x close

SOUTH AFRICA'S TV WEBSITE

SOUTH AFRICA'S TV WEBSITE

ACTORS | ARTICLES | CASTINGS | SHOWS | TEASERS

Never Apologise

Written by sthini from the blog Never Apologise... on 21 Oct 2009
Favourite this post

22 Things a sista should never apologize for:

1. Never apologize for pursuing what makes you happy. Even if you need
to quit your job, transfer schools, or move across country, always do
what you really want.

2.Never apologize for using proper English. Keeping it real doesn't
mean you have to speak Ebonics..

3.Never apologize for giving your best in a relationship that just
didn't work out.

4. Never apologize for crying. Wear waterproof mascara and express yourself.

5. Never apologize for being successful. Only haters want to keep you at
their level.

6. Never apologize for ten pounds you need to lose. People who truly
care about you will accept you as you are.

7. Never apologize for wearing a weave or braids. You bought it so it's
yours.

8. Never apologize for being frugal. Just because you save your money
instead of blowing it on the latest fashion emergency doesn't mean
you're cheap.

9.Never apologize for treating yourself to something special. Sometimes you have to show
yourself some appreciation.

10.Never apologize for demanding respect. You are to always be treated as a Queen.

11. Never apologize for leaving an abusive relationship. Your safety
should always be a priority.

12.Never apologize for keeping the ring even if you did not get married..

13.Never apologize for setting high standards in a relationship. You know what you can tolerate and what simply gets on your nerves.

14. Never apologize for dating outside your race. Just because you found
Mr. Right across the color line doesn't mean you don't love your
Brothas..
15. Never apologize to your new friends about old friends. There's a
reason she's been your girl from day one.

16. Never apologize for ordering dessert or more than one dessert

17. Don't apologize for being a single Mom. Babies are a blessing.

18. Never apologize for saying NO!

19.Never apologize for demanding respect. You are to always be treated as a queen.

20.Never apologize for not knowing how to cook. Even if you can't burnlike Grandma you know how to order good take out. (Right Girl!)

21. Never apologize for making more money than your man, you work hard
and you deserve to get paid.

22. Never apologize for being you!KEEP YOUR HEAD UP AND KEEP MOVING FORWARDALWAYS REMEMBER THAT GOD LOVES YOU AND HE ALWAYS HAS YOUR BACK

94 Comments

Tshd21
21 Oct 2009 13:51

You could have at least stated at the beginning or end of this thing you call an article...that it a forwarded e-mail you know?? WTF

Prince Bee
21 Oct 2009 13:57

Lol Tshd21..... klassik.... i am in tears now wena mara!!!!!!! lol Tvsa rocks big time.

GML
21 Oct 2009 14:00

You gave reasons for all others but not this one. Please do so. And QUOTE your Sources.

12.Never apologize for keeping the ring even if you did not get married..

Sana Lwam
21 Oct 2009 14:01

Never apologise....for posting this blog becoz some bloggers have never received this email before

J-Girl
21 Oct 2009 14:01

LOL and its done its rounds hectically

Tholi
21 Oct 2009 14:03

Got this email More that 50 times in 3 years!! lol

J-Girl
21 Oct 2009 14:04

@ SL tltltltltl...
never apologise for laughing at some blogger's fraudulent activities, there is no malice intended, most of the time

La Dolce Vita
21 Oct 2009 14:05

Lol...SHINE KULONDAWO!!! tl tl tl

TheLady
21 Oct 2009 14:05

Now forward it to all the sisters on your email address.

Cande
21 Oct 2009 14:06

*yawn*

sthini
21 Oct 2009 14:06

hayi ke AMABLOGERS!!!

lady gaga
21 Oct 2009 14:07

Never apologise......for sharing stuff with friends and some bloggers see the need to critisize and shame others who make an effort while THEY do nothing!

TheLady
21 Oct 2009 14:07

book

Best-Achiever
21 Oct 2009 14:08

Enkosie wena Woman ....LOL

La Dolce Vita
21 Oct 2009 14:08

L0l..afterthought aph0...yh0 sgezo!!

TheLady
21 Oct 2009 14:10

Cande...never apologise for yawning at some articles

And yes I will never apologise for adding the part of the email that you skipped.

Usual Suspect
21 Oct 2009 14:11

lol.....Never apologise....for posting this blog becoz some bloggers have never received this email before

kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa

It's actually 21 things cos number 10 and 19 are the same thing.....lol

Prince Bee
21 Oct 2009 14:12

Tvsa neh *shaking ma head* lol...... nc nc nc

Tshd21
21 Oct 2009 14:14

Lady Gaga... Please know this from now on because you give the impression that you don''t *correct me if I am wrong ausi*... Nothing. Is. Better. Than. Crap.

Cande
21 Oct 2009 14:15

never apologise for reminding the writer that this email said you must forward to all your female friends NOT post it on a website as YOUR article and still not credit the original writer *double yawn*

baby e
21 Oct 2009 14:21

TVSA is back and back and back

Best-Achiever
21 Oct 2009 14:23

but guys this email has been around since the day i had my first yahoo email .. It didnt have a source then, where is woman supposed to get the source at least ask her to name the sender...LOL

shame woman, askies ne, ppl are just frastrated ngoba Philiswa gave them a half cooked article and contradicted herself on responses and now she just vanished on thin air and some of us we are scared for our dads, tough situation i tell ya!

monwy
21 Oct 2009 14:23

Never apologise....for posting this blog becoz some bloggers have never received this email before

yeah yeah right! lmao

nzuzo
21 Oct 2009 14:25

Haybo guys nazenamudla umntwana wabantu.....lol

GML
21 Oct 2009 14:27

Never apologise for Posting such things and then dump your article when you dont get the response you hoped for.

Mafresh
21 Oct 2009 14:31

Shine La Dolce Vita

J-Girl
21 Oct 2009 14:32

GML hahahahaha... haini man!! I promise I will never apologise for finding all your responses funny!

Mafresh
21 Oct 2009 14:32

Nzuzo.. a jewa a le motala

La Dolce Vita
21 Oct 2009 14:32

Lolest @ best achiever yho sgezo!! ngqandani bo...Philiswa ulahlekile..."ASIYI NGAPHA KANTI?" HEEEHEEE

Cande
21 Oct 2009 14:32

@ least BA she could have said that this is an email that has been circulating & the original author is unknown to her, not so much plagiarism bathong!! If you dont have creative juices flowing, then dont write hleng bathong~ why do you think some of us only read & comment on articles?

Holiday
21 Oct 2009 14:35

Never apologise for being an idiot its natural.

Ava
21 Oct 2009 14:36

Tjo!,you guys are just too much .give Woman a break now.Hau!

LOL @ all your replies

GML
21 Oct 2009 14:37

@BA.

she could have said.

Disclaimer:

Please note this was an email I received and I thought I should share it with bloggers.

of course it wont have a source mara say where you got it from

Best-Achiever
21 Oct 2009 14:38

lol, i know Cande...

Best-Achiever
21 Oct 2009 14:40

never apologize wena woman for not typing Disclamer what what

Ava
21 Oct 2009 14:40

Never apologise for posting an email that's been circulating ever since BA had her first yahoo mail.It gives some people things to do.

Cody
21 Oct 2009 14:43

lol BA

One and Only
21 Oct 2009 14:49

Izimfene zihlekana iziphongo

sthini
21 Oct 2009 14:52

yho yho yho, its happenning in here, ya'll r on the roll!! wakakakakakakaka! ngafa ng vuka!!!

Best-Achiever
21 Oct 2009 14:52

one think i like about you 'woman' is that you didnt use your TVSA alias at least you can also come here and delela u woman no one will ever know it was you.... clever girl!

never apologise for not exposing yourself as the author if you are posting an email and you dont credit the author.

mathata
21 Oct 2009 14:55

@mafresh,Ganthe ha bare bana ba motho ba kgaogana tlhogo ya tsie?

Tshd21
21 Oct 2009 14:55

Izimfene zihlekana iziphongo.....

What does that mean?

GML
21 Oct 2009 14:55

Reply from: One and Only? 10/21/2009 8:49:17 PM

Izimfene zihlekana iziphongo

Never apologise for posting such comments. It becomes apparent that some people are angry at the world. Or at Bloggers.

sponono
21 Oct 2009 14:56

neva apologise for NOT receiving this email long long ago..i

but (some) women SHOULD APOLOGIZE PROFUSELY

for wearing cheapy skanky weaves and wigs
for STILL wearing and showing off knotted g-strings
for having a really smelly what what and not visiting a gyni ONCE in their LIFE TIME
for being too pretty and boring at the same time
for playing hard to get and then getting jelous if a brother gets sum from tehir best friend
for being too fat and not doin much about it and then crying foul to the fashion world for "not accomodating fully figured woman"...LOL jus kiddin

Cody
21 Oct 2009 14:59

LMAO @ knotted g-strings!!! LMAO!!!!huu wii!!

Cody
21 Oct 2009 15:00

where are the knots on the g-string Sponono? on the sides?? LOL

Sana Lwam
21 Oct 2009 15:02

Never apologise....for not understanding One and Only?, he likes controversy and like bacteria multiplies kwindawo ezimdaka.

Tshd21
21 Oct 2009 15:02

GML, what does the phrase mean vele? Somebody??

sthini
21 Oct 2009 15:03

Sponono keep them coming..... i am laughing my cute round clean behind out!!!! wakakakakakakakakakakaka!!!!

GML
21 Oct 2009 15:06

@Tshdi21

It means that monkeys laugh at each others foreheads. This is the direct translation dear.

TheLady
21 Oct 2009 15:07

"Izimfene zihlekana iziphongo" seriously LMAO OMW

sponono
21 Oct 2009 15:07

Cody..when the G-string has lost its elasticity so all we see is some kind of a knot all twisted and rolled above the plumbers crack- kushukuthi teh rest of it seyibanjwe izinqa and nawe umincile...LOL

nekzo
21 Oct 2009 15:07

Izimfene zihlekana iziphongo kwakwakwakwakwakwakwa iyo one and only you made my day angikaze ngihleke kangaka

Mafresh
21 Oct 2009 15:10

O opile kgom lenaka @ mathata

Usual Suspect
21 Oct 2009 15:12

@GML

direct translation.....

kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa....lol...lolest....lolment

nekzo
21 Oct 2009 15:12

one and only come back here and explain" Izimfene zihlekana iziphongo" i dont want people to moer me...LOL

ms.tebby
21 Oct 2009 15:17

hi One & Only? i will never apologise for greeting you & please dont ignore me...

but 'ditto" to your response (after reading the direct interpretation)

Tholi
21 Oct 2009 15:17

Never apologize for one and only being one and only!!!

FK
21 Oct 2009 15:20

Izimfene zihlekana iziphongo = tshwene ha e ipone makopo = Iqaqa a lizizwa ukunuka

nice
21 Oct 2009 15:24

Tshd21 it is similar to "tshwene ha ipone makopo"

directly translated as , you are laughing at someone else's foolishness, something that you yourself do

Kakapana
21 Oct 2009 15:25

never apologise for not visiting tvsa in the past four months, coz its so boring and dead *thathi cover *

J-Girl
21 Oct 2009 15:25

@ sponono hahahhaahahaha you killed me!!

I think some men should also apologise for wearing iskhendi (especially esi marron or bottle green) in 2009!

Tholi
21 Oct 2009 15:25

Izimfene zihlekana iziphongo - usifumbu ubona uqhaqhazela.

Heartsbreaker
21 Oct 2009 15:28

<<<<one think i like about you 'woman' is that you didnt use your TVSA alias at least you can also come here and delela u woman no one will ever know it was you.... clever girl! >>> Kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa Clever gal indeed.

Where are you Woman???.........Y dont u credit your sources le wena....Now look you have angered mabloggers........This is really an insult.....and to top it all you don't show yourself to account for this Artic-mail....Lol

I will never apologise for my reply above...Lol.

zozoe
21 Oct 2009 15:29

I never received this email thanks Woman

nekzo
21 Oct 2009 15:29

usifumbu ubona uqhaqhazela. hayi-ke Tholi nawe ungibulalelani.............kwakwakwakwakwa

J-Girl
21 Oct 2009 15:29

@ Kakapana never apologise for forgetting your sense of humour at home...

Cody
21 Oct 2009 15:30

when the G-string has lost its elasticity so all we see is some kind of a knot all twisted and rolled above the plumbers crack- kushukuthi teh rest of it seyibanjwe izinqa and nawe umincile.

OMW!!!! kwa kwa kwa kwa Sponono haibo! uyahamba neh? uzewubone lombhedo wama underwear?haikhona change your route boets..LMAO!!! shoo! havent laughed this hard in a long long time!! you really made my day.

TheLady
21 Oct 2009 15:31

"usifumbu ubona uqhaqhazela." nice one Tholi hahahaha..eish I love Zulu.

Tshd21
21 Oct 2009 15:31

Thanks for the translation guys...

ms.tebby
21 Oct 2009 15:32

im still ROTFLMBHOL'ing @ one & only's response...and I actually love it...never knew shim could speak (what language is it BTW?)....zulu,xhosa,tsonga,,?!?!

Sslave
21 Oct 2009 15:37

Woman never apologise for abandoning your article. KEEP YOUR HEAD UP AND KEEP MOVING FORWARDALWAYS REMEMBER THAT GOD LOVES YOU AND HE ALWAYS HAS YOUR BACK

nekzo
21 Oct 2009 15:40

Woman has run away ange-ke ayimele le enje never.......LOL

sponono
21 Oct 2009 15:40

Sslave neva apologize for ukusho umthandazo omncabe for Woman..LOL

Cody...are you saying ngihlale ngibona omangcola...LOL FIY no-glamour banokufaka amag-strini angacacile sungtimez

Prince Bee
21 Oct 2009 15:42

Tjo isibindi esingako ebengasithathat kuphi umntwana bantu? yho bloggers ni strongo mannnn kge!!!!!

Tholi
21 Oct 2009 15:45

((im still ROTFLMBHOL'ing @ one & only's response...and I actually love it...never knew shim could speak .....))
kwakwakwakwakwakkawa!!! on the underlined word! hahahaha!!

dali
21 Oct 2009 15:47

never knew shim could speak (what language is it TW?)....zulu,xhosa,tsonga,,?!?! .................. lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol tebby u shinifed me! it cant be tsonga gal cause it looks like french to me! lol lol lol lol lol lol

sthini
21 Oct 2009 15:47

Ever thought kuthi uWOMAN could be part of this conversations here.....

One and Only
21 Oct 2009 15:49

Sekumele ngichathe, ngiphalaze ngiphinde ngiqgume uma nokungenadosi iziduphunga zoqobo sezizitinyelela lapha kimi.

Some of you people are nothing but farts.

Ava
21 Oct 2009 15:49

@Sslave Kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa aaa.me i'm beginning to think Philiswa and Woman are the same person.Shame on them for pulling a disappearing act on us.mcim

Cande
21 Oct 2009 15:53

hawu 1 & O what hapened to you writing in English all the time? phela you are confusing some of us now uthini grand grand?

nzuzo
21 Oct 2009 15:54

Woman never apologise for abandoning your article. KEEP YOUR HEAD UP AND KEEP MOVING FORWARDALWAYS REMEMBER THAT GOD LOVES YOU AND HE ALWAYS HAS YOUR BACK
@ Sslave haaaahhaaaa kwakwakwakwa uyangiqeda tjo.

nonzuzo
21 Oct 2009 15:55

Sikuphelele ngempela isithunzi one and only, nokungenadosi sekuyatinyela inkosi impela...

nekzo
21 Oct 2009 15:59

Sekumele ngichathe, ngiphalaze ngiphinde ngiqgume uma nokungenadosi iziduphunga zoqobo sezizitinyelela lapha kimi.
hawu one and only

nzuzo
21 Oct 2009 16:11

hawu ayidle izishiyele One and only. uthukuthelelani kangaka.

One and Only
21 Oct 2009 16:15

Uyabona uyaqhubeka ungibiza ngenja? Ngiyadlala wena Nzuzo ukuthi mina ngingumuntu wamahlaya nje futhi ngiyazithandela ukungcweka uma ithuba livuma.

GML
21 Oct 2009 16:18

Hawu 1 & Only.

The same can be said about you. If not worse phela. The world did absolutely nothing to you. Maybe one and only is posing as Blac African.

Maybe Blac African is the one that posted this here that is why 1 & only is so emotional.

TheLady
21 Oct 2009 16:23

Yesses One and Only-kukuphi kini, la inkaba yakho ikhona?

ms.tebby
21 Oct 2009 17:17

wena fela o le mong pls go back to writting in English *blink, blink*

Mafresh
21 Oct 2009 17:24

hi ms.t

*wink wink*

mstick
21 Oct 2009 18:30

SistaBB
21 Oct 2009 19:56

hahahaha,
Never apologize for making me laugh from reading the 1st reply to the very last one!!

La Dolce Vita
21 Oct 2009 20:53

Shine ku SistaBB...kumnand' apha kukwa Uncle tltltltltltltltl...

One and Only
22 Oct 2009 08:24

I have completely lost you GML, what are you talking about? You are using big words like emotional, worse, posing etc in the same line with my name.

Maybe you have failed to understand the meaning behind my writing. Ngoba kade sengishilo nje ukuthi ngingumuntu othanda amahlaya ngoba noma kufiwe kuyahlekwa njena.

Nethezeka sisi wami ngoba uzoze uphathwe isicendezeli (stress) isifo sezifundiswa.

Only TVSA members can reply to this thread. Click here to login or register.