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Written by pushy85 from the blog Pushy's forum on 20 Nov 2007
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I had a huge crush on this guy who was in my class in 2004 we were both first years, back then i knew absolutely nothing about boys and i was shy but i knew i felt something for him.My friends were busy telling me to go to him and tell him i had feelings for him and i was like NO WAYS,what if he doesn't like me?Turned out he also felt something for me but he was afraid of me.I told myself i wont go to him and tell him,if he wants me he'll come and get me.Well he never came and i never went to him,it's been three years now and we're still in the same class but the feelings on my side have gone down the drain... don't know about him though.
The guy is everything i'd been dreaming about he's smart,funny,handsome and he treats girls like queens.If i had made the first move,i know we'd still be together right now but pride and the fear of being rejected got the better of me.My friends were telling me the guy was also feeling me,they told me they could see it from the way he looked at me during breaks.Now I am thinking if he felt that way why didn't he tell me?Was he also afraid i'd reject him or something?If i had made the first move maybe we'd be engaged right now coz he's engaged to some girl he met last year.Now this brings me to my questions,,,ARE GUYS ALSO AFRAID OF REJECTION?WOULD YOU EVER TELL SOMEONE YOU HAD THE CRUSH ON THEM?

48 Comments

Dimago
21 Nov 2007 00:41

can you mske the font bigger? its difficult to read this...

belz
21 Nov 2007 00:44

Hello pushy, can you try and enlarging the font, i really want to read but my eyes are rejects already.

Annonymous
21 Nov 2007 00:57

Pushy, I've always been lucky in that all the guys that I had crushes on wanted me as badly too. So rejection has never been a factor for me. I guess it's all about having "ugazi" as Monchooza would say!!!!

zozozo
21 Nov 2007 01:22

I guess it's all about having "ugazi" as Monchooza would say!!!!............@ Nonny - what does this word mean?

Toodecent
21 Nov 2007 01:28

Kante wena you always have problems wioth guys or a guy story to tell...? I suggest ou look at the mirror to solve your problems...!

Toxic
21 Nov 2007 01:42

he he he TDC---sho!!!

Porche
21 Nov 2007 01:53

Hi mabloggers, it's Whacky Wednesday let us all enjoy it,welcome back TDC and I miss madenza can someone do something about bringing him back. Pushy babes am still thinking about these it just everyday we are almost tackling ezothando.

myname
21 Nov 2007 02:14

Gil Try 2 b his freind 1st and by doing that u wil c his true colours & wena u wil b doing ur assignment. what u like & dislike from him

faraimagic
21 Nov 2007 02:25

lol TDC's response now back to the article well for me i wudn't wana date someone who had a crush on me!...it just wont work out

Bra Bizza
21 Nov 2007 02:25

LOL @ myname........u wil b doing ur assignment. what u like & dislike from him......

Baby-A
21 Nov 2007 02:29

I couldn't read the article, I saw the first five words and i was like hayi kengoku... There's nothing wrong with making us ooSis'Dolly, but twice in one week? hayi, sisi... you need a shrink.
Even though i didnt read the rest of the article, the first five words of this article made me come to these conclusions:

1. I - eish its about her again wanting advice,
2. Had - this is past tense - **yawn** can we move on to something else now? NEXT!!
3. Huge - This word is always used when someone wants to emphasize some form of exageration(sp),so, NEXT!!
4. Crush - Oh, please, so what? we all hav crushes at some points in our lives, yo'll have another one tomorrow... so, still, NEXT!!!!!

Bra Bizza
21 Nov 2007 02:33

he he he uthini na Baby-A???

pullie
21 Nov 2007 02:42

mahlo a k a bohloko, the FONT puhleee...!!!!

Gucci
21 Nov 2007 02:44

Kante wena you always have problems wioth guys or a guy story to tell...? I suggest ou look at the mirror to solve your problems...!
Tjo Tjo Tjo.....Lawd have Mercy!!!

spice
21 Nov 2007 02:46

Bathong maar Pushy must everything be about your luuv life
Crush yes I have a crush on my man's friend this is the 3rd month, I stalk him per sms I'm annonymous to him, first he was replying now he says he does not trust me ,I'm coming on too strong he says , he is not used to women making the first move he says, gaaad I'm depressed ! neway it is life it sucks but I dont think this is sumthing I can loose sleep ova nay !

sponono
21 Nov 2007 02:53

pushy85...you sound like a very young girl who's just arrived and exploring the whole boy/girl dating scene.. coz you always have an issue about amadoda either uyawafuna or ayakudina or ayakufraza or ayajola..blah blah blah

mabhebheza
21 Nov 2007 02:53

ndicela amazaza that have double lenses i cant read but i saw something about crusg and guys nawe in the mess..ok sana try and focus kuwe for once sweet angel
do u have any idea how wonderful it is to be single!!!!!

Preshiii
21 Nov 2007 02:54

Baby-A le TDC Bathong!

faraimagic
21 Nov 2007 02:55

a crush is only nice before you speak to the person but once you get to know the person and realise he/she is an a$$!it will be all gone....

mabhebheza
21 Nov 2007 02:58

Hellloww *waving around* Sponono i missed u ..........!!!!!!!!!!
Spice....hoyi hoyi skeem sam hola ka daso

Pushy85 are u still in ur teens?

Best-Achiever
21 Nov 2007 02:59

you spend so much time thing about guys and that's why you'll find yourself i this mess, can you do yourself a favour please!, focus on You. You can still enjoy life WITHOUT a man around.

Toodecent
21 Nov 2007 02:59

Mahebheza...follow my steps and only read the first sentence hi hi hi.

Best-Achiever
21 Nov 2007 03:00

meant thinking ....

Foxy gal
21 Nov 2007 03:02

Yhoo yho yho buzum Baby A hhayi nokho, ngiyakvuma!!!!!!!! LOL

spice
21 Nov 2007 03:02

Hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii hubby my sweet sweet Sponono ohhhhhhhhh Gaaaaaaaaaaaaad youre here thanks very much for gracing us with your presence you were highly missed and we were sort of getting outta control(loneliness kinda does that to a person) hi hi hi hi Neway howz you my darling ? are the exams ova ? are you here to stay Eish too many q's maybe its' betta If we talk a troll to your guesthuose and make up for lost time hi hi hi
A lot of kids here on tvsa nowadayz

Toxic
21 Nov 2007 03:07

guys leave the nastiness at home. If you don't have the advice she seeks, then just say that, no need to be nasty about it.

Pushy85, take what you can from the comments you received and those that are spiteful, take with a pinch of salt or DELETE them.....power's in yr hands:)

spice
21 Nov 2007 03:07

Ma-babes whatzuuuuuuuuuuuuup ? missed ya last week ngi ku kwatele why didnt you holler me maar at my guest book it's only a page away u know !

Guys leave pushy alone yall have crushes so stop being nasty she is just a child( a child with iinkinga ze madoda always ) for heaven sake

spice
21 Nov 2007 03:10

K I sound like a parrot pls delete my reply Toxic hi hi hi

Toxic
21 Nov 2007 03:10

oh forgot to mention the font....use only extra small for emphasis..makes for terrible reading on its own:)

Baby-A
21 Nov 2007 03:14

***********yawwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwnnnnnnnnnnn************

Are we still here????????//

Honeypot
21 Nov 2007 03:31

Well pushy dear as Annoymous puts it, it's all about ugazi. Most of the time when you have a crush on someone they usually have a crush on you, It's usually like that in my case. So next time you have acrush on some1 ungafeli phakathi let them no. The worst they could say is NO and I am not sure you will get that reply if you are a pretty gal.

Toxic
21 Nov 2007 03:36

Now this brings me to my questions,,,ARE GUYS ALSO AFRAID OF REJECTION?WOULD YOU EVER TELL SOMEONE YOU HAD THE CRUSH ON THEM?

Basically, this is Pushy's question! Where are the guys to answer this???

faraimagic
21 Nov 2007 04:03

ok im answering for me here i am so scared to death for rejection!i cant stand it wow its like that feeling that you get wen you are waitng for H.I.V results.....and you will be asking yoself...wats wrong with me?a thousand times...its something i rather not go thru!..and i wud neva tell someone that i have a crush on them....rather tell her frends......

zulugal
21 Nov 2007 04:27

@ Toxik guys leave the nastiness at home. If you don't have the advice she seeks, then just say that, no need to be nasty about it.

u qinisile toxi......

Lex
21 Nov 2007 04:34

Eish ya Pushy ne,forget about that guy,akere u said he is now engaged.Rather focus on the other one with the girlfriend.

tshepiso
21 Nov 2007 04:38

Kante wena you always have problems wioth guys or a guy story to tell...? I suggest ou look at the mirror to solve your problems...! hihi hi hi hi hi

go out and get a life!

zozozo
21 Nov 2007 04:49

guys leave the nastiness at home. If you don't have the advice she seeks, then just say that, no need to be nasty about it.

I think Toxy u should have put this sentence in BOLD and U/C, what's up really ppl wif the nastiness, u turn a simple blog into a mess why do u want all the attention 2u.

@ Tshepiso-go out and get a life! ............All u should have done is 2 give her the advice to get the life u say she should get, Coz from the fact that she is writing about it means that is trying to get her life.So if u don't have an advice just get the hell outta the blog and reply to those that requiers ur attitude.

zozozo
21 Nov 2007 04:52

SP - requires

KeleFabulous
21 Nov 2007 05:06

pushy i have just read ur very tiny fonted article. i'm off now to my optemetrist and will send u a bill. i'll comment on this once my bill has been settled ok?

tshepiso
21 Nov 2007 05:07

@ zozozo I am not trying to be rude but first she said she was talking about "that other women" Now about this. can't she forget about that trash and step forward?

KeleFabulous
21 Nov 2007 05:11

he banna! i only now just read all y'alls replies...kanti why lele babe so? ur ugly man! poor pushy's reaching out hawu! and wena pushy, refer to my last reply

Annonymous
21 Nov 2007 05:13

Yarrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr, abanye abantu.................., don't worry Pushy dear, I'm sure that in between all the nasty comments as well as the rudeness there will be some good advice for u to take home at the end of the day!!!!!!!!!!

Baby-A
21 Nov 2007 05:17

@Annon

Hope so too... For Pushy's sake, that is...

We dont want to have another "situation", do we??

Spy
21 Nov 2007 05:27

Eish Pushy! The tiny font makes things difficult - moving right along...Dont think you should get your knickers in a knot over something that was NOT! You cant dwell in the past. And EVERYONE is afraid of rejection - men are just used to it than women - coz kade baqala ukushela and get rejected a couple of times. So technically they have more experience and they take the trophy for that one. Listen to Tshepiso!

Lex
21 Nov 2007 05:29

Sure guys please,there really is no need for nastiness or rudeness.If u have some advice to give,please do so,but if you have nothing to say to her,just shut the fcuk up,asseblief tog,the poor soul has a dilemma and ur rudeness is not helping.

Dimago
21 Nov 2007 05:33

make love, not war guys!

Spy
21 Nov 2007 05:38

LOL @ Dimago!

GQ
21 Nov 2007 05:54

Pushy my dear if he wanted you as much as you want/wanted him he would have definitely made a point of getting you. Men are not that complicated and neither is your dilemma. It’s just a matter of choice, he probably had something else that was occupying his time and he probably had better. This though does not mean you are not good enough it just means you weren’t the one for him. So don’t beat yourself up over what could have been coz if it was meant to happen it would have happened. Since you believe you were destined to be with him that doesn’t mean he felt the same or still feels that way-hence his engagement to someone else. If it was you he wanted off the market he would have proposed to you not her-rejection or no rejection.

So move right along and put this situation down as a lesson learnt. Men are human too and just as you fear rejection they also do. But if you want something badly enough you go after it and I’ve never met a man that didn’t. If it means he pulls all the stops to be with you-that’s exactly what he’ll do.

Hope this helps-good luck on your journey of love, life and everything else. Feel free to drop by my GB for more counselling sessions if you want but there will come a time when I start charging. At the rate you’re going I can smell the loot already.LOL

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