Ja ne! It's been a long time for JP to create an article so guys let's share our ideas about gossiping.
As we all know that we live in a world of gossiping ….Today I would like us to share our feeling about gossiping………en I only came up with three thngz that we mostly gossip about which is
- Family Gossiping
- Gossiping at work
- Friends gossiping
Okey I think whoever in this blog do have a family and we how important it is to have a family. From our first memories to our last, family will be leading the way. The ties that bind families together are mysterious and undeniable. In order to have a family that is functional, all the family members need to treat one another with respect. Gossiping about a family member is very disrespectful and I’m sure that everybody in their family have this one person who is very good at gossiping which is not right. When a family member is gossiping about you, it is alright to feel angry, shocked and betrayed but don’t got an talk to whoever just because you looking for a sympathy ... You can do something about it………..or u may just confront a gossiping family member because the time you go around telling other people about your family won’t help but you just making things very worst and let them basizakele ngefamily yakho.
Here again……Gossiping at work………what wrong kanti about people with gossiping can’t you just confront your colleagues or who ever you hav a problem with other than talking about her/him behind his/her –come on guyz let’s grow up….gossiping at work it’s most embarrassing part especially if you're talking about your coworkers negatively can make you look bad
When you're indulging in workplace gossip, your words could be interpreted as a description of your own personality and actions.
How Workplace Gossip Affects You
Perhaps you're aware that your words can crush, frighten, enrage or annoy people – but what do they do to you? There are three types of stress-inducing words that can break your spirit, sabotage your goals, and damage your health.Talking about your coworkers negatively don't just spread negativity and make you look bad, they affect your physical health. And another thing we must learn to differiantate work and your colleagues private life.
And the last one most annoying gossiping is Friends
Tjo! Kuyafiwa phela la …………abachomza ay shame they can create a nice story about their other frnd. Well gossip is, simply put, talk about a person or people behind their backs. Most of the time, gossip is not even fact, but rather speculation about a person's private life or situations in their life.
Why do we to ruin our do u have to go around around and talk bad things about your while u promised her/him that you say anything about. Don’t you think that she/he’s telling you because she/he trust you very well.
Why do u have to make you make friend feel betrayed at all times. If your friend has trusted you with a secret or with personal information, if they find out you have betrayed their trust and gossiped about it, they will feel betrayed by someone they thought was their friend. Once trust in any type of relationship is damaged, it is very difficult to get it back…So plz jst be a good friend………hau kwakutheni ngani nihlale nihleba nje.
Well they will be suspicious of you. If you have gossiped about a friend, they will be less likely to go to you in times of need for fear that you will tell others about their problems, or gossip about what you think their problems are caused by. Emve kawloko bese uthi wena bayakuzonda abantu while u the one who’s causing it.
So plz ma bloggers do the following and let’s hear what answrs u got from you.
- Ask yourself why you gossip.
- Is it because you want attention?
- Are you using it as a way to bond with people?
Cheers!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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