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Amazinyo!!!

Written by Turbo from the blog Mazinyo on 22 Apr 2010
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Help a Sista;

I met this guy 6 months ago, the first time we went out on date he brought his friend along. It was kinda weird but I just played along. We decided to hook up two weeks later, it was great and nothing kinky happened…

He came over my place a couple of days later, he tried to kiss me and a foul smell came out of his month. I quickly excused myself. I thought he had eaten garlic or something earlier. I decided to give it another try a couple of days later… the same thing happened again. (The smell is unbearable. Not exaggerating)

We ended up doing it without kissing, weird hey.

I love this dude but I don’t have the guts to tell him that he smells awful, what do I do now? How should I tell him without hurting his feelings?

62 Comments

Turbo
22 Apr 2010 14:10

*Crying for help*

TheLady
22 Apr 2010 14:23

I can imagine yena ekuseni!!!
I've been there my dear, I refuse to torture myself like that again...

blaqueboi
22 Apr 2010 14:24

A guy brings another guy to a date... RED FLAG!!! His bad breath is the least of your problems. Run.

TheLady
22 Apr 2010 14:24

Sorry, no advise from me...

zozoe
22 Apr 2010 14:27

LOL

miss dikobe
22 Apr 2010 14:28

A guy brings another guy to a date... RED FLAG!!! His bad breath is the least of your problems. Run

@blaqueboi- wat bedoel jy? sounds saucy, out with it!

Best-Achiever
22 Apr 2010 14:30

he brought his friend along.

i can omagine the poor boy was scared that you might kidnap him...lol

My advice is .... tell him that you are going to see the dentist to clean your teeth and ask him to accompany you there, and convince him on the way that he must also do it and be prepared to pay for both of you incase he tells you he forgot him medical-aid card ...lol

MaWiNiZa
22 Apr 2010 14:30

I would like to know too.....how to make the bad breath demon go away without hurting somebody's feelings

one_size_fits_all
22 Apr 2010 14:31

@The Lady, I don't know how to get out of this one. He treats me well and everything.. Eish, i'm in trouble.

vb4m
22 Apr 2010 14:32

i love kissing, so seriously i cant stand Bad breath!

" Babe, ur breath doesnt smell good, u need help, i really love u"

how is dat???

BigMama
22 Apr 2010 14:32

hahahahahaha, just buy Mouth Wash and give it to him. And everytime you meet just offer him some airwaves.....kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa...

goldii
22 Apr 2010 14:32

If you trully love him ( am not sure if he loves you it's not mentioned in your article) then tell him. Maybe he knows already since you did "it" without kissing . You could make a few suggestions , make a dentist appointment for yourself and ask if he wants to tag along and maybe have his teeth checked also.

However if he has a dietry problem or digestion problems he might need to see the relevant specialist and maybe change his diet.

Whatever you do, do not offer him sweets or breath mints it will make it worse . Been there it is the most sickening thing ever.

one_size_fits_all
22 Apr 2010 14:33

@ The Lady ..I'm in the same situation

Savanah Dry
22 Apr 2010 14:34

Turbo one size ??????????????????

blaqueboi
22 Apr 2010 14:34

I am not suggesting anything or trying to be one of those guys who think all men are gay BUT no straight brother would want to bring a frnd along to a date esp a first date. Unless he was just not into you and wanted to pawn you off to his frnd. So he tried to kiss you, that of course cancels the "not into you" excuse which leaves one_____

Turbo
22 Apr 2010 14:38

A guy brings another guy to a date... RED FLAG!!! His bad breath is the least of your problems. Run....LOL guy, Do u think he might be...No ways. He can't do that to me...

The Lady, I'm thinking of ending the relationship. I can't go on like this. One-size; sorry doll. we're in the same boat.

realist
22 Apr 2010 14:41

I would like to know too.....how to make the bad breath demon go away without hurting somebody's feelings
Easy, ask the person when last they have been to the dentist. This bad breath thing is easy to cure just by visiting the dentist every six months or once in a year.

Turbo
22 Apr 2010 14:44

@ goldii... He's very sensitive and takes things very personal. Not so long ago, he got very angry when i asked him why is he driving a car with no airbags.
Hawu, one_size_fits_all, please don't shine on my shine..lol

blaqueboi
22 Apr 2010 14:46

Turbo ... If you are in doubt follow the link below .... LOL

http://www.tvsa.co.za/default.asp?blogname=blaquesdiary&articleid=13807

Turbo
22 Apr 2010 14:48

I would like to know too.....how to make the bad breath demon go away without hurting somebody's feelings
Easy, ask the person when last they have been to the dentist. This bad breath thing is easy to cure just by visiting the dentist every six months or once in a year.
@ realist, He hasn't been to a dentist in 3 yrs. I've asked him nicely to floss and brush before he sleeps. He doesn't do it at all.

goldii
22 Apr 2010 14:53

tell him to always have mints.

@ Cheesa. Never , ever , ever , ever suggest mints ever , ever , ever..... I beg you.
It is the worst thing you could do, my gaad

Turbo
22 Apr 2010 14:55

Cheesa, i always come up with excuses..*kissing is disgusting*, *I haven't brushed my teeth*
I think he's aware about the problem because he always has ama-mint in his car.
Thanx blaqueboi , i'll browse through now..

@ BA i can omagine the poor boy was scared that you might kidnap him...lol.
I'm so tiny, i wouldn't be able to pick up a fly..lol

Best-Achiever
22 Apr 2010 14:55

He hasn't been to a dentist in 3 yrs. I've asked him nicely to floss and brush before he sleeps. He doesn't do it at all.

hhayi ke kanti unenkani ...LOL i concur with blaqueboi
RUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN

he will end up transfering the eeeeeewwwwwwwwww

blaqueboi
22 Apr 2010 14:57

@ realist, He hasn't been to a dentist in 3 yrs. I've asked him nicely to floss and brush before he sleeps. He doesn't do it at all.

so u have discussed the issue with him

I love this dude but I don’t have the guts to tell him that he smells awful, what do I do now? How should I tell him without hurting his feelings?

maybe you should rephrase this lines... lol

Turbo
22 Apr 2010 14:57

hahahahahaha, just buy Mouth Wash and give it to him. And everytime you meet just offer him some airwaves.....kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa... Bad i dea BigMama. I think uloyiwe or something.

realist
22 Apr 2010 15:00

He hasn't been to a dentist in 3 yrs. I've asked him nicely to floss and brush before he sleeps. He doesn't do it at all.
Right there lies the problem. Since you are doing it without kissing, it is going to be tough to convince him to see the dentist because he will be thinking that it is you who does not like to kiss before you do the deed. Anyway if he is serving your need then why complain, but you if are not happy why settle for less. If you lose him he won’t be last person you will ever see.

mstick
22 Apr 2010 15:02

been there and got the T-shirt...I overlooked his bad breath coz i loved him...when we broke up....it was a sigh of relief on the bad breath part......if you love him and you can leave with that go ahead.....but try to find the guts to tell him I couldn’t...maybe he can get help

Turbo
22 Apr 2010 15:04

blaqueboi ..Actually, i asked him randomly. it wasn't a formal discussion..

blaqueboi
22 Apr 2010 15:07

lol just outta curiousity.. I wonder what everybody's lover in this blog would say about them if they were to log on and reveal your errrr.... "flaws". Better yet let's invite your exes :)

Turbo
22 Apr 2010 15:17

realist, If you lose him he won’t be last person you will ever see.

True that!! Guess what, i have a pending relationship request on FB. (lol)

Lol, blaqueboi..i'm not perfect but i always ensure that i bath before i sleep (Personal Hygiene is very NB). imagine going down on someone onukayo.yeeer.

Turbo
22 Apr 2010 15:24

Reply from: mstick 4/22/2010 9:02:40 PM

been there and got the T-shirt...I overlooked his bad breath coz i loved him...when we broke up....it was a sigh of relief on the bad breath part......if you love him and you can leave with that go ahead.....but try to find the guts to tell him I couldn’t...maybe he can get help

it's been 6 months of hell, No wonder he's been single for 2 yrs!!!!

Da Diva
22 Apr 2010 15:33

Hey turbo here iz my 2 cent advize, ask him 2 acompany (sp) u when u go 2 a dentist 4 cleaning and polishing...then u can advize him 2 do the same every 6 mnths...buy mouthwash and these expensive toothpaste like sensodyne.

One and Only
22 Apr 2010 15:39

Since when's not being to the in 3yrs a problem? Abodarkie!!!!!!

In 2 decades & the half I 've been to the Dentist once, to take out a tooth and I left it there.

I know people who visit Dentists, Gynaecologists, Podiatrists etc on a weekly basis and guess what?

sponono
22 Apr 2010 15:41

sad coz kising is one of the most intimate acts that actully enhances the relationship and brings you closer and wena you shagging with no kiss- thats what working ladies do..mos..lol jus sayin
seriously..he mite be suffereing from halitosis or some form of gum disease that NEEDS special attention from a dentist..your flossing and brushing and mouthwashers WONT work its too late
.and if youv'e been going out for 6months surely you CAN just DISCUSS it openly....or just MAKE an appointment for him...if he loves you he'll realise that you want the best for him....coz he'll know that if you hate his breath you'd just leave him but you still havent

(BTW..some girls have said someone who cant kiss/doesnt kiss, the mdavazo part is ussally a boring affair...- so were you happy there...LOL jus wondering...)

Cande
22 Apr 2010 15:48

LOL@ people who visit Dentists, Gynaecologists, Podiatrists etc on a weekly basis

myname
22 Apr 2010 15:49

Oh gudness i cant have sex without kissing, damn! I luv kissing.

If i were u & i would buy sweets/bublegums bt at the end i'll tell him but nice shame.

Shame ngwana.

MaWiNiZa
22 Apr 2010 15:51

i once told a man i dated in high school ukuthi i was not kissing him because he had bad breath...so he started using mints, but to my suprise when ever i tried to kiss him he reminded me ukuthi he has bad breath, so i cant kiss him i ended up dumping the bugger, bese kangi jwayela kabi

Savanah Dry
22 Apr 2010 15:54

I love kissing hence the minute i smell bad breathe its bye bye buti ... I mean you went as far as falling in love with him while he smelled bad???
Should have dumped the second u smelt his breath..

Question .. does this dude have money or he is gifted in the looks department ..?

Turbo
22 Apr 2010 16:05

@ Savanah Dry He's good looking shame, umona phantsi. He's a model wanna be. I don't think he's loaded * He drives an old tazz with no airbags* I'm worried about my safety.

Reply from: myname 4/22/2010 9:49:03 PM
Oh gudness i cant have sex without kissing, damn! I luv kissing.
I have been having it "Sex" without kissING.

Turbo
22 Apr 2010 16:10

One and Only? ...LOL. How often do you floss and brush your teeth?

seriously..he mite be suffereing from halitosis or some form of gum disease that NEEDS special attention from a dentist..your flossing and brushing and mouthwashers WONT work its too late ..
Yho, Sponono..I thank God he doesn't smoke. I'd be dead by now.

One and Only
22 Apr 2010 16:23

I brush my teeth 2 times a day ie morning & evening. What is this flossing thing?

Most women have smelly vaginas and you don't hear us guys complain about it because taste is where the dirt is.

We gotta have something that smells since our penises don't but if he smells on the armpits, mouth & private parts then mhambise kaShembe noma eZCC.

Akia
22 Apr 2010 16:31

lol

Cande
22 Apr 2010 16:33

lmao

blaqueboi
22 Apr 2010 16:40

haai the lengths ppl will go to score some lols... well here goes .. LOL

Molilo
22 Apr 2010 16:48

LOL One and Only u r the best my friend, I love you

GoldenSta
22 Apr 2010 17:33

LOL

sponono
22 Apr 2010 18:09

LOL @ One and Only..
flossing is a VITAL part of caring for yo teeth coz your toothbrush cant reach certant areas cavities/ or between yo teeth after you been eating that mango/meat/or anything that hangs on yo teeth....so its important use Dental Floss which is found RITE next to your toothbrushes and toothpastes at the supamaket...jus ask..its a bit expensive I'd say but buy it and it lasts longer adn some have that minty flavor on them....( in simple venec kuyintanjana eqinile esebhokisananeni elincane)

failing which you can use the old Cotton method...
Cotton must be stron rol it betwen yo forefinger and thub and start flossing..voila you will preserve yo teeth for a long time (combine this with daily brushing twice a day..and a visit to the dentist IDEALY TWICE A YEAR FOR HEALTHY TEETH..thats what dentists say...

mathata
22 Apr 2010 20:53

his not asking money from you....whats your problem?ppl deal with HIV boifie/girly n they use protection.

which planet are you from?his not diabetic...ya tsoga mos....so?after you dump him you will come back n tell us you are in love with a dry cleaner,dont test God asssombliiiiief.

Im sure you didnt even shake a guy for min But you complain about his breath,same to him,but he loves you,he takes those things like small things.

Life has long legs,if you behave like this the time you turn 40,you will decide to take homeless mental guy n try to mold him,bcs the time you shine your eyes,you will take anything that has penis.

FK
22 Apr 2010 21:05

@mathata - wa tle wa mpolaya. True though

Da Diva
22 Apr 2010 22:19

@Mathata..................u r killing mi...tell it like it is kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa tl tl tl tl tl tl tl tl tl tl tl tl tl tl tl tl tl...

carino
22 Apr 2010 22:58

kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa mathata. LOL @ "life has long legs"

Cnglemother
23 Apr 2010 02:46

Kwa-kwa-kwa-kwa!you kill me die mathata.Turbo if the other denges works perfectly u cant dump him ova amazinyo,you can just skip the kissing until you have come up with a solution.arousal can be achieved in so many ways without going near the mouth. Rather bad breath than bad sex hun!

cleve
23 Apr 2010 09:16

kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa X1000 Mathatha, I have missed you. TJO you kill me with your replies and since you rejected my invite with Brownshuga to meet you.

So have you lost your weight????

poshspice
23 Apr 2010 09:43

Have tried flossing but my gums get swollen if I floss, told my dentist he said maybe am doing it wrong, but I've tried different ways, I always end up with painfull gums..

mathata
23 Apr 2010 10:40

Tjo i didnt reject you guys,i told Shuga that im busy n i will be available from May.

Yes i lost some,hm... sex is fabulous than before.

myname
23 Apr 2010 10:57

ya nhe Mathata is back & the problems are gone ROTFLMBAOL

one_size_fits_all
13 May 2010 08:42

Guys and gentle ladies, were you listening to Mo's show on YFM this morning? Yoh, yoh, poor "Sandile"... Gloria u're the man, i can't stop laughing.

Joy555
30 Mar 2011 17:25

Ja guys im new

Joy555
30 Mar 2011 17:27

Wanna show me hw its done around here

VusiK
22 Jun 2011 09:28

His problem is not with his teeth ... His problem is with his diet!

Turbo
22 Jun 2011 09:47

“Life has long legs, if you behave like this the time you turn 40,you will decide to take homeless mental guy n try to mold him, bcs the time you shine your eyes, you will take anything that has penis.”….Tjo Mathatha....LMAO.

@ VusiK, we’ not together anymore…

VusiK
22 Jun 2011 10:03

I miss Mathatha ...

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