we fall in love and then everthing else stops we forget how to love ourselves while focusing on loving the next person person.
in my few years of dating ive learned that falling very hard comes with major injuries, its common sense you give your all to a person and have great expectation which are not always meet. thats when the heartache and pain begins the lies start and you remember them promising you never to hurt you.
so in this case it becomes hard to let go since ur expertations where not meet.
and you avoid getting out the situation hoping it gets better but instead thing get worse. the question you probably asking yourself now is why you?
i say if not you then who?
its a learning curve, hard but worth it, the realisation of how much you`ve lost trying to put together a puzzle of a lion but having zebras in it may be hard you cant match pieces that dont belong together is oblivious.
ok back to to reality heartache is everwhere and perfection is what we all striving for but does it exist? rhytorical as that question may seem the is an answer for it. loving is not wrong nor is it stupid.
the mistake we make is forgetting ourselves in the process of loving by the time we wake up from the love bed we had forgotton how to love ourselves and lost sense of selfishness in a positive manner tough.\
being selfish is not entirely bad and can be that trompoline we need during the time of our free falling so that we dont hit the ground nut bounce and fix the mistake right after we learn from the.
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