So Jub Jub is not only suspected of killing four school children, he is also an abuser! I read a shocking revelation by Kelly Khumalo on
Sunday World. I couldn’t believe it, that this is the same
Kelly Khumalo who posed with
Jub Jub for a Drum mag cover just a few months ago. Talking about how she is supporting her man, the father of her son and that people must not judge her.
In case you didn’t read Sunday World, Kelly Khumalo came out about the abuse she had to endure while she was in a two year relationship with Jub Jub. She says Jub Jub beat her up together with her mother when she refused to give him her car.
Apparently this was not the first time he’d done something like this. He once forced her to give him her bank card and he would take her car and use it to pick up girls.
This is the same man who is facing murder charges and culpable homicide charges. I couldn’t believe that Jub Jub could do something like this while he is facing such a case. I wonder what he has to say for himself?
All along Kelly Khumalo has been pretending that things are all rosy when she would go to court with Jub Jub hand in hand and sit next him and show a brave face for the cameras. I must say women know how to pretend that things are all roses while behind closed doors it's a total opposite.
I wonder what the parents of those children are saying now that Kelly Khumalo has came out with this story? Some of them judged her for supporting a man they believe murdered their children.
I feel sorry Kelly Khumalo who paused her career to support a man who turned out to be her abuser. Kelly also reveals that the mini cooper that Jub Jub was driving during that fateful day bought it for him.
I must say that I thought that Jub Jub was really sorry for what him and his friend Themba Tshabala did, but his actions say otherwise. As I didn't expect someone who had done something like they did to be busy abusing his girlfriend, adding to his sins. I wonder how this is going to influence his suspected murder case?
Now we can only be happy for Kelly Khumalo for finally seeing the light and walk out of that abusive relationship. She must be regretting the time she wasted with the abuser.
I hope she gains strength, resurrects her career, raises her son and carries on with her life.
This reminds me of the trending topic that
Lebo Mashile started on twitter named
women stay. She gave a lot of reasons why women stay in abusive relationships and many other tweeps joined in. Maybe she was inspired by this story.
These are some of her tweets:
Even financially independent women stay because they believe no man will truly love a woman who is successful.
Women stay because the destructive love you get from an abuser is more than the love you show to yourself.
Women stay because we believe that it is easier to put your energy into a crumbling relationship than it is into building yourself.
Women stay because they are afraid that marriage/children have turned them into 2nd hand goods that no one else will want.
Women stay because they are afraid of what other people will say.
Women stay because they are afraid of what demons they would have to face within themselves if they had to be on their own for a while.
Women stay because other women, such as friend, siblings, mamas and mamazalas tell them to.
Women stay because they think a house with no man has no dignity.
pics: sundayworld, drum & various site on google