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All men are like Dj Mo from Intersexions

Written by PruLuv from the blog Luv To Chat on 21 Oct 2010
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Men get bored very easily so they can never commit to one woman. Their best opportunity to cheat is at work or “on the job”. Dj Mo proves the theory.

These were the words coming from... MEN. Okay, maybe they were slightly exaggerating that “ALL men” are cheats, but I can’t help but ask if there is a man alive who’s never, ever cheated.

These men were going on about Intersexion and how they liked how it depicts the reality of what’s happening in our modern day society. They felt that as much as Dj Mo might be the “bad” guy, the girls that slept with him are just as “bad”, owing to the fact that they know he’s dating Mandisa. They then turned the tables on me and asked “Mara, why do women do that?” Eish, I was caught off guard.

Judging by the two girls that slept with Dj Mo (because he’s famous), their motive was to launch their careers. These girls must have done their homework and realised how tough it is to get into the entertainment industry. They knew that they might not have the best voices to scoop any top spot on Idols or Popstars, so why not take the “easy” root to the top. And... it worked. They instantly became video girls for the infamous Dj Mo.

So, would it mean that girls who sleep with “unavailable” men, have ulterior motives? Be it fame, financial security or companionship. They don’t just get involved; there must be a reason behind their “involvement”?

Back to men and Mo. The statement that men “get bored easily” just doesn’t rationalize their cheating. So, do they also “get bored” of using protection? How many girls did Dj Mo sleep with on that fateful night? How many times, if ever, did he use protection?

Let’s school each other guys, because I am very baffled by this whole matter.

Just something to leave you thinking:

This is Akuku (the name says it all. Lol) He was a polygamist who bore 210 children after getting married 130 times. At the young age of 22, he already had five wives. He passed away recently at the age of 92 and in the photo he’s seen posing with his youngest wife.

There is one positive to this story, atleast he married all of the women. Lol.

Shows in this post: Intersexions

Channels in this post: SABC1

50 Comments

Sobza
21 Oct 2010 10:49

GBPY.....@ Akuku....he had a sprinkler shame

carino
21 Oct 2010 10:55

I havent really read the content of this article but i just wanna ask a quick question.

Why the general statement?? Couldnt you at least say.. "Are all men like Mo??" Just so that we have a little freedom to say no and defend our men some of us? Im just saying

Lobby the girl
21 Oct 2010 11:01

Have to agree with you Cariri, I think is only fair..

titidi
21 Oct 2010 11:17

All i can say about Dj Mo, his part potray the most of Zulu man, he is sturborn,selfish, cheating. He ask Mandisa to move in with him and then he has a neive to remind her that "this is my place I can do as much as I please, i'm still enjoying with my friends.

makisto
21 Oct 2010 11:26

I don't agree with the notion that all men are cheats. It is untrue. Yes some men do cheat but not all of them. I for one know that I don't cheat and I believe in being faithful. Sometimes I do get tempted to because girls at work and at the gym sometimes are very flirty with me. But I always remind myself that my principles should take precedence over my feelings.
It is also not true that girls have to sleep around to advance their careers. Many female artists and female leaders in various sectots have proved that you don't have to sleep with anyone to get to the top. But, they do show us that persevations during hardships pays off and builds one's character. Lemme see what others are saying above.

makisto
21 Oct 2010 11:29

persevering, I meant to write

carino
21 Oct 2010 11:31

But I always remind myself that my principles should take precedence over my feelings.

I love this statement so much it is going on my fridge door.

CNAZO A.K.A NAUGHTYGAL
21 Oct 2010 12:07

oh YES there are all like Dj MO

men get bored easily whether a guy is married or not thats what i know they are all the same....
would it mean that girls who sleep with “unavailable men,?there are men who are callde MBA (married but available) most girls who sleep with unavailable men do it for financial security

Judging by the two girls that slept with Dj Mo (because he’s famous), their motive was to launch their careers...lot of girls do that,like one of my friends is unemployeed becoz she refused to sleep with her manager

bezu
21 Oct 2010 12:19

@MAKISTO - I love you men or should I say I love your thinking!!! I also beleive that not all men are cheats- there are some good men out there but very few...!I wish that those who are cheating could just wake up and smell the cofee, realise that there is no time for "amasoka".bcoz at the end of the day an innocent soul gets infected.!!!!!!!!!!! but on the other hand I think girls are now worse than men when it come to cheating...maye sebakhathele ukuhlukunyezwa!!!!!!!

carino
21 Oct 2010 12:20

I think this blog has serious potential.

makisto
21 Oct 2010 12:32

I love this statement so much it is going on my fridge door.
Lol @Carino.
like one of my friends is unemployeed becoz she refused to sleep with her manager
Your friend must contact the department of labour like as in yesterday. Black people must start fighting for what they believe is right.
bcoz at the end of the day an innocent soul gets infected
Bezu, this houldn't be about HIV, it should be about one's moral principles and doing what we know is right.

myname
21 Oct 2010 12:33

I must watch this drama. I hate being left out.

makisto
21 Oct 2010 12:38

I must watch this drama. I hate being left out.
Me too but I read FK's review and it tells you exactly what happened.

lejazz
21 Oct 2010 12:53

Eish but it's true we men get bored too easily.Out of 10 men only 1 has never cheated to his partner.
MEN ARE SERIAL CHEATERS!!!!
The beast inside Mo which needs to be fed is in every man in the world.I know of this other homeboy of mine who used to change girls like socks...and the funny thing is that those girls knew about his promiscuity but they still flocked to him.ONE GIRL ONCE TOLD ME THAT IF YOU DON'T HAVE NUMEROUS CHICKS,GIRLS WON'T LOVE YOU BECAUSE GIRLS JUST LOVE SHARING A MAN
Just having the same thing now and again is something that most men do not want....and protection is something most men and women do not consider.I realised that GIRLS are more afraid of falling pregnant than contracting chronic diseases such as HIV.

pele
21 Oct 2010 14:28

then i must call myself a 'wimp' of aman, maybe being raised up with a lots of women made me soft, cheating is way out of my mind. i struggle having time with one woman i have, what will i do with a flock of girls. God i pray that i will never have this beast ka-Mo, even if it happens i have it pls make me be able to control it. Amen.

maud
21 Oct 2010 14:39

i cant support thestatement that says all maen cheats, i dont agree and i dont diagree, its something that i dont like entertaining.but most man that i know they are cheaters.i just believe that two can play the game, if you cant stop him Join him lol.

MAGNET2DISASTER
21 Oct 2010 14:39

that girl lied to you lejazz no one likes sharing their men,i would say most of us would date a womaniser because we are hoping to tame and win him over!you know we want to feel important and make people go"wow!what is it that she has that made him love and choose her from that flock he had?she must be something special"we might be denial but thats pretty much the case,about the pregnancy thing you are right coz i know 6 girls in our hood who had abortions whereas its not even legal in our country

realist
21 Oct 2010 14:46

I for one know that I don't cheat and I believe in being faithful.
cheating is way out of my mind
1. Are you guys married?
2. Have you proposed to your girlfriends?

makisto
21 Oct 2010 15:11

2. Have you proposed to your girlfriends?
Realist, I am not married yet, I planning to propose.

sesikavincent
21 Oct 2010 15:18

i love you pele

bezu
21 Oct 2010 15:19

@pele and Makisto- you guys seem like good good guys, I hope your partners realise how lucky they are to have you...!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

realist
21 Oct 2010 15:20

Realist, I am not married yet, I planning to propose.
In essence o ya jola therefore there will be no consequence even if you had two or more girlfriends, trust me on that.

bezu
21 Oct 2010 15:33

@realist haibo you heard the men"I am not married yet, I planning to propose" and another thing once the trusted is broken it's very hard to regain it...so makisto just stay as you are -stick to ur one grlfrend that is the way to go....!

tracy
21 Oct 2010 15:38

Not all men are like DJ Mo but most are and women are getting there too

realist
21 Oct 2010 15:38

@realist haibo you heard the men"I am not married yet, I planning to propose"
What is your problem!! O Makisto o ya jola nje so there is no consequence even if he has another girlfriend. You don’t believe me go and ask those who have been there before they will tell you.

He is still planning to propose remember!!

carino
21 Oct 2010 15:40

Why do I suddenly feel the urge to write an article that says all girls are like that lawyer chick???

bezu
21 Oct 2010 15:44

@realist "ask those who have been there before they will tell you. " who've been where?

PruLuv
21 Oct 2010 15:44

Yeah, it's a tough topic, but I would believe that not all men cheat. (I think) lol Okay, on the real to be faithful today is a problem. I remember reading some article a couple of years back that mentioned that men were born free, so why all of a sudden should they be "caged-in." My beef with that statement is that women like men were also born free. So what's the excuse?

XolaniinNewYork
21 Oct 2010 15:45

limunandi igqamuza ngesikuni bafwethu,,,,umona phansi,,,this is one great innovation from the MAN above......ilesifo nje esibekwe ekudleni kwethu esithanda ukuphazamisa.......cha sona sikwenza ingane uma sesikutholile,,,,hence I always use protection ,,,,I have survived ngaphunyuka by the grace of God many times,,,,but i must say ukuthi akumnandi ukuyo testa knowing that 80% chances uzoba + ,,,,I will never go thru that trauma again,,,never!!!!! kungcono ngimane ngishaye indlwaphu...

bezu
21 Oct 2010 15:47

@xolani haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa indlwabu at lease that way you know u r safe.....!!!!

makisto
21 Oct 2010 15:51

I hope your partners realise how lucky they are to have you...!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Bezu, I am the one who is lucky to have my girlfriend.She is everything I could have ever wanted in someone I should commit to.
In essence o ya jola therefore there will be no consequence even if you had two or more girlfriends, trust me on that.
I believe there would be consequences because I would have broken my principles and everything I stand for. I am way past the jola stage as I have already paid some money in her family, they know me and my family and vice versa.
He is still planning to propose remember!!
Lol, I have got everything figured out and have already gotten hotel and airport quotations in Durban. I am going to propose on the beach.

makisto
21 Oct 2010 15:54

Can someone please translate Xolani's text for me so I can also share in the laughter?

MAGNET2DISASTER
21 Oct 2010 16:24

please translate xoli,i`ll see that tomorrow.bye!

SanN
21 Oct 2010 16:38

@titidi "All i can say about Dj Mo, his part potray the most of Zulu man, he is sturborn,selfish, cheating" Oh so Tiger Woods, Bill Clinton, Mick Jagger etc. ARE ALL ZULU..SMH. This is an issue that occurs mostly with men..and NOT ALL MEN.

mathata
21 Oct 2010 16:55

if you cant beat them .....join them,each n every person has a right to do what ever he/she want.

if a person cheat why cant you use him.......in many ways,life has more to offer than hunting for problems.....worse thing can be a stress....im sorry not for me.

i have a child n a dog to take care off.....more than that im sorry

machinjiri
21 Oct 2010 16:59

nice topic indeed, i feel sorry for mandisa guys. I askd this other guy what men want frm slpng with diff gals, he told me that they just wnt to slp witth diff women and see how this gal is diff frm the other 1 and he openly said that most men cheat. That man has a wife with curves and all u wld wonder what he wants frm all those gals. I guess we wl neva undastand And i must agree with whoever said gals r also getting there with the cheating thng. Mara we r supposed 2 remember AN HIV FREE GENERATION.... IT BEGINS WITH U. Not carino, maud but all of us

PruLuv
21 Oct 2010 19:13

I guess Intersexion is achieving it's purpose. To get us talking & questioning how we live our lives. Even those who are not infected, they are somehow affected.

machinjiri
21 Oct 2010 19:38

@ pruluv if the 1 who is not affected is affected imagine hw the 1ns that r affected r flng. Lawd hav mercy on ur children

machinjiri
21 Oct 2010 19:42

meant if the 1 who isnt infected is affected sorry guys

realist
22 Oct 2010 06:27

I believe there would be consequences because I would have broken my principles and everything I stand for.
That is not consequence but ja I get your point.

I am way past the jola stage as I have already paid some money in her family, they know me and my family and vice versa.
Ya go mo roba letheka goba ya go kgopela sego sa meetsi? Anyway I get you and don’t answer the question!!

One and Only
22 Oct 2010 09:07

I am way past the jola stage as I have already paid some money in her family, they know me and my family and vice versa.

Makisto my father's son how is it possible that you have paid some lobola without proposing? According to my knowledge this woman is now your fiancee.

All i can say about Dj Mo, his part potray the most of Zulu man, he is sturborn,selfish, cheating.

I would like to agree with you Titidi, so I take Tiger Woods, Andre Nel, Vuyo Mbuli, Hlomla Dandala etc are Zulus?

realist
22 Oct 2010 09:10

Makisto my father's son how is it possible that you have paid some lobola without proposing?
According to my knowledge this woman is now your fiancee.
That is what I thought unless it is for something else.

makisto
22 Oct 2010 11:54

According to my knowledge this woman is now your fiancee.
That is what I thought unless it is for something else.
@Realist and One&Only?, since I believe in honesty, I'm not gonna lie. In my culture, we don't call it damages because the word has a negative connotation. It is for introducing me and my life and let her family know I am the father of their grandchild they see in their house everyday. It isn't part of lobola.

By having done that, I can go there anytime to see my daughter and they wouldn't be surprised about "this guy" coming to their house every now and again. The lobola will indeed start after I have proposed as you correctly put it.

andi01
22 Oct 2010 13:51

One thing weshould all know, in a polygamy marriage. not all children are legitimate. What I mean is, if a man has 10 wives. Do you think that wive number 10 is sleeping alone while waiting for her turn. Maybe when the turn comes, the mshini is sooo tired that the husband just sleeps and does nothing, never. I say while the husband is with number 1 number 10, is getting sum from outside.

carino
22 Oct 2010 13:55

oh my goodness... heeeeeeeeeelloooooooooo andi.... *jumpin up and down*

andi01
22 Oct 2010 13:59

Hello Cariri, Im back by popular demands girl, LOL

carino
22 Oct 2010 14:03

hahahahaha... You were terribly missed ke tana...

See now I feel like throwing a few Mzwakhe lines.

makisto
22 Oct 2010 14:05

Lol @Carino jumping up and down. I don't know who Andi01 is but welcome back!

Lex
23 Oct 2010 10:57

Andi,its been a while. Hope ur nana is good.

ownah m p
10 Nov 2010 12:02

leina le ile maraelelong!!!!!! he realy loved kuku neh damn.....
hey man just cnt be stsfd by one woman.....