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Ever Wondered

Written by Cutie Pie from the blog Ever Wondered?? on 08 Jul 2010
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Hi Bloggers

Sometimes my mind just wonders about certain things that I don't really have answers TO. Does this happen to you?

For instance I have wondered :

- What would I be today if my dad passed away before I went to tertiary (and I thank GOD every single day that he didn't)

- Where would I be today if I did not meet my very first employer where I met her? (she was a Director for the company and she asked for my CV)

- If I would be this strong woman I am today if it had not been for the trials, hurt and pains I've been through before?

- What did I do in God's eye to deserve the wonderful husband I have today? Am I lucky or just blessed? Did he see how many tears I shed in the past?

- What would I be without GOD?

- Who really am I without my job, family and education (these seem to define us). If these were to be stripped away from me, how would I describe the real me?

- If I would ever be as half good as my mother?

On a silly note........

- What happens in the s**x rehabs that people tend to go to when they have cheated on their spouses?

- Our parents were as edventurous as we are in bed?

- How would my parents react if they were to see what I do in my bedroom? (I always swear they would deny I'm theirs)

30 Comments

Cutie Pie
08 Jul 2010 16:21

What have you wondered bolggers?

GML
08 Jul 2010 16:47

- Where would I be today if I did not meet my very first employer where I met her? (she was a Director for the company and she asked for my CV)
This is a good question. Where would I be if I hadnt been called in for the wrong interview only to find out I was supposed to come in for another job. They gave me the job on the spot.

- If I would be this strong woman I am today if it had not been for the trials, hurt and pains I've been through before?
I wouldnt say I have had trials and hurt. Where would I be without my mother strong influence in my life??

- What did I do in God's eye to deserve the wonderful husband I have today? Am I lucky or just blessed? Did he see how many tears I shed in the past?
I ask myself the same thing everyday. Even more these days than before. I'm blessed
- What would I be without GOD?
I have no idea where I would be.

- Who really am I without my job, family and education (these seem to define us). If these were to be stripped away from me, how would I describe the real me?
The reason we all are is because of family. Whether you consider your friends to be family or not. The bible says a man shall leave his parents and make a new life with his wife. It's our given role in this life, to be mothers, daughters, sisters, friends etc

- If I would ever be as half good as my mother?
I would never come close to being like my mother. So many things she still does today amaze me. I still think of how patient my mother is to have had 3 very stubborn daughters and an extremely stubborn husband who must have his way no matter what. I can only wish to be as patient and hard working as she is

On a silly note........

- What happens in the s**x rehabs that people tend to go to when they have cheated on their spouses?
They teach you not to think about sex and tp channel your energies to something else. I think I may need rehab (no I didnt cheat, I think I may be addicted) Joking!!!
- Our parents were as edventurous as we are in bed?
That thought is just disturbing. When I saw condoms disappear from my dads drawers I knew they were getting busy. SIES, no child wants to know what teh parents get up...But knowing my dad they are- knowing my mom they are not. I prefer to keep it that way!!

- How would my parents react if they were to see what I do in my bedroom? (I always swear they would deny I'm theirs)
My parents wouldnt be surprised. They know how touchy and explicit I am. I kiss my man in front of them and I do talk about sex and genitals with them. Especially since my father had prostate cancer. I asked him what it felt like to have a younger man touch his privates.

babetm
08 Jul 2010 16:48

yipee im first

GML
08 Jul 2010 16:51

I always wonder if I will be able to handle some situations that my mother has gone through. Would I be able to still come of it and smile everyday?

Toodecent
08 Jul 2010 19:12

I dont think I would be anything without GOD... What would I be if I didnt know the right and wrong people like I do?Probably still dreaming.. I seriously do not know what I would be like if I was not having such a great lady in my life.

Green.arrow
08 Jul 2010 19:17

aaah......U guys just made me smile...:-)...and appreciate........

cuz-cuz
08 Jul 2010 21:54

mina i wonder alot of silly thing like what if we could see the air that we breath like if it was white n u will have ppl choosing the air, competing for clean air. what if every new year, things changed, like when ppl talk they will be like do u remember 2007 when the sky was yellow n the grass was blue n trees red. I alwys wonder why God decided to let no instant change happen on midnite on a new year why nt have all the poor ppl rich and all the rich ppl poor, all the gals be boys n all boys be gals all the fat ppl be slim for a year and all the thin ppl be fat for a year, the ugly be beaitiful n beautiful ugly be some chages every years n have peolpe wondering at 12 oclock every year what will happen to them n their surroundings.

cuz-cuz
08 Jul 2010 21:56

what if ppl fart had colour......

Green.arrow
08 Jul 2010 22:44

Ryt now....
I wonder what life would be like if my granddad was still alive.......
Or if my father had stuck arround?...... #justtonight.....am in need of fatherly comfort:-(

@cuz-cuz...,u got some chuckles out of me....instant change ka new years.....the rich and beautifull would dread new years...o kare ke a bona.....:-)

carino
12 Jul 2010 15:08

:-)
nice article.. nice responses

LOL @cuz-cuz.. you are crazy!

Sometimes I wonder what I would be if I had any other parents. I wonder what my family would be like if I had passed away years ago... I wonder what girl my partner would have loved so much had he not met me that day when we first met...

And I wonder what I would do if I had to wake up and learn that there was never God, it’s all just a theory and we have all believed it so much that our brains have convinced us that it exists.

I wonder sometimes if I actually have any friends... And sometimes I wonder how much I would have by now if I had started saving money back when I was a kid like my dad said I should.

A lot of times I wonder why certain things were called by their names... Like how come the colour green is called green.. Why blue is called blue and red, red... and staff like that .

Best-Achiever
12 Jul 2010 15:13

nna i always wonder where will i be if it wasnt fo God's Mercy, the things He has been doing for me lately are simply amaizing ...

Cody
12 Jul 2010 15:31

Hey Best!!! i miss this place guys!

Ms. Jay
12 Jul 2010 15:43

I miss you guys also.....seems I am not the only one who has been away...hey Cody.

I wonder where I would be if I didnt marry my man of God.....he is amazing and the reason I am in the house of God I am in. Thank God for opening the eyes of my understanding and giving me illumination to see him as a daddy to my baby....

I also wonder where i would have been had it not been for God's redemption plan?...scary............

pastor chic
12 Jul 2010 15:49

i always wonder had i made a different choice on that night of (10 may 2010), how things would be today.

i wonder if this is the kind of life God had in mind for me when i was born.

Best-Achiever
13 Jul 2010 08:36

Hey CodZZZZZZZZZZZZZ, tjo i miss you so so much

Hey Ms. Jay, you have been missed, where is the little one?

Ms. Jay
13 Jul 2010 08:46

hey BA, he is all grown now....ha its time i tried for the second little mischief....i don wanna a wide gap betwen them. how r u?

mhantu
13 Jul 2010 09:36

nice one cutie pie...

Sometimes i wonder how life would have been like now if my fiancee had survived that car crash and we were married, if i would have been the wife that he has wanted me to be, i would have made each other happy as we were then..

Sometimes i wonder if i grew up knowing my father if i would have been a diferent person?

I always wonder if i was my mother, would i have survived being diagnosed with breast cancer, loose my 1 breast but still give a beautiful smile everyday

*wondering*

blueroze
13 Jul 2010 10:47

I always wonder.......

. why does one have to pass Mathematics Higher Grade with an A or B to study Medicine....when the actual human body is not made of numbers and Drs nevre calculate when we consult, they examine us!!.......

****wandaz even more******

BigMama
13 Jul 2010 10:57

kwa kwa kwa @blueroze, keep wondering my friend, one day you will get the answer...

ms.tebby
14 Jul 2010 10:56

kwaaa! blueroze mntanam im wondering the same thing as well *shrug*

mstick
14 Jul 2010 13:20

I wonder how will it be if my mom was still alive, she is going to miss the day i walk down the isle i wonder how am i gonna feel on that day.....when i have my first child she wont be there i wonder how am i gonna feel.....i wonder i just wonder:-(

mstick
14 Jul 2010 13:23

@ mhantu...eish askies dear askies...*sigh* ja neh life

pele
14 Jul 2010 13:24

And I wonder what I would do if I had to wake up and learn that there was never God, it’s all just a theory and we have all believed it so much that our brains have convinced us that it exists.

i also wonder in fright (as i dont wnt to disobey God in any manner) if i would wake up to find out the was never God, it was ajust a theory like atheists say, and wondering if not keeping our cultures was his plan.

i also wonder how would the world will be if, MAN were the ones to get pregnant, we will have kids in our stomachs for 9months and wait for the due date..shoo scary.

i also wonder if beutiful ppl were those we look at and see ugliness, and beutiful ppl we have were called ugly heheh

MakaB
14 Jul 2010 13:35

******** i always wonder how i would look if i was dark in complexion*******

mstick
14 Jul 2010 13:51

@ Pele read the book called The Shack by W. P Young it will shed some light

pele
14 Jul 2010 14:01

mstick- what is it about the book?

pele
14 Jul 2010 14:50

ok mstick i did i google it and got the information, but it is till someone's else assupmtions about God, no tangible proof of Him.
and aslo it is a fiction, but i will try to get it and read it, maybe it will give me some answers though i dont rely on other ppl's thinking aabout God.

zozoe
14 Jul 2010 15:17

i always wonder how could i survived ( my friends got pregnant nd became alcoholics) in pretoria coz i wanted to study in PTA but my dad refused

i always wonder how would i be if my mom was still alive coz she used to beat the hell out of me and i was rebellious

i always wonder if i didnt get this job, where would i be working now

i wonder if i was born in New York and stayed there

cuz-cuz
14 Jul 2010 15:58

i always wonder where i would have been if i contuined studying grassland, ooh once we had an assignmnent and we have to collect 30 different types of grass, profile them ( their scientific name, date of collection) and you had to make sure they stay green, i would wake up early in the morning and go to the parks n bushes to get it when it still had fog n wet, whenever i walked around i will always check the grass and my economics friend though i was going crazy and our class would have trips where we go to another town just to look at grass ooh i miss that.

mstick
15 Jul 2010 09:15

hey Pele.....try to get it and read it, as much as its believed to be a fiction its actually a real life story

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