Is there a rule somewhere that states the right time to shag someone you really like?
Well I know the Bible says
sex before marriage is a sin but hey let us talk about what we are really experiencing now. Why I bring this up is because there is a notion that guys meet girls to get laid and girls get laid to get guys. This issue has been going on ever since we were teenagers. Teenage girls will feel pressured to give up their innocence in order to keep the guys in relationships with them. The sad thing is that the guys will then leave them or cheat on them.
Does this change with age? Do grown men stay in relationships no matter when they get into bed with their female counterparts? I stand to be corrected but I don’t think so. Will you let a moment OR an opportunity of passionate lovemaking, multiple orgasms and Kamasutra positions pass you by because you feel it is too soon? Do you believe it is best to build up the anticipation by taking it slow and get to know him better before you introduce him to your treasure island? What happens once you have created this bond between you two and then comes the special moment of taking the relationship to the next level only to realize the two of you are sexually incompatible?
It is said that men are hunters and like to chase after what they can’t get. Apparently if something comes too easily to them they loose interest too quickly. If a woman gives up too soon the man will think that she does that with all men. On the contrary if the woman plays hard to get and takes longer to give him what he wants, once he gets her he feels victorious and get to appreciate her more.
This is all kak. It does not really matter when a woman gives it up. Whether you sleep with a man on the first date or after the twelfth date, if he is not into you he is not into you. The woman can be a sex goddess on the first night and instead of being appreciated for bending and twisting in different ways she will be judged by the lucky bugger. She can also decide to keep her lock on her panties for months and months and finally unlock it for the guy she feels deserves her and then suddenly something from the guy’s past comes up. He then has an excuse to break up with her.
This boils down to one question again. When is the right time to f#*! the guy you like. I am not talking about the one you met at a club when you were highly intoxicated. That one is not worth it because chances are you are not even going to remember or experience the orgasms you had that drunken night. I am talking about the guy who makes your heart skip a bit. The guy you kind of pictured cooking with or doing something together. Well men take time to picture you that way. They tend to spend 100% of the time thinking about getting laid before they picture you in a white dress.
Ladies when do you think is the right time to give it up? Do you give it up for love or just pleasure? Guys does it really matter when and why does she give it up?