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I wanna start a fight

Written by Savanah Dry from the blog Lounging with Savanah on 22 Apr 2010
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I wanna start a fight , i wanna start a fight , i wanna start a fight

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Savanah Dry
22 Apr 2010 11:10

zozoe
22 Apr 2010 11:20

I wanna bless

Ngqesta
22 Apr 2010 11:39

I'll move the furniture in the meantime Savs

Savanah Dry
22 Apr 2010 11:43

Thanx Ngqesta make sure there no bottles close by someone might loose their eye Lol!!

Nokia 5110
22 Apr 2010 11:47

@Savs LOL !!!!who do u want to start a fight with ?

cleve
22 Apr 2010 11:48

We are bored again aren't we????

Blaque pls bring a Bonang or Khanyi Mbau article tu

loft
22 Apr 2010 12:00

Hi there
i am sori to be off topic but plz can anyone help me to create a blog i want to write about something but I can't seem to get it it plz help.

Savanah Dry
22 Apr 2010 12:02

@ Cleve ..We are bored again aren't we????

Yes !!!!
@ Nokia anyone who was going to critisize my article for not being an article Lol!!!

Green.arrow
22 Apr 2010 12:06

lol.....tvsa blogville is just cute sometimes in its craziness....

anyone who was going to critisize my article for not being an article Lol!!!

Nokia 5110
22 Apr 2010 12:08

Guys help loft we might just have something to blog about .

Ngqesta
22 Apr 2010 12:29

guys.......maybe we should use this blog to comeup with an interesting topic so as to help Savs take her mind off the fight? Which topic do y'all think would be engaging Money? Sex? Men? Fashion? Politics (I'd rather not)? Friends? Family?

Or maybe we should just make it an open blog

Savs..hope you don't mind...am trying to work with you here? :-)

Savanah Dry
22 Apr 2010 12:41

I dont wanna talk about money getting paid monday and its already finished !!! Mximm

loft
22 Apr 2010 12:46

K guyz since u don't want to help me fine then, only u Nokia 5110 who is willing

loft
22 Apr 2010 12:48

Here it goes i will gate crush then.
Have u seen celebrities without make-up and their pics as kids huh?

Best-Achiever
22 Apr 2010 12:52

Savanah Dry .. thank you i will use this as the off topic article, i couldnt get time to create one of my own ..

1. I would like to hear from you guys, what do you think of Kgotso(of i wanna sing gospel fame) staring in a Hansa Pilsner ad ... please hear me out im not saying it is wrong im only asking because i have been asked a questing by someone who isnt a Christian .. her exactword were

shim : hhayi bo isnt this guy the born again pastor ntoni ntoni who was singing in IWTSG
me: ya that's him, why
shim: i thought Christianity and alcohol dont mix chomma
me: to some extend Choma but he didnt drink
shim: hhayi bo choma in a way he is promoting it, some of us will never understand him being in the alcohol ad because to me it says he is promoting it and this contradicts with the gospel beliefs that he sings about

and to some extend i agree with shim, what do you think guys.

2. There is this new wimpy ad that my lovely girl Brenda Ngxoli is starring in, someting abot 2 R10 (to tenners as she pronounce it), she has this relaxed hair, and she tried to form a pony tail out of them ... ok my curious and over analytic mind thinks ... why did wimpy and Brenda went to the extend of her having pony not rocking her usual short natral her ..could this be because majority of resturants cashiers and waitreses normal relax and have ponny's in their hair ...

thank you guys

loft
22 Apr 2010 12:52

It makes me wonder by the tym I reach 40 yrs how i am going to be like since I like make-up, don't get me wrong I do take care of my face it is just that when I saw those pics made me wonder I am afraid of getting old. when the pips who usually c me wearing my make-up what do they ssay when they c me without an how do I look really is there a huge difference? Just wondering!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Nokia 5110
22 Apr 2010 12:56

hehehehehe loft is that ur article? write an article with pictures.

@ ngqesta for me will be Men and Sex LOL!!

ms.tebby
22 Apr 2010 12:59

eish loft, i want to help but im lazy & hungry, lol. let me eat 1st...

loft
22 Apr 2010 13:11

@Nokia5110 that's what I want to do to upload some pics here eish. Umdavazo especiallyke winter lol

One and Only
22 Apr 2010 13:11

Have u seen celebrities without make-up and their pics as kids huh?

Yes we have!!! Zillion times, don't even think about creating such article, topic has been covered extensively already.

Uqhamkaphi syekhona?

Everytime people right about this topic, they normally steal pictures of overseas actors/celebrities and feed us that nonsense.

Next

Ngqesta
22 Apr 2010 13:14

@ BA I hate that WImpy Ad

@Nokia 5110.... I was hoping someone would say that...lol lol

OFF TOPIC: Guys.... why won't females (publucly) admit that we do 'play' with ourselves....and more often than not it is more satisfying? Are we ashamed. I'll be the first one to admit that I DO...and I love it....even have a website that helps me prepare for it...tl tl tl

Mathaz
22 Apr 2010 13:17

BA - I'm assuming that Kgotso is really really born again here, it's wrong of him to apper on the ad as it seems like he is endorsing that product and if he is a serious pastor then he should not even think about tasting and touching alcohol, he should not conform to this world.

Guys do you all remember the one sentence and one paragraph blogs that most of you hated and would get so worked up over them. How i miss those days!!!!

blaqueboi
22 Apr 2010 13:19

yah neh.....

Best-Achiever
22 Apr 2010 13:20

loft ..

if those are SOUTH AFRICAN Celebs ...mina i'll do everything in my power to help you get your article here but if it is not ... im sorry cant help

Best-Achiever
22 Apr 2010 13:24

ok Mathaz...but on that ad He doesnt drink it, he is only holding the glass that is supposed to reperesent hansa. Thank you for your response

cleve
22 Apr 2010 13:26

Savannah, okay you won't mind if I try to hussle ke???

okay who is going to watch Neyo on the 1st???

Anyone willing to give me a backstage pass???

Holiday
22 Apr 2010 13:31

Hi im one of those who dont know how to create a topic: Can someone create a topic on behalf of me about (2012 is the end of the world) bathong kredgte steraf tuu.

One and Only
22 Apr 2010 13:31

BA

If this impastor, Kgotso's really a man of God he shouldn't be appearing on alcohol adverts.

Look at Hashim Amla, he's the only one in the Protea's team who's wearing a kit without Castle written on it.

This just shows how much faith Kgotso has in God. I know some are gonna start with the "Who are you to judge? Only God can judge" line which is a bit boring now as I don't need to be God to know what's wrong or right.

blaqueboi
22 Apr 2010 13:33

ok dont know much about this Kgotso person but Pastors need to pay the bills too. This beverage ads pay good money the cheapest paying ads are the fastfood franchises like KFC and McD. KFC is even worse.

Akia
22 Apr 2010 13:33

@Ngqesta..i do it & am not ashamed at all i luuuuuuuuuuv it. cn i pls hv dat website plssssssssssssss!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Nokia 5110
22 Apr 2010 13:37

@Holiday (2012 is the end of the world) why would u say that ?

Mathaz
22 Apr 2010 13:39

blaqueboi Is he not pastoring a church, if yes then the church pays him, what kind of an example is he setting or what message is he sending accross, that if you need to pay your bills then engage in matters that are queastionable to God's will???

mstick
22 Apr 2010 13:42

Ngqesta we were talking about that with my mail buddies and 2 ladies actually admitted of doing that....I haven’t done it and i was asking the guys if doing that is regarded as a sin....none of us could answer that so i sais to them I’m gonna try playing with myself just to experience this ish seeing sex therapist are saying its healthy...lol...don’t know if i have the guts to do it:-)

realist
22 Apr 2010 13:46

Look at Hashim Amla, he's the only one in the Protea's team who's wearing a kit without Castle written on it.

That is because he is Muslim.

In the emirates you are not even allowed to kiss in public. Like I said, Morality does not pay any bills.

loft
22 Apr 2010 13:46

@Akia I can give u the website I just do not know if it is safe to do so?

loft
22 Apr 2010 13:46

@Akia I can give u the website I just do not know if it is safe to do so?

Akia
22 Apr 2010 13:53

lets go private so i can give u my email

Nokia 5110
22 Apr 2010 13:57

LOL @ Akia and loft iyafihlwa nale website ?

Savanah Dry
22 Apr 2010 14:01

@ BA Weather he is drinking or not he is endorsing alcohol as a chriatian its wrong imagine him posing in a strip joint and he says i didnt touch !!!!

Best-Achiever
22 Apr 2010 14:01

Thank you ... Mathaz, One and Only? and blaqueboi

much appreciated

One and Only
22 Apr 2010 14:02

That is because he is Muslim. Muslims also submit to God if I remember correctly.

Like I said, Morality does not pay any bills. .....and immorality does, right.

Cande
22 Apr 2010 14:04

i thought the bible never said anything about alcohol being a sin, i thought being drunk was a sin not drinking alcohol??

Ngqesta
22 Apr 2010 14:12

haybo Akia and Loft...plz do share!
I was talking talking abt literotica my darling Akia

Best-Achiever
22 Apr 2010 14:13

Cande ... if you read me right i didnt talk about anything being a sin or not ..i only asked if he isnt painting a wrong picture that contradicts with what we as public know about Christinity .....

realist
22 Apr 2010 14:15

That is because he is Muslim. Muslims also submit to God if I remember correctly.
Which one?Btw, do they say god when they pray or do they say Allah? Just asking.

and immorality does, right.
Choose your pick. Of the two which one pays the bills and still left with more cash?

Cande
22 Apr 2010 14:18

i dont think he is, he is just trying to earn a living..It is not like he is drinking the alcohol or anything! Its just like actors, they are sometimes forced to do things against their bible/beliefs to earn a living.

Cande
22 Apr 2010 14:19

We have a lot of actors on our soapies who are born-again Christians yet they still have to act like they having sex outside marriage because they know its just an act and its only to earn a living...I dont see anything wrong with Kgotso being on the advert, b.t.w i havent seen the advert on tv

Best-Achiever
22 Apr 2010 14:23

@Cande .... one might argue that everybody has a right to engage to certain things depending on how they feel about those things ... but that's a topic for another day

all i wanted was to hear how others feel/see this ..

thanks to all different views

Mathaz
22 Apr 2010 14:25

realist I think Allah is God in arabic...

realist
22 Apr 2010 14:35

realist I think Allah is God in arabic...
If that is the case one and only is right, they do pray to God.

That being settled let me ask this:
The CEO of most companies when it comes to incentive bonus they reward themselves up to 60% of their package and the bottom staff only get up 5 to 7% of the pensionable salary. It may be legal what they are doing but is it moral. You see, morality does not pay any bills.

Ask any tendertrepreneurs in govt, they will tell you the same thing.

realist
22 Apr 2010 15:18

lol just outta curiousity.. I wonder what everybody's lover in this blog would say about them if they were to log on and reveal your errrr.... "flaws". Better yet let's invite your exes :)
Not to hijack the other blog about some ones problem. I’m seeing this sort of young lady and boy oh boy, she is giving me the run around as if she is a virgin. What frustration I’m having!! I’ve had it with her and today she is getting the chop, not by cell phone but I’m going to tell her on her face. I hope she does not start crying when she gets the good news...

Best-Achiever
22 Apr 2010 15:28

@ Realist..... THAT"S A WIFE"S PRAYER BEING ANSWERED ... i love my GOD ..lol

myname
22 Apr 2010 15:32

Ouch Realist, Thanks im not that lady.

GUYS I NEED YOUR HELP ASAP!

Im looking for a job & all i need from you is your help. Like the best agencies & contact details, PLZ PLZ PLZ PLZ.

My company is in trouble & i think its going down to the drain. Oh u can also offer me some latest tips. The dos & donts. The last time i went to the interview it was Nov 2007.

PLZ nhe. Anything in Gauteng its OK.

Luv u guys
Myname

realist
22 Apr 2010 15:33

THAT"S A WIFE"S PRAYER BEING ANSWERED ... i love my GOD ..lol
Got to agree. They have been answered indeed and never again, I’ve had it. Can’t take the frustration anymore.

Mathaz
22 Apr 2010 15:35

LOL @realist, it's so unlike you being given the run around. You sound like a no nonsense person, were you cheating on your wife??

Best-Achiever
22 Apr 2010 15:38

He hasn't been to a dentist in 3 yrs. I've asked him nicely to floss and brush before he sleeps. He doesn't do it at all.

for some reason nje realist kuthi angithi ULAYEKILE... LOL

i dont mean to be cruel but you got what you deserve ...lol

Myname Sthandwa sami... in which field are you? ...hhayi kabi Sthandwa sami ukuthi different agencies cater for different fields

realist
22 Apr 2010 15:39

were you cheating on your wife??
Guilty as charged.

Cande
22 Apr 2010 15:43

realist is married??????

realist
22 Apr 2010 15:45

for some reason nje realist kuthi angithi ULAYEKILE... LOL
I do deserve that. I was trying to stroke my ego but these kids they are so difficult to communicate with on a higher level.

realist
22 Apr 2010 15:47

realist is married??????
Why, you look surprised!!!!

Best-Achiever
22 Apr 2010 15:48

hhayi bo Cande didnt you know .... this is a contract man remember ....lol that's how he called marriage ..tl tl tl tl

no wonder he breached the contract and no wonder he always say there is no true love ....lol

Best-Achiever
22 Apr 2010 15:49

communicate with on a higher level.

kwa kwa kwa kwa
cheating is lower level broe ....lol

goldii
22 Apr 2010 15:49

tl tl tl realist I never took you for a masochist ......kwa kwa kwa

Goodluck hope you derive as much pleasure as you got.

Savanah Dry
22 Apr 2010 15:50

@ Realist You wanted both Nandos and Chicken dust hawu !!!

Cande
22 Apr 2010 15:50

i didnt know kaloku, i thought he was not marriage type! tjo and you cheat openly like this? i feel for your poor wife

Akia
22 Apr 2010 15:50

@realist............lol................aniyekeni izingane nani

Best-Achiever
22 Apr 2010 15:52

thank you realist you made me laugh ..i wish all these cheating husband will gee the same treatment you got ... tl tl tl tl ... i wish leyongane ingakufakela ama laxa (Lakza) tablets ikuhambisise ngesizu for the very last time ...lol

m leaving now bye bloogers

myname
22 Apr 2010 15:56

Myname Sthandwa sami... in which field are you? ...hhayi kabi Sthandwa sami ukuthi different agencies cater for different fields

@BA It can be Human Resource or Office support i dont mind sis

realist
22 Apr 2010 15:57

cheating is lower level broe ....lol
Well said.

You wanted both Nandos and Chicken dust hawu !!!
Nope.

@realist............lol................aniyekeni izingane nani
Never again with kids. What pain. It is just not worth it.

One and Only
22 Apr 2010 15:57

In most cases by the time we guys decide that we've had it & are gonna end the relationship, you'll find you are too late as women are in most cases 10 steps ahead of us.

She's had it 2 yrs back already and probably found someone on the side as well. Now she's just gonna play along as if she's hurt, cry the crocodile tears. You'll be doing her a big favour now if you dump her.

What's this thing of cheating on someone, when you use your own body, mind & soul to have a relationship with someone other than your lover.

zozoe
22 Apr 2010 15:57

lol

loft
22 Apr 2010 16:05

5110 i am waiting for u to give me yo email address if you were serious about the webby thing. Patiently waiting

Mathaz
22 Apr 2010 16:05

realist, I'm also surprised that you are married, the way you like analysing, patronising and questioning bloggers, i feel so sorry for your wife. Oh i can't stand cheats and don't understand why people have to cheat.

Akia
22 Apr 2010 16:10

@realist....i guess u r a minister of somethng else nt wht u were hoping4....................u made my day hey, thnkng abt yo situation jst cracks me up my stomach hurts................lol

One and Only
22 Apr 2010 16:14

I'm also surprised that you are married, the way you like analysing, patronising and questioning bloggers, i feel so sorry for your wife.

The above goes through my heart like a hot knife through butter, I've had more than 50 relationships that didn't work because of this.

Fortunately for me I've discovered it before it's too late and am mending my behaviour now.

Mafresh
22 Apr 2010 17:49

HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY to ms.tebby

Im gonna go outside now and when a flymachine passes, I will tell it to bring you Lenyalo, bambinos le lots of pounds (not rands) and mostly Wisdom to manage a successful life

realist
23 Apr 2010 07:02

In most cases by the time we guys decide that we've had it & are gonna end the relationship, you'll find you are too late as women are in most cases 10 steps ahead of us.
I so wish it was the case. What drama yesterday!!! Please don't ask for the details.

I'm also surprised that you are married, the way you like analysing, patronising and questioning bloggers, i feel so sorry for your wife.
Analysing yes, patronising!!! I'm not so sure about that. In what way, remind me please. Mathaz, Every time I question you’re response, you have never replied back. Wonder why.

goldii
23 Apr 2010 08:17

Please tell tu. Before I die of curiosity

Da Diva
23 Apr 2010 08:44

Please realist tell us please please please

cleve
23 Apr 2010 08:59

WOW Realist now I understand what you meant about marraige being a contract. Mara don't worry you are not alone.....................

Ngqesta
23 Apr 2010 09:08

Never again with kids. What pain. It is just not worth it. Yhe wena realist..you are palying with fire....so you mean you can't guarantee that you won't do it with adults but kids are a no no for you......tl tl tl...eish you are my hero!

So do tell....we want details about yesterday's drama.

it's hilarious how judgemental amabloggers can be...ngeloxesha we ALL have skeletons in our cabinets....just that realist is no longer keeping his inside the cabinet...or is it because the cabinet's too full ReaRea (realist)...lol lol lol

Ngqesta
23 Apr 2010 09:14

*raising her hand first* .......ok....could all the married bloggers please raise their hands.....just doing a roll call...please disclose...tl tl tl

cleve
23 Apr 2010 09:53

@ Ngqesta............... putting my hane up like a lunny..... present.
Bloggers are very jusdgemental yazi

Pooky
23 Apr 2010 10:19

realist is married??????

realist is a man???

Best-Achiever
23 Apr 2010 10:33

kwa kwa kwa Pooky u worse... lol

you didnt even know he is a man, i guess im attentive to details and have an elephant memory ..tl tl tl

Myname Sthandwa sami i dont know much about your field but i will ask around and if i find something, i will let you know

Nokia 5110
23 Apr 2010 10:39

@ gqesta i'm also married wish i can Divorce him over the internet via email, we have lost the oomph .

Best-Achiever
23 Apr 2010 10:44

tjo Nokia ...

Nokia 5110
23 Apr 2010 10:51

@Sgqesta may be u should rephrase ur question and say those who are happily married.

@ B A I’m serious yazi , wish there was a easy way out .

myname
23 Apr 2010 10:52

Kanti whats going on guys with u & ur marriages? My friend was talking non stop this morning saying, Enough is enough. She wants her husband out of her life. She was going on & on about their issues, shame guys. I feel pity coz some of us haven't taste the so called "lenyalo" & it scares the hell out of me.

I guess its the season.

Please tell tu. Before I die of curiosity @ Goldii Im so curious like a cat ilenceza uboya bayo.

Thanks BA for ur concern sana.

Best-Achiever
23 Apr 2010 10:56

Nokia .. why dont you take initiative and try to revive the spark ... do little things that you were doing while dating ...ie sms him during the day tell him you love him or you miss him, take him out, book a romantic gateaway for weekend ...do something girl please ...and for one day, just for one stop asking 100 questions ...lol or expecting anything from him ... just do something with no expectations or anything ....lol

ya!

Ngqesta
23 Apr 2010 10:57

hayi kaloku 5110 umtshato uba neeHighs and Lows....more often than not...it is up to you to bring back the oomph

baby e
23 Apr 2010 10:57

confessions of married people ijoooooooooooo

realist
23 Apr 2010 11:00

I will give the snippets of the lowdown of yesterday. Let me just finish the Sap problem and I will explain.

cleve
23 Apr 2010 11:12

Nokia I understand you so much. I know it's just a stage mara hhayi knati how long does it last?

Nokia 5110
23 Apr 2010 11:17

Guys its not just the spark kuphela , I found the condom under my bed last night when I was looking for something , when I asked him about it him made up stories . And the is more I don’t want to bore u , the list is endless ngezinto ezenziwa yilo muntu I call my Husband soon to be my x . I’m calling a filmy meeting this weekend I’ve had it with him

Savanah Dry
23 Apr 2010 11:20

Tjo Nokia a condom?????? and you never use condoms ?

Nokia 5110
23 Apr 2010 11:23

No we dont Savs.

myname
23 Apr 2010 11:24

Ja nhe, just remind me to take my blood time Nokia. Life is tough nhe.

@Nokia, Do u mind sharing ur story on Monday, oh askis wethu bt i luv umgosi.

Realist i will b waiting........shooooo

baby e
23 Apr 2010 11:26

@ myname - m sorry i cant help about your work issue but go tla siama neh

BigMama
23 Apr 2010 11:26

@realist....Please do not take your time, give us all the details..! Its friday today, some of us are going home early, we need umgosi for the weekend.

BigMama
23 Apr 2010 11:30

@myname... you are not alone, l wouldn't mind even she shares the story today, l am game. But my advice to her is not to give up yet, kodwa with the case of finding a condom under your bed, haaaa with me tables will turn, bottles will fly.

He can cheat as much as he likes but not in our house and have umdavazo with another woman on my bed, l will go mad.

Savanah Dry
23 Apr 2010 11:36

Shame Nokia but be glad he has your health at heart coz he protects himself ...

Ngqesta
23 Apr 2010 11:43

Nokia....do share the story....it's a Friday...am sure some of us ar not terribly busy. who knows maybe some of us might give you a different perspective...that is if you're up to it.

P.S....to the married bloggers....if you can...please watch a movie called FIREPROOF.....it really gave me a new perspective on marriage.

Nokia 5110
23 Apr 2010 11:45

Guys I will share with u once everything has been sorted out , okwamanje ngise emotional about this . I don’t mind him sleeping around but not in our house , I wonder babephi abantwana bam when he brought unonkroyi in our house mxim, I’m even embarrassed to ask u Anti ama details.

TheLady
23 Apr 2010 11:45

You can get a lawyer online Nokia...ya ne!

realist
23 Apr 2010 11:46

Here is the lowdown; I’m not going to give the full details of the story:

Me: Babe, (imagine at my age still saying that but a man’s got to do what a man’s got to) as you know this relationship started on rocky platform and you know… (She interrupts as you know most women like to interrupt)

Her: what know, what have done wrong this time?

Me: Since we have been together you been having your terms and conditions towards this relationship and I feel being undermined.
Her: In what way?

Me: Whenever I request something from you or want to see u at any given time you sort of give the run around and stories as to why this cannot be done or why cannot see at the time I requested.

Her: she goes over the top and starts to give a lecture about this relationship (as they always do). Eventually she asks this!! Is this about me not wanting to make love to you when you ask?

Me: Boy, I didn’t see that one coming!!! (Suddenly she can think on higher level) Not wanting to give a straight answer, I sort of waffled my way out and she was having none of that and wanted a direct answer. Eventually had to admit to it and gave the direct answer and boy oh boy!!!

Her: She was flabbergasted (you should have seen her) and she went on and on telling me what kind of woman she is.

Me: After her long lecture, I asked her what now

Her: I don’t know, you are the one with the right answers all the time, you tell me.

Me: Don’t take it the wrong way but this relationship is not working for both of us or maybe we are just not compatible with each other, what do you think?

Her: I don’t know and silence for a while.

Me: In a polite way, I think we should call it quits and remain friends.
Her: But why? (With a low voice)

Me: I cannot accommodate your terms and conditions, I feel like you are in charge of this relationship and I’m not comfortable with it.

Her: I will try and change my attitude but please let us not end this, I still love u.
Me: Folks from here on it went ballistic and I’m not comfortable explaining this because it got hectic.

TheLady
23 Apr 2010 11:54

You aso call f*cking your mistress lovemaking?

"Her: She was flabbergasted (you should have seen her) and she went on and on telling me what kind of woman she is"

So I ask you (Realist) what kind of a woman is she? And in her own words what kind does she believe she is?

Cande
23 Apr 2010 11:54

LOL Reallyst

Ngqesta
23 Apr 2010 11:54

tl tl tl....i say it again...wena realist you are my hero...so you want to be the one in charge wena qha

Ngqesta
23 Apr 2010 11:58

but i don't get it....what kind of a woman is she ke. how does she date a married man and still want to stand on a moral high ground....EXCEPT if my hero omitted some details ke.

Mathaz
23 Apr 2010 12:03

So in essence you are breaking it off with her coz she refuses to sleep with you....

BigMama
23 Apr 2010 12:07

@realist...didn't you say to her " you are too demanding and l cannot afford you, l feel you deserve someone better, who will take care of you? (a friend was told this yesterday)...

BigMama
23 Apr 2010 12:08

@Mathaz...vele, why would a married man cheat? To get something he does not get at home.

makgotso
23 Apr 2010 12:09

tjo nawe realist l really dont wish to be that girl.

realist
23 Apr 2010 12:12

So in essence you are breaking it off with her coz she refuses to sleep with you....
What makes you thinks I have not slept with her?

tl tl tl....i say it again...wena realist you are my hero...so you want to be the one in charge wena qha
Yep

realist
23 Apr 2010 12:16

tjo nawe realist l really dont wish to be that girl.
Why.

Ngqesta
23 Apr 2010 12:19

@Mathaz...vele, why would a married man cheat? To get something he does not get at home.....I disagree BM...some do it just because they can and its habitual

Mathaz
23 Apr 2010 12:21

Her: she goes over the top and starts to give a lecture about this relationship (as they always do). Eventually she asks this!! Is this about me not wanting to make love to you when you ask? I did not imply that you hae not slept with her but what i meant was that she sleeps with you when she wants and therefore i assume that she calls the shots in your relationship.

On a serious note, chaeting is wrong, don't yu think about your wife and how broken she would be if she were to find out??

Bigmama men don't cheat because their partners lack something, adultery begins in the mind.

Best-Achiever
23 Apr 2010 12:22

lol Realist

@Nqesta ... nna i do have
FIREPROOF
FLYWHEELS
FACING GIANTS
NOT EASILY BROKEN
FAITH LIKE POTATOES

they are all brilliant movies, in movies like that it takes two to tango... it wont help much if one part watch them

realist
23 Apr 2010 12:24

Nokia .. why dont you take initiative and try to revive the spark ... do little things that you were doing while dating ...ie sms him during the day tell him you love him or you miss him, take him out, book a romantic gateaway for weekend ...do something girl please ...and for one day, just for one stop asking 100 questions ...
BA, I thought you are a rigid lady. You surprised me there.

myname
23 Apr 2010 12:26

Iyoooooo realist i will say it again, thanks im not your woman. Gaaaad the things we go through.

Hai these relationships hai cha bafethu, is there any1 who has a smooth relationship? Where there are no lies...

Best-Achiever
23 Apr 2010 12:32

BA, I thought you are a rigid lady. You surprised me there.

lol @ realist .... Well im still firm but i wouldnt just let my marriage go down the drain without trying to work things out, yes there are things that i wouldnt compromise. relationship are about compromise sometimes realist as long as yu dont loose yourself in those compromises....

realist
23 Apr 2010 12:32

did not imply that you hae not slept with her but what i meant was that she sleeps with you when she wants and therefore i assume that she calls the shots in your relationship.
Precisely and it drives me nuts and it frustrate me.

On a serious note, chaeting is wrong, don't yu think about your wife and how broken she would be if she were to find out??

I know and it scares the hell out me.

realist
23 Apr 2010 12:40

...didn't you say to her " you are too demanding and l cannot afford you, l feel you deserve someone better, who will take care of you?
Bigmama, she is not that demanding and I can afford her, I just don’t like it when she wants to be in charge of me. It should be the other way around. I can take her tantrums but controlling me is a big no.

Green.arrow
23 Apr 2010 12:45

hai im following since yesterday and i dont know what to say but this just knocked me out of my blanket...she is not that demanding and I can afford her.....:-(

I know and it scares the hell out me.
So why do you do this ge Realist.....especially when it scares you what she may do when she finds out.....

Best-Achiever
23 Apr 2010 12:45

lol realist.... The problem is YOU GOT SOMEONE ON YOUR LEVEL .... and it hurts your ego .... she is not controlling the problem is, she isnt giving you a space to control her either.

poshspice
23 Apr 2010 12:49

@ realist am also suprised you are married!!

poshspice
23 Apr 2010 13:01

You are spot on BA...

My question is why is she dating you and even allowing herself to fall in love with you if she does not want to go all the way.

my belief when it comes to dating married men/women is not to do it at all!!! it is easy to fall in love with the forbidden fruit..I run...when I hear married..saving myself a heartache

nonzuzo
23 Apr 2010 13:05

Yoh this is scary.

myname
23 Apr 2010 13:20

my belief when it comes to dating married men/women is not to do it at all!!! it is easy to fall in love with the forbidden fruit..I run...when I hear married..saving myself a heartache
It is not easy to leave these ppl. I once got involved with some1 who was doing vat 'n sit. He was loaded i dont wanna lie to you & so caring. Bt 1 day i saw his partner & i felt so dirty in way that i tried 2 leave him up until she got my number & she called me.

Thank God she acted like a lady otherwise i can b rude if u r rude to me. I told her i'll leave him just bcoz she had respect. Believe me it was not easy bcoz he supported me & i knew about his status.

If i stayed i think i'll probably have a house & a car. This guy used to send i airtime ye R90 every Friday & on Sunday i'll get i R500 for i lunch yeveki. I was doing i training by that time. Everytime he comes to my place wayendibuza ukuthi ndifunani.

poshspice
23 Apr 2010 13:33

@myname.....precisely why I make it a rule that I don't do the married, engaged or in a committed relationship! they are easy to fall in love with and hard to forget

realist
23 Apr 2010 13:35

So why do you do this ge Realist.....
To stroke my ego.

lol realist.... The problem is YOU GOT SOMEONE ON YOUR LEVEL .... and it hurts your ego ....
No way. The problem with her is that she is inexperienced when it comes to these matters.

@ realist am also suprised you are married!!
What is so surprising?

myname
23 Apr 2010 13:36

precisely why I make it a rule that I don't do the married, engaged or in a committed relationship! they are easy to fall in love with and hard to forget

So true sweetheart & as from then i never ever again try some1 who has a wife or stay-in-partner.

realist
23 Apr 2010 13:46

Let us agree on one thing. If you have not signed the contract, it can be assumed that you are the other woman. Not so? I also don’t the contract ladies. The risk is just not worth it.

What are the implications if you are not contracted?

Best-Achiever
23 Apr 2010 13:48

The problem with her is that she is inexperienced when it comes to these matters

what matters realist... cheating matters ...

you know i wish everybody who is married will always remember that Marriage is a full time relationship, you are not only married when your wife is with you or when you get home .... MNXM

Green.arrow
23 Apr 2010 13:50

hai realist.....i wanna start a fight with you ryt now , a physical one ..on behalf of your wife since she doesnt know yet...if only i could teleport.....
But something tells me you are joking...i dont believe you. Most guys who do this do not have a logical sober (still not right btw) perspetive about their situation as you do...ke a gana. Or do they?

All this for Ego fela?.....just that....??

Best-Achiever
23 Apr 2010 13:53

i think GA, for realist it is easier to tell us the truth because he knows we dont know either him or the wife ......

baby e
23 Apr 2010 13:56

kwwwwwwwwakawakwa aMyname - wareng tl tltltltllttttttt heeeeeeeeeeeeeeedu

realist
23 Apr 2010 14:00

But something tells me you are joking...i dont believe you.
What is it the you don't believe? Of all my responses, have seen me joking?

i think GA, for realist it is easier to tell us the truth because he knows we dont know either him or the wife ......
Exactly.

Cnglemother
23 Apr 2010 14:05

Ninjalo realist,why be so demanding when u know its an affair.it also depends on her reasons 4 entering into this.she sounds like a lover not a mistress if she gets this emotional ova u and uses the love u terms.run baba its gona ugly this woman fell 4 u a long time ago it aint bout sex or money.for someone like u i thought you'd have better judgement of character.

poshspice
23 Apr 2010 14:05

The problem with her is that she is inexperienced when it comes to these matters

if you are set on doing this (not condoning it), this one will definitely give you problems my broda....she has fallen in love with you before you've even done it..tjo! then after sex she will be expecting you to leave your wife for her!!!

Green.arrow
23 Apr 2010 14:07

Of all my responses, have seen me joking?
You are usually as frank as they come.

however, I have seen people who can put together an outrageous story (and this is) just to get people's reactions...and they tell the story without flinching. And to me, this is too sad its easy to believe its fiction than truth.

i think GA, for realist it is easier to tell us the truth because he knows we dont know either him or the wife ......
Exactly
Point taken....

One and Only
23 Apr 2010 14:14

Due to Realist answers I'll assume that men who cheat lack self-worth and need someone to make themselves feel better.

Our partners are mirror images of ourselves, if your partners is childish then ........

Were you honest with this girl about your intentions with her? Did you tell her that she's the other woman? Chances are that you promised her heaven & earth & marriage.

realist
23 Apr 2010 14:15

i thought you'd have better judgement of character.
I'm also human.

@poshpiece
that thought was always in my mind.

realist
23 Apr 2010 14:21

Were you honest with this girl about your intentions with her? Did you tell her that she's the other woman? Chances are that you promised her heaven & earth & marriage.
Honest to the core and she knows it. I did not promise her anything, of that I’m sure of.

Btw one and only, did you ever cheat in your life?

Best-Achiever
23 Apr 2010 14:24

Due to Realist answers I'll assume that men who cheat lack self-worth and need someone to make themselves feel better.

YES One and Only Yes

cleve
23 Apr 2010 14:31

O WOW!!!!!!!!! This is eye opening.

and by the way it's not only men who cheat guys.

Thank God she acted like a lady otherwise i can b rude if u r rude to me. I told her i'll leave him just bcoz she had respect. Believe me it was not easy bcoz he supported me & i knew about his status.

ncaah you are so sweet, shoo I wil NEVER EVR call a woman to leave hubby alone. If it's not you then it's someone else. Deal with the issue at hand which is your partner.

One and Only
23 Apr 2010 14:39

Btw one and only, did you ever cheat in your life?
I'm an honest person who follows good teaching & compliant to the 10 commandments except one:

Cheating!!!!! This is something I would like to stay away from but cannot.

My saturdays have become cheatingdays since my partner usually visits her parents. I'm busy making calls as we speak arranging for someone to come over.

poshspice
23 Apr 2010 14:42

I'll assume that men who cheat lack self-worth and need someone to make themselves feel better.

I doubt it is that simple, people cheat for various reasons, others are just gatvol with their situation but don't have the courage to end it , others for fun,while I think with most men it is how they were socialised....it has been part of our culture and background from way back our ancestors, to break the cycle is gonna be difficult! eish and women have joined....

poshspice
23 Apr 2010 14:52

Btw one and only, did you ever cheat in your life?
I'm an honest person who follows good teaching & compliant to the 10 commandments except one:

Cheating!!!!! This is something I would like to stay away from but cannot.

My saturdays have become cheatingdays since my partner usually visits her parents. I'm busy making calls as we speak arranging for someone to come over.

Hah hah hah one and only Love your honesty...isiphambano sakho nawe...so if you say you are arranging somoene for the weekend, does it mean baningi uyabashitshanisa? and wena why do you cheat ke?

One and Only
23 Apr 2010 15:10

To be honest I don't know because I have a beautiful woman in my life, who cooks, wash, iron & do everything you can think of for me. Hell she even offers sex on a daily basis.

I would blame it on these guys abasaba ukushela ngathi intombi izokushaya mayngakfuni as a results of these cowards most women are left stranded and since I have a good heart I'm always willings to share.

I also put a blame on these married guys who don't know where they gym is, end up looking like hippos, leaving their wives dors and craving for guys like myself.

Ngqesta
23 Apr 2010 15:24

lol lol lol...hayi realist am sorry but One and Only is my new hero. EVERY saturday pho?

Ngqesta
23 Apr 2010 15:25

haybo one and only...you do married ones as well ...nc nc nc

Da Diva
23 Apr 2010 15:40

@realist and One and Only.................why are u doing this guyz, hope u both do protection and i feel sori 4 those Innocent wives... Sengyesaba ukushada uma kunje.lol.

One and Only
23 Apr 2010 15:42

Yes married ones who were my girlfriends before they got married before some guys decided to win the over because they have money for lobola.

Marriage doesn't mean she'll stop from seeing me.

Ngqesta
23 Apr 2010 15:54

One and Only...does it ever cross your mind that maybe, just maybe, some guy could be doing same to/with your wife. haykabi

JadaPinkett
23 Apr 2010 15:58

Hhahahahaa wat a funny article i've eva seen on tvsa............guyz r u stl great nje kodwa.....................Mina nje I luv u all

Kim Possible
23 Apr 2010 16:00

One & Only.....u are truly One of a Kind......yeeeeerrrrrr a results of these cowards most women are left stranded and since I have a good heart I'm always willings to share.

One and Only
23 Apr 2010 16:13

I always try not to think about that, she's a very principled woman.

Anyway with all the experience I have gained while cheating I'm sure I will be able to see sign if she starts doing it and just ship before it's too late.

Mafresh
23 Apr 2010 16:25

My saturdays have become cheatingdays

He he he, thats why I never sleep over or let hubby know when i'll be back.

@ One and Only cheating is a choice man,finish and klaar. So stop blaming bo-mkhabisto or cheeze boyz

myname
23 Apr 2010 16:26

LOL

I'm off on Monday YIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIPPPPPPPPPPPPEEEEEEEEEEEE. C u on Wed.

Men take care of your women & women take care of your men.

tyoksie
23 Apr 2010 16:30

Carefull one & only, even "principled woman" cheat. Bet she can tell that u r up to nogood! we have a sixth sense for this kind of thing. Just ask urself y she wud spend most of her wknds at her parents' house!!! Oh n by the way woman r very gud at hiding an affair.

baby e
23 Apr 2010 17:16

I am off the whole of next week see you guys on next tuesday. had a hectic week. take care and love you guys to bits.
Cheating ones - i say wht goes around comes around.........

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