Zolx might have disable da replies on that "Was I rude"article....kodwa inyani yona kufuneka siyithethile, ukrwada uZolx qha.
So the discussion continues
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K...since there's nothing interesting today on tvsa i thot i should tell my story and find out from you bloggers if the way i handled this was rude or appropriate even if i cant change it now.
My son is spending his school holidays with his daddy and step-mom who are helping pay his fees every now and then. THing is daddy isnt really hands on cos he just sends money and doesnt phone to find out how my son is doing (he can phone him directly cos he has a phone).
NOw the problem is last night i get sms's from step-mommy (she's the one i normally deal with when it comes to money and when they phone to ask if they can pick up my son for a weekend/ holidays). The sms asks if my son passed his June exam and i reply by saying i will send the report today, either by email or fax. THe woman (step-mommy) replies and says i should send the report to her. IN other words "dont you dare make contact with my man". i got a bit pissed off and swore before going to bed that i was gonna give it to them bobabili today...i didnt want a fight just before going to bed in case i got insomnia :)
So first thing i do when i get to work today is i send them this email (well i addressed it to the daddy and cc'd the wife) and it looked something like this:
"I hope you're both well. I have to get a few things out of the way before I talk about the attached report and it is in response to the sms you sent last night.
1. My son (lets call him Boy)has a mom and a dad, that'll be me naweDaddy- not 2 mothers, mna noStepmom - so by this I mean izinto zikaBoy I will discuss with utata kaBoy uDaddy - you can tell your wife or whoever after that I don’t really care. But mna I will discuss izinto zikaBoywith you, Daddy as Boy's parent and njengomntu who wanted to be part of your son's life.
2. Stepmom, you have nothing to worry about mntasekhaya - I do not want your man, I've got mine at home. So nawe Daddy- you have no reason for avoiding me cos I do not want you and I hope the feeling is mutual.
3. Stepmom I appreciate what you've been doing to try and welcome MY son into your home but that still doesn’t make you his father. You (you and ur man) have a system that I deal with you - I don’t mind if I have to deal with you ngezinto zefinances but what are you going to do whether Boy passes or fails - if he's sick or if uyoluka, etc?
Now that's out of the way...lets move right along."
Well i havent received any response from any of them...yet but i'm sure i will. But i got pissed off i kinda got the idea that the woman doesnt trust me with her man and i thought i should let her know, and the guy if i email/ sms about something he gets his wife to respond, so perhaps he wont run away now that he knows that i have no interest whatsoever in doing him again...i mean he's an ex for a reason....right?
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