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Never date your friends ex boyfriend

Written by ANGELIC.SMILE from the blog How embarresing? on 30 Apr 2009
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HAYI AVE NIPHAPHA I HAVENT EVEN WRITTEN MY ARTICLE SENIG NIKA YOUR'LLS TWO CENT COMMENT MXIM

Anyway to people who can wait...I think that your friends ex boyfriend is off limits because firslty you will date this guy because you wanted him when he was dating your friend but you dont ask yourself that why is he with you now? because he saw your friend first not you so basically you just a REBOUND or his way of getting his ex gf back through making her jealous with you, so you dont mean swat to him.

I've had a problem with a friend of mine who always waitsd for me to dump the guy then she makes a move on him I mean wat is dat? Aint here a GIRL CODE prohibiting that or somethng? If not well there should be. 

The story goes like this I dumped this guy because I just wasnt feeling him anymore and she found her so called happiness in him when she told him she loved him and they dated and she was hiding it from me because apparenlty he said he didnt wanna hurt me....yeah right, until they even had sex. Only to find out from me a week later that he was still busy asking me for love back all along and when I told her I just saw her face fall the dissapointment in her eyes was recking even for me. Then she started telling me the sorted truth but left out the part that she was the one who aproached him, I then decided to confront him, I mean how can he play her like that? 
He gave me the line that she gave herself to him and even had IT with him thinking he4 would love her but he doesn't and I didn't know he had it in him to embarres her in front of all his friends and me the way he did. He said that; THIS IS THE WAY WE TREAT SLUTS LIKE YOU WHO CANT KEEP THEIR HANDS OFF THIER FRIEND'S BF WE USE THEM AND THROW THEM..JUST THE WAY IT IS DEAL WITH IT!!
We all were like what the F*** how can you say that but it was too late she was crying and now I had to comfort her..nci nci nci things we girls do for our friends...And get this she did it again and got hurt again but there I wasn't there to pic up the pieces I was fed up!!! theres only so much I can take.. What I mean is never put yourself in this position ever... KEEP YOUR HANDS OFF!!! 



74 Comments

LM
30 Apr 2009 15:43

mathata
30 Apr 2009 15:46

what?aowa.

JadaPinkett
30 Apr 2009 15:53

en then?

Sobza
30 Apr 2009 15:57

Devilish.smile:

HARAMBE24
30 Apr 2009 15:59

Vtsek...

Cande
30 Apr 2009 16:00

shame angelic.smile, try again. will like to read ur article

felfel
30 Apr 2009 16:01



ARTICLE STILL IN PROGRESS ...........(i take it)

xobho
30 Apr 2009 16:03

LAUGHING MY ASS OUT>>>>>ROLLING ON FLOOR LAUGHUNG MY ASS OUT....lol

A very interesting topic i must say...nice article as well

Sobza
30 Apr 2009 16:14

Halt....Angelic.Smile......the topic has been covered before. We've discussed it and sidikiwe. I guess you are still new on TVSA....baby steps, you will get there. 

Its all your fault LM....Angelic.Smile ebezidlalela and then you replied....embarassing Angelic.Smile in the process.

myname
30 Apr 2009 16:23

ja nheee

HARAMBE24
30 Apr 2009 16:24

Like i said, Angelic or not: VTSEK..ke masepa fela mo/////

mathata
30 Apr 2009 16:46

a matala.

Dimago
04 May 2009 16:33

LOL @ VTSEK

ANGELIC.SMILE
06 May 2009 10:08

You

ANGELIC.SMILE
06 May 2009 10:08

You too

ANGELIC.SMILE
06 May 2009 10:09

@ HARAMBE24 you imbecile why couldnt you just wait instead of your s*** comment

Zubekho
06 May 2009 10:27

LOL

JadaPinkett
06 May 2009 10:48

tooooooooooooooooooooo late

ANGELIC.SMILE
06 May 2009 10:53

@cheesa PHELA SOME PEOPLE HAVE NO SHAME WHAT SO EVER SO THEY JUST TELL YOU I'VE WATCHED HER DO IT AND QUIET FRANKLY NOW I JUST DONT FEEL SORRY FOR HER AGAIN

belz
06 May 2009 10:58

Omolaile.

Sana Lwam
06 May 2009 11:15

@ANGELIC.SMILE - how old are you and the friend and how old is the boyfriend?

ANGELIC.SMILE
06 May 2009 11:20

Im 19 my friend just turned 20 and my ex is 19 aswell

Sana Lwam
06 May 2009 11:25

OooooKkkkkAaaaYyyy now I understand.
I mean only teen boys call women sluts & only only teenage gals can cry about that.

HARAMBE24
06 May 2009 11:32

kwakwakwakwa...Angelic ngwana ke wena..U DO NOT PUBLISH an article B4 u write..that is why ne re bitcha...u pulished masepa a gao before there was an article inside...get sumone to teach u how to upload an article....

Sana Lwam: so true, frankly nna i am sick and tired of kids like Angelic turning TVSA into a Dear Sis Dolly section..hai suka man...

belz
06 May 2009 11:49

Hayi maan Harambe, please leave Angy alone, kaloku she is young and she needs guidance, LOL wena Sana Lwam, advice kaloku.

cleve
06 May 2009 11:52

Angelic, this is seriously a kiddies issue and when you look back you will see what I mean.

HARAMBE24
06 May 2009 11:56

LOL@ CLEVE
HAI Belz: these can turn umuntu off TVSA mani....

Pooky
06 May 2009 12:01

just stay away from boys  Angelic until you are in your late thirties, both u & ur friend, i've heard they come in handy when you reach that stage

monchooza
06 May 2009 12:07

at 19 ntombazani you should be focusing on your studies.....not umjolo..thank gaad i'm not your father

Pooky
06 May 2009 12:13

Monchooza wawungajoli wena when you were 19?? lol

Sana Lwam
06 May 2009 12:14

I mean I don’t understand what we should advise the Angelic one on>>> She has made the statement clear from the beginning that “Never date your friends ex boyfriend” manje?
Futhi why is she so concerned about tsala ya gage. Sisi wake up! This “sl#t” sidle i ex-ndoda yakho all you can do is now to vuma monna wa gage and you will be even.

JadaPinkett
06 May 2009 12:14

bathi u shouldn't worrying abt boyfriend ..ha ha lol..how do u feel abt dat Angy..bathi usamncane kakhulu ukthi usunsaqoma tltltltltltltltltt

KK 2008
06 May 2009 12:18

so true, frankly nna i am sick and tired of kids like Angelic turning TVSA into a Dear Sis Dolly section..hai suka man...Kwakwakwakwakwakwa Hariri!!!!!

cleve
06 May 2009 12:19

bathi u shouldn't worrying abt boyfriend ..ha ha lol..how do u feel abt dat Angy..bathi usamncane kakhulu ukthi usunsaqoma tltltltltltltltltt

No
JP, I am saying that she shouldn't take these petty issues seriously at such a young age that she even writes an article about it.

blueroze
06 May 2009 12:27

this is teenage talk right there....girl code.....love back...confronting you ex for moving on

He gave me the line that she gave herself to him and even had IT with him thinking he4 would love her but he doesn't and I didn't know he had it in him to embarres her in front of all his friends and me the way he did.

this for me is teenage talk right
this is not for me
let me walk on by>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

belz
06 May 2009 12:30

LOL!!!!

HARAMBE24
06 May 2009 12:32

Ngwana ga tsebe lerete shem...what kind of a penis willa  19 year old boy have, ist still limp....Angelic...focus on ure studies, you will grow up and we will teach u how to give  BJ.....then ure a big gal...now, stop playing with boys whinnies...they cum 2 fast...

sewaqonywa
06 May 2009 12:36

i'll never ever

monchooza
06 May 2009 12:37

LOL harambe

HARAMBE24
06 May 2009 12:44

I am mean really now, the last thing i wanna c is  a 19 year old penis...it lacks confidence and i cant blow it with decency...LOL...

belz
06 May 2009 12:46

hahahahahahahahaha Harambe, guys please go easy on Ang. bathong poor baby. but Angy le wenna, hanging on TVSA should have taught that such things cant be done, you cant be confrotning boys,lol.

KK 2008
06 May 2009 12:47

tl...tl...tl...Harambe24 is killing me today...True though Angelic (not so Angelic afterall)...they cum 2 fast...LOL

odie
06 May 2009 12:52

Harambe rra. mo itshwarele ke ngwana. 

JadaPinkett
06 May 2009 12:52

<<what kind of a penis willa 19 year old boy have>> .........Iyo oooooooooooooooooooo ngizithulele njalo angisho lutho.

Sana Lwam
06 May 2009 12:55

ROTFLMAO@ hariri

Pooky
06 May 2009 12:56

what kind of a penis willa 19 year old boy have
now, stop playing with boys whinnies...they cum 2 fast...
LMAO
Harambe have mercy on the poor child

HARAMBE24
06 May 2009 13:00

No bathong..this poor child needs lessons...who dare she insults me ka gore: @ HARAMBE24 you imbecile why couldnt you just wait instead of your s*** comment

Ke ngwana wa o se jewe..do you guys know that she wrote sum stupid boring thing about Guys viginity..about her being 19 and the guy being 22 and he is  avirgin...honey, that was a lie - he just wanted to do you...lol

gale sela re tshwara marete a batho re sa hlanye...LOL...JadaPinkett: boa hle my love, missed ure fab self....

Cande
06 May 2009 13:06

19 year old? nc nc nc you guys are still children, you not supposed to be having sex besides teenagers are supposed to do what this boy did.

Pooky
06 May 2009 13:10

and that article about the 22 yr old virgin was written on 3 April and this one about the 19 yr old on the 30th... just leave these boys maan youngone and focus on your studies and going to the mall, hai abantwana balemihla nkos'yam

belz
06 May 2009 13:10

LOL @ teenage relationships.

belz
06 May 2009 13:11

LOL!!! Pooky, no man they should jsut focus on studies ekhaya, badika kwakhona nasemall.

ANGELIC.SMILE
06 May 2009 13:14

Yeah yeah...yes mom yes dad, guys ease up damn it was just a point I was making and a valid one too. you should never date your friends ex ever.. As for the young baby what what ai cha you guys are old ngampela teenagers of the age 15 are having sex and I think 19 is old enough..tltlttltltl 
And mina nokujola anever ngiyeke I wanna marry sengiright not cheat on my husband just because angiku dlanga ubusha bami....hahahahaha talk about over protective well I m happy to put yourl at ease I am consertrating on my studies and its going very well IF i MAY SAY SO MYSELF... BUT ANYWAY THANX FOR BEING CONCERNED IF THATS WHAT YOU WERE DOING... OK TEACH ME HOW TO RIGHT AN ARTICLE AND ABOUT WHAT KE AND YES I AM NEW ON TVSA AND OLD OR YOUNG EVEN IF I WERE TO BE A TODDLER IM HERE TO STAY.

Zubekho
06 May 2009 13:23

LoL

monchooza
06 May 2009 13:23

Cande are you doing teenagers?? LOL

awelani
06 May 2009 13:24

LMBAO....Hariri,, ndi ni funa zwone,, kwakwakwakwa,,,

Pooky
06 May 2009 13:26

And mina nokujola anever ngiyeke I wanna marry sengiright not cheat on my husband just because angiku dlanga ubusha bami....hahahahaha 

uphi uMjj nomthandazo nkos'onofefe.......hayi ngehlulekile, ntombam i hope you practice safe ke since you're hell bent on not stopping ukudliwa till you setis

u4me
06 May 2009 13:29

i have enough reasons to refrain 4rom writing any article or revealing my age. why are you traumatising the gal now, please guys go soft on her

Cande
06 May 2009 13:32

no Monchooza, in my high school days boys acted this way and it was acceptable

ANGELIC.SMILE
06 May 2009 13:33

i didnt say ukudliwa I meant dating lol you guys have some imaginations tjo.... Maybe I do need a prayer lmao tltltltltltl heaven forbid my sinful soul and yes POOKY its always safe and I've only had sex with about 2 guys now so I don't think Im dat bad hey...

DJ Why why
06 May 2009 13:35

I am mean really now, the last thing i wanna c is a 19 year old penis...it lacks confidence and i cant blow it with decency...LOL...

Kwa kwa kwa kw ak wka wkw a, iyo! hamba TVSA

belz
06 May 2009 13:36

Angel, seek guidance from your church elders child, God loves you.

ANGELIC.SMILE
06 May 2009 13:37

I think there are girls younger than me and more permisciuos in ever sense that need a prayer...lol... funny how I always preach about abstaining now and I've started guess your prayers are answered I've been clean for about a month and plan on keeping it dat way and plus Im not tempted so yep

JadaPinkett
06 May 2009 13:39

i didnt say ukudliwa I meant dating lol you guys have some imaginations tjo.... Maybe I do need a prayer lmao tltltltltltl heaven forbid my sinful soul and yes POOKY its always safe and I've only had sex with about 2 guys now so I don't think Im dat bad hey...  No no no gal 2 boyz in the age of 19 plz choma tell me u jokin.............u mean usudliwe/usuhlatshwe  abafana ababili abahlukene.mnx but i know u jokin luv

ANGELIC.SMILE
06 May 2009 13:41

lol belz why don't you try giving me guidence and if you fail i'll go to mama umfundisi from church bangaze ba prophete ngami lol i can just imagine

ANGELIC.SMILE
06 May 2009 13:44

im telling you jada i was in a long term relationship for about 3years and he was my first time at age 18... then this 21year old that was only in march...tltltltltltl im not joking

Green.arrow
06 May 2009 13:46

And mina nokujola anever ngiyeke I wanna marry sengiright not cheat on my husband just because angiku dlanga ubusha bami...".......our society mara...

otherwise...write on sweety....write on...

maud
06 May 2009 13:49

hayi people stop scaring umtwana, bantu, mina Angie at the age of 19 besengine soccer club already, but remember i Aids ibingakaziwa or should i say bengingakayazi mina.

about your Article, all the reasons i dont post any articles here, uma ungenanthliziyo uzofa.

ANGELIC.SMILE
06 May 2009 13:54

lol maud and fortunately for me I've learnt to deal with these people well Im trying

zozoe
06 May 2009 14:25

@ANGIE not that we are telling you wat to do but you still young school school  go to school ausi there still time coming you gonna enjoy yourself and for your record one day you will regret you ever known lerete when you reach 25 coz the way odirang ka gona u scare me ( written out of love not the show off )

babetm
06 May 2009 14:48

yaaa neee!

cleve
06 May 2009 15:03

Angelic Smile, I don't care how many guys you have slept with. Who am I to judge you on how many guys you should have slept with before the age of 21. It's okay love, as long as you are not taking it serious and let things play themselves out.

Dlala wena ntombi as long as you are protected ntombi!!! That's all

sewaqonywa
04 Aug 2009 16:01

sewaqonywa
04 Aug 2009 16:01

VusiK
05 Aug 2009 00:14

Yahhhh Neeee Mense!!!

Children ...

Someone please hold her hand ... Shame

Sorry my dear, at 19 or 20, everyone's going to sample the morsels on your plate, it is called growing pains.


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