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Is it love or I’m stupid

Written by NotAgain from the blog life sucks on 12 Jul 2010
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Good morning blockers
After breaking up with my baby daddy my life was a mess, if it moved I would fu*k it.
Then I met this guy, he was not my type but I gave him a chance, we started fooling around, we would go out and party every weekend, until I developed some feelings for him, then things changed

Then he told me what was going on in his life….he bought a house with his girlfriend jointly and they fought, she moved out but her things were still there, earlier this year she took all her stuff.
The problem is the nigga doesn’t want to let go of her, the chick want to take her name out of the house but brada man is not interested in selling the house, I think he is hoping 1 day they will get back together, the way I see it he is obsessed ka dat chick.

If im with him I do feel gore wang rata.
I’ve dumped him so many time but he keeps on coming back and tells me gore he loves me and I make him happy.
Really don’t know what to do .I’ve tried walking away but my heart doesn’t .

wht must i do?

27 Comments

NotAgain
12 Jul 2010 10:51

help a sista hle.

carino
12 Jul 2010 11:01

SMH

JuneRose
12 Jul 2010 11:12

I think he is hoping 1 day they will get back together, the way I see it he is obsessed ka dat chick.

I think you know the answer. So why waste time with him.

If im with him I do feel gore wang rata. (a feeling is something that will vanish when time goes on)

I’ve dumped him so many time but he keeps on coming back and tells me gore he loves me and I make him happy. (Does he make you happy, do you feel happy in that relationship. He only wants you now because he's lonely)

One and Only
12 Jul 2010 11:36

Dear Not Again

It seems like this thing keeps on happening to you over and over again. Now you need help desperately. You got 3 options at your disposal right now:

1) Hire someone to eliminate this other women
2) Find yourself another boyfriend
3) Ungeza nalapha kimi-ke endlini ngizokuchatha nginomuthi wamadoda

Shwem.

Ms. Jay
12 Jul 2010 11:56

@NotAgain, sounds like a script out of a soapie, but you know the answer, you would be "stupid" (your own words in your title) to stick with him - after all you know that he is "obsessed ka dat chick "(your words again) and as Junerose put - "he wants you coz he is lonely".

One and only? is right find yourself another boyfriend...this does not sound like love but rather being used.....good luck!

Strolicious
12 Jul 2010 12:01

ha ha ha One and Only.....umtana bantu ufuna usizo.

Carino usile

my advise keep on walking....

titidi
12 Jul 2010 12:18

@Notagain " stop lying to yoself about how wonderful he is to you, His lonely he needs yo company......and stop believing dat everyman loves u simply because he says he does....wake up and smell the coffie

Sslave
12 Jul 2010 12:28

After breaking up with my baby daddy my life was a mess, if it moved I would fu*k it.

It aint love NotAgain. He's just 1 of the moving things. Keep doing him until he cant move anymore

ntoko
12 Jul 2010 12:30

hahahahahahahaha only laughing at the comments so far...

Well it seems as if most ladies are repeating the same mistake all over again out there I am not perfect but i guess its about time we wake up ladies and learn to be independent without any second opinion some ppl are two reliable to other people sometimes we need to learn to know what is best for our lives than anything else in the world, its kinda nagging sometimes why worry about a boyfriend i hardly hear ppl moaning or raving about husbands plz ppl lets understand the meaning of JOLA( joke of love affair) therefore what are we expecting rather get married and consult a marriage councilor for proper advice because i for one i have better things to do than worry about a man who's busy enjoying his life while i am frustrated lets grow up plz ppl no offense

BigMama
12 Jul 2010 12:45

Its not love but stupidity, you know very well that he is inlove/obsessed with the other woman. l just don't understand why you have to post this when the answer is obvious and you know what you must do. Wena you are just a spare wheel waiting to be used in emergencies.
l will not waste time telling you what to do as you have the answer to that.

BigMama
12 Jul 2010 12:46

Thank you ntoko.

Strolicious
12 Jul 2010 12:52

is it a in thing to buy a house wth bf/gf?

poshspice
12 Jul 2010 13:20

kwa kwa kwa one & only akekho ofana nawe, uwena wedwa!!!!

titidi
12 Jul 2010 13:44

"After breaking up with my baby daddy my life was a mess, if it moved I would fu*k it. " ha ha ha ha u gonna fu**k this one again because u will be double mess this time.

Msoe
12 Jul 2010 13:51

I know that what most of the bloggers has said is painful to you. It is rather hard to leave someone that you love just because you are uncertain about how they feel for you. We can tell you to leave him 10000000000000 times, but you wont leave him until you are certain that he is not what you want. What I can tell you is that it is never wise to leave someone just because people told you to do so, because then you will leave, not because YOU wanted to but because other people adviced you to, in the process you will end up going back to him over and over again. And everytime you go back to him he loses respect for you. I say, stay if you want to because at the end of the day its only you and him who are in the relationship and who knows exactly what is going on. If you still feel that you can still bare the breakups, coming 2nd best and not getting all that you want from this man then stick with him girl. Its not up 2 us to judge.

Bounty
12 Jul 2010 13:59

Well it sounds like you have other problems (other than the ex-girlfriend) and are just using that relationship as a scapegoat. You must just tell the guy to shape up and for goodness sake stop taking him back after he has disappointed or treated you badly, stop the cycle.

maud
12 Jul 2010 14:15

MMMM

zozoe
12 Jul 2010 15:09

love is in the AIR! LOL

Ms. Jay
12 Jul 2010 15:32

love or confusion?

ntoko
12 Jul 2010 15:43

I truly understand that most ppl are in the similar situation as you are notAgain But why suffer while he's busy enjoying his life knowing that he will always come back to you and u will always welcome him with you open arms plz. Rather start acting or start packing, men are hard to please if i were u i should have learned my lesson u are no longer with ur child's dad but on top of that u engaged yourself in such a relationship more stress for u i am just asking out of curiosity are you desparate or what?? Look after your baby and forget about men for a change there are too many successful single mom out there just do your homework tonight u will know what i am talking about....Never let men take advantange of you fight for your rights and your child's future if you don't do it for yourself nobody will Dear....

mathata
12 Jul 2010 17:44

tjo he toss you like a coin!you better worry abt yr child.....not somebody"s house n trash.

ntoko
13 Jul 2010 11:07

mmmhhhhhhh

Benji Wa Bantwana
13 Jul 2010 15:27

Is he RICH? If the answer is no then stop wasting your time. Please also let us know if you are good looking or not, i might have a useful advise for you.

BigMama
13 Jul 2010 15:32

kwa kwa kwa kwa Benji, lets just say she is good looking, sizzling hoooot..

titidi
13 Jul 2010 15:34

@ Benji I don't think he's rich if he was rich he should have bought the house alone not jointly with his ex

ntoko
13 Jul 2010 16:04

good answer titidi but again rich ppl are stingy ppl they spend wisely kwakwakwa (((hides)))) why mara???

VusiK
31 Mar 2011 18:37

It's not Love ... and you're probably not stupid ... You're just being Stupid.

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