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Generations Teasers - April 2014

Written by TVSA Team from the blog Generations Teasers on 18 Mar 2014
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Coming up on Generations this April, 2014:

Tuesday 1 April 2014
Episode 71 (4093)

Senzo makes a horrifying discovery. Years of anger and bitterness dissolve away as father and daughter bond. A kind gesture prompts Akhona to snap.

Wednesday 2 April 2014
Episode 72 (4094)

Nicholas is desperate to help the woman he loves. Jason is shocked by what he witnesses during therapy. Dr Jacobson shows his dark side.

Thursday 3 April 2014
Episode 73 (4095)

Noluntu realises something fishy’s going at the shebeen. Senzo can’t resist when the nurse cuts a line for him. Xolani is worried about Ruby’s state of mind.

Friday 4 April 2014
Episode 74 (4096)

Ngamla tells Cosmo he has a job for him. Is Akhona ready to forgive MJ yet? Pearl decides to get the hell out of rehab.

Monday 7 April 2014
Episode 75 (4097)

Jason realises Senzo might’ve cheated on him. Dr Jacobson is rattled when the police come knocking. Ruby’s apology is too little too late.

Tuesday 8 April 2014
Episode 76 (4098)

Choppa realises he’s in over his head. Dineo vows to get revenge. Jacob is forced to tell a horrible lie.

Wednesday 9 April 2014
Episode 77 (4099)

MJ is shocked when Akhona fires him. Xolani’s had enough of being emotionally abused. Ngamla is determined to keep the truth a secret.

Thursday 10 April 2014
Episode 78 (4100)

Ruby confronts Noluntu about her damning article. Khethiwe isn’t impressed with Priska’s bossy attitude. Dineo makes a new ally.

Friday 11 April 2014
Episode 79 (4101)

Mandisa devises a plan on how to infiltrate Ezweni. Akhona panics when a stranger invites himself into the flat. Nicholas’s warnings fall on deaf ears.

Monday 14 April 2014
Episode 80 (4102)

Xolani decides to cut his losses and move on. Ngamla shows no mercy to an old comrade. MJ is desperate to prove he’s more than people think he is.

Tuesday 15 April 2014
Episode 81 (4103)

Queen is determined to be the new face of Afri-Berry. Noluntu doesn’t realise her new friend has ulterior motives. A dark figure lies in wait in the house in Botswana…

Wednesday 16 April 2014
Episode 82 (4104)

Priska’s not happy when her fiancé’s ex shows up. Dineo cleverly talks her protégé into phase number two. Mandisa arouses suspicion when she asks too many questions.

Thursday 17 April 2014
Episode 83 (4105)

The attraction between Ngamla and Mawande is still there. Choppa doesn’t realise it’s his turn to be played. Tensions run high at the Memelas’ family dinner.

Friday 18 April 2014
Episode 84 (4106)

Queen resorts to drastic measures to try to look young again. Bianca has had enough of dating a bore. Two vengeful women forge a conspiracy.

Monday 21 April 2014
Episode 85 (4107)

Akhona shocks the audience at her documentary launch. Dineo is getting fed up with her protégé. MJ confesses all to his mother.

Tuesday 22 April 2014
Episode 86 (4108)

Operation Makeover gets off to a bumpy start. Jason catches Mandisa in his office. Mawande has some shock announcements in store.

Wednesday 23 April 2014
Episode 87 (4109)

Queen gate-crashes the Afri-Berry auditions. Ngamla tells his first love he’ll always be in her life. A shocking discovery is made in a small hut in Botswana …

Thursday 24 April 2014
Episode 88 (4110)

Priska isn’t impressed when her fiancé snaps at her. Akhona is devastated when her fear about Mzwanele is confirmed. Dineo has one month to deliver, or the deal’s off.

Friday 25 April 2014
Episode 89 (4111)

Mandisa manipulates her way into the Dlomo house. Senzo takes no nonsense on the work front. MJ decides to follow his father’s advice.

Monday 28 April 2014
Episode 90 (4112)

Mawande thinks she’s losing her mind again. Khethiwe is nervous about seeing Mpilo. Dr Chetty warns Ngamla someone’s been checking up on him.

Tuesday 29 April 2014
Episode 91 (4113)

Dineo takes great pleasure out of seeing Ezweni sabotaged. Priska walks in on an intimate moment. Two old friends face off as bitter enemies.

Wednesday 30 April 2014
Episode 92 (4114)

Mandisa finds something on Jason’s computer. Cosmo isn’t happy about his new task. Queen shoots herself in the foot … again!

Generations is on SABC1 Mondays to Fridays at 20h00.

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246 Comments

Mimibob
18 Mar 2014 00:21

1st for once!

Ersteey
18 Mar 2014 00:40

Yessssssss!!#2....

T.T BoY
18 Mar 2014 01:01

#3 oh yeah! oh yeah! my favourite (Mawande) z cumin bck! Lol ay Queen

@Katties
18 Mar 2014 01:03

Number Three in Ndlovus voice Wandi, Wandi, wandi, welcome back my God i love ths character. So Ngamla and Mawande are still into each other.. Priska n Ngamla engage, wht the *bleep!* Kenneth is back.. I have to admit the teasers are worth waiting fr

4rayboy
18 Mar 2014 01:14

Number 5...........

4rayboy
18 Mar 2014 01:22

whoz Mandisa? atleast Wandi is back, though it is just temp, as for Priska ayi.... Wherez Sompisi no tiye la khe no sinko esno jam? lol. Boring teasers

zvee
18 Mar 2014 02:06

I guess insomnia gets u 2 top 7 :)

Turqouise
18 Mar 2014 06:37

8 nt bad. Wandi welcum. Priska & Sbu engaged? Ths guys is shooting hmself in the foot sumthng tels me.

NoMdazB
18 Mar 2014 07:19

Top 10, not bad. Morning my lovely and loving family.

Goldi
18 Mar 2014 07:44

Top 10 yay

Goldi
18 Mar 2014 07:56

Welcome back Wandi you were missed even if its for a short while but yeah!!!

Morning Nomd long time hope you good i'm awesome come to think of it i'm # 3 yeahhhhhhhhh, Mims darling how are you?

ausdee
18 Mar 2014 08:37

Ohhhh nice #12.....yeeeppee

ausdee
18 Mar 2014 08:40

More like top 10.....@Goldi and 4rayboy.. you messed up my line..mxm

ausdee
18 Mar 2014 08:42

Wandi is coming back at last!!!
I don't like this Priska chick, I hope Mawande puts her in her place; even better gets rid of her..

Bk212303
18 Mar 2014 08:46

?????????????

Beke3001
18 Mar 2014 09:08

Woo hoo my first time ever and i make top 20. Right so who is in Botswana... Mzwanele... is he the friend that faces off with Ngamla?

Dimmy
18 Mar 2014 09:12

Top20 wow

Dimmy
18 Mar 2014 09:21

So excited mawande coming back.

Mpingelihe
18 Mar 2014 09:55

TOP 30 WOW

hilly
18 Mar 2014 10:44

Yeaaahhh, made it this time around, happy mawande is coming back, i hope its da original one

Pastry
18 Mar 2014 10:57

Morning all

I just love the guy from after 9, the one in rehad with senzo. What a crush...i even forgot his name hahahahaaa. As for Sompisi...classic!

kat a.k preci
18 Mar 2014 11:09

kat a.k preci
18 Mar 2014 11:11

NoMdazB
18 Mar 2014 12:00

I'm alright, just work problems. We will know in a month or so if we will be forced to shut down. I have been applying so I hope somebody somewhere wants me.

NoMdazB
18 Mar 2014 12:04

Other than that I'm alright Goldilocks. I know that i'm still in a better position than some out there because my husband works so we will not go hungry.

hop
18 Mar 2014 13:21

welcom bak Wandi

Nunumsi
18 Mar 2014 14:09

The only interesting thing is that Wandi is back

Mimibob
18 Mar 2014 14:09

@Goldi, "...Mims darling how are you?". I'm not sure how I am, but I feel like crying long and hard. Other than that, all is well with me. How are you lala?

Mimibob
18 Mar 2014 14:10

I see everyone missed Wandi..

Nhlebaby
18 Mar 2014 14:16

Top 20 hurray

love tv
18 Mar 2014 14:46

yahyiiii cnt wait to see wandi

pjvv
18 Mar 2014 15:57

Am also waiting to see how Wandi. sad that she wont be staying for much longer. Otherwise boring story lines. It will take a miracle to revive this soapie

Ubate
18 Mar 2014 17:57

Wlcm back wandi! The drama continous.

NoMdazB
18 Mar 2014 19:59

Three words: Soshanguve Funeral Twerkers. Enough said.

cte
18 Mar 2014 20:15

WANDI, WANDI, WANDI!!!! Boring ths month, only MAWANDE who brightens d story, hope n wsh dat she wll put priska in her place. And I think it wll be a touchy episod when M.J confesses d whole truth 2hs mother.

NoMdazB
18 Mar 2014 20:15

Ps: Welcome back Wandi.

Mpho Patricia nkwinika
18 Mar 2014 20:17

Sompisi

babytee
19 Mar 2014 02:42

Nice. I can't wait to see what's next.

thoh
19 Mar 2014 08:36

Generations is really losing it now, i have been the loyal follower but now i am not glued to my tv because of the boring storyline. why are they bringing this gay thing all over again and the new characters introduced are so boring and didnt bring any action. the writers need to find a new eyecatching storyline, the only reason that most people still watch it is because there is no other sopie playing at 8 otherwise it is dead and a joke especially with this sompisi character

Goldi
19 Mar 2014 09:27

I'm not sure how I am, but I feel like crying long and hard. Other than that, all is well with me. How are you lala I'm not good either hey my grand dad passed away last week friday so ya, and why do you wanna cry hard babe?

NoMdazB
19 Mar 2014 09:37

Morning all. Feel better Goldilocks, to most of us, grandparents are very close to our hearts. May his soul find eternal happiness. Ten warm hugs coming your way.

Goldi
19 Mar 2014 09:53

Thanks Nomd

tswake
19 Mar 2014 10:53

finally wandi is back

Angeline444
19 Mar 2014 13:05

Who z Mandisa?welcum bec Wandi

Bk212303
19 Mar 2014 13:17

Hallooooooow Big hug to you Goldilicious all will be well my dear friend. Heyy Nomdaz ive missed ccza uzowufumana umsebenzi ngethemba ko Phezulu
Unjani Mimza yhuu ndanikhumbula betuna

ausdee
19 Mar 2014 13:31

Hey guys,
I know it's too early in the posts to start something like this but....I think my man is cheating. He hasn't touched me for 3 weeks now....straight....
I'm pregnant with our first baba and I'm also not in the mood but still he doesn't even make an attempt hai it's too much.
Do you think something's up with him????
#Worried!!!

FLYINGBIRD
19 Mar 2014 19:23

top 50. i was looking 4ward to a beta storyline... this is junk

Mimibob
19 Mar 2014 19:48

@ Goldi, I was feeling hurt, angry and accepting some realities.. Maybe being far from home contributed (though I never get home sick.. Except that now I left dad in hopital. I'm ok now. So sorry about your grandpa. Hugs... @BK, Im good sisi, missed you too. Let me finish my late dinner @ Ausdee, I will read proper and respond when I get to my room. I wish TVSA could publish teasers weekly so people keep returning home.

Madam M
19 Mar 2014 20:24

Hie pple how u.let me read nw.

sjnn
19 Mar 2014 20:40

New n top 50

Mimibob
19 Mar 2014 22:03

Congrants on the pregnancy Ausdee. Enjoy every moment. Has baby daddy given you any other reason to think he could be cheating? Don't be too quick to assume the worst of him. People respond differently to different things. What we or you think about his behaviour is not the point and not necessarily the fact to the matter.. He might not admit to cheating if he did, but ask him about not touching you without accusing him of anything. I hear that pregnant people need more attention that normal.. Three weeks is too long a time though to say you could be overly sensitive. I would suggest you initiate the touching if you were in the mood. But you could still try.. And do talk to the guy. Problem would be if there are lying and trust issues in the relationship. (Also, a guy could cheat and still touch you. If he is teaching, you will find out. They are not good at keeping/hiding these things)

Mimibob
19 Mar 2014 22:54

Ijo.. That should be "cheating" not "teaching"..

ausdee
20 Mar 2014 10:25

@Mims, he actually hasn't given me any other reason except this one. But I'm sure you can understand where I'm coming from, it is strange for a man to not want "dusting" for that long!!!!
Guess I'll try initiating and see what happens :)

NoMdazB
20 Mar 2014 10:57

Good morning Generations family. Wandi needs to come back soon. We need to see sane, grown ups on Gen. Plus I want her to rattle Priska's arrogance just a bit.

Nunumsi
20 Mar 2014 12:42

Mandisa will be acted by Gugu Gumede the daughter of Zanele Magwaza Msibi. She wants revenge from Sbu who lead to her father killing himself.

@Katties
20 Mar 2014 13:00

I hate the fact tht every character who joins Generations have a grudge on Ngamla. Im gettin tired of it...So many enermies. We need sumthin new sumthin fresh we all knw nobody wll destroy the mighty Ngamla. #Sompisi is one of the best, i watch ths borin soapie now because of him bt he likes tea a lot its annoyin!

Amy M
20 Mar 2014 13:02

Morning family. I have missed u all. My deepest condolences for your loss Goldie darling, but be rest assured that he is in a far better place. @ Mims i hope that your father will get better quickly. @Nomdzab my love, u will find a job, a better one my dear.We will keep u in our prayers. With God nothing is impossible. All will be well. Ausdee, i also would be worried if hubby didnt touch me for 3 weeks. But i have read in a pregnancy mag once when i was preggies with my son in 2009, that men sometimes avoid intimacy with their wives out of fear that they might hurt the baby( mine was also like that), till i showed him da article in da mag, to prove to him that we could continue being intimate till the baby was born. And it actually worked. So do somw research and share it with him. The situation might change. I loved dusting throughout my pregnancy loll.

Mimibob
20 Mar 2014 19:12

Thanks Amy.

Goldi
21 Mar 2014 09:26

Happy human rights day to my beautiful Family, Ausee congrats on your pregnacy and I Agree with Mims and Amy specially that there's no reason for him to cheat, Nomd sthandwa you'll find the Job love the one that's meant for you..Mims how's your dad doing? Hope he's in a better condition now my prayers are with him enjoy the rest of the day mhwaaaaa!!!

Mimibob
21 Mar 2014 13:41

Thanx Goldi. I hear he is out of hospital now. He will be ok.

cerebos
23 Mar 2014 16:11

Mina ngifunitiye namabuiscuits

Danick
24 Mar 2014 18:34

Wish Kenneth could come back

Danick
24 Mar 2014 18:34

Wish Kenneth could come back

vuxy
25 Mar 2014 10:02

ausdee
25 Mar 2014 11:06

Thanks ladies, I think it might be the pregnancy hormones working overtime .. :)

NoMdazB
25 Mar 2014 11:19

hello everyone. Thanks for the encouragement Goldi. At the moment one of my relatives is battling with this issue: if you have a child out of wedlock, whose surname should you give the baby? Please advise. Personally I think the dad's surname but some parents and grandparents don't want to hear it.

VusiK
25 Mar 2014 12:30

@NoMdazB ..

If she wishes to "DO the right thing" ... The Father's surname
If she wishes to do the black / family / normal thing (Which is 99% the WRONG thiing) ... her surname.

Too many children walk around not knowing who they are because women bend to antiquated norms.

If the child has his father's surname, The Child already knows the mother's surname ...

Plus .. it eliminates the identity crisis later in life.

It depends on the child's mother, some mothers retain their surname to their childrn, and then alter when they get married .. to an unrelated surname.

Whether the parents are married or not, Give the child their proper identities ... (If the parents were married, ... that would probably be the father's ) ... just because they are not married is not reason to do so.

This way, the child will never have an identity crisis, regardless of the cicumstance surrounding the parents.

VusiK
25 Mar 2014 13:09

Family & their opinions will always complicate matters ....

They were not there when the parents created the life.

They should be of no concern nor input into the offspring's identy.

NoMdazB
25 Mar 2014 14:02

Afternoon Bra Vusi. Often, I find that parents will base their decision on how good or bad the relationship with the man is. That is, if things are still lovey dovey then he is fit to have the child carry his surname. Once things turn sour, all parental rights, as well as those of the child, no longer exist.

Goldi
25 Mar 2014 14:18

Nomd i think the child should ONLY use her fathers surname if the hes paid damages and lobolad that child even if he doesnt lobola the mother, yes the child needs to know his roots but ngendlela e sharp the father must do the right thing as well if he wants he's son to grow up knowing where he comes from

i can not give my child he's father's surman whereas he's fathers has gone awol on my kid or he doesnt want anything to do with him.......so now what must happen?

Amy M
25 Mar 2014 14:18

Goldi
25 Mar 2014 14:24

Sorry my manners good day to you guys

i dont agree with your statement Nomd

Amy M
25 Mar 2014 14:25

@Malome VusiK. Well said. You are 100% correct. A child shoud take his/her fathers surname period. Guys i honestly dont have anything personal against Big Brother,but i am seriously starting to dislike it coz it has stolen all the tenants from this house. This house has become so cold and lonely. Hopefully things will get back to normal when the show comes to an end. Khumbululani ekhaya shem pls. We should be blogging about Sompisi and Ngamla's sudden marriage proposal. Hawu bandla, remember home.

Amy M
25 Mar 2014 14:41

Eish i also forgot my manners. Greetings to u too sweet family. Glad to see u back Goldie darling, i was about to lease out yr apartment here in this blog site, lolll.

Goldi
25 Mar 2014 15:12

hahahhahah NEVER Amy darling my loyalty is with this family it's just that every1 is never around that's why i'm with the other family worry not

B2G: bathong and then Sbuda with the marriage proposal out of the blue nje yhooo haai Wandi must come back soon wuuuuuuu Priska must never, as for Sompisi he annoys me to come nice wheeewwwwww

Amy M
25 Mar 2014 16:59

Goldie love, glad to hear that yr loyalties lie with your Gen family. Ja true Wandie must just come safe Christina from the evil witch of a step-mother called Priska. Nna I love Sompisi i think that he brings life into this dull soapie, he totally killed me when he asked Rubyriza to iron his best expensive suit coz his friends are coming over, lollllll. And also when he asked Rubiriza where she keeps her beer (dead.)###

VusiK
25 Mar 2014 17:00

@nomdakazane .. Goldi.

Damages have really absolutely NOTHING to do with a child's identity.
Some couples are simply not in the position to afford to settle the damages issues.

Regardless of a father's being iterant, excepct in those cases where his identity is unknown (anonymous Sperm donor).. even my expectant children will know their biological mother (who happens to be an egg donor), a child generally knows who the mother is.

It is the father's identity that tends to create an identity crisis , regardless of when that happens. ; and generally, when the father is not involved, it is of importance for the child to KNOW his identity ... for the child's sake.

Also ... Among us South Africans, the attaching monetary issues to identy is what helps keep a lot of people traveling backward .

Giving a child his father's surname in no way obfuscates, or otherwise negates his identity regarding his mother, however, denying his title and name (paternal), not only creates a psycho-social issue/ problem, but also happens to be one of the primary causes MEN / BOYS to enable their ability to to exercise their exit from their responsibilities toward their brood.

VusiK
25 Mar 2014 17:22

... about what happens if the father is an absentee ...

The Child act covers that extensively ... Downlload it, read it thouroughly, and understand it, and that it has NOTHING to do with a child's surname, but certain duties relative to the child's welfare by the parents.

There are also many instances where women have who children have really got no business being parents, nor to have the welfare of children entrusted to their care.

In most cases, I simply say "where it is not my child, hence not my business to determine anyting regarding what surname it should carry" ...

However, I do know for a fact that children who do not carry their father's surname often encounter issues regarding their identity at some point or another, especially if the father is absent, missing, not spoken of, or not noted.

Since I am raising my new children SOLO ... the argument is Moot, but having selected the egg donor, and the surrogate, My children will knkow who their biological mother (egg donor) is, as well as who brought them onto this world (surrogate) ... for the child's sake, not mine.

VusiK
25 Mar 2014 17:31

@Nomdakazane ... finally, the quality of the relationship is equally irellevant.

Just because the relationship goes sour is absolutely no reason to shield the child from his identity.

If that was the case, one could justify infantilism as a factor... kill the child because the parents decided not to continue the relationship.

I knkow I am being extreme, however, one has to explore the argumennt in proximity and its extreme to understand the importance of what identity a child should carry ...

Similarly, the importance / meaning of a NAME is as important as the intention of its existence.

There are people who are qualified to make celar decisions, however, ... as life has it Most, are not adequately equipped because they allow emotions and opinions to cloud good judgment.

The child's life is not about what is happening NOW ... it is more important what effect all these decisions will have on the child's quality of life in the future.

As humans, and (generally irrationally) emotional creatures, we will often make selfish and myopic decisions in such regards ... which concidentally happen to be the wrong decision.

NoMdazB
25 Mar 2014 17:55

Personally, i think that it is better to give the child a father's surname because it will resolve some if not all the issues a child will have regarding their identity. You are basically validating that the child's paternity is equally important. And also, with us Black people, our identity hinges very heavily on our clan names. A person is MaDlamini, Gatsheni, Madiba etc. A child's clan name is the same as that of the father, whether damages have been paid or not. Besides, I have a problem with handing out of parental rights being equated with the damages that were or not paid. A child's father is just that- the child's father. If the child's father does not have the lump sum required to pay damages but can only afford to give the mother R350 a month because he only earns R1500 a month; is he any less of a father? If the father decides to leave you while you are pregnant then does that cancel the fact that that child will still call him Daddy when he comes back after ten years? The dad may be Awol but there's a granny and auntie etc who is prepared to claim him/her as one of their own. And perhaps I would be wary of sending a message to my child that there is something wrong with his paternity and therefore something wrong with the child- as all children will blame the flaws of their parents on themselves.

VusiK
25 Mar 2014 18:29

... so, we are agreeing on the principle, you just happen to put it better than I do. :-)

NoMdazB
25 Mar 2014 18:42

Basically Bra Vusi I am a simple woman with simple, straightforward tendencies. You are a deep thinker and something of a lyricist. You make any words sound like songs.

NoMdazB
25 Mar 2014 18:44

I must say you have been missed. I never imagined I would be attached to this gruff, blunt, hard-headed and hot-headed man. But, alas, I am.

NoMdazB
25 Mar 2014 18:48

Because underneath all that is a well of sweet honey and syrup. And do not even try to deny that you are a sweet man.

VusiK
25 Mar 2014 18:58

Be careful with them words Missy ...

People will get ideas that are not accurate!

LOL

VusiK
25 Mar 2014 18:59

(My new business partner says If I ran for political office ... He'd vote for me ) LMAO!!!

NoMdazB
25 Mar 2014 19:04

I'd also vote for you because I would be certain that you know what you are doing.

NoMdazB
25 Mar 2014 19:06

But I don't think you'd stomach being forced to hold your tongue and play nice, even when you know you shouldn't.

VusiK
25 Mar 2014 19:07

Thanks for the compliemtn O' "Dark Skinned One !!!"

NoMdazB
25 Mar 2014 19:14

Like I said, poet.

VusiK
25 Mar 2014 19:14

I refused to found a party here because I would not survive too long ...
Be the crucifictioin coming from the populous hearing what they would rather not, or by other politicians, for speaking the truth and my mind.

I'd never pander to populist agenda.

I'm safer doing the best I can in business ... At least my success and failure resides purely in the best decisions possible I can .... maaking the best use of the resource that are available to me.

Politics is for those who are prepared to say whatever the masses need to hear in order to advance the agenda of the few.

I'd fail dismally in such an environment.

NoMdazB
25 Mar 2014 19:22

I can just imagine you gagging every time you have to butter up someone. Loo mazwi angoma emqaleni.

VusiK
25 Mar 2014 19:29

LOL ...

I'll ask Oscar to tell me where he buys them green buckets, and keep plenty in short supply !

I'll definitely have great use for them ...

Buttering is not for me ...

If I was a politician, and actually survived to win an election, ...

I'd be an exclusively "Nationalist-National & possibly Isolationist" President.

I'd never ever leave the country, or meet any of the other forein hypocrite politicians unless I was certain their path was congrous with that of my country.

Sadly ... That also happens to be EXACTLY the kind of President what South Africa is presently in desperate need of.... Someone who can be single minded enough to prioritize and revitalize the country ... exclusively.

Goldi
25 Mar 2014 19:37

Not damages per se Vusi but a father acknowledging he's responsibilities and accepting and willing to do the right things towards he's child..the Child will also grow up knowing he's Father nothing to it, you never answered my question of what must happen when the father is upsent or he doesn't want anything to do with child?

VusiK
25 Mar 2014 19:44

... Well, You used the word Damages Sis Goldi.
I can only go by what you write, not by what I think / suppose you mean.
...
No Offence (not trying to be brash) ... It is my personality (so I am told)...

what must happen when the father is upsent or he doesn't want anything to do with child?
The Child grow up ...
The Children's act says ... It is a father's responsibility and duty to make personal, emotional, and monetary contributions to the child's well being.
Should the parent (father), abscond his responsibilities toward the child in any form, within acceptable reason beyond the assumption of wilfull inability...
That Parent shall have no claim, or parental rights afforded to them nor protected under law.

VusiK
25 Mar 2014 19:52

... that does not preclude or exclude the point of the discussioin ...

Should the Mother give the child his or her surname?

My Opinion is ...

Regardless of the father's position ...

The child should get his father's surname.

It is his his / her heritage and birthright, and has absolutel nothing to do with the machinations of the parents.

VusiK
25 Mar 2014 19:54

Separate the issues, eliminate the emotions, and remain with the bare naked facts.

There is absolutely NOTHING the mother can do in that instance to reverse, alter, or nominate and alternate genetic half of the child.

Operating on pure emotion and not doing what in my opinion is the right thing (Father's surname), is simply compounding the damage / disadvantage already imposed upon the child at birth,

VusiK
25 Mar 2014 19:59

It the father denies paternity, is never involved, does not make contributions ...

That father has ZERO protection nor legally executable rights under law.

The same applies even if he acknowledges paternity but is not a contributing factor to the child's development.
...
Even if that child carries HIS surname.

The Family Advocate's office will gladly issue the the mother a writ to such effect under those circumstances.
(Look up Office of the Advocate of the family Court in the telephone directory).

The Pretoria offices are on Paul Kruger street (I think.)

VusiK
25 Mar 2014 20:34

(Generally, men who deny their children are too ashamed to come affect their parental rights later in life) ... hence, the argument is also Moot.

NoMdazB
25 Mar 2014 21:20

My mom's sister fell pregnant in the 70s when she was 18. The guy flat out denied paternity, ran away, only to be heard from 20 odd years later. By then the 'baby' was an adult who held a steady job, and he used his mom's surname. The father had learned some harsh lessons in life since he'd last been seen. He actually called and begged for an appointment so he could come and apologise- which he did, I must say. After plenty of anger and hurt and harsh tones, things were almost completely resolved. Now mom, dad and son are on good terms, which Is more than I can say about the relationship between son and mom's family. There's always this undercurrent that where he is is not his home and he is using the wrong surname. Dad wants son to use his surname but doing that would be a logistical nightmare which my cousin just isn't prepared to go through. I do fear though, that one the grandkids will want that surmame changed. You can actually see the uncles cringe when my cousin gets called by his mom's clan name. They always make it a point to call him Mtshana. So now my cousin just does not know where he belongs because where he ended up is not where he should have been. Of course that identity crisis has spilled over to his wife and kids.

NoMdazB
25 Mar 2014 21:26

Regarding the statement that fathers who deny paternity being too ashamed to claim responsibilty: that is oh so true. And that is why I have so much respect for my cousin's dad for biting the bullet and apologising and re-establishing contact. Of course it won't change what happened but I'm sure it gives a child a sense of forgiveness and peace. At least I hope it does.

VusiK
25 Mar 2014 22:07

Your cousin is an adult, he does not need anyone's permission to engage any legal ation.

18 is the age of legal and Tacit emancipation in South Africa

He can chane his surname without ever needing anyone's permission, acknowledgment, or sanction.
....Hence my argument ... Mitigate and abate the identity crisis ... Give the child his father's surname.

VusiK
25 Mar 2014 22:11

Regardless of social stigma ...
A child is Of his father's surname.
deal with the consequence that flows from that thereafter, but the child will never be an out of place soul ... Maternal relatives can be extremely cruel people.

NoMdazB
26 Mar 2014 06:14

Morning. You know I think the problem with my cousin is he simply lacks the backbone to come out and say exactly what he wants. And yes, maternal relatives can be very cruel. Why is that?

VusiK
26 Mar 2014 09:02

My suspicion is because they get upset at not being able to make money from the incidence of the pregnancy.

VusiK
26 Mar 2014 09:04

... and the truth that the child is not of their family ...
Identity is more sensitive a matter than people think when making emotional decisions.

NoMdazB
26 Mar 2014 09:18

But the funny thing is they don't want the paternal family to have the child, and yet they are not prepared to truly intergrate the child into their family either. It. Must be hard though, having to be generous to someone who discarded or neglected his child, and you. Maybe the trick is to put aside the hurt he caused you and be cordial for your child's sake, hoping that it will benefit your child. If i'm being honest, before reaching that level of maturity and compromise I would have a go at him first. Yhu angandifumana ! I fear the words that would come out of my mouth. Of course I'd make sure the child is not around.

VusiK
26 Mar 2014 09:34

well, the mechanics are thi simple ... The mother is "one of them ... their blood, of one of them" ... the child however, is NOTone of them, his identity and blood is the father's, who is an outsider.

I can't comment on the politics and emotions of abandonment, be that of the child, or the mother by the father, that is not the topic.

... `the child's identity, sense of belonging & identity is the important factor ... not the adult's expectations, nor the politics of their relationship.

VusiK
26 Mar 2014 09:44

... for instance ... in my personal case

I did not wish to engage in, or cater to any woman, nor her family's encroachment on my attention whilst raising the incumbent children (18-25 year committment to the children and my contribution to them) ...
My solution ... Have children, no relations, no in-laws, just them, totally focussed,
Such a single minded approach is perhaps the rarety, but works for my personality.

I know a relationship with a woman would not survive while I was concentrating on "being everything to my children" ... I can't have everything my way, perhaps nobody can. (strangely, when single parent children are approximately 7-10, they tend to want the parent to go out at get someone (And match-make if they are attracted to someone ... something I find fascinating to observe)

NoMdazB
26 Mar 2014 09:46

My high school teacher who is now deceased had four kids. All her kids had different fathers and they all used the dad's surnames. We used to think it was such a disgrace, until we grew up and saw the light. You should see how disgusted the mamas are when they talk about it. DI suppose in our culture it's easier to gloss over some things- for the adults of course, never the kids. If have a child before you get married you give that child your marital name and hide who his dad is. If you cheat and fall pregnant you let the child think that is his family, until they tell him when he is 30 something and you shatter his world. I tend to think that telling the child the truth, no matter how shameful, is the best option. I could be wrong but I think small kids deal better with hard truths than adults.

VusiK
26 Mar 2014 09:47

(Regardless of my brash nature ... I never engage arguments or fight in front of children ... I grew up in a house where my parents never argued in front of us & it was wonderful ... It happens to be a legacy I'll develop into and pass onto my children) ... not suggesting that my parents were in blissful harmony all their lives, that is unrealistic.

VusiK
26 Mar 2014 09:53

A child raised in truth is of stronger character than one who ... as an adult realises that EVERYTHING they thought was a fixed , finite, abslute point of who their character is/was ... is actually a lie.

Kudos to your teacher for electing the hard path filled with scorn and ridicule, I bet if you ever interviewed the children, they's all say "Thanks Mum for not being ashamed of our existence."

NoMdazB
26 Mar 2014 09:53

If I'm being honest I think I would have been better of if I had just had a relationship, bred children and carried on with the relationship as long as I was still happy in it. It's the feeling of being bound to the relationship that is troublesome. The more I grow up, the more I understand the reason why Oprah never wants to get married. I am a contradiction though, because I also want that commitment, which is why I'm still married. I like being in a committed relationship, just wish the commitment had been in a different format.

VusiK
26 Mar 2014 09:58

lol, Like I saud some time back ...

Women LOVE the ceremony (and spectacle) of marriage,
Men love the idea of being married.
but often, neither enjoy the notion of being tokenised and patronised as being "the property of the other person.

Marriage, I like the idea

It is impractical, outdated, and outmoded by the realities of my life.

I do not wish to live by anyone else's expecations, standards, nor be responsible nor answerable for their state of emotions.

VusiK
26 Mar 2014 10:02

I'm perfectly and adequately equipped with my own standards, weaknessess, travails, strengths, and opinons and have no wish to have the burden added to by any other person other than those who have no choice about being in my life's space (my children)

VusiK
26 Mar 2014 10:03

....Simple for me
... Perhaps very complex for the next person.

:-)

NoMdazB
26 Mar 2014 10:06

Never have truer words been written.

NoMdazB
26 Mar 2014 10:08

Kanti abantu baphi na ? Are you all watching the Oscar Pistorious trial?

VusiK
26 Mar 2014 10:12

I own no television.

... so I do not know, lol

:-)

NoMdazB
26 Mar 2014 10:14

Since it is just the two of us, what kind of music do you listen to Bra Vusi ?

VusiK
26 Mar 2014 10:23

I listen to any music that is excellent.

My taste is eclectic, ranging from classical music, big band, through some classic rock , Rhythm & blues, all forms of Jazz, to vernacular, folk, & country..

Music must peak for itself and to the sould/ spirit.

I have over 10,000 compact disks in my collection.

It would be asier to ask which music do I not listen to or enjoy.

I do not listen to music which carries no message.
I do not listen to music I will not be playing in the future.
My music persona simplified is embodied in Quincy Jones' "What good is a song"

VusiK
26 Mar 2014 10:28

... for me ...

Music must be created by the artist, not spat out by some machine just to generate sales and be forgotten or have no place on my shelf, or gather dust because I bought it for a single track.

I enjoy my music thoroughly, and spend massive amounts of time (and money) indulging my senses, as well as on the equipment that makes the experience worthwhile.

(I alsohave some very serious music reproduction systems ...
and am not shy to get more,)

lol

NoMdazB
26 Mar 2014 10:28

So old people's music... Just kidding. Do you dance ? And are you any good at it ?

VusiK
26 Mar 2014 10:32

want to enjoy radio music ...
and explore choices and variety ...

..

Tune into 702 talk radio on weekends and enjoy !!!
(Its probably the only time I religiously tune into radio)

otherwise,

I have cabinets and shelves to raid, recollect, and replay, and re-experience
(I see it rubbing off on some of my children ...

They READ, Talk, interact, discuss, watch music, ... and never miss thhe telly when they are with me)

VusiK
26 Mar 2014 10:36

I cannot dance (or so I say ... as do people in my family)

I have two left feet

I compensate for the lack of foot-rhythm with my rather finely tuned ears ...

But some people who've seen me on that extremely rare occassion on my feet suggest I can dance. (pretty well they say)

it is a matter of opinion, perhaps in my opinion, what I observe me doing is not complementing, nor honoring what has been created and reproduced.

:-)

VusiK
26 Mar 2014 10:39

lol ...

I am not young (nor old) ... I am 47, hence I come from a different school of music when music was created by people who had tallent given to them by the cosmos, and created it not for the love of search of money or wealth, but because they had no choice but share.

There are are some young people who produce some really excellent material though...

Young people with very old souls.

NoMdazB
26 Mar 2014 10:45

You are just the right age for my sister, she's 34. Maybe I should play cupid. Lol. I cannot dance, though I so wish I could. I think I'm an okay singer. The music that I enjoy is my brother's- who has the same taste as yours. But underneath all that, I have the spirit of a 16 year old white girl. So I like some pop, RnB etc. The music I just don't get and feel too old for is house and kwaito when it was still popular.

VusiK
26 Mar 2014 10:46

Katie Meluah & Norah Jones & Lee-Ann Rhymes are two such "Old souls in young bodies" ... Joss Stone has potential ... we will see what happens now that she is about to create music she owns ... (She gave everything she ever earned from her intital music career back to the record companies to get out of her contract ... and took almost ten years without making music to allow the contract to expire...

I admire her resolve and sacrifice in her quest for what she believed in ... that her music is her creation and conseqquently her property)
... that the money was secondary, perhaps even tertiary concern in her creating music.

I will give her works a listen when she releases again next year.

NoMdazB
26 Mar 2014 10:47

Hayi torho kwaqina imini abantu cwaka ! Anyone who wants me to translate will have to ask me.

VusiK
26 Mar 2014 10:53

I don't understand house music at all ...
I DO understand the ORIGINAL works from which the house music is sampled (The mediterrenean, brazilian, Cuban, Carribbean music .. that is ...)

I tend to buy the original works, and people think that I listen to house music.
... and get shocked when I tell them that they are listening to the re-hash of what I am playing... until I pull out the disk with the original work.
(The history & stories behind the original creations is more interesting for me anyway ... than the DJ who sampled, added some Bass, and House-ified the work ... very little creativity there)

Some Kwaito from 15 years ago rocks, haven't looked into the genre since.

lol ... Sorry Dark one ...
Not looking ... Sister will have to do her own heavy lifting ... elsewhere !

VusiK
26 Mar 2014 10:54

Silent blogging ...

Some old friends tend to do that when I hijack the page.

lol

VusiK
26 Mar 2014 10:56

(after all .. it could be another year before I write anything again)

... so let them enjoy ...

:-)

NoMdazB
26 Mar 2014 10:56

Faraway voice gets to me every time I listen to it. Katie's voice is heavenly. Ruler of my heart reminds me of a good, good time in my life. Don't listen to joss stone much. I know a handfull of Leann Rhime's songs, and we forget how rich her voice is because of all the rubbish that we read about her.

VusiK
26 Mar 2014 10:59

Well ...

That comes with the territory of allowing themselves to exceed the tethers of artistry and beome celebrities ...

There is a massive price to pay for fame ...

NoMdazB
26 Mar 2014 11:03

But others are able to avoid the celebrity trap though. Raphael Saadiq for example. The only cd that I own of theirs is House of music. I loved it in 1996, still do. Humming, Still a man while I type this. I think I am a closet romantic.

VusiK
26 Mar 2014 11:11

... you should listen to his material from his Toni Tony Tone! days then ... You'll love it!

"It never rains in Southern California" ... is one of my favourite songs from his time with his brothers and cousin.

His Lucy Pearl days were OK, but a little too commercial for me.

VusiK
26 Mar 2014 11:16

I love silent space also ...

I love flying my planes (jets) and my helicopters...

Also love being on the ocean on my yacht.

Just bought a Riva Sportboat (You can google it Aquarama Super) ... being delivered in a week or two ... defines my personality ... I have numerous boats all over the planet.

I don't like hotels, even though I own many planetwide, so I tend to have many houses all over the world ... fully staffed, ... never travel with clothes, because I have clothes wherever I will be landing.

Building what could be the biggest yacht on the planet when it is completed in about six or seven years ... or more ... not in a rush ... just want it perfect for me when it makes sea trials.

VusiK
26 Mar 2014 11:18

If you like romantic music ... Try After 7 as well as Portrait, Monica and Brandy also.

Toni Braxton should also fit in well with what you allude to enjoying.

NoMdazB
26 Mar 2014 11:20

Are you sure your real name is not Patrice Motsepe ?

VusiK
26 Mar 2014 11:22

No, I grew up knowing him though.

Haven't spoken with him in years.

His younger brother Tshepo .. who died was a very good friend of mine

NoMdazB
26 Mar 2014 11:22

Haven't heard Potrait in over a decade. All the others I love.

VusiK
26 Mar 2014 11:23

Not into hobnobbing with the Rich & famous either.

Strictly business .. nothing more, nothing less.

Most people I liked growing with up are dead.

VusiK
26 Mar 2014 11:27

All my businesses, those of my family, and my children's business that I administer are private firms, hence nobody will ever know who we are.

Whether we wake up tomorrow wiped out, or twice as successful ... nobody will know.

Massive power in anonymity.

My mechinations are knkown to me, my staff, and my bankers. Nobody else has the right to know about me, or us.

NoMdazB
26 Mar 2014 11:30

Sometimes I wish I was business- minded but I just am not. I just love to work with people.

VusiK
26 Mar 2014 11:30

... of course .. I'm called "The Slavedriver", perhaps deservedly ... 18 - 20 hour days are the norm, seven days a week, every day of every year is committed to the enterprise, hence, the children will be somewhat of a well deserved off time (parenting by my modicum is a full time job, so I'll probably ease off until they are school ready).

VusiK
26 Mar 2014 11:33

I'm told i'm excellent with people
(I deffer on that point) ... I'm privacy obsessesd.
But I am human and humane, so I get along with people, unless they overstep their boundaries.

ausdee
26 Mar 2014 11:34

My word @Vusi and Nomdaz; one would swear you are on the first date(blind date).. :)

VusiK
26 Mar 2014 11:35

Try "Red Dress" by Babyface ... Awesome song! ... From his "A Love Story" album

VusiK
26 Mar 2014 11:36

I have some time on my hands today Ausdee ... so ... Here I am.

NoMdazB
26 Mar 2014 11:36

Finally, a third party. Hello Ausdee.

VusiK
26 Mar 2014 11:38

Congratulations on the soon to be pitter patter of little feet !

NoMdazB
26 Mar 2014 11:38

I will try that Babyface song, thank you. I have you all to myself so why not sip from your well of knowledge ?

NoMdazB
26 Mar 2014 11:39

Yes Congrats Ausdee.

ausdee
26 Mar 2014 11:39

Anywhoo good morning, this was me just reporting back..
Still no "dusting" in my bedroom, I tried initiating but soon lost interest because I also at the time had no interest..
But who can blame me I'm pregnant, hubby is starting to get on my nerves to a point where I slept in the other room yesterday while he was out; he came bak woke me up and said we should go sleep. In my mind I was thinking ......what the hell for?, it's not like you touch me or anything!!

Guys I hope it doesn't get worse than this. :(

VusiK
26 Mar 2014 11:41

... and George Michael's "Spinning the Wheel" ... you can find it in His "Ladies & Gentlemen Album " (Greatest Hits) ... The "For the "Soul section" ... the for the feet section is more POP ... the former is the "more grown up section"

VusiK
26 Mar 2014 11:43

@Ausdee ... Instead of saying it in your mind ... "Say it with your mouth" ... not angrily, just purposefully.

NoMdazB
26 Mar 2014 11:44

Try not to let the pregnancy hormones get to you. As often as you can, try to stay sane. Ask your husband why he won't touch you. Maybe he's scared of hurting the baby. Tell him the baby is perfectly safe and you need some loving.

NoMdazB
26 Mar 2014 11:45

And never use being pregnant as a reason why you do or don't do something.

VusiK
26 Mar 2014 11:47

... If "Spinning the Wheel" does not make you want to dance a little ... it is possible nothing will.

That's my "driving" kind of music.
..
(Also a massive collector of excellent cars ... not just loud and fast ... but awesome works of engineering)
....
The arts, Cars, aircraft, watercraft, Pens, Watches/ timepoieces and "made for me" clothes are my indulgences in life.

VusiK
26 Mar 2014 11:48

... all second to my children of course.
lol

VusiK
26 Mar 2014 11:49

lol ...

Playing "Spinning the wheel right now", "Red Dress" just before

NoMdazB
26 Mar 2014 11:50

Have to love and leave you family. Thanks for the talk Bhut Vusi. Ausdee: wishing you lots of naughtiness. Later people.

VusiK
26 Mar 2014 11:51

Just checked Youtube ... there's dvds for both songs there.

VusiK
26 Mar 2014 11:52

Bye Namdakazane.
Have a fabulous day.

VusiK
26 Mar 2014 11:53

... sorry .. Typo

Nomdakazane !

VusiK
26 Mar 2014 12:03

.. also try "Nobody's Diary" by Yazoo ... also known as Yaz

Allison Moyet was half of Yazoo (when she was a teen) ...
..
saw her at Emperor's Pallace when she performed there this year ... awesome show ...
(She's about 47 now ... so it's a 30 year old song ... she wrote it when she was 17 ... still rocks !)

...
My date and me were the onlytwo black people in a sea of white people at the concert.
...
Missed the Santana concert ...
... Going to the UB 40 concert though !

VusiK
26 Mar 2014 12:18

Alphaville - Forever young
Chris Rhrea
Roxy Music - Avalon

ausdee
26 Mar 2014 13:20

I feel like an intruder... :-) you seem to be having a beautiful and flowing conversation guys.

So I'll try asking why tonight and give you guys feedback tomorrow..

So uncle Vusi from a man's point of view what are your suggestions to the matter; meaning what could be causing this?

VusiK
26 Mar 2014 13:35

I don't know ... There is no answer ... historical data is important.

Ask him ... He might or not answer ...

A Suggestion ... don't start the conversation with "We Need to talk, or can we talk," or something similar.
It will make him defensive... and men detest the "Talk".

...Simply say "I noticed you do not touch me anymore ... Is it something I said, or did ? ... and take it from there.... but learn not to open conversations with your expectations, and be prepared to be accepting of whatever he might have to say./

...

I do not wish to imprint any expectations of which direction that conversation might go ... it is between you and him, you know him , not us.

It is also OK to say "You need some attention & dusting, etc", and study his reaction and carry on from there.

Howeve, always keep in mind ....

99% of ALL assumptions women have about men are 100% incorrect.
(There is NOT ONE woman on earth who knows or understands men, or what goes in their minds and thought)
in my opinion .. the opposite also applies.

VusiK
26 Mar 2014 13:36

(If women understood men ... They'd be men & not women)

vuxy
26 Mar 2014 14:25

ausdee
26 Mar 2014 15:15

But that's the problem right there, I also don't feel like it; but why doesn't he. I'm the pregnant one with nausea, headaches and back pain and fatique and frequent urination.........I can go on and on. Plus even though I don't feel like it I want him to try and make me want to.
I'm not expecting anyless than when we were trying for a baby, now that I am preggos he doesn't do it anymore!!!!

Anywho thanks for the advice Vusi. Lets see how it goes.

VusiK
26 Mar 2014 15:35

... it is possible that he notices that you do not feel like it ...

in psychology it is called sympathy (meaning feelin the same vibration you are)

VusiK
26 Mar 2014 15:37

(for all you know, he could also be having nausea, backpain, etc ... just you don't notice because it might be happening when you are not around, or not observing.

... Ever heard of sympathy pains & symathetic pregnancy syndrome? ... look it up !

VusiK
26 Mar 2014 15:38

sympathetic pregnancy syndrome

Goldi
26 Mar 2014 16:07

Good Day family

Haai Vusi le Nomd ke eng na *as i call MimiK* LOL

Wena Vusi onale selective reading anyway its a new day now let us not mess it up, Nomd your cousin's dad is awesome big up to him but what if the dad never comes back so what ok bye darlings *NOT OPEN FOR DISCUSSION*

Laters xxxx

VusiK
26 Mar 2014 16:07

pass by your bookseller and purchase a copy of "Expectant Mother's Guide" 2011, the flipside (opposite side of the books is "Expectant Father's Guide" ... I got my copy at Exclusive Books ... but it is possible you can get it at other places, and read it with him. (30 rand)

VusiK
26 Mar 2014 16:08

... I think I got my copy for 15-20 rand or so.

VusiK
26 Mar 2014 16:10

@Goldi ... Then he never comes back ... whyy factor variables that are beyond one's control?

Mimibob
26 Mar 2014 22:18

Ijo! Now I see what (or who) has been missing in the house... Let me read..

Mimibob
26 Mar 2014 23:20

Interesting read.

I think you guys (Vus and Nomd) would just be great together.. :)

Are you sure your real name is not Patrice Motsepe ?
This made me lol...

@ Vus, ..., hence nobody will ever know who we are.
Piecing together bits of info you provide on the blog, it wouldnt be too difficult if one tried.

Mimibob
26 Mar 2014 23:23

@ Goldi, Haai Vusi le Nomd ke eng na *as i call MimiK* LOL
Lol... Let them be.

Good night people.

VusiK
27 Mar 2014 00:22

@Goldi ... MimiK's real surname DOES begin with the letter K

@MimiK ... Piecing together bits of info you provide on the blog, it wouldnt be too difficult if one tried.
We have pretty much left South Africa, unless you spill the beans, I don't think so...We are South Africans by birth only now ... and will drop the passports in a very short while

NoMdazB
27 Mar 2014 07:05

Morning all. @Goldi, even if the child's father never comes back I think I would still give him his father's surname. I would also try to get his dad's relatives to be part of his life. Mind you, they may also not want anything to do with him but I'd still try. Children in such situations often feel like a part of themselves is missing if they only know one side.

Mimibob
27 Mar 2014 10:01

@Vus, stop trying to divorce me there dude, the "K" in MimiK is not from my real surname.. And no, I will not spill any beans. You know me better than that.

VusiK
27 Mar 2014 10:04

@ Mims ... LOL

Mimibob
27 Mar 2014 10:14

@ Vus, :)

jjj
27 Mar 2014 15:13

YoYoYoYo

Bk212303
27 Mar 2014 16:06

Halllooow everyone yhoo ninjani betuna tjoo the house is warm....uncle is here molo malumu Vusi.......Goldilicious Nomdaz..Mimza

Mimibob
28 Mar 2014 06:41

Molo BK..

laleli
28 Mar 2014 10:11

Sibusiso Sibusiso Sibusiso what's the rush he is really acting like a teenager mxxxxx

ausdee
31 Mar 2014 08:11

Hey pips....just saying all is well at home :-)
Thanks uncle Vusi for your advice..

Ntaksay
31 Mar 2014 10:29

Good morning family.

I lolled when I read this in one the diaries' comments:

Ai uyandidika mna uLiya what's wit her attitude..ai shm she's got attitude bigger than Khethiwe's upper lip!

Ntaksay
01 Apr 2014 10:38

Good morning family

TEACHER: Harold, what do you call a person who keeps on talking when people are no longer interested?
HAROLD: A teacher

My sister and I were at the mall and passed by a store that sold a variety of candy and nuts. As we were looking at the display case, the boy behind the counter asked if we needed any help. I replied, “No, I’m just looking at your nuts.” My sister started to laugh hysterically. The boy grinned, and I turned beet-red and walked away.
To this day, my sister has never let me forget..

While in line at the bank one afternoon, my toddler decided to release some pent-up energy and ran amok. I was finally able to grab hold of her after receiving looks of disgust and annoyance from other patrons. I told her that if she did not start behaving “right now” she would be punished.. To my horror, she looked me in the eye and said in a voice just as threatening, if you don’t let me go right now,
I will tell Grandma that I saw you kissing Daddy’s willy last night!” The silence was deafening after this enlightening exchange. Even the tellers stopped what they were doing. I mustered up the last of my dignity and Walked out of the bank with my daughter in tow.. The last thing I heard when the door closed behind me, were screams of laughter.

NoMdazB
01 Apr 2014 10:55

Good morning family. @Ntaksay, kwaaaaaaaaaa! By the way, did you ever sort out your nanny problem Ntaksay ?

Ntaksay
01 Apr 2014 12:40

Hey NomdzB
Yes I let that one go, I have another one, she is good with kids they get along very well. I like her she is really good

ausdee
01 Apr 2014 13:20

Oh my word @Ntaks....kwaaaaaks.....#dead
I will tell Grandma that I saw you kissing Daddy’s willy last night!”

steffie
01 Apr 2014 16:01

I had fun reading your comments

Mimibob
01 Apr 2014 21:57

Lol... @Ntaksay

Nongo
03 Apr 2014 13:52

Ntaksay
04 Apr 2014 10:03

A chemist has to leave his shop in charge of his apprentice for a few minutes. When he returns, he asks if there have been any customers.
"Yes" says the apprentice, "there was a man with a bad cough"
"What did you sell him?" asks the chemist.
"Oh, a strong laxative"
The chemist is astounded "For a cough? That won't work"
"Oh, it has", says the apprentice, "Look at him hanging on to that lampost across the street. He dare not cough!"

vuxy
04 Apr 2014 11:01

gegelegege
04 Apr 2014 11:26

Hallo mabloggers and happy friday

Ntaksay
04 Apr 2014 16:24

Sipho was sitting next to a woman
who was trying
to breast feed her baby on a bus,
the baby
refused
to suck and the mother warned,
" if u don't suck this breast, i will
give it to this
Uncle next to me
" The baby still refused. After about
10 mins that
the woman kept repeating the.
threat, chola
cleared his throat & said"
look woman!! u had better make up
your mind on
whom u want to give that breast, i
was supposed
to have jumped off six bus stops
away".

mlu
08 Apr 2014 09:12

laleli
08 Apr 2014 14:50

this house is DEAD, Deeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaddddddddd

Woman of God
09 Apr 2014 10:01

loooool ntansay good laugh i had

how is everyone in the house

Bk212303
09 Apr 2014 15:09

Molweni bethuna its been long woow how ive missed you

1man
10 Apr 2014 08:10

Gudmorning y'alls.

ausdee
10 Apr 2014 08:35

My word what's happening???

Where is everyone!!??

Am I missing something? Is there a May teaser I'm not aware of!!!

pjvv
10 Apr 2014 08:47

Nothing is wrong, we all here but have nothing to say about Gen coz the story lines leave a lot to be desired.

NoMdazB
10 Apr 2014 12:00

Good day all. The storylines really do leave a lot to be desired. When someone has the time, please explain to me what is going on with Akhona and her search for her father and Sbusiso's role. This week I got called for two interviews, on the same day and at the same time !!! I just could not believe it and I had to decline the other invitation because it was for a one year contract and the other is permanent. My heart broke but I hope something good is coming my way. So my interview is tomorrow morning and I have been studying policies and acts and case studies etc. I am exhausted so I'll finish this evening and then go to bed.

laleli
10 Apr 2014 12:01

does anyone knows what really happened with mzwanele???? I think Sibusiso must just tell the truth and let bigons be bigons

Anotida
10 Apr 2014 12:50

I dont get the Sibusiso, Akhona and Mzwanele story line. Mzwalene was said to be Sibusiso's bff and now what is he hiding? What is Akhona looking for? Is Gens now trying to change its orignal story on Mzwanele?

MsKim
10 Apr 2014 13:22

All the best @ NoMdaz.

Is Gens now trying to change its orignal story on Mzwanele? from the look of things i'd say they are. Desperate times..

Ntaksay
10 Apr 2014 13:45

Hello family.

Good luck NoMdazB

What is Sbusiso hiding? did he kill Mzwanele? This is so confusing, why is he trying to hide the truth?

What was on the documents that he burnt some time ago? *impatiently waiting for the truth to be revealed*

laleli
10 Apr 2014 14:10

Good Luck NoMdazB Generations writers have lost the plot unless if mzwanele is still alive which I doubt

Mimibob
10 Apr 2014 21:37

All the best Nomd. Why did u decline the other interview? Maybe you could have asked for a different day/time.

pjvv
11 Apr 2014 09:16

I also don't understand anything about second documentary, Akhona did the first one and what exactly is she looking for. I understand there is twists and turns in soapies but this one here is becoming boring. why cant they move onto something else, Akhona is a good actress but have you noticed how boring she has become. We have too many troubled souls on Gen, MJ, Akhona, Senzo, Mam Ruby, Dineo, Sompisi that Will character the doc.

dudevenda
12 Apr 2014 11:29

greeetings. i like nomda

Goldi
14 Apr 2014 08:44

Morning Family

Nomd darling how did the interview go?

I think Sbuda knows more than what he told about what happened to Mzwanele, i cant wait for Wetness day for Wandi to show face Prisca irritates me yhooooooo

Pastry
14 Apr 2014 16:06

Afternoon everyone....wow why is it so quiet in here.

BBM is now history so will catch up with you all after the easter holidays, was just passing by to greet and ke botse gore le tsoga byang.

Hello Mims, Nomd (hope all went well sister), my partner in crime Goldi dumela ausi, mmmhh I will catch up on the convo between Malume Vusi and sisi Nomd later tonight!

Enjoy your Easters everyone and travel safe!

FLYINGBIRD
14 Apr 2014 18:46

Mzwanele could be alive in Botswana... they would face off wth Ngamla.

Mimibob
15 Apr 2014 01:31

Hi Pastry.

pearlolayer
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pearlolayer
15 Apr 2014 07:38

Wat iz it dat sbusiso iz hiding abwt mzwanele guyz help m lost here @priska dnt thnk she really luvz sbusiso shez agold digger no wanda scotts hated her so much nxa I hate her I wsh sbusisoshould c dat n get bk2 dr chetty khethiwechoppa, benzan vele manje n akhona yangdina ngokuphenyana nepast

laleli
15 Apr 2014 09:21

i really get so irritated by sibusio and mswanele storyline? as for prisca aisoka!!!!! generations ya bora

Goldi
15 Apr 2014 10:02

Morning Family ai i doubt this house will ever be the same again......

my partner in crime Goldi dumela ausi....Hello Nana, Hey Mims *waving*

Ntaksay
15 Apr 2014 10:24

Morning family

Can someone please dig a grave for Prisca and bury her alive. She irritates me yho and she is disrespectful. What does Sbuda loves about her? I feel sorry for the team working with her shame.

Goldi
15 Apr 2014 12:00

Gold digger and selfish that's what she is.....

Mimibob
15 Apr 2014 21:31

Hey Miss Goldi *Waving back*.

pearlolayer
15 Apr 2014 21:48

Priska wenza umsebenzi wamaxhosa uqhuba ukuthi into yomuntu ngeyami(ezithandwa ndim ezo ) lolGOLD Digger mawande uyeza uzawnqamula umsila cz sbusiso will alwayz luv mawande

ausdee
16 Apr 2014 10:12

cant wait for today's episode, but with my luck Wandi will most probably show up at 20:29....

NoMdazB
16 Apr 2014 10:19

Morning family. To answer all your questions: the interview went well, so much that I got the job. I will have to relocate but it's only about 2hrs from home and I will have an opportunity to do a cross -transfer at some point( it's government you see). So thank you for all your well- wishes and prayers.

Mimibob
16 Apr 2014 21:51

Happy for you Nomd :) *Hugs*

vuxy
17 Apr 2014 08:43

good morning darlings

NoMdazB
17 Apr 2014 09:38

Good morning. Thank you Mims.

sakhe84
17 Apr 2014 13:03

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17 Apr 2014 13:04

ArianaZaza
21 Apr 2014 00:15

I hope u all had a wondrful Easter.....Bengzalwa guyz nge17...... n guys when are the teasers coming out for May?,coz its long overdue nAw

Ntaksay
22 Apr 2014 12:25

Well done Nomd I'm so happy for you.

gcina07
22 Apr 2014 23:58

they are out now,,,jst check

Mazetmosi
24 Apr 2014 09:38

to be stubborn sometimes helps.... luk Akhona nw she just found his father,,,,, I am happy for her,,,, my manners Good morning Mzansi

Ntaksay
24 Apr 2014 09:54

Good morning

Heeeeeeeeeeee Mzwanele is alive. Yho he can hide, for so many year even the might Ngamla didn't see this one coming. In his mind Mzwa is dead. Talk about DRAMA

babyloo
25 Apr 2014 09:02

nowayzzza Mzwanele is alive

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