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Generations Teasers - November 2013

Written by TVSA Team from the blog Generations Teasers on 18 Oct 2013
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Coming up on Generations this November, 2013:

Friday 1 November 2013
Episode 223 (3985)


Patrick is shocked by what Ruby says at the meeting. MJ returns a favour for a friend. Akhona’s romantic evening doesn’t go as planned.



Monday 2 November 2013
Episode 224 (3986)

Phenyo decides it’s time for the truth to come out. Jabulani saves Zimbini from a beating. Nicholas takes the easy way out of a tricky situation.

Tuesday 3 November 2013
Episode 225 (3987)


Choppa is stunned to hear who Zara 101 is. Dineo’s devastated when her own mother shuns her. Ngamla wants to send someone a warning, but gets one instead.

Wednesday 4 November 2013
Episode 226 (3988)


Distressed Akhona makes a desperate phone call. Scott is shocked by what he finds at prison. It’s Isabel’s turn to play matchmaker.

Thursday 7 November 2013
Episode 227 (3989)

Sello gives a grim warning regarding the Dlomos. MJ’s friends don’t know how to cheer him up. Zodwa is more confused than ever.

Friday 8 November 2013
Episode 228 (3990)


Dineo is surprised to find Phenyo on her doorstep. Ngamla takes matters into his own hands. Ruby loses it when a customer threatens to sue her.



Monday 11 November 2013
Episode 229 (3991)

Akhona is hopeful when Nicholas invites her for a drink. The trial of the year starts off with a bang. Zinhle instructs Isabel on how to seduce her man.

Tuesday 12 November 2013
Episode 230 (3992)


Scott confides in Cindy about a dangerous plan. Senzo and Jason find out what their ‘isikhonzi’ has been up to. Khethiwe and Queen get snubbed when trying to help a friend.

Wednesday 13 November 2013
Episode 231 (3993)

Zodwa is caught red-handed. Ngamla risks it all for his family. Desperate Phenyo turns to Noluntu for help.

Thursday 14 November 2013
Episode 232 (3994)

Nicholas refuses to give up his newfound happiness. Sello is set on getting his revenge. A fight at the shebeen gets out of hand.

Friday 15 November 2013
Episode 233 (3995)


Ruby wants to show the world she still has what it takes. The prophet aid has some upsetting news for the Dlomos. Dr Chetty decides to do some investigating of her own …



Monday 18 November 2013
Episode 234 (3996)

Akhona is convinced Kimberley’s hiding something from her. Zodwa isn’t ready to give up the love of her life yet. Ngamla has a major setback.

Tuesday 19 November 2013
Episode 235 (3997)


Nicholas is furious when MaSongo chases him away. Choppa has a bee in his bonnet and refuses to back down. Jabulani puts two and two together and is shocked by what he finds.

Wednesday 20 November 2013
Episode 236 (3998)


MJ refuses to have contact with Mawande. Queen has an idea on how to help Ruby with her comeback. Phenyo is determined to have his revenge.

Thursday 21 November 2013
Episode 237 (3999)


Zodwa is starting to have doubts about her relationship. Senzo begs Scott to help him. Ngamla receives a letter which shocks him to the core.

Friday 22 November 2013
Episode 238 (4000)

Dr Chetty has more bad news for the Dlomos. Akhona’s mind races when she hears who’ll be at tonight’s party. Nicholas shows up at the Dlomo house drunk.



Monday 25 November 2013
Episode 239 (4001)


MaSongo forbids the young lovers from seeing each other. Ruby is depressed about what she reads in the newspapers. Kimberley is almost caught in the act.

Tuesday 26 November 2013
Episode 240 (4002)

Ngamla gets good news for a change. Dineo believes there’s still a chance to save her marriage. Zodwa gives in to temptation.

Wednesday 27 November 2013
Episode 241 (4003)


Scott is determined to hit Sello where it hurts. Nicholas talks his way into a tight spot. Phenyo denounces the Dlomo name.

Thursday 28 November 2013
Episode 242 (4004)


Noluntu is horrified by what she finds in her room. Choppa pleads with Matthew to give them one more chance. Senzo has a meltdown.

Friday 29 November 2013
Episode 243 (4005)

Jason loses it and punches a colleague. Akhona is furious when she hears about the ‘engagement’. If Phenyo wants a fight, Dineo will give him one.



Generations is on SABC1 Mondays to Fridays at 20h00.



509 Comments

glori
18 Oct 2013 15:42

1st

duckie
18 Oct 2013 15:46

2nd

Keratile
18 Oct 2013 15:47

Good afternoon family

untus
18 Oct 2013 15:48

4th

Mpho Patricia nkwinika
18 Oct 2013 15:55

Mmmm

Bnanas
18 Oct 2013 15:56

6th

moltana
18 Oct 2013 15:56

yipeeee no 5

AngieAngela
18 Oct 2013 15:57

5th, interesting...

AngieAngela
18 Oct 2013 15:57

Oh no8 sorry...

teekay.m
18 Oct 2013 15:58

wow for 1st tym em at top ten really wooooo!i would like to welcum ma self been a silent blogger hello mense

mannieM
18 Oct 2013 16:02

Afternoon number eleven not bad, now let me read.

Khutso mokoto
18 Oct 2013 16:03

Top 10 yeah

shortylicous
18 Oct 2013 16:03

Number 1

Chichigirl
18 Oct 2013 16:05

jazz007
18 Oct 2013 16:07

yah top 10

Alyka
18 Oct 2013 16:13

Top 20.

Dikwe ust
18 Oct 2013 16:16

top 20 neh

bananasplit
18 Oct 2013 16:21

Zodwa is up to no good a leopard doesn't change its spots. I wonder what will happen to Zimbini.

Shezzie
18 Oct 2013 18:51

He ba2

Robina
18 Oct 2013 20:19

Haaaaibo zodwa????????????????

Mlizo
18 Oct 2013 20:27

#21 @least not bad

vivzo vee
18 Oct 2013 20:38

not bad

tshaniseka
18 Oct 2013 20:53

Top 25, atleast

andy 1
18 Oct 2013 22:29

hope de truth about diny's pregnancy is revealed

RONDA
18 Oct 2013 23:08

Kanti when is Phenyo leaving? Wasn't he said to be leaving in October family?

ntsanney
18 Oct 2013 23:50

Zodwa again?

sexy d
19 Oct 2013 05:05

@ronda he is leaving in december....zodwa n nicholas hai...so will Mbi be pregnant or not since dey aint saying anything

dakafatso
19 Oct 2013 08:15

Not interesting,dumelang!

Mokema
19 Oct 2013 08:35

Mara Zodwa

hulisaninemabaka
19 Oct 2013 15:43

am no 30

Mapson
19 Oct 2013 16:04

Yo! Zodwa isikhonzi wow top 40

@leigh.com
19 Oct 2013 18:50

Wow Generations is up for b.I.g suprises. MattHew and Sello will be back#smile#

bubbytee
19 Oct 2013 21:00

Engagement did and zodwa and. Nicolas get engaged? Wow. I hope dey won't get married. Ngamala is back good news

tshiamopatience
20 Oct 2013 06:38

34 not bad at all

Nomnqanase
20 Oct 2013 15:18

Nhlebaby
20 Oct 2013 15:25

Nhlebaby
20 Oct 2013 15:26

Top 40 not bad at all

Leehle
20 Oct 2013 17:50

Am on top 40, wow! I lov my generations.

Mandla Smesh
20 Oct 2013 18:06

i'm in the top 50 , not bad 4 a first timer

@2012
21 Oct 2013 08:09

lets see whtas in store

yoyozz
21 Oct 2013 08:36

41 shaim on me

@2012
21 Oct 2013 08:36

sbusiso is back thats what i love.....seem interesting....will wait & see

Ntaksay
21 Oct 2013 08:41

Good Morning
Nick and Zodwa, hayi hayi.
At least we'll see Ngamla this month.

yoyozz
21 Oct 2013 08:44

kwaaaa im number 3 hurrrayyyy sexy number and 2012 number

Ms Opinionated
21 Oct 2013 09:00

Mornings!!

As far as i remember Phenyo's exit is supposed to be early December, they should just make him elope with Zimbini (expecting at that time)

Ms Opinionated
21 Oct 2013 09:00

Mornings!!

As far as i remember Phenyo's exit is supposed to be early December, they should just make him elope with Zimbini (expecting at that time)

Bk212303
21 Oct 2013 09:12

Whaaaat??

portcia
21 Oct 2013 09:47

Number what what, 

Matthews is coming back, mmmhhhmmm
Akhona is ferious to hear about the engagement, who engages who?
Zodwa is caught red handed, what are you up to, now, girl?
Who is Masongo?

@2012
21 Oct 2013 09:56

&............action................it seems there will be 1

@2012
21 Oct 2013 09:56

&............action................it seems there will be 1

@2012
21 Oct 2013 09:57

yoyozz eish number what what

Goldi
21 Oct 2013 10:13

top 100 eish let me go and read

Goldi
21 Oct 2013 10:22

Haaibo Zodwa and Nick haai soka maan Mfundi is messing with us here he's suppose to teach us that it's possible that a person can change mxxxxxm, too much drama and confusion arg i'm bore already *yawn* or sorry where are my manner MORNING MY MUSHROOMS

Timone
21 Oct 2013 10:39

Hayke ngoku Zodwa and Nick will hook up?!
It looks like Mnqobi will have a relapse :-(
I thought we've seen the last of Sello, ah well.
LOL! @ this "Jabulani saves Zimbini from a beating".  This can either be Dineo or Ruby.

Ntaksay
21 Oct 2013 10:40

@Posh I think it will be Nick and Zodwa's engagement *just my thought*
Masongo Might be the Mthandazi but angazi.

nomajaji.
21 Oct 2013 12:36

mara u nicholas laye shuwa, going back to that psycho bitch futhi.........

Pastry
21 Oct 2013 13:00

Havent been following gen for a few weeks now.

Hope everyone is okay...its clearly very quiet in here!

portcia
21 Oct 2013 13:19

Thanks Ntaks, yoh imagine guys, Zodwa and Nicolas again, yoh Akhona will die, eish guys, you know i thought Zodwa has changed, and she will save Mqobi, but hay.................. you are right Goldi, mfudi was supposed to show us that when people are given second chance in life, they can change, buy hay.... it seems as if Zodwa will play her dirty tricks again, yoh i give up.

Leehle
21 Oct 2013 13:54

Sello and Ngamla, am only interested in these parts !

tandoz
22 Oct 2013 09:23

i dont like coming bck of Matthew en Sello they are boring,i wish they can bring back Mawande.Zodwa heyi lentombi le.cant wait to see wht she'z up to now coz le yoba ngumprofeti daznt suit her.ngubani uMasongo na?

Goldi
22 Oct 2013 09:44

Just passing by Posh i also thought that Zodwa will help Mqobi hey ai no

This house is so quiet where is every1?

Nunumsi
22 Oct 2013 10:25

Gen family is dead whoever said they must create a separate blog for dusting topics is guilty of killing this family...

NoMdazB
22 Oct 2013 10:40

Hello everyone. I knew Zodwa hadn't changed. Shame Akhona.

portcia
22 Oct 2013 10:41

Im here, Goldi, ya ne, the house is slowly dying, i wish Zimbini could just record her conversation with Dineo, then give it to Phenyo, so he can listen to his crazy wife. The thought that she will say she got miscarriage because of Zimbini, makes me mad.

NoMdazB
22 Oct 2013 10:47

I don't think anyone on Gens has a more difficult job than Dineo's therapist. She's gone completely off the rails! I can't imagine being so desperate for a man to stay with me.

Mimibob
22 Oct 2013 10:52

Lol @ Nunumsi. I refuse to accept the charge. I just suggested... The dusting blog is quiet as well. Let me try to revive: Do you guys find it easy to tell your parents you love them? I can easily tell my dad that because we've always related that way. Mom just sent a message and said she loves me. I know she does, but it sounded awkward. I'm struggling to write "I love you too". I love her. She means everything to me, but we've never related that way. How is it for you?

Mimibob
22 Oct 2013 11:00

Hi Goldi. I'm here dear. I don't watch Gens anymore, so have no comments..

Bk212303
22 Oct 2013 11:09

Hi everyone yes its true the house is slowly dying shem, but its not the dusting blog it was already dead. @Mimza hey its also difficult for me for my mom but my dad i said it once hahahah only once heee to think about hayi its not good nhe

Mimibob
22 Oct 2013 11:18

@ BK, once? Lol... You can still do some more. I hug them both all the time. I even baby up to my mom, I sit on her lap, etc. I think expression in word is the problem.

NoMdazB
22 Oct 2013 11:22

Well Mims, I only have my mom cos dad passed away so my mom and are very close. So we tell each other all the time. I'm not even sure who's the bigger baby between the two of us.

Bk212303
22 Oct 2013 11:33

Yeyi Mimza i know my dear its just that i think the fact that  i was raised by someone else played a big part in this whole thing cause they were not there most of my childhood so yah. But when i chat with my dad i speak less and more actions that shows that i love him and i know deep down he knows i do even if i dont say it more often.

My mom ke on the other hand we are just two ppl who talk and dont say anything about loving each other or whatsoever. But i love both wethu equally.

Goldi
22 Oct 2013 11:45

ohh well we need to bring the family back together hey Mims me and my mom we are BEST FRIENDS hey i was raised by my mom and stepdad unfortunately he passed on *may he's soul rest in peace* just like Nomd not sure whos the big baby hahahaha not a day that goes by and  the love  word was not mentioned between the two of us *huge grin* it's now passing on to my young man *priceless* but not my elder one!!

My biological dad is still alive but we are not that close instead i'm close to my younger sister from he's side ofcos i'm the only child on my mom's side

vuxy
22 Oct 2013 12:28

Mimibob
22 Oct 2013 12:50

Thanx for sharing guys. Hey Nunumsi, I tried. Even Vuxy is back with his/her creepy, empty posts.

portcia
22 Oct 2013 12:57

Hey Mims, me and my father, we are the best friends. my mom and i are not so close, we do talk and laugh, but she is strict, she even try to tell me now what to do, as if i still live under her roof, and my father will always remind her, that im not a little girl anymore. sometimes mom get jelous with our friendship, but i love them both, dont really say I LOVE YOU, to either of them, but i guess they know that.

Pastry
22 Oct 2013 15:03

Gen seem interesting in Nov...i might jut come back to watch

Raised by my mom and stepdad...i must say i got more affection from my stepdad than my mom. Now grown up am close to both of them. Never really express anything in words except via whatsapp on special occassions, i have no doubt though that they love me and i am certain they know where i stand with them. Have proven that way too many times.

Baing a mom today i make sure i embrace my affection with my son and tell him how much i love him every opportunity i get.

Ntaksay
22 Oct 2013 15:28

Hello everyone

I am close to both my parents and I do tell them that I love them.

Sukirai
22 Oct 2013 16:11

Mfundi your script is now boring Nicholas and Zodwa again man man man. Also change your style miscarriage happened t Dineo overnight the next day she was going to work

Pastry
22 Oct 2013 16:42

The part about Nic and Zodwa am sure its scripted by Gen Head script writer Bongi to attest that she has no issues with the two youngsters friendship

Yolanda mguni
22 Oct 2013 20:48

Wil dineo succeed

Keratile
22 Oct 2013 20:57

Dineo, Phenyo and Zimbi are playing each other. Did you see Phenyo and Zimbi act like real lovers? Hmm! I smell trouble. ...

Yolanda mguni
22 Oct 2013 21:07

Ya there iz trouble in the house, why dineo cant move on, she wastin her tym

Ntaksay
23 Oct 2013 09:25

I agree with you Keratile trouble/drama is about to start in that flat, Mbini is strongly falling in love with Phenyo and Dineo can see that I don't understand why she does not stop with her nonsense and do what she does best *LIE* about miscarrying.

Good Morning family

laleli
23 Oct 2013 09:28

Morning Gen Family

Does anyone understand Tokoloshi drama on SABC2? i have been watching for weeks but I don't understand the story line except the fact that matlakala has tokoloshi , the guy who got money from owner of the bar did he sell his child for money?

Sorry I know is not the right blog

Nunumsi
23 Oct 2013 09:51

Isn't Mbini taking contraception pills????? I think I saw her at the bar taking it or I was just dreaming.

portcia
23 Oct 2013 09:53

Hi everyone, Ntaksay  Dineo wont stop with her nonsense, she will do what ever it takes just to get her hands on baby, so what i dont get is that, even if the stomach grows*fake stomach* she wouldnt let Phenyo touch her, and what would happen if its labour time? she is so dumb, and makes me sick. Yes Pastry, Bongi has a little something to do with Zodwa and Nicolas charecter, as the rumours has it that Niccky and Zodwa were dating in real life, and thats why Bongi ended Zodwa's charector, couse she is the baby mama of Nicky boy, and when asked about Zodwa's charector, and the affair, she dinied getting cutting off Zodwa's charector on purpose.

@2012
23 Oct 2013 10:00

yes @laleli...the guy sold her child to frank for money.....i did watch it back then when it was airing on our channel here in botswana....yoh & matlakala is a real witch...but the problem is that only children realise that not adults & they will not believe chidren when they tell their scary stories about her....

i still enjoy it on sabc2 even tho i am watching it 4 the 2nd time

Mbunju
23 Oct 2013 10:15

Yaa! Generations rocks nowadays, thanx 2 Zodwa 4 coming bck 2 spice up Gen again, wow! Dinny n Zimbini u also rock de soapie nw even if m slumbering I cnt sleep without watching, u'l neva will 2 mis Gen now.

MsKim
23 Oct 2013 10:25

 i don't knw wat Phenyo has really, Dinny can simply live without him really. Zimbini for sticking up for Phenyo really?? so sad she has fallen for him, justifying his cheattings. shem i feel for u..

Bk212303
23 Oct 2013 10:30

Who wants to joll no Choppa ppl?????????

Goldi
23 Oct 2013 13:21

Hi guys

Phenyo and Mbini are both falling for each other, cant wait for the day Dinny realises that they are playing her hahhahahah BITCH she derves it and she pisses me off 

Isn't Mbini taking contraception pills????? I think I saw her at the bar taking it or I was just dreaming. Yep clever girl she's playing Dinny reg hahahaha she's buying time so she can keep on sleeping with Phenyo

Bk212303
23 Oct 2013 14:14

Tyhini how clever of her but can she handle the fact that Penyo is a cheater cause what happens when he gets tired od her kuku then what cause la ndoda iyabatywa and he can lie my dear. Hey i was laughing when he said to Dinny he has a business meeting where as she new he is lying...i wonder how does she sleep knowing her man is up and down in her sister's punapuna for 8 rounds hayi maan Dinny and im telling she will never slepp with him again cause she will keep on imagining how it was etc

Riyat
23 Oct 2013 14:18

Hie beautiful family I miss you a lot mwaah mwaah mwaah from me.

Bk212303
23 Oct 2013 14:32

Hi Riyat howzit? we've missed you too.

vuxy
23 Oct 2013 14:38

Pastry
23 Oct 2013 14:49

....and the injection Dinny was about to administer to Mbini is for? 
Hehehee Dinny..."since you have no trouble sleeping with your sister's husband anymore"

Riyat
23 Oct 2013 14:54

Bk am good. xul is hectic. Its good to go to xul when u r still young. But when u leave husband and son at home its worse.

Goldi
23 Oct 2013 15:09

lol you never old to learn hey Riyat, @ Pastry its to fertilize her poor thing she's doesnt know that Mbini okentse Stop nonsense argh!! will jst have to wait and see the out come since Phenyo will be running to Luntu's arms again, she will sleep with him gantle nje if she could do it after Thabita and Noluntu why not *smh*

portcia
23 Oct 2013 15:26

Ja ne ke gore Phenyo o monate, basadi ba bohle ba batla go robala le Phenyo, yoh.........

Dhee
23 Oct 2013 15:37

Not exactly what I hoped for 

portcia
24 Oct 2013 08:09

Morning good family, Phenyo and Zimbini are going to  be caught on act tonight, i think by Ruby.

vuxy
24 Oct 2013 08:51

Goldi
24 Oct 2013 08:57

Morning Toffees 

Eish! i feel sorry for Mbini seeing that she's the one who's falling hard and Phenyo he's just enjoying good sex *sign* 

When Phenyo find out about Dinny and Mbini's plan he's gona be so heart broken and go back to Noluntu yhooooo Gen eyakae mara?

Akhona's too pushy maan i cant wait for Zodwa to harass her once again mxxxm watena soka maan nale siyoyoyo esiwu Nick *eyes rolling*

Ntaksay
24 Oct 2013 09:43

Good morning

portcia
24 Oct 2013 09:59

vuxy, whats up with the empty posts?

Yes Goldi, Akhona o bora nna shem, Zodwa must just take Nicky away from her finish, she doesnt want to give other people second chance, she did the same with Kimberly, and thinking that she was nothing when the Memelas let her in *hmm*

Goldi
24 Oct 2013 11:12

Eish Posh you can say that again!!

sqephu
24 Oct 2013 12:27

Hi family its been a long time. I wasn't able to blog bengilahlekelwe ibhokisi lokucommenta kuno reply kuphela. I miss u so much I was only reading your comments but unable to comment   :-(

sqephu
24 Oct 2013 12:39

Hi vuxy  I had a same problem just lyk u. Just click on that line under post a reply LINE SAYS " Note: if you unable to see the Reply Box, please read this article" at the end of the line there  are words says "this article" click then read and your problem will be solved

portcia
24 Oct 2013 14:28

YOH FAMILY EE ESWELE SHEM...............
THIS FAMILY IS DEAD...................
LO MDENI U FILE...............................
DIE FAMILIE IS DOOD...................

Goldi
24 Oct 2013 14:43

Sqephu sthandwa unjani kodwa long time i'm glad you back we missed you too ((hug))

That's so SAD but True Posh :'(

Bk212303
24 Oct 2013 15:02

YES WE ARE DEAD SHEM WHAT HAPPENED TO THE SPARK??

portcia
24 Oct 2013 15:16

I dont know Bk, but we shall have to find out.

sqephu
24 Oct 2013 15:17

Ngiyaphila Goldi thanks for the hug

Alyka
24 Oct 2013 15:19

I think this is more to do with the scrambling of SABC channels in the region.  sorry for just chipping in like that.  weren't there any regional bloggers here or there were only south Africans.....in a polite manner and without wanting to offend anyone. 

Goldi
24 Oct 2013 15:27

Hey Alyka welcome no it was not SA's bloggers only do you think might be the course?

it's my pleasure Sqeph's :)

Dont worry Posh we will get the spark back or kanjani BK?

Bk212303
24 Oct 2013 16:03

Ewe maan Goldi lets dig and find what we can do, this is not on.
Not even a dusting topic will do kulemeko..

vuxy
24 Oct 2013 16:20

@sqephu thanks my dear

Mimibob
24 Oct 2013 17:54

@ Goldi, BK, et al, put VusiK and I under one roof and you'll get the spark back... (Just kidding). Lol... vuxy does have a voice... thanx Sqephu.. I now feel a little bad about my comments vuxy.

Riyat
24 Oct 2013 20:03

Hie family Surely not everyone can die in a family. Its nice to see most of the regulars keeping the house alive. Am in xul now so there so much work its hard to keep up. Even so there's no generations here so you can imagine its hard to comment when you don't know what's happening.

Riyat
24 Oct 2013 20:12

Malume Vusik please come. I can see how mimik is missing you *HIDES under the desk*

Yolanda mguni
24 Oct 2013 20:55

Its too much phenyo n zimbini

Mimibob
24 Oct 2013 22:19

@Riyat, Malume Vusik please come. I can see how mimik is missing you *HIDES under the desk*
Eish sisi, you have no idea! I only came to the blog now because I was thinking of him.

portcia
25 Oct 2013 07:40

Good morning, good family
If only Ruby knew what her daughter is up to.I think Mbini is so,so much in love with Phenyo, and she is going to hurt herself more than she can imagine.Hey guys, i like what is happening to Noluntu now, she has a heart.

sqephu
25 Oct 2013 07:42

A very gud morning to everyone hope u will enjoy your day.

@vuxy you welcome.

@2012
25 Oct 2013 08:36

portcia how about you update a sister here about what happened yesterday please

moring people

@2012
25 Oct 2013 08:40

...@alyka....think this is more to do with the scrambling of SABC channels in the region. sorry for just chipping in like that. weren't there any regional bloggers here or there were only south Africans.....in a polite manner and without wanting to offend anyone. yes dear...your answer is true...there were also many people here who were not south african now that they cannot watch generations anymore they cannot comment anymore. the sabc's are not in the packages of dstv 

Goldi
25 Oct 2013 09:30

Morning lovies happy Friday.........

ok let me try please ad on the parts i forgot 

i'll start with the 3 studies Phenyo, Mbini and Dinny...

Mbini
was still asleep when she woke up Phenyo was already dressed and ask her to take a shower since he's got a 10am app in JHB Mbini wanted him to get back to bed but he refused, at Sqalo Dinny was waiting for her with a pregnancy test  kid in hand and all Mbini wanted to do was share the details of how they made love the whole night and never left the room and miss thang was not interested in hearing all that ohh she all teared up Mbini's drawing that Phenyo made of her half naked self and she told Miss Thang that a child wont make him happy but panting will and Miss Thang told her that she's losing focus ohhh the results came back negetive.....later on Miss Thang asked Phenyo to spend some time together just the 3 of the rubbing her empty tummy *eyes rolling* she's feelilng jealous if you ask me ok moving along

@ the Dlomos

the gan was sitting @ the table having breakfast then Noluntu came in and Zodwa asked her to feed the baby, Senzo set him on hes chair then comes the cold soft porridge and Zodwa said he likes it cold ok then she started with her chuchu's and staff then i'm not sure what Mqobi did then Luntu asked ohh what did you do that for and Senzo said he normally does that so she must give him in small portions and all the trio laughed *Senzo, Luntu and Zodwa* and Jay was jealous and Zodwa saw that, later on Zodwa went to YY to tell Jay that he must not feel jealous cos what's happening is best for Mqobi and Jay said he'll try for Mqobi and Senzo's sake while in the bang came Nic boy in and they passed the greetings *it was awkward* then when Jay was walking Zodwa out Nic asked him not to pass by Akhona's desk *clears my Throaght* Zodwa was praying and asking that she doesnt want the old Zodwa back she was crazy she likes the new Zodwa and said i wonder what would have happened if Nick loved her as much as she loved him.......Nic came by later to Zodwa to apologies for what Akhona did and she said it's cool she's a changed person now and Nic asked her how did that happen blah blah blah and asked if she ever think about him/them and she said its all in the past *lies* 

ok those were the interesting part i could remember part ya bo Chopsta haai no some1 can update on that

Mbini is setting herself a HUGE HEART ACHE cos she's falling big time yhooooo

ohhh i nearly forgot Chopa asked Mbini to lock up then Phenyo came to tell her that the must be rules in this playing out that they are making heeeee then she started saying so are you gona punish me for being a naughy girl *with that naughty talk like mos and that smile* and Phenyo tried to be serious and she said she's also serious a naughty girl must be punished yhooo and then Phenyo picked her up ko BAR NOGAL......O.O

I TRIED GUYS

portcia
25 Oct 2013 09:44

Hey @2012 im not good with telling stories, but i will try

So Ruby went to see Dineo,she started talking about how i know that you want Zimbini on your side because you think Phenyo will fall for her, so you are keeping her at your place, so Phenyo cannot make his moves, and she also said Phenyo is a cheater, and she can have Mbini if he wants, what Dineo has to do, is just to keep her man happy.

Dineo gave Zimbini a pregnancy tester, and it turned up negative, so Mbini started talking about how Phenyo loves drawing, and not only a baby would make him happy, she thenshowed Dineo another drawing that Phenyo did on her, when they were away, Dineo teared the sketch, and Mbini was heart broken, that she even put it back together with a sellotape later.

At the Dlomo's house, Zodwa asked Noluntu to feed Mqobi, and Senzo was talking about how Mqobi, spelled some food on his clothes, so Noluntu must watch out, and they seemed happy, and were also laughing, but Jason was so jelous, and Zodwa picked up the vibe, so she went to see Jason at the office, just to try and tell him that, he should try not to get angry for the sake of Mqobi. While they were busy talking, Nicolas walked in the office, and Zodwa was all smiles when he saw him.

Later Noluntu spoke to Senzo, and told him that he should try to take Jason out for a weekend, couse she really doesnt like the tension between her and Jason.

Zinhle told choppa that she want out, and choppa was heart broken, and ran to queen for advice, then queen told him that she would also be jelous, if her man communicates with another lady on line.

Dineo walked into Phemyo and Mbini, scratching each other, and Mbini was about to kiss Phenyo, but she acted as if she didnt see anything.

Later Phenyo went to Mbini at work to talk about what has been happening between them, and that he doesnt want Dineo to find out, as he doesnt want anything wrong to do with the baby, but Mbini just wanted to kiss him, and was talking tasty to Phenyo, saying she admits that she did a mistake, but she loves him, so Phenyo can purnish her, by spanking her bum, then they kissed

Thats the best i can give you, dear friend, if there is someone who might want to add what i've missed, she is welcome

@2012
25 Oct 2013 11:23

thank you goldi & portcia...feel like i was watching now...got the details of how the drama un-folded 

MaPrisci
25 Oct 2013 11:34

hello everyone I'm new here and tks for the update.....

Bk212303
25 Oct 2013 11:35

Yhoo thanks guys fell asleep in front of my tv yhoo was dead tired..

Bk212303
25 Oct 2013 11:35

Hi MaPrisci welcome home ...

MaPrisci
25 Oct 2013 11:37

@Goldi I see you are still riding this horse/sheep nana (usiskhokho yaz wena).......

NoMdazB
25 Oct 2013 11:39

Good day my lovely family. I know I've been scarce, "A thousand apologies". Does Zimbini really think she has a future with Phenyo? She probably thinks she can change him because she understands him.

MaPrisci
25 Oct 2013 11:41

thank you Bk anyone for coffee????

MaPrisci
25 Oct 2013 11:44

I really like this Zimbini gal wish she can just hook up with "MJ" and Mfundi should give Izabelle her fire... (fire her)

NoMdazB
25 Oct 2013 11:45

I want cake and muffins MaPrisci. You know there there is nothing I love more than baked products and desserts when it comes to food. What do you guys enjoy?

cerebos
25 Oct 2013 11:52

Bosso ke phenyo so many kukus to eat..

cerebos
25 Oct 2013 11:52

Bosso ke phenyo so many kukus to eat..

Mbunju
25 Oct 2013 11:52

I also hope dat Zimbini is not serious abt helping Dineo, she now loves Phenyo for real and I dnt think she will fall pregnant, she is taking contraceptives when she wants to sleep with Phenyo and also she never injected her self dat day as Dineo said, wonder wht Dinny will do when she finds out.

MaPrisci
25 Oct 2013 11:59

there you have it NoMdazB as requested... If I was Zimbini I would also do the same..... *winks*..... you go gal......

Goldi
25 Oct 2013 12:24

@Goldi I see you are still riding this horse/sheep nana (usiskhokho yaz wena)....... Thanks MaPrisci and welcome home sweet cakes can i have a slice of red velvet cake and a cup of coffee thank you hun

really like this Zimbini gal wish she can just hook up with "MJ"  i agree with you nana.....Mbini's just enjoy having time to spend le Phenyo and also to have sex hence she keeps on taking birth control pills

portcia
25 Oct 2013 13:04

She must just stop this nonsense with Phenyo couse when he finds out that he has been played, they will loose him both.

portcia
25 Oct 2013 13:07

Guys have you ever thought who Zara 101 is? my monie is on Bella.

Goldi
25 Oct 2013 13:15

Now that you mentioned it Posh there's a possiblity hey + she's coming back mmmmm that would be interesting hey hahahhahaah

portcia
25 Oct 2013 14:27

Tuesday 5 November
Choppa is stunned to hear who Zara 101 is

From the conversation she had with Choppa, he once said, Zara 101 reminds me of Isabel.

Bye Goldi, it seems as if is just you and me here.

vuxy
25 Oct 2013 15:19

phenyo is serial cheater and a dog period!!!!!!!!!!

nathib7
25 Oct 2013 16:43

tshaniseka
25 Oct 2013 20:21

Hi guys Is it true that mcobi's nurse she is no more ????

Leehle
25 Oct 2013 20:35

Wow guys *thank u*, I wonder why u saing the house is dead, cos I can feel u guys everytim I get it I knw I wil find sm interesting topics. *I love u* al u alwaysmak my day!

amazing Grace
26 Oct 2013 12:43

it better 4 dineo 2 loose this mariage she doesmt 2serve it lots of liars not good i feel shame 4 zimbini but let penyo dcide whit who 2 stay btween dineo, zimbini nd noluntu

Leehle
26 Oct 2013 13:51

Yah I agree Dineo shuld jus devorce. Am sure she wil get a beter man.

Riyat
26 Oct 2013 19:55

Miss you my lovely family. Await a small surprise from me on Monday. Yay when lectures are boring I think of you guys. So monday it is.

Yolanda mguni
26 Oct 2013 20:04

Hey guyz tel mi what happened on friday plz

Riyat
28 Oct 2013 08:00

I miss my gen blog When comments used to reach a thousand When pple used to talk about their worries/problems When members would happily help their friends with solutions When we had Gameplaya4u who used to call us generubbish Oh I miss When the likes Mrs Chix, gegelege, Mandysplits, chix, would answer back and shout Oh I miss Atleast it kept the house going When at the end of the year people would organise a tvsa meet up And gen family would organise their own meet up Funny how many people would attend the gen meet up When we used to laugh at Ntaksay, Dhee, ayasha and Caros jokes until the stomach hurts When Manicure used to give us free manicure every weekend When people used to think Goldi and goldie are the same person When Friend, Kerrie, Steffie and Zdwesha would make us laugh with the dusting topic When Commented 1st never commented first at all When Kandyfloss, Rainprincess, Cmaneo and mangqezu would never be in top 20 cos new faces always came when teasers were out When Vandimerwe, Makhuu, Pastry, Ntaksay and Mskim were no what what what just hours after teasers were out When Sqephu, olothando D, impondokazi, maud, Jadapinket and bommy would send new comers to get them tea or juice even coffee When mimibobo was still mimi not the newly mimik When the likes of 05415 would ask for an update and they would get it within an hour and from 3 pple at times Oh I miss those days When Vusik was malume Vusik Oh I miss those days I really wish they can come back

Riyat
28 Oct 2013 08:05

By the way where are my manners. Morning lovely family. Those are some of the people I found at the time I joined tvsa last year. If your name is not there don't think you are not missed surely I do but those name came up when lectures where/are boring. And I would smile *afraid of laughing in class since people will think am getting mad* the moment I remember some of the peoples comments.

Goldi
28 Oct 2013 09:21

Morning cameral cakes 

Thandeka's back yipppyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy *Zulugirl*

Goldi
28 Oct 2013 09:26

Miss those days too Riyat

portcia
28 Oct 2013 10:00

Morning everyone. How Riyat, i felt like crying when reading your commend.

Goldi
28 Oct 2013 10:07

I love it too, soooooooooooooo sweet

Goldi
28 Oct 2013 10:19

I love it too, soooooooooooooo sweet

Mimibob
28 Oct 2013 11:44

Awww... Riyat, how I miss those days... There was also a crazy one like Gameplaya4u, I think the name was Kuku... When Pastry innocently asked if VusiK was Vusi Kunene and the joke lasted for days! I still laugh at the thought. When I was still innocent (before you guys corrupted me.. Lol...), and I never used to comment on dusting topics.. Eish, I miss those days.

Mimibob
28 Oct 2013 11:49

I remember when Manicure lobbied for a thousand comments for Sbusiso's kidney, and we all worked hard to put in the comments... And I couldn't tell some people apart, like BK and Makanku, and Ntaksay and Nomdazb.. (I had to tell myself "Ntaksay is the jokes lady"..)

Mimibob
28 Oct 2013 11:57

I think we need to engage Khumbulekhaya...

Mrs Chix
28 Oct 2013 12:24

Hi Blogger hope you are all good, @Riyat, I miss this blog a lot. First work is hectic and Generation is always good at finding something that irritates me, First it was Noluthu, Now Akhona and Dineo. But I still watch. I just dont have anything positive to say.

NoMdazB
28 Oct 2013 12:35

Good day bloggers. How was the weekend? I was at a wedding and it was pouring. We had to leave halfway through because it was bitterly col. Shame, poor makoti.

Goldi
28 Oct 2013 14:55

Yhoo! Nomd poor Makoti bantu!! did they have another 1 on sunday?

I had a very hectic weekend Sat it was my friends house warming had to go and cook yest we went to PTA one of my other friends was her kids Christening so got home so late took a bath and straight to titanic and sailed away........

Leehle
28 Oct 2013 15:06

Hi bo sweetness.

Leehle
28 Oct 2013 15:12

He said... Wht do u cal a woman who knows where her husband is every nigjt? I said... A widow....lol ay som ppl are so creative.

MsKim
28 Oct 2013 15:32

aw! @Riyat thats so sweet n sad. i remember those days. it really used to be busy in here. wonder wat happened? pple changed jobs/grew out of it/silent blogging/generations finally living upto its "Generubbish"? wonder!!!!

Goldi
28 Oct 2013 16:02

ohh well we can always find something to do hey MsKim!!

Hey Leehle eish this house is so quiet i think the rent must come down a bit cos it seems as if ppl are complaining about the rent money and we no longer have tea parties like we used to do so something must be done honestly

ok i'm out of here

laters xxxx

vuxy
28 Oct 2013 16:04

pjvv
28 Oct 2013 16:05

Gen got boring so pipo watch and then come n read comments and sail off...Its so boring shame. no funny tricks. 

Especially the Akhona and Dineo story lines, I cant help it. I feel Akhona is too judgemental, remember she came with nothing the Memelas took her in loved her no questions asked but yena she acts hollier than thou...Akhona should jus be sweet nje and leave bitching to Ntuntu n others.

Dineo, obsessed,  I cant shame...Phenyo naye proving he cant keep it in his pants.

portcia
29 Oct 2013 08:27

Morning all. how i wish, Mbini can just confess it all, so Dineo can have another failed marriage, she is so boring, that she thinks she lives in an imaginary world. Big up to Noluntu, i hope she changes for good.

Leehle
29 Oct 2013 08:40

Lento eyenziwa uPhenyo proves how important is sex ebantwin besilisa . Sex is the only thing they think when they r facin problms.

Goldi
29 Oct 2013 08:46

Morning muffins 

ohhh i had tears of joy as you call them when Noluntu was playing with Mqobi and you can see she was genuine when Mqobi had a seizure bantu she's coming around hope she wont change after Zodwa goes back to her hoering with Nicky boy, Phela she's created a bond between them and Senzo as well 

i feel so sorry for Dinny's Shrink she's got the most stressful job in the world dealing with that Psychopath Bitch ohhh and Mbini is such a fool to fall for Phenyo knowing what he did to Dinny he's a bloody serial cheater he's not the type to be in a committed relationship.......as for Chopa NO COMMENT  

Ntaksay
29 Oct 2013 11:30

Good Morning people

Oh Ryat Gone are those days 

 But no worries, I have consuted KHUMBUL'EKHAYA we'll find all the missing members one by one and this house will be full again.

Have a lovely day my lovely family
Love you all my  LOVIES

Ntaksay
29 Oct 2013 12:44

Family come on!!!!!!!!!!!
Does anyone ever feel emotional from a sad story/movie..............
I was reading one of Sis B's stories, I could not help but felt tears falling down my chicks. I didn't even finish reading, it made me so sad.

The story is titled "HIDEN AWAY WITHOUT GOOD BYE" 

Goldi
29 Oct 2013 12:57

You not along Ntaks i'm like that hey i remember this particular 1 cos i was with my ex when we were watching and he ended up giving me a box of tissues the was the persuit of happiness ya Will and Jedon or Jordan whatever he's name Smith yeah father and son 

Even Gen remeber when they thought that S'buda was dead  yhoooooo the way Ntombi was crying damn that woman made me cry too and my uncle was like OMG woman you are so emotional this is only fiction i said eish you dont understand hey so ya you are not alone

i'll go and check that story out

portcia
29 Oct 2013 13:13

Ja mee too, i get so emotional, i remember when i wached a nigerian movie Beyonce, when Van Vicker cheated on Jackie with Nadia, then Nadia fell so much in love with Van, forgetting that he is seeing someone, and doing all she can to keep them apart, then later Jackie has to fake death, so she can move in the other country as someone else, eish guys thinking about the story and how Jackie's cousin died, couse Nadia has send some hit man's to finish them all, and how the doctor had to help Jackie to skip the country as he was afraid for her life, poor girl, yoh i cant believe im so emotional right now, even my heart start to skip a bit.

pjvv
29 Oct 2013 13:16

Is it true Akhona is leaving Gen?

I like the character, I think she brings fun to the already boring soapie but what do  I know

Goldi
29 Oct 2013 13:38

The story is titled "HIDEN AWAY WITHOUT GOOD BYE" already read that story i think 3weeks ago ya it's so sad shem but @list she made peace at the end and leg go of that anger inside her

Monyana.N
29 Oct 2013 15:05

Hi guys..i dn't hv a copy of drum mag,can u ppl share dat story PLEASE

Goldi
29 Oct 2013 15:15

Which story MonyanaN?

Goldi
29 Oct 2013 15:17

Drum mag?? 

if its the one we talking about le Ntaks it's not on Drum Mag, it's on facebook just go and like the page Jokes with sis B or google if you not on FB

portcia
29 Oct 2013 15:18

Kwaaaaaaaaaak

Leehle
30 Oct 2013 07:50

Good mornings. I heard ppl say Gen was hot yesterday I ddnt watch. Anyone plz help me wit updates...

Bk212303
30 Oct 2013 08:29

Heeeeey everyone howzit>

Yhoo

MsKim
30 Oct 2013 08:37

good morning All. it sure is quiet here

MsKim
30 Oct 2013 08:38

Zimbini pulled out Dinny's "baby" while Phenyo was there and it ended... thats the juicy part kk.

Goldi
30 Oct 2013 08:40

Morning my Fritos.....

Yhoo i was screaming YESSSSSS last night when Mbini pulled out Phenyo's fake baby in Dinny's tummy ntlxxxx serves her right now she can kiss Phenyo good bye, it's over, heeee now Nicky boy is inlove with Zodwa now that she's the prophetess haai metlholo kannete you know Akhona's actions now irritates us but she's not lying since we know that she's *Zodwa* gona be engaged to him *Nicky boy*

portcia
30 Oct 2013 08:43

Senzo was so unreasonable to shout at Noluntu like that, if only she saw how she panicked when Mqobi had a suizer. I lol whe Zimbibi pulled out the cloth from Dineo' s stomach, serves her right, now Patric and Ruby will know Dineo is noy holly, to even think that Patrick slaped Mbini because of Dineo, hmmm

Sorry guys good morning to you all

Ms Opinionated
30 Oct 2013 08:50

Heheheh i kept saying i hope Mbini was not dreaming hahahhha, it was hot cant wait for tonight!

Ms Opinionated
30 Oct 2013 08:50

Heheheh i kept saying i hope Mbini was not dreaming hahahhha, it was hot cant wait for tonight!

Nongo
30 Oct 2013 09:20

morning good family, love yall. hey Riyat not easy to comment nowadays coz some of us have been cut out so .............. nothing to say we read and keep quiet. but we still adore family, maybe if we can go back to solving issues!!!!!!!!
laters****

Ntaksay
30 Oct 2013 10:20

Good morning everyone *Bowing for Zimbini*

You rock baby girl. I hope that was real and not someone dreaming. 
ulayekile Dinnie *in Kenneth's voice*

Ntaksay
30 Oct 2013 10:27

I heard a song that made me laugh so hard this morning, I have forgotten some of the words but it was something like: (the song was in Zulu)

Mina nawe mkami besthandana, saqhathwa ukiss.
Ungi qabula kanjani uma ungiqabula kanje,
Ungifaka ulimu emlomeni uzingidlisa amathe wakho
Ngiyakuthanda kodwangeke ngiwadle amathe wakho

English translation
You and I my love were so in love the only thing that makes us fight is the way you kiss.
How can you stick a tong in my mouth
You'll make me swallow your saliva
I really love you but I'll never swallow your saliva.

It might not be funny to you but I found it hilarious!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Goldi
30 Oct 2013 10:28

hahahahahah bamoswinne......

maybe if we can go back to solving issues!!!!!!!!
i concur phela this house it's dead and we need to bring back the spark

Ntaksay
30 Oct 2013 10:41

Monday 2 November 2013
Episode 224 (3986)

Phenyo decides it’s time for the truth to come out. Jabulani saves Zimbini from a beating. Nicholas takes the easy way out of a tricky situation. 

Dineo is really crazy if she is the one beating Mbini for exposing her.

portcia
30 Oct 2013 10:42

I dont think it can be a dream Ntaksay

Tonight's episode
Zimbini want to mend whats been broken, Hurt Phenyo finds solace in another woman's arms.

Ntaksay
30 Oct 2013 10:46

A boss said to his secretary I want to have SEX with you I will make it very fast. I'll throw R1000 on the floor, by the time you bend down to pick it I'll be done. She thought for a moment then called her boyfriend and told him the story. Her boyfriend then said to her, do it but "Ask him for R2000, pick up the money very fast he wouldn't even have enough time to undressed himself." So she agrees. Half an hour goes by, the boyfriend decides to call girlfriend, he asks, what happened? She responds, "The Bastard used coins I'm still picking and he is still f........g!"

Goldi
30 Oct 2013 10:54

Every1 must see the real Dinny for who she is PSYCHOPATH and she must be committed lol

Ntaksay
30 Oct 2013 11:02

A woman goes to her boyfriend's parents' house for dinner. This is tobe her first time meeting the family and she is very nervous. They all sit down and begin eating a fine meal. The woman is beginning to feel a little discomfort, thanks to her nervousness and the broccoli casserole. 

The gas pains are almost making her eyes water. Left with no other choice, she decides to relieve herself a bit and lets out a dainty fart. It wasn't loud,but everyone at the table heard thepouf. Before she even had a chanceto be embarrassed, her boyfriend's father looked over at the dog that had been snoozing at the woman's feet and said in a rather stern voice, "Skippy!". The woman thought, "This is great!" and a big smile came across her face. 

A couple of minutes later, she was beginning to feel the pain again. This time, she didn't even hesitate. She let a much louder and longer fart rip. The father again looked and the dog and yelled, "Dammit Skippy!" Once again the woman smiled and thought "Yes!". 

A few minutes laterthe woman had to let another one rip. This time she didn't even think about it. She let rip a fart that rivaled a train whistle blowing! Once again, the father looked at the dog with disgust and yelled,"

Dammit Skippy, get away from her before she shits on you!"

Ntaksay
30 Oct 2013 11:05

A woman and a baby were in the doctor's examining room, waiting for the doctor to come in. The doctor arrived, examined the baby, checked his weight and found it somewhat below normal. The doctor asked if the baby was breast fed or bottle fed. "Breast fed," the woman replied. "Well, strip down to your waist," the doctor asked. She did. He pressed, kneaded, rolled, cupped, and pinched both breasts in a detailed, rigorously thorough examination. Motioning for her to get dressed he said, "No wonder this baby is under weight! You don't have any milk." "I know," she said, "I'm his grandmother, but I'm glad I came."

Ntaksay
30 Oct 2013 11:19

Agnes married and had 13 children. When her husband died, she married again and had 7 more children. Again, her husband died. So Agnes remarried and this time had 5 more children. Alas, she finally died. Standing before her coffin, the preacher prayed for her. He thanked the Lord for this very loving woman and said, Lord, theyre finally together. One mourner leaned over and quietly asked her friend, "Do you think he means her first, second or third husband?" The friend replied, "I think he means her legs."

Bk212303
30 Oct 2013 11:32

hahahaahahah@Ntaksay im laughing the picking of R2000 KWAAAA

MsKim
30 Oct 2013 11:37

"I think he means her legs."


kkkkiki thanks Ntaksay! u've made my day.

@2012
30 Oct 2013 11:43

operation save the house from dying where is it..dumelang lotlhe hela

laleli
30 Oct 2013 12:24

My fiancé and I have been together for 9 years, he was a god fearing and honest man
Things changed last year when he started his businesses, he bought expensive cars, always out partying with friends and lying to his clients
His business was liquidated few months ago, he owes many people money and still he’s not honest to people he owes
The problem is he doesn’t want to sell his assets to pay up his debts

Sometimes I’m thinking of leaving him not because he’s down but because he always lies about everything
He had money to buy expensive cars but didn’t have money to support me and my kids or finish lobola

Sometimes I feel like he’s just after my money as he always request money from me and never pay me back 

your honest thoughts please

sqephu
30 Oct 2013 12:24

Hi family I've been bizy @Ntaksay kwaaaaaaaa 
"I think he means her legs" dead

sqephu
30 Oct 2013 12:29

@Ntaksay  uzosixoshisa emsebenzini bayamangala ngiqedwa yini. Clever boss

cerebos
30 Oct 2013 12:39

Ayi no mbini you did your thing , I think you helped dineo bcos her marriage failed long time ago.

Bk212303
30 Oct 2013 12:43

yhoo Laleli dont know what to say, i have a frind whose hubby was an attorney and he did MVA and would spend on client's money and buys expensive cars,houses and he was partying and so forth. She had a baby and he did support the baby and never gave her money but bought food for the house .


Give 30mins be back not done yet

Goldi
30 Oct 2013 12:48

Laleli sthandwa your fiancee is being selfish i'm sorry to say but that's how i see this as.....he needs some growing up to do, it's he's fault that the business went down the drain no one else's, you need to stop giving him money love....LIES aowa it's a NO NO NO

Ntaksay
30 Oct 2013 12:51

There is a clerk at the butcher shop, he is five feet ten inches tall, and he wears size 13 sneakers. What does he weigh?

NoMdazB
30 Oct 2013 12:59

Hi guys. Yho Laleli, your man definitely needs to grow up first. Maybe you should tell him that you don't like that he's irresponsible with money and is always asking uou or it. Unfortunately, I don't think there's much you can do about the lying. Either you put up with it or leave. Do you still love him though and do you think he loves you?

Ntaksay
30 Oct 2013 13:08

@Laleli your hubby needs to learn accountability. Don't give him the money, let him learn to be responsible, he is a grown man. He must sell the expensive cars and buy reasonable one and negotiate repayment for the people he owes money. He might need debt counselling.
 
He is only thinking of his status and not the consequences of his actions and how it affect others. 

Lying is definitely not an option.

Talk to, tell him how his selfishness affects you and the other people he owes money to, this is not fair to them as well. He can sell all the expensive assets that he does not need and pay his debts.

GOOD LUCK Dear and be strong *Lots of love*

laleli
30 Oct 2013 13:16

He needs to grow up, i have stopped lending him money but sometimes I just feel sorry for him, I bought a house alone as the Banks are very strict in giving out the bond to self-employed, the agreement was I pay the bond and he takes care of everything in the house, he used to buy groceries and pay for kids school fees,
I’m thinking of giving him a tough love and asked him to move out

BlessingBee
30 Oct 2013 13:20

im 27 and in need of an honest and loving man who will love me for real. he must be 29 to 40. and preferrable a south african. i dont want those man like Phenyo though.

Goldi
30 Oct 2013 13:23

Yes you have the right since it's your HOUSE how old is he?

So does he still do all those things paying for kid's school fees an all?

laleli
30 Oct 2013 13:38

@ goldi Not anymore he's broke, i started to pay for kids 'school fees from the beginning of the year, he was only buying groceries though he was still paying for his car

35 and acted like a 21 year old boy
a re he learned his lesson but i don't really believe him

Goldi
30 Oct 2013 13:52

You know he's actions will tell you if he's changed or not saying it doenst meant much as long as you show for it......tjooo he's old enough he needs to be take responsebility for he's actions nana i think you know what to do DO YOU THINK HE'S LEARNED HE'S LESSON?

Ntaksay
30 Oct 2013 14:14

True Goldi actions/time will tell whether he has really learnt his lesson or not.

@BlessingBee your are looking for dream man in the wrong site sister, anyway good luck with your man hunting.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Lonjezano
30 Oct 2013 14:14

afternoon guys hope you can be able to input something to my problem it will be of great help. I have never revaled this to even my relatives and friends at personal level for fear of what they will say.

I have been married for 12 years, got married early and I have 3 children with my husband the youngest being 2. I am from Malawi and we are currently residing in South Africa and i am a full time law student. my husband was the first to come to SA in 2008 and i follwed in 2009. when i arrived i could see he had changed and was involved with the local girls but i never found proof. in 2010 I became pregnant with our third child and when i went for tests i found i was HIV negative. I dont know what made me push him to have the tests as well and to my surprise he came out HIV positive. I had to be tested more than 3 times during my pregnancy for the doctors to be sure i was negative and i still came out negative. we received counselling and because of his CD4 count they said it was too early to put him on ARVs.

Since that day our sexual life has diminshed. we use condoms and he has always been consistant in using condoms when having sex but i am ever afraid about what will happen when it bursts, which has never happended and we have resorted to withdrawing even with the condom on. I still love my husband but it is this living in fear that is disturbing me. currently he is the breadwinner as i am still studying and he has been supportive of me through my studies. In my heart I still cant forgive him for the betrayal and bringing the disease into our home, and if it was not through Grace i would also be HIV positive. we agreed that we would keep this between if possible until forever. We are now a very prayeful family, and he has shown growth in his faith but this is always coming between me and my prayer life. what did i do to deserve such a burden and what is the way out/ forward. Please help me, I have never cheated on him or been attracted to anyone up to now.  Will i ever have a normal life after this.  He is still not on ARVS and his CD4 count is 825. 

Pastry
30 Oct 2013 14:16

laleli...men like that never learn + never change surely you have seen that before with this one. It remains your choice to accept him as he is and stop complaining cause you already know his true colours or move on...changing him or waiting on him to change will never happen. He had money and never even though of paying off your lobola, so irresponsible.

Stop feeling sorry for him and fending for him before you drown in debt along with him ausi. Love yourself enough to walk away fron anything that doest serve any purpose in your life anymore. Ive seen lots of women who neglect to love themselves and stand nonsense in the name of loving their spouses. Love and put yourself first.

He failed to look after his kids while he had it all...ai suka be realistic mama!

Pastry
30 Oct 2013 14:18

BlessingBee...umemployment will not be an issue hey, as long as he is loving and God fearing right?

Pastry
30 Oct 2013 14:33

Okay moving away from the dating side....

Lonzejano...hello sister, your story really touched me. I hope your baby is alsoa s healthy as you are. God is powerful and merciful sister (you are a living proof). Now, i dont wanna condemn this man for his promiscuity...taht wouldnt chnge his status for the situation that you now find yourself in.

On a brighter side...honestly no one expect HIV to set in their home, but wow it took that for your man to change his ways. I feel sorry for you and at the same time understand your difficulty to enjoy sex with your husband ever again. I realise that you allow your fear to take over, nothing if mightier than God not even HIV or FEAR. I think you still need some counselling together.

From what you mentioned, I encourage you forgive this man if you still really love him and want to be with him. Which i strongly believe is another element playing a huge role hear...you havent forgiven your man. Truth is there is life after HIV. I dont see any reason why your family cannot have a fruitful and glorious life especially because you all turned to God.

Talk to God about your fears, and never fear being honest with Him. Allow yourself to forgive and ask God to help you with that. Find a support group if possible of people with similar situations and see if that can help you deal with all of this.

I wish you luck in your studies and may God dwell in the hearts of you and your family and restore love and hope while strengthening your faith. He cant faily ou now when he saved you before...as long as you TRUST in him.

#Huggies#

Ntaksay
30 Oct 2013 14:52

@Lonjezano
Have you forgiven your husband??????????

FORGIVING him will be a good start, if you think about his cheating everytime, the you are never going to heal. 

You still have a future with your hubby as long as you use protection everytime and if you are scared of his condom blasting, the try using the female ones.

I have a friend, she is positive and her man is negative. But he supports her and they say they use protection everytime and the are living a normal life. Your hubby just has to eat healthy follow doctors orders and you will both be fine.

With the grace of the LORD you are already blessed with three healthy children. Just pray harder and ask the LORD to guide you.

You will be fine, but you need to accept that your hubby is +

mgcin
30 Oct 2013 14:57

wow,,# 200+.....yoh,,,nyc 2 c Ngamla back,,,

Goldi
30 Oct 2013 15:03

Blessing darling you are looking @ the wrong site nana, hope you find what you looking for *moving along*

Lonje ((Hug)) you need to stay strong sister you've come thus far nana with your hubby please find it in you heart to forgive him i'm sure he's sorry and thank God that you and lil one came out - you know forgiving your hubby its not only for him but for you to heal babe's ask God to give you strength and guidence through this journey God will never give you what you can't handle You love your husband and i'm sure he loves you too Nothing beats Prayer 

There's life after being HIV+ even if there's no cure @ the moment but scientist are busy looking for 1 being HIV + is not the end of the world  and he's not taking ARVs yet another blessing if he can continue to live healthy and always taking good care of he's health he'll be fine dont let this come between you and your love for him you must always be positive God's been protecting you and he's not gona stop doing that like Pastry said join support groups, and also let him know how you feel, never lose FAITH AND TRUST in the Almighty This is The God of miracles FORGIVE HIM BABY GIRL FOR YOUR OWN SAKE SO THAT YOU CAN BE ABLE TO MOVE ON 

GOOD LUCK

portcia
30 Oct 2013 16:06

How Lonje, you are a strong lady and must contiinue to be strong for the sake of your family happiness, men dont sometimes think straight, but is time now you forgive him for your sake and the sake of your children, he gave you 3 beautiful children, so you need to take care of the little ones and him, like Ntaksay said, you can still use the female condoms.

Talk to your hubby, tell him how you feel, and getting a support system will be an option, amd remember to put all your worries to God, he is the way the light and the truth, and who knows maybe in the few years to come, you will find your happiness again.

there's for you (( groupie hug)) hope you will feel better, love you girl

Ntaksay
30 Oct 2013 16:27

Bye family

maud
30 Oct 2013 16:36

Riyat - i am surprised you still remembered me, i missed you all guys.

Lonjezano
30 Oct 2013 17:50

Too emotional to respond at the moment because of the love and suport I have received. Thank you will write more tomorrow.

Lonjezano
30 Oct 2013 17:50

Too emotional to respond at the moment because of the love and suport I have received. Thank you will write more tomorrow.

Juvenile
30 Oct 2013 18:25

Mmmmmmmmmm is good news ngamla is bck.Think dis is ur tym pls mk evryone pay 4 wat did 2u no 1 mass up with ngamla nt even 1 day phenyo,noluntu and acona mst pay 4 wat dey did i no u sbu u a man of action is tym 2 do ur thng dis mst be a pay bck tym ur tym sbuda dat u hv weasted in jail

Goldi
30 Oct 2013 19:56

We are family Lonje love is gallo here @ home!!

Mimibob
30 Oct 2013 22:27

I see that the family I know and love is back... I'm not able to comment much. I have busy days and sad nights. Don't have time during the day and spend the evenings mulling over my personal stuff.

Mimibob
30 Oct 2013 22:46

@ Lonje, I admire your strength sisi. To think much lesser issues sadden me so...
We are now a very prayeful family, and he has shown growth in his faith but this is always coming between me and my prayer life. what did i do to deserve such a burden and what is the way out/ forward.

You didnt do anything to "deserve" this. Never let anything or anyone get in the way of your prayer life. It is not always easy to pray, especially when going through a challenge we feel we don't deserve, or that God could have done something to avert the situation. God says the hidden things belong to Him, but those that are revealed are for us and our children. Don't worry your pretty head on the whys, hows, if onlys... Pray even if your don't feel like. God is not the enermy, but a loving Father who wants you well, who is able to give you peace that surpases human understanding, if only you would let Him. You will come out strong and free.

*Hugs*

Yolanda mguni
31 Oct 2013 06:19

Hey guyz am so sick of my huby,l try 2 do good thingz n at e end of day ,he say words that u regret why u are married n at e other hand l buy food,lookin 4 our daughter ..,etc ,thought am helpin him half way ,thought we are planing 2geter n he iz heartles n does nt have future plans w ,e question why bcz l didnt force him 2 marry me, n he nt that luvin imagine w stil young n he iz nt cheatin ond n goes to church.AM WORRIED SHOULD i QUIT

portcia
31 Oct 2013 08:20

Yolanda, can you please write in proper english, i somehow dont understand, is he cheating, or not, and what exactly does he do, what is the main problem? the only way we can help, is if we understand your story, or maybe someone will be kind to explain, couse i dot understand what you are saying. Anyways good morning my lovely family, hope all is well.

So Phenyo went back to Thabitha, i told my hubby yesterday that Phenyo likes dusting, where ever he goes, when he feels troubled he just want to have sex.

Ntaksay
31 Oct 2013 08:29

The message below is for you Lonje, Yolanda and all the other ladies in this house:

"Let God choose for you, it will be the right decision. Let God guide you, it will be the right direction. Let God plan for you, it will be in the right timing. Let God measure for you, it will be the right portion. Let God help you, it wil be the right care. Let God instruct you, it will be the right teaching. Let God train you, it will be the right preparation. Let God counsel you, it will be the right perspective. Let God fight for you, it will be the right outcome. Let God work with you, it will be the right result!"

Ntaksay
31 Oct 2013 08:35

I would like to apologise for my bad manners I just posted a reply without greeting.


GOOD MORNING MY LOVELY FAMILY
have a splendid day!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  *kissing each member of the family on the forehead* MWAAA

Yolanda mguni
31 Oct 2013 08:37

Amen

Ntaksay
31 Oct 2013 08:41

Nick is in love love love, Oh yes he's in love. With Zodwa *singing in MaBrrrrrrrrr's voice*

I wish Phenyo stays with Thabitha for good. They can be a family, Bryce is his son anyway. But please Mfundi tie his penis on his thigh, we are tired of his cheating.

Zimbini forget about mkhulu Phenyo and go home as for Dinny she needs a holiday for FIVE YEARS.

Goldi
31 Oct 2013 08:56

Morning Family

i'm not in the best moods this morning my baby daddy just PISSED ME OFF......

Yolanda darling i dont understand what you saying or trying to say please try again

But please Mfundi tie his penis on his thigh, we are tired of his cheating. hahaha you just killed me there thanx Ntaks and also thanks for the words of encouragement

B2G: Dinny is really loosing it hey she needs to be committed honestly O.o

Mbini is delusional shem le ena she must just get over it 

Mims you know we are a family and we stick together specially in times of need

Leehle
31 Oct 2013 09:12

Wow guys been reading ur coments al of them and are gud! Thank u! I jus feel blesed for being part of this family. u r so lovin, fun and caring. U r my dream family *everyone I love yall* .

laleli
31 Oct 2013 09:19

@ Ntaksay your words just touched me 

Nongo
31 Oct 2013 09:56

morning beautiful family.
yeah now there's light in the house pple are out that's the spirit keep it up.

love yall*group hug*

Nongo
31 Oct 2013 10:03

Exam time
During the exam Jay kept looking under the table,
Lecturer : I'm gonna minus 10 marks.
Jay : why sir ?....
Lecturer : for copying !
Jay : how du knw that I was copying ?
Lecturer : I saw u looking under the table!
Jay *laughing* hahahahahaha! Don't come with your racist tendencies here ,Question 9 said " STUDY THE TABLE BELOW"!.LOL!!.

Nongo
31 Oct 2013 10:05

Relationships affect each and everyone of us-be it in a good or a bad way.
Relationships are like a journey in them we grow,change and lots of lessons are learnt.The most exciting of all relationships is falling in love.

There are ups and downs,but the greatest thing of all is getting the chance to fill what being in love is like,even if i t lasts for a short while.One of the hardest things is breaking up.When a relationship ends hearts r broken but hope remains cos luv carries hope for greater,better things in life.......

"as long as a person breaths, he/she should not loose hope."................. keep on hoping

Nongo
31 Oct 2013 10:10

DIFFERENCES BETWEEN A WIFE AND
A GIRL FRIEND
Wife is like a TV,
Girlfriend is like a MOBILE...
At home you watch TV,
But when you go out you take
your
MOBILE...
No money, you sell the TV, Got
money
you change your MOBILE...
Sometimes you enjoy TV, But most
of
the time you play with your
MOBILE.
TV is free for life, But for the
MOBILE, if
you don't pay, the services will be
terminated...
TV is big, bulky and most of the
time
old, But the MOBILE is cute, slim,
curvy
and very portable...
Operational costs for TV is often
acceptable, But for the MOBILE it is
often
high and demanding...
TV has a remote, MOBILE doesn't...
Most importantly, MOBILE is a two-
way
communication (you talk and
listen), But
with the TV you MUST only listen
(whether you want to or not)...
Last but not least. TVs don't have
viruses, But Mobiles often do...
> MEN CHOOSE WISELY.

hey re bona dilo basadi ijoo!!!

Nongo
31 Oct 2013 10:12

Interview Starts:
HR Officer: What is your name?
MUZO: M.P Sir
HR Officer: In Full
MUZO: Muzo Phiri
HR Officer: Your father's name?
MUZO: M.P Sir
HR Officer: What does that Mean?
MUZO: Melvin Phiri
HR Officer: Your native place?
MUZO: M.P Sir
HR Officer: Whats that?
MUZO: Muchinga Province
HR Officer: What is your qualification?
MUZO: M.P Sir
HR Officer: (angry) What is thaaat?
MUZO: Mathematics Professor Sir
HR Officer: So why do you need a job?
MUZO: It is because of M.P Sir
HR Officer: meaning?
MUZO: Money Problems Sir
HR Officer: Would you explain yourself and stop wasting my time. Whats your personality like?
MUZO: M.P sir
HR Officer: And what is that?
MUZO: Marvelous Personality
HR Officer: I see, ok I will get back to you.
MUZO: Sir how was my M.P?
HR Officer: And whats that?
MUZO: My Performance Sir
HR Officer: I think you are an M.P
MUZO: Meaning?
HR Officer: Mental Patient.

Ntaksay
31 Oct 2013 10:13

"We can never really begin to fathom the extent of God's love.

"God's love is like a circle that is big and round, like a mountain that is steep and high, like an ocean deep and wide."

In a desperate attempt to understand his love, we realize the shape of a circle is without end, as it goes back to where it started and the infiniteness thereof. The mountain, that which is steep and wide, is a symbol of the gradient that causes acceleration in our everyday life. Trying to run down a steep mountain is a one way ticket to uncontrollable running just like the love of God cascades down faster than we can think through. The ocean deep and wide reminds us as humans how we are sorry or how we also love from the bottom of our hearts, which is the depth"

Ntaksay
31 Oct 2013 10:19

" Shrouded In darkness, surrounded by negativity, racked with insecurity, sick with worry, filled with doubt, and full of uncertainty. Keep your head up through it all. The strongest warriors are made from the toughest battles. The wisest of people experience the most pain. The most successful people keep stepping, even when they can't see past the here and now. Though all the troubles of life will never permanently leave you, happiness will if you let those troubles overcome you. Keep your head up, lower your shoulder, and run over anything that gets in your way. Never get discouraged. When a volcano erupts and destroys everything in sight, it leaves in its wake the most fertile land on earth."

duckie
31 Oct 2013 10:34

lol@Nongo

Leehle
31 Oct 2013 11:00

Lol Nongo u jus mad my day. Yes guys lov is important in a realstionship thank u for encouraging that. U we're talkin about a spark that disapeared, u jus proved ur statements wrong, can u see that ?

@2012
31 Oct 2013 11:19

morning 2 u all

wow...ntaks i am blessed

NoMdazB
31 Oct 2013 11:23

Morning family. I think Phenyo is like a lot of men we know, who solve their problems with their penises. Not realizing that it creates more problems. I also see it as a sign of emotional immaturity. He's one of the many men who do it recklessly too- getting the girls pregnant and catching diseases as well. @ Lonjezano, forgiving a cheating husband is very difficult, I still struggle with it. But I find it is easier to forgive when someone as seen the error of their ways. The only way I was ever able to relax about being intimate with my husband was by using protection like you are (I can never be sure about his status so I just decided to protect myself). If you relax your mind your body should relax too, making things smoother and reducing the chances of breakages. And get the good quality ones too, like durex etc. I know they are really, really expensive but the peace of mind is worth every cent.

Mimibob
31 Oct 2013 11:55

Eish, I admire you guys' strength. I would really need divine intervention to be intimate with a husband who cheated..

Goldi
31 Oct 2013 13:01

You and me Mims

portcia
31 Oct 2013 13:32

Afternoon Guys

pjvv
31 Oct 2013 13:37

I have a comment about Zimbini's one n only skirt and tshirt...Does she not have any other clothes...

Pastry
31 Oct 2013 13:54

Lol @pjvv its her tsalanang uniform

Afternoon

Goldi
31 Oct 2013 14:44

It's here work uniform ao Pj

Leehle
31 Oct 2013 14:51

Hey guys please alow me to say dis: I jus wish to thank my fiance fo the love, trust and support. I knw lot has hapened and I even had doubts that our relationship wil work, I stayed strong for us bt he was even stronger. I lov hm, he mad me bilieve in hs lov. He has change and b a man of my dream, i lov hs honesty yah, even thou t makes me ambarised.... *hides*.

Ntaksay
31 Oct 2013 15:43

LOL @pjvv

Goldi
31 Oct 2013 16:14

Hey guys please alow me to say dis: I jus wish to thank my fiance fo the love, trust and support. I knw lot has hapened and I even had doubts that our relationship wil work, I stayed strong for us bt he was even stronger. I lov hm, he mad me bilieve in hs lov. He has change and b a man of my dream, i lov hs honesty yah, even thou t makes me ambarised.... *hides*. Uthini grand grand?

Whats the story? did something happen that you stopped believing in your relationship or what? *confused* or its blonde moments *shrug*

Bye Guys

Pastry
31 Oct 2013 16:17

Did you thank him Leehle...when is he plannig to upgrade you from fiance to wife?

Mimibob
31 Oct 2013 21:44

@ Goldi, Whats the story? did something happen that you stopped believing in your relationship or what? *confused* or its blonde moments *shrug*
Heheheee... Goldi!
Leehle is just appreciative of the man in her life.

We sometimes don't appreciate what/who we have in our lives until we see that other people have bigger problems.

Well, I don't have man stories to tell. Currently single and off men.
I think being single is what I do best.

Do you ever feel that maybe you suck at being a girlfriend or wife?

Pastry
31 Oct 2013 23:23

Of course Mims bt she also needs to let the guy know how much she appreciates him....her behaviour, actions, language should all be indicative of that. Well Leehle...am glad u phased out gloriously. I sometimes felt that way Mims...until i stopped taking responsibility of evrythng that goes wrong in the relationship then i started seeing the world with such amazing clarity!

NoMdazB
01 Nov 2013 02:20

@Mims, I just think it's the men who suck at accepting you just as you are. The greatest thing that can happen in a relationship is having a man who loves you exactly for who and what you are. A friend of mine wrote something to the effect of: We have two selves- True and Conscious selves. Conscious selves are who and what we are to to conform to society's norms, so people will accept us. We behave how we are expected to behave and portray that to the world. True selves, however, are what we would be if we did not worry about being accepted and judged. What we know ourselves to be but may be hesitant to portray in their full glory. So, maybe Mims the men you have been with, like most men, have difficulty accepting your true self. They most likely do not love who you are, but rather who they want you to be.

Mimibob
01 Nov 2013 06:06

@ Pastry & NomdazB. I don't blame myself for what did not work, I also haven't had anyone have difficulty accepting me. I actually think I have an attractive personality, or have been told as much. It's just a thought that came. I've had very few relationships (you can count them in one hand and still have fingers remaining), but all very short term. I ended previous one(s) because I wouldn't tolerate some things. I decided to be tolerant with the last one and accepted things I ordinarily wouldn't, but got dumped. I don't think it was anything I did, but I clearly wasn't enough to hold on to through whatever it is they were going through.. I always felt loved for who I was, and he never judged me, through all the unwise decisions I took, and just all I am. I'm a fabulous human being. I always say I'm one in seven billion, and I know I am. We have things we excel at in life and those we don't. It just came to me that there are parents who aren't good at parenting, I just probably am great at being single than otherwise.

Mimibob
01 Nov 2013 06:30

My phone has "App Error 606 - Reset" on the screen since last night. It won't reboot. I don't remember when I last backed up stuff, eish! I hope I don't loose stuff in there.

Leehle
01 Nov 2013 08:23

Thanks guys, I always tel hm hw much I apriciate hs lov. And yes we r planin to get meried. And I can see brighter future wit hm. It feels lik we livin in future already. And God is our leader!

Goldi
01 Nov 2013 09:19

Morning Cup Cakes

Amen to that Leehle.....Thanks Mims, Reboot until u pink on your face lol hope phone e ba sharp

Currently single and off men.
I think being single is what I do best.
i sometimes think so too but i'm not off men but i'm not looking @ the same time wabo My Hummkiss is on he's way *grinning*

Dineo Dineo Dineo
O THIZAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA LA MFAZI WHOOOOO *CLAP ONCE*

Nicky
Boy is starting to irritate me shem



msandos
01 Nov 2013 09:48

Sanibonani zithandwa zentliziyo yam, i love all. So Akhona was right ngalomporofiti onguZodwa ,Nic n every1 ddnt listen to her! Cud Bryce b Phenyo's son?Dinny all yo plans are failling dear just let him go, ngu plan bani lo plan D let him go Dinny .

msandos
01 Nov 2013 09:48

Sanibonani zithandwa zentliziyo yam, i love yall. So Akhona was right ngalomporofiti onguZodwa ,Nic n every1 ddnt listen to her! Cud Bryce b Phenyo's son?Dinny all yo plans are failling dear just let him go, ngu plan bani lo plan D let him go Dinny .

Mimibob
01 Nov 2013 09:53

@ " Reboot until u pink on your face ..." Lol Goldi... I left it with our IT. It apparently lost everything. I had my life in that phone.. I had a running tummy all morning, and now still. Gone back home to sleep. I'm somehow glad I'm not reachable on my mobile. Nobody has my other number or landline.. I'm enjoying being alone. If church didn't need to reach me because of some event committee I'm in, I think I was just gonna stay without a phone. I've always thought it was the one thing I couldn't live without...Guess not.

Ntaksay
01 Nov 2013 09:53

Good Morning 
Dineo is so Dramatic shame

pjvv
01 Nov 2013 10:04

Dineo jus let mam Ruby cry like that for a child that was never there. They need to have her committed.


Nongo
01 Nov 2013 10:07

morning family.

I think being single is what I do best @ Mims, im currently single too lenna mma i think our guys here in BW have a problem with being "superwoman" they are afraid of our strenghs, i've been dumped w/out being told but i saw it coming coz i always told him that u no what dear i dont trust u, not at all and it was true i did not trust him so his disappearance did not mean a thing to me.

and 1 more thing i realised is that he disturbed me when it comes to being a prayer warrior now im focused and only living my own life focused on my God.

portcia
01 Nov 2013 10:13

Morning my Pumpkins* with Goldi's voice*

Dineo cant stop lying ne!!!!!!!!! i had another miscarriage, yoh, she means all those little pillows she had, haaaa, and to think that she still wore one when she went to work yesterday, hay no,man oa hafa, shem. i hope Mbini doesnt become a sycho also, i think bana ba Patrick ba hlanya.

Goldi
01 Nov 2013 10:38

Morning my Pumpkins* with Goldi's voice* lol i just picture you hihihihihi

Mims i had a problem last with my phone and i stayed 5 days without a phone and i used to tell myself that i cant live without it guess not ai hope it stays the for 8weeks *sticking tongue out* i'm glad we can reach you though :)



Coco_bear
01 Nov 2013 11:47

seems like its going to be filled with suspence

Bk212303
01 Nov 2013 12:19

Halooow everyone wooow the house is on fire again Thank youuuuu

Mimibob
01 Nov 2013 12:47

@ Goldi, ai hope it stays the for 8weeks *sticking tongue out*
Hehee... Now I know who doesn't like me... I want to start making serious money. Right now I'd just be getting a new proper phone without counting my fingers. I part listened to an interview with a sex worker yesterday and she said she can sleep with 18 or 28 men a day! I knew i shouldn't quit my day job. (Not that I considered)

@ Nongo, I don't think my one saw me as a superwoman. He was the superman. (If I said more, I'd start missing him and start crying again). At least your man knew you didn't trust him. Mine knew I loved and trusted him. I guess it wasn't meant to be. 
I've been single most of my life, so being single for me is really no biggie.

Mimibob
01 Nov 2013 13:01

@ Nongo, i always told him that u no what dear i dont trust u

Do you think the negative things we say out to our partners contribute to whatever drift that may form? Not that we should highlight them, but I think how we say them out matters.
Leading my bf's birthday, I decided I was gonna find nice things about him, equaling the number of this age. I texted the words daily conting down to his bday. (So there was no nagging during this count down). He is over 40, meaning I had to find over 40 nice things about him. Its amazing that I didn't have to "find", there were just too many beautiful things to write, even more that the number of years.

Munya314
01 Nov 2013 13:07

http://www.revenuejob.com/?share=5241 Make more money

Mimibob
01 Nov 2013 13:12

Lol Munya. Why do I feel funny about checking out your site?

Mimibob
01 Nov 2013 13:40

I'm only going back to work now, but I still feel sleepy. Check you guys later.

portcia
01 Nov 2013 13:54

Cant wait for Tuesday 05 November, when Phenyo tells the truth, i want to see Dineo down and lonely. Phenyou does belong to Thabitha, but it took him centuties to discover that.

Ntaksay
01 Nov 2013 16:13

She sleeps with 18-28 men that is too much Yhhooooooooo

Sis p
01 Nov 2013 21:10

Wow guy its so nice to be in kzn especially dbn god has bless is with a profet i'm talking about my doctor,my priest,my profet,the plentiologist dr hq NALA hee wenze izinto kwahlanya ongqongqoshe

Sis p
01 Nov 2013 21:20

Hee you know what makes me laugh is that ministers depend on scientists while plentians depend in power of god and his son NALA uyatraaaaaaapa shem wena ongamazi umbuze kumadimoni,cancer hiv siphila ezweni lenala where nothing is missing and nothing is broken sithola okungaphezu kokwanele baphila abantu kwaphatheka kabi u minister of health kwazulu natal mr dhlomo hlisa imoya sir ngeke uphele umsebenzi wakho ikwamanje

msandos
01 Nov 2013 21:51

Goodnight dears :*

Lonjezano
01 Nov 2013 22:58

Thank you Generations family for the love and comfort you showed me last week,  this place is full of counsellors and I have saved all messages meant for me and I will keep on reading them as I move towards finding peace with my life and the future.  My baby is well and growing and also HIV negative and very beautiful that I am stopped by people just wanting to greet her.  It has been a blessing to have my family around me and your messages especially made my preparation for the exams easy and i really felt lighter after reading all your comments.  Keep on keeping on and stay strong ladies, this blog is really powerful and is filled with God fearing people, crazy as you can be, you are really blessed.

Mimibob
01 Nov 2013 23:27

Joh Sis P! At least punctuate. Is that supposed to be one long sentence? Couldn't make sense of anything. I suppose that is Xhosa since I couldn't understand most of it.. @ Msandos, Good night dear. @ Lonjez, Keep well dear. *Hugs*.

Mimibob
01 Nov 2013 23:38

@ Sis P. I Re-read your post and finally understood. Good night everyone.

Leehle
02 Nov 2013 10:33

Haaai suka I don lik Phenyo to get comfort frm any other women including Thabita she shuld jus kik him away, as he did to her when he got Dineo. Ay am disapointed! Gud day my sweties

Mimibob
03 Nov 2013 14:52

I was reading about the release of Michael Jackson's doctor from prison and wondered if people generally took medical practioners to task for negligence, misdiagnosis, etc, resulting in harm to the patient...

A friend's son was dropped by a nurse after birth and the boy, at 10 still lisps and walks with a limp, amongst other complications. My friend never took any action agaist the nurse or hospital.

A doctor prescribed me an overdose of meds and it affected my body so bad I couldn't do most things for my self. I went from doc to doc, did numerous test... I'm still paying medical bills, but I never took any action against the doctor.

Just thinking alound...

Happy Sunday.

Goldi
04 Nov 2013 09:13

Morning my ouma rusks 

Lonje take care of yourself lovery God Bless *hugs*

A friend's son was dropped by a nurse after birth and the boy, at 10 still lisps and walks with a limp, amongst other complications. My friend never took any action agaist the nurse or hospital
. i wouldnt have let such slide hey that bloody nurse and that hospital was gona be in for it iyhoooo not with my baby.....well i think wena Mims we take things very light and concerntrate on minar things such is calling the manager @ a store complaining about 1 2 3 when it comes to Dr's we tell ourself that they know best and dont think that they too can make mistakes when it comes to such mxxxxxm so how's your friend son doing how old is he now?



Leehle
04 Nov 2013 09:56

Good morning family Wht a lovely suny day @ PMB.

Mimibob
04 Nov 2013 12:06

@ Goldi, my friend's son is 10 years old now. His speech is not clear, he limps, he wasn't able to eat certain foods when younger, but has improved a lot. He is hyper active and extremely naughty. The mom treats him like a baby, even lifts and carries him, which I feel delays his development. ... And I'm ok now, thanx for asking.

Goldi
04 Nov 2013 13:29

Eish Mims has it ever occur to her that maybe what he's son is going through might be the cause of he's obnormalities or? did she ever say something about the matter after it happened? Wena we must go and sue that DR lol i'm glad you ok now babes

portcia
04 Nov 2013 15:43

Afternoon ladies and gents, if there is still any gents. quite again yoh........

Mimibob
04 Nov 2013 15:53

@ Goldi, She knows the fall is the cause of all these. She was just too mad to bring it up with the hospital. I can relate because I was too mad about my situation to even bring it up with the dr. It got to a point where I struggled to get on top of the bed, I struggled to pull up bed covers because they were too heavy. I couldn't lift a kettle with water, I couldn't squart, I was swollen - face, fingers and legs, ... And this went on for months.. They tested for everything but couldn't find anything, until the Dr said "I think we should test you for HIV now".. Lol... Where is everybody?

Mimibob
04 Nov 2013 21:37

Lol... I guess I know my next comment on men...

A CHIC'S FACEBOOK STATUS
UPDATES:
"Wow I just found the love of
my life.
Nothing will
eva stop me from loving my man♥." . ,, ,, . ,
14 DAYS LATER:- "Never make
sum1 a
priority when
u're just an option to them!" ....
2 DAYS LATER:- "I HATE love so much!".
3 DAYS LATER. "I'm happy to
remain
single and I
will never fall in love again." .
5 DAYS LATER:- "I'm looking for a
man to love and
treat me ryt." .
15 DAYS LATER:- "When u
deeply fall
in love with a right person, u realize
why it didn't work with
anybody else
but him. I love
my guy so much....mwaaah.
8 DAYS LATER:- "bulshit ..!! All men
are the
same!!!!!"

Ronewa RB
04 Nov 2013 22:09

Sibusiso is my hero am glad he'll be back,zodwa nd nicholas a big No no,I feel sory for Dineo poor woman,she is soo damn desperate

@2012
05 Nov 2013 07:36

morning people

Ntaksay
05 Nov 2013 08:53

Good morning people 

Still quite a ever!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Bk212303
05 Nov 2013 09:11

Morning lovely family oh how ive missed you all.

Mimibob
05 Nov 2013 09:21

Morning guys. @ Ntaks, you were equally quiet nana, so don't complain.,

portcia
05 Nov 2013 09:39

Morning everyone, Ronewa RB, there is nothing desparete about Dineo, she is selfish, she never admits when she has done wrong, and she knew that a baby was not going to fix her marriage, it was just going to make Phenyo happy not her and Phenyo happy. and she could have just told the truth about the baby from the word go, if your man sleeps with every skirt, then why do you still want him to be your man? you cant love someone you dont trust, couse there will always be complications in the future.

Mimibob
05 Nov 2013 09:52

@ 2012, Ke kopa disetting TSS Bosso (sp) TV if you have.

Ntaksay
05 Nov 2013 10:42

@ Ntaks, you were equally quiet nana, so don't complain
I was not in the office Mims.
But no worries I am here now with Andile (Khumbul'ekhaya). We'll find all the members of this family.

Mimibob
05 Nov 2013 10:54

Good work Ntaks. My regards to Andile.

Goldi
05 Nov 2013 11:09

Morning my water mellon what a beautiful day........

i could stop loling last night when Patrick took out he's belt to moer Mbini, but my heart was broken when Ruby cried shame she was looking foward to having a grandchild hihihihihih ai ke Dinny Game over nana

Nongo
05 Nov 2013 11:57

good day  my pizza's in Goldi's voice.

@ 2012 does this bosTV that we have here show the current Gen im trying to catch up but i dont connect the dots well.

@2012
05 Nov 2013 13:23

@nongo....the bostv eko morago i think by 3months if i am correct. they started them from july when we were switched off....(thats where it bores me...m using aerial & watching the current gen tho). last time i checked gen it was when scott has not arrived when mawande was not yet gone. in muvhango it was around when mulalo was in search of a partner 4 his award,b4 even meiki went crazy,when mojalefa's were far from arriving even busani tota. so tota bos tv eko morago ga current 1's that are currently playing. 

@mimis...i do not have them now but i think tomorrow i will be able to givethem 2 you

Mimibob
05 Nov 2013 14:16

Thanks @2012

Nongo
05 Nov 2013 14:33

thank you homie @2012

Bk212303
05 Nov 2013 15:39

I just got a call from my mom that my ex bf is no longer and i just spoke him in September and he said can you please call me back i just want to hear your voice, cause the last time i saw him was 1997 so we met in primary school. And i never bothered to call him cause i told him that im married and i dont think it would be appropriate of me to call him. But now he is gone and when i checked him on fb there is nothing about him being gone cause i hear he was stabbed and his funeral was in September same moth i spoke to him. Yeyi ppl we are going seriously

Mimibob
05 Nov 2013 20:46

The Dalai Lama, when asked what surprised him most about humanity, answered "Man.... Because he sacrifices his health in order to make money. Then he sacrifices money to recuperate his health. And then he is so anxious about the future that he does not enjoy the present; the result being that he does not live in the present or the future; he lives as if he is never going to die, and then dies having never really lived."

Goldi
06 Nov 2013 08:42

Morning Cheese Cakes

BK sorry for your loss lol we are going indeed, Hey Mims *waving*

Ntaksay
06 Nov 2013 09:44

Morning everyone

Sorry about ex bf's death Bk

Zimbini
is such a good I wish she had never met her half sister, my hear ached for her yesterday and telling Dinny that she still loves her and hope that one day they will be able to put everything behind them.

Goldi
06 Nov 2013 10:14

Yeh she is hey......Now it's all the game to Thabitha hahahahah Dinny's gona lose it again *smh*

Come on people the house was starting to go back to it's roots now the silent treatment statrted again *sigh*

portcia
06 Nov 2013 11:41

Morning all, Yes Goldi, the game is on, i bet she will even contest the divorce, and turn everything on Phenyo, and yes Zimbini is a good girl,she told the family that they have drugged Phenyo so he can belief that they had sex, then they will have a chance to do it again.

Nongo
06 Nov 2013 12:13

hey family hv you seen the sun , check out the beauty of nature and God's creation at it's best, wow beautiful.

Nongo
06 Nov 2013 12:23

my manners, good day.

you can only see a nice view if it's not cloudy

Mimibob
06 Nov 2013 12:30

@ Goldi, Hi love. *Waving back*. Hello everyone. @ Nongo, ya I saw the sun and took pics, beautiful indeed.

Goldi
06 Nov 2013 13:07

ai ai ai ai ai

butterflybreeze
06 Nov 2013 13:59

Wow...Wow...Wow...here at last,Halo guys I am so happy I could join u.

Goldi
06 Nov 2013 14:47

Hey Butterfly welcome so glad you finally joined us *smile* please feel @ home

LadyTM
06 Nov 2013 14:55

Hello everyone

TVSA Team
06 Nov 2013 14:58

Hey LadyTM, butterflybreeze - welcome!

The latest on the Generations strike: Generations strike ends, actors back on set.

portcia
06 Nov 2013 16:00

Welcome Butterflybreeze

Mimibob
06 Nov 2013 21:34

Thanks @ TVSAAdmin. This fam has been keeping stuff from me. Didn't know about the strike.

ZimPokello
07 Nov 2013 03:58

Hmmmm hello to u all. I'm so happy that i joind this family!!

NoMdazB
07 Nov 2013 05:42

Morning family, long time... Judging by the way Dineo blames everything that's happening to her on the fact that she is a child of rape, is it wise to tell your child? Does it do more damage to tell or to hide it?

Goldi
07 Nov 2013 08:40

Morning Vanilla fudges 

Welcome home ZimPokello tnx Admin for letting us know even if you never hinted that there's a strike we forgive you :) 

Eish! Nomd i'm not sure hey but Dineo's nje she doesnt wana admit when she did wrong she always wants to blame some1 or something only if ppl can learn that they cant always get what they want the better honestly all i see is ANGER qha!!

WHEN YOU BLAME SOME1 OR SOMETHING YOU GIVE UP THE POWER TO CHANGE....

portcia
07 Nov 2013 10:03

Good morning, good people.

I think to know that you are a child of rape is best, then you can learn to live and move forward, but to see the man who raped your mother, will hurt, even if he explains his side of story, it just doesnt justify for what he did.

Dineo has anger, and she cant keep lying to people who cares about her, if she stayed true to Phenyo she could have still have him, but she choose to,lie just to get her hands on baby.

Mrs Chix
07 Nov 2013 10:23

Hahahahha @ ZimPokello, you have just reminded me of my favorite BBA housemate Pokello....

Kiri
07 Nov 2013 10:23

I like Dineo, cute

Mbunju
07 Nov 2013 10:32

wow! now I c, its not easy to live a holly lyf, even if u can try is not easy, ZODWA guys, she tried her best

Ntaksay
07 Nov 2013 10:34

Good morning everyone

Welcome LadyT, ZimP & Butterfly
Zodwa & Nic
*Clap hands once*
As for Akhona she is really becoming a nuisance now, she must forget about Nic, he is so into Zodwa.

I am so inlove with MJ&Bella

Choppa & Zin
need to go for a holiday or something, they don't make a cute couple. I am glad he has found love but they are not a good match.

Goldi
07 Nov 2013 11:29

I am so inlove with MJ&Bella mee too hey


Choppa & Zin need to go for a holiday or something, they don't make a cute couple. I am glad he has found love but they are not a good match. ai i dont think too big ppl should be together *my opinion* i just imagine in the bedroom whooo eeeeee sorry no offence to any1 just saying

Eish my heart broke for S'buda when i saw him with all those bruises mxxxxm Sello irritates me nje

Ms Opinionated
07 Nov 2013 12:06

Have you guy noticed how clingy Generations makes women out to be. 

look at Bela and Mj, he cheats on her and constantly runs after a sugar mama till he gets disapointed then she comes back (from a heartbreak)  to say she was misrable without him???!!

Dinny n Phenyo.... need i say more??

now Akhona just wont leave Nick to be, theni angamyeki uzazibonela!

Ms Opinionated
07 Nov 2013 12:06

Have you guy noticed how clingy Generations makes women out to be. 

look at Bela and Mj, he cheats on her and constantly runs after a sugar mama till he gets disapointed then she comes back (from a heartbreak)  to say she was misrable without him???!!

Dinny n Phenyo.... need i say more??

now Akhona just wont leave Nick to be, theni angamyeki uzazibonela!

Goldi
07 Nov 2013 12:11

LOVE IS BLIND you only realize the wrong things after but while doing them you dont realize it shame but a kere we all know gore not all women are clingy??

kayzimerm
07 Nov 2013 12:27

i feel sorry 4 sbuda the way mbuyane he handling him....n i cnt wait 4 his reavenge against phenyo...

MsKim
07 Nov 2013 13:07

wonder why Tabitha always forgives Phenyo. she also needs to move on.  i hate it wen i see her smile nxaa! were ever Phenyo will go he will cheat i think she knws that already. so wats there to be excited abt? no matter hw they may try to justify his cheating it is wrong wat he did with Dineo while he was with Tabitha, wat he did with Noluntu & Zimbini.
Dineo needs to be taken to some institute she needs help fast..

hope Sbuda will bounce back soon. i can't bear to watch him suffer like this.

Amy M
07 Nov 2013 13:14

So i guess that we were all wrong. Zodwa didnt come back to cause trouble between Nick and Akhona, instead Nick fell hopelessly in love with her. Shame, she is trying to hard to fight her feelings for him. It just shows that men normally falll for the plain old jane from nxt door. He will dump a CEO at a big company who has the most expensive brazillian hair and go date a simple waitress at Wimpy or Spur who is spotting simple conrows. Hence Akhona is confused how Nick can dump her a Journalist for a nanny, Zodwa. Guys whatsup with Khetiwe, she is seriously loosing weight. I dont like her new look. So will Phenyo leave Gen. without finding out that Bryce is his son?. I hope that Khetie will get drunk and then spill the beans about Dinny swapping the Dna test or intefering with them. lolllll

Lonjezano
07 Nov 2013 13:29

Hello family.  @ Ms Opinionated I agree with you about generations making women being clingy and so obsessive about men, the women we are talking about here are childless, have very good jobs and like Dineo she is worth millions and she has been with how many men but she still hasnt given up on finding the idle men for her.  

I was surprised that it took Ruby this long to see that her daughter doesnt need marriage or men to make her complete.  There are vibrators out there to satisfy that age.  As for Thabitha i wonder really whats up with with her, Phenyo hasnt cheated on her just once but even before he came he had a history and she always boasts that he will always come back to me, are you that desperate Thabitha.  

Generations should now give us strong independant women who are able to dictate the pace for their relationships and whatever they do so that we can have true role models for our children who watch generations.  

Queen should be thinking about her career at her age not always thinking of finding Mr Right.  Besides why dont they give them invisible husbands like Alfred, and look for better storylines. 

Bk212303
07 Nov 2013 13:35

Halllloooooooooooooooow everyone howzit? Yho ive missed you. Welcome all the new pps.

GOLDI im hear my dear thanx for dragging me out of the box..

Ms Opinionated
07 Nov 2013 13:49

@ Lonjezano !!!!!! couldnt have said it better!

Ms Opinionated
07 Nov 2013 13:49

@ Lonjezano !!!!!! couldnt have said it better!

Ntaksay
07 Nov 2013 14:33

I was surprised that it took Ruby this long to see that her daughter doesnt need marriage or men to make her complete *AT LAST*

My heart ached for Sbusiso, Sello will pay for what he's doing

Goldi
07 Nov 2013 15:12

Eish! My PC was on strike just now wheewwww ok @list i got BK well i just spoke to Yoyo she says hi she misses you all but she's move places @ work so ya she needs to settle 1st then she's gona be back with a bang ok let the mission continue.........

errrr Who's next i know i'll be back  later guys

nthoentle
08 Nov 2013 07:03

Generations is now The Bold bofebe fela and Desperatee womans aii no.

Goldi
08 Nov 2013 09:03

Morning my mash mellows 

Today Goldi have mood swings eish i dont know what is what but hey i'll be fine i guess it's one of those days :)

MsKim
08 Nov 2013 09:05

Hello everyone.. it pains me to see Ngamla suffer like that eish. i gues then he'll die of younger then lol.

portcia
08 Nov 2013 10:37

Morning all, Sello will pay with his life once Sbuda gets his connections again, shame man, he even has to give that dog his food mxm.

I agree with you ladies, we must get independent woman in Generations, our kids need to see that woman are strong and can do whatever it takes to make themselfs happy, and stop worring about these stupit husbands and boyfriends.

I hope Dineo will change when she comes back from overseas, she must just give Phenyo a divorce without hesitation, and focus on her carrea. I think the other person who can give us that is Khethiwe.

Goldi
08 Nov 2013 10:48


I think the other person who can give us that is Khethiwe.Give us what?

Eish! i shared a tear last night when i saw what that monkey did to S'buda mxxxxm Mvuyani will pay shem

Hope no mo drama between MJ & Bella this time around haai as for Nic no comment

Dinny really needs a time out shem i hope NY will cook her and come back stronger and focused and not contest the Divorce

zuva
08 Nov 2013 10:52

Morning all @ Porticia, not only Khethiwe, Akhona as well she must stop mourning for Nick and do what she does best, I dont know if it is different with others but whenever I had an argument with my boyfriend now husband I would put all that anger into studying and I would read all night without any sleep and if I was going to write an exam the following morning it was a guaranteed distinction.  We need to see women like that in our soapies.

MsKim
08 Nov 2013 11:57

oh goodness, i meant he'll die of hunger kikiki.. 

We need a good marriage as well, like back in the day with Sbuda n Ntombi. not ztabane (no offence). we also need to see some school kids/teenagers. to full fill the title "Generations". why did they send away Prince..?

portcia
08 Nov 2013 12:41

Sorry MsKim but Princie doesnt do it for me, he is a spoiled brat which moans about everything.

Goldi i meant Khethiwe can be an example of an independent woman, she can still pull the rank, she used to be a youung innocent lady who worked to the top, so she can still be a role model to our kids, and he is single now right? so we need single woman, who dont need a man just to make her feel good.

MsKim
08 Nov 2013 12:58

oh ya. watever happened to those 3kids that used to go hang at Rubby's back hard? they jus disappeared.

mthi 101
08 Nov 2013 18:41

Good evening everyone!! 
Thanx  a lot(Goldi,  Riyat, Mimibob, Mskim, portia and family from Botswana, SADC kanye nawo wonke umntu)   for keeping the house burning Ndiyabulela.

B2G:  Nicky boy, nicky boy with your uncle Scott "never die " Nomvete, you are a reminder that Boys will always be Boys, If Phenyo "the Manwhore" can join you, your house will be the "slaughter house" 

Generation is on fire this days.  I hope the writers will continue with the lessons that a being taught big thump to them.

mthi 101
08 Nov 2013 18:54


@Mimibob
Do you ever feel that maybe you suck at being a girlfriend or wife?
Hallow dear! 
 
Yes
that is normal, sometimes we turn to blame ourselves for  things that we cannot control them. For a relationship to work it takes two parties that are involve to be committed and work on it unfortunately sometimes things don't work out.  The most importnat thing is to be True to your self and it takes a long time for one to understand him/herself.  a one's SWOT analysis is important time and again

Let me share this with a family.

mthi 101
08 Nov 2013 19:19

I was told more often that my Human relations are not that good, I seem to have a negative attitude and Ego (maybe this has to do with my past)  and that bothers me a lot.  I sat down and asked my self, many questions with and without answers!!

I realized that at first I am this welcoming person, becoming friendly and helpful to those close to me and being nice to every one up untill some will want to capitalize on my being, taking me for granted and that's when the problem starts.

And now when I realize that a relationship I have is turning into disrespect, undermining etc I just walk away slowly before things turn nasty.  Because what I dislike mostly in life is being taken  for granted and I Did SWOT analysis and working  on how to overcome this because in life some people will disrespect you and I cannot afford to speak out my mind every time that happens.

In Conclusion, Some people becomes happy when some one is in pain, they will enjoy and  make fun of that.  What is important is for one to sorround one self with positive thinkers and a good family like this one and be true to one self and realise You cannot please everyone! you' ve got to please yourself

mthi 101
08 Nov 2013 19:41

@Nomdaz
Morning family, long time... Judging by the way Dineo blames everything that's happening to her on the fact that she is a child of rape, is it wise to tell your child? Does it do more damage to tell or to hide it?

Answer:  a BIG NO! don't tell no matter how angry you are.  

This is going to destroy that person, Please No! , and a big one, rather put the child for adoption within or outside the family and never talk about the past.

We are what we are because of our Past,  everyone needs  a sense of belonging rather get a fake Father (one who understands the situation) for the child as if she/he was conceive in a normal way. 

Elders always had a way of dealing with unfortunate circumstances
 

mthi 101
08 Nov 2013 19:50

Good night my lovely,lovely Goldi.  
One day I am going to be The Chopstar and write a poem to You. Ndivele ndithi

When I hear your name kuvele kome ezinzwaneni
Unguphuma langa bakothe, indoni yamanzi
You are an Apple of my heart, you make my heart smelt
like a chocolate in the oven,

when I think about you, I become Crazy
The love that is burning inside of me makes me mad
Mad that I can come running to you, never mind the storm and the wind

Buyisu thando lwami dali Buyisa khawuleza
You know in my life I need some one who needs
and wherever you are,I want to be with you.

Hawu Ntombimhlophe Sondela kimi ungembese 
Ndiyagodola

good night !

ZimPokello
08 Nov 2013 23:53

Lol... @Mthi 101

NoMdazB
09 Nov 2013 02:48

Hayi Mthi you got it bad. I've been thinking: we know Gen writers need to create drama and all but we really do need to have a good couple with a good relationship. They ned to restore our faith in marriage. There needs to be a man or woman who redeems themselves and becomes involved in a committed relationship with no drama. We would still watch you know. I'm sure there are good men out there. Imagine if Thomas were to realize that Dineo really was his true love and Dineo were to gain self esteem and put the past behind her; allow herself to be happy with a man who doesn't have much but they still adored one another. Or if perhaps Scott were to finally make an honest woman of Cindy and remain faithful. Maybe we could finally meet Patricia's husband and see a good, no frills adult relationship. Or perhaps they could show us a lot more of Bridget and her husband living their normal lives. My point is it's very depressing to watch these cheating men and these women who throw themselves at men who don't want them.

Mimibob
09 Nov 2013 11:03

Hahaaa... Mthi... Yoh!! I really laughed out loud! Eish, you made my day! Uphi uGoldi manje? Maybe she's fainted...

Mimibob
09 Nov 2013 11:06

@Goldi, what happened to Alex21?

Punchu sweet bbe
09 Nov 2013 11:24

Punchu sweet bbe
09 Nov 2013 11:28

Can't wait 4 de engagement between nic n zodwa woooooooooow yipeeeeeeeeeee m so loving it

Mimibob
09 Nov 2013 11:49

I haven't watched Gens for over 4 months now. I find the comments rather interesting. Everyone used to like Akhona and wanted Zodwa out. In fact most people were happy when Zodwa left Gens. Now tables have turned; you guys are happy with Zodwa and Nick, and have mostly negative stuff to say about Akhona. Makes me wonder what really attracts us to people.. How do we like one person one moment and dislike them the next, and vice versa? Or is it because it's just tv, the characters are not real..? Or do we follow our favorite characters' lead and like those they like and as well dislike their foes?

Riyat
10 Nov 2013 19:07

Miss u family. Can see the house is slowly getting back. Will join u from tomorrow.

Riyat
11 Nov 2013 07:08

Morning my lovely family. *in goldi's voice*

Goldi
11 Nov 2013 09:11

Good Morning my Vanilla puddings 

Mthi 101 WOW!! *blushing* sooooooo sweet *speechless is Gold right now*

Uphi uGoldi manje? Maybe she's fainted...
almost Mims hihihihihihihi

Morning my lovely family. *in goldi's voice* mwhaaaaaaa


Goldi
11 Nov 2013 09:15

@Goldi, what happened to Alex21? me dont know Mims

Bk212303
11 Nov 2013 09:24

Morning everyone.... its been long khamendifunde

pjvv
11 Nov 2013 10:36

Hi all,

Dineo thought knowing her father was gonna change her but nothing even after the ceremony she became worse. Tabitha am shocked at her for welcoming Phenyo like that. No questions asked, hhhayi sukaaa.

I hope that thug is dead, mvunyane where did he gets the powers to behave like that. 
I never liked zimbini I think its time she an her rapist dad went back, their story line is complete.

give airtime to Khethi an Queen. But please tell kethi to stop losing weight is not looking nice at all, she looks sick.

Ntaksay
11 Nov 2013 11:13

Good morning people

Ntaksay
11 Nov 2013 11:17

Can't wait for the trial to start.

I wish they could give Sello's character to someone who has more oomph. He does not do it for me shame. Even the way he laugh, it's like he's forcing the last one and is going to drop dead after that. Hay shame I don't like him. He would much better in Soul City.

Goldi
11 Nov 2013 13:02

lol i agree with you Ntaks on Sello's character yhooooo he looks very very sick mxxxxm 

Deemo
11 Nov 2013 13:41

hello my dearest family,missed u big tym.im bek nw

Leehle
11 Nov 2013 15:16

Hi family been long tym, Leemee go read ama updates Lov yall

portcia
12 Nov 2013 08:04

Morning all, yoh mthi 101, that was a lovely poem in deed, big up to you Goldi, is nice to know that you are bein loved.

Sbusiso pleaded guilty, yoh and everyone else is mad about him, Ngamla is not a jail type.
Noluntu big up to you sis, you gave Phenyo what he deserves.

Goldi
12 Nov 2013 08:26

Morning all, yoh mthi 101, that was a lovely poem in deed, big up to you Goldi, is nice to know that you are bein loved. O.o

Morning my Cheese Cakes

S'buda
ke bosso shame "Ngamla is not a prison material" poor Bella shame MJ must just take a chill pill or else he's going to lose Bella again eish Nicky boy yhoooo dumping a girl in style *Akhona's voice* 





vuxy
12 Nov 2013 08:55

good morning family. i have missed yesterday's episode pls update me guys

portcia
12 Nov 2013 09:20

I still feel sorry for Akhona, though i hate her whining

pjvv
12 Nov 2013 09:28

Good morning,,

I jus laugh when sello is threatening sbuda coz  he looks like the one who is gonna die tomorrow, the guy iyadika shame, 

Phenyo talks too much but he always ends with an unhappy face, he should stop making funny faces. Ouch Tabitha if I were I would tel Phenyo to leave immediately coz wena you are hooked.

Bk212303
12 Nov 2013 09:37

Hee hayi i couldnt help laugh the part where Sbuda mixes broken globe with glasses haa and i like the comment he said hahahah and i know they gonna totcha him when that guy comes back but he will not die instead he will sort them out. The call he made to Scott he is looking for pills so more action is coming hahahahah

sqephu
12 Nov 2013 10:00

Morning family I've been bizy I missed u guys

Goldi
12 Nov 2013 10:22

BK and Tazteeq what ever happened to greeting your elders? lol

Miss you too Sqephu darling

portcia
12 Nov 2013 10:30

Akhona is a very good acress, she looked as if she was really drunk, is the rumours true about her leaving Gen?

Ntaksay
12 Nov 2013 10:36

Good morning

I wonder uzothini uMJ when he finds out that Sbuda might be his daddy.
Sbuda must bring Jason on board to assist Scott to bring down all those who made his life hell. I want the to squash sello like a fly.

Bk212303
12 Nov 2013 10:57

Yhoo how rude of me Molweni bomagogo and tamkhulu ndingalibelanga onontombi ntomb ninjani Dr Zwanes voice wearing a white coat...

NoMdazB
12 Nov 2013 10:58

Hello my lovely family, missed you so much.

Ntaksay
12 Nov 2013 11:03

Hi Nomd, 
Molo nawe BK

Goldi
12 Nov 2013 11:13

Sbuda must bring Jason on board to assist Scott to bring down all those who made his life hell. AGREE

lol wena BK uyaphambana nje ngo Dr Zwane hihihihihihi Hey Nomd *waving*

NoMdazB
12 Nov 2013 11:13

Hi Ntaks. Shame Akhona. I'm sure being dumped hurts like hell. Ladies and gents, in you relationships do you usually get dumped or are you the one that does the dumping? I've done most of the dumping but it's really, really difficult and you feel like such a horrible person for doing it.

NoMdazB
12 Nov 2013 11:18

Kodwa Bk, where did they find you?

sqephu
12 Nov 2013 11:32

@portcia I saw a move magazine on the cover there is Akhona and its says why Akhona leaving

duckie
12 Nov 2013 12:32

portcia
12 Nov 2013 13:54

Sho squphu, do they say where she will be going? hey Ntaksay, i have forgotten all about Mj's father, you have just reminded me about that saga. ja ne what if Sbu is his father?

Mimibob
12 Nov 2013 15:44

Hi All. @ Nomdakazane, "Ladies and gents, in you relationships do you usually get dumped or are you the one that does the dumping? I've done most of the dumping..." I've only ever put my heart, soul, toes and hair tips in one relationship, and we all know how it ended. As for the rest (very few), I ended them as soon as there was something I wouldn't stand.

vuxy
12 Nov 2013 16:23

haibo? nobody to update me? this is not fair. i have been waiting since morning

@2012
13 Nov 2013 07:37

morning family

@2012
13 Nov 2013 07:37

morning family

@2012
13 Nov 2013 07:37

how are you all??

@2012
13 Nov 2013 07:38

morning family

Goldi
13 Nov 2013 08:19

Morning Pumkin's :)

i'm Dark and Lovely thanks for asking 2012 how is you?

MJ *smh* he must just get over himself and this revenge thingy soka maan, i'm glad Luntu has change hope it's not for good otherwise her role will be boring just like Thabitha's welll well well S'buda is very clever i tell you mmmmmm so soon he'll be out i like it :) not a prison material indeed as for Sello no comment, ai ke Zodwa you gona get shem today from Senzo whuuuuuuuuuuu i think is inlove with the thought of her being a prophetesse *shrug*

Nunumsi
13 Nov 2013 09:02

Morning, just want to say BIG UP TO LUNTU.

sqephu
13 Nov 2013 09:05

Morning have a blessed day everyone.

portcia
13 Nov 2013 09:24

Morning all

Moporofeta waka o sexy, yoh Nicky boy is so in love, and i feel sorry for Mqobi as Zodwa is the only one who can cure him. 
Akhona babes, just give it up, Nicky boy is so in love le moporofeta

Goldi
13 Nov 2013 09:55

lol i doubt that hey Posh did you see when Scott was asking him if she was just an ordinary girl would he have fallen inlove with her? no answer that should say a lot........

Well i see why the house is quiet everybody's gone to Isibaya mmmmmmm, i watch most of the soapies but on some i'm just a silent blogger or comment once  cos of my beautiful family here but i guess not all of us are as loyal *side eyes the culprits* lol

Bk212303
13 Nov 2013 10:21

Morning all hey Goldi watch it ill come after you like Dr Zwane..hahahah.@Nomdaz hey u Goldi went to drag mee but am here now

Goldi
13 Nov 2013 10:55

Took you long enough wena BK soka yadika maan *in your tone* hahahahaha

Goldi
13 Nov 2013 10:55

Took you long enough wena BK soka yadika maan *in your tone* hahahahaha

Redani
13 Nov 2013 11:51

Dumelang   . ladies and Gentlemen , my boyfriend ‘s family invited me to join them for family picknik , but nna i don’t know gore ke reke food from the shops , or bake . * any suggestions*

Bk212303
13 Nov 2013 12:05

Dumela Redani nice of them to invite but its a test on yr side. Cause they gonna be watching you like a hok. but dont need to worry just be yrself. Are you good at baking or what? If you are then do it my dear. What kind of people are they or agewise cause sometimes it counts.

Me my family in law visited me, but since i knew the kind of people they are i cooked mifuno for mama which she still wants the recipe cause she enjoyed it. Then my 4brothers in law they just lobe pap and pork or pigs head. Then i obviously bought beers for them and mama it was tea all the way. It depends but good luck..

GOLDI wangtina nhee hahahahah, he im doing a claim in RAF Pretoria but each and everytime i phone the claimshandler she speaks in Sotho which i dont even understand but i tried to tell but she doesnt give me a chance hee and the i let her talk talk talk

Goldi
13 Nov 2013 12:06

Hey Redani welcome lovey did they say you must bring something inparticular or you just feel like bringing something? or is it a bring and share kinda thing?

when you say food what kind? I need to know before i could answer wabo!!

Goldi
13 Nov 2013 12:28

GOLDI wangtina lol it's Goldi wantena *wink*

we learn everyday sana hihihihihiihi

Redani
13 Nov 2013 12:33

@ Goldi everyyhing otla  le something

Redani
13 Nov 2013 12:35

sorry typing error : everyone otla le something

tdAKAdesdes
13 Nov 2013 12:46

Hi everyone itz been a while since i visited dis site i even changed my profile itz a long story n i hope ul welcome me bk 2 dis family again n i hv deliverd a baby gal on 26 Oct her name is Reahlegile

lisaa
13 Nov 2013 12:49

I have been gone from the blogging site for far to long. Being having a writters block. But like generation writer am back and ready to blog. Please follow me on twitter @Lisa_LA7. New on the block there. Promise to follow back

Goldi
13 Nov 2013 13:18

@Redani if that's the case wena what must you bring?

there has to be a list if not ppl will be bringing similar things mos unless i'm having a blonde moment hihihihihihii

Welcome back tdAKA aka Reahlegile same goes to  you Lisaa

Ntaksay
13 Nov 2013 13:47

Hello good people

Someone wants to share my workload????? *tired*

I'll catch up with the comments later. Just wanted to say hi to y'all

tdAKAdesdes
13 Nov 2013 13:47

Thanx Goldie i hope ever1 stil remember me m DESDES n m sure ur al ok Bk, Ntaksay, Ryat, Goldie, MalumVus n every1

Bk212303
13 Nov 2013 13:58

kwaaaaaa@Goldi you should hear me say wantena. Welcome back Desdes yes its been long yhoo we still coping ccza and give a big kiss to nhunhuza(Ria)


Heee what happened to Uncle Vusi siyamkhumbula yini bandla.

 Goldi Ntlugela linna kakagiso dont know what that means but ndayinqaya in one of ezi short stories or something.

Pospy1
13 Nov 2013 14:52

Hey there, Iam new

Goldi
13 Nov 2013 15:38

Goldi Ntlugela linna kakagiso dont know what that means but ndayinqaya in one of ezi short stories or something. mmmm not bad hey ok here goes not sure why did you put lenna there you should have said Goldi ntlogele ka kagiso *wink*

Goldi Ntlogele nna ka kagiso......Goldi leave me in peace 

Desdes it's my pleasure nana

Welcome home Pospy1.....Ntaks i was free the whole day you could have let me know earlier askies maybe tomorrow ne?

Bk212303
13 Nov 2013 16:02

Wooooooow thanx Goldi im gonna use that sentence more often so that i dont forget it. For once i thought i was swearing there kwaaaak

Ntaksay
13 Nov 2013 16:22

Thanks Goldilicious I'll give you some tomorrow.

lol BK at least you tried.

BYE FAMILY

Mimibob
13 Nov 2013 21:40

Good going BK :). Welcome back Desdes. Congratulations on the little one. Welcome Popsy.

Mimibob
13 Nov 2013 22:09

I saw a guy briefly a little over three years back. We were not a "full blown" couple, but I thought he was the one, until I found out baby mama was still a part of his life, though he gave a "there is nothing happening, it's only because of the baby" story they always give.. I left and never looked back. He had given me a cow prior to the breakup. He checks on me occasionally to give an update on the cow and calves. The cow has had a few calves over the years. I had offered to contribute toward their care but he declined. He checked on me recently telling me he still loved me, giving the usual update as well. I ignored the former and just thanked him for taking care of the cows. He said he was doing it all because he loved me. I felt he really had no right telling me that. I wanted to tell him I was giving him back the cows. But I felt giving them back would be hush, so I decided to just keep quiet. Just needed your guys' opinion(s). His cousin also called me earlier this year, she said she had gotten my number from him. She seemed oblivious to fact that we weren't together anymore. She kept calling him my man... I just wondered if he led her to believe we were still together...

tdAKAdesdes
14 Nov 2013 06:44

Thanx 4 a warm welcum n Gud morning 2 yall @ Mimi i think da guy stil luvs u n maybe he wz teling de truth about dat baby mama it ment nothing n i say if hes not married den giv hm a chance

Goldi
14 Nov 2013 08:38

Morning my water mellon's 

it's a pleasure tdA this is home nana

guys i didnt watch Gen last night due to a voilent storm that even took our electricity :'( till now can some1 please update me thanks in advance

Well Mims i think the guy is still head over hills with you, he never gave up on you and the love he's got for you is stronger than he or you imagined *talk about destiny* how do you feel about all that?

tdAKAdesdes
14 Nov 2013 11:15

Wes evert1 hello anybody @ home it luks lyk des no1 @Goldie i ddnt watch it i also wnt an update baby Ria hardly makes me rest

Leehle
14 Nov 2013 11:22

Hello my darlings, niyathandwa ndim *in Mawande Memela's voice*

Goldi
14 Nov 2013 11:58

ai desdes this house is dead shame we tried but nothing is happening hey Isibaya has taken over so ya, how old is Ria now?

Hey Leehle sikuthanda ka khulu nathi sisi

Mimibob
14 Nov 2013 12:04

@Desdes and Goldi. I honestly don't care how he feels about me. I don't want him back. He had his chance. I just needed an objective view on giving back the cows.

tdAKAdesdes
14 Nov 2013 12:35

@Goldie shes 3weekz old n her brother Mohau iz 1year 6 monthz dey r my twins n wes Yoyo i mis her

Goldi
14 Nov 2013 12:49

lol Mims i feel you nana i think you can give him he's cow back nana it's time, ohhh Sweet Desdes and is Mohau happy to have a lil sis? Yoyo's around it's just that she's moved offices but she'll be back as soon as she settles in

Xolisalife
14 Nov 2013 12:53

@goldie not for long! Isibaya will be history in 3 months!

tdAKAdesdes
14 Nov 2013 13:36

@Goldi oa mo tsaba hes alwayz with hz nany hes used 2 her dan me n wen i tel hm 2 cum n hold her he alwayz says gore o kakile n runaway 2 hz nany. I cn see dat isibaya's house is rocking

sqephu
14 Nov 2013 14:25

Uthisha wesizulu unqena ukufundisa ngenxa yelanga elalithe bhe! abe sethi ezinganeni........
"Class ngisamaka itest yenu yayizolo ngicela nisukume one by oneumuntu asho amazwi esijwayele ukuhlangabezana nawo kubhalo magama bese usho ukuthi ayeshiwo ubani." isibonelo" Kumnandi kuwumdlalo kuwe,kumina kuwukufa, kwazisholo ixoxo likhahlelwa izingane......." 
kumane kuthuleke izingane zidunyelwe zibukanezodwa...... Acasuke uthisha asukume adonse induku ekhombisa ukuthiuzobaxebula manje!... Amane aphakamise uJonny ngokucobeka.....
Amkhombe!"Ya Johnny awubatakule ozakwenu!"

UJohnny:"Ncooooaw kwazisholo izifebe zaku-Facebook!"

waquleka uThisha!!!

Afternoon guys  siyafa ilanga ngapha yooooooooooooooooooo

Queen mahlo
14 Nov 2013 14:29

ZODWA IS BORING ME. SHAME TO POOR AKHONA

 

Goldi
14 Nov 2013 14:57

How so Xoli? phela every1 is there have you seen how many comments i remember Gen used to be # 1 but not any more :'(

Lol Desdes kannete argh otlaba strong otlamotlwaela

Hi Sqephu ai i tried reading your joke but cha kuyala sisi mind translating? i know it's a joke cos it has Johny in it hahahhahah

Goldi
14 Nov 2013 14:59

Boss: *shouting* James James come to my office now..

James: Yes Sir

Boss : James, I saw you arguing with the customer that just left. I have told you before that the customer is always right. Do you understand me?

James: Yes sir!, the customer is always right.

Boss : So what were you arguing about with that customer?

James: He said my boss is stupid and an idiot sir!

Boss: That bustard. What did u say to him?

James: I told him he's right...

sexy d
14 Nov 2013 15:03

@Goldi Isibaya comes to an end in March next year....

tdAKAdesdes
14 Nov 2013 15:12

James is naughty

Goldi
14 Nov 2013 15:21

Seeing is believing Sexy after Isibaya they'll be something else ai ke will wait and see thanks lala

Los Desdes but James was telling him the truth akere he's the one who told James that a customer is always right kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

Mimibob
14 Nov 2013 18:49

@Goldi, I wish I could translate the joke.. It's something about a Zulu teacher getting into class and telling the students that she was still marking the test they had the previous day, and asking the students to each stand one by one and, I think they were to quote some people... Somebody said something about something being a game to others... The students went quiet and teacher got angry and said she'd do something to them now (uzobaxebula)... She made Jonny to stand and speak and he said something about facebook prostitutes... Hai, Sqephu, I need the translation as well. I tried piecing the little I could understand together, kodwa cha, ngahluleka...

Goldi
15 Nov 2013 08:54

Morning Cramberry 

Lol Mims haai i think we both need translation yhoooo i can't even understand what you just said or want to say hai hai hai 

Yhooo Ruby's SO GETTO bathong hahahahahahahaSbuda my man ohhhh he's so clever shame hahahahha washa khekhe eerrrrrrr Zodwa what kind of a game you playing mara

tdAKAdesdes
15 Nov 2013 09:11

Morning fam

yoyozz
15 Nov 2013 09:15

where do i start Thixo i mic you guys big time.

GIVE SIBUSISO A BELLS!!!!!

tdAKAdesdes
15 Nov 2013 09:57

Wat can we do 2 bring bk da family 2gether maybe we need an isikhonzi 4rom KZN or Mulimisi

Goldi
15 Nov 2013 10:01

Yoyo my sweets you back yayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy hope it's for good ne we miss you like cryazy hey nana so what's up? ohhhh Yes he deserves it BIG UP TO HIM *Sbuda*

tdAKAdesdes
15 Nov 2013 10:04

YoYoooooo mis u 2

nunuza01
15 Nov 2013 11:20

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nunuza01
15 Nov 2013 11:39

http://Paidbounty.Com/?share=16624

Bk212303
15 Nov 2013 12:44

Hi ppl ninjani\? Heey yoyos welcome back.

Dbu
15 Nov 2013 14:58

Hie fam

swtpearl
15 Nov 2013 15:14

hlw gud ppl, im new here, hope u are all gud

tdAKAdesdes
15 Nov 2013 17:06

Welcum sweet pearl c u on monday

makampilo
15 Nov 2013 21:20

Hey guys love u a lot mwaaaaaaaa

swtpearl
18 Nov 2013 09:41

@ tdAKAdesdes thanx a lot dear, nd a verrrrrrry gud morning to u all..... hey makampilo

portcia
18 Nov 2013 10:12

Morning all and welcome to new bees, welcome back yoyozz
Sorry Goldi, the house was quite so i had to wine and dine with the Sibaya crew, i saw you even went there to check on us, Sweet...........

Bk212303
18 Nov 2013 10:26

Morning all

tdAKAdesdes
18 Nov 2013 10:35

Morning

Goldi
18 Nov 2013 11:33

Morning Cheese Rolls

it's cool Posh but batho bamo gae mo abana nnete anywho its cool, Welcome Pearl please feel @ home love you always makampilo

Ntaksay
18 Nov 2013 12:25

Hellloooooooooooooooooooo
at last I managed to log in, I have been trying the whole week but couldn't,

I missed you all.
Now I have to catch up

Goldi
18 Nov 2013 12:50

Hey Ntaks though it was the workload that's keeping you away lol i'm glad you back :) we miss you all the time hey, well you'll be done in no time not much to catch up on hey

portcia
18 Nov 2013 13:30

So guys, Dr Chetty, has managed to find the truth about Sbusiso's condition, couse it seems as if the person who she called told her something shocking.

Nongo
18 Nov 2013 14:07

long time family and good afternoon. the house seems very quiet bothata ke eng ?.
with an empty house i dont know where to offload my sorrows coz i so need your prayers in my situation.
don't ask, thank you, .......
......just help me in praying for me and my family.

i love you all.xoxo

Mimibob
18 Nov 2013 14:34

Hi fam. Details Nongo, details.. I need to give God specific prayers.. Kidding.. Hope u good lady. You can always share if u feel comfortable. Guys I need tips on stopping smoking. Tested tips.

Bk212303
18 Nov 2013 15:14

Hey Nongo will keep you in my prayers. @Mimza sorry my dear dont know how as i dont the only bad habit i have is drink hunters dry yhoo dont know how to stop that im so addicted shame yhoo.

Goldi
18 Nov 2013 15:16

Nongo ((Hugs)) nana you and your family are in my prayers yeh, when ever you feel ready just  offload we are here always babe...

Mims how long have you been smoking? try the electronic cigarretes i doubt if it works though we used to smoke it to come nice here @ work but try it or always keep a pack of you xtra strong sweets remember those *singing* ama xtra strong extrong wilson xtra wilson extra strong hahahahahahahah when ever you crave for a smoke just take one 

B2G: well i hope Dr Chetty will have to understand why S'buda had to do what he did besides he's been sick we all know that she can just black mail him in to sleeping with her lol

Mimibob
18 Nov 2013 15:39

Hahaaa Goldi. Not for me love. I don't smoke.. Was just trying to picture myself with a cigarette between my fingers and smoke off my mouth.. Funny picture I get. I'm enquiring for someone. I would join one of your hunters dry sessions BK, but neither do I drink. Out of interest to those who smoke, or had at some point, how did you start? Is there a particular reason to it?

Nongo
18 Nov 2013 16:04

hey Mims, i dont drink nor smoke. but i used to drink i think that was part of growing up or "peer pressure" i did that in schl but mind you i was never into any other mischief till i quit drinking in my 23rd b/day till now.
... chk her on the net they do hv some pills that you may buy 2help a friend.

Goldi
18 Nov 2013 16:21

i see Mims well i smoke and drink but my drinking is not as active though so i think sooner or later will quick, as for my smokes ai i dont know its just a habit for me i can quit anytime cos i only smoke 1ns a day night time before i go to bed, but if i dont have smokes i dont fuss i just make peace i can go a week without it i stayed like 1year not smoking until i diceded to go back *shrug* old habits die hard lol

laters guys

xxx

ntoh4u
18 Nov 2013 20:35

zodwa i bieng very bad i believe she must choose her calling because thats the only way she can help mnqobi and i thing ngamla is dying

Mimibob
18 Nov 2013 20:39

@ Nongo and Goldi, thanx for sharing. Was just curious.

Mimibob
18 Nov 2013 22:10

I met a guy who had just divorced his wife, or the other way - well, they divorced. He says their relationship was stressed after their children were born. Attention was diverted to the children. They grew apart and later divorced... I was with a guy who like the idea of having children with me more than he liked having me. I knew for sure I'd come 5th after the children - with no 2nd to 4th position, if not 10th. Did relationship with your partner change in any way, good, bad, just adjustments that needed to be made, etc after your children were born? Please share - even if it's not an interesting topic.. Even if you have no story of your own but know someone who knows someone...

portcia
19 Nov 2013 07:46

Morning all, well i also dont smoke, i drink 3 times a year, the 16th of December, 31st of December, and again during the couse of the year when someone is having a party, and feel like drinking, otherwise if i dont feel like, i dont, and i still enjoy the party.

Mims, my Husband and i have been the lovie dovies since High School, we never allowed anything to come between us, we love our kids so dearly, and when ever we have an arguement, we make sure that we dont go to bed without resolving the issue, either one has to get the other one to talk about it, even if it means we can go to sleep around 12, talking and letting whatever that caused the problem out. we have been together for 13 years, and we still talk to each other as if we meet yesterday, and we treat our kids as if they are our friends. So no having the kids didnt couse our relationship to sink, it just made our love to burn even more.

portcia
19 Nov 2013 07:48

So guys tell me, is Sbuda really not feeling his legs, or is it part of his plans, to get her under the sheets? i hope he doesnt mess up with her, she is a good lady and deserves better.

Goldi
19 Nov 2013 09:43

Good Morning to my Apple Tarts 

Posh nana how many kids do you have and how old are you if you dont mind me asking? well that's a good thing there Posh my mom taught me that, never go to bed being angry or upset, communication is the BEST remedy i still say and the rest will follow, kids are innocent never let them come between the love you have for each other instead they should bring you closer than you were before *my 2 cent*

B2G: I think he's not lying he cant feel he's legs but i dont think it's for long though 

Ngamla has a major setback. i think last night was it

Ntaksay
19 Nov 2013 11:48

Hello everyone

I didn't watch yesterday, I only saw the part where Sbuda couldn't feel his legs. I hope he gets better, Gens will not be the same without him.

Who saw Mzansi insider sunday, Mike Maphoto of Zulu girl diary was interviewed, the diary will be on our tv screens soon.

Ntaksay
19 Nov 2013 12:04

UJohnny:"Ncooooaw kwazisholo izifebe zaku-Facebook!"
Lollest @Sqephu

Goldi
19 Nov 2013 12:31

Mike Maphoto of Zulu girl diary was interviewed, the diary will be on our tv screens soon. He did mention it on he's 1st episode and audions cant wait for it specially Thandeka

swtpearl
19 Nov 2013 13:12

hey beautiful people... ai ai ai, i dnt thnk s'buda is serious about his legs, useshaya eyka Daniel (scandal) ke manje lol................... have a gud 1 guys

swtpearl
19 Nov 2013 14:44

@ Ntaksay looooooooooooool, kodwa ung'hlekiselani ngaleyoyinto

Monyana.N
19 Nov 2013 14:49

Hi guys...i really need help,i hv a bf of 4 yrs in a relationship,n a 1 year old baby with hm,the thing is every month he claim that he has 2 buy groceries kwa bona plus give her younger sister money,every month is de same reason,he does nt give me any money,he only gives me de money 2 buy baby's stuff...de thin is i do luv hm,but problem kegore o ntima chelete,hw do i tell hm about hw i feel about dis.

vuxy
19 Nov 2013 15:22

Goldi
19 Nov 2013 15:29

Hey SweetP *waving* lol Nkats 

Monyana please answer here before we continue

Do you live with this man?
Are you working?

Leehle
19 Nov 2013 15:35

Hey guys Been tryin to log on and my pc gav me prblms, bt am bck now. Lol I liked al ur jokes the one about the teacher as the one about the boss u js mad my day lol. About children in a relationship. I and my fiance we were very close befor our daughter ws born, we used to go out do things togeda and loving each other. We had had our prblms bt our love always com first. In a way dat even when we hav a fight the first ting he wil tel me is dat 'l love u'... Whenever ther is smtin he needs to talk. And our daugter was born we both lov her she is mo lik a bonus in our relationship. We stil spend our own tim bsides her we don always put her in a center. We mak her tym as parents and ours as lovers. And about alcohol and smoking I stil need my fiance to stop smokin, t nt smting he does everyday bt I hate t. I told hm about t, and he tries hard nt to smoke when he is around me bt it cigarate nan nyaz it smels lol plz help me ngimsize u my sweetheart awyeke. I prefer alcohol month than cigarate

Ntaksay
19 Nov 2013 15:41

Monyana are you dependent on your partner financially?

We need more info in order help sister

Bk212303
19 Nov 2013 15:50

Molweni nonke.. Me bringing a child to this world brought a joy into our life. But its a competittion in the house cause my son always sides with me and other times they team against me but in a good way wethu Mimza. My son enjoys the attention he is getting from both of son but i can tell you this his father does not stand a chance with that boy he just loveees his mama and there is no debate in that.

Bk212303
19 Nov 2013 15:58

Im aiming to be no 1 to post  DECEMBER

Goldi
19 Nov 2013 16:08

I wouldn't hold my breath if I were you BK about being # 1 lol Monyana we waiting ausi?

Monyana.N
19 Nov 2013 16:34

I'm nt working n yes i'm depending on him financially,n we r nt staying 2geda.

Yolanda mguni
04 Dec 2013 09:29

Hello hello its been long ,can someone tell mi whats going on generations


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