Are you enjoying it or are you compromising for someones happiness?

Written by mini cooper from the blog Enjoyment or Compromising? on 05 Feb 2010
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Compromising or Enjoyment?

Speaking on behalf of other people and myself, everytime i have sex it's painful but becomes more enjoyable after some time. From my side i enjoy it and can't stay away from it. A friend of mine told me that she turned lesbian because she was in pain everytime when she had sex with her man. She said she wanted to make her man happy by letting him do whatever he wanted to do to her even if it was painful on her side. How does that happen? I mean your man is someone you should be open and honest to, if something is painful i'm sure he'll understand. I would like to know from the men out there, would you get out of you girlfriend if she told you it was painful and you were close to coming or would you just get pissssssed?

24 Comments

Floh
07 Feb 2010 09:52

Why is this television related ?

Msoe
07 Feb 2010 10:00

I would also like to know Floh.....hmmmmmmm

melokuhle
07 Feb 2010 11:52

People who compromise for someone else's happiness are typical of desperation. Don't ever put someone 1st then put yourself in the back seat. Your feelings must come first, otherwise you'll die trying to make someone happy. who's making you happy? What do you gain out of someone's happiness? Nothing. Life is too short for all these games.

Da Diva
07 Feb 2010 15:46

Ok let mi read 1st neh.....

TVSA Team
07 Feb 2010 19:14

Hey Mini, welcome to blogging! - a headsdup that we've moved your blog to the General section.

GML
08 Feb 2010 08:44

hehehehehehehe

This story is missing something

mini cooper
08 Feb 2010 08:55

mini cooper
08 Feb 2010 08:56

What is this story missing GML?

jinxed
08 Feb 2010 12:08

mini can i ask how old you are before i continue? please.

mini cooper
08 Feb 2010 12:20

mini cooper
08 Feb 2010 12:21

I'm 21

jinxed
09 Feb 2010 10:24

still young.you will mature with time.

tintswii
09 Feb 2010 10:31

Im with the man of my dreams and every time I Enjoooy it more than ever

mini cooper
09 Feb 2010 10:42

felfel
09 Feb 2010 10:42

lmao @jinxed's comment, mature like fine wine neh...hehehehe

Nothing wrong with this post except the last questions should rather read, Ladies if its too painfull - do u carry on, grin and bear and hope he don't tear ur coochy from dryness or do u ask him to stop and get some lube or try another position which wont put strain on ur delicate dry cootchy??? or Ladies, any ideas or how to ease/ please a dry cootchy? LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!

mini cooper
09 Feb 2010 10:46

myname
09 Feb 2010 10:47

Ja nhe..........Felfel just took over hahaha, khawubethe sana!

myname
09 Feb 2010 10:48

mini is speechless.....buwa ngwana.

mini cooper
09 Feb 2010 10:49

I do enjoy my sex very well thank you JINXED. Felfel i would ask you to stop and get a lube (if you are good at what you're doing) or make me wet then try a different position.

felfel
09 Feb 2010 11:00

Good gal Mimi, ask him to stop and go down on u so u get some relief from the friction, cos its friction from the rubber that dries u (unless u generally suffer from cootchy dryness). Note as well dry sex wont only tear ur cootchy but can break the condomi as well, putting u at risk of some rather unsavoury odds (we don't want that now do we) ;-)
Stock up on some KY Gel and use sparingly.

mini cooper
09 Feb 2010 11:16

Thanx Felfel at least you can give advise other than people who tell you, you need to mature first. my 17 year old sister is sexually active for goodness sake then someone tells you that you need to mature. Here's my answer to you JINXED Hows about you learn to advise and help someone out hey, other than telling them to mature when your answer is not mature.

myname
09 Feb 2010 13:08

iyooooo

You are in South Safrica!

Tshilo
09 Feb 2010 13:37

Age has nothing to do with maturity.

Dimphoza
17 Feb 2010 16:04

Eish mara 17 is just too young...

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