The EX!!

Written by sthini from the blog Ama Bloggers on 11 Dec 2009
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I dont know why my Blog doesn't put it in Paragraphs...askies, just bare with me. here i goes........................................................................ As inappropriate as this blog may sound, i am just too happy, coz i am finally free!! So this is what happened: i was dating this guy for about 7 months, and believe me falling in-love wasn't part of the plan, but i guess thats what made it even more frustrating cos i wasnt in control of my feeling....I actually thought that, that was the best i will ever have....hmmmm eventually my psychotic ex-bf started threatening him to leave me, and with no hesitation he did just that(COWARD)... He moved on in less than a month with some 18 year old first year student...mxm... okay fine i also tried this and that, but nothing really worked i was so caught up on this guy that i thought if i had anything serious, it would ruin our chances of being together again, so i had just had "this" and "that"... okay fine so i descovered there are better man out there, better than him....but i still couldnt get him out of my mind....Maybe i should have stayed in touch with him... until this other day asked if we could meet for drinks...(okay we ustill mailed each other now and then...ok often). well we had a date, that would end up at his place... now, this is like 4 months after the break up... we had not seen each other for that long aswell, things got heated up, the chemistry was still there.... this time around i found him boring, personally, and he left me unsatisfied....hmmm!! then i realized all those good men i let slip away...it made me see that he is/was a fake, but i that time he seemed like my prince charming, the perfect one.... Now i don't i even feel for a split second that i want to get back with him... and then yena he thinks we can make amends... Is it my time to break his heart? bwakakakaka(evil laugh)...but nooo... Lets share whats the easiest way/how do you get over your ex..?

10 Comments

Toodecent
11 Dec 2009 13:10

HIZZ...

SistaBB
11 Dec 2009 13:20

Lets share whats the easiest way/how do you get over your ex..?

Take part in Kayafm's 2 strangers and a wedding... within 2/3months u'll be MRS and over ur ex ...easy as that!!

GQ
11 Dec 2009 13:52

Lets share whats the easiest way/how do you get over your ex..?

U r over him already aren't u?

Phuma kuye uzophuma kuwe (literally & figuratively)

Best-Achiever
11 Dec 2009 14:01

U r over him already aren't u?

i thought i misunderstood Sthini, from what she is saying, she is way over this guy.

kanti Sthini, why do you mean when you say
"this time around i found him boring, personally, and he left me unsatisfied....hmmm!! then i realized all those good men i let slip away...it made me see that he is/was a fake, but i that time he seemed like my prince charming, the perfect one.... Now i don't i even feel for a split second that i want to get back with him"

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edgards
11 Dec 2009 14:07

eish

sthini
11 Dec 2009 14:16

I think i was over him long time ago, i just didn't know it...my mind just didn't want to give in.... this just kinda confirmed it... somehow i am glad... i just wished i didn't have to go through that process of having being bored to death by his fakesness, arogance, and .............. before i realized that..

GQ
11 Dec 2009 14:19

So what type of help/advice r u looking for?

Talk to me I have all the time in the world today.

Sips
11 Dec 2009 14:26

eish matters of the heart are confusing nhe....

eish...tl tl tl edgars
Phuma kuye uzophuma kuwe (literally & figuratively) kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa GQ

I think i was over him long time ago, i just didn't know it...my mind just didn't want to give in.... this just kinda confirmed it... somehow i am glad... i just wished i didn't have to go through that process of having being bored to death by his fakesness, arogance, and .............. before i realized that.. Sthini ndi- confused ONE nothi TWO kengoku .....

Tholi
11 Dec 2009 14:30

Phuma kuye uzophuma kuwe

AMEN!!!!!!!

maddie
11 Dec 2009 15:17

sthini, u just realized that u r over a guy u neva thought u'll be over him, so it's a strange feeling bcos u've bn carrying that other feeling(that of being so into him) for sum tym that it kind- a- like scares u a bit that u r feeling dis way.

it's understandable, enjoy it and don't let urself feel that way abt him ever no matter how hard he tries.

we do get ova people it does not matter how long it takes

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