Generations Teasers - September 2013 | Generations Teasers

Royal Child
26 Aug 2013 00:46

1st yeah

Royal Child
26 Aug 2013 00:46

nothing on Sibusiso?..

Tha2
26 Aug 2013 01:07

2nd well that's a first

Mokema
26 Aug 2013 02:22

Gen mara

sammdo
26 Aug 2013 03:32

Number 5

Kandyfloss
26 Aug 2013 04:36

Yipeee. Top 6 after a looong time

Gladie
26 Aug 2013 04:41

No 6, isnt ngamla coming out????

Gladie
26 Aug 2013 04:45

Oo its 7

bad black
26 Aug 2013 05:24

8 ngamla still not out #mxm

Riyat
26 Aug 2013 07:13

Top 10 not bad ne'eh

destroyer
26 Aug 2013 07:48

where is sello mvuyane?

Lishianah
26 Aug 2013 08:02

Mmmnnnn cant wait,atlst its not borin

Lishianah
26 Aug 2013 08:02

Mmmhhhhh cant wait,atlst its not borin

cerebos
26 Aug 2013 08:07

12

cerebos
26 Aug 2013 08:07

12

Bk212303
26 Aug 2013 08:11

hey

Goldi
26 Aug 2013 08:31

# 2 not bad i see you made # 1 BK,

Dont have to read up cos i already did that last week hihihihihi, Hey Kandy *waving*

dennnel
26 Aug 2013 08:35

Hot as usual! Morehotter this month!

@2012
26 Aug 2013 08:38

#3 @ goldi

WWW
26 Aug 2013 08:42

sure...morning all..

Friend
26 Aug 2013 08:52

ohk, morning all.

MakaMila Thats Me:
26 Aug 2013 09:01

Good morning All :)

WOW!!! Top 20, i am improving :) nice weather in cpt

Have a productive Week my Bloggers mcaaa luv u all....

Bk212303
26 Aug 2013 09:09

I need October already come on pps give it to me this month is not doing it for me.

Lady SMS
26 Aug 2013 09:10

Wow top 30 for the first time

Nunumsi
26 Aug 2013 09:13

Generations sucks Mawande leaving without telling us who MJ's father is, now we have to wait for about 2to3months to found out who's the father.

sexy d
26 Aug 2013 09:14

@Goldi hahahahaha so true guess we r the number ones since we read the teasers last week

mxm no sbuda vele aggg

gkma
26 Aug 2013 09:21

Hey

tandoz
26 Aug 2013 09:24

Mawande left generations for good manyani?guess i will not watch,we all know that generations without Sbuda en Mawande is boring.what is it with the aurthor of this soapie? one minute bazisa uMawande xa sivuyela uba ebuyile bayamhambisa mxmnxnmxmnxmnxnm

duckie
26 Aug 2013 09:28

ws hopin to be on top5 thiis tym arnd bt here i am top 50 again

@2012
26 Aug 2013 09:29

@nunumsi..................Generations sucks Mawande leaving without telling us who MJ's father is, now we have to wait for about 2to3months to found out who's the father.

so we are going 2 find out the real father of mj even tho mawande will not be in generations after 2/3 months??? who will tell us because it seems like she is the only 1 who knew??? or thge daddy will just come from nowhere & look 4 his son??? come on nunumsi just us a hint course it seems u know somthing

hulisaninemabaka
26 Aug 2013 09:39

no 31

portcia
26 Aug 2013 10:00

Yoh top 30, ag not so bad, Ja ne when are we going to know who Mj's father is? maybe Mawandwe's father will tell Mj, or his father is about to join Gen.

Goldi
26 Aug 2013 10:01

Wandi's parents knew about MJ so it can be them who tells us @2012

Kunjalo Sexy

lol BK kodwa hahahahhahahah

@2012
26 Aug 2013 10:07

goldi..........yes wandi's parents knew about mj not being caleb's son BUT they do not know the real father...........wandi's father even asked wandi who is the real father of mj last week & wandi did not answer him

Goldi
26 Aug 2013 10:43

Ohh sorry didnt hear that ohhh well

BarbieTee
26 Aug 2013 11:02

I thnk Sbuda myt b Mj's father c0z wandi and sbu use 2 date years ag0..

hop
26 Aug 2013 11:02

wher z Sibusiso???

Baby2003
26 Aug 2013 11:09

no Sbu,

Deemo
26 Aug 2013 11:16

kinda boring

Bk212303
26 Aug 2013 11:16

Mybe Mj will have an accident that would make him need blood and that would make ppl to start checking if they match.........kwaaak hayi i dont know pps but the departure of Wandi was so lame shame cause we saw her talking to Mj and that was it suka OOOOOOOOCTOBER COME

Ntsikie Lee
26 Aug 2013 12:28

Dineos obssession of having a baby is starting to annoying me. . . Why cnt she just let Phenyo go because he's already left him

laleli
26 Aug 2013 12:58

No sbuda and mawande too boring , generation should start approaching agencies for at least powerful actor

sfundorh
26 Aug 2013 13:12

wow cant wait for sep but No sbu

Goldi
26 Aug 2013 13:17

lol Bk uyang'bulala hahahahahahahaha dont forget that anything is possible in the soapy land hey

Kandyfloss
26 Aug 2013 13:40

Hi Goldi.... Anything for discussion even if its not dusting- related. Am so bored..

vuxy
26 Aug 2013 13:40

where is sibusiso? boring this month

vuxy
26 Aug 2013 13:40

where is sibusiso? boring this month

Bk212303
26 Aug 2013 13:51

Seriously Goldi. We need to have topics guys to keep busy cause there is definately nothing on Gen to comment about.

So we need to draw up a list of topics

@2012
26 Aug 2013 14:02

draw the list BK...i cnt even think of 1 that will b interesting

RainPrincess
26 Aug 2013 14:05

Maybe I will start watching again. So Dinny still has her gun...hmmm I thought Phenyo told her to get rid of it.

Pastry
26 Aug 2013 14:57

@2012...Mawande the character is owned by Gen so they can simply have a letter sent to MJ from his mom or a call conversation with mom. We can never know...but one way or the other MJ's father will be revealed at some point with or without Mawande the person

Maqinase
26 Aug 2013 15:07

Hi Guys*waving*

I was very busy today.....am taking a break now *whew*

BTG....kanti cant they replace kwi Generations instead of firing people?? I mean reall if they've got a beef with Nambitha personally cant they continue and replace her character with sumbody else so that the show can go on......

Heee guys how do you feel about after9 playing before9, mina I think it's not AYOBA @ all *just saying*

Pastry
26 Aug 2013 15:35

Lol @Maqinase, jah they must leave Gen to air for an hour on Tue if they have nothing for 20:30 slot, then After9 hey!

Advices ladies pls:
What do you think of a partner moving in and out with you. It happened 3 times already, he moves in stays a few months then out for months back in agn then out bla bla bla. Last time he moved back in he stayed for 3week then left. No reason, no explanation, no clarity. I find this very unstable, disrespectful and an insult to my intelligence!

JadaPinkett
26 Aug 2013 16:03

Where is Sbudaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

Goldi
26 Aug 2013 16:18

What???? its like walking in n out of my life as he pleases THAT'S AN INSULT SHEM i will never aloud that to happen no ways Pastry you need to put your foot down kante ke eng story sa gae no no no no its UNACCEPTABLE *that's me anyway* either you SHAPE UP OR SHOVE OFF

BK i need to see that list tomorrow ne!! i'm leaving now will meet later @ Ezweni 8 sharp it's a date

Heee guys how do you feel about after9 playing before9, mina I think it's not AYOBA @ all not cool at all soka maan 9:30 or 10 o"clock

elaton
26 Aug 2013 17:26

hmph !! interesting.

zish_mamtolo
26 Aug 2013 17:44

No comment

Mimibob
26 Aug 2013 18:00

@ Pastry, I hope my response will not be clouded by the kind of relationship I allowed myself into. I will just take your word and believe your boyfriend just leaves for no reason, with no explanation. A man will only go as far as you allow. He will pile as much trash on you as you let him. I know we sometimes tolerate nonsense out of love, fear of solitude, or whatever other reason. I'm glad you realize that it's unstable, disrespectful and an insult to your intelligence. Is it something you wish to continue in? From your response, you will know what to do. Give him an ultimatum if u need to. If he doesn't budge, you deserve better. You alone can decide to go for the best, make the best out of what you have, or plainly refuse to tolerate and accept mediocrity. Or do otherwise.

tee.k
26 Aug 2013 18:28

Guess was late

tcee
26 Aug 2013 19:04

boring this month

Cest la Vie
26 Aug 2013 19:56

I was hoping Patrick would never come back, but okay .

bongani bongs
27 Aug 2013 00:06

stl boring like alwys,

NoMdazB
27 Aug 2013 07:25

Good morning family. I think Dineo should just have it out with her dad, give him a piece of her mind, throw water at him and be done with it. Her anger I getting out of control...

@2012
27 Aug 2013 08:11

thank you so much wandi 4 not leaving noluntu anything..........she deserves that. noluntu uses people and throw them away like used something. the way she had get away with so many evil ways worse of all drugging you......thank you so much so noluntu can go & be a cleaner somewhere

Bk212303
27 Aug 2013 08:13

Morning, guys guys the list will come from each and evryone of you not from me only.

Goldi
27 Aug 2013 08:17

Morning Family

i agree with you Nomd she's so bitter it's scary and taking it out on ppl who care so ya she need to get help fast

well i kinda felt sorry for Noluntu when she begged Wandi and telling her how sorry she is but hey she deserved what's coming to her BIG UP WANDI, mmmm i wonder what is that letter saying i bet he's telling S'buda to take care of MJ for her

Bk212303
27 Aug 2013 08:19

Mna at the moment im still touched by Wandis departure, yhuuuu .....crying....... but Noluntu i enjoyed when she was bagging and kneeling down and thats when i said lesson learnt on my side if you did not learn from the lesson then i dont know guys.......the lesson is BARE THE CONSEQUENCES OF YR ACTIONS.............ALSO ALWAYS THINK BEFORE ACTING...........ALWAYS LOOK BACK AND NEVER FORGET WHERE YOU COME.....IN this case she forgot that all the life she has comes from Wandi she is rich thanx to Wandi.....that woman loved her so much and that is why she covered her back when she is in trouble but noooo Luntu still drugged her after all that.

But i liked what Wandi father said when Luntu was like Tamkulu talk to her and he said.........

portcia
27 Aug 2013 08:23

Good morning everyone, yoh Noluntu got her fair share there, eish she will learn never to take other people for granted, so we must wait to find out who's Mj's father. Dineo's lies are going to blow up in her face, she really needs some help.

Bk212303
27 Aug 2013 08:26

Im that letter is revealing the truth about Jason maybe or Mj

VusiK
27 Aug 2013 08:28

@Mims ...
Pray Tell

What kind of relationship have you allowed yourself?

Sifuna Ukwazi (We desire to know)

@2012
27 Aug 2013 08:36

or maybe how much she loves s'buda...............*they truly loved each other sheem*

Bk212303
27 Aug 2013 08:40

Does'nt Dineo see that her hubby is acting differently after the accident, cause he is cold the responce towards her

yoyozz
27 Aug 2013 08:47

GIVE MAWANDE A BELLS

september already out yhoo anyway we know about sept we want october

@2012
27 Aug 2013 09:15

i still suspect phenyo does remember what happened....its just that he want dineo to confess about what happened...the way he looked @ dineo when the doctor xulu asked him if he remember anything tells he knows what happend. & also the way he keeps asking dineo what happened tells me he knows what happened its just that he want a confession from her. there will come a time when she will tell dineo what realy happened & when dinny will be shocked he will say i just wanted you to confess but you did not.& dinny will be divasted that phenyo have been knowing what happened but kept quet about it

Goldi
27 Aug 2013 09:16

Mawande's gone i'll take that bells thanks Yoyo *giggling*

BARE THE CONSEQUENCES OF YR ACTIONS.............ALSO ALWAYS THINK BEFORE ACTING...........ALWAYS LOOK BACK AND NEVER FORGET WHERE YOU COME AMEN KULEYONDAWO

sufffo
27 Aug 2013 09:18

boring

NoMdazB
27 Aug 2013 09:29

I'm glad Wandi did what she did with her money. Kids like Noluntu forget that it's their parent's hard work that got them where they are. I think she wasn't satisfied with being her mom's worker, she wanted to rule her, kanjani nje?

Bk212303
27 Aug 2013 09:34

"I don't know what went wrong when I was giving birth to you..."

Bk212303
27 Aug 2013 09:35

guys scott will blackmail dineo for the shares of ezweni cos she didnt tell phenyo and he saw her pushing him

Bk212303
27 Aug 2013 09:37

Please mommy dnt cut m of,,,m ur only daugther in dis family,,,i dnt hav job,mny even car,,,m i not punished enough plz mommy 4gv mi 4evrythng,,,baby i dnt know wat went wrong wen i waz gvng u brth,,,hahaha tatomkhulu teta ,,,tjoh hay kunzima mzukulu,,,Noluntu u derserv dis ... kwaaaaaaaaaaak

Bk212303
27 Aug 2013 09:38

Consequences of "awufuni ndikwenzele itea mama

NoMdazB
27 Aug 2013 09:54

Yho ! Bk, I will never look at tea the same way again. Our poor Gogos are probably too scared to ever ask their grand kids. Hopefully it will lessen tea duty for oomakoti as well..

@2012
27 Aug 2013 09:57

little dinny will not give up on her shares....they are her future...........she will rather tell phenyo the truth if scott can blackmail her.....remember she refused to sell to s'duda so many times even when things were tough for her when she was trying to win s'buda over so she can be accepted in the dlomo family. if scott will tell her he is going to the papers she is a tough lady she has stand tough newspaper gossips/news or whatever...& she will shift the news saying she was arguing with phenyo how she could put s'buda in prison & the news will shift from her to phenyo

Mimibob
27 Aug 2013 09:59

I see people are enjoying Gens... Mmm... Lovely. Good morning.

yoyozz
27 Aug 2013 09:59

lol goldi
BK tamkhulu uzothetha njani efumene yena kwaaaa

@2012
27 Aug 2013 10:00

so where is the tea lady going to work????????????? a maid??

Mimibob
27 Aug 2013 10:16

@ Vus, "What kind of relationship have you allowed yourself?" I've said before that the dude doesn't deserve me and I maintain that, not discounting any of the beautiful things I've said about him. I have allowed myself to live with things I wouldn't ordinarily tolerate. I know it's only a matter of time before I awaken to self and do what I must. It probably works for me because its a long distance relationship and I care for him. I've always been accused of being scared of commitment, despite fact that its what I want. Maybe my subconscious doesn't feel pressure to commit, so I'm comfortable. Net net, I choose to be with him because that's what I want.

Pastry
27 Aug 2013 10:20

Morning everyone

@Goldi and Mims...ke a leboga ladies. My biggest weakness has always been keeping silent evn when i was supposed to talk and i knew exactly what i wanna say and putting others needs before mine...i know i compromised a lot in the name of caring and not love (lol)

I appreciate your comments. Am certain of my next step...took me time bt at least am ready

Didnt watch TV yesterday....so cnt comment on anything!

vuxy
27 Aug 2013 10:50

patrick is mj's father that is why he is coming back

VusiK
27 Aug 2013 11:02

@Mims ...
OK
Sounds similar to my relationship.
(Which I am also quite comfortable with)

Mimibob
27 Aug 2013 12:07

Lol @ Vus, You feel your lady doesn't deserve you also? And you are tolerant to stuff you ordinarily wouldn't?

Goldi
27 Aug 2013 12:14

it's my pleasure Pastry just do you girl and put your happiness 1st *mhwaaaaa*

Ok MimiK and Vusi sizwile ngomjolo wenu haaibooooo we know that niyajolana so please yhoooo lol *running away*

Mimibob
27 Aug 2013 12:23

Heheheee Goldi... Good you ran away..

NwaRISIMATI
27 Aug 2013 12:34

Does Dineo really loves? The way she abuses him and she want a baby. I think he remembers what happened.

VusiK
27 Aug 2013 13:26

@Mims ...
I never said my Lady does not deserve me... or anything of the like.
Frankly, I am uncertain about what is deserving, and what is not.
She certainly does not violate my sensibilities, so I am content with the relationship's structure.
I said the situations are similar.

@Goldi ...
Are you certain about your statement?
FYI ... By most people's definition of what consituts a relationship,
Anyone can make the assumption that I am NOT in a relationship with anyone....
However ...
Undeniably ...
Mims is one of my favoured, and favourite people

Goldi
27 Aug 2013 13:55

ok ok ok ok ok ge what ever sizilwe ke, are you also in a long distant relationship Vusi?

MimiK catch me if u can hahahahahahaaha

bubbytee
27 Aug 2013 13:56

It was really sad for mawande to leave like that. While her family was not in good terms.I wish mawande nd her kids would have made peace before she left. Mj and khetiwe let's hope khetiwe will not her for his moola dat mwande left for him. Luntu nd phenyo again ai

Mimibob
27 Aug 2013 14:04

Awww... Sweet Vus. You are also one of my favoured and favourite people. @ Goldi "ok ok ok ok ok ge what ever sizilwe ke, are you also in a long distant relationship Vusi?" I really laughed out loud at this. I knew you were crazy, but this! "MimiK catch me if u can hahahahahahaaha"... Fortunately I don't run Goldi. I'm quite the lady. So relax and get back.

Bk212303
27 Aug 2013 14:10

So Mims and Uncle are a couple............plzzzzz dont shoot me im just asking malume ......Goldi can i run with u plllllzzzzzzzz

Mimibob
27 Aug 2013 14:15

@ BK, Lol... You guys are crazy.

Bk212303
27 Aug 2013 14:21

Kwaaaaaaaaaaaak@Mims

portcia
27 Aug 2013 14:46

@2012, Phenyo does remember what happened, he even got the flash back, that shows he remember. Mimi and uncle VisiK are just having fun, nothing serious there, akere Mimi?

Goldi
27 Aug 2013 14:51

Yeah ryt who said i was running this time Mims? BK your are more done welcome love let's goooooooooooooooooooooooooo

thanks for the vote of confidence Mims i know i'm crazy shem

sqephu
27 Aug 2013 14:54

Mimibob
27 Aug 2013 15:00

I meant all i said Posh, I believe VusiK as well. The crazy duo are the ones putting two and two together and getting some number.. but we wouldn't wanna spoil the fun now Posh, would we?

Pastry
27 Aug 2013 15:05

Yhoo Mims...phela even a blind man can see an array of sparks that fly between wena and Vusi ao! Needless to say...even a deaf man can hear the butterflies that blossoms when you too speak of/to each other.

Pastry
27 Aug 2013 15:10

Silently waiting for Malume Vusi to respond if he is in a long distance relationship!

Mimibob
27 Aug 2013 15:29

@ Pastry, It means we have good chemistry. :)

Goldi
27 Aug 2013 15:34

I meant all i said Posh, I believe VusiK as well. The crazy duo are the ones putting two and two together and getting some number.. but we wouldn't wanna spoil the fun now Posh, would we? No we wouldn't lala

@ Pastry, It means we have good chemistry. :) so what's the harm in there? *raising eyebrows*

Mimibob
27 Aug 2013 15:41

@ Goldi, "... so what's the harm in there? *raising eyebrows*" I don't understand dear. Why would there be harm? I was just agreeing with Pastry.

Ntaksay
27 Aug 2013 15:44

Hello everyone.

So many comments, how on earth am I suppose to catch up??????????

Mimibob
27 Aug 2013 15:47

Back to Gen, from Portcia's comment, how did Phenyo lose his memory?

Goldi
27 Aug 2013 16:06

MimiK darling was also agreeing lenna :)

haai Phenyo didnt have flash backks wena Posh you must just take back that TV of your's to be fixed cos o bona nthotse seyong hahahahahah

Well Dinny and Phenyo were arguing @ the gym Phenyo left the gym Dinny followed him started again on the stairs going down then Dinny pushed the beloved hubby and he fell and hit hes head that's how lala

@BK i also think that Scott's going to blackmail our ABUSIVE DINNY for her shares

Hey Ntaks not much man you can it's so unfortunate cos we leaving now so enjoy catching up

laters xxx

Bk212303
27 Aug 2013 16:07

@Mimi Penyo did not loose memory he knows what happened. Dineo got worked up about something and pushed him and he fell and hit his head .

Pastry
27 Aug 2013 16:24

My friend said to me this morning:

"No one leaves a good woman and stays away for good"
"What you allow is what will continue"
"Be bold be brave do the right thing"

Am heading home with a BIG smile on my face today.

@Mims...u like him a lot hey, chemistry!

Bye everyone!

Mimibob
27 Aug 2013 16:38

@ Goldi and BK, thanks for the update. @ Pastry, yes dear, I do.

VusiK
27 Aug 2013 17:47

Yah ...
The lot of you are a seriously speculative bunch !

I do not know what a long distance relationship is.
For me ...
Either..
a person is in a relationship,
Or
a person is Not!...
...
I am in a relationship with someone
Whether she is across the street, the next room, across town, the next province, country or continent matters not.
I base my commitment on the various covenants that by my choice, ... allow me to favour remaining in that relationship.

therefore, the answer is
I am engaged in a relationship with someone.

Keratile
27 Aug 2013 18:16

Hola my lovely family. It's been a while. How have you been? I trust superb. Just popped in to check on you.

VusiK
27 Aug 2013 18:24

Hello Ausi Keratile.

I am well thank you!

Just playing music I associate with my father and son.

I trust you are well as well

lesson prannos
27 Aug 2013 18:48

i can't wait for NOVEMBER

VusiK
27 Aug 2013 19:21

Which songs make you think of your lover?
I just played several songs that threw me in a seriously romantic mood
(after playing my father & son songs)
...
Either songs that make you think of your lover person,
or you wish your favourite person thinks of you if the heard them
or Songs that if your lover person could write a song for/ about you ...
would be THOSE SONGS!!!
Yep ...
I am thinking fondly of & probably missing the lady I am in a relationship with.

Keratile
27 Aug 2013 20:10

Dumela hle malome Vusi. Ive been good - just busy. I've just read through the August teasers and noticed you celebrated your birthday last week Tuesday. Happy belated birthday wishes to you and hope you hsd a ball.

Keratile
27 Aug 2013 20:11

Hope you had a ball - that's what I meant to say

Keratile
27 Aug 2013 20:19

Phil Collins's something happened on the way to heaven reminds me of my late nephew (he passed away back in 1996). Puff Johnson' please help me I'm falling love with you - reminds me of my first true love (50/50 love like T.P.) and Love doesn't ask why (celine) There's quite a list of them that still gives me butterflies.

Keratile
27 Aug 2013 20:24

50/50 Love like T.P. sang. Another song is: The colour of my love

VusiK
27 Aug 2013 20:54

I had a gracious birthday with my mother and two friends thank you Ausi!

I have not really been one for birthdays ...
growing up, August is smack in the middle of the year,
it was very easy for everyone to forget because they were busy
(and I was away at boarding school during August)
(Normally my family remembered my birthday approx. two or three weeks past the day, lol)
... so ...
My mind conditioned itself not to have anyexpectations,
and that it is just another day,
that happens to make me older than i feel.

Mimibob
27 Aug 2013 22:22

@ Vus, well, you know my songs. Hello Ausi Keratile.

VusiK
27 Aug 2013 22:37

Nice songs Ausi Keratile

Play me any Curtis Mayfield, Ray Charles, Otis Redding, Jill Scott, Angie Stone, Michael Franks, Katie Meluah, Norah Jones, Teddy Pendergrass, Al Jerrau, Andrea Bocelli, Babyface, Barry White, Ella Fitzgerald, Simply Red, Earth Wind & Fire, David Foster, Patti LaBelle, Alicia Keys, plus every other artist who writes music from the soul ... and my eyes glaze over!... You know... Artists who are in music because they have no other choice except the creation of something awesome from something they feel deep inside.
Not interested in music I cannot listen to in however many years as it may take for me to revisit the sounds they created...

Katie Meluah has a song "Piece by Piece" that says it all for me ...

She also has a song "Spider's web" that has a line that says ..

"The piano keys are black and white, but they sound like a million colours in your mind."

That is the kind of music that stirs me to my core.I can only sit drop-jawed at the creative genius that goes into such constructs.

cavy
28 Aug 2013 02:52

Keratile
28 Aug 2013 03:13

@ Ausi Mims: dumela nnake. A mme botshelo bontse bo letshotse sentle? I understand you silently sneaked in and out of the country over the weekend. Nice, hope you had a lovely trip. :-) @ Uncle Vusi: I can relate to what you said about people forgetting your birthday. You really have a rich music collection - I'm speechless and envious. :-)

Keratile
28 Aug 2013 03:14

Have a great day you all. Leratwa ke nna (I love you all)

Keratile
28 Aug 2013 05:06

Forgot to remind/tell you about the planned petrol attendants strike scheduled for next Monday.

Mimibob
28 Aug 2013 06:20

I had a wonderful evening/night. *smiling to myself*. I'm grateful to God for the beautiful people in my life.

Bk212303
28 Aug 2013 08:24

Morning all.

@BK i also think that Scott's going to blackmail our ABUSIVE DINNY for her shares

@Goldi did u watch last nite i seriously think that Scott will definately blackmail cause he was putting 1and 2 about Penyo and Dinny abusiveness
maybe he will say he will go to the papers and exposed them.

Bk212303
28 Aug 2013 08:28

Goldi while we running away from Uncle and Mimi are looking at what im seeing here. Uncle knows Mim's songs ........

@2012
28 Aug 2013 08:31

@BK.....but i dout little dinny will give up on her shares....remember she even refused to sell to s'buda so she can give her hubby his job back when he was not in his good books.....nor when she even wanted s'buda 2 accept her in the dlomo clan... little dinny is no push over she cant sell 2 scott especially when hubby is not working the shares are their lives

@2012
28 Aug 2013 08:36

mj is going 2 dust with khethiwe again tonight.........................!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! isabel refused 2 give him the forbidden fruit......i feel sorry 4 isabel. i suspect this will be the end of mj & isabel because if isabel can hear that mj is dusting with khethiwe she will dump mj right away...mj & isabel are good together sheem but khethiwe is going 2 spoil that

mara khethiwe u love 2 take people's man mara why?????????

Goldi
28 Aug 2013 08:39

Morning my loving Family

@BK kunjalo sisi, even though Phenyo remembers he's to proud to admit that he's wife is ABUSING him, what happened between MJ and Bella last night is what will push MJ into the hands of GRANNY KHETHIWE kante Bella wants to stay a VIRGIN tot piet kom tjoooooo may that's why MJ will ask her to marry him so that she can sikalekhekhe *thinking out loud* mmmmmm *totally ignoring BK's comment about Mims and Vusi*

Ms Opinionated
28 Aug 2013 08:46

Aowa kanti whats rong with Bella and not wanting to give it up, plus she over reacted nje i think she has issues with the idea of dusting. Yhuuuu i give it some some girls, they arent curious at all

Ntaksay
28 Aug 2013 08:51

Good morning

Akhona has a nice body.

As for MJ, no comment, he is going to spoil everything *for what, a granny?* plz man.

Goldi
28 Aug 2013 09:11

To those who read Zulu girl, i'm not sure which chapter but Beniza (Thabo) did say WHITE girls dont give it up so quick like BLACK chikitas hhahahahahahahah

well GRANNY KHETHIWE gives it for mahala and beside ASEMBOMBO ENCHA MOS (it's not a new hole) she's been around so why not *cracking myself*

yoyozz
28 Aug 2013 09:15

i dont see anything cute between mj and bella if she cant give mj a cake she must go to hell. mj is a man he hv feelings. 2 years in a relationship without sex mxm

Mimibob
28 Aug 2013 09:25

I can't picture Khethiwe and MJ together. Even just kissing... Eeeww... I see I'm missing a lot. I enjoy my less tv days though..

Mimibob
28 Aug 2013 09:28

Lol @ Yoyo. I've missed your comments.

NoMdazB
28 Aug 2013 09:35

Hello all. Bhut' Vusi, feeling romantic-awwww. My song is Anytime by Brian McKnight. It reminds me of being hopelessly in love with this guy and having no idea how he felt because he was very, very reserved. Do you know I never got over him? Can I ask a question? Do you fall out of love with someone when the relationship is over? Are you supposed to? Is it wrong that you still have feelings for that person?

Goldi
28 Aug 2013 09:46

MimiK you are missing out hey you know reading comments and seeing action is not the same but argg i guess its better than nothing hey

hahahahahaha Yoyo sweets kunjalo makahambe kaluko

Bk212303
28 Aug 2013 09:47

Ntaksay unqabile whatsup? Goldi u can ignore all u want but...... hey Nomdaz howzit?

VusiK
28 Aug 2013 09:48

@Nomdakazane ...
I diciplined myself very early to define, differentiate and honestly admit to myself what I felt for any other person.
Love has always been something that either happens, runs me over like a train, or grows on me, or I grow into.
Lust, desire, and passion are something completely different for me.

I do not necessarily fall out of love with a person when the relationship ends.
I do however, make it a point to remind myself that it ended, I / WE DO NOT WISH FOR IT TO CONTINUE, and are unwilling to be whatever brought it to an end.

It helps me move on, and moving on will eventually assist me to move out of whatever made love grow on me, regardless of time and distance.

There are no rules ... emotions are actually chemical reactions, there can be no rules because we cannot control what effect those chemicals have on us when they do. We can however control how we react to the chemical stimuli (memory creates experience and experience tempered wit trauma is an incredible deterrent ... it is why the trauma response is so intense.) ... the flee or perish response adrenaline creates is an excellent example.

If something is bad for you ... be it an assessment of genetic knowledge, or personal experience ... your body goes into survival mode ... you have no control of the sequence ... but it exists.

VusiK
28 Aug 2013 09:55

@Goldi ...

Realty and perception are different ... you happen to live in a society where white is still considered superior.

truth is ... statistically, ... globally white girls are more likely to engage sex on their 1st dates with their partners if they like them than any other racial group.

In South Africa ... blacks are the bottom of the food chain except when they are perceived as affluent, hence almost certainly no white or indian or coloured girl in their "right mind" will easily drop her panties to a black man.

As racist as it sounds ... it is real and truth.

VusiK
28 Aug 2013 10:00

besides ... black approach toward courtship is completely different from the white one.

The black approach uses one word to define any possiblity of states "Love"
The white approach uses precise targetted languages that clearly defines whether the intent is temporary or permanent, compumtive, or passive.

The cultutral differences are factors to consider.

Ntaksay
28 Aug 2013 10:01

@Bk It's been a busy week for me. But Friday I will be all yours.

NoMdazB
28 Aug 2013 10:05

Well, Bra Vus' I'm a person who's very open about how I feel and I find that it unsettles some when I say something like, I still have a certain fondness for so and so. Like I was supposed to switch it off the minute I broke up with him. I have been with a number of gentlemen; most of them I just sort of like now in a I-know-that-person sort of way. There is one though(the one who makes me sing like Brian McKnight). That one is trouble and it's a good thing he lives far, far away because I know something would awaken if he were close by. Do you find that most relationships do not end because the emotions aren't there anymore, rather that the behavior of a person/s in the relationship makes the circumstances within the relationship unbearable?

NoMdazB
28 Aug 2013 10:06

Molo Bk, how is you?

VusiK
28 Aug 2013 10:16

@Nomdakazane ...

Their interpretation or assumption of what you communicate is not your responsibility.

Your responsibility is for what you communicate.

VusiK
28 Aug 2013 10:18

I end a relationship for one of two reasons generally ...

they break the covenant we agree on, ...
or
I break the covenant.

NoMdazB
28 Aug 2013 10:20

Well Bhut Vusi I stopped caring about what people thought of me when I was still a teenager, ndiguge gqitha ngoku (i!'m too old) for that now.

Goldi
28 Aug 2013 10:20

I hear you Vusi but i was just coating a chapter i'm not saying that's how it is,

Ladies i'm bored today any interesting TOPIC pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

Mimibob
28 Aug 2013 10:22

@ Nomd, I don't fall in love easily. I don't even allow myself to easily entertain any interest I might feel for somebody. I always guard my heart. I got over my first love before he died. I loved him with all my being, buy we couldn't continue together because of my beliefs, so became just friends and he could talk to me about his girlfriends, though he maintained he still loved me. He was now just a friend I cared for. I was traumatized though when he died, especially with his mother and siblings treating me like family, even telling me as much (I had not met them when he was alive). My love for him was awoken, with time I got back to self.

VusiK
28 Aug 2013 10:29

Communication ... I was raised to understand; is an art mastered by very few.
consequently, I evolved to be a very precise communicator.

My present relationship, is based on many contradictions to the norm.

My present mate is single, in her 30s, no child (a rather rare find in the times we live in)
1st; a fondnesss and affinity existed
2nd; an attraction to their character existed
3rd; a clear communication of who and what I am was acknowledged.
I said to her ... "When you are ready, Willing and able to have children ... consider me as an option; I do not guarantee you a conventional relationship, nor do I guarantee you my presence in raising the children, however, I will be on hand to support and provide for those children... And assured her that she will be a single parent, however, I insisted that I wish to be involved in my progeny's development and upbringing"
She agreed ...
We have not dusted, (though the possibility of it is rather great ... and it will probably be an incredible experience when it starts / happens) and if we do not, it will probably be for the betterment of a procreational agenda with a person I consider to be an exceptional human being.

VusiK
28 Aug 2013 10:30

Morning Mims

Mimibob
28 Aug 2013 10:34

Morning Vus :)

bomyy
28 Aug 2013 10:37

Morning Family, the ones i know and the ones who are newer. just to announce that i am back too

Came across this below on facebook this morning and I thought I should share... *as i scroll up to catch up on the current convo**

Bomi Shinga wrote:
Today its idiots day, let us celebrate idiots

Generations fans idiots are as follows

1. If you think Mj is Ngamla's son you are an idiot
2. If you think Noluntu is Ngamla's daughter you are an idiot
3. If you think Noluntu and Jason are twins you are an idiot

You idiot makes me wonder if you watch the same Generations that we watch, or you probably just watch with your mouth hanging open (idiot style) you do not absorb anything happening there, you do not follow the story line and you just believe whatever gullible thought that occurs to you

If you swear at me for speaking the truth instead of starting to think clearly then you really are an idiot!! *takes a chair and sit down, folding arms and crossing legs*

VusiK
28 Aug 2013 10:38

BTW ...

I identified this one site in my hometown I wish to purchase from the government redevelop and build a house on ...
and sell the suburban places.and return to the township.
.... and purchase another site from the govt (also in my hometown), redevelop into commercial space and move my businesses there ...
If business wishes to do business with me,

They will soon need to start their engines and drive those Helicopters, Porsches, Bentleys, Rolls Royces and whatnots .... and visit the township and do engage business there !I have now developed my business to where they need me more than I need them ...
Besides ... in my opinion ... the township children need more professional heros and businessmen to identify as symbols of "Success" than the criminals ...

So I am doing something about it.

VusiK
28 Aug 2013 10:40

... So I guess I should add Lamont Dozier's "Back to my roots" to my playlist, lol

VusiK
28 Aug 2013 10:43

... and I no longer wish to contribute to the suburban tax base

VusiK
28 Aug 2013 10:45

Morning Bomyyy

Long time no Hello ...

bomyy
28 Aug 2013 10:48

hey UIncle Vusi, whats cooking? whats new? it has been a while. I had been terrible busy at work, hey. I do come and read comments sometimes

VusiK
28 Aug 2013 10:49

... and I wish my next 10 children to grow up being as black as I am

It is my reality that the likelihood of that developing in Sandhurst is rather thin.

VusiK
28 Aug 2013 10:49

@bomyy ...

Same here Sisi.

NoMdazB
28 Aug 2013 10:51

Hey Mims. It took me some time to tell the difference between fondness and love (probably because I started dating at 14). But when I felt love I knew what it was. I'm an eternal optimist, too damn trusting and a hopeless romantic so when I fall in love I allow it to seep through every pore.

VusiK
28 Aug 2013 10:54

@nomdakazane ...

Eternal Optimist ...
Methinks you be an Irrational Optimist.

VusiK
28 Aug 2013 10:55

lol

VusiK
28 Aug 2013 10:57

I am a pragmatist ...
Somewhat romantically inclined
but a definite skeptic and possible cynic

Mimibob
28 Aug 2013 11:00

@ Vus, lolling at next 10 children. Ga o tshamekele mo industry(ing)... Lol...

VusiK
28 Aug 2013 11:00

If can keep your head about you while all about you
are losing theirs and blaming it on you...
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
And treat those two impostors just the same...
Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it,
and - which is more - you'll be a Man, my son !

... Rudyard Kipling (1895-1936)

NoMdazB
28 Aug 2013 11:02

Irrational optimist (hehehehe), but true. I want to believe people are good even when they show me they aren't. I just cannot be cynical, it pains me.

market
28 Aug 2013 11:03

morning all
Uncler @Vusik i wish all man are like u in this world ,all the best in life u are a wise man.

VusiK
28 Aug 2013 11:04

lol @Mims ...

The methamatics of life are as such that ...

If I have 20 - 50 children (How is yet to be determined)
.. there is a great probability that at least one (01) will admire me sufficiently ...
not to be distracted by the vagaries of life to succeed me
as a qualifiied and proper heir.

VusiK
28 Aug 2013 11:06

The rest are probably doomed to be essentially beneficiaries, passengers, and vagabonds

NoMdazB
28 Aug 2013 11:07

So Bhut Vusi you are sort of in Mj's situation, in love with a person and it's not a sexual relationship( I mean physically). Where do you get the willpower to resist the urge? I could resist when I was younger, I don't know what happened to me.

Mimibob
28 Aug 2013 11:12

Hehee... Vus, 20-50! I give up on you.

VusiK
28 Aug 2013 11:12

... see Mims ...

I do not need 20 - 50 heirs ...

I only truly require 1

But the truth of life is that development is environmental as much as genetic.

(partly why women have a finite 500,000 eggs possibility in their lifetime
and men ejaculate a billion possibilities with each climax.)

Hence it is more important to select the right woman to favour one's genes
than it is to select the man to inseminate the egg.

Simple supply and demand.

My legacy demands depend on a single unknown possibility

Reproduction / procreation is a massive game of risk.

NoMdazB
28 Aug 2013 11:20

So how are you going to get to those 20-50 possible heirs with your sel-imposed celibacy BraVusi?

VusiK
28 Aug 2013 11:21

@Nom
...
I am grasping 50 with my fingertips ...

My abilities are not as virulent as they used to be.

I would sooner ship sperm in a bottle than deal with the complications of other people's expectations regarding their place in the Universe.

I am nobody's property.
Nobody is my property.

We all know that women are more inclined to be of a nesting nature than men ... (it is by no means an excuse for being irresponsible though)
So the physical (sex) is less important for me (now), than it was when I was younger.

I am more prone to engage sex for pleasure than procreation now.
Therefore, why risk the possibility of an awesome experience / coexistence with a great person by spoiling it by rushing into sex.

When or if sex happens ... it will have happened apart and separate from an agreed upon agenda (or covenant)

VusiK
28 Aug 2013 11:23

... and no different ..

if she chose to favour some other man and married him at some point ...

I would not begrudge her the decision.

VusiK
28 Aug 2013 11:24

@Nomdak

There is no answer to your last question.

I do not know.

VusiK
28 Aug 2013 11:29

A rather wise young woman ... in a discussion last year said something rather profound.

It was a conversation about the seemingly eternal struggle between men and women.

she said ...

"Women are not really a problem ...
As long as there is only ONE of them in any particular space

Men however try to put more than one woman in the same space ...
... and that is the source of the problem."

... That was an AHA ! moment for me.

We are evolving.

VusiK
28 Aug 2013 11:31

Must work ...

Russia is ringing on my phone like a deranged cuckold.

Mimibob
28 Aug 2013 11:49

I'm spell bound, and don't think I want to know where Vus' 20-50 children are gonna come from.

VusiK
28 Aug 2013 12:04

Wish to volunteer eggs Mims ?

:-)

Mimibob
28 Aug 2013 12:10

No response to that one Vus. And I didn't know my other name was Russia. * Hides behind Nomd*.

NoMdazB
28 Aug 2013 12:16

Kwaaaaaaaak Mims? When he finds you use you feminine wiles. We should hold a Gen bloggers audition, so we can find volunteer eggs for Bra Vusi's sharp-shooters.

NoMdazB
28 Aug 2013 12:17

Kwaaaaaaaak Mims. When he finds you use your feminine wiles. We should hold a Gen bloggers audition, so we can find volunteer eggs for Bra Vusi's sharp-shooters.

VusiK
28 Aug 2013 12:22

lol @Nomdakazane

No .. Mims.
The personal secretary of Russia's president was ringing my phones as though they had a crisis.
Was not speaking about you.
...
and I have no calls from Botswana ... only text messages.can't see yours though

:-)

Mimibob
28 Aug 2013 12:24

Lol Nomd, I doubt his lady friend would be very happy about the audition.

Mimibob
28 Aug 2013 12:26

Vus, that was a joke. Why expose me so mara?

VusiK
28 Aug 2013 12:37

You set yourself up for that one Mims,

Lol

VusiK
28 Aug 2013 12:39

Suffer !
Baby !
Suffer !

(I think that's what the male mouse was muttering to the elephant it was dusting as it (the mouse) sweated profusely while humping)

bdiamond
28 Aug 2013 12:40

Guys Reaaly Now!!!!

What is happening to Generations, it sucks for days..the storyline is not teaching any1 anything.. they just keep adding horrible habits.. first Noluntu n Mawande, now its Queen and gambling....bored for century with this chakalaka soapie!!!

laleli
28 Aug 2013 12:47

@bdiamond i have to disagree with you on queen story line
So many people in this country are addicted to gambling, i know people who sells their belonging in order to recover their money back

is start ekasi ka mochaina and dikarata

VusiK
28 Aug 2013 12:48

@Mims ...
I did not mean to expose you

Please accept my apology.

Mimibob
28 Aug 2013 12:51

Whatever Vus... :)

Mimibob
28 Aug 2013 12:52

Apology accepted. :)

bdiamond
28 Aug 2013 12:54

im sure Generations is a proud supporter of ANC...akulungi instead ku moshakala worse...............

Pastry
28 Aug 2013 13:02

Vusi Kunene

Mimibob
28 Aug 2013 13:09

Hehee Pastry. Don't remind of that day. Ya, the name suits him. With the characters Kunene plays...

Pastry
28 Aug 2013 13:14

Ao Taz...u know we would have got your message even without CAPS!

Anyway i havent watched

VusiK
28 Aug 2013 13:30

TAZZ !!!

Kunjani?

portcia
28 Aug 2013 13:54

Yoh, if u miss a second it takes time to catch up, afternoon everyone* waving*

portcia
28 Aug 2013 14:03

Wena goldi, wa rata ho qalana lenna ne!... im talking about the flash back Phenyo had after the incident, while still at the hospital.

Bk212303
28 Aug 2013 14:21

Thank uncle Vusi for keeping the place warm..

Deemo
28 Aug 2013 14:28

hi all,i can see tht malume vusi n mims are keeping the house warm,,enjoy the day,

Mimibob
28 Aug 2013 14:34

Hi VusiK

VusiK
28 Aug 2013 14:38

Hi MimiK !

duckie
28 Aug 2013 14:41

@TAz

aint those episodes starting in Sep?

VusiK
28 Aug 2013 15:02

(methinks Mims enjoy being addressed as MimiK ;-) )

VusiK
28 Aug 2013 15:03

@ BK, Deemo ...
You are always welcome ! :-)

Mimibob
28 Aug 2013 15:09

@VusiK, I do. Lol... You have no idea!

Mimibob
28 Aug 2013 15:10

You should see my smile every time you address me as MimiK.

VusiK
28 Aug 2013 15:13

LMAO !
...
and people wonder why I am fond of you!

Goldi
28 Aug 2013 15:17

I Miss you too Posh my Caramel muffin :)

Sexy, Posh, Maqinase kanti wen is the hook up Guys?

Mimibob
28 Aug 2013 15:18

:D

Bk212303
28 Aug 2013 15:42

Mimik?????????????????????????

Bk212303
28 Aug 2013 15:44

Goldi a u awake my dear????

Bk212303
28 Aug 2013 15:45

So uncle you just fond of Mimi K??????

VusiK
28 Aug 2013 15:57

@BK ... yesterday's responses to the same question

Goldi
28 Aug 2013 15:57

BK sweet's very much awake hey and yes that's what i call he too cos i know how much she loves it when i call her MimiK :) *didnt mean to expose you MimiK*

Bk212303
28 Aug 2013 16:05

MimiK said we were crazy....me and ....Goldi..but liked each and every moment of it.

Bk212303
28 Aug 2013 16:12

Yhoo today was hectic nheee look at the comments yhoo the place was boiling nhee malum and wifey..........run to the taxi rank before someone catchis me byeeeeeeeeeee

VusiK
28 Aug 2013 16:21

lol @BK, Goldi, et al.

but as I said ...

If Mims has is not involved with anyone, or in a committed relationship, and wishes to donate eggs, we can negotiate ... subject to her passing the necessary eligibility criteria.
We could talk about progeny.(sorry, not eligible if you already have children, or already committed to a relationship ... not interested in complicated situations nor complicating my children's development)
it would have to be an absolute donation, ... subject to passing the necessary criteria, and the legal hurdles ... and my criteria is rather stringent) ... as is the law relating to egg donation and surrogacy.

Mimibob
28 Aug 2013 16:31

Wena Goldi, I told you I liked it when you called MimiK neh? Lol, how do you come disclose private stuff here? Trust broken. Lol... I also said Vus and I were good friends in same conversation.. Selective listening.

Mimibob
28 Aug 2013 16:37

Vus, I'm involved with a man I love, who loves me back (I think), and we are planning on having children. My long distance guy.. Remember? Out of interest, what's the iligibility criteria I should pass?

Mimibob
28 Aug 2013 16:41

If we were to have children together Vus, we'll do it the natural way.

VusiK
28 Aug 2013 16:48

The natural way is tedious and riddled with risk Mims.
Been there... got the shirts ....
Probably never again
The criteria is shared only with eligible candidates.

The sum of a person's parts has everything to do with what their progeny's chances are....
hence a scientific roadmap between both parents must generally be assembled in order to assess what is eligibility.
I am no longer emotional about these matters.

VusiK
28 Aug 2013 16:49

I know you are committed Mims.

Just shooting the breeze for BK and Goldi's entertainment.

VusiK
28 Aug 2013 16:52

My father used to say
...
"Isithuta sazalisana nesithutha ... Zanda!"

(loosley ... when mental cripples procreate ... the odds are great another mental cripple will be created)...
ence it is extremely important for me in my mature years to be highly selective regarding whose eggs I choose for my next batch of children.

VusiK
28 Aug 2013 16:57

I suppose I would also be a mental cripple if I was not to learn from the errors of my past ...
Great looks and awesome bods are not sufficient anymore.

Mimibob
28 Aug 2013 17:01

Complex man you are.

VusiK
28 Aug 2013 17:07

Nobody said life was simple (the very creation of life is fraught with risk)
If all people knew how complicated life was ...
before we are created.
I constantly wonder how many of us would be alive today.

Mimibob
28 Aug 2013 17:10

I was referring to the person of VusiK, not life.

VusiK
28 Aug 2013 17:19

I am my life

The two are inseparable

When life stops,
I cease to exist,
as will the complication.

VusiK
28 Aug 2013 17:23

Cogito Ergo Sum

VusiK
28 Aug 2013 17:24

Cogito, Ergo Sum

Presintamento

Mimibob
28 Aug 2013 17:26

Whatever Vusi.

VusiK
28 Aug 2013 17:28

lol

Bye Mims!

Mimibob
28 Aug 2013 17:31

Bye Vus.

elaton
28 Aug 2013 20:19

Vus n MimK

Mimibob
28 Aug 2013 21:02

Elaton

Mimibob
28 Aug 2013 21:32

I have come a long way, as evidence by my old post below;

Reply from: Mimibob Saturday, April 14, 2012 00:06 AM

I think I have a crush on Kunene *whispering and blushing*

yoyozz
29 Aug 2013 08:44

DANCING WITH MY BBY

wedding bells hope im going to be a flower girl soon

Mimibob
29 Aug 2013 09:50

Good morning Yoyo & baby, and fam. A random, and maybe stupid question; Do Lamborghinis come in yellow all the time? I've never seen one in any other colour.

Bk212303
29 Aug 2013 10:13

Just shooting the breeze for BK and Goldi's entertainment.

kwaaaaaaaaak@Vusik

VusiK
29 Aug 2013 10:24

@Mims
Good Morning

They come in any colour you want.

Your perception is the lack of buyer imagination.
They tend to follow the prototype colour ... which sometimes is yellow.

VusiK
29 Aug 2013 10:25

Good morning people.

Mimibob
29 Aug 2013 10:43

Thanks Vus. Good morning. Lack of buyer imagination? Lol... I don't like small/ tiny/ short cars, coupes... So yah, no buyer imagination there.

Pastry
29 Aug 2013 10:43

Heheheeeeheeee

Sanibonani

Mimibob
29 Aug 2013 11:03

Do share the joke Pastry. Sawubona.

nthoentle
29 Aug 2013 11:16

We will know as soon as Sbu come out of jail who is bandile's father Mawande left him a letter with the lawyer.

Pastry
29 Aug 2013 11:17

No joke Mims...wa ncaza(sp) nje!

portcia
29 Aug 2013 11:20

Good day everyone, Goldi we really must hook up somewhere guys, sexy,yoyozz and maqinase, come on guys lets put one and one together, and come up with a plan.

Mimibob
29 Aug 2013 11:21

Not sure if that's a compliment Pastry.. Lol...

portcia
29 Aug 2013 11:23

I didnt really catch Gen yesterday, i only saw there and there, pls anyone with update will do, i wont be able to watch on Saturday, as we have umqimbi at my Hubby's family.

Pastry
29 Aug 2013 12:02

It is Mims...just challenged by sp and translation!

Mimibob
29 Aug 2013 12:10

No need for translation dear. I understand.

duckie
29 Aug 2013 12:20

@port will try my best

Bella is angry at MJ coz she feels hes using her(he stressed bt dsnt wna tok bout it, al he wants ukulala naye)if u remember the dinner the nyt

Noluntu went beg MJ fo her job bt to no lucky Mj told her to go speak to Jason nd then kuntu strtd mentionin the part tht jason is nt a memela bt stil MJ reminded her tht the cmpny will his fully wen hes25,she also asked him if she cld cum bk hme nd stl MJ refused

MJ went to tsalanang for a drink nd got Druuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuunk, Khethiwe came to his rescue nd took him hme(his hauz),wen theey got home Akhona was ere so khethi left the two togather but MJ went aftr Khethiwe nd he ws hopin to gt lucky like the othr day bt to no lucky Khethi ws playing hard to gt

Scott reffered a client for legal advice to Phenyo ndPhenyo ws al excited wen the client phoned him nd then jus before the end of the meetin the client mentioned tht scott ws right ,Phenyo knws hes job nd phenyo got upset ukuth y is scott reffering pipo to him

Ruby invytd Dineo& PHENYO fo Dinner, the cpl actd all lovey dovey infront of Umamezala nd wen ey got the tension got bck on as well

Queen nd her gmbling, she sold Mr S's Couch,her shoes,handburg,jacket,prince s bed for R20000 to get moola for the poker game

thus all i cn remembr so far

vuxy
29 Aug 2013 12:26

ISHMIZZY
29 Aug 2013 13:21

MJ's father is Sbusiso Dlomo. That one i'm 80%sure of.

portcia
29 Aug 2013 14:00

Thank you duckie, im happy that Noluntu's world has ben shattered.

Bk212303
29 Aug 2013 15:51

Heee Uncle Vusi I think you should come back u c its quiet now.

Bk212303
29 Aug 2013 15:53

But she still have an option of going to Matatiela so i dont know ppl

1Ntosh1
29 Aug 2013 17:20

You guys are open minded, I just login to read ur comments... As for this MJ sugger, MJ is not sbusiso's kid... But he(mj) is going 2 look 4 hiz dady..

Goldi
29 Aug 2013 20:09

Evening Faamily the house was quiet today yhoooo, Posh my love we have to hey...Kana we are neighbors tlhe eish just picturing are day together too much laughing and talking nonsense like we sometimes do here but this time it will be in person tjooooo eish excitement is killing me I can't wait please let's make it soon guys please

Kandyfloss
29 Aug 2013 23:40

Hi all... Silent blogger this days(am not well emotionally).. I enjoy our Romeo and Juliet's conversations..

ISHMIZZY
30 Aug 2013 02:26

@1Ntosh1 well i still believe that he(MJ) is sbusiso's boy. Anyway why did Mawande leave an envelope for sbusiso?

Bk212303
30 Aug 2013 08:23

. I enjoy our Romeo and Juliet's conversations..

Kwaaaaaaaak@Kandyfloss........hahahha

Bk212303
30 Aug 2013 08:26

???????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????

portcia
30 Aug 2013 08:46

Hmm... mccarr34, why would we want to contact Dr ALUTA, in case you didnt recognise this family is a family of God, whenever we are in need of something we kneel down and pray, whenever someone is in pain, all we do is pray for him/her. Why would you like to currupt this house? in fact you know what, i wil gather some of our family and pray for you, couse really..... getting the man you love back in cases of spell, is not a good way, if he loved you he would have came back to you without the spell, so tell me for how long is this spell thing going to last, and what is going to happen if he finds out that you used spell onto him?

Now really guys this one needs a prayer, i really cant believe this is happening in our house. Sorry my fellow family, Gooooood morning Gen family, and how is everyone?

yoyozz
30 Aug 2013 08:53

yhooo that means i dont have love. if the guy say its over then its over i will never follow him or contact anyone to help me life moves on and im moving.
that means you were desparate girl usisi shumane anyway im happy for you.

me contact spellhospital never

yoyozz
30 Aug 2013 08:58

shes not even married to the guy sisi shumane marn esi

24 september is around the corner and its a holiday we can meet in a mall or some where i dont know comeup with a plan ladies

yoyozz
30 Aug 2013 09:03

thank u for what we dont even know you we never saw you in this blog and you are thanking us for what. we never talk about spell nxx

guys did you give this lady an adv to go to a spell doctor why she thanking you

you can join the fimaly if you want but dont lie

yoyozz
30 Aug 2013 09:09

OCTOBER TEASERS ARE OUT SOWETAN

Bk212303
30 Aug 2013 09:11

Im also shocked thats i sent question marks haaa

Nunumsi
30 Aug 2013 09:13

Hawu saze safa uMccarr34 every blog you open there he is with his spells hayi suka.

VusiK
30 Aug 2013 09:22

Someone can simply tell McCarr that SPAM is not permitted in the terms of use for this site.

If there is no understanding regarding what one can do on the site, read the Terms Of Use at the bottom of each page (Which are mostly ignored by most people using these kinds of sites)

or contact Admin about it.

Simple as that.

I find it Amazing how much information one can hide in plain sight from people...
By simply writing it.

Goldi
30 Aug 2013 09:25

Morning Family Posh I'm with you on that we must join in prayer that's what s/he needs lol Nunu he's recruiting members hahahaha eish Yoyo o qalile ne? well that's a good idea I don't have plans fo that day ladies le reng lona?

portcia
30 Aug 2013 09:29

yoyozz my love i still think News cafe at Maponya mall will be the best place, but this is open for discussion, come on ladies, yoh i cant wait.

portcia
30 Aug 2013 09:35

Serious yoyozz? well im off to soweto online, see you* running*

duckie
30 Aug 2013 09:36

mrng fam,

I missed Gen lat night , please update

We need to pray hard for Mccarr34,shes one rotton potatoe in this house nd we dnt want her spoiling us.

Zofuya
30 Aug 2013 09:59

I vehemently second your suggestion @ Duckie

Mimibob
30 Aug 2013 10:25

Poor Mccarr34... In her defense, @ VusiK, I think it would be spam if it were PMd to all/many of us. (I stand to be corrected). This is just a post on an open blog. It's girl who is simply happy about her achievement and wants to share with the world, and isn't stingy with info. And to all ya, the same T&Cs are against any sort of discrimination, including religious. For the record, I don't support her man keeping strategy.

portcia
30 Aug 2013 10:25

mccar34, you must pray The Lord is my Sheeperd, it is a usual prayer but powerful, and you will not WANT, in your life, or DESIRE.

portcia
30 Aug 2013 10:32

Mimi it seems as if, the girl was happy because we agreed with this SPELL, as i qoute, *When i read through the testimonials of other people in this blog* understanding that, she is excitted and want to share with us her succsess, but we stand here to advise her, that she choose the wrong way. The truth hurts, but ja, we had to say something.

Mimibob
30 Aug 2013 10:47

@Posh, she said testimonials in this website, not blog. What standard are you using to say she chose the wrong way? What is to say your way is the right one? It worked for her. Maybe the guy shares the same beliefs as her. What truth are you referring to, and whom is it supposed to have hurt? Wouldn't you rather be happy that your truth ministered grace to the hearer rather than make them feel condemned?

portcia
30 Aug 2013 10:54

Sorry Mims didnt mean to offend you

Mimibob
30 Aug 2013 11:05

I'm not offended luv, was just responding to posts.

portcia
30 Aug 2013 11:14

okay, cool

portcia
30 Aug 2013 11:27

Is just that im a believer, and knowing that when u ask you will be answered, and when you knock, the doors will be opened for you, and that Jesus Christ, in the old testament, died for our sins, so that we can be saved, and that He is the Way the Thruth and the Light, he is a Jelous God, i beliave that if she should have asked God for wisdom, then she wouldnt have spend all that money she did spend, couse God would have answered all her prayes, though He takes time, but H e does answers to us.mccarr34, im not here to tell you what you should or shouldnt do, this is a free world and everyone has the right to raise their opinions, but if i have to say something, regardless if you take my advise or not, is PRAY, and dont just pray, you must first believe in what you are praying for, Thank you.

Bk212303
30 Aug 2013 11:54

Oh so Dineo's punishment from Penyo is dusting and dusting until she beggs him to stop.

Sbuda will loose Ezweni to Scott and run Yona Yethu. Scott will higher Penyo back at Ezweni

Mimibob
30 Aug 2013 11:55

@Posh, Now this sounds better. I am a believer too. I believe in the Almighty God, the sovereign God. Mornach of the universe. And that nothing is too hard for Him. If I were to start, it will be hard to stop... I was just saying it matters how we communicate for us to be heard. Be it the basic tenets of the gospel or any other issue. We don't have to be judgmental toward those we might consider having lesser truths or lesser revelations.

VusiK
30 Aug 2013 12:05

@Mimibob

She is soliciting via "testimony" and directing the reader to a product of access to a product. (in this case, via the provision of an email contact)

That !!! ... is Spamming

Bk212303
30 Aug 2013 12:05

Hayi mani yoyos where is OCTOBER?????

Mimibob
30 Aug 2013 12:10

Ok Vus. Thanks.

Mimibob
30 Aug 2013 12:18

Just noticed you addressed me as Mimibob. Are we ok? Lol...

Mimibob
30 Aug 2013 12:19

Oh, that's for Vus.

Bk212303
30 Aug 2013 12:23

hahahahahahha

Mimibob
30 Aug 2013 12:27

Lol BK... Ngiya sbuzela nje (sp)..

VusiK
30 Aug 2013 12:45

@Mimibob

Are you speculating?

Ntaksay
30 Aug 2013 13:04

Hello everyone.
I can't catch up there are so many replies.

@ BKOh so Dineo's punishment from Penyo is dusting and dusting until she beggs him to stop. It looked more like forcing himself to me, Dineo also did not expect that and when she tried to ask he just kept her quite and kept on smooching her.

Sbuda will loose Ezweni to Scott and run Yona Yethu. Scott will higher Penyo back at Ezweni I wouldn't be surprised. Scott is a snake

I give up on Queen

Ntaksay
30 Aug 2013 13:08

Khethiwe & Mj are something else, why did they go to Mocha Mamas and mess with Patty's orders. As for Scott is he really falling inlove with Khethiwe or her money. It looks like he likes her. The way he and Mj carried on, on that meeting. Hayi shame she is a man magnet.

yoyozz
30 Aug 2013 13:27

mimibob i think u must take the advace of a spell otherwise u will loose ur man why hes calling you like that on a friday someone is not going eat voros tonight
joking

portcia
30 Aug 2013 13:27

VusiK mimi want to hear you say mimiK, PLEASE DO!....

portcia
30 Aug 2013 13:28

KWAAAAAAAAAAAAAK yoyozz

VusiK
30 Aug 2013 13:48

@Yoyozz

Not impressed
...
Not everyone simply sleeps around or hops from person to person's bed.
...
And ...
...
I have someone in my life.

VusiK
30 Aug 2013 14:27

and
I am not sexually active
...It is easy insult someone when not armed with the facts.

Bk212303
30 Aug 2013 15:55

Hectic stuff enjoy yr weekend Uncle Vusik and everyone else.
Gonna miss each and everyone of you.

Happpy friday!!!!!!!!! im out

Mimibob
30 Aug 2013 16:21

C'mon now Vus, Yoyo was just joking. Signing out. MimiK.

Mimibob
30 Aug 2013 16:23

And I wouldn't dare speculate...

VusiK
30 Aug 2013 16:40

Reverse the roles, ages, and sex and test the humour!

Mimibob
30 Aug 2013 16:44

Thanx Posh for the plea. Wena Yoyo o batla thupa.. Lol... Now signing out for real. MimiK.

Mimibob
30 Aug 2013 16:52

The joke was on me Vus. And I know you don't usually take stuff personally like this. I honestly don't pick anything offensive, or anything on anyone sleeping around. Just that I should take Maccarr's advice cos I might not get any tonight.

yoyozz
30 Aug 2013 17:47

I'm sorry vusik Mimibob I was joking lv askies

Mimibob
30 Aug 2013 17:49

I know you were joking luv. No stress.

sexy d
30 Aug 2013 18:09

@yoyozz n porcia plus 24th of september is my birthday

NoMdazB
30 Aug 2013 18:27

Happy Friday everyone- though I'm probably just talking to myself. It wasn't a very jovial Friday for this blog, now was it? @VusiK - whom I fondly call Bra Vusi- I would like to apologize for myself and Yoyozz. I'm saying both of us because I made a similar comment about your sex life yesterday. I know Yoyozz meant absolutely no offence. I've been trying to figure out what it is about you and Mims that has us so enthralled. So here goes: though we know it's not a real relationship, your fondness for one another reminds us of what we are missing in our own mundane, possibly loveless love lives. Using you, we get to imagine a pure, effortless, limitless kind of love without all the normal issues and hang ups which ruin relationships. We feed our own fantasies of what we would like from relationships; it's like watching a romantic movie really. In our minds we make up stories about what goes on in your 'relationship'- all of that is fueled by your obvious admiration and fondness for one another. Funny enough though, I wouldn't classify it as flirting, just compatible minds. Perhaps then, that is where we cross the line. We contaminate the purity with our own impure thoughts and jaded hearts. So I hope you view it as flattery, misguided as it may be sometimes.

Mimibob
30 Aug 2013 19:14

@Nomd, I've been trying to figure out what it is about you and Mims that has us so enthralled. So here goes: though we know it's not a real relationship, your fondness for one another reminds us of what we are missing in our own mundane, possibly loveless love lives. Using you, we get to imagine a pure, effortless, limitless kind of love without all the normal issues and hang ups which ruin relationships.

For some reason, this just brought tears to my eyes and a lump in my throat.

Mimibob
30 Aug 2013 19:45

@Nomd, Funny enough though, I wouldn't classify it as flirting, just compatible minds.

Though I don't quite agree, I'm humbled. Vus is a great mind. He sees the shades of grey where many see plain black and white. A beautiful mind. Very rare.

VusiK
31 Aug 2013 08:28

Apology accepted

Goldi
31 Aug 2013 12:05

Morning Guys happy Saturday all, Sexy let's do this on ur special day lala Maqinase sisi wena uthini? Posh forget about Maponyamall lala I aint going there nna we can go somewhere we can still go to other news cafe not Maponya so ladies where can we go? Clear water or Eastgate any suggestions? Let's do this please

VusiK
31 Aug 2013 20:15

It started out innocently enough. I began to think at parties now and then to loosen up. Inevitably, though, one thought led to another, and soon I was more than just a social thinker.

I began to think alone - "to relax," I told myself - but I knew it wasn't true. Thinking became more and more important to me, and finally I was thinking all the time.

I began to think on the job. I knew that thinking and employment don't mix, but I couldn't stop myself.

I began to avoid friends at lunchtime so I could read Thoreau and Kafka. I would return to the office dizzied and confused, asking, "What is it, exactly, we are doing here?"

Things weren't going so great at home either. One evening I had turned off the TV and asked my wife about the meaning of life. She spent that night at her mother's.

I soon had a reputation as a heavy thinker. One day the boss called me in. He said, "Skippy, I like you, and it hurts me to say this, but your thinking has become a real problem. If you don't stop thinking on the job, you'll have to find another job." This gave me a lot to think about.

I came home early after my conversation with the boss. "Honey," I confessed, "I've been thinking..."

"I know you've been thinking," she said, "and I want a divorce!"

"But, Honey, surely it's not that serious."

"It is serious," she said, lower lip aquiver. "You think as much as college professors, and college professors don't make any money, so if you keep on thinking we won't have any money!"

"That's a faulty syllogism," I said impatiently, and she began to cry.

I'd had enough. "I'm going to the library," I snarled as I stomped out the door. I headed for the library, in the mood for some Nietzsche, with a PBS station on the radio. I roared into the parking lot and ran up to the big glass doors... they didn't open. The library was closed.

To this day, I believe that a Higher Power was looking out for me that night. As I sank to the ground clawing at the unfeeling glass, whimpering for Zarathustra, a poster caught my eye. "Friend, is heavy thinking ruining your life?" it asked. You probably recognize that line. It comes from the standard Thinker's Anonymous poster.

Which is why I am what I am today: a recovering thinker. I never miss a TA meeting. At each meeting we watch a non-educational video; last week it was "Porky's." Then we share experiences about how we avoided thinking since the last meeting.

I still have my job, and things are a lot better at home. Life just seemed... easier, somehow, as soon as I stopped thinking.

Makes One think Does it not!

Mimibob
31 Aug 2013 21:02

Wow!! Speechless!

Mimibob
31 Aug 2013 21:09

People go through stuff... Lol... Thinking problem to this extent! Acknowledge your source Vusi. We might start thinking you are Skippy.

Letty Maliehe
31 Aug 2013 22:42

Phenyo lave the Mashaba bitch.

NoMdazB
01 Sep 2013 02:40

If only I could handle my thinking problem I would not be blogging at this unholy hour.

angel degal
01 Sep 2013 16:28

SO SO BORING, M JST WAITING 4 DE DAY SBU RECEIVE A LETTER.

angel degal
01 Sep 2013 16:28

SO SO BORING, M JST WAITING 4 DE DAY SBU RECEIVE A LETTER.

Mrs Chix
01 Sep 2013 19:06

Honestly I love MJ &Kethiwe's no strings attached affair.....(((HIDES)))

steffie
02 Sep 2013 07:12

Morning everyone I miss you but that might change soon

AZTEC
02 Sep 2013 08:33

good morning guys.....i so hope that MJ has stopped crying like a little bitch now....it was starting to get on my nerves.....grow a spine boy and deal with it!

vuxy
02 Sep 2013 09:33

axaaaaaa. MJ and khethiwe they are friends with benefits. i heard that MJ wil marry khethiwe once he find out that Sbusiso is his father he will go crazy and marry his sugar MAMA Khethiwe.

Bk212303
02 Sep 2013 09:41

Morning everyone howzit? Happy spring

@2012
02 Sep 2013 09:43

helo people

vangus
02 Sep 2013 11:09

wow

Ntaksay
02 Sep 2013 11:15

Good morning everyone

Goldi
02 Sep 2013 12:37

Morning fam

haiibo kwathula so kwenze njani?

Ntaksay
02 Sep 2013 14:29

Hayibo niphi?????????????????????????????????????????????????????

Bk212303
02 Sep 2013 14:34

Mna ndikhona dont know about others shem

Goldi
02 Sep 2013 14:56

i'm also here darling

Mimibob
02 Sep 2013 15:34

Ke teng dear.

Bk212303
02 Sep 2013 16:04

its definitely quiet sanas

@2012
02 Sep 2013 16:14

m here 2............

i am where i will not be able 2 watch.....hope i will catch up on your update people when i have time to log on

il miss mj & khethiwe friends "benefits" relationship....love their naughyness tho

portcia
02 Sep 2013 16:20

Hello everyone and byeeeeeeeeeee

Mrs Chix
02 Sep 2013 18:41

Dnt forget 18:30 sabc 1

Imbelani
02 Sep 2013 20:19

Well i read it on de 23rd, which makes me...

Bk212303
03 Sep 2013 08:40

Hey everyone

Ntaksay
03 Sep 2013 08:40

"The Will of God will never take you where the Grace of God will not protect you."

Good Mmorning Everyone

Bk212303
03 Sep 2013 08:43

Morning Ntaksay howzit?

Do you still remember when i said we need to have a list of topics, now do you get why .....

Dhee
03 Sep 2013 08:49

Morning Bk and Ntaksay

vuxy
03 Sep 2013 09:13

Goldi
03 Sep 2013 09:13

Morning guys

Ntaks you ok darling?

Bk212303
03 Sep 2013 09:15

Topic topic topic

Mimibob
03 Sep 2013 10:14

Morning guys. If you were to meet 2 or 3 Gen family members, whom would you like it to be and why? This is while we are still deciding or thinking on topic...

Bk212303
03 Sep 2013 10:34

Jason cause i like him for his looks betuna

Ngamla he is the best actor for me

Wandi same reason as Sbuda

Kandyfloss
03 Sep 2013 10:34

Will meet VusiK his wisdom and humour.

NoMdazB
03 Sep 2013 10:35

Morning all. Mims, I have more than 2 people that I would like to meet. I'd like to meet everyone but I'm scared to meet Bhut Vusi. But I'd still like to...

Kandyfloss
03 Sep 2013 10:42

Mimi which gen family? If its that i'll meet scott and jason.. jus to blush blush and hug them tightly lol. Then patricia i read about her, i admire her spirit, she came to joburg as a helper years later...

Goldi
03 Sep 2013 11:04

mmmmm Mims there's a lot hey i wana meet all of you guys honestly but let me try on the three, well these for people i just mentioned i see some of my distinctiveness in them so ya

Ntaksay: she's sounds like she's a down to earth and sweet like mooi

Posh/Yoyo: ba bua gagolo and barata dilo(talkative & laastig) that's another side ya ka eo lol

MimiK: Sounds like an interesting some1 just like Goldi hihihihihihi

Mimibob
03 Sep 2013 11:28

Lol @ BK. I meant the bloggers love.

Mimibob
03 Sep 2013 11:33

Nomdakazane, why are you scared to meet your Bra Vusi? Lol... Kandifloss, the bloggers love, eseng bo Jason... Hahaa...

portcia
03 Sep 2013 11:43

Hello my sweet family, well i would like to meet almost everyone, but if i have to chose it will be
Ntaksay, a very cool lady, i can tell.
Goldi, she sounds like a free spirit, and i admire her for that.
Yoyo, she is a straight forward person, tell it like it is, and sorry Nomdazb, i know you said two or three but i would also like to see you, i just like the way you handle things even in a tough situation.

portcia
03 Sep 2013 11:45

and Mimik and Vusik, i just love them.

Bk212303
03 Sep 2013 11:52

Kwaaaaaaaaak @Mimibob

and to think about i saw Kandyfl.. saying Vusik and i was like heee.....

Me too though it would be Vusik cause he is interesting

Mimibob cause she looks like someone who does not take *bleep!* so that she can influence me

Goldi

Ntaksay

Goldi
03 Sep 2013 12:29

what are the reasons you wana meet me and Ntaks BK?

Ntaksay
03 Sep 2013 12:34

I would like to meet all of you, you all make me proud to be a member of this family.

Who knew: there are towns where marriage laws hold that you can't sleep naked next to your spouse, where mistreating your mother-in-law means grounds for divorce, and where a wife must ask permission from her husband before wearing false teeth.

Kandyfloss
03 Sep 2013 12:45

As for the whole bunch of girls all of you.. Goldi just for her naughty ways. Mimi she got a charm such a strong character. I admire her.

Ntaksay
03 Sep 2013 12:47

The best I can do is give three reasons with people(not sure of the number) I would like to meet

1. Honest & Straight to the point- Yoyo, Goldi, UncleVusi, Portcia, BK

2. Shumble like a duka & strongest- Nomdakazan,

3. No-nonsense kinda person- Mims

Mimibob
03 Sep 2013 13:26

Lolling at the no nonsense comments. I now know why I've been single for so long, and some things are currently trying my patience. Thank you Kandy. I'll keep strong. BK, I'd just like to sit with you, listen to your stories and laugh!

NoMdazB
03 Sep 2013 13:46

When I'm bored I like to imagine what you guys look like and how old you are.
Bhut Vusi: 50s
Mims: 29
Goldi: 30
Ntaksay: 30
Bk: 32
Yoyozz: 23
Portcia: 29
Zioness: 26
Kandy: 28
Keratile: 31
Pastry: 31
2012: 25
Riyat: 32
Nunumsi: 28

Kandyfloss
03 Sep 2013 13:55

Nomdakazane am going to wring your NECK.. Am 34. Do my posts make me thaaaat young. Ke fra.

NoMdazB
03 Sep 2013 13:58

I'm sorry, you are young at heart. How's that? I hope I'm forgiven.

Mimibob
03 Sep 2013 13:59

@Nomd, I'm not good at guessing people's age, so I will not even try. Still waiting for answer to my question..

Kandyfloss
03 Sep 2013 14:01

You are not forgiven..lol

NoMdazB
03 Sep 2013 14:08

Well the first two would be you and you hubby Bra Vusi since we keep such inconvenient blogging hours. I think we need therapy. Of course BK, she cracks me up with her stories. Goldi because she's so warm and motherly. I would definately want Ntaksay to acccompany me to church and teach me a thing or two. Portc, Keratile, Zioness, Pastry, Riyat and Kandy for a lunch or some get together (but there has to be naughtyness). Yoyozz so that ndizomyala (give her a talking to)- come to think of it , 2012 too.

Ntaksay
03 Sep 2013 14:17

I'm actually 27 @NoMdazB and I think you are 30+

NoMdazB
03 Sep 2013 14:20

Well Ntaksay, you are very mature for your age and I'm sure I'm not the first person to say that. I'm 32.

VusiK
03 Sep 2013 14:32

What Wisdom?

What Humour?

50s?

are you certain your imaginings are about me.

I am nothing like you imagine.
...
I suppose you also imagine I have a pot belly and slightly balding.

Ningijwayela kabi !

NoMdazB
03 Sep 2013 14:35

Bra Vusi you have the wisdom of someone who's lived a long and eventful life. You are probably very grumpy but also really rather sweet to those close to you. POTBELLY? I THINK NOT ! You probably have a treadmill next to your computers.

Mimibob
03 Sep 2013 14:36

@Nomd, I thought you were a bit older. You are mature. I think you have some naughtiness to you. You are a strong character, wise and intelligent, and I'd enjoy your company. The question I was referring to is why you are afraid to meet bhuti.

NoMdazB
03 Sep 2013 14:37

You also refer to yourself as being an older gentleman. You couldn't possibly have amassed so many ex wives in your 40s, could you?

Mimibob
03 Sep 2013 14:39

Hehee... Nomd, I'll add brave to my list on you.

@2012
03 Sep 2013 14:45

helo family....how are you all??? see u are keepin all good good

..........eish m far away i cant watch tv & the internet 2 is a problem where i am....work has thrown me deep in the land of nature.....but i am all good

@nomdazB......kis...kis...kis.....u got mine correctly dear.,...u are a good guess...mmm.......even others u were close

NoMdazB
03 Sep 2013 14:46

Because Mims, he sounds grumpy and I've talked a lot of smack about him, to him. So I would be embarrassed to face him, and uhleli engazude andibethe ( he won't hit me) *saying all of this with my hands resting firmly on my hips*.
Besides, he'll have to forgive me because I'm so lovable. *Smiling*.
Right Mr Kunene?

Bk212303
03 Sep 2013 14:46

Nomdakazana good guessing I am 32.
I would like to meet with you though cause i c we have common things....makoti wise im sure we wont stop to talk when we do meet sometime.

Mimibob i like the fact fact that you have a strong sense of humour but hey inoncence i can see u dont take.

VusiK
03 Sep 2013 14:46

lol!

I am flattered by the wisdom (I am yet to witness)

Grumpy ... yes, most definitely.

You are correct about the treadmill though..

And about being dear to my loved ones !

Yes; ex wives a-plenty Sisi. (want one?)

Definitely older than 20

Mimibob
03 Sep 2013 14:49

Goldi warm and motherly! The girl is plain crazzzyyy! That's why I'd like to meet her.

Mimibob
03 Sep 2013 14:59

Nomd, Keratile has a 20 year old son, so I doubt she s 31.

Goldi
03 Sep 2013 15:05

Haaibo MimiK Nomd just discribed me as i am crazyyyyy yes i've got my days hey remember 1 thing about me i've got 2 personalities hey so yes that's me babe, Nomd mina i'm still very young @ heart my most of my sister's friends like to hang out with me that's how warm i am sweets so she's right

just like Posh said i'm a very spirit babe tell it like it is hey, Nomd when you and i meet sweets we gona have heavy discussions no manga manga there, strong and sweet that's you

How many ex wife's you have kante Vusi?

VusiK
03 Sep 2013 15:10

@Goldi I have enough ex wives to know never to get another one.

and stupid enough to consider having "one for the road".

Ntaksay
03 Sep 2013 15:27

Statements about lie are true to the core ...
Telling a lie is a sin for a child...
Fault for an adult...
An art for a lover...
A profession for a lawyer...
A requirement for a politician...
A Management tool for a Boss...
An accomplishment for a bachelor...
An excuse for a subordinate and...
A Matter of Survival for a married man.

Goldi
03 Sep 2013 15:35

OK Mr K I hear you....

heheheheheh Ntaksay i sure believe number last works seen that, number 4 is most deff

VusiK
03 Sep 2013 15:54

Type Illuminati in reverse into google and click search, then click the link

Mimibob
03 Sep 2013 15:58

@ BK, yah, I laugh at everything. People who don't know me say I'm too "serious" though. I was once speed trapped driving to Joburg. I was doing 140km/hr on a 60km area. I didn't see the cops. All the three actually came onto the road and I thought they were just pedestrians and passed. My friends had to scream at me to stop. I screeched the car to a halt and reversed. When I got to the cops all I could do was laugh. I asked what my charge was and was told I was being arrested. I laughed some more. They were just amazed and told me to go, and that I should drive properly. They were even just smiling at me.

Dhee
03 Sep 2013 16:09

Nine words women use...

1.) Fine : This is the word women use to end an argument when they are
right and you need to shut up.

2.) Five Minutes : If she is getting dressed, this means a half an hour.
Five minutes is only five minutes if you have just been given five more
minutes to watch the game before helping around the house.

3.) Nothing : This is the calm before the storm. This means something,
and you should be on your toes. Arguments that begin with nothing
usually end in fine.

4.) Go Ahead : This is a dare, not permission. Don't Do It!

5.) Loud Sigh : This is actually a word, but is a non-verbal statement
often misunderstood by men. A loud sigh means she thinks you are an
idiot and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here and arguing
with you about nothing. (Refer back to 3 for the meaning of nothing.)

6.) That's Okay : This is one of the most dangerous statements a women
can make to a man. That's okay means she wants to think long and hard
before deciding how and when you will pay for your mistake.

7.) Thanks : A woman is thanking you, do not question, or Faint. Just say
you're welcome.

8.) Whatever : Is a women's way of saying F*** YOU!

9.) Don't worry about it, I got it: Another dangerous statement, meaning
this is something that a woman has told a man to do several times, but
is now doing it herself. This will later result in a man asking 'What's
wrong?' For the woman's response refer to 3

portcia
03 Sep 2013 16:20

Nomdazb, you are right dear im 29, when i asked my collegue to see what you think of other peoples age, she said, does she know you?

Ntaksay
03 Sep 2013 16:25

Bye everyone

Ntaksay
03 Sep 2013 16:30

Wow Nomd you must be good at guessing
Who else did NoMd get right. or are you one of those ladies who hide their ages? LOL

Have a very good evening

howpiey
03 Sep 2013 17:20

where is sbusiso. Generations is boring without him!

Mimibob
04 Sep 2013 04:47

Goodness I didn't realize what time it was and I'm not even feeling sleepy! I have to be up by 6am but I haven been to bed yet!

NoMdazB
04 Sep 2013 07:08

Like I said yesterday Mims, therapy. Morning everyone.

Mimibob
04 Sep 2013 07:59

Yah, I agree Nomd. Good morning. I'm up and bright. :)

Ntaksay
04 Sep 2013 08:22

I have to be up by 6am but I haven been to bed yet!
@Mims does that mean you didn't sleep at all????????

Good morning my favourite family

Goldi
04 Sep 2013 08:31

Morning Family

Wow Nomd you must be good at guessing
Who else did NoMd get right. or are you one of those ladies who hide their ages? LOL i'm not sweet cheeks she got mine wrong i'm 34yrs my darling Nomd

B2G: i feel so sorry for Dinny hey, do you guys think that MJ is over Granny Khethiwe i wonder if he truly loves Bella *which i think he does* cos shem she (Bella) does love him (MJ)poor girl, as for Akhona no comment

Bk212303
04 Sep 2013 08:32

Happy secretary day to all secretaries including myself.

Bk212303
04 Sep 2013 08:35

Hayi u Akhona why did she sit on the couch with open legs my hubby was like what the hell is she up to.

Ntaksay
04 Sep 2013 08:37

I feel sorry for Dinny but this divorce is for the best, otherwise they will end up hating each other looking at the way things are happening.

Ntaksay
04 Sep 2013 08:39

She can open her legs from one side of the couch to another but Shaun is not interested. I think she is trying to make Nick jealous.

Kandyfloss
04 Sep 2013 08:41

Is it poor Dinny or Poor Ruby. Ruby is so obsessed with that marriage like her life depend on it. If i were Choppa i would have asked same question.. I lolled when Cat-face aka Bella gave Granny attitude. Mornin mornin family

Kandyfloss
04 Sep 2013 08:43

Is it poor Dinny or Poor Ruby. Ruby is so obsessed with that marriage like her life depend on it. If i were Choppa i would have asked same question.. I lolled when Cat-face aka Bella gave Granny attitude. Mornin mornin family

portcia
04 Sep 2013 09:42

Good morning everyone, and a happy secretary day to all the secretaries in this house, i just got myself some beautiful flowers and a box of chocolates, for the secretaries day, what about you Bk?

Mimibob
04 Sep 2013 09:51

@Ntaks, I slept at 5am and awoke at 6.30am. And feeling ok. Most things are mental. I've conditioned my mind well. Exhaustion may come ya, but right now ke sharpo. Happy Secretaries Day @ BK. Enjoy the day.

Bk212303
04 Sep 2013 09:54

portcia im on my bosses case im not spending a cent on me he must make a plan ccza. He said we all going out tommorow to make up for today.

Bk212303
04 Sep 2013 09:57

guestbook!

whatsup im behind???

Goldi
04 Sep 2013 10:02

She can open her legs from one side of the couch to another but Shaun is not interested. I think she is trying to make Nick jealous. she is darling and its working cos Nicky boy is not @ all impressed

i dont know what you on about BK i dont use that mina *guestbook*

I agree with you Ntaks this divorce is for the best

Ntaksay
04 Sep 2013 10:04

I'd never survive the day if I were to sleep for an hour an a half..

Wow Posh, I also got nothing, last year our boss took all the admin staff to lunch but this year not even an email to say happy SECRETARY'S day.

Kandyfloss
04 Sep 2013 10:09

Happy day to all of you Ntaks, Posh and Bk. Haibo its to early to conclude no one is doing anything wena Ntaks..

Kandyfloss
04 Sep 2013 10:10

Happy day to all of you Ntaks, Posh and Bk. Haibo its to early to conclude no one is doing anything wena Ntaks..

portcia
04 Sep 2013 10:16

Sorry Ntaks, last year our financial mananger took all the ladies for lunch, but now she bought the flowers and chocolates, for just the secretaries.

I also think that this divorce is for the best, between a cheating husband and an abusive wife, things couldnt get better, so Dineo must just forget about this and move on, tough though.

Mimibob
04 Sep 2013 10:17

Like I said Ntaks, it's all in the mind. My mind and body are well rested. I actually love sleep, despite sleeping late almost every night.

Mimibob
04 Sep 2013 10:30

BTW, @ Nomd, I'm in my 30s.

Bk212303
04 Sep 2013 10:32

i dont know what you on about BK i dont use that mina *guestbook*

@Mimibob can you explain???

Ntaksay
04 Sep 2013 10:41

Thanks
Kandy

Loveforever
04 Sep 2013 10:43

Morning to everyone in the house.

For the time in the past four years my bosses forgot this day.Me and my lady colleague are so angry. But aleast they apologised and said they would sort it out, and to think We organised a hunting trip for them 2 weeks back, Eish.

We normally get a half day, a bunch of beautiful flowers and my favourite, a shopping voucher. So i am waiting...

Mimibob
04 Sep 2013 10:49

What do you want me to explain BK?

Goldi
04 Sep 2013 10:55

I see you are 1 of "dose ladies* who dont give away their age *smirk* MimiK

Enyoy ladies

Mimibob
04 Sep 2013 11:01

Lol... Goldi. I don't have issues revealing my age. I'm just surprised you are older than me. Thought you were younger, or my age.

snonozawami
04 Sep 2013 11:01

VusiK
04 Sep 2013 11:07

Your Guestbook is on your profile page ... extreme last tab on the right where people just go and say "Hello"

VusiK
04 Sep 2013 11:07

Happy Secretaries

snonozawami
04 Sep 2013 11:08

Ah, Generubbish! Can't Mfundi come up with something better? Uyati nje as I was watching the early episodes of Generations for their anniversary special, I noticed the glaring difference in the story lines. But-ke it's easier to criticise when you are not the script writer, maybe I should just cut Mfundi some slack.

Bk212303
04 Sep 2013 11:17

Mimibob the guestbook..

Bk212303
04 Sep 2013 11:19

Oh got it thanx malum Vusi

Bk212303
04 Sep 2013 11:22

Oh to think about it im gonna tell my boss to swap the day for the outing to Friday then we dont have to come back to the office i just hope he says ok.

Malum Vusi do you have a Secretary if yes what are u planning for today.?

VusiK
04 Sep 2013 11:35

Unfortunately I do not have a secretary

I have P.A.s, ... They have secretaries

Goldi
04 Sep 2013 11:37

Sounds like that to me Mims hihihihihii askies darling all i know is i dnt look and feel my age *fancyself* i look younger *wink*

Wish i could upload my pic just for MimiK *thinking out loud* hahahahahaha

Bk212303
04 Sep 2013 11:38

PAssssssssss uncle?

MsKim
04 Sep 2013 11:41

good morning All. jus thot i'd come n say hi **waving**.

work is hectic these days.

VusiK
04 Sep 2013 11:44

Yes ...
Plural

@2012
04 Sep 2013 11:45

helo people

i c i am missin out. will only be able 2 watch end of the month....so little dinny is summoned with a divorce...tjo!!! its the best ....that marriage was never built from scrach.....

AKNONA......She can open her legs from one side of the couch to another but Shaun is not interested. I think she is trying to make Nick jealous. she is darling and its working cos Nicky boy is not @ all impressed...is she opening her legs for shaun the IT guru who once set her up...or a new 1??? i c m misn...tjo!!.....>>>>so she is opening them 4 what?? so shaun can have the golden fruit????

BlessingBee
04 Sep 2013 11:45

Khetsiwe please get a life and leave Isabel alone

Mimibob
04 Sep 2013 11:47

You can email the pic Goldi. I picture a light skinned, beautiful lady with a tiny behind... I sometimes forget my age and actually think I'm older - a year older. I had to calculate the other day. I'm really aging. Lack of "enough" sleep is now taking its toll on me. Ke a otsela! If my reasons for staying up late were work related, I'd go home right now, sleep and wake up tomorrow. So much for preaching about stuff being mental...

MsKim
04 Sep 2013 11:49

@ Snonoz maybe I should just cut Mfundi some slack. please do, these days he's trying tho.

@2012
04 Sep 2013 11:53

helo people

i c i am missin out. will only be able 2 watch end of the month....so little dinny is summoned with a divorce...tjo!!! its the best ....that marriage was never built from scrach.....

AKNONA......She can open her legs from one side of the couch to another but Shaun is not interested. I think she is trying to make Nick jealous. she is darling and its working cos Nicky boy is not @ all impressed...is she opening her legs for shaun the IT guru who once set her up...or a new 1??? i c m misn...tjo!!.....>>>>so she is opening them 4 what?? so shaun can have the golden fruit????

@2012
04 Sep 2013 11:54

helo people

i c i am missin out. will only be able 2 watch end of the month....so little dinny is summoned with a divorce...tjo!!! its the best ....that marriage was never built from scrach.....

AKNONA......She can open her legs from one side of the couch to another but Shaun is not interested. I think she is trying to make Nick jealous. she is darling and its working cos Nicky boy is not @ all impressed...is she opening her legs for shaun the IT guru who once set her up...or a new 1??? i c m misn... tjo!!.....>>>>so she is opening them 4 what?? so shaun can have the golden fruit????

Goldi
04 Sep 2013 12:01

@2012 i know you miss us boo but please just lay of that enter button GEEEEZZZZ woman

lol Mims will do *wink* get yourelf some Red bull and try to sleep @ night *thinkin* i wonder what's keeping her cos she's in a long distance relationship*

is she opening her legs for shaun the IT guru who once set her up...or a new 1??? the one n only

VusiK
04 Sep 2013 12:05

You can email the pic Goldi. I picture a light skinned, beautiful lady with a tiny behind...

Yes Please ... Make it two !

Goldi
04 Sep 2013 12:09

Yes Please ... Make it two ! make what two??

it's done Mimis and yes i have a tiny behind that's why i like to say i'm sitting my tiny ass down hihihihihihihihii

VusiK
04 Sep 2013 12:11

Ask Mimibob!

:-)

Mimibob
04 Sep 2013 12:12

The long distance guy could have been keeping me Goldi... There s technology...

Mimibob
04 Sep 2013 12:13

And maybe he had come over...

Bk212303
04 Sep 2013 12:13

Hayi ke seriously Mimza why were u awake the whole nite ......if it was not work then........? hey my mind is not rite kodwa

Mimibob
04 Sep 2013 12:17

@Goldi, pretty lady. Looks calm. @ BK, Lol...

Bk212303
04 Sep 2013 12:17

Oh is it Mimza

@2012
04 Sep 2013 12:19

askis goldi....i wl

Mimibob
04 Sep 2013 12:24

@ BK, No, it isn't. I was just saying...

Goldi
04 Sep 2013 12:39

that's me darling Mims :) cool calm and collected did you see my man next to me?

Yes Please ... Make it two ! make what two??

Ask Mimibob! Mimibob please answer

Bk212303
04 Sep 2013 12:39

@Mimza ok ke dear i hear you..

Bk212303
04 Sep 2013 12:41

Goldi make two or what what i think he is seconding Mimza on that pic.

Mimibob
04 Sep 2013 12:41

Before your crazy mind wonders BK, I watched tv till very late then read some interesting stuff, so lost track of time. I see a bit of my beau in Idols judge Randall, so I watched for sometime, then some other stuff...

Bk212303
04 Sep 2013 12:44

Hahahahahahah @Mimza I also want to c Goldi can i pip plzzzzzzzzzzzz

Goldi
04 Sep 2013 12:54

haai wena you see me njalo ko What's App mos? ngisho wena njalo BK

*WAINTING FOR MIMIBOB TO ANSWER ME*

portcia
04 Sep 2013 12:56

Yoh Goldi, pls send me your pic, please..... i always thought you were those kind of ladies who have a lot of meat on their bones portcia.ramothopa@augustgeneral.co.za

Mimibob
04 Sep 2013 13:03

I choose not to answer Goldi. I'm distancing myself from that one. :)

Bk212303
04 Sep 2013 13:03

Kwaaaaaaaaaak was just playing ccza hahahaahah

Mimibob
04 Sep 2013 13:06

@ Goldi, yah, your man is a hottie..

Goldi
04 Sep 2013 13:22

I refuse to do so Posh until we meet face to face *sticking tongue out* haaibo MimiK why now *frawning*

Vusi where are you?? *looking left and right*

i love him so much MimiK *wink*

VusiK
04 Sep 2013 13:32

I am distancing myself from all of this also.

Goldi
04 Sep 2013 13:42

OK!!

Bk212303
04 Sep 2013 13:48

Kwaaaaaak no comment

Mimibob
04 Sep 2013 13:52

I'm happy for you Goldi. Treat him good.

Goldi
04 Sep 2013 13:56

Your meaning of your laugh BK? *serious face* Sure Mims

Mimibob
04 Sep 2013 14:04

But seriously Goldi, there is no one else apart from you in the pic you sent.. Unless you were joking.. And last I checked you were single... What are you keeping from me?? Out with it girl.

Bk212303
04 Sep 2013 14:08

serious face all u want ccza no comment.......it only be me and my wild thinking mind..

Bk212303
04 Sep 2013 14:08

Wena Goldi u must just answer Mimza

Mimibob
04 Sep 2013 14:12

We are an open family BK, do share your wild thinking.

portcia
04 Sep 2013 14:21

Okay Goldi, ho sharp.

Goldi
04 Sep 2013 14:41

i'm not answering SHIT yes i'm shouting who cares?? I DONT

Bk212303
04 Sep 2013 15:05

I know Mimza i know my dear friend, its just that it is tooooo wild im scared.

Hey Goldi u will ANSWER NOOOW..... im gonna ask again slowly... are- u -not- single- anymore??

Ntaksay
04 Sep 2013 15:08

I'm missing out neh!!
Please share the photo GOLDI

Ntaksay
04 Sep 2013 15:09

Since I'm in KZN and not Gauteng,
When you meet ladies, can you kindly take a photo of yourselves and email to me.
Pleeeeeaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaase!!!!!!!!!!!!

Mimibob
04 Sep 2013 15:10

Heelang! And then wena Goldi??

verify
04 Sep 2013 15:11

Molweni!!

Bk212303
04 Sep 2013 15:13

Yo x whom u dated for a while is suddenly gay or lesbian. Whom u loved sooo dearly. Ungayithatha njani lonto ndiyabuza nje...how would u take that????? talk to me

Bk212303
04 Sep 2013 15:14

Im sorru if there are gay or lesbians in the house didnt meant to offend you.

Ntaksay
04 Sep 2013 15:14

Goldi Wednesday, September 04, 2013 14:41 PM
i'm not answering *bleep!* yes i'm shouting who cares?? I DONT

Who pissed you off Goldi?????????????????????????????????????

Mimibob
04 Sep 2013 15:35

@ BK, lol... I'd probably find it funny. I'd be concerned if it were my current. Fortunately, I know his preferences.

Bk212303
04 Sep 2013 15:49

Remember you catch him or her in the act kwaaaaaaaaaa..........

Goldi
04 Sep 2013 15:50

Ntaks ke Mimibob le Vusi i mean i ask a q the next thing they dont wana answer banketsa stlaela mxxxxxxxm *SULKING*

There's only me in the photo holding a bottle of Red Square i thought Mims catched on gore i'm talking about the bottle not the man ka sebele so ya so wena BK *giving you vuil look* i'm still single babe

Thanks for asking me Ntaks i feel better now that i told you *smiling* dont worry babes wen we meet we gona take lots and lots of pics hey

Mimibob
04 Sep 2013 16:03

Aaah Goldi my sweets, sorry tlhemma. Didn't mean to upset or hurt you in any way. Forgive us tlhe lala. *Hugs*.

Mimibob
04 Sep 2013 16:07

@BK, lol... I'll never catch my man like that. He respects me and what we have. Well, if its an ex, it's his life. I know I may sound stupid or naive on my beau, but I honestly trust him like that. No shadow of doubt.

Ntaksay
04 Sep 2013 16:17

Will Dineo resort to desperate measures to get her hands on a baby?
Phenyo makes it clear he’s only sticking around for the baby

INTERESTING

Mimibob
04 Sep 2013 16:20

@ Goldi, lolling at "Ke Mimibob ke Vusi...". I can picture your sulky face, looking like a child being bullied by older siblings... Hahahaaa... No offense dear, just couldn't help it.

Bk212303
04 Sep 2013 16:24

You never know Mimza things happen......byeeeeeee

Bk212303
04 Sep 2013 16:25

My mind is running wild again imagine you hear ahaa ah ah and walaaaaa yr man behind another man kwaak sosrryyyy let me go now cya

Goldi
04 Sep 2013 16:25

Aaah Goldi my sweets, sorry tlhemma. Didn't mean to upset or hurt you in any way. Forgive us tlhe lala. *Hugs*. Apology accepted

Honestly speaking I was really HURT hey but i'm fine now *moving along*

i'm out of here let's meet later @ 3 towers family

laters xxx

Ntaksay
04 Sep 2013 16:30

Bye ladies and gents

Mimibob
04 Sep 2013 17:46

Ok BK, we are over stepping boundaries now. Respect on my man tu! I discuss him within the confines of my comfort. Respect that. Good night all.

Goldi
04 Sep 2013 20:34

Lol Mims you should have seen my face and poutin' while typing kwaaa haai ya ne!! Good night Guys

portcia
05 Sep 2013 07:52

Good morning everyone, how will Dineo get her hands on baby Ntaksay, as Phenyo said he will only stick around for baby, or is she pregnant? couse i dont see her sleeping with Phenyo anytime soon.

Goldi
05 Sep 2013 08:43

Morning every1 Happy Thursday

well i think she's gona say she's pregies after that night before Phenyo asked for Divorce dont know

hehehehehhehe i was loling last night wen MJ was telling Granny Khethiwe that she's not he's type kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa, she's just been bitchy wen she keeps on saying Bella's being Childish she's a child blah blah blah but it wasnt so hard for her to have SEX with a kid mxxxxxm typical HORNY GRANNY

Nunumsi
05 Sep 2013 08:49

Oh I'm inlove with Jason Malinga wish I can meet him one day and he can notice me & talk to me 'hiding'

Bk212303
05 Sep 2013 09:13

Ok BK, we are over stepping boundaries now. Respect on my man tu! I discuss him within the confines of my comfort. Respect that. Good night all.

Morning all.

Back to Mimza's response ccza i was not talking about yr man, If you remember i said we must come up with a topic and i came up with the topic of Lesbian or gay and i even said i did not mean to offend anyone with the topic. and i carried on with my topic and gave it some spices when i said...." you catch him in the act" and i did not mean You Mimza specifically. It was just a topic not that i meant to offend any of you and im sorry if you thought i meant yr man. I am so sooorry Mimibob. I wouldnt even know where to start to disrepect yr bf.

Mimibob
05 Sep 2013 09:23

Ok BK. noted.

Bk212303
05 Sep 2013 09:42

Ok ke dear im glad we are clear.

Now i am so angry seriously i cant even concentrate i will tell you what happened or has been happening and i need advise on this one plzzzzzz

Goldi
05 Sep 2013 10:23

*patiently waiting for BK* woooooooooooosaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa nana

Mimibob
05 Sep 2013 10:50

Impatiently waiting BK... *Tapping my foot on the floor*

portcia
05 Sep 2013 10:57

Yoh i wonder what is going to happen between Mj and Khethiwe when they go to Namibia, for that tender, another patapata, then blame it on booze.

portcia
05 Sep 2013 10:59

Yoh, Bk we are all waiting for you cc, so come out here, asikhulume.

Ntaksay
05 Sep 2013 11:05

Morning everyone

Bk we are waiting. I'm leaving at 12:30, hope you will post something before I go.

Goldi
05 Sep 2013 11:09

MimiK isnt your foot sore darling? i mean all that tapping shuuuuuuu......BK uphi kanti hawuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu *losing my patience*

Mimibob
05 Sep 2013 11:18

Lol @ Ntaks... Nithand' indaba! @ Goldi, BK will massage my foot while you guys give the advice she needs.

Pastry
05 Sep 2013 12:07

Good day everyone

Yhooo i see i missed out a lot cant even bring myself to catch up and read everything. Its been hectic and testing for me but hey...still firmly standing.

Would love to meet NoMdazB, Mimibob and Goldi...i have no doubt that one can only grow more wiser and stronger around this three women. Very courageous and level headed.

BTW...i just turned 35 though most people literally think am 25. Thats because of my structure, flawless skin and size 30 figure...until they speak with me and realise am actually older.

I love a whole bunch of you here Thixo...for me its a blessing to just easily talk with you on cyberspace like this. I have no actual close friends in my life.

Mimibob
05 Sep 2013 12:27

Thank you Pastry, and Happy Birthday. (Or belated if it wasn't today).

Ntaksay
05 Sep 2013 12:35

Byw

Pastry
05 Sep 2013 12:47

Thanks Mims...it was a month ago 5th Aug. Eish wa bona smart people will figure me out now!

What happened to Green.arrow bathong

Goldi
05 Sep 2013 12:51

Happy belated birthday Pastry hope you had a good time

Would love to meet NoMdazB, Mimibob and Goldi...i have no doubt that one can only grow more wiser and stronger around this three women. Very courageous and level headed. thank you nana

verify
05 Sep 2013 13:55

Molweni nonke!

Mimibob
05 Sep 2013 14:05

Molo Verify.

Mimibob
05 Sep 2013 14:11

BK, uright sisi?

Deemo
05 Sep 2013 14:36

hello everyone,was just catching up on yo comments ooooh it took me the whole day hey,thank u family for keeping the house warm @pastry i think green arrow is around was wth her @the big bratha africa blog i wld like to meet ,goldi,goldie,mimi,bk ,nomdaz,pastry,yoyoz and impondokazi if u stll rememba her

Deemo
05 Sep 2013 14:39

hello everyone,was just catching up on yo comments ooooh it took me the whole day hey,thank u family for keeping the house warm @pastry i think green arrow is around was wth her @the big bratha africa blog i wld like to meet ,goldi,goldie,mimi,bk ,nomdaz,pastry,yoyoz and impondokazi if u stll rememba her

Mimibob
05 Sep 2013 15:08

@ Deemo, I wonder where Impondo is. She used to be like the mother of the house, and was good with updates. Anyone knows where she is? I was just thinking the other day that something tragic (God forbid) could happen to one of us and we never get to know.

Kandyfloss
05 Sep 2013 15:15

Uhu! Still no Bk.. Afternoon everyone

Goldi
05 Sep 2013 15:19

Yhoo Mimis, hey Deemo lovie hows the lil one doing?

Hey Kandy baby

BK is reading this and laughing her ass off cos she knows that re bo maditaba hahahahahah eish!!

BK hope u right sisi

Bk212303
05 Sep 2013 15:26

kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaak
@all of youuuusssssss

Bk212303
05 Sep 2013 15:29

My boss took me out for the belated Secretary day and so he asked me where do i want to go so i SAID NDIRHALELA Spur ribs so yhaaaaaa

im so full now and im yawning and sos os

Want to ask how do you love ppl you dont even know but yet feels like you know them.......I JUST LOVE YOU GUYS YOU ARE THE BEST ..........EACH AND EVERYONE OF YOU IS SOOOOO SPECIAL TO ME....

Goldi
05 Sep 2013 15:46

see i told you guys mxxxxxm uyadika wena BK rha *narrow eyes* you and your bossssssss mmmmmmm

THANKS LALA WE LOVE YOU TOO

Mimibob
05 Sep 2013 15:52

Hugs BK. I trust you enjoyed the treat. I want to say something to you in Zulu but the words just won't go to my finger tips... Eish...

ZazoH
05 Sep 2013 15:59

Hi! everyone, loving the gen. family

Bk212303
05 Sep 2013 16:00

Plzzzz say it Mimza asseblief...... I just love you guys so much...even if im stressed i release my stress here and im fine after just few replies......Im so thankfull to God Almight for the day He made join the GEN group you the best guys.

Did you know that some of us in this family we never felt like the way i feel now with even our own families?

I just thought i should tell you even though i dont know yr faces but i feel good to tell so that there are not regrets......

Bk212303
05 Sep 2013 16:19

BK is reading this and laughing her ass off cos she knows that re bo maditaba hahahahahah eish!!

You c Goldi when i read this i bust into tears cause i was laughing so much think hey this knows me well

Pastry
05 Sep 2013 16:28

Thanks Goldi

Spur ribs / Spur spareribs / Spare ribs....lol nonetheless you must eat more of those BK, look at how bubbly you are!

Bye everyone...fetching my son!

Mimibob
05 Sep 2013 16:28

Hi ZazoH. BK, ngiyazama, kodwa ngiya hluleka... I'm not even sure where to space my words... I wanted to tell you ukuthi ungahlali with abantu abadala.. Hey, I need a proper tutor, Gens has done its part in teaching me. I just love this language!

Bk212303
05 Sep 2013 16:30

Byee for now enjoy yr evening

Mimibob
05 Sep 2013 17:06

That should read "ungadlali"...

Goldi
06 Sep 2013 08:36

morning my sweeet and loving family HAPPY CASUAL DAY lovies

BK is reading this and laughing her ass off cos she knows that re bo maditaba hahahahahah eish!!

You c Goldi when i read this i bust into tears cause i was laughing so much think hey this knows me well LOL I KNOWS YOU LALA *Trevor Noah's tone*

Granny Khethiwe is a cool dude now bhwaaaaaaaaaaaaa

eish Dinny mara wuuuuuuuu eeeeeeeee (the love triangle starts now)

@2012
06 Sep 2013 08:56

hello people....morning morning morning

i have the day to myself geez i can catch up on what has been happening. hope some darling will update me***goldi u can try please i see u enjoyed the drama yesterday***

Kandyfloss
06 Sep 2013 09:05

Mornin..family! Finally its friday. My boy 2yrs 3months started daycare on Monday. Its really hectic preparing so that i take him to school before 7.30am. Worst moment is waking him up. On tuesday i was even thinkin of withdrawing him. What do you think good people.

portcia
06 Sep 2013 09:15

Good morning my lovies, yoh Dineo i really loosing it, so she is going to blackmail Phenyo, and shame poor Isabel, she is so insecure.

Thabzy
06 Sep 2013 09:18

I think Sbusiso is MJ's father, whic is why Mawande left that letter.

Goldi
06 Sep 2013 09:35

shame poor Isabel, she is so insecure. that's why i will not stand for a cheating man i dont want to be insecure and becoming a nag and a psycho NEVER i refuse he's also stilling my happiness in the process *smh*

Kandy didnt know you have little pikinini @ the age of 2yrs? well darling you'll get used to it, one day @ the time i felt the same way but look @ me know *singing like Chris Brown* hahahahahha

Mimibob
06 Sep 2013 09:37

@Kandyfloss, lolling at withdrawing him. Some babies start going for Day Care when they are less than a year old. That's a big man ! Our longest serving house help never went to school because her father "loved her so much"... She didn't have to wake up early with the others, etc... Take that boy to school Kandy!

Kandyfloss
06 Sep 2013 09:51

Thanks ladies am feeling much better... Ya Mimi am serious i almost called my ex helper back.. @ Goldi ke motsetsi darling thats why am not active in dustin topics ke ilela ngwana.. Mimi will translate in case somebody does not understand.

verify
06 Sep 2013 10:21

Guys i keep on dreaming about my Ex, we broke up 4 years ago and it's not like i still have feelings for him am realy over him,i hate this coz am so happy with my current relationship....my collegues think am still inluv with him, but i really dont understand the way broke my heart during our relation ship.

Goldi
06 Sep 2013 10:22

Motsetsi????? *confused* ka ngwana wa 2yrs aowa Kandy gape motho o ke monna hahahahahahah, my boys went to day care after turning 1yr

Goldi
06 Sep 2013 10:35

Verify what kind of dreams?

Bk212303
06 Sep 2013 10:35

I wanted to tell you ukuthi ungadlali with abantu abadala..

I am also old tyhini.....hee this is xhosa wena not Zulu.

Anyway i wont mess ke plz forgive me

Back to Gen its just a matter of time before Isabell finds out that Mj lied again.

Bk212303
06 Sep 2013 10:38

Verify plzz we need verify the dreams so be clear what kind?

Ntaksay
06 Sep 2013 10:42

Good morning ladies and gents

Kandy take your child to school, you will both get used to it.

@verify, do you sometimes think about your ex, sometimes when you think a lot about something/someone you dream about it/them. What kind of dreams are you having. Good/bad times together. Do you compare your previous relationship with your current one?? this might cause your dreams about your ex.

OR
you still care about him but angry at him for breaking your heart, how did your relationship end???

Kandyfloss
06 Sep 2013 10:43

What Goldi... Some of us are disciplined.

Pastry
06 Sep 2013 10:44

Kandy...the ladies are right do get that big boy to go to school, both of you will get on with the routine after a few months. He needs the mental and physical stimulation. Go tla siama mme.

Verify...ehh and you have no idea what triggers those dreams?

Ntaksay
06 Sep 2013 10:48

Why is Akhona playing hide and sick with Nic she is obviously still in love with the dude, Shaun is such a fool not to notice that she is using him to make Nick jealous.

People who do you think is going to get the Botswan Mobile TV tender???? Are you:
team JASON

OR

team SCOTT

Mimibob
06 Sep 2013 10:51

@BK, lol... Xhosa? I was so sure it was Zulu. I only hear a lot of clicks in Xhosa.. Wandi would be speaking Xhosa and Sbusiso Zulu, so I guess I got these mixed up...

@2012
06 Sep 2013 11:04

Ntaksay
06 Sep 2013 11:07

I wanted to tell you ukuthi ungadlali with abantu abadala..

The above statement is both XHOSA AND ZULU

WHAT HAPPENED TO MULTI-LINGUAL BLOG???????? No one visits the blog any more, it was very helpful to some of us.

Ntaksay
06 Sep 2013 11:11

Hi @2012 You and your...................

Goldi
06 Sep 2013 11:30

What Goldi... Some of us are disciplined. a ke tlhologanye ausi

i'm Team JASON...........

Akhona mxxxxxm

Bella must just leave MJ this is not healthy for a relationship sorry

Kandyfloss
06 Sep 2013 11:36

I was learning zulu very well till my love for Jason got the best of me. Now am confusing zulu and xhosa. I enjoyed dumisani's xhosa.

Kandyfloss
06 Sep 2013 11:53

@ Goldi some of us are disciplined we take long re le batsetsi no dusting. was just joke...

Goldi
06 Sep 2013 12:03

i enjoy Wandi's Xhosa,..hahahahahahahahhaha iyoooo Kandy o ra gore ole VIRGIN heeee haike

Verify we waiting please tuuuuu it's friday we dont have the whole day

Mimibob
06 Sep 2013 12:08

I'm trying to learn writing the bit that I know, but my main challenge is spacing.. Sometimes spelling as well, especially with words like "tjela" or words like the "ce" in "Cele". I get confused as to whether I write "c", "q" or "x".. With spacing, Zulu seems to cluster words into one. Eg. English - I love you. Setswana - Ke a go rata. Zulu - ngiyakuthanda (one word)!

shero
06 Sep 2013 12:28

Generation pliz bring bek Thomas so that Dineo can have a shoulder to cry on,all i want is for Phenyo to suffer.AM TEAM MALINGA

portcia
06 Sep 2013 12:30

Im with team Jason

Guys i also did date a guy some years back, we broke up, we both wanted to end the relationship, we didnt become angry with each other and we both moved on with our lives, but i sometimes dream about him, either happy together or either him bein mad at me, and those dreams they just come naturally without me thinking about him, but i dont put them in my heart i just take them as just dreams.

@2012
06 Sep 2013 12:30

m with u goldi...m team jason...he knows how to make work..

>>>where is the long awaited topics 4 discussion.....today m just working in the office not outside so i have the whole day i was going 2 make my voice heard with responses since m misn on gen.

@2012
06 Sep 2013 12:32

hi ntaks....

Bk212303
06 Sep 2013 12:45

People advise plzzzz

You help someone to cross the bridge and when they crossed it they spit in yr face what must i do....get angry at them, greeet them, etc i need advise plz im gonna type the whole storry now now....

Im obviously Malingas team. Did u have to ask me that now......kwaaaak

Yabona ke i just love Wandis Xhosa yhoo

Bk212303
06 Sep 2013 12:49

Thats the topic today got it.....we will help each other on how do we go about if u helped someone and they spit in yr face......to easy the pain and let go...Forgiveness etc. Im so angrrrrry for now but i want to forgive its so dificult at the moment. Uncel Vusi upiiiiiiii buyaaa ngoku?

Bk212303
06 Sep 2013 13:08

Jason can c tru Scootty man and im afarid he is right againnnn......remember when he said he did not trust Penyo...walaaaaa

Ntaksay
06 Sep 2013 13:12

am also team Jason the guy knows his staff, like Senzo yesterday once he puts his mind on something he never stops until he gets it.

As for Scott he thinks everything revolves around him, I glad he exposed Manwhore but that's where it ends he can now go back to Botswana.

Bk212303
06 Sep 2013 13:13

Yes Ntaks

Ntaksay
06 Sep 2013 13:13

We are waiting for the story Bk

Bk212303
06 Sep 2013 13:14

Ok dear im on it

verify
06 Sep 2013 13:35

@2012
06 Sep 2013 13:43

bk21..... is the story that long...aowa....!! we have waited 7 waited....out with with story now...or u have disappeared like mzwanele

portcia
06 Sep 2013 13:52

Kwaaaaaaaaaak @2012, or u have disappeared like mzwanele.

Bk212303
06 Sep 2013 13:55

There is this girl who stays opposite my house, she is coloured and she stays with her brother and her 2 sons(6 and 11years). She was before married and left hubby due to abuse and he burnt all her belongings including id except for birth certificate of kids. So there is no social grant for the kids cause she doesnt have id. She and her brother smoke dagga and tikki etc button.

So now obviously there is no food no clothes for them kids. So what i did i would give food, bread and soap etc you know moss. If my sons clothes are small i pass it to them. December month i buy from Jet u know moss u get a lot of colourfull vest and shorts for litlle money cause im also struggling financially for them and maybe one jean. Hey i carried on doing this and i saw hey im not managing cause sunday i would give rice, maybe a tray of chicken or sausage to make full meal and veges etc every sunday ke.

So i decided that im gonna pay for her id (140) and she must apply for a new one. and thats exactly what i did. Now the challenge now is the druggs cause she will have excess to money so i said once the id is here im gonna give her money to go and apply for social grant and then we will open a savings account maybe at capitec bank so that we fix the money there for December and she agreed on this and said its a good idea. Now we got the id and she went to apply and we waited for the 3months and the due month is September 1st and walaaaaaaaaa

She got the money and i only here this from frnds the only thing i c in her house is a group going in and out. and i was like whats happening and no one knew and then i thought she will come and say i got it and now we can open the account.....but no nothing.... I saw her when i was passing and she said waving with her hand she will come and she never came.

The next day i went there myself and she said she will come and she never came and i sent my son and same thing she said and i knew what this meant.
I went there and i was so hurt by this and i said i will wait there for her and there were these women who smokes with her and obviously new faces.

I dont want to lie ppl i was pissed and dissapointed , angry at myself for being stupid thinking i can change someone etc.

I spoke to her on the road i didnt want them to know what i was saying to her.
I said GOD GIVES AND HE TAKES.........nad i said plzzzzz no matter what DO NOT BLAME HIM WHEN HE TAKES.

Meaning that God gave you me to support you and dont blame Him when he takes me away from you cause you will never ever c or have anything from me cause now this was yr chance to do rite for yr kids cause she was mesirable for the last 24months and now she got a chance in life and she blew it by smoking the money and if she thinks i will be there again i dont think thats possible.

God will punish me if i will help her again. I want to forgive her but yhoo its difficult my dear friends..... SO TELL ME IS IT WRONG OF ME TO FEEL THIS WAY???????

Bk212303
06 Sep 2013 14:07

Kwaaaaaaaaaak Mzwanele

SISI .....SISI....NDIM...UMZWANELE.....

Bk212303
06 Sep 2013 14:10

God works wonder i was just on facebook this is what i read now....after i posted the story to u guys...
wallaaaaaaaa

People always do that no matter what you do for them they will remain ungrateful.

Tequila IstrulyBlessed Johnson

Sometimes no matter what you do to please others they can still remain ungrateful for all you have done but no matter what still continue to do what GOD has placed in your heart to do & don’t worry about if man is pleased or not GOD will be please with you & HE is all that matters. People will use, abuse, hate & take your kindness for weakness FORGIVE them & keep it moving. Pleasing GOD is # 1. GOD gives us the feelings of anger but he also gives us the spirit to FOGIVE so do it. STAND on GOD’S word. (WHEN THE WICKED, EVEN MINE ENEMIES & MY FOES, CAME UPON ME TO EAT UP MY FLESH, THEY STUMBLED & FELL) PSALM 27:2 KJV

Unbelievable nhee...

Ntaksay
06 Sep 2013 14:23

I personally don't blame you Bk she is ungrateful. it's pity because she is spending her kid's money not hers. You can report her to Department of Social Development for this.

You have a good HEART sister not everyone would do what you have done for this woman.

Kandyfloss
06 Sep 2013 14:30

Shems @BK. You've done more than enough already. Move on and focus on more important things.. But I know this kind, she'll be back when her days are darker. Poor kids.

Kandyfloss
06 Sep 2013 14:31

Shems @BK. You've done more than enough already. Move on and focus on more important things.. But I know this kind, she'll be back when her days are darker. Poor kids.

Kandyfloss
06 Sep 2013 14:31

Shems @BK. You've done more than enough already. Move on and focus on more important things.. But I know this kind, she'll be back when her days are darker. Poor kids.

Mimibob
06 Sep 2013 14:33

@ BK, It's not wrong to feel that way. Just be glad that you could assist when and where you could. It's unfortunate that there are a lot of ungrateful people out there. I'm one compassionate person and would even give out my last money. People take advantage of me, sometimes I let them. I hear u say I don't take nonsense, but this is my weakness: saying no to someone who needs help. For some reason people think I have money so I get people asking me for it from everywhere; work, church, relatives, old friends, even people I just met. I feel terrible when I honestly do not have money to give them. I recently received a call from my village (I last went there 5 years ago at my gran's funeral", some old relative needed money. I was shocked at the call and the request. I didn't have money, but pieced together something and sent them. Some of the people I've assisted have thrown it back to my face.. So I can relate BK. I can't tell you whether to speak to her or not. I personally am not able to hold a grudge, so no matter how mad I get at someone, my soft heart always forgives them. But I would never give them money again.

Mimibob
06 Sep 2013 14:42

@ BK, I'm not sure how it works in SA, but can't you get them a social worker or someone to come talk the lady? I feel for the children.

Goldi
06 Sep 2013 14:44

God will never punish you lala i would be pissed and disappointed as well but hey dont crack you head over this KARMA is a bigger BITCH than US yes i said it somebody had to say it *Trevor Noah's voice*

Bk212303
06 Sep 2013 14:57

Eh Mimza now i know im not alone, you c that is exactly the same life im leaving in here. My friends takes advantage but i still give even if its my last. But guess what when im in a dark place im alone i dont why is that but not complaining, you see me the lady who took me as her child taught me well i must say. She made this amazing woman in me.

This woman i find out that she is also selling dagga and one day she saw police in her yard cause sometimes the police goes to search the house so she hid it in her sons school bag, and guess what she forgot it there and walaaaa the child took it to school and walaaa he is looking for a book and it fell out and teacher saw this and they promissed to bring social workers and cwaaaaka nothing.

You c me i can be very nasty or something dont have the word now...... i can get a social worker or police in that house but heeyyy who the hell am i to risk my families's life cause these ppl work with police....you c so i will just have to watch those kids suffer im soory...God knows why i dont tell the story and He knows i can do it cause ive it before with my hubby's brother when he used to bunk school to smoke in my house i made as if im going to work but went to speak to a seargent and told him whats happening in my house so they did something about it and i was free form all of s ....it.

In this case ill pass...........

Bk212303
06 Sep 2013 14:59

Remember if social workers budges in that house im the first suspect ......my son is only 9 years i think its a matter of choice ngoku...if i choose to act ill bare the consequences

Bk212303
06 Sep 2013 15:00

hahahaahahahahahh Goldi you killled me there kwaaaaaaaak

Bk212303
06 Sep 2013 15:06

I dont know i think i got too attached to this ppl man cause when it was her brothers b-day i made sure i did something to make it special and it was hers last month and she said she wants to sit in my house the whole day and thats what we did i cancelled everything to make it special. yhuuuu hayi shem Jesus must just come down ngoku ppl is messed up.

You should have seen me all those years when i was adopted i loved that woman who adopted and i still do. The respect i have for her cause i could eat, sleep on warm bed you know and i would thank God every nite for her cause she did everything out of love. I was also luck like this woman but she does not appreciate a thing.

Thats why i say i was sent to bring hpe in her life but now God is taking me away from all of this.

Bk212303
06 Sep 2013 15:08

Mimza one of my friends asked me for R60 airtime njeeee out of the blue u c what im saying.....just because i bought her airtime once when she was in hospital now .......i give up sukaa

Kandyfloss
06 Sep 2013 15:11

And we can all guess the kind of adults this kids will be.. Vicious circle..

Goldi
06 Sep 2013 15:18

*ohhh no no no no* my darling BK please dont die *sticking tongue out*

Have a lovely weekend everybody mina i'm out

laters xxx

Bk212303
06 Sep 2013 15:25

ahyi Goldi not now its still early haybo and im so bored mna just sitting around trying to make conversation but non of these man are interested.

After work im definately buying my self abazala ndi relaxe kwam
"stresfull week kum"

Bk212303
06 Sep 2013 15:26

Kandy are u a male????

Pastry
06 Sep 2013 15:27

Eish BK

People - Get and Forget
GOD - Give and Forgive

Wena sisi just forgive and move on! It was very noble of you to help out...GOD enabled you to and HE will never forget what you did!

@2012
06 Sep 2013 15:32

BK.....touching story indeed. Its not wrong to feel that way but BK remember @ 1st that u did all that 2 help the poor children & thats very good of u 4 trying 2 help them. God will reward u 4 that. U nid 2 4give her so that u cannot carry the anger with u all the time. This will also make u free inside.

Remember she got what she wanted so there is nothing u can do 2 make her 2 speak 2 u about whats happening like she did b4. The problem with her is just that she smokes drugs & its related stuff so its difficult 2 help such kind of people especially when it comes 2 saving money...She is happy 2 have got the money because she will now be able 2 afford her drug habit(I just feel sorry 4 her sons because the money that was supposed 2 take care of them will be used @ drugs).I so hope & pray that those sons are not being exposed 2 drugs. I dout she will change anytime soon when it comes 2 drugs....

She need counselling or rehabilitation so she can maybe leave drugs otherwise she will keep on saying 1 thing time & again like she will leave drugs & not leave them or she will open a saving a/c like u suggested & will not do when she has 2.

I hope tho that(God gives u the strength) if u have the means 2 u will help her sons like having something 2 eat(if they are hungry) since it seems all the money will be going 2 drugs. They are not the problems here.

Mimibob
06 Sep 2013 15:36

You are such a sweetheart BK. lolling at the airtime issue. Once you act out of pity, love, or whatever it is, to meet a need, they will remember you when they need money. I will be moved by a genuine need, but someone just coming to ask for airtime like that...! Thank God I'm a straight talker and don't mince my words. I have cousins like that. They now know I'm no option in their target list. My poor sister is the new target... Lol... They tried my parents and I told them not to even dare! One of them had the nerve to ask my brother in law for money, just after he and my sister got married.. I told him off nicely. People have no shame BK.

@2012
06 Sep 2013 15:36

good bye people & enjoy your week&.....

going 4 a game drive now.....enjoying life away from the city.

Bk212303
06 Sep 2013 16:25

wWhooooooo guys u reallly are something else you dont know how i feel now its like a wait over my shoulder has been lifted Thank you so much.

Mimza i just deleted that whatsup for airtime cause i just felt like its too much....yi advantage le.... Hye i wish though i can straight talk to some cause even with the airtime frnd i made up a funny story and didnt like just say it like maybe Mimza STRAIGHT TO THE POINT ..........kwaaaaak

Thank you again my lovely family you have a fabulous weekend will tell you what happens weekend Monday cause im definatelly speaking to ccza for the kids sake

Byeeee

Mimibob
06 Sep 2013 22:11

I'm reading something that really made me laugh! Living alone is not fun on days/nights like this.. Hahaa...

Mimibob
06 Sep 2013 22:23

I know I laugh at most things, but that was hilarious! Ok, I should go to bed or something before I go crazy... Talking to myself and laughing by myself. Nice weekend y'all.

khabzette
08 Sep 2013 15:04

I miss you guys sooo so much :(

portcia
09 Sep 2013 07:41

Morning everyone, so Dineo is preggies, yoh, i hope she get to keep this one

Deemo
09 Sep 2013 08:20

hello,everyone, hi portcia,have lovely monday

Goldi
09 Sep 2013 08:28

Morning caramel cakes and happy Monday to y"all

Posh she wont lala she's going to lose this one again and lie about it just to keep Phenyo, Deemo my sweety how have u been how's the baby?

@2012
09 Sep 2013 09:44

hello ever1........

@porcia how will she keeep it when phenyo will be leaving gens...will they want dineo 2 raise a baby without a father like herself....i do not want a baby without a father

Bk212303
09 Sep 2013 09:48

Morning all, yhoo its quiet today nhe.

Ntaksay
09 Sep 2013 09:48

Good morning people.

Deneo fall pregnant very easily, if only she could carry the baby to full term..........We are tired of these miscarriages. Mfundi must just let them divorce once and for all.
She will be stressed again with tea lady & manwhore's affair and *lose the baby*

Have a lovely day everyone!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!***********....................///////////////////////<*>

Pastry
09 Sep 2013 10:12

Morning everyone

Jaaa love neh...i remember when Phenyo 1st made a debut on Gen. How perfect Dineo was to him and how he betrayed his fiancee and disregard his mothers advices all in the name of what he thought was love.

Who would have thought their relationship whould be in such chaos!

Muhle10
09 Sep 2013 10:17

I think Dineo is not pregnant she did the test and there was one line and she is only pretending to keep Phenyo from leaving.

Muhle10
09 Sep 2013 10:20

Did I see thay part correctly or ???

Deemo
09 Sep 2013 10:23

@goldi im ok,we are all doin well,,ntaks n bk hw a u yu galz?

Ntaksay
09 Sep 2013 10:23

Can someone please help me with Zulu (What is a LECTURER in isiZulu?)
I urgently need to know.

Thanks in advance.

Ntaksay
09 Sep 2013 10:25

I also saw one line 2Muhle how many line means +????

Ntaksay
09 Sep 2013 10:34

But if I remember correctly Dinny never said she is pregnant, she did not answer when Phenyo asked her *whe Dineo ukhulelwa?* she just chased him out of the hotel room. Phenyo was just assuming because she vomited.

Ntaksay
09 Sep 2013 11:01

*whe Dineo ukhulelwa?* ukhulelwe (spelling error) my apologies

Bk212303
09 Sep 2013 11:07

Hii Deemo im ok and you?

Muhle10
09 Sep 2013 11:16

@ ntaksay There shld be 2 lines or one can be bold and the other a bit faint it means you are pregnant but one very bold like Dineo's it means negative. She didn't say that but I think she did that on purpose and she knws Phenyo will not leave her pregnant. One thing that I would like to understand though am. a silent blogger mainly on this forum but who abused who in the Phenyo and Dineo's marriage. It seems Dineo is the one being heaped with the abuse theme which I feel is unfair who abused who.

Goldi
09 Sep 2013 11:52

Dineo is the one who is ABUSING her hubby physically and emotionally

Phenyo cheated on her

Ntaksay
09 Sep 2013 11:59

Dinny has been very abusive towards his hubby, she could've handled the situation better than clapping, punching, pushing beating with high-heels, etc.
Phenyo did not play a good part at being a hubby to his wife he was too focused on proving himself to Sbusiso and then moving on to Thabitha it did not end there he went to Noluntu knowing his wife's insecurities and how his family disapprove of her. And not forgetting the baby saga.

This abuse goes in circles.

goldie
09 Sep 2013 12:27

Dumelang Baheso,

@Vusi, I went to the link of 2Think and jah, have nothing to say!

Thulanieveroptimistic
09 Sep 2013 13:02

Choppa is a manager i and a talent agent i think he can afford an aprtment of his own...

Vister0
09 Sep 2013 13:51

Aweee, new on the blog, hopefully that am welcomed!!!

@2012
09 Sep 2013 14:18

welcome 2 the gen & loving family Vister0.....make yourself @ home......*hug*. A u a lady or gentleman by the way?

@2012
09 Sep 2013 14:21

quet house today......whats up people........m still not back 2 my residence city so i keep on trying 2 update myself with your comments.....keep me in the space.......tuuu!!

Chelsea
09 Sep 2013 14:46

Dineo is lying....shes not pregnant

VusiK
09 Sep 2013 14:52

What is a LECTURER in isiZulu?

umfundisi (teacher)
also
Umhongi (leader)
among others...
depends on the application

sexy d
09 Sep 2013 14:53

Guys do u remember the part where akhona was shooting a video for shaun?did u see the cameramen?is it me or dat guy once acted in generations and died in an earoplane crash or sumthing. He worked at the advertising company that was in compeition with new horizon.....i think his surname was Langa...does anyone remember him?

khabzette
09 Sep 2013 15:10

Hey guys, yo! Its been aaaaages since i been here! I was trying to get rid of this mkhulu of a president we have in this country of mine, but well, i failed so now i am back to destress and relax! Missed yu guys. Just been going through the comments, SINCE LAST WEEK!!!! Hay ke seems i have been missing out. Hope you guys are well and blessed! What have you all been up to? Any babies? Weddings? Divorces? Kikikiki.

Goldi
09 Sep 2013 15:12

Hi Vister and welcome to are loving home question for you are you MALE or FAMALE? the house is always quiet come Monday and Fridays @2012

vuxy
09 Sep 2013 15:46

Nunumsi
09 Sep 2013 15:49

@Sexy D generations is celebrating it's ... years so we will see people who have acted before and there's a competition for spoting that actor and what role he played before

Ntaksay
09 Sep 2013 16:26

Thanks uncleVusi

I'm assisting a friend of mine she has to write a letter in Zulu but she can't speak Zulu. I'm also not 100%.

Ntaksay
09 Sep 2013 16:28

Bye everyone

Hopefully tomorrow will be a better and busy day.

Dream about a topic!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I will too.

Mimibob
09 Sep 2013 16:35

Lol Ntaks, I'd love to read the letter.. The blind leading the blind... Why does the friend HAVE to write the letter in Zulu?

Mimibob
09 Sep 2013 16:43

I always have a lot of topics. Remind me tomorrow. Im engaged most part of the morning - training then doctor. I dont want to think or remember now, not feeling too good. Good night.

Mimibob
09 Sep 2013 17:18

@ Vus, umfundisi sounds like moruti in Setswana, and we use that referring to Pastor, though it does pass for teacher (which is also a subset of Pastor). Lecturer would be morutintshi or motlhatlheledi (Ya, I'm deep like that). I do find SA Tswana too Englishinized though, especially in news.. Having words like mopresidente, mmasepala (sp), etc.

VusiK
09 Sep 2013 17:54

There is always google translate if you get stuck

sexy d
09 Sep 2013 20:20

@nunus and Taz guess dat is why dey jst showed us Martha khaphela ex in de gym yeah neh

portcia
10 Sep 2013 08:51

Good morning guys, yoh i cant believe that i have been so blind, i didnt realise the old characters yet, i think i must keep my eyes open, ya ne so Dineo will lie to keep phenyo, i hope all the truth will come out, so that the family can see that these two were not meant to be, i think thats where Ruby will go to Thlaole for help.

Goldi
10 Sep 2013 09:13

Good morning Family

Mims darling Goldi is reminding you of the HOT TOPIC you promised :), i also saw Khaphela's ex girlfriend the Yoga's instructor

i feel so sorry for Dinny but lying about being preggies will not end well shem she's needs help

Bk212303
10 Sep 2013 09:27

Morning all..

Bk212303
10 Sep 2013 10:31

i think its even more quiet today than izolo.... kanti bakuphi abantu la ekhaya

Goldi
10 Sep 2013 10:39

Yhoo this is scary kanti baphi abantu

Ntaksay
10 Sep 2013 11:16

Mims please feel better so that you can give us a HOT TOPIC like promised.

Hello everyone!!!!!!!!!!!

Ntaksay
10 Sep 2013 11:19

Lol Ntaks, I'd love to read the letter.. The blind leading the blind... Why does the friend HAVE to write the letter in Zulu?
One of her students is doing research on livestock and the Livestock Association she approached want a formal letter from the university in isiZulu.

Ntaksay
10 Sep 2013 11:25

I also saw Bra Khaps' friend, she also used to be Khethiwe's partner in Badges are us business.

Khethiwe & Mj can't keep their hands off each other. After the attack by Senzo if I were Khethiwe I'd play as far away from Mj as possible. Akhona also had her share of words for Khethi.

Shame Nicky boy is doing everything in his power to win his girl back. I don't understand why Akhona is playing hard to get.

pjvv
10 Sep 2013 12:01

I don't understand the reason behind Akhona's actions. Just silly nje.

MJ & Kethi have lust written all over them. I don't understand why MJ doesn't admit to Isabel that he wants it.

Dineo never vomited, amanga nje, she wanted to catch Phenyo's attention, coz on TV when someone has an upset stomach its pregnancy.

Mimibob
10 Sep 2013 12:05

Hi guys. At the doctor's. Did I say hot topic? Lol... The topics have somehow "disappeared". Talk about yourselves or someting. Let us know you. I'm just frustrated that everyone I meet is telling me how fat I am. I actuall had to lose some kgs last week because I couldn't fit properly into my jeans. One said I'm either getting married or pregnant.. Lol...

Goldi
10 Sep 2013 12:15

Khethiwe makes me SICK

Akhona no comment mxxxxm

Bk212303
10 Sep 2013 12:27

Hoow Mimza same problem here ppl is saying all funny things cause i gained wait sukaa

Ntaksay
10 Sep 2013 12:28

Some People gain when they are happy
Some when they are stressed they eat a lot and gain a lot of weight.
Pregnancy also makes you fat.
You don't gain before you wedding, you only gain after

Why are you gaining Mims it could be something I do not know about or one of the above
LOL

Ntaksay
10 Sep 2013 12:30

Mims the weight loss/gain could be our hot topic for today.

Tell us a story about your weight people, not only Mims. let us all share our stories.

pjvv
10 Sep 2013 12:44

This page has been giving me problems, I have been re-booting so many times. Ok, guys as for me I need your advice on how to tackle this issue that is brewing before me as I see its gonna be a disaster. Following up shortly..

laleli
10 Sep 2013 13:07

Last year April i was size 30 now i'm 34 going to 36
i think for me Depo is doing the damages i need help as well blogers

Pastry
10 Sep 2013 13:16

Heheheee laleli change to somethign else....but guys we need to consider our age as well dont we in terms of size!

@Mims...cant imagine you fat sesi, yhoo dont evn want to comment about windscreen (lol). I stick to my perfect imagination of you!

Am size 30/32 and hope to be 34 by next year this time...and oohh in good shape too (gape go nale shapeless slenders ehh)

Nunumsi
10 Sep 2013 13:18

You must start jogging ladies it's good for your health & lower the stress, just started last month & I feel good but I didn't do it to lose weight but to keep healthy & it has really helped me took away the stress

Ntaksay
10 Sep 2013 13:28

I used to be size 38-40 after I got my first daughter I lost so much weight, I went to a size 34. But now I'm 36 and happy.

Goldi
10 Sep 2013 13:37

shuuuuuu Mims i dont picture you o le fohloza well nna i'm a 30/32 but not in good shape ke nale Mkhaba i just dont know what to do i dont have time for Gym or jogging *sigh*

pjvv
10 Sep 2013 13:44

I have a cousin whom I consider an older sister, so she has been lonely and her hubby has been abusing her non stop. The hubby has moved in with another lady and left her with kids. To cut a long story short, my hubby has a friend who also doesn't have a partner so they both told me they looking for a partner, someone to jabula with but not a serious relationship. So I gave the guy my cousin number and told my cousin that there is someone who is looking for someone to date. These pipo were very specific that this will not result into something serious, they both came out of complicated and hurtful relationships.

Now my problem is the lady is taking this relationship seriously and wants to tell my hubby but I see the boyfriend is unhappy about it and my hubby will not like this. My cousin is talking about having kids and a ring on her finger. So what I did is I went to my hubby and asked why his friend is not married, he told me that his friend is not as loving as he pretends to be when around us, he is bossy towards his partner. I met 1 ex but I hear there is 2 others before her. My hubby told me that he is quick to move on.

how best to I tell my cousin not to hold her hopes too high and remind her she told me she doesn't want a serious relationship, I would love for her to raise her kids, becoz the new man will also come with his buggage and this will affect the kids. She is now behaving like a 16 yr old who is in love for the first time, I just want to tone her down without hurting her and you know us ladies, she might think I am jealous.

pjvv
10 Sep 2013 13:54

I am a 32/34 and am 37 yrs old. I guess am small build I don't like my mkhaba eish its poilind all the fun. I walk and have entered the walk for charity events, so that I keep walking to stay in shape, I have doine 15kms and 10kms on sunday. I cant jog have a problem leg.

Mimibob
10 Sep 2013 14:05

I'm not fat people. I'm a size 32. Just gained some 4kg. I have the kind of body people starve themselves, keep to a diet, exercise to get. And I don't have to lift a finger to look this fab. In fact, I eat a lot. I eat anything and everything. Chocolates, all sorts of junk. I have great metabolism. Since food don't make me fat, and I'm definitely not pregnant, it must be new love.

Mimibob
10 Sep 2013 14:12

Lol @ Pastry. Hold on to that perfect picture of me. Im putting on a short (about 10cm above knee) dress, and looking mighty fine! So hold on to that pic lady.

Mimibob
10 Sep 2013 14:14

Lol Goldi, I'm not fohloza. Ke nonne face, and I don't like it.

laleli
10 Sep 2013 14:17

i think these are suitable sizes
Age 20 - 24 size 28 -30
Age 25 - 30 Size 32-34
Age 31 - 40 Size 34-36
Above 40 size 38 upwards

have you seen 48 years old women wearing size 28 /30? is not ayoba

Pastry
10 Sep 2013 14:18

Heheheee Mims...wa ba so serious, shuuu that tone! I know you to be a person who loved to laugh but hey ga o tshege moo. Good to hear gore ga o fohloza...not that smthng is wrng with that, my imagination of you is just somewhere in the likes of Dineo Mashaba.

Pjvv...at 37 that is fantastic! Any kids?

Well on your cousin's issue...be bold and brave enough to warn her about the guys true colours and tell her again he is not looking for anything serious. Whether she be cool or come out bad, it really would not make any difference cause at the end of the day that is who he trully is. Which is what she would find out eventually, unfortunately it will hurt to her! At the risk of damaging the relationship with her, you need to be honest and firm if you want to protect her. Even if she gets mad at you as long as you can save her ass!

Pastry
10 Sep 2013 14:19

There is the Mimi I know....pheww!

Mimibob
10 Sep 2013 14:28

Hahaa... Pjvv... I feel you lady. Your cousin is just being a typical woman. We don't listen. We don't hear. Even when a guy clearly stipulates his stand in the relationship, we will always want more, once we are comfortable enough. Just talk to your cousin the way you are talking to us now. Be plain but sensitive. If she misinterprets your intentions then that's her problem to handle. Good friends are those you can be completely blunt with without fear of losing them, and they can appreciate your bluntness even if they hurt. No matter your counsin's reaction, you would have done your best in helping out a loved one.

Ntaksay
10 Sep 2013 14:29

@Pjvv be upfront with your cousin, tell her the truth about her this new boyfriend and who he truly is. Before she commits herself deeper into this relationship.

Bk212303
10 Sep 2013 14:30

Yhoo im ashamed to say my size yhoo youu ppl are thin yhoooooo

Hey pjw I think you should sit yr cousin down and first remind of what she said before the relationship. Then tell her the truth then she can decide herself what she wants. Cause if you let her continue dreaming and it doesnt turn out the way she expected it, and you knew then its gonna be something else.

Mimibob
10 Sep 2013 14:36

@ Pastry, "... my imagination of you is just somewhere in the likes of Dineo Mashaba." My sister says Dineo always reminds her of me (only appearance ladies, not character). I'm a bit taller than Dineo though.

Bk212303
10 Sep 2013 14:39

Good friends are those you can be completely blunt with without fear of losing them, and they can appreciate your bluntness even if they hurt.

@ Mimza you made me think here...... im not in talking terms with my best frnd cause im angry or hurt....

pjvv
10 Sep 2013 14:49

@ Pastry....I have kids...

When this thing of theirs started she also ddnt want a serious thing. but now she is behaving funny and my concern is that what if the guy rejects her.

Mimibob
10 Sep 2013 14:53

@ BK, is the reason for your not talking to your best friend worth it? Sometimes people sulk because of pride. I don't sulk. And I'm happy to lose my pride over a loved one, any day. I'm blunt. I can be blunt with my family, close friends and boyfriend because I don't fear losing them. I equally take what they give. What would hurt is if they are rude or say something with intention to hurt. Either way, I'm always quick to forgive, even if they don't apologize. If your friendship is worth keeping, swallow your pride, if any, and make amends with your friends.

khabzette
10 Sep 2013 15:06

awww sweet darlingsg,nganibingelela nathula? did I do something wrong? :( .... anyway; while on the subject ye weight,has anyone ever tried the Weight watchers lifestyle change whatever it is?does it really work,well I know Jennifer Hudson was on it and she simply looks amaaaaaazing but m just curious if anyone else can confirm ukut for sure yasebenza this thing. at 28 and without child I sure look 40 with grandkids ! somebody help!!

Ntaksay
10 Sep 2013 15:07

Well said Mims
Why are you scared to tell us your size Bk??????????

Goldi
10 Sep 2013 15:15

BK just tell us your size ashamed of what soka maan *serious face* Mims kere nna ke slender se abnormal shem marama a teng yhooooo

PJ love telling it like it is, its a very dirty job but somebody have to do it so just do it love straight talk lala like Mimi said she's just being a typical woman

pjvv
10 Sep 2013 15:22

Thanks guys. I will do so.

Bk212303
10 Sep 2013 15:26

Kwaaaaaaaaaaak Goldi shut up wena cccza

Size 44 are u guys happy now yadika Goldi nhe

Well i think Mimza it is pride cause we just ignoring the whole thing and now on my side i can only c damage...i will brief u guys now its gonna be short niyandazi ke I can rite mna

Pastry
10 Sep 2013 15:29

Sawubona Khabz....obesity kills confidence nana you need to tone down. Remenber you cannot just eat, watch tv, snack and sleep and expect miracles. I understand that some people inherit unfortunate genes...but we are responsible for our own discipline incl what goes into our bodies and how we maitain them. What are you currently doing with your plus size figure?

Pastry
10 Sep 2013 15:36

@BK....size 44 at age 32 is a disaster sisi. How did it get so out of control?

Mimibob
10 Sep 2013 15:47

Molo Khanzette. Lol @ 40 with grandkids. Sorry cant help there.

Bk212303
10 Sep 2013 15:47

Its the kidz nothing huge.......

Her son sometimes wears my son's jeans or jacket (borrowed of course) if it gets cold and he is at my house my son would give him a jacket, jeans etc.
But my son doesnt lik to wear his clothes but i dont know what happened on Friday my son my son wore my frnd's son's jacket and when they saw each other at school my frnd's son became rude and started swearing at my son for wearing his jacket and told his frnds that this one is wearing my jacket and so on....my son did like this at all so he says he immediately took it off and put it in his bag and when i came back from work obviously he reported this and i saw he wants to cry and i comforted him and he was fine. I asked why now did he decide to wear the jacket that does not belong to him so he said all the jacket he wanted to wear were at my frnd's son cause he sometimes dont bring them like asap.

Cutting the story short, Sat nite at about 6 but my son was still playing outside. My frnds's son came to my house with anger and said ja i told yr son that i will tell my mama that he wore my jacket and the while talking he somma throws the plastic he was carring with my son's jacket (the ones he kept at his home) and said his mother said he must come fetch all his belongings at my house and i got angry at this cause my frnd likes to talk infront of kids when she doesnt like something so i decided to call at that moment, and i asked her why is doing this to me sending an angry child to me who came throwing plastics and she said she was looking in the wardrobe nad couldnt find her son's jacket but she did not know that he told me that he told her about the jacket.

So i hate the fact that she would lie and not be honest to me. Where as i let her son wear my son's clothes and i never ever go and fetch the stuff the way she did the whole thing im just angry or i have pride i dont know.....

But now she wants me to act normal without us solving the matter, cause now she watsup me and i cant talk now still angry or shocked i dont know.....inoba yi pride betuna

By the way my coloured frnd we are sorted i forgave her and went to speak to her on friday but money is finished but she bought food for the kids for now..
THANX GUYS

Bk212303
10 Sep 2013 16:02

@BK....size 44 at age 32 is a disaster sisi. How did it get so out of control?

@Pastry yes i know thats why im ashamed..... I think gain something every week
maybe i must stop dusting

Pastry
10 Sep 2013 16:02

Heheheeee @BK....you have one drama of a life hey sisi. Am just wondering where is out beautiful country are you staying. Anyways....sort it out with your friend, you two cant act like kids because of the quarell your kida had. What are you two teaching your boys. Its not pride sisi if you ask me...that's plain stupid. Sort it out like adults

Pastry
10 Sep 2013 16:08

@BK...haibo sisi the only time dusting can make you pick on some weight is when you have conceived. Stop being ashamed and start running 5km per day!

Mimibob
10 Sep 2013 16:08

@Laleli, "Above 40 size 38 upwards", The highest size I'll go is 36, and that is post age 40. I'll still be size 36 and rocking my heels post 50. And sorry Khabz I misspelt your name.

Bk212303
10 Sep 2013 16:12

This size thing makes me giggle alone and they looking at me here.....

Mimibob
10 Sep 2013 16:14

@ Pastry, " Its not pride sisi if you ask me...that's plain stupid. Sort it out like adults".. Lol... This made me miss VusiK.

Ntaksay
10 Sep 2013 16:15

Bk talk to your friend and tell her that you don't like the way she handled the situation. His son was wrong to do what he did knowing that he is keeping your son's jacket. She should have spoken to him and not give her the plastics to throw at you house what's even worse is for a child to shout at you in your own house.

Speak to her, don't pretend as if nothing happened cause that will cause problems in your friendship in the long run. And I don't blame you for being angry.

Good Luck ccza!!!!!!!!!!!

Bk212303
10 Sep 2013 16:16

I only eat twice a day. I eat during the day and at nite..... i dont know

Goldi
10 Sep 2013 16:21

Haai BK unamagna shem your what's app pic says something different, Pastry O.o

Mimibob
10 Sep 2013 16:25

@ BK, parents always take issues concerning their children to heart. Your boys have probably kissed and made up, and you guys have taken their place.. Hehee. I always remember a time my friend totally ignored and wouldn't talk to me when I'd gone to her house. I was upset and told mom. She took it so personally and even mentioned it years later.. My friend and I were ok with each other the next day. I learnt from this that should I ever have man problems, I will never tell mom. I will forgive the guy and mom will keep holding the thought that this person is bad to my daughter. BK, I also understand your point where someone has wronged you and they want to just move on like nothing happened while you want to talk it through. Tell her how you feel and make up already.

Ntaksay
10 Sep 2013 16:25

Bye everyone

Mims plz refresh your memory tonight and remember all the hot topics you promised us yesterday.

Bk212303
10 Sep 2013 16:30

You know what ikne Goldi was gonna disagreeee yadika wena i am size 44 i will change my pic

Pastry
10 Sep 2013 16:33

Sure Goldi...so she is lying she aint size 44. Are you sure its her in the pic cause ppl tend to put idols and other things/people as their profile pic. Or simply perhaps its Bk before being a mom! Are you lying to us BK? Be careful how you answer this one cause right now you are angry at a friend for lying to you...lol

Naand mense!

Bk212303
10 Sep 2013 16:36

Will respond tomorrow Ntaksay thats how i feel ......Vusik yhoooo i can imagine what he would say about this situation i also thought of him Mimza. Any way chat tomorrow

Mimibob
10 Sep 2013 16:46

We are working on some project in the office. I offered to make sandwiches and everybody echoed "No!", including the guys. Hehee. There goes people's trust in my kitchen abilities. Maybe we can for our topics discuss something around women who can't cook. Also, looking at pjvv's counsin's issue, people say a man marries a woman hoping she doesn't change, but she changes. A woman marries a man hoping he changes, but he doesn't change. Your thoughts fam? This can be topic for tomorrow.

Mimibob
10 Sep 2013 16:54

My boss the other day told me to learn how to cook because men appreciate a woman who can cook. I lolled because he was being serious and I never discuss men with him. I'm not a natural in the kitchen but can learn. I actually want to cook for my family (hubby and children), especially during weekends when the staff is off. I need a chef to teach me some really good dishes for times I need to cook. I know most of you will see this in the morning. I just had to write so I don't forget.

khabzette
10 Sep 2013 17:45

@pastry,well lately I have been trying to bond with my neighbour's treadmill and that Orbitrek thingy.Wu she she's a nice lady yen ke but unfortunately so is Oliver ,the guy who makes lunch at work!!!! he makes such a mean chicken curry novel ngingasazi ke mind! @mims, serious I feel so frumpy ,esp that I bumped into my ex's new girlfriend and she looks like something out of FHM . Mnxxxxxxxm ! (((((naija style.)))))) kikikiki. it just made me feel bad about myself although I have nothing against the young beauty. food speaks my language nje uyaz.

khabzette
10 Sep 2013 17:48

oh my word autocorrect! lol I hope you all get what it is m trying to say! thus phone is out to embarrass me!

khabzette
10 Sep 2013 18:06

@mims, i relate. My boyfriend doesnt come out and say it outright but you can tell he dont like my cooking. He always has excuses like: no baby i'll eat at my mum's or dont worry about cooking we braai with the boys later. Cant say i blame him though, not too long ago we went to visit his mum for supper. It was just the three of us and so naturally it was left for me to do the cooking while him and his ma watched tv. A bit unfamiliar with where everythng was, i called out to him, asking where the mealiemeal was, to which he answered, in the white container next to the stove. Without checking i dunk a cup full into my boiling pot and 'phehla' only to realise noooo, this isnt mealiemeal. Yi FLOUR!!!!. I tell you what we went through afterwards tryng to get rid of that hot mess and get the proper pot going without his mom finding out, hayi that was an experience! The flour porridge was eventually dumped in the garden and a fresh pile of earth lain on top sink we had managed to clog up the sink with the messy goo! (--,)

Mimibob
10 Sep 2013 21:28

Without checking i dunk a cup full into my boiling pot and 'phehla' only to realise noooo, this isnt mealiemeal. Yi FLOUR!!!!.

@ Khabz, Hai, unamanga wena... Hahaaaa... Even I can tell the difference between mealiemeal and flour. Lols...

You are brave girl to go cook knowing your limitations.. Hehehee... My boyfriend would have had to tell his mom that I can't cook. I can be in the kitchen and assist whoever decides to cook between guy and uMa.
I haven't cooked for my bf but I'm sure he'd tell me outright that I'm a terrible cook. And I would never even bother myself cooking for him unless I've mastered some really good recipe.

Mimibob
10 Sep 2013 21:46

@mims, serious I feel so frumpy ,esp that I bumped into my ex's new girlfriend and she looks like something out of FHM . Mnxxxxxxxm ! (((((naija style.)))))) kikikiki. it just made me feel bad about myself although I have nothing against the young beauty.

@ Ntaks, above could be one of our topics. You can note these somewhere. I don't really have topics I remeber now. I just always pick stuff from the things you guys say or from random experiences and feel they'd make interesting duscussions.

This would be; does it matter how your ex's girl looks like? Do you feel insecure if she is prettier?
I'm generally comfortable in my own skin. I guess I wouldn't care either way. I don't consider myself beautiful. I'm just ok. (I think this has a lot to do with my upbringing. I have a beautiful sister so she got all the complements and no one ever told me I was beautiful - and I really wasn't). Hot, yah, I am sometimes. With the right money, I can be really hot!! I'm looking for another job, my money (or lack of)limits my potential.. Lols... (I think my investor bf wouldn't be too pround of my spender tendencies here).

Mimibob
11 Sep 2013 07:05

If you still need more topics, there is an old article I responded to and wrote about my relationship with my dad growing up. You can go there and share your experiences as well. My comment is a bit long, yet short considering I still had a lot to share. If you can read BK's posts, you definitely can read this one. :). Titled: Splashing in Puddles: How To Be a Father To Your Daughter. You can just type "splashing puddles" under search and it will show.

Bk212303
11 Sep 2013 08:28

Morning everyone,

@Pastry no im not lying my dear I am size 44. But on the pic i look smaller.

Ntaksay
11 Sep 2013 09:04

@ Mims Maybe we can for our topics discuss something around women who can't cook. Also, looking at pjvv's counsin's issue, people say a man marries a woman hoping she doesn't change, but she changes. A woman marries a man hoping he changes, but he doesn't change. Your thoughts fam? This can be topic for tomorrow.

People have that tendency of marrying with hopes that their partner will change but there is less than 10% of that happening. Sometimes we are so blinded by love to see the truth infront of us, we keep hoping for the change of which it might happen or never happen and we end being HURT.

As for the cooking part, I think as women we need to learn how to cook. Cooking for your family is a good feeling, it does not have to be an everyday thing but to eat food prepared by your own mother, I just liked that as a kid, I'm sure it was not different from other people's cooking but the feeling that I was going to eat food prepared by my mom. WOW

Ntaksay
11 Sep 2013 09:06

Good Morning

please forgive me for my bad manner, I just commented without greeting.
My apologies people!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Nibenosuku olumyoli oluyokozela ngamathamsanqa

HAVE A BLESSED DAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Debongs
11 Sep 2013 09:08

Dear People, I have been following this blog for a year and I like each and every one of you, Goldi, BK21203, Ntaksay the list is endless...and would like to join the family...

Nongo
11 Sep 2013 09:09

a very good morning to you all my beautiful family, i missed so much !!!!!!!!!!! xoxo

Nongo
11 Sep 2013 09:11

too much reading; im size 34/36 but i want to go 38 coz my body is slim it does not show even on this sizes you can gym all u want to get my body but i eat cake, chocolate, mafresh w/out getting fat. toped with a smooth skin!!!!!!!!!

@2012
11 Sep 2013 09:17

morning people......................

can a darling update aa sister here of what happened yesterday............please.....

Goldi
11 Sep 2013 09:19

Morning chocolate muffins

BK you just kill me wen you say ya dika GOLDI kwaaa morning made thanks to you mhwaaaaaa

well i suggest you speak to your friend lala tell her how you feel no use in pretending everything is cool while it's not, abantwana baya xabanisa shem but dont let them they are kids they can still be handled so get on with it askies vha!!

Welcome Khabz how old is Khabza vele? and your size as well

Ntaksay
11 Sep 2013 09:46

Welcome Debongs, we always ask one question to all our new members: Are you a male or female?

This is where you belong dear, at Home feel free to talk your mind out, but remember in this family we respect each other and value each others' opinions.

Hi Goldi *Blueberry muffin* LOL

Mimibob
11 Sep 2013 09:46

Welcome Debongs. Morning fam.

Ntaksay
11 Sep 2013 09:49

can I confess something

I thought Khabzette was a male, I only realised on the comments you posted yesterday that you are a she. apologies are in order dear sister!!!!!!!

Ntaksay
11 Sep 2013 09:51

Seniqalile ke nina ngokuthula, come on people keep this house burning!!!!!!!!

When was the last time we discussed the HOTTEST TOPIC come on family,
myself is begging yourselves *lol*

Debongs
11 Sep 2013 09:54

I am a 33 year old female... Thanks for the warm welcome*smiles* Yes Ntaksay that's what I like about this family *respect*

Deemo
11 Sep 2013 10:19

mine is the most shocking im 27 bt im a size 26,i really want to gain weight bt dont know how,any advice ladies,if u c me u wll think in sxteen,tht really embarases me sometimes,heeeeeeeelp pliz

Deemo
11 Sep 2013 10:24

i greet u all in the name of jesus,lets all grab the blessings wch a flowing our way,let evryone enjoy,love u all

verify
11 Sep 2013 10:25

Hi Family Eish my computer is giving me problems, lately i remember i once posted my problem last week thanx for the advices famil ok ndidlule apho.... Guys i have a question neh! especially for those who are married but i would also like the opinions zabo ba single.... "let's say you about to get married and one partner or i will say husband is having children outside the marriage living with their mothers, is it good to take them to live with u or support them while with their mothers?? ngeyiphi indlela eright

yoyozz
11 Sep 2013 10:40

about your cousin PJVV i think shes playing with fire. the relationship is about sex only coz they both dont want anything serious now shes planning kids and wedding at the same time. what made her change her mind is the guy hot in bed. i dont know why are you afraid to tell her that the guy doesnt want anything serious with her and he told her before they even start their relationship. the trueth hurt but you must tell her to stop acting like a 16 year old and focus on raising her kids. her relationship is based on sex only and she knows that

yoyozz
11 Sep 2013 10:51

verfy if i may ask why do you want to take those children to their mothers. i think you must focus on you getting married first coz now you are trying to complicate things. you can only take a child if her mother say so or her mother is dead and you want to takecare of the child. your husband will support his kids nomatter they stay with their mothers there is no need to take them. the kids will come on holidays if they want to its not your call to make.

Goldi
11 Sep 2013 10:59

Welcome Debongs :)

*Blushing* @Ntaks, Yoyo welcome back how are you feeling sweets? Nongo long time darling you good? Deemo Amen darling

Verify my waffles mina i'm single my husbands kids are technically my kids but if they are staying with their mothers let it continue like that mina no hubby will support them and they are welcome to visit my house anytime the door will always be open for them *my 2cents*

yoyozz
11 Sep 2013 11:10

kwaaaaax skiny ladies im size 40 and im happy i grew up big my mom said when i was 2 days everyone thought i was 2 months. im not trying to loose any kilo i love my clivage sooo much and im beautiful like this. and im not 23 yhooooo im 28 im old very old but i wont mind holding MJ in my arms looooooool. i like skinny ladies they are beautiful but i believe im also beautiful.

guys im back i was in hospital for 5 full days i thought im gonna die i saw many dead girls there and babies i cant even sleep at night thinkng about them. my cervix was open in risk of miscarriege they put a stitch to closed it for now im fine and im back at work . your prayers are still with me thnks

NoMdazB
11 Sep 2013 11:17

Long time no see everyone, how are you? Welcome back Yoyozz and thank the Lord you are alright. Hoping your pregnancy will be smooth sailing from now on. Verify, I think it's better for kids to stay with their mothers. I stay with my sister in law's child who is an orphan. You try to make everyone feel equal but can't because you can never love someone else's kids the same as your own so you end up feeling guilty about that. And what's worse is she's older than my boys. What I do is on weekends I Take her to her grandparents so I can shower my kids with affection and treat them like babies without feeling bad.

Mimibob
11 Sep 2013 11:31

Lol Nomd, try treating her the same as your boys, it surely can't be that hard. If there has to be visits to granny, let it be for all. Have moments with her. Hug her. Children don't forget you know. Our upbringing in away influences who we become as adults. Let her not feel like an outsider in your house. It is possible to love someone else's kids the way you do yours if you allow yourself to.

Bk212303
11 Sep 2013 11:33

Welcome Debongs huge hugs...

Goldi yadika nyani grl seriously....you always always disagree with me sukaaaa yadika ......hahahahahahah love ya

@verify me as a married woman i wont take the child from their mothers, i will just support them but they must stay there cause i know if i would take them then trouble comes cause you know moss they will always be fighting for their mothers always disagreeing at everything i do.
So i will just get bank details speak to mommy and thats it no strings attached...cause these kids sometimes are full of suprises i tell you....i dont wanna find myself drinking LUNTU's tea..

Itu.m
11 Sep 2013 11:40

Hi everyone its been a while since i visited the site missed you all ladies!!! And a very warm welcome to the new family members - am 29 and a size 40 I must say am not happy with my weight and trying to loose so I hope I will be successful in loosing weight any ideas ladies?????

Goldi
11 Sep 2013 11:45

Wena BK uthandwa ndim shem haai i dont disagree with you always hawu loling @ yadika i can just picture you saying that hahahahahah haaai yadika nawe sokaaaaa

pjvv
11 Sep 2013 12:03

@ Verify....Let the kids stay with their mother/s, that will not mean you love them less.

@Yoyozz..Get well soon dear...

Ntaksay
11 Sep 2013 12:16

Welcome back Yoyo I'm glad you're fine, the thoughts will go away we are just happy for your recovery and that the baby is fine. Now it's PRAYER PRAYER PRAYER....................

Verify the kids are better off with their mothers, hubby will have to support them.

Debongs
11 Sep 2013 12:21

Veryfy I have to agree with everyone, if you take them kids, it will just complicate your life and theirs so rather leave them with their mom .

Mimibob
11 Sep 2013 12:29

@Verify, why would you want to take the children from their mothers? Were the roles reversed, would you want the other woman taking yours? Enjoy your time with hubby. Take the children if there is need to, and love them.

Pastry
11 Sep 2013 12:30

Verify...any solid reason that we should be aware of that makes you consider something so huge. I hope it is not just to score points with hubby hey, gape love and marriage can make do all crazy sorts of things which backfires in a long run.

Yoyoz....God Almighty! Am glad to hear your ok and hope you recover from those scary scenes you saw.

Am feeling down today, some families are just so dysfnctional its sad!

Welcome all newbies

laleli
11 Sep 2013 12:36

@Deemo i know where your coming from , i used to be size 28 in my early 20s

I started gaining weight after my first child

Mimibob
11 Sep 2013 12:41

Reposting. If no one responds, I'll take take the hint ;) :People say a man marries a woman hoping she doesn't change, but she changes. A woman marries a man hoping he changes, but he doesn't change. Your thoughts fam?

Mimibob
11 Sep 2013 12:45

I saw your response Ntaks, though I note you'd rather discuss "the hottest" topic - Goldi's favourite.

NoMdazB
11 Sep 2013 12:54

Mims, I take care of them the same, I hug I kiss etc all three of them but when she first arrived my boys were aged 4 and 1 and she was 9. So I found she expected to be washed and carried and to sleep in my bed, be carried to her own bed which just could not happen.1 and 4 year olds want to sleep with their parents and I let them sometimes, especially if they are sick.

Mimibob
11 Sep 2013 12:54

@ Deemo, I also tried gaining weight for years, unsuccessfully, until I took some medication that caused me to balloon to 58kg or there about. I didn't wanna go on the scale.. I was uncomfortable with the new weight. I couldn't even wear pants anymore because I felt my behind was "out there". Fortunately I loose weight quiet easily, so I just shed it off and returned to my 52kg. I've recently gained some 4kg and I honestly don't know where it came from. I'm ok with it though. I'm still same size 32.

portcia
11 Sep 2013 13:04

Sorry guys i was tring to catch up, but i have this load of work, and it keeps pilling up, anyway about yesterday's topic, i am size 36, at the age of 29, and i dont like it, so im currently on a diet, but my problem is that i have stomach ulser, and eating those rabbit food, doesnt make me full, and i dont like to eat now and then, really guys i dont know what to do, anyone with ideas please help, i just dont see myself been a size 38 or 40, will check you out at about 15h00, maybe i will be done with my work.

Pastry
11 Sep 2013 13:06

Deemo....hahahaa it happens to the best of us mara 26 yona is just not ayoba. I was size 28 between ages 24 and 30 consistently so. Then i had a baby and moved to size 30 which still fits even today at 35yrs. Am picking up a bit of weight lately which am excited with thats why i can safely fit in size 32.

Try running and do some exercises...i heard it helps people wit your condition!

Mimibob
11 Sep 2013 13:08

@ Nomd, you nicely tell her that she is growing up and things change. Make growing up and doing stuff for oneself sound interesting and handhold her through the transition if need be. You might think it should be obvious to her that she is the eldest and shouldn't behave like the younger ones, but it might not be that obvious to her and she needs it pointed out. You sounded happier with not having her around and enjoying being affectionate with your boys in her absence. It sounds like you don't extend the same to her. I can't imagine how growing up without a parent is like, but some people never get over it, especially if people who raised them didn't treat them like a parent would. We have a lot of angry people who grew up with absent fathers and take out frustrations on society in one way or the other, or people who lacked that mother's love turning out to be terrible parents themselves.,

Bk212303
11 Sep 2013 13:51

eposting. If no one responds, I'll take take the hint ;) :People say a man marries a woman hoping she doesn't change, but she changes. A woman marries a man hoping he changes, but he doesn't change. Your thoughts fam?

@Mimza hey this is true a lot of ppl marry cause they think that person will change but most of the time they dont change or it gets worse.

Pastry
11 Sep 2013 14:30

Mims...topic not exciting enough to keep us coming back on this page. Let me try, can we talk about SECRETS.

Am talking here about deep dark secrets, not cashfloat money you keep unknown to your spouse, not cheating and never been caught.

I am talking about damaging secrets like...having slept with yout spouses sibling while married and keeping it under. I child you know was conceived somewhere and preferred to nail your spouse on it. An HIV test that you kept quiet about. A legal or financial document that you will never disclose...etc

So what are your secrets fam?

Ntaksay
11 Sep 2013 14:37

Yho Pastry that's a very deep topic but unfortunately I don't have any deep dark secret to share.

Can't to hear the rest of the family

Pastry
11 Sep 2013 14:45

Unless you people know each other personally outside then ke bona bothata. Otherwise i see no problem sharing such secrets yazi cause its the reality of what happens aroung us daily.

Am trying to think of my deep one...thinking thinking thinking!

Deemo
11 Sep 2013 14:56

thanks ladies for your opinions,bt i have a question,do vitamin tablets help,someone one advised me to try them bt im stl contemplating on tht ,are there no side effects if i try them

vuxy
11 Sep 2013 15:02

Pastry
11 Sep 2013 15:03

Deemo what I know is that Vit B helps with appetite, the rest just help balance off your immunity. The only side effect could be diarrhea only if you take too much of them a day. Why do you need vitamins unless you dont eat properly.

There more you worry about youe size/weight there more stressed your system gets and the lesser your chances of picking up any kg! Be careful there!

Goldi
11 Sep 2013 15:18

*vuil look* wena MimiK

Reposting. If no one responds, I'll take take the hint ;) :People say a man marries a woman hoping she doesn't change, but she changes. A woman marries a man hoping he changes, but he doesn't change. Your thoughts fam?

99% on both sides

Pastry O.o i'll pass

Mimibob
11 Sep 2013 15:24

@ Pastry, lol... They will no longer be secrets if we shared. We are going to meet or relate at one point in time outside this platform. I'm generally a private person, but I guess it's time I let out this thing that has been weighing me down. I had a child when I was 14. She doesn't know I'm her mother. I never told the child's father, who was a married teacher. My parents prefered it that way. We somehow managed to keep it a secret and passed the child off as my mother's. We moved to a different town where no one knew us, and people from where I grew up never knew I was preggies. I want my child to know the truth, but I'm scared. The child issue was never discussed with my parents since they took the child as theirs. I don't know how they'd feel about it. How my sister/daughter will react. Not forgetting my bf. The young lady is now expectant. I want to raise the child while she is at school. I don't know how to make up really. I will be a granny in my early 30s.. Hei... I had to make this up because I don't have any deep secrets. *Don't kill me*

Mimibob
11 Sep 2013 15:27

Love you too Goldi :). What's with this vuxy character and empty posts??

Goldi
11 Sep 2013 15:32

kwaaaaaaaaaaby reading the 1st sentence i knew that this was just rubbish you a queen of making up stories

come to think of it guyz what would you do?

Itu.m
11 Sep 2013 15:35

Hahaha Mimibob thats really deep! shoooo!!!

Pastry
11 Sep 2013 15:39

Goldi....at least we know u hv those DDS, just wont tell

Mims...I had a child when i was 14, that gave u away. Another Mzansi bioskop movie

Bk212303
11 Sep 2013 15:39

What's with this vuxy character and empty posts??

I was just about to ask the same cause vuxy likes empty post..

Mimza i also knew you made that up....

Bk212303
11 Sep 2013 15:41

Secrete topic is not gona work for me as i dont have any.....
I would have told if there were any.....

Mimibob
11 Sep 2013 15:47

I suppose I'm not a good lier. Lol... That's a good thing though. Goldi, you can inbox me the deep dark secret details. Ngifuna ukwazi (In Vusi's voice). Le wena Pastry, out with it...

Mimibob
11 Sep 2013 15:52

So Pastry, you think cheating and never being caught is not deep and dark? Yoh! That would be extremely deep and dark for me and would weigh me down until I told.

Bk212303
11 Sep 2013 15:55

Mbulelo Mpande and Andile Yogie Nkosi check on facebook amastatus for both- they were ingaged...

Goldi
11 Sep 2013 16:09

Mbulelo Mpande and Andile Yogie Nkosi check on facebook amastatus for both- they were ingaged... Eeer konje why are we searching for them?

hahahahhahaha Sorry to disappoint you Pastry n MimiK i have none

Nongo
11 Sep 2013 16:17

mimi u can never lie after reading 1line i went to the last line *confession* kwwwaaaaaaaaks yeah but we do have this kind of stories in real life yes!.
like when i was growing up we lived next to a lady who lived with a "brother" who was his son, u get the point! yah

Pastry
11 Sep 2013 16:23

Nah Mims...cheating is no longer a secret 85% of people do it, its famous its common...only difference is what to you choose to do after that. So NO cheating is not a dds

Hawu all the ladies here have none....LIARS

I have plenty to tell and at the risk of being judged i will spill it all tomorrow...till then chaoooo!!

Ntaksay
11 Sep 2013 16:27

You like coming up with stories Mims,

Bye people

We'll chat again Friday, I'm not in tomorrow.

BYE BYEOLOGY

yoyozz
11 Sep 2013 16:30

kwaaaaax i like this mbulelo and yogie

khabzette
11 Sep 2013 16:34

Kikiki, guys i am a she, 28 size 36/38. /deemo come get some flesh sisi i have enough for the two of us, with change left over!

Mimibob
11 Sep 2013 16:43

Ok Nongo, I get it. I will not quit my day job. Lol... But we do have people living with their children-siblings. I have a colleague, 37, she has a daughter who has a year old child. She pretends she doesn't have a child, yet the entire office knows she has and is now a grandma. I asked her direct if she has a child and she denied to my face. And we were quite close at that time.I hope she doesn't read this and picks its me. Lol... But then again she wouldn't confront me, and if she did at least she will get another chance at telling the truth. I really don't get the secrecy behind the child. She was excited about the grand child but didn't know how to share the news. She kept saying "we have a baby at home" but won't tell whose child..

Mimibob
11 Sep 2013 16:47

... but wouldn't tell whose child..

Deemo
11 Sep 2013 17:50

@khabz i wll come get the flesh sis wami @ pastry ya i dont eat properly,i can go for a day wthout eating n wll not be hungry,thts not normal

VusiK
11 Sep 2013 18:33

Guys i have a question neh! especially for those who are married but i would also like the opinions zabo ba single.... "let's say you about to get married and one partner or i will say husband is having children outside the marriage living with their mothers, is it good to take them to live with u or support them while with their mothers?? ngeyiphi indlela eright

Do what you feel is right for/ by you.
Present a proposal that works for everyone.
If you encountr resistence, ... modify and evolve on what you feel is the right and proper thing for YOU to do, not what others think (even if it is your spouse) ... people will react differenty.

For me, a child is a child until they make choices that shift them from being children ... by their choice.

If a child resists your existence ... LEAVE THEM BE! never impose yourself on anyone ... they will be ungrateful, and you will be regretful of your intentions, no matter how noble they may be. (You are not their parent, your generousity is optional, not mandatory)

Finally, there is nothing wrong with supporting your spouse's children by someone else, many of us do so their entire lives long ...even under the supposition they are ours.... only to discover when they are adults that their parent is simply not biological one ... does that alter the investment ... yours is to hope not!

VusiK
11 Sep 2013 19:01

I suppose my tome can be summarized as follows:

Before engaging such an act, ...

1st interogate your intention and motive.
then ...
Assess the risks
Assemble a plan of action
and
Always have a contingency plan.

VusiK
11 Sep 2013 19:16

lol Pastry ... about her ideas of secrets

I don't think any of those actions merit classification as secrets.

we all have our rights to privacy.

HIV tests are like votes, nobody should be compelled to share the result, even in a relationship. Disclosure should be voluntary, but that is all dependent on the nature and type of the relationship.

Finance ... that depends on the nature of the relationships.
Sex outside the relationship ... it matters not whether it is a spouse's sibling or a stranger, it is still sex outside the relationship ... again ... it depends on the nature and structure of the relationship.

(My ex finance is my ex girlfriend's sister, and there is nothing wrong with that either ... I am told that when I ended with the elder sister, the younger sister (who I had a great fondness of) was aletrted by my then ex that she would not really have a problems regarding us dating ... and I dated several of their cousins and cousin's cousins at some point in time ... or another.

I have also engaged in what some would/ could decide is sordid relationships ... the only difference was that I disclosed my intentions, and actions ....

hence never had secrets, or regrets, or shame about anything I actually decided to do as a person.

I never felt any compulsion to lie ... nobody was ever so valuable to me as for me to compromise myself by lowering myself to the level of lying.

If someone doe not like something ... not my problem to deal with ... but theirs.

Thus .. it became 2nd nature never to lie ...
Tell the truth and deal withe consequence !

VusiK
11 Sep 2013 19:20

I am almost 50

size 28 waist, 32 inch inseam
13 inch neck, 34 inch shoulders
(hence All my suits are custom tailored ... there is no off the rack product that ever fits properly)
and weigh 52,9kg 59kg when I am all muscled up.

in my youth ....
I was built like an "X". and ripped everywhere !
:-)

Mimibob
11 Sep 2013 21:26

@ Pastry, Nah Mims...cheating is no longer a secret...
Then maybe we shouldn't call it cheating if it's no secret - that is, if the other party knows. Unless I need clarity on what cheating is.

...85% of people do it, its famous its common
The gravity of the consequence of an act or the meaning should not be diluted by the number of people engaging in it (the act). To me cheating is cheating, and I will never take it light or treat it as normal, even if 99% of people did it.

So NO cheating is not a dds
I guess dds is relative.
Different people would view deep dark secrets differently. Some acts maybe be minor to one yet major to the other. Some may be dark to one yet pretty normal to the other.

Goldi
12 Sep 2013 08:30

Happy Thursday to Carrot cakes

i have such a terrible headache so early in the morning yhooooo

Bk212303
12 Sep 2013 08:30

Hi everyone, howzit? Molo uncle Vusi unjani?

kwaaaaax i like this mbulelo and yogie

@yoyos yhoo its hectic stuff nhe>>>>

portcia
12 Sep 2013 08:32

Good morning my good family.

I have a question for you this morning, at work we have learnership students who attend here for a year, this year we have 2 girls and 3 boys.Now the problem is that one of these two girls dont like to greet people, so now the other lady when she walks with this other one she also doesnt greet, so this morning they were looking for the cleaning lady, and they were walking up and down the office looking and looking,my office is next to the kitchen and i wached them going up and down while i knew where the cleaning lady was, so at the end i asked them what are they looking for, and they told me that they want some soap to clean their class room, and i poured them some soap, then i ended up asking them why they dont greet, and the other lady who usually greet said sorry, then i asked the othr one, then she said sorry but i could see that she doesnt mean it, now the problem is that almost every employer complains about this girl, that she doesnt greet, she just pass anyone as if there is no one there,so tell me guys did i do the right thing, couse when i told the cleaning lady what happened she just laugh it off, these kids are going to be there for a long time couse our classes only starts in june, so they will be here till next year june, and i thought someone had to put them in their place.

Deemo
12 Sep 2013 09:15

portia i think u dd the ryt thing,is she is some one who is ok upstairs she will reconsider her actions,in our culture we are taught to greet others from such a tender age,

duckie
12 Sep 2013 09:23

U will never understand these kinds,

We also had an intern last yr at wrk, she'd only greet us in the office everybdy else in the building fokof and we wrk togthr with those pipo coz each deprtmnt ikufloor yayo nd frm tym to to tym we go ere wen we have quiries nd weneva we hv functnz we all togatr, so pipo used to kol me and ask me y aint u teachin the poor kid manners nd i d go like i was taught manners at hme,

it went on until one of my colleagues had a bdae cumin up nd normal wen one of us uyazalwa u buy cake nd drinks bese we all celebrate so tht colleague, she ws from a diff offc nd the she sent us e mails to say cake nd drinks nexdoor wen i went ere wth ths kid(i was mentorin her)she said she is nt invytd,

U did the right thing nd if banendlebe she will change for the better.

VusiK
12 Sep 2013 10:07

@Portcia ....

Welcome to the new entited , zero regard, selfish South Africa... they are feeling out the power structures in the organization.

I am glad there is an elevator straight from the basement to my office (I never have to encounter anyone except my support staff & executive ... or I'd fire them after the first un-reciprocated courtesy.

I understand some interns think that we are aChinese or Japanese Company because our name sounds oriental, plus , my understudy is Chinese, ... so they fall all over themselves when seeing the orientals (who find it amusing) ...

The one week, ... an intern in a group said O-batla mang? ... messengers should leave packages with the mail room / repository (I was wearing sandals, cargo shorts, and a polo-type shirt) ... looking all casual and all (It was not a friday, but I was on my way home around lunch time after an all nighter ... (I got a bed in my office ... wait till they find that out, lol)

I simply said "Sorry, I did not know" ... and walked to the elevator

Wait until the company function when we launch subsidiaries and find out I am the CEO & Chairman

Bk212303
12 Sep 2013 10:40

I simply said "Sorry, I did not know" ... and walked to the elevator

Wait until the company function when we launch subsidiaries and find out I am the CEO & Chairman

Kwaaaaaak i can imagine the shock, its gonna be like isnt the guy...messenger..i thought...i...

No discipline kwabantwana.sis

laleli
12 Sep 2013 10:47

@Portcia company's culture are different those interns need to adapt

In my company people do greet in the morning but will never say bye when leaving, No communications about sick leave and annual leaves even funerals
i found it strange but I’m used to it now

VusiK
12 Sep 2013 10:51

Well. .. It is the quickest way to zero one's chances of afvancement. It is not my career that is at risk after all.

Goldi
12 Sep 2013 10:54

You did the right thing Posh lala a year it's a very long time i dont understand gore how can you just walk passed ppl and not even greet them worse in the same building nogal i mean u see m everyday whooooo rona we were thought to greet whether you know that person or not it's called UBUNTU, LOL Vusi she would wish for a hole to open and swallow her mxxxxm bloody brets

portcia
12 Sep 2013 11:27

Yeh bloody brets in deed, i felt horrible after shouting at them and asking them why dont they greet, but now i feel better, they didnt even go to the reception NO, all they did was walking up and down. thanks guys, i really feel better now.

Goldi
12 Sep 2013 11:38

That's what we here for my strawberry Fudge :)

S.K
12 Sep 2013 13:01

Wasup my people.. sexy D unjan

Ey the part ya Akhona and the geekboy,yabhora shem hhay

I think the only person for me that make me continue watching is Scott Nomvete...

Bk212303
12 Sep 2013 13:02

strawberry Fudge :?????

Xihuhure
12 Sep 2013 13:11

Good day Family. A good day before payday. Have a fabulous productive day

Loveforever
12 Sep 2013 13:17

Guys i guess it all depends on teh culture of teh company. i work as a receptionist/admin assistant for a private company where the majority of people are white. no scratch that sentence, where i am the only black person over 12 white guys, 3 bosses included, yeh lady admin manager. There is nothig we dont know about each other. Who stays where, the color of you house, how many bedrooms and bathrooms, how many children, who is married who is not and who is divorced' who is gay and who is not.

When i first started working there i didn't like teh set up, but now i could'nt ask for a better job. Being at work and at home is the same for me. You dont leave the office without reporting to the receptionist where you going, even if yiu are going to get you a cold drink fron the shop next door and you must also ask teh others if they want something from teh shop.

Come lunch time you must go desk by desk asking people if they have brought lunch boxes or if they need something to eat from the shops. We attend each others parties, weddings, etc. You say hello to everyone in the morning and goodbye to everyone after work. If someone is not inteh office we know the reason why, maybe they are a a meeting, sick at home, having lunch with someone somewhere.

Sorry for the essay, but guys i don't know if i can work anywhere else.

S.K
12 Sep 2013 13:20

Interns are so full of themselves, u would swear they are the ones getting a fat pay cheque in the office plus 13th cheque end of the year.

S.K
12 Sep 2013 13:28

@Loveforever

There are pros and cons in those setups.. lol

I don't mind that setup either but,dude.... we have a central aircon in our office and damn those white fellas are super hot blooded and I freeze even if its 42 degrees outside,
Now that's tortue

portcia
12 Sep 2013 13:56

Guys this people are not even interns, they are learners, our company offers some people aged 18 to 25 a lernership, where by they post their CV and they have to be assesed before they can offer them a lernership, we deal with Merseta.
So these students have their own class room with their training officer, they only come to the office when they need some cleaning equipment.

On the other side we at the office we are nice to each other whereby we greet each other thousand times, everytime we meet we say HELLO, Even the guys who work in the workshop, greet us and we greet back, and they also complain about this ladies.

Yes BK... Strawberry Fudge......

portcia
12 Sep 2013 13:57

Sorry S.K

Loveforever
12 Sep 2013 14:00

@S.K i know exactly what you talking about dear. It happened a lot when i started working here because i used to sit next to the other lady. They would always ask me if i am not hot and i would tell them this office is ice cold. i guesse they got tired of my complaining and the other lady had to move to the back of the office as she was only sitting with me temporarily in the front until i felt comfortable on my own.

VusiK
12 Sep 2013 14:10

I don't fratenize with anyone who works with me.

I am the boss, I own the entire group (100% shares are registered to me ... thus belong to me), I am the CEO, CIO, and Chairman.

All my employees (except for those who are actually close ti me ... most of whom are the execs) are not my friends, never will be ... don't want them to be. They are employees, not colleagues, not friends ... nothing!

(which is why my PAs and their secretaries are foreigners .... and have worked or governments where I do business and have top secret clearance in their originating countries. (we deal with government secrets a fair amount), hence we compartmentalized the business and I operate in isolated space ... with the exception of the senior staff, senior researchers, nobody has access to me.

In South Africa ... familiarity breeds serious contempt.

Don't like it ... go work elsewhere!

VusiK
12 Sep 2013 14:18

... with me it is simple ...
one is employed to work a certain task ...
I expect those tasks to be fulfilled, Period!

The ladies who work the tills where I take my mother grocery shopping told her tthe other week that when I accompany my mother, they excuse themselves to go to the toilet because I tell them to stop their chatter and give me service ... and may resume when I have bee served.

The package packers I understand bear the brunt of my ire ... so she has been told because they pack the bags wrong, and I make them unpack them and do the task properly... without backchat, or fratenization with other colleagues ...

Otherwise I call the manager (and owner) ... who happen to know me personal and i consider friends and who address me as Mr. K........

So ... i suppose i am anal about a person's responsibility to their appointed duties.

sexy d
12 Sep 2013 14:22

@S.K hello am gud gud......long time hey hope u r gud n its gud to have u back...

VusiK
12 Sep 2013 14:39

It is as simple as this ...

When one gets up in the morning, gets the children ready ...
gets in their transport and goes to some building ...
Where is one going?

Is the person going to work,
or to hang out,
Chill, chat, and fratenise, and possibly be rude with their ill manners
... or is one going to WORK at their place of EMPLOYMENT?
anything other than work ...be elsewhere, vacate the space I pay for!

I will find someone to come do the work, and that person will find themselves NOT in my employ ... thus no check, no input, and good riddance!

Mimibob
12 Sep 2013 15:03

Good afternoon all. Had a hectic but productive morning. Will read your posts later... Missing the house..

Goldi
12 Sep 2013 15:03

Eeerrrrr BK kun'xaki mandicho njalo?? mind my spelling i'm learning here hahahaha come now dont be jealous now my munchi, SK darking that's tortue alright askies

Deemo
12 Sep 2013 15:13

uncle vusik i wanna be your employee, i ve got that no nonsense attitude,no chatty chatty at work,i just greet every and i dont even bother if you dont reply.i dont tolerate any office gossip,the ladies i work with say im tough but the guys are cool wth it.i just smile at my clients and they love my service,i know where my bread is buttered.......... Not in office gossip

Deemo
12 Sep 2013 15:13

uncle vusik i wanna be your employee, i ve got that no nonsense attitude,no chatty chatty at work,i just greet every and i dont even bother if you dont reply.i dont tolerate any office gossip,the ladies i work with say im tough but the guys are cool wth it.i just smile at my clients and they love my service,i know where my bread is buttered.......... Not in office gossip

Deemo
12 Sep 2013 15:23

eiiish sorry for the double post people ladies how do you feel when you see your wekmate wth the same clothes clothz u were wearing the day before,or she kips buying the same wardrobe as yoz

Pastry
12 Sep 2013 15:39

Afternoon nonke

Hehehee...malume Vusi such a small pack you are, mmhhh i wonder where do you store up all the big words, the wisdom and the theories of your readings! pls i dont wanna hear dynamites come is small packages crap from anyone hey...lol

I saw your comment of this morning...just that at times i feel its pointless to respond to your comments, not that i have no point to put forward and shy away from debating further....just nje you seem to analyse everything and have an answer to everythng that anyone says. Whether that is good or bad is irrelevant...your views are distinctively noted!

VusiK
12 Sep 2013 15:53

@Pastry ...

I have no illusions, nor do I allude to know Everything, or know the answers to everything.
There is much for me to learn something new,
I am open to learning ... anything, at any time,

It does set people off when in a discussion I say "I did not know that!
... or as I say in the exec meetings "No *bleep!* ?!?
The current standard response is generally
"Yes ... *bleep!* !"
& I will say .. "I'll be damned ... you learn something new every day!

lol

Mimibob
12 Sep 2013 15:53

I realize I must gave been really busy this morning. I went to work from one of our offices, not where I'm based. I didn't tell anyone where I was because I didn't want to be bothered. I'm doing my job and my boss', in his absence, entailing a lot of reading (and editing), then approving.. I managed to do what in employed to do today. I'm just lolling at the posts, from Vus' encounter with the intern, to him not fraternizing with staff (which I support for his position), the no nonsense attitude (Mmm... I like a man in control)... The killer is Deemo marketing him/herself... Lol...

Mimibob
12 Sep 2013 15:58

@ Deemo, "...ladies how do you feel when you see your wekmate wth the same clothes clothz u were wearing the day before,or she kips buying the same wardrobe as yoz" If someone shows up at work or church in an outfit similar to mine, I immediately stop putting on that outfit at work/church as applicable. If they keep buying the same wardrobe as yours, they must really admire you.. If its coincidance, them you might have similar tastes. If you have a problem with it, start shopping elsewhere.

Bk212303
12 Sep 2013 15:59

anything other than work ...be elsewhere, vacate the space I pay for!

Yhooo Uncle Vusik......

which means when u=you enter everyone knows what to do....yho hectic stuff

Nongo
12 Sep 2013 15:59

hi al @Deemo that means that particular person does not have their own taste relies on others. now go for tailor made she will have nothing or try do the chinese way "something similar" lols

Goldi
12 Sep 2013 16:04

Deemo is a SHE lol good for you Deemo hahahahahaha

Laters xxxxx

Pastry
12 Sep 2013 16:05

Deemo...just give her a Bells, she will back off!

Yes malume Vusi...am yet to get to that level of my life hey!

VusiK
12 Sep 2013 16:20

@BK ...

There isn't a single element of my business I do not know how to operate.
I employ people in line functions because my time is probably better served elsewhere.

ICT misbeaves, ... I go to the server room and pull out a server node, and decrypts and debug code

I have no marketing department

Finance has problems ... I go sit next to the person who is stuck and work through the system with him, and show him/her how to get it right
Research returns incomplete wrk, I go sit with the researcher and teach the person how it should be done, why the information the provided is irrelevant / superflous, and show them how to package it for the executive.

Most of the time I say "I have been sent to help you with assignment ......"

They only find out when it is months later ... at some corporate function who I am

and...
then they get completely unhinged ! , lol

the bottom line for me is ...
"I can do your job, but my attentin is needed elsewhere most of the time, so please do yours as well s I would if I was doing it myself."
....
Which is probably why my staff is loyal to near religious measures.
...
And there is no union in my business.
.. besides ...
my people are paid way higher than industry norms
However, ...
I expect very high value for what some would consider my generosity.

VusiK
12 Sep 2013 16:22

@pastry

I am told I have a way with people

... But if you want unadulterated wisdom ...

You need to spend time with my sister !

(She puts me to shame ... Honest!)

VusiK
12 Sep 2013 16:31

@BK ...

I actually have a soft nature,

rather humane, and soft spoken.

I just don't take crap!

Bk212303
12 Sep 2013 16:39

my people are paid way higher than industry norms
However, ...
I expect very high value for what some would consider my generosity.

Mmh now i get the point and i wouldnt mind working for someone like you

You say to teach them when needed so that everything goes accordingly so there is really no excuse to say i dont know how to do this.......

And then you pay them well which is ...thats what we all want so i get the pic ke ngoku...

Cause sometimes you get these bosses who is harsh but they dont pay good salary and also you dont get a chance to be trained or taught properly..

Yhoo byeeeee ppl time is gone

VusiK
12 Sep 2013 16:54

@BK ....

It is important to understand that I CAN DO their work.

I only need them because there would not be enough time to do my work properly if I had to do their work as well.

khabzette
12 Sep 2013 17:02

ay ke kusho mina ngeke ngilaste at bhut Vusik's company. I have such a bubbly personality and i work hard and play hard. i had a tough time with a colleague not long ago, i wld talk to her and she wouldnt answer hey. in the end the boss had to intervene cos this lady doesnt have a licence and i would spend the day withe her chauffering her. now we good like that.

Mimibob
12 Sep 2013 18:45

I'm feeling tired now, need to go home. People must wish for my boss to return soon. I'm very thorough, so picking little things and returning stuff without authorizing. Just tired of this reading...

Mimibob
12 Sep 2013 19:26

Please pray with me. My body is not feeling too good. My neck feels like it either has a swollen or raptured vein, and my head is pounding like crazy. I'm off to bed.

VusiK
12 Sep 2013 21:14

Be Better Mims.

Pastry
12 Sep 2013 21:19

Ao tlhe o fole Mims...dnt overwork yourself dear

Deemo
13 Sep 2013 06:30

hey mimi hope u a feeling better this morning, happy friday to you all as for me very soon i wll be in the holy hours preparing for church tommorrow,enjoy the day to the fullest

Bk212303
13 Sep 2013 08:38

Morning everyone howzit? Mimza uryt my dear?

Nongo
13 Sep 2013 08:38

morning family.
get well Mimi!!!!

hey pips it's my birthday today eish mare ke a tsofala neh oopss

yoyozz
13 Sep 2013 08:51

Bk212303
13 Sep 2013 09:03

Hppy b-day Nondo..Enjoy my dear

khabzette
13 Sep 2013 09:28

morning peeplo :) Mimz i truly hope you feeling better today. happy birthday @Nongo.

Ntaksay
13 Sep 2013 09:52

Good Morning

Just finished reading all your comments,

How are you this morning Mims, hope you are feeling better!!!!!!

Goldi
13 Sep 2013 10:20

Morning and happy friday the 13th

Mims babe hope you feeling better take it easy and take care, Happy birthday Nongo may the good Lord keep on blessing you with many more years to come, we need to have a party guys it's been a while

Deemo
13 Sep 2013 10:27

hepi bethday nongo,ukhule uzeukhokhobe,hope i got the spelling ryt

Mimibob
13 Sep 2013 10:29

Thank you guys for the love. The body is still not too good. I will be fine. I will be off blogging for sometime. Keep the house warm. Goldi, be a good girl. Happy Birthday Nongo. Blessings.

shero
13 Sep 2013 10:46

Morning family,MJ is such a charmer ,i like it

Pastry
13 Sep 2013 10:49

Happy birthday Nongo! Celebrate without worrying or complaining. Addition is better than subtraction!

Pastry
13 Sep 2013 10:51

Cant be easy pushing that away hey Shero? I was smitten myself...lol

duckie
13 Sep 2013 11:08

u gota love MJ,

he has his ways xem

Sorry mims@wishin u a speedy recory-in the name of god u r healed.

Happy Born day Nongo-make t one to remember

Goldi
13 Sep 2013 11:28

Ohh!! i'm so gona miss you Mims do you perhaps know how long you'll be off? on the blog or email as well?

i'm always a good girl *evil grin*

Ohhh MJ and the body whooooooooo *feeling hot* SEX APPEAL YA MANNETE *just saying you know*

Nunumsi
13 Sep 2013 12:07

Ohhhhhhhh uKhethiwe kodwa nengane sorry Bela u didn't want with your kuku now MJ is doing all those sexy moves to get umagogo bcoz ubuzwe kahle ubumnandi bekuku

Ntaksay
13 Sep 2013 12:12

Happy birthday Nongo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Lots of hugs dear.

We'll be waiting for our share of the cake.

Bk212303
13 Sep 2013 12:18

Yeyi didnt watch last nite what happened to Mj and Kheti cause it seems like it was hot talk to mee just that part plzzzz????????????

Ntaksay
13 Sep 2013 12:31

Phenyo can't stand the site of Dineo I don't understand why he's making a effort to save his marriage. He says he is doing it for the child, *non-existing child* if Dinny was really preggies what kind of environment was that child going to be raised in.

Nongo
13 Sep 2013 12:32

ngiyabonga bangani bam, ngiyalithanda lonke.
( hey im i right thank you all friends, i love yall) im back 2sqr1 in zulu learning coz generations is gone now!!

will be out for the weekend now, thank you guys.

Stay blessed.

bomyy
13 Sep 2013 12:32

http://bomishinga.blogspot.com/

Great storry on the above link guys, you will not regret reading it. trust me :)

Pastry
13 Sep 2013 12:34

BK...MJ in boxer shorts and Apron only, suprise dinner for Khethi

Ntaksay
13 Sep 2013 12:39

Bk
The renovations are done at Siqalo, so Khethi phoned the tenants to move back to their rooms. MJ overheard Choppa talking to Khetiwe on the phone telling him to move back on Monday. MJ asked when Khethiwe is moving back he told him that she has already moved back. He wanted to surprise her with dinner so he aske Choppa to lie to khethiwe and ask her to meet him at his flat of which choppa did. To Khethiwe's surprise there was no meeting with coppa but a dinner prepared for her by MJ in his undies and APRON only. she told him that she is not interested he is jus a boy. But Mj insisted she went out and he followed her to the parking she told him that he is a fool and he said for her he can be a fool anytime. the kissed.

Goldi
13 Sep 2013 12:39

Eish! Ntaks he irritates me shem whats the point of saving he's marriage if he's gona act like a douche bag mxxxxm Dinny must just put on her big gir's panties and move on haaai cant stand to be treated like dirt only in the name of a baby *non existence baby nogal*

Pastry
13 Sep 2013 12:42

Hi bomyy...cant open the link. Pls repost if possible

Goldi
13 Sep 2013 13:07

Same here Pastry

bomyy
13 Sep 2013 13:25

http://bomishinga.blogspot.com/

there is the link again

bomyy
13 Sep 2013 13:26

Ahm i do not know how to set it up, cant you guys copy and paste it http://bomishinga.blogspot.com/

Goldi
13 Sep 2013 13:48

thanks Bomyy already reading :)

portcia
13 Sep 2013 13:50

Hi everyone, bomyy i also cant open the link

@2012
13 Sep 2013 13:53

hello family...............................hw is everybody.....missin the family

maybe next il be back 2 my city residence if things go according 2 plan or speed up......i mis home already & mis my couch when watching my tv......i seee a lot is happening....tjo!!! i am missing ka nnete.......hope il b able 2 catch up

Pastry
13 Sep 2013 14:15

Quiet lengthy bomyy...let me go start Chapter 1 Episode 1

bomyy
13 Sep 2013 14:29

Porticia please just type the url or copy and paste it on your browser, I am unable to post a link on here...

Pastry it is a very interesting read... thank me later ;)

bomyy
13 Sep 2013 14:50

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