 Apr 2009 10:40

you can say that again Kakapana - GEMINI so true


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