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Fruit of the spirit: Joy 3 of 10

Written by Cody from the blog Jehova-Nisi: TVSA Home Cell/Bible Study Group on 10 Mar 2010
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‘These things I have spoken to you, that My joy may remain in you, and that your joy may be full’ ” (John 15:11, NKJV).

Joy and happiness are not necessarily the same thing. Happiness is the result of favourable circumstances; joy, in contrast, is the result of being—as in being connected to Jesus, the True Vine.
In Psalm 4:7, joy and happiness are contrasted: “You have given me greater joy than those who have abundant harvests of grain and new wine” (NLT). The “greater joy” comes from knowing and trusting God; happiness is a result of pleasant circumstances, such as an abun¬dant harvest. Inward joy is steady as long as we trust God; happiness is as unpredictable as a harvest. Inward joy defeats discouragement; happiness covers it up. Inward joy is lasting; happiness is temporary. 

Joy is a delight in life that runs deeper than pain or pleasure. This type of joy stems from an awareness of God’s presence in one’s life, allowing us to rise above circumstances and focus on the goodness and love of God. At the core of Christian joy is the fact that God has acted and is acting to save those who trust in Him.

The Command to Rejoice (Phil. 4:4)
Many believers allow themselves to be victimized by their circum¬stances and consequently vacillate between spiritual highs and lows. For them, to rejoice seems unreasonable, even impossible. That is why the command is to rejoice “in the Lord” (Phil. 4:4).
We can’t always rejoice in our circumstances or in other people, because both of these elements may be negative. However, we can rejoice in the Lord, because He is always good, and He never changes.
Our spiritual stability is directly related to our knowledge of and commitment to God. Knowing Him helps us live above our circum¬stances and provides stability.

Despite these promises, and despite all the reasons we have to rejoice, we all struggle with sadness, discouragement, and pain. These are the “facts of life” here and now. No matter our circumstances, how can we learn to find the joy that’s offered us in Christ? What choices are we making that can greatly impact whether or not we avail ourselves of the joy that could be ours?

A long-held belief suggests that if a person is passing through diffi¬culties it is because either that person must be doing something wrong or does not have enough faith. What a crude and cold view of God! Jesus said clearly that in this life we would all have troubles, both the believer and the nonbeliever. However much we love the story of Daniel in the lions’ den, the fact is that most of the Christians thrown to the lions were torn to shreds by the beasts. The same with the three Hebrews who survived the fiery furnace; most Christians tied to the stake were, indeed, burned there!

Consider the possibility that many believers today do not have joy simply because they are self-centered. However real our problems, by focusing solely on them, we only make them worse in our own minds. In reality, we do have reasons to rejoice, not in ourselves but in God.
After all, doesn’t God say that “the very hairs of your head are all numbered”? (See Matt. 10:30.) Think of the promise inherent in those words. If, knowing our security is in Jesus, we would reach out and minister to someone else during our times of trial, we would know that self-pity can be turned to joy by a simple act of the will. “And the Lord restored Job’s losses when he prayed for his friends” (Job 42:10, NKJV).

While joy comes from knowing we are within the will of God, the immediate consequences often may be difficult and painful. To believe that when we accept Jesus and obey His Word all our prob¬lems will disappear can lead to disillusionment. Becoming a commit¬ted Christian is no assurance of money, fame, and influence. Each year thousands are persecuted, some even martyred, for their faith.

No matter what you might be struggling with now, reach out to someone who is, perhaps, going through something hard, as well. Surely you know someone who needs help, encouragement, and support. How can bearing someone else’s burdens lighten your own? 


Reference: Adult Bible Study Lesson 2010 1st Quarter – Fruits of the Spirit




20 Comments

Cody
10 Mar 2010 08:56

This reminds me of a song that goes like:

     ♫I still have joy
        I still have joy
        After all I've been through
        I still have joy
        
        Friends have left me
        They've questioned my faith
        The good I tried to do
        Was thrown back in my face
        The hurt and the pain brought tears to my eyes
        But God has replaced a blessing
        For every tear that I've cried ♫

       

FK
10 Mar 2010 10:49

When I was reading about this, it made me realise that happiness is cirmcustancial and does not last.  Also, material things bring this happiness.  But if I want the Joy of Jesus Christ, then I will have to let the Holy Spirit work in me.

And when I have that Joy, everything will be fine.  I might go through difficult times, lose my job, lose the car, lose the house and lose loved ones, but in all that turmoil, I will have peace that surpasses all understanding.

This is smiling in the storm.

Green.arrow
10 Mar 2010 14:48

Im here too Fk and Cody..thank you...
Im just soaking it all in..because lately, i have forgotten what joy is really...i have tasted and seen it but i havent felt it in a while...i laugh,chuckle at a lot of things...i smile a lot...but joy?...

Consider the possibility that many believers today do not have joy simply because they are self-centered. However real our problems, by focusing solely on them, we only make them worse in our own minds. In reality, we do have reasons to rejoice, not in ourselves but in God...im concidering this...

How can bearing someone else’s burdens lighten your own?...ive become so used to bearing people's burdens so much that its becoming a form of escapism for me...i dont like thinking about myself because myslef is a very depressed sad person....

I dont know saints....i know for sure that its been years since i have trully lived a joyeous life....i remmeber what its like,coz at some point, i experienced the Joys of this salvation...but its been a while....

blueroze
10 Mar 2010 15:30

Joy will come if you hold out,
peace and joy if you keep the faith,
life is everlasting if you trust in Him.

What joy, what joy,
what joy to praise His name.

You're never alone in Jesus,
you never have to want for anything,
if you love Him, just serve Him.

What a strong tower and a joy divine,
what a mighty fortress, what a peace of mind,
what a mighty fortress, what a peace of mind,
what a storehouse of grace,
He's an anchor in place. 

I really love this song. reading this passage reminded me of this song. I had bought the cd back in 2003 and  I still love that cd 


thank you FK for this piece. We are really learning and growing everytime we land on the Jehova Nissi, cell group

Lela
10 Mar 2010 21:06

Amen!

nice
11 Mar 2010 07:23

Thank you FK, before today, before reading this article, to me joy and happiness were just two words that meant the same thing and one was just shorter. Thank you for bringing to my attention that they are different and explaining it so perfectly that there is no question or lack of clarity on how different they are. God bless your soul child and give you more wisdom. The fact that circumstances may be unfavourable, thereby leading to unhappiness that should not steal one's joy, as we rejoice in the Lord but made happy by circumstances. When the circumstances change and my level of happiness goes up and down , I should still have joy. There is a part of me right now, that's thinking, "is this joy not very similar to peace" but fortunately I kbow that you will clarify this for me next week.

nice
11 Mar 2010 07:36

How can bearing someone else’s burdens lighten your own? because, I find m-nly when you talk yto people you realise how much more theirts are , and the spirit of gratefulness overwhels me and realise how small my unfavourable circumstances are, and mostly by doing that some of my burden gets lighter as I concentrate and think less about it, after that thibgs will nevert be as heavy as I felt them to be. Now that I think about it maybe this is an escape mechanism, but it seems to be working!

FK
11 Mar 2010 09:42

Morning nice - thank you head deaconness.  To God be the glory.

Joy and peace go hand in hand.  For you to be joyful, you can only attain than if you have peace.  Peace with the world, peace with your job, your situation, the people around you and peace with the things that you cannot change.

Now that I think about it maybe this is an escape mechanism, but it seems to be working!

You and GA already have the recipe.  In fact, let me break this word JOY down for you.

J - Jesus
O - others
Y - you.

You think first of Jesus, then others (bearing their burdens) wishing them all the best, doing your best to assist them and when that has been taken care of, then come you.  In that order, you will have joy.  

@blueroze - Im also learning from your responses.

@lela - Hallelujah!!!

May God bless you all

sesikavincent
11 Mar 2010 13:01

this is powerful, been looking for peace and happiness/joy in my life. Im angry ... Please pray with me. Joy is what i need. Thank you

FK
11 Mar 2010 13:12

@sesikavincent - we are all looking for it.  Me included. Don't be angry - just allow the Holy Spirit to take control.  Cast all your burdens unto the Lord.

Isaiah 1:18 "Come on now, let's discuss this!" says the LORD. "Though your sins are bright red, they will become as white as snow. Though they are dark red, they will become as white as wool.

Matthew 11:28.29 :
"28 Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. 29Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls."

These are open invitations from God.  Just RSVP and He will do the rest.

Best-Achiever
11 Mar 2010 14:30

Thank you FK and Cody ... Thank you so much guys

You know lately, i have lost my joy exactly the way you described it FK... eish i have put my focus more on the problem that im facing, i play this thing over and over and over in my mind and i get  worse by the day...

Just yesterday i was speaking to my mother about it because she can even pick it in my voice, that something is up and i told her hore no matter what happens these days, as good as it might be, i dont have joy and whatever makes me happy lately, that happiness dont last long.... eish, i dont like what is happening, im praying a loy about it, reading a lot about people who went through difficult stuff, but the minute im done praying or reading, the tape of this horrible situation starts playing in my head and whatever joy i had or encouragement i had just vanishes...

It is so difficult

FK
11 Mar 2010 15:04

Askies BA - bona, just throw it to the Lord and trust that He wikkl come through for you.  I will be praying for you.  Eish, ok, no problem, I will call out Best Achiever in my prayers and God will know who BA is. tl tl tl

Zothile
11 Mar 2010 22:12

Amen FK. What gives me joy is the knowledge that God has all power, knows and sees everything and he is with me always. Like David said in Psalms 23, "Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I fear no evil for You are with me always".

makgotso
11 Mar 2010 22:33

Thanks FK leCody. The joy of the Lord is my strength. Im praying the prayer that David once prayed : renew the joy of my salvation. Amen...

makgotso
11 Mar 2010 22:35

I mean Restore the joy of my salvation

Lela
11 Mar 2010 23:22

BA,it shall be well wt u my sista js hang in de n kp believing no mata hw u feel knwn dat God wl come tru 4u,u r allowd 2 fl whateva bcz its nt abt d flngs bt d truth of who God is in yo lyf n wht he cn do, blv me ds 2 wl pass.

blueroze
12 Mar 2010 08:14

BA - let me share ia little testimony with you. back in 2007 i was praying for character. I asked God to help me bacause I needed a new characte, a character that will say "I am a child of God and I live that way, i know it"
it was very tough those days because I had to stop doing certain things......*fast forwrd to 2009 October* me and the father of my son broke up and it was not nice at all. I cried, I felt sorry for myself, all the other emotion ran through my life and but I am christian, i went to my bible and read Romans 4 v 3-5



Not only so, but we also rejoice in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; 4perseverance, character; and character, hope. 5And hope does not disappoint us, because God has poured out his love into our hearts by the Holy Spirit, whom he has given us. 


i cried when reading this scripture because of what i was going through. i meditated on it, and the end i realised that it is part of my prayer of asking God of a great character.

even now it is still tough and I am unhappy at times, i still have my joy. There was a point when i felt so much peace, during this whole nyakanyaka and my boss who is my friend said it cant be right, i am in denial. but he does not understand Shalom.

After reading this passage about joy and happines i now can explain to him better, that yes, I was unhappy because of what i was going through but the peace of God, peace that surpasses all human understand brought with it Joy to my life.


i really thank God, cause just last week when we doing dry fast (Esther fast) it was revealed that all the soul ties are cut. and  i am free from him. (thats another testimony on its own)


FK and MaCodzzz cant thank you enough for this piece. Modimo a le bless

Best-Achiever
12 Mar 2010 08:22

FK, Lela and Blueroze, Thank you so much sisters, thank you ... i know all will be well and it shall pass ... all i need ke qha these days is all prayers i can get ...

and FK feel free God knows im Best-Achiever ...lol

baby e
12 Mar 2010 09:56

just reading this makes me feel even better. i went through a lot just this week. my ex of 3 years back decided to go and report me to the police because i was refusing with stuff which was not true. but i m feeling much better because its all sorted.

FK
12 Mar 2010 11:41

hau baby e - what did you steal?  I mean really now!!! 3 years later??? 

Good to know that its sorted out and you are feeling better.

Last nite I had a homecell meeting at my house and we were studying about the Great Controversy (which is the battle between Christ and the devil)  Unfortunately, the devil is using us the human race to get to Christ.  And one of the scriptures that was read was found in Ephisians 6.  In preparation of this war, this is what Paul suggest we should do.

11Put on the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil.
12For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places.
13Wherefore take unto you the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand.
14Stand therefore, having your loins girt about with truth, and having on the breastplate of righteousness;
15And your feet shod with the preparation of the gospel of peace;
16Above all, taking the shield of faith, wherewith ye shall be able to quench all the fiery darts of the wicked.
17And take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God:
18Praying always with all prayer and supplication in the Spirit, and watching thereunto with all perseverance and supplication for all saints; 

This made me think. Guns and knives are not required here.  Only character and the word of God which is the bible will make me win this battle.

and I must pray always.


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