Bio
Paul Phiri is a Zambian-born South African sales and marketing professional and part-time DJ best known for starring in the M-Net Series original reality show Rivals in Romance, in 2011.
Paul, who works in the sales and marketing industry, describes himself as an outgoing, fun, and crazy but brutally honest career-driven family man.
He is attracted to women who are go-getters and have something going for them. His ideal woman must have her own identity, someone who is unique and stands out from the rest.
Paul admits to having his bad boy moments. When he's not working, he is either DJ'ing or playing basketball.
He lives in Northriding, Johannesburg.
Rivals in Romance Q&A
What do you look for in a girl?
I like women who have their individual personality, she has to be unique and a bit of stylishness won't hurt.
What is the perfect date for you?
When she comes over I cook - candlelight dinner, no TV, no interruptions, just me her.
How would you describe your style when it comes to women?
She needs to have an average type of body, she doesn't need to put on make-up but she should be able to look stylish natural.
What is the worst pick-up line you've heard?
Was your father a thief? 'Cause someone stole the stars from the sky and put them in your eyes.
What's your biggest turn-off?
Manipulation. Like when a girl lies about being pregnant in the hope that you won't leave her. Or when she does stuff to keep you but they only destroy you.
Who is your dream girl and why?
Claire Mawisa. Damn, she is too hot! She is very independent she has made a mark in her industry.
What's on high rotation on your iPod at the moment?
Top 3 right now is TI, Nicki Minaj and Dr Dre.
Have you ever been in love?
Yes, I have. We dated for two years and it was good.
What's the longest you've been in a relationship and why did it end?
Two years and she broke up with me so I don't know...we were pretty young. At one stage we just went our different ways.
Why did you enter the show?
Well, I always meet girls at the club and some social circles. I wanted to be different and meet a girl from a different platform.