Generations Teasers - August 2013 | Generations Teasers

somby
29 Jul 2013 01:22

Am number 1!

zozoyo
29 Jul 2013 01:25

Yeppe I'm the 1st 1 Mawande is leaving 4 good I wonder wht happen 2 Sbu

somby
29 Jul 2013 01:25

I just can't find where does the story line is heading to.Its just a mix massala nje hayi*bored for ages!

posh559
29 Jul 2013 01:42

Yipee m no3

Mimibob
29 Jul 2013 01:42

4th

posh559
29 Jul 2013 01:43

They culd hv done beta dis is sooo boring

Mimibob
29 Jul 2013 02:10

I guess I'll never be first on Gens. This was my final attempt. I always feel childish doing it, but hopeful.. And console myself with the least popular teasers by registering 1st. :)

My first post on TVSA:

Reply from: Mimibob Sunday, February 27, 2011 21:50 PM

I'm new. Hope I don't get "addicted" to being first like u guys..

Top 10!

NoMdazB
29 Jul 2013 02:48

Lucky no 7

Andile123
29 Jul 2013 02:55

This is boring

kathleen1984
29 Jul 2013 03:01

top 10

Shezzie
29 Jul 2013 03:41

Guys u don't sleep hey

smaku
29 Jul 2013 04:04

No 12

sammdo
29 Jul 2013 04:08

No13

Gladie
29 Jul 2013 04:43

Oooops no 14 lem read

Athalia
29 Jul 2013 04:57

Khethiwe en Mj

Deemo
29 Jul 2013 05:20

goldie,bk,yoyoz, wake up the teasers are here no 16 yep

Naomi Genaro
29 Jul 2013 06:22

Is good 2 wtch generation than other soapie

takalanimamedzi
29 Jul 2013 06:32

no 17 not bad at all, u guys really dont sleep

Gqimgqim
29 Jul 2013 06:37

Number what what! This month is SIZZLING!!!

Keratile
29 Jul 2013 06:43

Happy Monday good people. Hope all is well in your world.

khune645
29 Jul 2013 06:54

sbuda is stil gng to be in jail

girly17
29 Jul 2013 06:57

@ Shezzie, I agree with u all they think is teasers. I thought I'm the first. Let me read

girly17
29 Jul 2013 07:14

Dineo’s abusiveness lands Phenyo in hospital, I wonder what she beat him with this time.

Ntsikie Lee
29 Jul 2013 07:34

all secrets are coming out this month. . . What is the shocking truth at the Memelas?? A LONG HIDDEN Family secret comes to light. . . . What could it be????

Marhwa
29 Jul 2013 07:50

Guyz does it really feel good to be top what what????#asking 4 a friend#

tshiamopatience
29 Jul 2013 07:53

Top 30 not bad at all

KaraboOP
29 Jul 2013 07:57

Boring!!!

Goldi
29 Jul 2013 08:15

top 100

Goldi
29 Jul 2013 08:20

Thanks to 2012 we were the #1's to read Gen *smiling*

Morning guyz Kera, MimiK, Nomd and Deemo

We really need to talk guyz i'll wait for the rest of the family to come and we can have are normal chat

Mimibob
29 Jul 2013 08:39

Morning Goldi. Morning fam.

portcia
29 Jul 2013 08:42

Good morning family Goldi im here lolo, number what what

Kimmi
29 Jul 2013 09:09

Hahahahahahahaha Khetiwe sleeps with MJ, come on man!

yip, it's kinda boring this month.
Mawande comes then goes. Phenyo is still getting a beating from his.
Khetiwe is still an alcoholic.
Ngamala is still in jail. Nolunto is still as manipulitive as ever.
Ahkona is still Akhona.

boring!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Maqinase
29 Jul 2013 09:13

Morning family
Am still around, just quiet taking care of Nicholas Nomvete lol

Still love you all

Bk212303
29 Jul 2013 09:33

hey

Nunumsi
29 Jul 2013 09:39

Sanibonani, Teasers are just boring, boring & boring but let's wait & c maybe bafihle induku emqubeni. Really Gen bloggers u don't sleep...

duckie
29 Jul 2013 09:41

top50

Kera
29 Jul 2013 09:50

Good morning family

Happy monday to u all lots of love

Th@nd0
29 Jul 2013 10:10

Hey guys im not new bt never commented i only read...

Goldi
29 Jul 2013 10:34

*waving* hi Maqinase it's good to hear from you now n then please make sure he's well taken care of him angifuniks phela ngo Nicky boy *smiling*

Welcome Thando please no more hiding in the closet ne this is were you suppose to be mhwaaaaaa feel free ohh questiong are you MALE OR FEMALE?

Love you always Kera darling

Bk212303
29 Jul 2013 11:04

Hey everyone welcome Thando. They final month for Mawande, and Sbuda is still in jail. Im she leaves after finding out that Sbuda is responsible for the shooting and killing of her husband.

1Ntosh1
29 Jul 2013 11:06

Lol.. Ohk.. Ohk.. Mmm.. Ohk.. Sooo nothing is pretty interestin ths month

Bk212303
29 Jul 2013 11:08

Ngamla finds out he was betrayed by one of his own.

Byeeeeeee syoyoyo Sbuda will sort u out. You dont learn cause u saw how sbuda does his things and u practically saw when he took out the eye of the rapist but no still......

tanah
29 Jul 2013 11:49

yipeee...top 100:)

Kera
29 Jul 2013 12:00

Love you too Goldi

Welcome to all da new members please feel at home

Manicure
29 Jul 2013 12:01

yipeee top 50!!!!!!!!!!!

Keratile
29 Jul 2013 12:03

I fail to see why they brought Scott in the picture. He doesn't do it for me.

Goldi
29 Jul 2013 12:10

Same here hey i dont see why he's there, Keratile eish now i'm forced to write your name in full since we have a Kera in the house lol

Mani where have you been long time or it's the new teasers that made you come and visit us?

stanten
29 Jul 2013 12:12

kinda boring

@Zioness
29 Jul 2013 12:16

Hallo fam! Hope y'all had as great a week end as mine :)

Pastry
29 Jul 2013 13:18

No 50 oops

Bk212303
29 Jul 2013 13:26

Zioness my weekend was hectic cause i made mqombothi and the in laws were there.

Too
29 Jul 2013 13:57

MJ and Khethiwe geez,seriously guys kkkkkkkk lol

NoMdazB
29 Jul 2013 13:58

Hi all, yhu BK and your in-laws! How was it, being uMakoti?

vuxy
29 Jul 2013 14:33

JadaPinkett
29 Jul 2013 14:37

I'm the 57th yippeeeLOL

Bk212303
29 Jul 2013 14:39

Hey Nomdaz howzit? They behaved themselved towards me but yhooooo they are stingy people i must say bayavimba

JadaPinkett
29 Jul 2013 14:40

@Maqianse Morning family
Am still around, just quiet taking care of Nicholas Nomvete lol ..........U must be Akhona ryt?

Goldi
29 Jul 2013 14:43

My weekend was super awesome Zee thanks for asking Bk ukukhathala kuthina na?

market
29 Jul 2013 15:16

sanibonani
khethiwe MJ he young enough to be your son now you sleeping with him shame on you uyazi

Namboe
29 Jul 2013 15:39

Yoh unandstndble. Wt are these family secrets myb its abt Jason. Tht he is ë son of Mawande and Ngamla

shaidin
29 Jul 2013 15:45

aftrnun guys let m go and read running

Keratile
29 Jul 2013 17:52

@ Goldi :) - A warm welcome to all new members

darlingofmine
29 Jul 2013 20:02

Hey guys! How is the family doing? I haven't been blogging for the past 2years! I'd forgotten my password! Anyway, good to be back, hope I wil be welcomed. Nna ke kopa one thing, DAILY DETAILED UPDATES of Gen, see I'm in Bots and we got no access to th SABC's. I love Gen, so ngiya ni xela bandla....

Cest la Vie
29 Jul 2013 20:22

Scott speaks bad Zulu, he's from Botswana but he insists on speaking IsiZulu. His brother and nephew speak Setswana, I've never heard Scott speak Tswana. I'm deeply annoyed by this I must say. Good actor bad casting. lmao

Gqimgqim
29 Jul 2013 21:32

Who said he was born there? No one. Stop being shallow the world is global now

Stonie
29 Jul 2013 22:19

Interesting month

Mimibob
30 Jul 2013 00:22

I felt like beef and decided to make myself a huge chunk despite the time. Obviously exhausted, I fell asleep on the couch and only awoke coughing and suffocating with smoke around. I ran to the kitchen.. Hehee... I've never seen so much smoke! I could hardly make out anything and couldn't even open the windows, but managed to put off the stove.. Tried to open the balcony door for air and the key broke! I'm scared to open the front door because its late night. I had to run to a bedroom and am breathing through a dump towel... I somehow managed to badly burn my favorite lil blanket I had around me in the drama, luckily it more like melted with no flame ... Hey... *Rushing to the window for air*

Keratile
30 Jul 2013 00:28

@Mims.....sorry my dear. I'm glad the blanket did catch/start fire. Hope the situation (smoke) is better now. God is good all the time. It was His mercy.

Keratile
30 Jul 2013 00:32

@ Gqimgqim - I don't think Cest la Vie is shallow but aired his/her opinions of which their are free to do so.

Keratile
30 Jul 2013 00:40

Hey! Family. Most of you blogged about MJ and Khethiwe sleeping together - why did you get that? I have read the teasers twice already but couldn't find it. I kind of thought it can be Scott or any man conforting Khethiwe and also any woman or Isabel in MJ's arms

Keratile
30 Jul 2013 00:42

A very good and blessed Tuesday morning to you all.

mxolicy
30 Jul 2013 03:13

Let's hope on screen it'll be interesting #via action... good morning & stay blessed nonke.

Keratile
30 Jul 2013 07:17

Eish! I meant to type/say where did you get the scoop on Khethiwe and MJ being together?

portcia
30 Jul 2013 07:54

Morning to you all, i think the family secret of mawande's is Mj bein the son of Sbu and mawande, maybe thats why Mj will end up in Khethi's arm as he will be devastated.

portcia
30 Jul 2013 08:08

Hey Keratile you were right, there's no Khethiwe who sleeps with Mj, i guess we are so used to people dusting in our family lol.., it says a drunken Khethiwe rescues Mj, and the fact that Mj will behave strange, gets me thinking that he can be Sbusiso's son.

Ms Opinionated
30 Jul 2013 08:20

Mornin guys,

i dont think MJ could be Sbuda's child if Noluntu is Caleb's, Mawande met Caleb after Sbuda and after the blow about the family land MAwanade never hooked up with Sbuda. unless they will edit the story like they did with Subda sleeping with Karabo #sigh

Ntaksay
30 Jul 2013 08:35

I also think Noluntu can be Sbusiso's child and not MJ, but hey things happen

Good Morning my favourite family.

Ntaksay
30 Jul 2013 08:39

it says a drunken Khethiwe rescues Mj
I thought MJ is the one who is going to rescue Khethiwe.

Goldi
30 Jul 2013 09:23

Morning Family

MimiK bathong i'm sorry love are you good? well if you really are a soapie fanatic like "we" are then you can read between the lines gore Khethiwe will end up with MJ no need for it to be written in black and white so ya just watch the space *wink*

i guess we are so used to people dusting in our family lol kwaaaaaaaaaa

Ms O anything is possible @ soapy land Noluntu did a DNA that time when Caleb died and we all though the secret will come out and the test came back positive so Noluntu is Caleb's child @ Posh your theory might be right about MJ being S'buda's son

portcia
30 Jul 2013 09:47

I hope so Goldi, they might say they met while she was with Caleb, maybe had a little fight about the land and then ended up in bed together again, as we all can see that they cant resist each other.

Wednesday 28 August
Episode 176

Khethiwe gets a late night visitor, only he's not interested in talking.

Is this Khaphela's ghost?

@Zioness
30 Jul 2013 09:49

Morning fam, sorry I never replied yesterday, my internet did a 'Mawande with Nolunto's tea' on me eish... @ leat it's sorted now... Yhooo Mims, hope ur fine now, must've had the fright of your life... but thank goodness nothing very serious happened (sorry 'bout the blankie though love)... BK, hats off to you for being the 'better person' w.r.t the in-laws... you know I must still learn how make mqombothi - the nanny and I are planning to make iQiri for Women's Day but she says she doesn't know if we'll get all the ingredients we need in Cape Town - anyone from here that can help out?

@Zioness
30 Jul 2013 09:50

Haibo, if Nolunto is Sbuda daughter, that means her brother (senzo) fathered a child with her, that's tooo drastic even for Gen!

Keratile
30 Jul 2013 09:51

@ portcia - you really made my day :)

Ntaksay
30 Jul 2013 09:58

Thank Goodness you arefine Mimibob
I guess I'll never be first on Gens
We were all first coz we knew the teaser before they were posted by TVSA.

I didn't know that we had Naomi Genaro in the house!!!!!!!!!! (interesting name)

Bk do you make mqombothi every time your in laws visit or you had mcimbi that required umqombothi to be made?????????????

tshepiso
30 Jul 2013 10:04

no 100

Ntaksay
30 Jul 2013 10:06

@Portcia
Wednesday 28 August

Episode 176
Khethiwe gets a late night visitor, only he's not interested in talking.

Is this Khaphela's ghost?
Or it's MJ not wanting to talk but dust or even Khubone (now that would be interesting)

What is Qiri @Zioness?????????

Keratile
30 Jul 2013 10:10

It seems like Scott will be the one exposing manwhore to Sbuda. Yesterday he said he could help Ngamla get out of prison because he (Scott) can do what lawyers can't do. Meanwhile Hlomla tols Nicky boy gore Scott is a con man...............

Keratile
30 Jul 2013 10:12

Me and my typos! Hlomla told Nicholas Scott is a con man

tshepiso
30 Jul 2013 10:12

jason = Mawande and Sibusiso

@Zioness
30 Jul 2013 10:15

@Ntaksay that's what my anny called it, think the proper name is iqhilika, she says it's best made with wild honey, not sure where to get that here in CT

@Zioness
30 Jul 2013 10:16

Isn't MJ way younger than Kheti, or she's following in Mam'Ruby's Ben10 steps ;)

portcia
30 Jul 2013 10:17

Keratile darling,(with Iris' voice) Pls update on Generations.

BK, you must teach us how to make umqombothi.

Keratile
30 Jul 2013 10:17

MimiK- afa o siame mma? Kana re hloka kgoitsi gore ontse jaang kgompieno. The last we heard from you, you were engulfed by a cloud of smoke. Just a simple Hello will put us @ ease. *waiting patiently for Mims*

portcia
30 Jul 2013 10:22

Hayibo guys, mos di teasers dire Mj is bein rescured by drunken Khethiwe, hao what's up le di mash making?

portcia
30 Jul 2013 10:24

Hey Mims bebes hope ur fine, and sorry for ur favourite blanket

shadilicious
30 Jul 2013 10:38

morning

sori for budgin in lyk dis.... bt i thought i cud help...
MJ comes to drunken Khethiwe’s rescue.

dis is hw its written aker mara! it doesnt say anything abt dem slipin 2geda

Ntsikie Lee
30 Jul 2013 10:39

i think Mj is Ngamla'son or Jason is Ngamla nd Mawane's son... I cnt wait for the secret to come out... It says whats bad news for the Memelas is good news for JASON.... What does dat mean???????

Keratile
30 Jul 2013 10:42

Dineo wanted to spoil Phenyo with breakfast in bed but when she entered the room manwhore was in the bathroom preparing to go to the gym. Dineo wanted to go with him but Phenyo was reluctant. Dineo lost it - asked him if he is really going to gym or to the woman who left her lipstick on his t-shirt. Phenyo said the t-shirt wasn't his (a smaller size than his). Dineo and Khethiwe apologised to each other about their individual reactions to Ruby fostering Mpilo. MJ came to tell Khethiwe it was time for their gym session. Dineo and Khethiwe told MJ how Phenyo propossed - MJ was impressed and did the same minus the notes. Isabel was irritated when she got the first rose "who sent one rose and where are the rest?", later impressed as the flowers kept were delivered by random men, then she was concienced they came from that white boy she went on date with on her birthday. When the guy arrived at Tsalanang, he got more than he bargained for - a kiss from Isabel - he was shocked. Isabel said thanks for the flowers but he said flowers were a waste of money and he was dumped on the spot. MJ brought the last rose to complete a dozen, told Isabel how much he loves her and wanted them to try again - Izzy refused. Zinhle won the reality show but fainted before making her speech. Manwhore went to Noluntu to warn her - she must stop with her stupid games. Noluntu said he must stop ignoring her then they will be fine but manwhore wasn't interested. He said Noluntu can't make him do something he doesn't want to do - then Ntuntu grabbed him by the balls. Dineo went to tell Ruby about her insecurities and said she's scared of what she might do should Phenyo cheat on her again. Ruby told her to do something so as to make sure he doesn't cheat again. I say: no matter what you do - once a cheater always a cheater. *my opinions* That's all I could remember Posh. Shuu...........I'm tired from all the typing

Goldi
30 Jul 2013 10:48

Haai Maan Posh o slow maan eish!! wena you want everything in black n white lol

Topic fot the day guys Jozi's bloody cold today hey DUSTING is needed *thinking out loud*

Dinenza
30 Jul 2013 10:57

@ First i did not understand why my friends lost intrest in Generations but now i see, this soapie is not going anywhere, once Dineo gets pregnant we all know that eventually she will loose the baby, pheny he cant make his own decisions, he can only do that if his taking a woman to bed. As for Khethiwe i think they should give her a brake fro @ least 2 or 3 months. Mr Mfundi Lungile Mabena used to be Alex as a hairdresser back then please when you bring new characters dont bring back people that you once had on the soapie please.

NoMdazB
30 Jul 2013 11:01

Hi everyone. Kodwa Goldi, when you are cold the first thing that comes to mind is dusting. Just wondering, how often do women think about dusting each day? I think probably once or twice for me. Is that normal?

NoMdazB
30 Jul 2013 11:04

Honestly @Dinenza, I don't know where they are going with this whole Dineo baby thing because they are going to kill it anyway. What is the point? Especially since they are doing away with the Phenyo character...

@2012
30 Jul 2013 11:17

@keratile.......thanx for the update,did not watch power cut.....eish

portcia
30 Jul 2013 11:27

How Goldi why ore ke slow?lol...., wena o batla ho dustiwa feela, yoh my friend you like dusting ne!..

im kinda like tired today maybe is because i didnt dust last night, and yes joburg is cold today, but maybe a cup of coffe will do, ne Goldi

@2012
30 Jul 2013 11:27

Tuesday 20 August 2013
Episode 170 (3932) The Memela house is in turmoil after a shock revelation...
maybe this is the secret that some sugest could be one of the memela children be related to sbuda...patiently waiting for the relevation

Wednesday 21 August 2013
Episode 171 (3933)
Shock and horror when a long-hidden family secret finally comes to light. inded this as it may sound it can only be one of the memela children being related to sbuda........... can 20 & 21 august come already i want know the big long hiden secret

Monday 26 August 2013
Episode 174 (3936)
Noluntu finally gets what’s coming to her.
i hope it will be a harsh punishment for her........she deserves one

@2012
30 Jul 2013 11:31

@nomdazb.........if they can the baby then dineo will never find happyness ever

@2012
30 Jul 2013 11:32

@nomdazb.........if they kill the baby then dineo will never find happyness ever

portcia
30 Jul 2013 11:34

Nomd is normal, that shows kgore ontse o tsogelwa, do you guys think kgore we will come to a point that we will never think about dusting or even dont get horney, when we get old? and at which age if u can estimate

@2012
30 Jul 2013 11:37

Monday 19 August 2013
Episode 169 (3931)
Mawande panics when something important goes missing.

NOTE: This will be a day before the shocking revelation of a long family hedden secret. And this maybe can be a birth certificate showing that sbuda is the father of one or may all of the memela children

market
30 Jul 2013 11:48

hello goodfamily

portcia
30 Jul 2013 11:56

@2012, this may be a dna test she did a long time ago, and she hid it from sbu

Goldi
30 Jul 2013 12:08

Yewena Posh *pointing my finger @ you* well Nomd not really hey but it's been a while since i dusted eish!! i'm developing cowebs mxxxxxxm

I love dusting hey Posh it lowers the stress levels hao *smiling* well Nomd it's normal i do think about nami hihihihihihii

@2012
30 Jul 2013 12:13

@porticia............maybe.......it sound so hectic and painful secret that will affect famillies.........the secret is worth waiting for.........I SO HOPE GENERATIONS WILL NOT DISSAPOINT ON THIS ONE................PLEASE.

Xolisalife
30 Jul 2013 12:20

Lol yhoooooooooo sbuda ngaba sewazeni! Ngane ezingaka phela!

vuxy
30 Jul 2013 12:29

JO! JAYSON SBUDA'S SON1!!!!

Empire
30 Jul 2013 12:34

hola, is this familie only for girls? or can us guys also be part of this famelie

Xolisalife
30 Jul 2013 12:36

Am no girl!

Empire
30 Jul 2013 12:42

awe

portcia
30 Jul 2013 13:06

Vusik is also no girl, so welcome Empire,but bear in mind that the ladies here like dusting. yoyozz where are you in times like this, pls come to the house, Goldi ke le virgin, no dusting for a long time. dont worry wena Goldi ke tla o rekela a male to keep you busy in this cold day,lol..........

VusiK
30 Jul 2013 13:50

You will go to Jail talking about people when they are too busy to participate.

yoyozz
30 Jul 2013 13:51

lol dusting topic
portcia ke teng the only thing i think about is to sleep, im also a virgine yhooo 2 MONTHS WITHOUT IT and its cold in jozi. yesterday i promise tata we khaya we going to cut the cake into pieces TODAY but im only doing IT because i want him to stay not to look around. these days i dont watch generations i sleep after 7 de laan everyday i dont cook and i dont clean i dont know what is happening im always sleepy and tired. TONIGHT IS THE NIGHT JOIN ME

@Zioness
30 Jul 2013 13:59

Lol @ yoyozz, shem babe hopefully you even start to enjoy it ;) but today you're on your own - my child (and cock blocker of note) was visiting his aunt n uncle for the week end so me n hubby took full advantage, rabbits had nothing on us - it was beautiful but now i'm ALL sexed out, don't even care we only do it in 2018 again lol

Ntaksay
30 Jul 2013 14:32

Hello ladies and gents.
Interesting comments about Wandi's BIG SECRET

@Zioness
30 Jul 2013 14:33

NomD, u here? Don't know if you remember but we once spoke of being in a relationship wit someone who you really love but who doesn't appreciate it and abuses you, then after that you go for someone who treats you like a princess but you're only with him to sort of 'make up' for what you lost in your previous abusive relationship? I think my sister is going through that now, she divorced her ex-hsb after 5 years of marriage but this guy really treated her like crap, abused her emotionally physically financially, we found out later he cheated on her since their 1st week of marriage etc he was just the worst of the worst and because of him our already not so stable relationship got worse because I could never understand why the f she is with this person n why she kept on giving him chances, anyway we eventually talked things out and luckily she saw the light of day and started divorce proceedings, i was so proud of her for being so strong bcos she really loved him... just over a year ago though she met this other guy in church and he is the most loving gentle soul and treats her like a queen but he has one big vice, he can be extremely jealous to the point that my sister who is a very outgoing social person stays at home rather bcos it is so taxing to her whenever they go out for him to be so possesive and accusatory of things only he imagines... anyway he has promised her that he will seek help for which i'm grateful but i can't help but feel like she is really trying to compensate for her disastrous marriage which was a huge knock to her self-estem and dignity by indulging this person who almost worships her too much (her ex husband never really cared, never showed signs of jealously he was just after her money basically etc), my problem is we only recently starting enjoying a very good relationship and strong bond after I decided to just support by her decisions and eventually just being there for her after the divorce, although i'm the younger one she really respects my opinion (her ex had everyone in our family, even my parents fooled initially since he's really a charmer but I just never liked or trusted even though I never knew why in the beginning) anyway my gut tells me that i should ask my sister to investigate her true feelings for this guy but what if I'm wrong this time and I make her doubt her only chance at happiness...

@Zioness
30 Jul 2013 14:33

Sorry bout the story book people!

Ntaksay
30 Jul 2013 14:35

Enjoy Yoyo

portcia
30 Jul 2013 14:43

Ha!.. Zioness in 2018, iyoh you will die of hunger, what you are doing to yourself is not fair, dont say i didnt warn you lol...

Im glad i disturbed you Vusik, how are you today?

Yoyozz wena hao mamele ne!(pointing) we told you to keep dusting, o nahana hore ngwana oo o tla tswa kae? and the day you start to spring clean your house, is the day you get ready for the baby, trust me we all clean up nicely when the baby is due, thats the first sign of labour.

dennnel
30 Jul 2013 14:49

Hi Family. The story you just told @Zioness makes me wonder when people say Generarions is boring and unrealistic - You just told another version of what is going on with Dineo and Phenyo - wherever the abuse comes from. But the two are toxic to each other. Then I say lets give props to writers, they are writing realistic things and teaching us. Of course they are not going to announce that this is teaching. Your sister's husband cheated on the first week of marriage - Do I smeel a Phenyo there?

All I'm saying lets stop criticing for no reason what the writers come up with truth is all the stories in Generations is what really happens in real life.
Khethiwe murdering husband - tell me you've never heard of that?
Alcoholism - tell me you've never seen that.
Womanising - we live with it everyday. Just look at Vavi, who knew he was busy sleeping with an intern whilst showing a happily married front with wife.
Hustling guys - we know Choppa, guys who always want short cuts in life, they always have a project they are starting or in-between jobs or coming up with another clever scheme
Murderers - Sibusiso - yes, we love him but he is a bully and he did kill a father, a husband - We cannot justify murder just because we love Ngamla. Murder is murder - period!

I could go on and on... Let's give props to the writers that's all I'm saying. Instead of putting them down when we know these things happen amongst us.

shaidin
30 Jul 2013 14:52

Hello every one i just bumped in to dusting topic GUYS I WANT TO KNOW SOMETHING WHAT MAKES MALE NOT TO PARCITIPATE DURING DUSTING??IS BECAUSE OF DRINKING ALCOHOL TOO MUCH/DRIIVNG A LOT?????????ngiqela ukuwazi pls my family

Ntaksay
30 Jul 2013 15:16

I thought males were more participative than us women.

Empire
30 Jul 2013 15:29

helo girls, I'm from capetown and I love Dusting..

Nunumsi
30 Jul 2013 15:41

@dennnel I agree with u, we judge 2 much and we don't want 2 b patient we want each story line 2 come 2 an end within a month. I'm giving props to writers "here and now" singing Luther's song. Anyway I like the idea of Jason being Sbuda's son, Dlomo name will suite him well & will make Ngamla proud...

Dhee31
30 Jul 2013 16:00

Dhee31
30 Jul 2013 16:02

Hey Ntaksay some man are just lazy bastards they just give you one round and say baby I had a tough day at work.

Bk212303
30 Jul 2013 16:09

Hey everyone woow the house is warm today and i only c this now. I was busy the whole day looking for work. Searching thru internet the whole day, you guys need to help me and pray that i get a job that i deserve.

@Ntaksay i did umcimbi this time and it was my mcimbi. Cause i had dreams making it and the xhosa ppl will understand this and maybe some of the others too.

Ingredients

10 Impala miel meal
10 King korn mthombomela
2kg king korn

You mix the 2 together
and add warm water in a fatyi obviously and fill it with that warm water.
stir it and then cover it over nite and then it will boil cause its warm
next day you will cook it outside like cooking the meil meal porridge and make it loose though so that its not too thick.

You ley it cool in dishes it depends on u how many as long as its gonna cool over nite and then next dat u add the 2kg king korn in all dishes and mix it all together in one fatyi and cover it again and even switch heater if its cold and then it will boil and the u use a sift/strayner then walaaaa

@Nomdaz we did not call the trouble makers, we just called the family that always support us no matter what. I told myself im not letting no one spoil that day. I was doing my own thing but also giving them respect same time so everyone was happy. They didnt even want to leave my house but they all had jobs to go to. It was lovely but tiring for me cause you have to cook, wash dishes, u called this side and that side but all went well. Thanx to my friends who also supported me thru the whole process.

Then u

Bk212303
30 Jul 2013 16:10

@Ntaksay when i made umqombothi the first time it was just for fun.

@2012
30 Jul 2013 16:14

@nnunumsi......indid jason will make sbuda proud. he has his genes.....he knows how to protect his family. it does suite him

ciao....

Empire
30 Jul 2013 16:19

Is any one from capetown in this room?

portcia
30 Jul 2013 16:22

I never made umqombothi before, and wish to do it, i really need to learn.
Shaidin i also think man do participate more than us woman, my hubby always sleeps with his birth suit, so he is ready for action, and alway want more and more, but me on the other site i sometimes drag my feet, i have my days when i really want it.

Ntaksay
30 Jul 2013 16:24

Bye everyone

portcia
30 Jul 2013 16:25

I agree with you @2012 he will make Sbuda proud but only if he become straight, it will be a disaster for him to have two gay sons, no man........

portcia
30 Jul 2013 16:26

Bye Ntaksay, the same goes to everyone, see you tomorrow

TVSA Team
30 Jul 2013 16:41

Time confirmed! Generations retro specials

VusiK
30 Jul 2013 17:20

@Portcia

I am good thanks!
Extremely Busy.

Empire
30 Jul 2013 19:44

going to dust in the next 45 minutes..Leka

mthi 101
30 Jul 2013 19:58

Evening!

Goldi ke le virgin, no dusting for a long time. dont worry wena Goldi ke tla o rekela a male to keep you busy in this cold day, lol..........

And I have been moving around in Joburg with a T-shirt written "FOR SALE"
thinking that I will be spoted by Portia and be bought as a gift for our LOVELY SISTER "with a sad face"

But I won't give up, there are still hours left ..... maybe maybe akwaziwa mhlawumbe I can be spotted .....

let me go...this time Park Station side

Good nite everyone !

Enjoy it (DUSTING) sizele yona la emhlabeni (Let the Cake be Eaten) imagine the world without dusting.

Fisa
30 Jul 2013 20:01

I cant wait for generations on august when Mawenda gona reveal the secrets

Empire
30 Jul 2013 20:30

starting now, goodbye

mamachelibm
30 Jul 2013 23:34

Pray that dineo shoots penyo and break his spine, nyt

Dhee31
31 Jul 2013 08:50

Good morning everyone, this is unusual for the house to be this quite.

Deemo
31 Jul 2013 08:53

a gud mornn to u all my lovely family, its a bit cold today here in zim n we a supposed to n vote.pray for us guys coz we dont know the outcome we need peace to prevail nomatter who wins, chat latter on my way to the polling station laters pple ps : a warm welcome to all the new members

portcia
31 Jul 2013 08:59

Good morning everyone, sorry mthi 101, i wasnt on the other side of park station, was at edenvale, but for sure if i have seen you with your t-shirt i would have bought you for my poor little friend, but hey that can still be arranged, you and Goldi dusting together no strings attached, what do you say Goldi, and dont be upset at me as im trying to make you happy,(pointing) you know people who dont dust for a long time get moody for no reason.

Goldi
31 Jul 2013 09:22

Morning Family and very warm welcome to Empire and Xoli good to have males in the house hope you will be around all the time :) Mthi 101 park station askies you were @ the wrong side dont worry you'll be sported next time

*eying Posh* Goldi ke le virgin, no dusting for a long time. dont worry wena Goldi ke tla o rekela a male to keep you busy in this cold day,lol..........

otshegisa ka tlhopego yaka? *teary eyes* it's cool ketlaba sharp lenna 1 day is 1 day o happy wena Posh ne mxxxm otla loka

Empire how was dusting last night? Yoyo my 4rnds askies dont let that bambino to control you please so tell me how was last night with tata sekhaya?

vele ke rata ditaba *tongue out*

Deemo my love how are you how's the baby? MimiK ARE YOU OK PLEASE LET US KNOW yes i'm screaming @ the top of my lungs *shaking my tiny ass out of this room*

bathong
31 Jul 2013 09:52

portcia
31 Jul 2013 09:54

Askies Goldi, mara a ke tshegise ka wena, how can do that?

Sad news, my friend the one i told you about, (with a husband that doesnt want to work) she have been having this chest pain for a long time, and now she was admitted in a hospital last night, yoh she is so stressed bathong, and now im feeling so sad, yoh in starting to dispite that man of her letlantswarela

NoMdazB
31 Jul 2013 10:15

Morning everyone. Sorry torho @Zioness for not responding yesterday. When someone neglects you, they make you feel unloved and therefore think that no-one will ever love you, ever again. Add to that the fact that you feel you are out of time, that the baggage you have is too much for men to handle; you end up believing that you have to take whatever you can find. Your sister loves the way the new man is treating her, but she's also allowing him to make her unhappy by bullying her. And he's doing it slyly, by coating it with love and adoration; but the end result is the same- she's unhappy, almost the same way she was with her husband. I'm still trying to think of a solution. Be back soon.

Goldi
31 Jul 2013 10:25

Poor girl she's under a lot of stress hey hope she gets better Posh i dont blame you lenna i would feel the same with that man mxxxxm

@Zee you sister need to search her feeling kannete cos her self confidence has been lowered in a way so she needs to do some self introspection before comitting to some1 else i'm proud of her for leaving that ASS called her husband, but still she must put herself 1st her happiness should come 1st does she have kids?

portcia
31 Jul 2013 11:18

Hi @Zioness, i feel what your sister is going though, she just had a divoce, and maybe was still in fear of bein alone, fearing that she will end up in the arms of her ex hubby again, she then decided to date, and it was still early for her. so dont worry she will be back to herself again in time.

Empire
31 Jul 2013 11:51

@Goldi it was great thnx, I new is a sin.. but one of my friends Girlfriend is smaaking me now for a long time and last night. I tough *bleep!* that I'm gonna give her what she want. I call her over and we Immediately start dusting, When we finish dusting she said No men ever give it to her the way I did. So I assume I did a *bleep!* good job

Goldi
31 Jul 2013 12:03

Haaibo your friends Girlfriend O_O or did i missed something?

Dhee31
31 Jul 2013 12:04

Ey Goldi I read Empire's post and I ran to have a look at his profile hoping to catch a glimps of his face kodwa ngashawa iguzu cause I only found a shadow.

Dhee31
31 Jul 2013 12:07

@ Empire I hope you used protection just curious why would you shag your friends galfriend?

Goldi
31 Jul 2013 12:36

Yhoooo Dhee Empire is a danger to he's friend haaikhona...........i'm still waiting for my answer Empire *tapping my foot*

Empire
31 Jul 2013 12:40

@Dhee31 of cause I use protection, my friend is cheating on her and it seems he doesn't give her any attention. So even if he find out I dust his girlfriend he would have than a reason to left her. as I knew he want to end their relationship. but yesterday she sms me saying he BF phone is off. and he asked if I can come around.. the time I arrive there my friend was not there only she, and she was naked I could not help. but my dick Immediately start getting hard. I asked her why is she naked and where is her BF. she said his working late. and that she would like to dust with me in their bed. I told her she looking *bleep!* good naked and that we should take it to my house.

Dhee31
31 Jul 2013 13:00

What kind of a friend are you Empire, so basically you used her to satisfy your sexual needs and took advantage of knowing that your friend is no longer interested in her. You said your friend is cheating on her so what is the difference from what you too did yesterday.

All I can say you always wanted to *bleep!* your friend's stakkie so don't use the excuse of her being naked, If you were man enough enough and valued your friendship you could have just walked out. And why the hell do you have her phone number. Please stop fooling us you two have been *bleep!* each other the whole time this wasn't the first and from what you said it wont be the last either.

Anyway I am not to judge you but what you both did is disgusting and should be discouraged. You were both horny and you should have just left the horny bitch and went back to your place and did six nine or drank cold water to cool your hormones.

Bk212303
31 Jul 2013 13:12

Hay maaan Empire you dusted yr mpintshi's grl. Did u use protection pofu?
Anyway it was her that came to you but then what about yr friendship with her bf?

She still says u dusted her lekker heee this woman does not deserve yr frnd.

Ntaksay
31 Jul 2013 13:14

Hello everyone.

Empire you and your friend's g/f are naughty neh? Obviously you've always wanted to shag her and I think she has been feeling the same way.

Ntaksay
31 Jul 2013 13:16

She still says u dusted her lekker heee this woman does not deserve yr frnd
I think they deserve each other (BOTH CHEATERS)

Empire
31 Jul 2013 13:20

joh guys, I use to walk away every time that girl start flirting with me, but last night.. I could not stopped myself.. come on were is the guys in this room I need backup. What would you guys have done when a girl is standing naked in front of you, and all she talk about is dusting.

Dhee31
31 Jul 2013 13:21

I think they deserve each other( BOTH CHEATERS)
seconded Ntaksay

Ntaksay
31 Jul 2013 13:23

You walk away like you used to. Unless you've been longing to dust her and you were still playing hard to get

Bk212303
31 Jul 2013 13:23

Haybo some women naked in my her house with another man. I think she is stressed but then again wena Empire your excuse is ububatyiwe what the heeeellll sukaaa.

Dhee31
31 Jul 2013 13:27

You should have just taken a towel through it into her face and told her to wrap herself and if that didn't work just leave the room. The fact that you told her that you cant shag her in your friends room you should go to your room means that you always wanted to F***K her all along.

Empire
31 Jul 2013 13:31

guys you need to understand, I didn't do it in a while. A man is not is stone.

Bk212303
31 Jul 2013 13:32

She still says u dusted her lekker heee this woman does not deserve yr frnd
I think they deserve each other (BOTH CHEATERS)

I think all three are cheaters chinny.

Empire you are looking for Aids buti.

Cause there is this woman i know she is positive but she likes to trap men into her house and she sleeps with them.

When i had mqombothi this weekend she took one of my buti in law and took him to her house but he says the way she carried on dancing for him and doing all the dirty dancing and her bums keep on bumping his pinciponco so he notice she did not were underwear and she took of all her clothes and ready to shagged by him and he said i said something does not add up so he quickly ran out and refused to pump her.

I was so furius with her even though i did not disclosed cause if i did hell was gonna braek loose so becarefulll EMPIRE

Empire
31 Jul 2013 13:42

don't worry Dude, I will not walk in the rain without my rain jacket

Dhee31
31 Jul 2013 13:50

Empire state of mind uzithandela ikuku qha wena enye nenye awunandaba nayo.

Empire
31 Jul 2013 13:54

@Dhee31, I don't understand zulu or xhosa, Can you please translate uzithandela ikuku qha wena enye nenye awunandaba nayo to English?

Bk212303
31 Jul 2013 13:57

Excuses excuses you cheated with yr buddy's grl, it does nt matter how u wanna put or explain. YOU CHEATED YR FRND soma in his BED.

Bk212303
31 Jul 2013 13:59

You just love virgina and you do care about what is what.
Thats what Dhee31 said

Ntaksay
31 Jul 2013 14:00

Let me come to you rescue Empire
uzithandela ikuku qha wena enye nenye awunandaba nayo to English?

You just like PUNANA and don't care about anything else

Goldi
31 Jul 2013 14:01

I'm disappoint shame on you wena Empire and that tart of a girl i'm with Ntaks and Dhee you deserve each other soka whether its been long or not it's your friends chikita which is off limits there's a CODE amoungst friends i guess you dont value your friendship mxxxxxxm *walking away*

Empire
31 Jul 2013 14:04

and what if it was not my friends girl?

Bk212303
31 Jul 2013 14:07

So Empire just looooves mapunapuna doggy stylanyana "hides"
and the screams i wonder if bf would have walked in while cc said do it again yes yes yes ahha aha ha

Empire
31 Jul 2013 14:13

No Dude, it happen in my king size bed

Bk212303
31 Jul 2013 14:13

I think that the bf didnt cheat here, i think the girl is the cheater. The bf went to work while ccza is opening legs at home how many times did she do this hee????

Dhee31
31 Jul 2013 14:18

do it again yes yes yes ahha ahhha ha you just killed me Bk

Empire
31 Jul 2013 14:18

but ja, that was the first and last time. I have to get myself a girl other wise I'm gonna get in big *bleep!*.

pjvv
31 Jul 2013 14:21

Jaaa, some friends...***claps once***

pjvv
31 Jul 2013 14:21

Dhee31
31 Jul 2013 14:26

Ladies ladies go easy on Empire now, he was only doing charity work since we are still celebrating Mandela's birthday, so I guess this was his way of donating his 67 minutes. kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa. The gusheshe was there all ready and greased the only thing that was missing was the driver to take it for a ride.

Dhee31
31 Jul 2013 14:28

So Empire what are you gonna say when you see this woman again, just curious. How are you going to look at her now, will you be able to be in the same room with her and your so called friend?

portcia
31 Jul 2013 14:32

Hee... he... heee......... the house is burning mos!... Goldi why o sa mpitsa? wena Empire you like punana ne? and it seems to me that your friend is also the same since you said he wouldnt mind if you shagged his girlfriend, i get a feeling that this is what you guys do, then when your together you discuss about how good or bad was she, eish that girl ke sephuguphugu, one day you will have a girl that you love so dearly, and one of your friend will dust her, she will also say it was nice, sies man le i tshwere mxxxxxm

portcia
31 Jul 2013 14:41

Hayi Dhee31, Empire is so used to dusting bana babang, he wont even notice her even if they will be in the same room, he knew this was coming, going back to his statement yesterday, (going to dust in the next 45 munites leka,) so dont say you didnt know that she was going to be there naked

Goldi
31 Jul 2013 14:48

Askies my love was just pissed @ Empire mxxxm ok tell me something how old are you Empire? *straight face*

this thing was planned all along wena Posh you just took the words out of my mouth one day you will have a girl that you love so dearly, and one of your friend will dust her, she will also say it was nice, yep what goes around comes around how round we dont know *narrowing eyes*

pjvv
31 Jul 2013 14:48

Back to Gen guys. My thought is that the family secret may also be that Hlomla had something to do with his wife's death. That story line still hangs, we saw that Orion employee who knew a lot but nothing more.

Scott seems desperate, but will be happy when he unravels who is behind Sbu's imprisonment..Phenyo

portcia
31 Jul 2013 14:54

Im sure he's 17 years old, Goldi still in adolecence stage

Empire
31 Jul 2013 14:57

I'm 20

Bk212303
31 Jul 2013 15:02

but ja, that was the first and last time. I have to get myself a girl other wise I'm gonna get in big *bleep!*.

Hee u dont have a grl whoooooooo this says something else, so u dont dust huuuu i can imagine u were so thirrsty for this grl so thats why u couldnt control cause there is none times for u to get it nhee

yes u will be in *bleep!* buti

Bk212303
31 Jul 2013 15:10

Is it Scott that tells Sbuda about the imprisonment?

laleli
31 Jul 2013 15:12

He he he Empire u need thuso Abuti
if you need help go kreya steady girlfriend just say it we have single ladies in this house

Nongo
31 Jul 2013 15:19

long time family, how's evry1? doing well.

hey Empire is still enjoying his youth he will watch bak 1day and see how bad it was 4now he's just ok with it.
hey Weiss help your younger bro here he's in trouble.

Goldi
31 Jul 2013 15:23

20yrs O.O o busy o jela dichomi tsa gao oawa buti u must get yourself a girl and pronto before you become a WHORE *not hiding* hai wena Bk why you looking @ me like that vele i said it somebody had to say it *in Trevor Noah's voice*

Too many recrets on Gen but i think this one is about the Memelas since it's Nambita's last appereance *just saying*

Ntaksay
31 Jul 2013 15:23

Don't worry Empire you will find a girl, be patient don't pick anyone for because you want to dust and no more dusting a friend's g/f or even Ex.

Enough about that..................

Why is Isabell mad about the bursay set up. MJ did this long ago and he didn't do it because he expected something in return and he was not even thinking about getting back with her at the time.
He really loves her shame.

portcia
31 Jul 2013 15:25

Ke kopa Malome Vusik a bea mantswe a mabedi kapa a mararo ho Empire, sorry to disturb Vusi, i know your busy but hey, you are the only Man i could think of, to guide this boy, shame he is only 20, and would like to live long.

Ntaksay
31 Jul 2013 15:25

Thanks Empire for keeping the house busy.

Bk212303
31 Jul 2013 15:43

Yeyi Ntaksay im looking at the responses hayi Empire kept the house warm today.
Hey Goldi cant help it.

You guys are breaking rules here we dont understand sotho tswana ENGLISH PLZ especially this boy"hides under his king bed"while his dusting her kwaaaaa

Sphessh
31 Jul 2013 15:59

M new M new M new................. Keen to make new friends.

Goldi
31 Jul 2013 16:07

kwaaaaaaaaaaaa BK i can see ukuthi nawe ufuna incanca ka Empire hahahahahah what the hell are you hiding under he's bed for? *squint eyes*

Welcome Spessh are Bash's sister aka Nicki lol are you male or female?

B2G: Eish Khethiwe le ena mxxxxm it's hardly 24hrs now they gona break up again yhoooo i love Bela and MJ they make a CUTE COUPLE *pouting* it's almost home time will see you @ eerrrrr lets see 3 TOWERS ROOM 434 **,

Laters

Bk212303
31 Jul 2013 16:30

@Goldi i want to teach this boy a lesson lolo after im done with him he wont go dusting frnd's gf. He will only be looking @my punapuana cause i will make sure he gets it lunch time,watching gen,bathroom yeyi........Empire lessons mahala this side come to mama kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

Bk212303
31 Jul 2013 16:31

Goldi this boy is still fresh he doesnt know some moves, u get the pic. He said it was his 1st time so i wanna teach him all the dirty ones..Byeeee yall

Ntaksay
31 Jul 2013 16:34

Bye everyone

Empire
31 Jul 2013 16:44

@Bk212303 in your dreams. bring it theses ways. I'l learn you a think or two.

Nixy
31 Jul 2013 20:36

Yeah...... No.100 LOlz

Nixy
31 Jul 2013 20:36

Yeah...... No.100 LOlz

Nixy
31 Jul 2013 20:37

Goldi
31 Jul 2013 20:55

No BK he's 1st time 0_0 you lie how come I missed that heeeee sana you better be gentle when you show him the moves angithi phela thina la ekhaya la we are the QUEENS of DUSTING hahahahahahaha ohhh Empire you really wana learn hey well braise (sp) yourself papa ok Good night peeps love you alsways

Empire
31 Jul 2013 22:09

what does (angithi phela thina la ekhaya la) meant in English?

nkosazanayakwamaziya
01 Aug 2013 00:37

these tvsa teasers i hate very much. it either u tell us or you dont. only if i cud find de site i used to use whn i was still at school.

motstow
01 Aug 2013 07:12

guys im new in here I love u allll;-)

motstow
01 Aug 2013 07:12

Chelsea
01 Aug 2013 08:28

Hey Guys......OMG The way i missed you...How u ladies doing?? Are we still dusting?? Its good to be back**Kisses**

portcia
01 Aug 2013 09:00

Good morning ladies and gents, and welcome sphessh and motstow.

Empire, what nation are you?what Goldi meant to say is that here in this house we are the quenns of dusting, hope i clearified your question.

Episode 159
Monday 5 August

Nicolas is jealous when his girl connects with another man

Episode 165
Friday 9 August

Nicolas is surprised to see who Akhona's hanging out with

I think Scott is behind all of this

Bk212303
01 Aug 2013 09:43

Hi all, how a u? @portcia i think so too.

vuxy
01 Aug 2013 09:52

portcia
01 Aug 2013 09:55

Where is everyone?

laleli
01 Aug 2013 10:06

Morning Family
I heard skeem sam will start tonight mmm can't wait, i think it should just replace boring zone 14

Bk212303
01 Aug 2013 11:16

Im here portcia

NomthyM
01 Aug 2013 11:43

Hey Laleli, I think it's the repeat of the second season of Skeem Sam. Guys pls help me out, anyone with the original track I LOVE YOU FOR A MILLION YEARS by CHRISTINA PERRI, from the movie Twilight Breaking Dawn Part 1. It played last night on Strictly come dancing, just reminded me of my love story. If anyone has it, pls email to nomthym@gmail.com

shadilicious
01 Aug 2013 11:48

yoooh lol kwaaaax cant remain silent anymore this is very interesting...

sori sori hello everyone...

ba2ng whr is empire.. bona mfanaka o skhokho, you just wanted to show the bitch that you're not gay aker mara.
nna i dont blame you struuuuu... kuku ke kuku and dusting is to nice to resist. if i was also a man i'd do the same

NomthyM
01 Aug 2013 11:54

Back to Generations, little Dinny needs help, she is an abuser, no matter how wrong syoyoyo Phenyo is he doesn't deserve to be beaten like this, just as we women don't deserve it. She is lucky shame cos she gets away with it, I swear if I did that to my Mr man, he would beat the crap out of me and send me to seek professional help. How long is she going to get Phenyo in the line by beating him up and pretend like nothing happened? Thank u Gen for showing another side of the abuse, this is a reality....

Bk212303
01 Aug 2013 12:16

Quiettttttty today where is Empire

Dhee31
01 Aug 2013 12:29

Good day ladies I see the house is very quite today.

Kgadio
01 Aug 2013 12:48

Bk212303
01 Aug 2013 13:04

Dit is quiet today seriously

Kgadio
01 Aug 2013 13:21

I so wish 2 c phenyo n luntu suffering frm wt dey dd 2 sbu

Mimibob
01 Aug 2013 13:51

@Goldi and Keratile. I'm ok guys, thanks for caring. Just felt dizzy day after the incident. I'm ok now. I've moved from my place for the week. Cleaners are coming through on Saturday to "fix" the place. I've had a busy few days. I will read your posts proper later. At least I'm eating proper food, not burnt, and I don't have to cook. :). I also have company for a change.. I see we have hot tins in the house!... @ Empire, you just made my not so bright day. I like you already. *smiles*

Empire
01 Aug 2013 14:16

Hi Guys I'm having n moerse headache today,

Mimibob
01 Aug 2013 14:19

Get well child. I hope you are not dodging BK..

Empire
01 Aug 2013 14:34

@BK you sound like you have not been dusting a while now neh?

Empire
01 Aug 2013 14:35

@Mimibob I'm not a child anymore.

Mimibob
01 Aug 2013 14:50

@ Empire, I know, all children aren't children anymore... Ok, just kidding... I call people "child" all the time, the way i say "darling, nana, etc".. No offense intended dear.

Bk212303
01 Aug 2013 14:56

@Empire big mistaken mlv when i toss and turn i dust. I dust everyday unless im on my periods lv. So dusting is my hubby's and my hobby. Lol

Empire
01 Aug 2013 14:59

lol leka, Am I the only one in this room that's from Capetown?

Mimibob
01 Aug 2013 15:37

I think Zioness is also from Capetown. I stand to be corrected.

VusiK
01 Aug 2013 15:44

Sorry ...
...
I have no words for Mr. Empire ...
He has it all figured out.

Empire
01 Aug 2013 15:51

@VusiK whats up?

Bk212303
01 Aug 2013 16:00

I am from Kaapstad

Empire
01 Aug 2013 16:27

Realy were in Capetown? Maybe I can come around for some dusting..

Goldi
01 Aug 2013 17:51

Hello my sweet family I was busy looking for a school 4 my lil man 4 next year ohh MimiK I'm glad you're ok darling *screaming @ the top of my lungs* Chels babe I missed you so much hope you back for good sweets welcome Mots pls feel free are you male or female? Empire my sweet Posh gave the best explanation laleli, shadi and Chels hope you won't leave us again ne guys damn the house was quiet today!!

Goldi
01 Aug 2013 20:22

Hehehehehe Empire

Mimibob
01 Aug 2013 21:13

@ Goldi, I'm glad I'm ok too.. :). I'm beginning to suspect that whatever you use to post does not have full stop.. I've missed you girl. (Don't start telling me you are not a girl anymore).

VusiK
01 Aug 2013 21:21

@Empire ...

I am too busy to expend energy on your sex life or your code of ethics

You are 20 ....
that makes you 4 years younger than my 4th child.
If you know what you are on about / doing ...

Knock yourself out!

Empire
01 Aug 2013 22:03

@Vusik why are you so uptight? get a life

VusiK
01 Aug 2013 22:28

@Empire ...

When a bank withdraws a 4,25 billion dollar credit line from you
...
You might be qualified to assess my quality of life,
or qualify to make statements about it !
...
I was talking to Portcia

VusiK
01 Aug 2013 22:40

... as I stated ...

I am frightfully busy!

Mimibob
02 Aug 2013 00:39

Good night kiss on the forehead for you VusiK.

VusiK
02 Aug 2013 00:50

:-)
...
Thanks MimiK

VusiK
02 Aug 2013 01:06

I just found out earlier today my youngest's Son's Aunt has leukemia metastasized into Liver Cancer ...
...
I Have to call my oncologists in the morning to make it all better for her..

VusiK
02 Aug 2013 01:15

I have to decide by 5am either to sue someone for 3,245 billion
or
two hundred million ...
...
I am entitled to either amount...
...
one is a default on a contract,
the other a contractual retainer that was not delivered (same party)
...
Either one will put an end to these 20 hour days for at east two weeks.

VusiK
02 Aug 2013 01:40

I will go visit my father and my son in the morning
...
after my talk with the bank and the lawyers.

Mimibob
02 Aug 2013 02:08

@Vus, Sorry about your son's aunt. I pray she gets help. I'm sure you'll know what to do by 5am dear. Happy bonding with dad and son.

VusiK
02 Aug 2013 03:12

Thanks Mims ...

My son died on March 13 last year
My father died 7 years ago August 14

Keratile
02 Aug 2013 04:30

Hey Mims! M glad u r alright and bounced back. Malume Vusi, I hope your son's aunt's pain is dealt with urgently and I'm sorry for your loss. Hope you have found solution on how to approach that lawsuit business.

Keratile
02 Aug 2013 04:38

Hee banna! I disappear for only two days and the house gets this hot? Empire, you must learn to respect your elders. How dare u tell uncle Vusik to have a life? I call Vusik uncle (wich he rightfully deserves) and I'm a mother to a 20 year old (same age as you, right?). Most of us, if not all, are your elders so don't come here with your high school attitude. Okay?

Keratile
02 Aug 2013 04:43

Good morning my lovely family. And you too malome Vusi. You've been scarce of late - I assume you have a tight work schedule. Enjoy and have fun. Laters..........

Sis p
02 Aug 2013 06:35

Mrng family plz help me here .my 12 years old boy is in grde 7 and yesterday he told me that he want to know all south african languages not just know he want to study it all so it possible if so where

Mimibob
02 Aug 2013 07:33

@Rati, thanks for laying it down clearly for Empire. I was at loss for work. Good morning everyone.

portcia
02 Aug 2013 08:26

Good morning dear farmily, Visik sorry about your sons aunt, i believe that if you have leukemia, you have to find someone who will be a mach to your narrow bone, tell me if im wrong, or maybe this one is different? hope you do find the match, if this is the case, we will all pray for her.

Keratile, thanks for putting Empire at his place, this boy is still young and needs to respect his elders, especially uncle Vusi,@Empire i hope you understand, ne!.. we are not fighting with you, we only demand respect.

Goldi
02 Aug 2013 08:41

Morning Family sorry to hear about your son's aunt Vusi all the best to her and you must stay strong ((big hug))

MimiK i will not put a full stop cos i aint finished darling hiiihihihihiihihi i'm very young @ heart sweets so the last time i checked i'm still a girl my on my next life will be a boy hahahaha

Keratile i'm sure Empire knows that by now that we are all his elders and he will respect us and we also have to show him the right direction akere bagaetsho?

*woooosaaaaaaaaaaaa* Keratile

Chix
02 Aug 2013 09:09

Good Morning Family!!! I have been silent blogging, am not sure why because this has been my home for many years. It has however been very nice to just take the back seat and let you guy drive the steering wheel!!! VusiK... I know and do believe that you are a very strong man and that these heartaches (your son's aunt's sickness) will not hold you back!!! I wish her a very speedy recovery!! Family I am still here and still love you very much!!!

Mimibob
02 Aug 2013 09:19

Joh, that should have read "at loss for words".. Not "work"

Goldi
02 Aug 2013 09:55

lol MimiK

We still love you Chix you can come anytime will always be here

Nunumsi
02 Aug 2013 10:04

"WE DLOMO MAN KNOW HOW TO TREAT A WOMAN" I hate Phenyo he says words like this yet hurting his wife in da process. Just glad dat Akhona & Nic will meet them eKapa.

Ntaksay
02 Aug 2013 10:06

Good morning everyone

Sorry about your loss Malume Vusi, and we wish your son's aunt a speedy recovery, may she get all the help she needs.

Ntaksay
02 Aug 2013 10:09

What is Scott going to do with the drug Sello used. I hope it's not for akhona I love her and Nicolas. We haven't seen dusting in gen for a long time (Ntuntu and Phenyo are boring) But Nicky and Akhona are always interesting. I just love them.

MJ please forgive Isabel I love you two, you have finally found each other now please make the most of it. Such a young cute couple.

Nunumsi
02 Aug 2013 10:10

Skeem sam is really back & it's da new season just HAPPY da actors are da same old ones it seems interesting but now I'll miss Isibaya on Thursdays...

Ntaksay
02 Aug 2013 10:14

Sorry to comment about this but there is no blog for it but I think there should be

Skeem Sam
Tbose is such a stupid boy, I don't like the way he is treating Mapitsi. shame they supported each other on the previous season why resent her like this on this one. I love them I know they are young but he must start acting/thinking like a parent now.
Seakamela does not deserve the love his son is giving him, he keeps on disappointing his family.

please accept my apology for posting non-Gen related comment.

Ntaksay
02 Aug 2013 10:16

Did anyone see cutting edge???????????
that was scary, yho!

duckie
02 Aug 2013 10:17

I was hopin to c the part be announce the face of turf but ey showed it as previously and i neva saw it
Manje y is thabo actin like tht towards Mapitsi?

I Akhona playin hard to gt no Nic or wat?
@Ntaksay i also hpe Sctt is nt gna gve akhona the drugs hey
Mj and Isabel ,ey have too much pride
Kwaaaaaa u gota love chpa, hes so tokative yt masekumele akhulume ezothando his throat goes dry,hahaahhahahahahhahha

My apologies, eix forgot ma manners under the bed, Good morning Lovely fam

Ntaksay
02 Aug 2013 10:23

I wonder if he will ever tell her how she feels, even she can see that. He had a chance to tell her when they were eating out but he just stormed out of the restaurant.
I feel sorry for Mavis, Choppa used to clean after himself, make his own food in his flat and it's MAVIS *shouting in Choppa's voice*
kodwa his SIX PACK killed me last night.

OlothandoD
02 Aug 2013 10:29

Hi good people, Still no SABC for me, I now watch Isibaya and Zabalaza, but will continue to come and check on you guys! Luv you all!

VusiK
02 Aug 2013 10:37

Thank You for the support Family!
The best I can do is make the introductions for her to the best Oncologists and Internal medicine people available.
The rest is between her faith and choices.
She is a leukemia survivor, so I am certain she is aware of the size of her fight.
Metastisis is a problem, as always, I deal with the affliction efficiently, I do not kknow how she will handle the resurgence, people are different regarding how the handle successive waves. Most simply give up, or get weakened spirits at each turn.
I view cancer as a challenge, If one know why it exists, one can understand better how to control its progress and prosperity.

I am a five times cancer survivor ...
There is life in this dog yet!
:-)

Bk212303
02 Aug 2013 10:41

Hey everyone, how is you. Chinx you really scarse cc miss you. Uncle Vus i will pray for yr son's aunt to heal and im sorry for the loss of yr loved ones.

Empire behave yrself nhe!

VusiK
02 Aug 2013 10:42

@Keratile ...

I am working at avoiding the lawsuit ...
They are in default ...
I would win, their paying me does little in the long run.
I wish them to deliver and prosper, it is withing their abilities,
I will propose settlement of the lesser amount in liquidated damages and grant an extension on the larger.(Beat them with a smaller stick so to say, and allow them to live to fight another day)

Ntaksay
02 Aug 2013 10:44

so quite people

Goldi
02 Aug 2013 10:44

Ntaks i hope not hey Scott must NEVER Akhona and Nick make the interesting couple remind me of S'buda and Makhumalo eish i also love MJ and Bella hey

hahahahah me too Ntaks Chops ka SIX PACK

Ntaksay
02 Aug 2013 10:47

Yho Uncle Vuse, you really are a strong person and an inspiration. I salute you uncle!!!!!!

Mimibob
02 Aug 2013 10:49

Wow Vusi, five times cancer survivor! Joh! Hei, o strong! This says a lot about you, many would have given up.. And I guess God wouldn't just let you go before you met amazing me! :)

NoMdazB
02 Aug 2013 11:02

Morning everyone. Special salute to Bra Vusi. I chose to be quiet these past two days because I just did not want to indulge attention mongers like Empire. Now that that is over, how is everyone? @Mims, I'm glad you are okay. Blankets you can replace but there's only one MimiK. Anyone have anything happening this weekend or the long weekend? My life is boring so I need to live vicariously through your adventures.

Ntaksay
02 Aug 2013 11:06

You and me both NoMdazB. I guess it's sleep, sleep and sleep again for me.

VusiK
02 Aug 2013 11:14

Thank You

:-)

Dhee31
02 Aug 2013 11:17

Sanibonani nonke layekhaya ngolwesihlanu.

Mimibob
02 Aug 2013 11:27

Awww... Sweet Nomd. Thanks.

Bk212303
02 Aug 2013 11:35

Big up Uncle Vusi! Hey Nomdaz

I just did not want to indulge attention mongers

Haybo!

We are yr family and families share everything, dont ever think like that.

VusiK
02 Aug 2013 11:38

@Ntaksay ...

I do not own a telly ...
What happened on Cutting Edge?
......
I like Cutting edge BTW ...
Very sharp and incisive reporting they do at times.

Bk212303
02 Aug 2013 11:42

My weekend is a bit hectic Nomdaz today im taking my son to my aunt cause she is moss a teacher so she wants to give some lessons on school work though. Cause his teacher is always not at school.

Then i would be home alone cause hubby is gone to my in laws cause my brother in law past on.

Then tommorow its pastel training the till 4 after that have to rush to in laws....makoti yuuuu already tired.

Coming back at nite then Sunday burial society then my weekend is done.

Obviously in between i will intertain myself klk.

Bk212303
02 Aug 2013 11:44

I think Scott will give the drugs to Akhona. He even said said once an addict ...always ...

Goldi
02 Aug 2013 11:45

Wow!! Vusi you are a very strong some1 hey so proud of you....Lol Nomd Empire did not mean any harm and he doesnt even know whether we are he's age group or not so the least we could do is to tell him that look here buddy this is how things work here in this house, where is the love and respect kante?? i hope he heard us loud and clear it wont happen again

maesela
02 Aug 2013 11:48

Hey every1!!!

Ntaksay
02 Aug 2013 11:55

@Ntaksay ...
I do not own a telly ...
What happened on Cutting Edge?

Two high schools boys were burnt by acid at school premises during school hours.

The one boy's face was bad his left eye was covered by the inside pink meat he was scary I couldn't look at him and the other one's leg was also badly burnt.
That was bad.

The school principal bought a no name acid from people he does not know, they did a demonstration to him in 2008 and the acid was reasonable as he says then he bought it for the cleaners to clean the school. I don't know how much acid he bought that lasted four years. He never apologised to the pupil's parents or write a report to the Department of Education to report the matter.

But one pupil with the pink eye underwent a surgery in Cape Town, during June school holidays. His eye is fine now and in September he is going for his face surgery, They Doctors said it will take four years for his face to fully recover and be normal again.

The other one will go to PE sometime this year so that the Docs can check how deep his wound is inside.

VusiK
02 Aug 2013 12:03

@Ntaksay ...

That is so sad !

What is probably sadder is the thought that someone qualified as a principal actually is of the opinion that acid is an effective cleaning agent to be used by people without training or protective gear.

These are truly dark days we live in.

I always maintain ...

All liberties and privileges mean absolutely nothing in the absence of an excellent education.

How then do we expect to prosper by any capacity when those entrusted with the development and education of young minds are themselves in desperate requirement of an education?

Ntaksay
02 Aug 2013 12:07

I think Scott will give the drugs to Akhona. He even said said once an addict ...always ...
I hope you are wrong Bk.
Hlomla warned Nicolas about his uncle, he is really bad news, what is he hoping to achieve by addicting Akhona. I don't understand, cant he find other ways of getting infor out of her without the drugs. And he is broke, how is he gonna import those drugs from china coz I think Mr Wong is Chinese.

NoMdazB
02 Aug 2013 12:16

So, Bhut' Vusi, what do you do on weekends? What sort of naughty shenanigans do you get up to?

Nunumsi
02 Aug 2013 12:20

It will serve Akhona right if he does give her drugs after she betrayed Sbuda

NoMdazB
02 Aug 2013 12:21

Hey Ntaksay, I've missed a few episodes, how did Scott know about Akhona's drug problem?

Goldi
02 Aug 2013 12:26

Ntaks Tbose is over whelmed nje i think he'll come around once the child is born i couldnt stop loling when Meikie was throwing tantrums hahahahahaa eish ya ne *skeem sam*

Mimibob
02 Aug 2013 12:27

Joh! Sad story Ntaks. I remember I once accidentally swallowed some chemicals at high school during Chemistry practicals. Thankfully, I lived to get teased about it for days..

VusiK
02 Aug 2013 12:29

@Nomdakazane ...

I use my weekends to prepare for the following week Sisi

Unfortunately for me ...
The weekend is not a time to escape my work but time to get a little rest and prepare for more work.If I should ever stop work, no matter how briefly ...
I will starve

My business was all but lost last year when I stopped working. (1st to attend to my son's health needs , thereafter to attend to my own)

It was a sobering lesson that there is no opportunity for the likes of me to indulge in the travails and luxuries of leisure just because others can.

vuxy
02 Aug 2013 12:33

scott is going to use akhona to get sbusiso out of jail. he will use his girls to spike akhona's food in oder to get her hooked with drugs again from there he wil blackmail her not to testifiy agains sbusiso

portcia
02 Aug 2013 12:52

Malome VusiK, you are a strong men, 5 times cancer survivor, you really gives us hope to go on in life and always be positive to conquer any situation that faces us.

I also think Scott will give Akhona some drugs, then get her to confess about Sbisiso, while shes high.

Ntaksay
02 Aug 2013 12:52

lol @Goldi I'd also throw the tantrums if my husby can have a beautiful made like Alice at my absence.

But it was wrong of Meiki to leave like that. But I feel sorry for Mapitsi she has put up with all that *bleep!*. But I had to laugh when Leeto threw him out of his room to sleep on the couch and he was followed by his bag. uzoqaqeka sex is not for teenagers.

VusiK
02 Aug 2013 12:58

Thank you guys.

This body wants to live on!

I suppose the 5 times cancer survivor pales in relation to the 15 heart attacks I had last year.

It is not yet my time.

I will go to the next life when this one is done with me.

@Zioness
02 Aug 2013 13:10

Halloooo fam, wow @VusiK what an inspiration and I couldn't agree more=
All liberties and privileges mean absolutely nothing in the absence of an excellent education.

How then do we expect to prosper by any capacity when those entrusted with the development and education of young minds are themselves in desperate requirement of an education? WISE WISE WORDS......

Can't wait for Gen tonight when Nic&Akhona and Manwhore&Luntu all rock up at Mawande's flat in CT together for the 'music festival' = dusting.... like the teenagers say "Awkward" lol I think Scott is a despicable character and that he is indeed planning to use the drugs to make Akhona relapse... he claims to love his nephew so much and he has seen how much Akhona means to Nic, but he'll to anything to get through to Sibusiso, some ppl and money neh...

It was my first time watching Skeem saam last night, shame I really felt for that girl, at first I wanted to applaud the grandmom for ensuring that their son take responsibility but I dn't know if that emotional abuse the pure girl has to go through will be worth it in the end... if anyone has a moment to just give me a brief history of skeem saam will be much appreciated toe

Mimibob
02 Aug 2013 13:23

15 what!? Yho! Not yet your time indeed.

Goldi
02 Aug 2013 13:36

Mapitsi will survive she's a brave/strong girl shem hhahahaah eish Ntaks but dd you see her *Meikie* when John was telling her that Alice is a domestic worker hahahaha that lil smile on her lips mmmmm i'm glad they made peace hey

VusiK
02 Aug 2013 13:40

Yes,

15

The loss of my Son was absolutely traumatic.

Bk212303
02 Aug 2013 13:47

Yhoo uncle Vusi woooooooow

Who is Mpilo's guardian..... Sara or Dumisani and wife, Patricia and hubby,
who is it ppl

Manbe manwhore and Dinny.

VusiK
02 Aug 2013 13:52

...
Thanks Family

Hence ..

There is no need to engage a 20 year old who feels wise enough to instruct me to "get a life"

Ntaksay
02 Aug 2013 13:54

To lose a loved one is very traumtatic especially your child, we want our children to bury us as parents not the other way around.
I feel you pain malume. I always hear people say "What doesn't kill you makes you stronger" You are the living proof of that and we admire you for that.
Again sorry about you son it's a sad thing to happen to anyone. Be strongest.

Ntaksay
02 Aug 2013 14:21

@Zioness

if you are a patient person I'll give you a summary of Skeem Sam next week coz I'm busy, the little breaks that I take to come to this house are not enough to type a summary of the Drama.

Ntaksay
02 Aug 2013 14:23

Portcia are you dusting the whole day today??????? you are scarce ousi and it's unlike you.

Goldi
02 Aug 2013 14:45

Fridays are always like this Ntaks

Bk212303
02 Aug 2013 15:44

Im still here

VusiK
02 Aug 2013 16:04

Thank you Ntaks!

I suppose the truth is :-

"what does not kill ; makes you live a little more!"
I live!
I have lived!
I intend to live more!
:-)

Empire
02 Aug 2013 16:13

Sorry uncle Vusik, I didn't meant to be rude.

Ntaksay
02 Aug 2013 16:24

That's he spirit Vus

Hi Empire.

Bye everyone

Have a lovely weekend and I'll have a BORING ONE *yawning*

Bye bye my lovies until Monday Mcwa Mcwa

Bk212303
02 Aug 2013 16:31

Now that is what i call a Capetonian, Empire. Uncle Vusi the bby has spoken.

Now welcome to the family Empire.

Pps enjoy yr weekend i got to go. My child's trip has been cancelled and now i have to run to him for damage control cause he is so dissappointed when i called him about it. I will have to love and live u.

Vusik God kept you for us man. So that you could advise, support us, its simple as that buti. He thought of taking away such a good, humble and a staright talker like u and said there is bk2123... who needs straight talk no hidden agendas just like it is.
Im glad he kept buti.

BIGGG UPP VUSIK!!!!!!!!!!!!

VusiK
02 Aug 2013 16:47

@Empire ...

I accept your apology!

@BK and Everyone's encouraging words ...

Thank you!
You are appreciated without hesitation!

Have a fabulous weekend Family!

VusiK
02 Aug 2013 21:10

I was asked what mischief I get up to during my leisure and non-work time.

This is one of the ways I spend my weekends

http://www.google.co.za/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=3&cad=rja&ved=0CEAQtwIwAg&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.youtube.com%2Fwatch%3Fv%3DlEV5AFFcZ-s&ei=4gL8UYn8OeeO7Aa57IC4Dg&usg=AFQjCNExjF70zfKO7FcY5gFwVc794JWvBw&sig2=MQrQizyR4LZWg6OsoxoV2w&bvm=bv.50165853,d.ZGU

and http://www.thrivemovement.com/

My children's future is extremely important to me.

(It might explain why I have not owned a television for most of my life.)

You make the decision for yourselves.

Happy Weekend Family !

:-)

Mimibob
03 Aug 2013 01:56

Happy weekend Vus. I'm checking out Thrive.

Pulchritude
03 Aug 2013 01:59

Keratile
03 Aug 2013 02:13

Malome Vusi, I salute you. You never cease to amaze me. 15 WHAT? And 5 WHAT? A cat (akere they say it has 9 lives?) is no match to you. Talking about a real survivor.... ..........Happy and relaxed weekend family

Ntsikie Lee
03 Aug 2013 07:36

Ijooo Crazy Bridget is a foster mom to Mpilo, i hope she doesnt strangle him. . . Poor Mpilo frm a alcoholic mom and getting shot to a nutcase foster mom. . . Khethiwe will start drinking again instead of really fixing her life so she can take Mpilo away frm that woman

VusiK
03 Aug 2013 09:52

@Mims ... It is time you did

@Ausi Keratile ... Thank You

Xihuhure
03 Aug 2013 12:52

Marhwa
03 Aug 2013 22:02

Bloggers does it eva cross your mind that people blogging here are as young as your kids,coz everyone watch gen.am surprized the way you entertain dusting as u coll it,some of you are married mature but the way you keep on i even forget that am in teasers its like am reading dear dolly or something,the way BK and others were entertaining empire she even said how she thinks they were screaming,i assume you are married coz everytime you talk about inlaws hubby how to make mcombothi yet you behave like a teen here and some fellow bloggers,the onli person that make sense to me is ntankse coz she posts jokes instead of acting like a teen who had sex for the 1st time and of coz vusik and few others,the last time i checked this was 4 gen not what yo've turn it to be#crucify me if you want#i miss the likes of mpondokazi and them

Refiloe Kutumela
03 Aug 2013 22:56

Guys is it true that ngamla is twasing in real life so that's why he is in jail 4 a long tym?

EMk213L
03 Aug 2013 23:12

Marwa!!! If u r not naughty jst leave others 2 enjy their life here nd teach us a lot abt Dusting..... One1 who wants toyboi

Mimibob
04 Aug 2013 00:35

@Marhwa, You dont have to give such an attitude to be heard. People also tend to get defensive when they feel attacked. Im not really sure what you intended to achieve with your post; you seem more ready for crusifixion than a more accomodating family. I do not think its anyone's intention to be offensive.

Anyway, Im no child, neither do I have one but can relate to your concern. I joined this blog for Generations. I was not crazy about topics on dusting, even cringed at some posts, so would just keep checking if topic had changed.. I guess getting used to the individuals helped my perspective, I've even picked a thing or two from some such discussions.

I trust we all want an accomodating home. The children could opt to read teasers only and go to bed, or they could visit Generations on alternative sites, or the family could decide to have certain topics as separate articles from the Gens blog, or TVSA Admin could have an age restriction on the site..

Dusting topics seem to keep the house alive. There is usually request for topics and people just dont suggest and the most favourite takes the floor.

We have become a family beyond Generations. We will always discuss matters beyond Generations on this blog. Feel free to suggest topics you want discussed.

Mimibob
04 Aug 2013 00:38

@Refiloe, What is "twasing"?

Keratile
04 Aug 2013 02:33

Sangoma/Ngaka Initiation @Mims

Deemo
04 Aug 2013 03:46

jus cant sleep

Mimibob
04 Aug 2013 06:52

Thanks Rati. I was wondering what language that is. Sounds slang.

Keratile
04 Aug 2013 08:28

Pleasure @ Mims :-) I also didn't understand at first. This thing of turning or saying our african terms into English is really confusing. Blessed Sunday to you.

VusiK
04 Aug 2013 10:41

I am guessing or suppose Marhwa's post can be viewed as follows:

There are people who are embarassed discussion matters sexual or relating to the expression of sexuality, be it individual, or collectively.

Personally, I am not bothered, if one reads my articles, they deal quite a lot with the topic of honest exchange and communications regarding human sexuality .... and I have not written anything in over a year on the subject.

I am an adult, I expect anyone who would read my articles to be an adult, or considering engaging adult matters / subjects / matters / topics.

Personally, I am against children watching television, although my children DO watch the soapies when they are with their mothers, ... they do not watch a television when visiting me ... simply because one does not exist at my house.

But when one did exists, I controlled what they could view, and they ... ebing children, are tuned to seek the order of the environment within which they develop, consequently, my children would either go straight to the children's channels, documentaries, or other educational channels / media, or alternateively, view media that I set on their shelf for them to view.

I suppose it is difficult for most to imagine OLD PEOPLE (like me) as sexual beings because it is represented in our society as either dirty or some sort of vice, hence it is possible for it to be considered inappropriate.

For my part ... as immediately as a child is capable of understanding, or is able to interrogate the concept of his existence, I educate them regarding how they are an incredible creation as well as how they came to exist, consequently, I have no problems with my children confronting the subject of sexuality, be it human or otherwise, as well as the intricacies, and consequences of such activities ... naturally the peculiar aspect of certain mamalian sexuality being the engagement of sexual activities for pleasure ... (humans, dolphins, porcupines, and hedgehogs are amongst the very unique and few creatures science has observed to engage sex for pleasure and purely for procreation)... hence the expression of such is sometimes a wonderment to / for me.

Regardless, we are adults. I expect anyone who is capable of blogging (the mere act of being able to navigate to this blog-space be it as an observer, or as a particippant commits one to the terms and conditions of use, as well as the general pace and stream of content that prevails in such a space.

I appreciate his/her comment without attacking her position.

There are unique and wonderful people who write here, I appreciate most of them, and I am certain there are some who do not appreciate the non-subject-specific content that the "Dusting topic" deviates us toward ... To those, If I may suggest ... do as many others do ... express yourself without causing offence to others, and engage the matters and topics that pique your interest... It is how I survive being here also.

If I wish to discuss my opinion regarding my sexuality or any expression thereto, I tend to do so in my blog, and accept full responsibility for my writings, and account for my utterances by responding thereupon from time to time whould there be merit in doing so.

I will not shoot Marhwra down for expressing the view that it probably is embarassing for him/her to imagine the older set as joyously expressive of their sexuality, my bet is with time ... anything is possible because we are a progressively developing and ever evolving species with a vast hunger for experiences anew.

For instance ... My son is still having problems wrapping his head around "Daddy's un-teaching him" the vast quantities of what he learns at school ... such as that the sun does not revolve around the earth in a static orbit as he is taught, at school, however he has to accept that it does in order to pass his examinations with the stellar grades I expect of him... then he comes home and his father proves to him that what is in the book or taught is NOT cast in stone, and thus challenges his brain to push the boundaries of knowledge further and outward beyond being a follower destined to be controlled.

For me, there is nothing more beautiful than to witness the spark of genius ignite in a child with full knowledge that the brain is capable of handling over 10^10% of what is presently considered its ability.

The discovery of knowledge and the tolerance of differing opinions is a wondrous thing to evidence, the engagement and discourse encourages us to expand our boundaries ... As such ... it is as possible to be abused as it is to be of benefit to someone yet to make the discovery that our engagement of knowledge allows us to easily and freely express where we have been, as well as where we could be should we allow ourselves to open our minds to

VusiK
04 Aug 2013 10:44

The end of my post is as follows: (I must have exceeded the "Reply quota"

The discovery of knowledge and the tolerance of differing opinions is a wondrous thing to evidence, the engagement and discourse encourages us to expand our boundaries ... As such ... it is as possible to be abused as it is to be of benefit to someone yet to make the discovery that our engagement of knowledge allows us to easily and freely express where we have been, as well as where we could be should we allow ourselves to open our minds to say ... "THIS IS NOT ALL I AM CAPABLE OF" ....

Have yourselves a fantastic week bloggers !!!

Mimibob
04 Aug 2013 12:36

@VusiK, And I thought my response was long... Lol... Let me read..

Mimibob
04 Aug 2013 13:00

Thanx Vus. Well said. You are one person I want in my life for a long long time. (I'm not trying to flirt).I learn something new from you every day; be it the art of communication or the content of such, either direct implication of such communication, or as construed by me.

VusiK
04 Aug 2013 13:19

such as that the sun does not revolve around the earth in a static orbit as he is taught

.... Sorry please reverse the object and subject to proper context

VusiK
04 Aug 2013 13:56

Thank you Mims ...

Communication is an Art
and Communication can be Art
...
That was my father's assertion, and my opinion!

Mimibob
04 Aug 2013 13:56

Gotcha

Mimibob
04 Aug 2013 14:08

Your opinion? Mmh.. Debatable.. :) Good afternoon.

VusiK
04 Aug 2013 15:11

debatable how?

Good afternoon!

Mimibob
04 Aug 2013 15:32

A word I need to substantiate my claim is evading me.. I will not start the debate now because I will lose.

VusiK
04 Aug 2013 15:47

OK

VusiK
04 Aug 2013 16:11

Take your time to prepare whatever argument you wish to present.

Mimibob
04 Aug 2013 16:15

I withdraw, but will ask, how do you define opinion?

VusiK
04 Aug 2013 16:53

The same as you find in any document of definition:-

Opinion:-
Any aspect of a discussion or point of view that is subject to interpretation, translation, definition, and conjecture.

VusiK
04 Aug 2013 16:56

opinion |əˈpɪnjən|
noun
1 a view or judgement formed about something, not necessarily based on fact or knowledge: that, in my opinion, is right | the area's residents share vociferous opinions about the future.
• [ mass noun ] the beliefs or views of a group or majority of people: the changing climate of opinion.
• an estimation of the quality or worth of someone or something: I had a higher opinion of myself than I deserved.
2 a statement of advice by an expert on a professional matter: if in doubt, get a second opinion.
• Law a barrister's advice on the merits of a case.
• Law a formal statement of reasons for a judgement given.
PHRASES
be of the opinion that believe or maintain that.
difference of opinion a disagreement or mild quarrel: there was a difference of opinion between myself and the chief planner.
a matter of opinion something not capable of being proven either way.
ORIGIN Middle English: via Old French from Latin opinio(n-), from the stem of opinari ‘think, believe’.

Mimibob
04 Aug 2013 17:20

Ok

portcia
05 Aug 2013 08:22

Good morning good farmily, sorry Marhwa if you feel that we are acting like teanegers when we talk about dusting, but dusting ke ntho e tsebahalang, everyone does it, and as a married woman i have to keep it on to keep the spark in my relationship, though it doesnt mean i have to go around to talk about it. if you feel that you dont want to read about dusting, then dont, i dont mean to be rude but this topic is what keeps the housr burning, and beside dusting , this is a place that everyone who has problems can come and open up to his or her problems.
Besides even school girls do dust, and they even dust more than us.

NoMdazB
05 Aug 2013 09:04

Good morning family. Yho the house was busy this weekend, for a change. Just wondering, what if Marhwa created his own blog where he could lay out all the rules and guidelines that are comfortable fr his/her sensibilities? After all Tashi (Right Bhut' Vusi?) has not objected to topics being dealt with on this blog.

Ntaksay
05 Aug 2013 09:05

Good morning people

I see the house was HOT on Saturday.
Now let me read everything.

I hope you all had a lovely weekend

VusiK
05 Aug 2013 09:06

@Portcia ...
Evidently she enjoys the blog, but is unable to use her discretion to filter out and ignor, or is offended by some conversations.

Very True Nomdakazane ... as long as the individual does not violate the terms of use ... neither TVSA nor Tashi will pull the plug on your column.

NoMdazB
05 Aug 2013 09:14

May I come up with a non-offensive topic? How does everyone feel about changing your church/religion to that of your husband's after getting married? My opinion is faith is personal and therefore cannot be imposed on anyone else. The world we live in is very imperfect and the notion of trying to project a perfect image for the world to admire while suppressing your own happiness is unacceptable to me.

Goldi
05 Aug 2013 09:24

Good morning family

heeeee Marhwa please keep your ATTENTION SEEKING SYNDROME to yourself we are here to discuss what ever we feel like if you dont have anything better to do or say just shurupppppppppppp and let us be please *eyes rolling* we dont have 12yr old kids here besides DUSTING IS DONE EVERYWHERE you can open your own blog and set your RULES *moving right along*

i had the most amazing weekend with my mom and my boys *priceless moments* family bonds eish ya ne so how was your weekend guys?

Candyd1029
05 Aug 2013 09:30

vuxy
05 Aug 2013 10:13

portcia
05 Aug 2013 10:36

Hi Goldi, my weekend was so quite, just me hubby and the kids, no visits, and how was your visitation to your loved ones graveside malume Vusi? it got me thinking do you guys believe in ancernstors?

Nomdazb, do you want to change your husband's religion/church and why?

I was raised in a anglican church, and hubby in a Methodist, i do enjoy his church and sometimes do visit mine with my mom and kids, and there is no problem there, as we all praise the same God, I dont do churches that we just know about them now,eg Shembe, Mporo Universal etc, sorry if there is someone who attends those church that i just mentioned, i just like to stick to what i know and doesnt like to join a church because of who and who, or because they say" that pastor is powerful"

VusiK
05 Aug 2013 10:40

it got me thinking do you guys believe in ancernstors?

We are the result / sum of their parts ...
If anything, my ancestors form a fundamental portion of my belief system.

NoMdazB
05 Aug 2013 10:57

Well Portcia he has the notion that it reflects badly on him and his family that I attend my church. But I also think he allows his insecurities to rule how he feels. For lack of a better word they are Saved and I'm Methodist. So I don't feel it's right to be in their church pretending to be saved. I do go sometimes with the kids but I don't feel a home. Bra Vusi, I think I admit that we have ancestors. What I'm not sure about is my opinion regarding their influence in our lives. I do not dispute it but I also am not sure if it's true or not. And it is true that my beliefs and my way thinking are a result of their teachings.

Mimibob
05 Aug 2013 10:59

Hehee Goldi! You really are crazy. I hope Marhwa doesn't take you to heart. Lol...

VusiK
05 Aug 2013 11:04

@Nomdakazane ...

It depends on whether you wish to assert your individuality, regardless of your commitment to form a family.
It matters not for me what my spouse's exercise of faith is expressed as, or where, as long as she is happy with her decision and does not impose her belief system on me and mine in a manner that impedes on my exercise of the same right and privilege....
i.e. the power of the individual to exercise personal choice.

VusiK
05 Aug 2013 11:05

We are responsible for the choices we make ...
not the choices of others,
regardless of how close we are to them,
or them to us.

Goldi
05 Aug 2013 11:07

Lol MimiK 6 no 9 hahahahaha

I do believe in ancestors just like you Nomd not sure of their influence but hey that's how i grew believing in them and still do

VusiK
05 Aug 2013 11:08

I am only available because I await the transmission of the defaulter's penalty / remedy for non performance...

Which is due payable this morning,

thereafter,

I revert to being extremely busy

NoMdazB
05 Aug 2013 11:15

You took the words right out of my mouth Bhut Vusi,(of course not as eloquently)'. I told him the choice lies within a person as to how to express their faith. As I said, insecurities, which I really cannot help him with.

Ntaksay
05 Aug 2013 11:35

Is Prince gay????????????????????????????????????????

Wow I must say Mfundi you did well on Friday's episode. I don't think any of us thought that Bridget would be Mpilo's foster mother. Well done!!!!! Now can't wait for the Nomvethe/Memela - Nomvethe/Dlomo & Dlomo/Memela drama.

Ntaksay
05 Aug 2013 11:37

Friday's episode was a bomb.

Isabel and MJ
Choppa and Zinhle
Wow I enjoyed the episode shame

Phenyo&Noluntu almost getting caught and I just love Akhona and Nicolas

Kandyfloss
05 Aug 2013 11:58

Good morning Good Family.hei GOLDIE I guessMarhwa got the message loud and clear. Lolling at your response. Going back to read VusiK looong comment. Been a absent for a long time. Silent blogging is addictive.. I guess am back for good.

Kandyfloss
05 Aug 2013 11:58

Good morning Good Family.hei GOLDIE I guessMarhwa got the message loud and clear. Lolling at your response. Going back to read VusiK looong comment. Been a absent for a long time. Silent blogging is addictive.. I guess am back for good.

Ntaksay
05 Aug 2013 12:01

Welcome back Kandy

Mimibob
05 Aug 2013 12:06

I will be going back to my evening/late night blogging. I wil howeverl peep in during the day if I get the chance. Good afternoon.

VusiK
05 Aug 2013 12:41

Good Morning Mims, Kandy, Everyone!

Mimibob
05 Aug 2013 12:51

Good morning love.

portcia
05 Aug 2013 13:00

I also do believe in ancestors, i think they are a part of who we are,and whenever i talk about the ancestors, my so holly friend always says, thats demonic, she says the dead will remain dead and will rise on the judgement day, so slatering and making the offering for the dead only means you allow satan to come to your house,she says when you dream of your late mother asking you to make a feast, is not your mother there, only satan,who appeares as your mother in your dream so that you can slaughter, and the demonics are always waiting for you to slaughter so that they can come into your house, so it means even if your chid or someone in your family dies you shouldnt slaughter for her/his funeral, couse you are inviting the demons, how true is this? and is visiting the dead means you worship them?

portcia
05 Aug 2013 13:06

Nomdazb, you should go to a church were you feel comfortable, were you can sing and praise the Lord, and still go back home with your heart filled with joy.your husband should understand that and let you go where you fell the love of Jesus, is not like when you go to your church then you worship someone different. Methodist is a good church.

Ntaksay
05 Aug 2013 13:20

I have heard about what you're saying Portcia. I do not have much experience on ancestral rituals but in my family we do slaughter when there is a funeral/ wedding/unveiling/Christmas/Easters or even school holidays when we are all home.

I actually don't see anything wrong with that and I enjoy fresh meat. My mouth is watering already.

Mimibob
05 Aug 2013 13:21

Hi Nomdakazane (in VusiK style). Just had to say that. Later peeps.

NoMdazB
05 Aug 2013 13:36

Hey Mims. See you at midnight.

NoMdazB
05 Aug 2013 13:39

It's as if you were also listening to our talk @Portcia. I'm sure he'll try to kick up a fuss but there's really not much that he can do about it.

Ntaksay
05 Aug 2013 13:41

Let me share something with you.

Last year I was preparing my daughter for school in the morning. I don't take her to the bathroom as it is cold I bath her in the bedroom on a plastic washing basin. When I took her out of the basin I left her towel on the basin when I finished dressing her the towel was nowhere to be found till today. We looked everywhere but couldn't find even took everything out of the room but found nothing. I couldn't believe it and I don't understand how it happened but it did happen. This was the strangest thing I have ever experienced in my life

Ntaksay
05 Aug 2013 13:44

Why late night blogging Mims??????
is your work keeping you too busy to blog during the day?

VusiK
05 Aug 2013 13:47

@portcia ...

I suggest you advise your friend to believe what she wishes.
I suggest you believe what you wish.
Beliefs and opinions are personal and speak / appeal to everyone differently.
I suggest that you believe what speaks best to your spirit.
...
The biggest orison we humans ever created for ourselves is the prison of opinion (what others think of us), once unshackled from the opinions of others, we accept responsibilities for ourselves, and our existence ... and consequently our purpose on this marvelous blue ball whizzing its way through the cosmos.

Bk212303
05 Aug 2013 13:47

heeeeeyyyyyyyyyyyyyy happy Mondal all

Goldi
05 Aug 2013 13:51

Afternoon peeps hey Kandy *waving so high* miss you darling welcome back

Nomd sthandwa sam just go to a church were you feel comfy and feel the presence of your GOOD LORD

CAN I GET AN AMEM BAZALWANE *in Rebecca Malope's voice*

VusiK
05 Aug 2013 13:51

orison = prison

Bk212303
05 Aug 2013 14:26

Bosso KE mang ayeye Thanx Marhwa for paying attention you made my day and Thanx to the family......I just love this blog

Goldi
05 Aug 2013 15:04

Kunjalo Bk....Ntaks i dont understand your story where did the bath take place in the house or ouside and when did this happen please mind my blondeness it's Monday lol

Ntaksay
05 Aug 2013 15:21

Inside the house Goldi and it happened in October last year.

Mimibob
05 Aug 2013 15:36

@ Ntaks, I'm usually busy at work so prefer doing personal stuff outside working hours. I don't even make social calls. Unless I miss the love of my life and call him, other than that, it's work, work and more work,

Bk212303
05 Aug 2013 15:39

Ntaksay what??? u making me scared now..

Mimibob
05 Aug 2013 15:39

I have more time at home and don't have anyone to talk to, so I blog.

portcia
05 Aug 2013 16:02

Thank you uncle Vusi, i must just believe in what i believe in, we dont usually slaughter, but when i got married we did slaughter for ( mahlabiso) in sesotho to bring our ancestors together, and thats when she started telling me that what we are doing is wrong. Iwould like to see what they will do the day someone in her family dies, i dont wish someone to die though, im just saying the day it does happen.

Ntaksay, were you alone with your daughter in the house? maybe someone took it and you cant remember, o seke wa re tshosa yoh....

Ntaksay
05 Aug 2013 16:04

So ladies and ladies who's going to Durbs to see R Kelley????

Mimibob
05 Aug 2013 16:06

On the issue of churches and beliefs, I don't really think people mean to impose their beliefs on others. I think It has to do with knowing something good and wanting others to experience the same.

Mimibob
05 Aug 2013 16:20

I have personally experienced God's love and greatness in my life in a lot of areas. I introduce this same God to others and do invite people to church as well. I have seen the gospel transform lives, including mine, so I preach the same gospel to others. I will however not ask anyone to leave their church, but don't guarantee that they will not after visiting mine. :)

Provi
06 Aug 2013 07:37

Hi family, its bin a long time....,some interesting individuals in the house (directed at Empire)

Provi
06 Aug 2013 07:39

Hi family, its bin a long time....,some interesting individuals in the house (directed at Empire)

Chelsea
06 Aug 2013 07:47

Morning Luvies....

portcia
06 Aug 2013 08:02

Morning Sweet hearts

Bk212303
06 Aug 2013 08:06

Morning everyone howzit? What plans do u guys have for this long weekend.

Ntaksay
06 Aug 2013 08:40

I lolled when Khethiwe said GOD had inkunzi malanga yeplan for her. that was funny

Bk212303
06 Aug 2013 08:47

Did u hear when Phenyo said umfazi wakhe is stupid in front of Luntu.

Did u c Sbuda and Wandi, the way they carried on hee they are a so inlove those two.

Ntaksay
06 Aug 2013 08:52

Good Morning good people, how is everyone today???????

Bk I will be home watching movies and sleeping the whole weekend.

Goldi
06 Aug 2013 08:54

Morning lovies

Bk O.O when i was watching but didnt hear that? please share lapho cc, Ntaks i was also loling hey eish Khethi is a character shame, it was nice to see Wandi and S'buda again hey, so it means S'buda will be injail untill November O.O dammit

Bk212303
06 Aug 2013 09:44

@Goldi he said she does not notice a thing. Yhoo lucky you Ntaksay movies yho how i wish to relax and watch movies. Mna is going to a funeral but going thursday and coming back sunday. Buti in law past on so you can imagine im gonna be a makoti the whole weekend, tea, braekfast lunch me me me.

Ntaksay
06 Aug 2013 10:35

Shame sorry Bk but you have to be a makoti (serve your in-laws all day long) once in a while. It doesn't happen everyday but when it happens usebenzela nezinye intsuku. Gool luck tsala

Bk212303
06 Aug 2013 10:39

Yhoo Ntaksay its not that long i just made mqombothi they were here but anyway no choice in this case. My feet is already paining from standing.

Nongo
06 Aug 2013 11:08

morning family.

hey Ntaks i've seen what happened to you myself and thought myb i'll find it.
i was alone 1sat afternoon preparing 2go out, after putting on my jeans i took out my belt from the wardrobe and put it on the bed after doing this and that the tym 2put my belt was up, but no the belt was not there, i looked all over thinking i did not take it out but no it was gone, so this weekend i was moving out and the first thing i had in mind was the belt but no - gone- i have given up. how, where i dont have an answer and i dont bother myself with it whatever took it needed it more than i did.

Goldi
06 Aug 2013 11:39

This weekend it's hectic hey friday i'm going to a party, Saturday i'm going to cook @ my friends place her mom asked me to come and cook for her *i can cook shem* even if i have to say so myself and Sunday i'm going to chill @ my friends place yep thats my long weekend

tjoooo Phenyo

Mimibob
06 Aug 2013 11:57

@Goldi, enjoy. No one would ever ask me to come cook. Lol... I think my inlaws would send me back to my parents. I'm not domestic, despite my upbringing. I should join you BK to learn a thing or two. Ladies, do your inlaws expect you to be makoti in the traditional sense? Would it work if you brought a helper along? Can you declare your shortcomings before hand, without appearing rude or anything like?

Bk212303
06 Aug 2013 11:58

@Goldi nice grl, i wouldnt mind swapping cause i just love parties, plz dont bit mrhwa wat wat. So u can cook ccza mmhm suddenely i bacame hungry anyway enjoy it lala.

Bk212303
06 Aug 2013 12:06

hahahaahahahha @Mimi a helper i dont think so grlfnd. Cause i can imagine what would go thru their minds yhuu she so lazy and son this and son that. So cooking is a disaster for you, guess what me too cause my hubby if he is available he cooks for us and is good at it, except for making it half done cause his food has all the taste and stuff but it goes grwam grwa grwam and that pisses me off and he would defend himself and say i dont wanna cook all the nutrients and stuff out.

I wear my scarf always klk and ducky and dukie and i prefer not to sit with them im always in the kitchen doing something but mama if they gonna talk about something serious she summons me to sit infront and she would say cc you part of this family you need to know what is what so that when i m no longer then you take over. So i will sit until they finish but i prefer not to comment.

Bk212303
06 Aug 2013 12:08

But this thing ka Ntaksay and Nongo is crippy. hayi

JadaPinkett
06 Aug 2013 12:11

Mina my plan was to go home en spend tym wit da fimaly......... until labo doti esibasebenzelayo bethi we working this saturday.

So i gues friday i'm doing my washing clean up my flat then saturday ispani, after spani if sum1 is offering a free ticket to Moses mabhida then ngikhohlwe izinto eziningi bese ngizidlela utshwala ngidakwe after dat Florida roar (Cubana or Bouolevard) Sunday ngiye eSontweni then after church cook sunday meal obviously I wil hav to spend smallanyana tym wit makhwapheni wami :P sibuke amamovie..... then prepare for the next boring day eva (Monday)

NoMdazB
06 Aug 2013 12:36

Hello all. Mims, to answer your question, yes in-laws expect you to do all your makoti duties yourself. On Friday we have a family Do, where all the reatives will come together for some reason or other. Now, with me being a Xhosa makoti in the Transkei rural areas, that means serving and working and cooking and making tea etc. and you have to look the part( google Xhosa makoti attire). So do not ever bring a helper, they will never let you live it down. With someone like you who does not cook, you can peel veggies, serve tea, get water, taste food, dish out food, wash dishes etc. They generally don't care what you do as long as you seen doing some form of work.

Mimibob
06 Aug 2013 12:42

@BK, Lol... I should find myself a white hubby then. Maybe the family would be more forgiving, or wouldn't expect a lot. Why do you keep quiet during discussions? Is it expected of you? I should learn to bridle my tongue. I think I'd even ask mom in law to bring me a cup of coffee if she happened to go to the kitchen - ok, I'm not that bad, but I'd make myself home in their presence.

NoMdazB
06 Aug 2013 12:49

Yho ! Mims, I think Bk and I have the same sort of traditional inlaws. You discover very quickly that anything you say will be used against you at some later stage, so you learn to zip it. They tell you you are part of the family but you learn that it really isn't the case. Most of the time your opinion is seen a being sassy. So you keep quiet unless you are asked, even then you have to tailor your words very carefully.

Deemo
06 Aug 2013 12:55

@ntaks the past years we used to experience those strange thingz,our clothz missing ,even lingerie,we wld just pray abt it n my mum wld emphasise not to ask n one bt to ask god for the ansaz,each tym we prayed the missing clothz wll reappear again,this had stopped bt three months ago i dd thorough cleanin coz im missing my favuorite red top,ive bn praying hard abt it hope it will come bek from where ava it is thts a test of our faith so lets pray n pray indeed

Goldi
06 Aug 2013 12:56

Thanks BK will do lol @ Mims i also want a white dude hey i love cooking but not everyday hey so with Mr white bone will have di touch ups hahahahahah well BK wena with your in-laws haai yinisono nje you must teach hubby to do well done maan lol i guess nami they will send me home cos i dont do well with playing a makoti i dont think i will survive sorry askies JP ijob ijob sbale

portcia
06 Aug 2013 13:12

With me it is a bit different story, yes my inlaws expect me to help with either cooking or tea, what so ever, but when all is done, we wine and dine together, meaning sitting there with them with some alcohol having fun talking and dancing, they are like my real family and they dont exoect me to do everything, everyone has to take part, and i love them for that.

NoMdazB
06 Aug 2013 13:19

I honestly think that no-one has it harder than a Xhosa makoti, or am I wrong? Funny thing is, however, I enjoy such gatherings. I don't feel like a slave, just part of the family.

Mimibob
06 Aug 2013 13:26

@ Nomdakazane (I miss Vus), that would be very interesting. Lol... They would either get used to using what I say against me, or I just won't visit them - they'd really have to be terrible for me to decide this. @Goldi, I'm not really into white guys. I used to want a Zulu man, I've changed my mind - only Zulu speaking, but can be any tribe. @ Portcia, lucky you.

NoMdazB
06 Aug 2013 13:33

I think most families are okay enough, then there are those few members who enjoy making you miserable. Those you just have to avoid otherwise you will lose your temper in a not so pretty manner.

angel degal
06 Aug 2013 14:13

hahaha

Bk212303
06 Aug 2013 14:17

Hey Nomdaz

I think most families are okay enough, then there are those few members who enjoy making you miserable. Those you just have to avoid otherwise you will lose your temper in a not so pretty manner.

Like my other inlaws ......Tamnci's family whoooowh they make my... boil but i like the ones that actually made me makoti they are friendly and sometimes mama would fone and ask me how we doing and encourages me. Thats why i want to go on Thursday.

Bk212303
06 Aug 2013 14:19

@Nomdaz do you also were a dukie on yr head all the time. In laws or not i mean at home, to work etc???

Bk212303
06 Aug 2013 14:35

Hee nipi ngoku ???????

Mimibob
06 Aug 2013 14:42

I'm here BK. Bit busy.

Ntaksay
06 Aug 2013 14:46

I'm here Bk I was catching up on the comments about being a makoti.
I never experienced any hardships, I don't know how to make mqombothi so if there is something that requires umqombothi, we hire someone to do it. I do what I can. My hubby is a Zulu so in Zulu tradition when there is umcimbi they usually do jeqe (of which I can do and enjoy doing it) and meat, mqombothi. I also cook and bake. But I don't wake up early to serve tea, whoever wakes up early can do it, I do lunch though.

Ntaksay
06 Aug 2013 14:58

Love can change someone. Who would have thought that Selwyn can ever give up on a chance of getting rich.

Why did Phenyo take off the rings????? I was so angry when he said why is Dinny always so suspicious unless she is doing something she is not supposed to and thinks he also doing the same. I wanted to take him out of the tv and strangle him to death. I wonder what is dinny going to do when she sees the lipstick on his shirt.

Bk212303
06 Aug 2013 15:01

Mna there where im going i wake up maybe ko 7 or 7 30 but mama said u never wake up early my child but the problem is my hubby and his cousin brothers they dont sleep cause they sleep 1 in the morning and then wake up 5 so i get embarassed to sleep while i know some of my butis want tea so i wake up and wash myself and quickly in to my makoti uniform

Bk212303
06 Aug 2013 15:16

Klk Ntaksay there is something that says Dinny will move in wth RUBBY but 1st Phenyo is going to the hospital due to Dinny mabye she is going to moorr him for real this time

@2012
06 Aug 2013 15:17

helo gen family

help me here....by the way its 2 wiks now without watchin gen cz m far in the forest..bt now & then i manage to read your comments...i hear bridgette is the new foster mom to khetis son...is she not the one who once kidnaped her & khaps and delivered mpilo @ dumisanis house & wanted to take him as his own son for her & dumisane....if its her how do they make her the foster mom because the police were lookin for her after disappering after tha kidnapping incident

NoMdazB
06 Aug 2013 15:30

Hi Bk. I only wear a doek on my head when I go to the inlaws. When they come to where I work they know that I don't wear one so they accepted that.

NoMdazB
06 Aug 2013 15:36

@2012 that was Belinda, Bridgett's psycho sister. Bridgett was presumed dead and she was Dumisai's first wife. Yho Bk the uniform! The petticoat, the skirt over that, the apron, the scarf over all of that. Don't forget the long sleeved top and the scarf on your head. When I was pregnant I would forget some of them because there are just so many layers.

JadaPinkett
06 Aug 2013 15:42

@2012...i hear bridgette is the new foster mom to khetis son...is she not the one who once kidnaped her & khaps and delivered mpilo @ dumisanis house & wanted to take him as his own son for her & dumisane....if its her how do they make her the foster mom because the police were lookin for her after disappering after tha kidnapping incident......................not it's not her darling but it was her her sister Belinda.

Bk212303
06 Aug 2013 15:46

Yes dear frnd everything and i still wear the doekie when im at work how do u like that. I tried speaking to hubby about the doeki at work but he says i must were it when i go to work and take if off there and then again put on when i come back, how nice is that. I tell him hey what is it in this doeki and he says ppl will respect you and i said they respected me even when i still a grl. yhuu yadika mann

@2012
06 Aug 2013 15:50

@nomdazb & jadap...thanx for the clarity darlings...oh hw i mis gen

@2012
06 Aug 2013 15:50

@nomdazb & jadap...thanx for the clarity darlings...oh hw i mis gen

@2012
06 Aug 2013 15:51

@nomdazb & jadap...thanx for the clarity darlings...oh hw i mis gen

@2012
06 Aug 2013 15:51

@nomdazb & jadap...thanx for the clarity darlings...oh hw i mis gen

Ntaksay
06 Aug 2013 15:51

@2012 That is Bridget's sister Belinda the one who dated Dumisane then he date Bridget and married her

Ntaksay
06 Aug 2013 16:02

My pc is so slowly these days I didn't even notice that Nomd & JP had already answered 2012

Maqinase
06 Aug 2013 16:02

Hello Family..... a special hello to Goldi *waving*

I still love you all

I would love to go to R KELLY's show but I dont have a ticket, who wants to be a darling and get me one......

Oomakoti nihote kahle bethuna ningandiphoxi ( don't dissapoint me) unfortunately I never dated my home boy(Xhosa guy) since I arrived here in Jo'burg but I know exactly what you are talking about, so enjoy!!!

@2012
06 Aug 2013 16:04

my computer lov postin many post i dnt knw whts wrong with it. its needs serious check up

Bk212303
06 Aug 2013 16:05

People tell me about life in Jhb.

@2012
06 Aug 2013 16:06

maybe thn she knows something...she can be the 1 who expose the secret that mpilo is dumisanis son....khethi khethi will break 4 real

Bk212303
06 Aug 2013 16:11

Akhona confesses all, unaware she’s being recorded.

shame maybe she will be high here...

I hear Kheti is gonna dust with MJ..

Goldi
06 Aug 2013 16:17

ohhh Maqinase darling how i miss you

today was not a good day for me eish i'm PMSing that's what i can think of cos haai maan this is not healthy bathong
*bloody moods swings ntlxxx*

MimiK i love Zulu guyz hey but not the kwa-zulu natal one no no no *Shaking my head* most of my bf's was ZULUs lay off that keypad @2012 *running away*

Laters guys xxxxxxx

Mimibob
06 Aug 2013 21:33

@BK, ...i still wear the doekie when im at work how do u like that. I tried speaking to hubby about the doeki at work but he says i must were it when i go to work and take if off there and then again put on when i come back,
Hehee... Your hubby is special. My collegues would think I've lost it if I pulled this one. I dont like doekies. I don't even wear them to funerals. Fortunately my parents dont have a problem with it. Because I'm generally nice and respectful, my relatives dont think I do it out of makgakga, they've just accepted me like that. Unless they talk behind my back.
I always find I'm usually the only one without a head gear in most funerals. I havent received beef for it yet. If anyone tried, I'd speak English and pretend to be a foreigner and feign ignorance.. How I wish I could act..

But I'm gonna definitely put on a doekie for my traditional wedding and do all they require of me... I get excited thinking of this..

(My English teacher taught me that "and" & "but" are joining words and should not be used beginning of a sentence,but I use them all the time. She must have missed something. I clearly didnt learn)

Mimibob
06 Aug 2013 21:57

Oh, I'm not getting married anytime soon, incase you start getting excited.
...
Do you guys ever write down your thoughts or emotions? I write down my thoughts, a lot. When I get mad at someone, I write down what I want to say to them and dont send. I relook it when calmer (I dont stay mad for long) and either send after editing or just delete.

I write down my feelings when happy, upset, or there is something I want to talk about.

I dont keep a diary or anything like. Just in my phone.. If I were to lose it, someone would just feast on my inner thoughts.

nthabisheng
07 Aug 2013 00:10

Tjo I'm number 111111

Ntaksay
07 Aug 2013 08:16

Good morning my dearest family

'My thoughts exactly @2012 Bridget might be the one to find out that Mpilo is Dumisani's child. He knows Dumi very well, he'll notice something that resembles him and start questioning.

Queen is going to have a heart attack, I'm telling you. What kind of party was Princie going to, wearing like that.

NoMdazB
07 Aug 2013 08:34

Morning everybody. I so wish Mawande wasn't leaving. At least Akhona is nicer to her mom now. Bk, I have noticed that married Xhosan women in Cape town, PE and the like all wear scarves on their heads, whereas most of us in the former Transkei only do it when visiting in-laws. Why is that? I even wear pants to work and for trips etc, and my husband doesn't mind. Of course never when visiting mamazala etc. Today we'll be buying groceries for the function so I'll wear my work clothes and carry two scarves (for the head and the waist) for when I'm meeting them.

@2012
07 Aug 2013 08:45

i mis gen dearly...i can hear its hot...i hope we finish the trip work so i can go home & enjoy it. can a darling tel me wht happend yesterday please........

Mimibob
07 Aug 2013 09:26

Gens sounds interesting. I've decided to spend the "free" soapie time productively - invest in myself somehow.

market
07 Aug 2013 09:32

morning good family.
Phenyo is a dead man now dat Dineo find out he cheating with Luntu.

vuxy
07 Aug 2013 10:06

@2012
07 Aug 2013 10:21

@market.....Phenyo is a dead man now dat Dineo find out he cheating with Luntu.
she shud let him go this time.....once a cheater alwys a cheater...unles she want 2 leave with a serial cheater...& he knows that dinny & luntu do nt like each other

@2012
07 Aug 2013 10:27

@nomd....At least Akhona is nicer to her mom now.
is she not because mawande is there....just 4 temporary measures so she can look nice in front of mawande...the way she way treated her..i cnt beliv it

Ntaksay
07 Aug 2013 11:48

@nomd....At least Akhona is nicer to her mom now.

@2012is she not because mawande is there....just 4 temporary measures so she can look nice in front of mawande...the way she way treated her..i cnt beliv it
I think it's because of the way she helped Wandi she proved to her that she is not after memela family's money. Akhona trusts Scott if only she knew what he's got in store for her.

Ntaksay
07 Aug 2013 12:06

What a busy day at work and a quite day in this house

Bk212303
07 Aug 2013 12:23

Morning all, Noluntu is so guilty. Phenyo siyo yo yo

Pastry
07 Aug 2013 12:48

"I am afriad of what i might do if he cheats on me again" Dineo said to mam Rubs

She slapped him before
She made him bleed before
She has a gun...and is pregnant
Now she knows he sleeps with her worst enemy

vuxy
07 Aug 2013 13:00

@Mufundi and team. congraaaaaa. this months generation rockssssss. keeep it up. jealosy down!!!!!!!

portcia
07 Aug 2013 13:13

Hello everyone, Ntaksay on your boring day, would you please let me in on Gen, i didnt watch from Monday, my tv is still not back, last week i've watched from my friends tv, but cant keep going there everyday, so please update me

portcia
07 Aug 2013 15:26

Yeppie.... Electric Express called to tell me that my tv is been fixed, so i can come pick it up, so i will be able to go there on Friday, no more boring house it will be me and my big screen.

vuxy
07 Aug 2013 15:28

Bk212303
07 Aug 2013 16:13

Yhuu its really quiet in the house today. Hope tomorrow is gonna be different.

Byeeee

nthabisheng
07 Aug 2013 17:26

Who says generations is not real huh. Phenyo---->zwelinzima vavi ,thabitha--------> zwelinzima vavis 1st wife ,dineo------> zwelinzima vavi's current wife noluntu-------> zwelinzima vavi's side chick jacqualine phooko

Goldi
07 Aug 2013 18:14

Tjooo the house was quiet today maan eish!! Can't wait for Gen 2 9t hahaha Queen kills me hey and le Prince le ena yhooo Noluntu's guilty and scaed well I think she should be her days are numbered, I feel sorry for Akhona hey

Kutsaka
08 Aug 2013 03:02

i like Akhona but i realy hope Scott finds sumthing that wil discredit her as a witnes so my Sbusiso can cum out of jail and make Phenyo pay

Kandyfloss
08 Aug 2013 03:22

Hi kutsa.. insomia got best of me. What are you up to this time?

Kandyfloss
08 Aug 2013 04:03

"Insomnia"

portcia
08 Aug 2013 07:31

Morning my lovies

@2012
08 Aug 2013 07:48

queen was going to have heart attack if prince was seeing a boy......tjo! the way she was happy it was a girl

Bk212303
08 Aug 2013 07:54

Morning, i hear there was a lot of mpamas at Ezweni and also siyo yo yo got one too. Didnt wath though. Plz the house must be burning today, to salute all the women who fought for us "wathinti mbokotho wathinta bafazi"

Dhee31
08 Aug 2013 08:09

Morning everyone, yes Bk there was actually a lot hey Dini & Luntu

Dhee31
08 Aug 2013 08:13

Why bekwenza kubelula kangaka kwitv ukuqhumisa impama?

Goldi
08 Aug 2013 08:35

Morning Family

yhoooo Bk impama bezindiza emoyeni Dinny and Noluntu not MANWHORE

i would never give my daughter the advice Ruby's giving to poor Dinny haai no staying with a MANWHORE/SERIAL CHEATER no ways for the what for the SAKE OF STAYING MARRIED o.o

@2012
08 Aug 2013 08:55

gone gole busy...manwhore could not even explain himself...lies were finished...he was caught there was nothing more he could do...."does even the family have to know" ao manwhore..u killed me there....already the staff know even without having to spell it out to them..dinny fighti n with luntu... luntu could not even have a single word coming out of her mouth..she froze when dinny was telling them that she knows.she loves dlomo men but pretend she does not.

Ntaksay
08 Aug 2013 09:34

Goeie more, hoe gaan dit?

Noluntu really needs professional help, I agree with Wandi. She is a psycho.
Khethiwe is going to ruin Bella & MJ's relationship. Two days in a row Mj drops Izzy to help her, iets fishy gaan gebeur.

geniet jou dag

@2012
08 Aug 2013 09:44

@ntaks....indid he could have invited bella 2 come along with them atleast.

@2012
08 Aug 2013 10:02

where is every1?

Bk212303
08 Aug 2013 10:18

Why bekwenza kubelula kangaka kwitv ukuqhumisa impama?

It is easy in reality tooo cc.

Goeie more Ntaksay ons is goed en jy?

Klk Kheti dust with Mj

Hey but Wandi is something else did you hear when she said that it was a cry out that made luntu drug her. She got a heart shame.

Ppl what is Phenyo good @ beside cheating and betraying family members.

Goldi
08 Aug 2013 10:21

Eish!! Ntaks i was gatvol hey Khethiwe's irritating me now ntlxxxxxx

I'm here @2012

Bk212303
08 Aug 2013 10:31

Also here@2012

@2012
08 Aug 2013 10:50

@BK.......i do not see anything good about phenyo. i cant even remember the last good thing he did if he ever did.

@goldi...bk.. .today i have all the day to chat..maybe a hot topic or somthing will do

@2012
08 Aug 2013 10:57

@BK....mayb after khethi khethi dust with MJ she will stop drinking...its a long time since she did the dust..i will love to see their faces after doing the dance...will they continue to dust each other or will regret doing it. i dout so...MJ has not dusted after dusting her then crazy galfriend pauline or whatever her name was(the scary gal). khethi khethi will teach him how to do the dance properly this time because the scary galfriend said he does not know how to make love....kwaa kwaaa

Nunumsi
08 Aug 2013 11:21

Just happy dat Dinny finally confronted Noluntu & Phenyo, when I saw her taking off earrings & realised dat she has plans 4 da slut Luntu.

NoMdazB
08 Aug 2013 11:23

Molweni. How is everyone?I hope Mawande will sort out Noluntu before Nambitha leaves Gen. I aso would have slapped her if I were Dineo. As if she worked to get where she is, when we all know it's because of mommy's money.

MsKim
08 Aug 2013 11:26

MamRuby is desperate for her daughter to stay a Dlomo.. hw can you try to understand someone who cheats??? tryna justify his actions.. mnximm I would feel for Dinny but she knew wat she was getting into with Phenyo from the beginning. i hate pple who cheat...Why cheat when you know you are not forced to be with someone. JUST LEAVE dummit!! i don't knw why pple marry whilst they know they do not intend to keep their promises..

MsKim
08 Aug 2013 11:28

oh sorry... goeie more, how are you all ??

MsKim
08 Aug 2013 11:32

i am really not looking forward to seeing Khethi after dusting with MJ. i think thats part of the things that will make Mawande leave...

i think Noluntu will try to frame Ngamla some hw for Mawande's craziness..

Bk212303
08 Aug 2013 11:42

I hear Noluntu is going to a mental institution Wandi will make sure cause she is danger.....kwaaaaaaak

Goldi
08 Aug 2013 11:48

Dinny will be in an institute with the rate that Ruby's advising her, shes the one who's sitting on that HOT CHAIR it burns her but not her moms mxxxxxm Dlomo's not her surname she's a smart lady she can afford herself and her lifestyle it's not like she's depending on her MANWHORE for some sort of support except for him being the husband he should be

i don't knw why pple marry whilst they know they do not intend to keep their promises..true why make some1 else suffer for your stupidity.......

whoooo MJ and KHETHIWE bathong i cant miss that episode tlheng i just wana see the look on their faces heheheheheheheh

Ntaksay
08 Aug 2013 11:49

Nicky boy is so jealous of his uncle hanging around Akhona all the time.

Ntaksay
08 Aug 2013 11:52

whoooo MJ and KHETHIWE bathong i cant miss that episode tlheng i just wana see the look on their faces heheheheheheheh

I so wish things don't go that far. Isabel is a good girl they look good together and now granny Khethiwe is going to spoil all that, mxm

@2012
08 Aug 2013 12:17