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carino
03 Sep 2010 10:04

I... *click!*

okaaaaay...
Enjoy..... Im not too sure...

lol

Cande
03 Sep 2010 10:10

kwaaa

Kakapana
03 Sep 2010 10:13

and then?

Sobza
03 Sep 2010 10:18

Click what now? The only thing that is clickable below those 4 words is that Tara advert

Lobby the girl
03 Sep 2010 10:19

Yebo Yes..
This is me entering the Cyber Life with my Bloggers on my side..and having them on my side..yeah,yeah my side..lol..trying to rap

CNAZO A.K.A NAUGHTYGAL
03 Sep 2010 10:20

Click what now?

Sslave
03 Sep 2010 10:21

lol

Ms. Jay
03 Sep 2010 10:27

Click and enjoy what Dzi.....please elaborate dear...

Ms. Jay
03 Sep 2010 10:31

Lobby the girl is this your article???

lejazz
03 Sep 2010 10:46

Mehlolo ka James ga e fele!!!!!!

Ms. Jay
03 Sep 2010 10:50

THIS IS SCARRRRRRRY……… Is this tru guys?????? I just got goose bumps...now my weave is itching big time...........

"My friend Laimi, is a PA working in a Laywer's office in Windhoek.
Two months ago she went to an upmarket hair salon on Independence avenue and spent well over $1500 for a Brazilian weave. She looked good in her new hair style!.
two weeks later she started suffering severe headaches that would not go away with compral. frequently she'd wake up at night with the constant headache. she went to a private doctor who gave her myprodols that would work for only a few hours and then the headaches will be back worse than before.
desperate she went to see a specialist who did blood tests and even a scan of the brain and all the tests were normal.
because of the headaches she could not concentrate at work and was sleeping very poorly.
she went back to her doctor who decided to examine her scalp and under the beautiful weave he found worms! the worms were burrowing into her skull and after sending the samples to the lab they found that the hair had eggs from which the worms had hatched!
the doctor told her that the hair was probably from a corpse because the kind of worms are usually found on dead bodies!
the hairdresser who supplied the hair was shocked and told her that they fitted 10 weaves already and that batch of hair had gone very fast!

if you have a weave and getting constant headaches, this is something you may consider checking out. Poor Laimi had to shave her head after this ordeal and take antibiotics for a full 2 weeks!

ladies we should be careful with what we put on our heads, it is better to appreciate our natural beauty and be content with what God has blessed us with than to chase artificial beauty.

if you know a sister you care about who may benefit from this message please forward ASAP before it's too late! "

Sobza
03 Sep 2010 10:56

#cringing# ......tjo @MsJay

Green.arrow
03 Sep 2010 10:57

eh eh eh Ms.Jay
This is scaring me off weaves and wigs even worse than i have always been.

Kakapana
03 Sep 2010 10:59

LOL @ Ms Jay's story....at least I use synthetic hair from Kinky

One and Only
03 Sep 2010 11:01

Maybe it's because Brazilian weave is made of Brazilian wax

Ms. Jay
03 Sep 2010 11:05

Right now - my scalp is itching like craziii.........and I have a Brazilian -

I wish you could have seen the look on my face and the rate i started scratching when I opened this email!

Then my workmate tells me that at church last week - one of the ladies was complaining of a burning sensation on her scalp after she put a weave and then she was covered in rash all around her face and neck - she said she reacted to the hair spray - but after reading this and him telling me that - tjo - this weave is coming off at lunch time......tru or not - I think for peace of mind sakes I will remove until I recover from this trauma.............

FK
03 Sep 2010 11:06

I got goose bump as well - but, nothing will separate me from the love of my Brazillian weave. Infact, getting brazillian lace wig.

Ms. Jay
03 Sep 2010 11:10

lol One and only? are you serious?

yo know some months ago on Oprah she covered where the hair comes from - the ladies cut their hair and sacrifice it to a "god" (nna I think they are being tricked coz someone is collecting that hair and making a killing) and there are pple who collect it, package it and ship it off for sale.....

and my husband is LHBAOAMRN.............he told me sarcastically that its from dead women.... you cant rule it out but brrrrrrrrrrrrrr..........

Lobby the girl
03 Sep 2010 11:11

Eish OnO..
@Kakapana..me too my Dear and is not that expensive..nagana o spenda that much money and get worms, I thought only fongkongs can make u sick..aowa

Ms. Jay
03 Sep 2010 11:13

lol FK - I dont want until i get over this trauma -

if there is a doctor on TVSA PLEASE tell me if this can happen.....

Sana Lwam
03 Sep 2010 11:18

OMG.....Ms.Jay

Vesa
03 Sep 2010 11:20

I got the email early this morning, and got shivers reading it.

LaPam
03 Sep 2010 11:41

this is scary, really, am removing my weave now,ke simolotse ebile. it has started to each.am so scared, am keeping no hair anymore.

Sobza
03 Sep 2010 11:42

There was a certain pastor who said some of the hair is sacrificed to some gods and you women buy it.....taking all those curses. Thatha'ma weaves....thatha'ma curses.

pele
03 Sep 2010 11:43

TJO..Ladies beware..

poshspice
03 Sep 2010 12:01

does anyone know about Enrique Iglesias perfoming in SA? I am a fan

myname
03 Sep 2010 12:10

We were talking about this email this morning. Eish ndakusinda coz i have chiskop.

@Poshspice i also like him bt i cant go & watch

Well since it is my blog too i thought i should also share this email. I got it this morning and its long. Here it is:

But question is would you have done what this woman did to save her marriage?

I did it to save my marriage!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

My husband and I were pretty much happy, at least that's what I thought.
We did every single thing to keep the spark alive. I will leave love notes under the pillow while he was out to the gym as he would make our bed. And I will find my favourate chocolate wrapped in tongs under my pillow when I go to bed.

Whenever we had a misunderstanding(dont wanna call it argument coz we never really argue, I was thought never to argue with a man) will write letters to each other to express our feelings and it worked like a miracle.

Until one day everything shattered. My woman instinct told me something was up. He went to Nelspruit for one of his jobs and when he came back he wanted to show me the pictures of some road works which almost caused him to be involved in a fatal accident but he managed. Now the pictures were clear that the person took them while the car was in motion and obviously husband wouldn't do such we have two lovely kids I always reminded him he needs to think of them before he could be reckless with his life. I dismissed the ideas of him being with someone on that day just to keep the peace.

One day the little mistress left her whole make-up bag in his car while he was supposed to be on a business trip. I couldn't dismiss this I confronted him and he denied it and I went to his car to get as much evidence as possible and there it was a deposit slip with her numbers and I called her to which she confirmed my worst fear and even told me that she knows about me and the kids.

We were on the verge of divorce I had already called my lawyer and packed my bags and leaving with my mother until one day I had a proposition for my husband. I invited him for dinner.

Our Conversation:(cut the rest of the formality straight to the point)

Me:"I need you to be very honest with me, don't hold back anything."

Him: ïf it will stop you from divorcing me then yes I will"

Me: "I didnt call you here to discuss divorce or anything I just need you to be honest with me"

Him: "ok fine''

Me: ''do you honestly love her''

Him: ''it wasnt love, it was...., I dont know what I was doing"

Me:''I want to meet with her''

Him: ''no you cant, why would you wanna meet with her I told you everything about us, its over''

Me: ''I gave this a lot of thought, there is probably something this girl is giving to you that made you to go to her and that kept you with her for the whole 2 years. and I dont want to lie if it wasnt the little hind she was leaving whenever you were with her I wouldnt have thought of you being with any other woman, I want her to be part of you and I want my marriage"

Him: ''what are you trying to say''

Me: ''I want you to keep her as your mistress and I want you to be faithful to both of us, I want you to have an open marriage."

Him: 'this is crazy, I cant allow that....its you I want not her''

Me: ''cut the crab, I am not here for it, I am her coz I wanna save my marriage I want my kids to have their family back and if it means this girl being part of that its ok...but you have to promise onething, no babies with her"

It was one<

Lobby the girl
03 Sep 2010 12:18

@My name
I was gonna send this lenna ..iyoo..is true wat they say great minds thinks alike..
Lovers can make u do things..

Lobby the girl
03 Sep 2010 12:19

I mean Love can make you do things, nna never..

FK
03 Sep 2010 12:20

@myname - please finish the story tu

GML
03 Sep 2010 12:21

Myname- Does it end there? the email I mean, it's missing an ending

Lobby the girl
03 Sep 2010 12:24

I was scared,angry at first and lots of question running through my head. Am I real, what got into me, where did I get this idea, will it work for me or for them, will I loose my husband to this girl in the long run.

After an hour or so they both arrive. He introduced us and we sat down while he left us. we had a good 5 min or so of quiteness. she is young, an accountant (husband is also an accountant). they met in Nelspruit while he was on his business trip and took off immediately. She has a baby girl (3years), and doesnt wanna get married (works perfect for me) she is a career woman. I also shared with her how/where I met my husband and all the she-bangs.she asked me why I wanted to meet her. I couldnt wait for another meeting she had just presented me with an opportunity, to me she already looked like a good girl.

Me:''Listen you know that I am his wife and maybe he told you that we are divorcing, I dont know what is your plan with your relationship with him but I am not going any where. He likes you and I dont know his plans also about your relationship, but I want us to live here like adult and make peace with the whole situation. I am not here to tell you to leave my husband alone coz he is the problem here not you...he told you that he is married coz he wanted you to be clear of where he stand and you agreed to be with him knowing this. I want me and you to keep him happy. I want you to stay his mistress...I dont want to be thinking and wondering where he is when he is not at home I want to know that when he is not with me he is either with you or with his friends thats all....I dont want him to live a lie anymore. I want us to make this work for both of us. You will always have him and I will have my family together.And this will only be known by me, you and him only no one else."

at this time she is quite she is not even looking at me. I wonder what is going on in her head what is she thinking...will she agree. Will she use this opportunity to win my husband over. where will I stand after this. She is still very quite

Me:''I want us to go for a blood test. And keep this union as clean as possible, I would want you to please try to be honest and faithful to him and should you find someone else to please let me know''

She never said a word and I couldnt continue anymore I wanted to know what she thinks and I wanted to know if she agrees with my proposition. I decided to leave and she still didnt say a thing.

Weeks went by I was still staying at mom's. The kids were staying with him. After what felt like a year to me he was back with the answer we were all going to the clinic for a clear health bill and My husband and I live an honest happily open marriage. I am not yet friends with the mistress but we talk sometimes. My husband is more at home than ever his business trips has be cut from 4 times a month to just once a month. She is happy, I am happy and my husband is happy. Its been a year now.

Will I give any other person to do this to save their marriage. NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I dont know what got into me.

mathata
03 Sep 2010 12:27

hm!

tshetlha
03 Sep 2010 12:30

@poshspice, his show was posponed the last time I heard. but that was like weeks back. He didnt sell enough tickets.

This is scary stuff, I dont like Brazillian coz it looks and feels like real human hair, worse in Hillbrow I saw them reusing it without washing it 1st so it is possible that this woman got worms.....we should be ver careful

BigMama
03 Sep 2010 12:34

Hmmmmmm.

poshspice
03 Sep 2010 12:37

Wow, I am speechless. I guess it works for her, just like it works for people in polygamy relationships, I just wonder what will happen when hubby is bored of this particular mistress, will he tell her that I have found another mistress?

pele
03 Sep 2010 12:41

the problem is what if the husband gets tired of both of them in 5yrs down teh line and go and get a third party, as this is the case with polygamous relationships, is she ready to take another one and another one?

i think woman are always willing to do anything to save their marriages, if it works for them now who am i to judge her? but hey i feel for teh ladies, we men just do want we wnat whenever we want, and we are selfish, no woman must go through this.

mathata
03 Sep 2010 12:43

if his rich i will take money n go...i dont believe in Dictators....n she is.

ppl are scared of something they dont know.....being a single Parent,life is fabulous ..you have a husband or not

FK
03 Sep 2010 12:44

thanks Lobby.

Tjo, I don't know what was going thru her mind (wife), all I know is, I am too jealous to share my man. I would divorce him at once.

realist
03 Sep 2010 12:45

i think woman are always willing to do anything to save their marriages

The suggested solution should not be one of them. I just do not see why one would compromise oneself to such level just to save a contract.

Savanah Dry
03 Sep 2010 12:47

hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhm interesting indeed!!

GML
03 Sep 2010 12:48

I would never allow such.

When we made a commitment to each other we promised to love and to hold, in sickness and in health etc.

No where in our vows did we say we promise to love each other until we get bored or the sex gets boring.

When the whole thing started it was me and him against the world and there was no third person saying I do with us. It was just you and me.

Manje, he decides to bring number 3 into the picture. Hell no. To think that this woman went through child birth and got stretch marks etc all in the name of her marriage. Then yena he goes and does *bleep!* like this. Hell no.

I dont know what I would do but I know that I wouldnt just let it slide nje.

tshetlha
03 Sep 2010 12:49

Iyoooooo...thi woman is brave, very brave. I don't know if I can do that. I dont want to share my man, i want him all to myself. She is very brave and Strong. She truly loves her husband. If it's working for her, why not.

TheLady
03 Sep 2010 12:51

I put my weave on yesterday...I refuse ukusatshiswa lol

Lobby the girl
03 Sep 2010 12:54

Eish, I wish there arer more men like you Pele wa tseba..and worst u r taken..lol..kiddinng..but seroiusly though Banna ke dintja kaofela..

mathata
03 Sep 2010 12:54

i said it before......ther's no way brazillian hair can be R1500,d cheapest one from d factory is $500

maud
03 Sep 2010 12:54

i send this e-mail to my husband, while he was busy reading it smiling , he said some man are lucky, the only time i would allow this its when i have already plan to kill both of them

pele
03 Sep 2010 12:54

and i am curious to know about this, all of them tested HIV- and are faithfull to each other, does this mean they are not in dangerof HIV? Sleeping without a condom with both of them is not dangerous?
hayi- i need answers, as this wife acts as if they are out of danger by mentioning that.
They are swapping different fluids and woman can get infections just by sitting in dirty toilet seats or using unwashed hands when changing their pads/tampons anditsho?
No man this is dangerous or am ia afraid of this disease so much that i am too paranoid?

CNAZO A.K.A NAUGHTYGAL
03 Sep 2010 12:58

@ms jay i must be very carefull coz i like artificial hair ,i hate my own hair i dont feel my self with my own hair btw thanks for the info

pele
03 Sep 2010 12:58

Lobby dear, i am the only boy in a house full of woman, so i cant imagine someone doing that to my own sisters, i will hate them for life.

Lobby the girl
03 Sep 2010 12:59

i think woman are always willing to do anything to save their marriages

ashamed of going back home and facing the neighbours whispering on your back..what's the term they use for someone who came back from marriage konje?

@mathata..couldn't agree with you more..no one to bully u around and too many questions..who is he,why is he looking at u like that, do u know what time it is..eish is fun really mara if u got used of hubby then there is a problem there

Pooky
03 Sep 2010 13:05

what's the term they use for someone who came back from marriage konje?

umabuyekwendeni

mathata
03 Sep 2010 13:05

most rich ppl is what they do...if you dont agree they promise you a used UNO.

poshspice
03 Sep 2010 13:11

@pele In addition, the other woman is single, husband's visit have gone down from 4 times a month to once a month, therefore thare is a posibility that the lady is not faithful too..

She has a baby girl (3years), and doesnt wanna get married (works perfect for me) she is a career woman.

Bull! she was just hurt by someone, she will change her mind, Most women have been where she is ' I don't wanna get married and am happy being a single mom and a mistress' it doesn't work in the long term. a woman falls in love and dreams that he lives his wife for her....

mathata
03 Sep 2010 13:17

marriage is not a life time investment.....to my knowledge,the best way to shine this is to hide money n save it .. n play small in a masion like n idiot.

pele
03 Sep 2010 13:21

@Posh and how can you say you wnat ot get married to a woman you sharing a man with, you will act as if you dont just to be accomodated andmaybe for money issues also.

i feel for this wife, she should have let the man choose where he wants to be and if he chooses the mistress , she should have let go and moved on, not clinging to a false dream of a happy amrrige , how can you be happy knowing your husabdan is bonking somone else for a year, Depression will follow after all this.

Kakapana
03 Sep 2010 13:22

I'm not an expert but I think people that have affairs get some sort of thrill from the whole secretiveness and wondering if they will be caught.

the reason why the husband was at home more often after the open marriage agreement is bcoz his affair was no longer enjoyable since the wife knew about it .

mathata
03 Sep 2010 13:26

most women like this(girlfriend)they are very wise,they dont mind to play d game for years.....knowing at the end they will be winners.

To be honest men are not wise.once you bacame patient with them they use their private part to think.

mathata
03 Sep 2010 13:35

@kakapana.....yes,when you steal sugar is very enjoyable than finding it in trash bin.

tshetlha
03 Sep 2010 13:45

The guys already chose Pele, he chose the wife and she said no

Him: 'this is crazy, I cant allow that....its you I want not her''

Me: ''cut the crab, I am not here for it, I am her coz I wanna save my marriage I want my kids to have their family back and if it means this girl being part of that its ok...but you have to promise onething, no babies with her"

machinjiri
03 Sep 2010 13:46

in this case its the woman who suggested this, i feel sorry for us women the things we go thru in our lives, eish. We call this giving hm a rope whatever he daz with it is up to hm. As u read on it says after the agreement the business trips were cut to 1 a month while under normal circumstances they were 4. The rope he was given is confusing hm. Big up woman

Sana Lwam
03 Sep 2010 13:47

On a serious note guys has Phil Blaqueboi Mphela left TVSA?

ms.tebby
03 Sep 2010 13:51

uhu!!!

FK
03 Sep 2010 13:51

The guys already chose Pele, he chose the wife and she said no
@tshethla - but he was lying to the wife.

Him: ''no you cant, why would you wanna meet with her I told you everything about us, its over''

Like he lied about them being over and coming back later happy to do the tests with the mistress. If it was over, why bring her back?

pele
03 Sep 2010 13:57

hayi tshethla, how do you choose one woman and end up with two. He should have told the wife 'no baby, i can never do that you, from now on, we are family no extras'. if he really meant it.

GML
03 Sep 2010 14:01

Does this arrangement mean that she will also have a man on the side?
The man lied to her and she is letting him get away with it.

Here I thought that she was going to pray for the mistress instead.

I would have probably held her hands and prayed for her.
Same with hubby. I would have asked him to go down on his knees with me and prayed for him.

Commit them into the Lords hands. Nothing beats knowing the uncertainty of "what is she going to do next" lol

tshetlha
03 Sep 2010 14:02

Nh, pele, I was just tryna show you gore the woman made the decision not the other way around. Me I don't think I will do such a thing.

BigMama
03 Sep 2010 14:03

Reply from: Sana Lwam Friday, September 03, 2010 13:47 PM

On a serious note guys has Phil Blaqueboi Mphela left TVSA?

Since when are we Phil spoke person, send him a private message and ask him.

tshetlha
03 Sep 2010 14:04

hahahahahahaaaaaaa...BigMama u are cruel.

We dont know where he is.

poshspice
03 Sep 2010 14:05

Pele "He should have told the wife 'no baby, i can never do that you, from now on, we are family no extras'. if he really meant it."
True...

Sana Lwam
03 Sep 2010 14:05

Mximm BigMama....and I came running after ur sms....gimme the juice maan.

Lobby the girl
03 Sep 2010 14:07

Here we go again..BM..mashwafo fase Ausi..it's friday remember..save ya energy for later my darling..ko Mam-rubi wa tseba mos..

myname
03 Sep 2010 14:11

oh guys sorini now i have to finish some work.

Now let me read ur comments coz i boss yaka itswile anyway i hope he is not coming back.

LOL Lobby

BigMama
03 Sep 2010 14:11

kwa kwa kwa kwa, l wanted to spoil your friday gal. l am punishing you for not being were l wanted you to be last night.

No Phil will not leave TVSA because of people like me. You all need to remember that no one invited you koTVSA, you all came free willing and thus how l expect each one to leave unless you get blocked.

@Lobby, don't worry dear its no big deal.

myname
03 Sep 2010 14:25

LOL 2 all of u. Eish naze nayi analyza ke lento bakithi but im loving the response.

Really i dont know what i would do e bt hey kungaqhuma unobathana lol. Dont forget im the worst coward! Akumnandi ukuqobisa hahahaha

Happy Spring and happy Friday guys!

Thanks Lobby. I did click & i enjoy it!

poshspice
03 Sep 2010 14:28

GML I dont know what I would do but I know that I wouldnt just let it slide nje.

I like this part of your response because in most cases we are naive to think that when married you can just divorce your partner; marriage is different from a relationship or dating.

No one should allow cheating or to be disrespected but if it happens to you, take time to look at all factors and make a decision based on the facts of your case or your situation only

Others would decide to give hubby an ultimatum to never see the mistress again and renew their vows, with others cheating is the final straw, a lot has happened before and the marriage is irreparable…

But if everything has been going well, he is a good husband, a good father, a friend and a fairly wonderful human being, spending most of the time with family then you find out he is cheating on you it’s hard to just throw away all of the above
That is why some women stay, they look at the pros and cons of the situation and most importantly if hubby is committed to making things work.

For me the only reason to stay after a cheating episode is when hubby is willing to change (on whether cheaters stop cheating is a debate for another day, here I am talking about a specific situation) and commit to doing everything to gain my trust again, submit himself to me.

His actions after cheating become the deciding factor again that is if he was a wonderful hubby before I discovered and feel that I cannot judge him based on one incident so he deserves a second chance.

Lobby the girl
03 Sep 2010 14:30

Eish Bathong this is not my Blog..i will love to get the credit for it but is not..infact i wouldn't speak if i knew that the witer won't come and claim the blog..so it's not mine..

realist
03 Sep 2010 14:35

If it’s a woman who is cheating what do you think the man will do?

sponono
03 Sep 2010 14:38

she said to him ..''cut the crab, I am not here for it"
LOL just had to laugh at that error..the irony is that this conversation happened at a dinner table...RTFLOL...phew...neva mind me y'all

pele
03 Sep 2010 14:39

Realist - Shoot the wife and his nyantsi...

posh yes man stale but they must do with dignity and must respect their wives not doign things in public, but woman always dig up stuff, so it's really a situation to be handled by the super strong ones not sayign those who dont handle it are not strong at all..

myname
03 Sep 2010 14:41

Posh i like what u said above....esp "No one should allow cheating or to be disrespected but if it happens to you, take time to look at all factors and make a decision based on the facts of your case or your situation only" ........

Anyway i like the whole paragraph sana.

AMEN Lobby.

Lobby the girl
03 Sep 2010 14:43

lol @Sponono and your corrupt mind..
@realist ..one thing about men, they dont like to share..if he loves u, he'll forgive but it will take some time but eventually forgive, but i u do one mistake or having a disagreement ..he will always bring that story up..they not forgive and forget shem..
Some of them they'll just tell u to drop it cause many fish on the sea or maybe le yena o a cheater, so he is happy to find a way out..

bezu
03 Sep 2010 14:43

hey guyz! this topic is hot.!..marriage! marriage ! is not easy! I really feel for this women..I'm not sure if I admire her or I feel sorry for her..it must have been difficult for her to get herself into this arrangment..but believe me the hubby is feeling it more then her(the wife).into imnandi uma usayintshotsha, it s not the same once its giveb to you in a silver platter, he will get bored eventually and stick with the wife.but on the other hand love is about puting the other persons happiness b4 urs and that way both of u will find happiness in that way.@pele I wish we had more brothers like you...

vb4m
03 Sep 2010 14:44

@ Sponono: i totally get u LOLEST.......'''cut the crab,I am not here for it" ...@ the dinner table ....GBPY

myname
03 Sep 2010 14:44

Realist i heard most men dont forgive, so if your woman cheat, do whatever is right for you & your soul.

GML
03 Sep 2010 14:46

Realist

Thats the thing.

He would leave. He would throw her out on her ass and tell her to not set foot there again. Hell, he would give her *bleep!* and make her feel worthless, probably call her names.

He would look at her with a disgusted look on his face and just the mention of her name would be enough to make him puke.

Thats what he would do.

That is why I say I dont know what I would do but I do know that I wont just let *bleep!* like this slide. Physical pain will heal, I would want him to feel the pain inside- emotionally.

To think this woman sacrificed her body for the marraige by having kids. She probably has stretchmarks of note on her body and has spent time trying to make sure that he was happy.

And yena? He couldnt even sacrifice 5minutes worth of sex, he couldnt put aside his penis for the sake of his family. He chose to cum instead of spending time with his family. He chose his penis over his family. *bleep!* that *bleep!*!!! He should pay. I dont know if I would go as far as divorcing him but I do know that he will know who I am if he doesnt already

myname
03 Sep 2010 14:50

Oh my bloody Lord, GML!!!!!!! JA NHE! If ur hubby was my bro i was gonna warn him NOT TO EVER LOOK TO ANY WOMAN crossing the traffic lights.

LOL! Your tone says it all.

realist
03 Sep 2010 14:51

one thing about men, they dont like to share..if he loves u, he'll forgive but it will take some time but eventually forgive,
If she does that to me there is only one thing going to happen and is this:
Pack your bags and leave and that is non- negotiable. If the family’s tries to talk me over it will be the last thing they have ever said that to me.

myname
03 Sep 2010 14:56

Realist thats unfair and askis but are u not the same person who cheated to his wife few months ago? If its u, i think you should understand.

bezu
03 Sep 2010 15:00

@gmlyou go girl..!!!! I see u r not the one to mess with! yo ..i fail to understand why when men cheat its ok, we shuld forgive and forget but when women cheat "uyafe.a"nathi we have feelings..know the saying"whats old to u is new to the next person" surely someone finds that women attractive and thinks that men is a fool to cheat on such a women.!!!u dont know what you've got till its gone!!!

Lobby the girl
03 Sep 2010 15:02

he will get bored eventually and stick with the wife.

Ya but for how long Bezu..b4 he gets another mistress?

realist
03 Sep 2010 15:05

Realist thats unfair and askis but are u not the same person who cheated to his wife few months ago? If its u, i think you should understand.
If I was caught, she had a choice to either forgive or to give me the boot but if it is the other way round there is no way I can forgive.

realist
03 Sep 2010 15:05

Lobby the girl
03 Sep 2010 15:05

lol@GML ..with stretchmarks topic..u r mentioning it for the second time now..

Lobby the girl
03 Sep 2010 15:10

GML my dear..u recently got married, there is no need for this, u probably still in ya honeymoon..just lolling by the fact that u dont want anyone to mess with ya body by giving you a child and then cheats..so u rather tell him gore i am giving u my body so dont ever I mean ever mess with it or else i will mess with u emotionally..

Lobby the girl
03 Sep 2010 15:12

Bathong this clicking friday e monate..yo..i enjoy it..
Phil..where r u when we r having fun gante..hayi suka

myname
03 Sep 2010 15:14

@ realist i hear u man.

Eish Lobby i dont blame GML for mentioning those lightnings. Im still fighting them even 2day. Now i remember this email since u'r talking about them.

Joyce: Jimmy babe, now that we are engaged, I think we should start calling each other ka di pet names, sweet names.
James: (uninterested) alright babe. So what do you wanna call me?
Joyce: I think I will call you tiger
James: Why tiger babe?
Joyce: (sexy tone) because you’re charming, handsome, smart and calculating. And you Jimmy babe, what do you wanna call me?
James (still uninterested): I think I will call you zebra
Joyce: (smiling and kissing his cheek) ooh that sweet, why would you call me that?
James: because of your silver stripes!!!!!!!!

bezu
03 Sep 2010 15:14

@lobby the girl! eish I believe if a men cheat once he will do it again so he will cheat on her again !!!u know I laughed when I saw the statement about stretchmarks coz I'm seeing it for the 2nd time now.. stretchmarks is nothing ..the hubby will be there in the dilivery room with u n see wat u go thru to give them a baby but they will still cheat on u.

Lobby the girl
03 Sep 2010 15:21

Amen to that bezu..

lol@myname
I sent My friend the e mail and she told me gore I am rubbing it in..cause she still stress herself with stretchmarks, i told her to stop trying everything that written strechmarks..cause if a man loves her..she will love her with them..donno what's wrong with us women sometimes..trying to look perfect for someone else who will leave us heartbroken..hayi man..

Lobby the girl
03 Sep 2010 15:23

Eish..this day is too long for me..e bi le my smallanyana butt a bohloko..

mathata
03 Sep 2010 15:28

is not about only men ....even ladys we do cheat,is good to feel wanted.

Lobby the girl
03 Sep 2010 15:30

E tla le tsona mosadi

myname
03 Sep 2010 15:31

Guys im off now. Enjoy your weekend & becareful of Bees.

BigMama
03 Sep 2010 15:33

Mina l just read this somewhere, what would you do?

A young couple were invited 2 a swanky masked halloween party. The wife came down wit a terrible headache n told her husband 2 go 2 the party n have a gud tym. Being the devoted husband he protested, bt she argued n said she was going 2 take sum aspirin n go 2 bed. She told hm ther was no need 4 hm 2 mis the fun. So he took his costume n away he went. The wife, after sleeping soundly 4 abt an hour, awakened without pain, and as it was still early she decided 2 go 2 the party.
Bcos hubby did nt knw wat her costume was, she thought she wuld hav sum kicks watchin her husband 2 c how he acted wen she was nt around.she joined the party n soon spotted her husband on the dance floor. He was dancing wit every nyc chick he culd, and taking a little kiss there. Hs wife sidled up 2 hm n being rather seductive babe herself. He left hs partener high n dry n devoted hs tym 2 the new action. She let him go as far as he wished;naturally since he was her husband.
Finally he whisperd a little proposition in her ear n she agreed, so off they went 2 1 of the cars n had a little bang.

Just b4 unmasking @ midnyt, she slipped out, went home, put the costume away n got into bed, wonderin wat kind of excuse he wuld have 4 hs notorious behaviour.

She was sittin up reading wen he came in, n she asked hm wat he had done.
He said, "oh, the same old thing, u knw i neva have fun wen ur nt ther." then she asked,"did u dance much?" he replied, " i neva even danced 1 dance. Wen i got 2 the party i met pete, bill and ur dad, so we went into the den n played poker al evening. U knw how ur dad is lyk he tuk my costume n joined the party. He said he had 1 hell of a tym!"

Sobza
03 Sep 2010 15:34

silver stripes.........kwa kwa kwa kwa.....@ myname

Lobby the girl
03 Sep 2010 15:35

Lol..enjoy yours too lebitsolaka Bathong

mathata
03 Sep 2010 15:39

to be honest i like to have motivational speaker on my side....talk big things.....with good sex,stress kills bathong.

I dont want to play mother Teresa.....ke ithatela ntoto....with cherry on top(condom)

Lobby the girl
03 Sep 2010 15:42

Yho,yho,yho BM that's huge yho..

Lobby the girl
03 Sep 2010 15:43

lol mathata..any ntoto?

maud
03 Sep 2010 15:45

@mathata, thats normal , ntoto haena meno it doesnt bite,

Sobza
03 Sep 2010 15:45

Since the mood is right

Episode 1

One is Zulu, and the other is Xhosa
The Zulu dude decides to pray : usiphe Nkosi isinkwa sethu semihla ngemihla
The Xhosa one interrupts saying "mxelele ntanga asfake nejam".

Episode 2

A XHOSA IS A XHOSA!

uYesu wathandazela imfama (blind) yomSuthu = yabona...
Wathandazela nomZulu osisiqhwala (crippled) = wahamba...

Wadibana nomXhosa osisithulu (deaf) = Guess what ?????

Wathi apho esondela ngakuye wakhwaza enomsindo umXhosa wathi kuYesu: "Hayi
!!!Hayi!!! mfondini, ungalinge undithandazele mna, ndizophelelwa yi GRANT"

mathata
03 Sep 2010 15:51

hae yona ya zaeya esp ya goutswiwa!we dont have to lie,n you lose some LBS if you get it right....

anyway good ppl have fabulous weekend!

maud
03 Sep 2010 16:09

ouch Sobza that hurts i am bleeding

Pooky
03 Sep 2010 16:09

Guys im off now. Enjoy your weekend & becareful of Bees.
yoh hahahahhahah myname gal awandidcubula

GML
03 Sep 2010 16:12

@Lobby
This has nothing to do with me being recently married as you put it.
I have said before that I have been with my man for 5 years next week and lived with him before that. the Honeymoon phase faded ages ago.

The reason for me stressing sacrifices is because men will, (in most cases) cheat with a younger woman who has a fresh body. That's all I'm saying. He will be attracted to that woman because of her physical attributes (especially those that you have lost).

That's all there is to it. It's has nothing to do with the body per se but the sacrifice you went through for him and your marriage. Yena, his body changing is only because he wanted it to change not because it was inevitable. Yena he can choose not to have mokhaba, he can go to gym and make sure that is ok with his body. The same cannot be said for women. Most men will not look at a woman who has stretchmarks. the chances that you will get married again are slim. Yena he can easily take another wife. While you're stuck with his kids etc. NXA

It's about you putting yourself on the line and he thanks you by sticking his penis in another woman's vagina. Simple as that.

Ukubonga ngeplate yamasimba straight!!!

Lobby the girl
03 Sep 2010 16:17

Yo GML..sorryb i I upsetted u in any way girl..didn't mean to..serious i am not a fighter btu a lover..i am not saying u r a fighter, just simply saying ya voice says it all...must confused you with someone..she shared her photo with us here..sory my darling (hides incase there is a clap following)

maud
03 Sep 2010 16:19

@GML- if you want to enjoy your marriage ignore everything you cant change, the more you keep quiet the more he gets worried, he will follow you everywere people will think umdlisile kanti is only because he is insecure, mina kwami ngisho ne phone iyacinwa just to make sure i dont here things that might upset me, i always say two can play the game, and i mean it.

Dzialwa
03 Sep 2010 16:25

Elow every1

Lobby the girl
03 Sep 2010 16:28

Hello..sory to steal ya blog..but it was fun shem..thanks.

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