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My Africa, Our Africa

Written by Segololo from the blog Oh Moments on 14 May 2008
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Every African country is in some kind of turmoil, the Africans wherever they are suffer, in turn, wherever they go. I am a foreigner and I am a xenophile (a person who has friends and enjoys company of people of foreign nationallities). I am from Lesotho and I have friends and family who are foreigners in South Africa. I hope to be a welcomed foreigner when I visit other countries such as Mozambique, Namibia, Democratic Republic of Congo (DRC), Chile, China, Zimbabwe, Tanzania, Botswana, Zambia and Zanzibar. 

We all know other foreigners who have also started a life here, example DJ Fresh is from Botswana and he is happily married to Thabiso. He is a great guy minding his own business, employing and enriching South African lives. We also know of the less successful ones who had no choice but to leave their homes and start afresh.

I am tormented by what has been happening in the past couple of months in a country I have grown to love and regard as home. First, it was in Pretoria – foreigners were bludgeoned, harassed and alienated from that community. Then came Diepsloot, more attacks, more deaths and more victims… AND now, sadly Alexandra has it’s own woes and people are being tragically displaced. Didn't anyone see that the storm is brewing and will soon explode?

Where are we going wrong? What has the MEC or the Primiere of Gauteng done about these incidents? I see another “quite diplomacy” arousing on our own frontyard with no intervention from government. Oh puhleesse! I don’t expect Sam Shilowa in the township stopping the people but it would be nice to see him attending to the issue.

South Africa has the hopes and dreams of hosting the 2010 soccer world cup with a magnitude of foreigners bringing money to support it. If I was a foreigner planning to come support this dream, I would change my mind and buy tickets to Hawaii instead. Why would I support a nation filled with such hate? Why are the xenophobic attacks happening in the economic hub of South Africa with no clear government intervention? What guarantee will I have that when I set foot in the country I will not be hauled, mauled, beaten and humiliated for being foreign?

What is needed to assist the people that have such hate to be tolerant? My dear husband, King K, attempted to counsel and comfort me yesterday by saying “People only do what they know best. If they get educated, they will change” and I highly doubt this notion. Is the only thing we know hate?

Why are the attacks only happening on black foreigners? Are there no working white foreigners in this country? If the work the harassed foreigners are supposedly taking is what is fuelling the attacks then why is the trauma being dished only on the black foreigners. How rainbow is this nation if the xenophobic hatred is classified by race? Will the white foreigners be welcomed in 2010 with smiles and glee – dancing traditional clothed men, women and children - dancing to drums whilst our African people are being murdered? 

When South Africa was in turmoil, foreigners in their own countries opened doors to many exiles providing them with shelter, education, food and everything they needed to live. Some even married the women in those countries; if my history and memory serve me well our own president’s brother Moeketsi Mbeki is married to a woman from Ghana. (But I stand to be corrected) My point is they were made to feel at home and were not mistreated because people understood their circumstances.

I doubt education or knowledge is the problem since I am seeing and hearing educated people saying the most horrendous things ever. I am ashamed of anyone who supports this, those who don’t support it but quietly pretend it is not their problem. I am ashamed of MY country, South Africa, right now. I am a sad foreign South African with children that I hoped would grow in a country I love and was proud of. Now, I wonder if my children have a future in Africa. Will they be welcomed in other countries or ill-treated due to the ish happening here?




48 Comments

Dimago
14 May 2008 08:42

Yeah, i hear you Sego and i am as infuriated as you are by these attacks. People from Bots and Lesotho are also 'foreigners' (and i bet some of them live amongst the attackers in Alex) but because they speak a language familiar to us and are not as dark-skinned as our other bro's and sis', they are treated with dignity and enjoy a lot of rights.

There are 2 problems here:
1. Narrow mindedness from the attackers - probably one person said the foreigners are taking our jobs, and indeed because most of them are unemployed, they jumped onto that band wagon
2. Lack of service delivery from the government - Alex is cramped, seriously so, and government is not helping matters by not improving the quality of life of the people of Alex. 

That being said, what they are doing is inhumane and they should be punished for it.

Brown Shuga
14 May 2008 12:12

Sego, you know how I feel about this topic. If I could find that other article about xenophobia, I would copy and past the same comments I made here.

sponono
14 May 2008 12:28

i feel your frustration Sego...its just a rather difficult subject to tackle...just like racism...mmhhh...eish I'll comment tommorow..right now i need to celebrate somethin 

nite'oh

sweetie my baby
14 May 2008 13:26

it's crazy - heartbreaking, and i totally feel you. i can hardly believe it's come to this - talk about an apartheid success story, this is the divide and conquer strategy in full effect! makes me want to scream.....

Firstdvd
14 May 2008 13:48

SEGOLOLO...I feel you my brother. I'm not supporting this but think about your house e.g(south africa) & your next door(foreign countries). Allow me to use this word 'poor(FC) & rich(SA)'. Legally your next door(FC) asked to move into your house(SA) bcos they straggle with life there and you agreed. After a while FC asks if he can invite his closed relatives over and also agreed on that bcos of sweet and soft heart. Other next doors are watching...I'll stop it there. But think about this, i'm a human & i get crossed sometimes. My house is getting..? Each time they(FC) moving in illegally this time. I'm living in DURBAN, and you should have seen Mahatma Gandhi known as Point Road? Damn 80% of our African(FC) sisters & brother are there. They own 60% of shops there, driving fancy cars, wearing bling blings n stuff. Hey brother SEGOLOLO, don't get me wrong here, i'm not suppoting (violence) what's happenin @ Alex. Hope your family is safe brother. I'm running out of time. There's more to say but i've got a visitor now...Cheers!

WhiteSockGirl
14 May 2008 13:50

@Sego:  You are referring to your country, SA, but I have the exact same feelings about my fellow Namibians who are reacting in the exact same manner to the Zimbabweans and Angolans in our country.  My feelings as people from SADC we should be supporting our fellow Africans because tomorrow we might find ourselves in similar positions..

Brown Shuga
14 May 2008 14:02

Firstdvd, you keep repeating "brother Segololo" as if you know Sego is a woman. Well, she is. 

<<<They own 60% of shops there, driving fancy cars, wearing bling blings n stuff>> This therefore means that they aren't stealing "our" jobs like others claim neh? And if they happen to have the money, what's wrong with them buying fancy cars & bling bling? 

<<<My feelings as people from SADC we should be supporting our fellow Africans because tomorrow we might find ourselves in similar positions..>>> Well, at one point we were in that position and they took us in. Today they need us and we give them Alex.

HARAMBE24
14 May 2008 14:16


Lets put this into conext... most of us are blogging here from our work, i am doing it on my bed... this makes me and you the middle class...none of us knows the frustrations Alex residence are going through. I do not support thier actions though, that is pure evil.

I so did not wnat to comment but this is a serious issue and its making me sick how we treat another black african in need.....South Africans are violent and full of hate....I think the people of Alex are frustrated with the government, service delivery is slow and they are unemployed..there is a lot of anger inside these people and being a violant society they choose to express thier anger hurting foreighners...

Education is not a solution becoz in this beautiful land of mine, education is a priviladge to the few. Just my sad thoughts

Firstdvd
14 May 2008 14:19

I'm rili sorry Sista SOGOLOLO...& that goes to you to BS, & thanx...About that 60% of ownership. Driving daily to work, i can assure you that half of it is illegal. Come to DBN and ask where you can find drugs...They'll take you to Point Road.

Brown Shuga
14 May 2008 14:36

Firstdvd...manu yeke mfethu...lol. Now it's Sogololo hihihihihi

Cande
14 May 2008 14:41

What really bother me the most is the countries where these people come from, welcomed our people with open arms in their countries during the days of struggle...
I think these Alex residents also blame the high crime rate on the foreigners...I don't know what lead to these acts BUT i hope it gets resolved soon...

Firstdvd
14 May 2008 14:44

lol...Silly Me!!! :-)

Cande
14 May 2008 14:49

I like this baby on the R.H.S Segololo...LOL

Lady D
14 May 2008 16:28

In my township ther are lots and lots of chinese and Somalians,they own every tavern and shop in the township.These shops and taverns were not functional before these people occupied.Lots of SA 's never bothered to think of opening these shops.We have vendors in our cbd's,and most ofwhich are also foreigners,reason:we are too proud to can be street vendors.So now people please make me understand this:which jobs are these people taking from us,aren't this people contributing towards upliftment of our economy??

On the other side,we do have Nigerians who a known to be good at selling drugs to our kids,Zimbabweans who are constaly caught breaking in and  for burglary,but should we eally generalise.So we really be so inhuman to our own brothers and sisters,why don't we traet white foreigners this badly.Instead,we are so happy to welcome them and show them our beautifull country.We have lots of Germans and Portugees owning businesses in SA,but we never complain about them,whereas they are the ones reaping us off,they come here then start restaurants and factories and pay our brothers and sisters peanuts whilst on the other hand they make them work upnormal hours.

So eintlik what are we on about.I am really ashamed and disgusted by our behaviour as South Africans,we have become the laughing stock of other countries.We excell ka crime,we are known to be the country that rapes its own children,have sex with animals and our fellow brother like eish!!!Africa irrispective of poverty nad HIV is known of be warm and loving which is less i can say about SA,the country that claims to be alive with possibilities.I AM DISGUTSED!!!!!!

Brown Shuga
14 May 2008 16:41

<<<<What has the MEC or the Primiere of Gauteng done about these incidents? 
I see another “quite diplomacy” arousing on our own frontyard with no intervention from government. Oh puhleesse! I don’t expect Sam Shilowa in the township stopping the people but it would be nice to see him attending to the issue.>>>
 

I would really like to understand why the govt is being blamed for this one as well ....are we blaming them for the fact that there are foreigners in SA (keeping in mind, not all of them are here illegally) or are we blaming them for the Alex crisis?

....... since the beginning of 2008, we've heard a lot of talk from govt about how horrible xenophobia is but bottom line is that talking does not stop criminals from being criminals so maybe we must tell govt what it is we expect from them in dealing with this issue. 
Sam Shilowa & Mbeki can talk to us till they're blue in the face (gosh, imagine a blue-faced Shilowa)  but if inhliziyo zethu zingcolile, then zingcolile ke & government can't change that. 

For me UBUNTU is the point here....and black South Africans, the same ones who are quick to smell racism, are guilty of these crimes.
And I wish someone would answer your questions Sego. You asked....

<<< "Why are the attacks only happening on black foreigners? Are there no working white foreigners in this country? If the work the harassed foreigners are supposedly taking is what is fuelling the attacks then why is the trauma being dished only on the black foreigners. How rainbow is this nation if the xenophobic hatred is classified by race? Will the white foreigners be welcomed in 2010 with smiles and glee – dancing traditional clothed men, women and children - dancing to drums whilst our African people are being murdered?" >>>

I also want to know!!

In THIS article, Deputy Minister of Home Affairs speaks a lot about what NEEDS to be done but he doesn't say WHEN his department will do those things because honestly they are the ones who need to "manage migration", "educate communities" and "address the issues"...like he says.
 


Shadow
14 May 2008 16:52

I also need some clarification on how the foreigners are taking away the jobs of the locals. Unfortunately, i'm not so familiar with what actually led to the whole fiasco in Alex,. On a general note regarding employment in most institutions, South African residents applications receive first priority (or are supposed to be treated as such)...offcause, depending on whether they meet all specified requirements. I feel for those people that think that their 'space' is being invaded by foreigners and that evil doings are necessiated by them, however, is taking matters in your own hands (via violence) truly an answer to sorting the problem??

On a lighter note...Sego,  Who'z this sexy boi wearing a white top?

Firstdvd
14 May 2008 21:01

Wow...It's getting hotter in-here! On a serious note: There's only one solution here. Your 100% correct SEGOLOLO, this is really a Government matter, he has to interven soon b4 its too late. Mr Sam Shilowa needs to take home affairs guys with their lap-tops, go to Alex...Punch in each every single bro/sisters ID#s. Take care of our legal foreigners by taking them to the safest place and illegal ones put them in a plane back to their home. They welcome to visit us legally anytime! Brothers & Sisters, some of you are here and your country is struggling needs your (VOTES) supports. Running away won't help but it will bring more probs...Peaccccccceee Mzansi!!!

realist
14 May 2008 22:58

"Why are the attacks only happening on black foreigners? Are there no working white foreigners in this country?

The perception from those seeking employment and mostly are unskilled blacks is that most white foreigners come here legally. Most black foreigners come here illegally. The thinking also from black South African is that white foreigners create jobs and as such they cannot be attacked.

BTW, check the construction industry and see how many unskilled black foreiners are there. Remember that President Mbheki said, there is nothing we can do about these foreigners, we have to live with it. Now they showing to him that there is something that can be done. Unfortunately they way they are going about doing it I do  not support, but I can understand their frustration.

UberB
14 May 2008 23:57

foreigners from zim shuld go back to their country en face the consequences of voting mugabe into power in 2003 
Firstly, the Zim election took place in 2002. Secondly, it was proven by independant media and electoral commissions and the SA government had fact and knowledge that the Zim election was heavily rigged by the Zanu-PF. How do Zims face the consequences when it was not their choice to vote for Mugabe? Their only way to survive was to either move out of their home and struggle to make a living in another country. It is ignorant people like you who know little about the situations in other African countries that add fuel to the blazing fire that is Xenophobia.
I am a Zimbabwean making a decent living in South AFrica as a journalist. I did not come here via the hole in the fence on the border of South Africa and Zim but have a valid passport and South African id. Half my family is South AFrican and I can tell you now that I would rather represent my Zimbabwean half then identify with the xenophobic South Africans hurting my homies. 

Strolicious
15 May 2008 00:08

foreigner are not empowering the economy they r bring it down because for 1 they take their salaries out side of sa untaxed en they are not taxed in sa but they are taxed in their own country. well said

Renegade
15 May 2008 00:10

Eish, if I commented i'd only be echoing what has been said. 
South Africans who are xenophobic are purely ignorant, and those in Joburg think foreigners are all like the Nigerians who are famous for scams. 
I really wish people would just me tolerant!

Simmone
15 May 2008 00:15

"Why are the attacks only happening on black foreigners? Are there no working white foreigners in this country? 

Purely because blacks have the mentality “White man is my boss and black man is my colleague”. And every black man is a threat to his livelihood.

andi01
15 May 2008 00:19

it was not their choice to vote for Mugabe?,  i find this statement confussing, why is it that some people vote for tsvangirai and some for mugabe if they dont have a choice????

andi01
15 May 2008 00:25

Lets be realistic people south africa is not big enough to accomodate the huge influx from other countries. Secondly we dont have enough resources to ensure everyone a better home for all. We are struggling as it is and if more people arrive that means we'll have to share the very little that we have. I am not against foreigners coming to stay in South Africa, but I am just worried about the number of people that do come in. I am 100% against what happened in Alex, and I know I m not xenophobic, but there is too much that any country can take. And besides when SA's were in exile, there were few of them mostly soldiers and comrades not every Jack and Jill.

Mambox
15 May 2008 00:38

You know guys this is a very complex subject. All i'm gonna say is yes the other countries took south africans in during apartheid BUT South Africans didn't go to those countries to cause corruption majority of them went there to STUDY (correct me if i'm wrong) in that sense i completely understand the reason y South Africans a fustrated but there is now way that i would condone what is happening in Alex... and i will ask this: 
Who are the biggest drug lords?
Why is Hillbrow and Point road the most corrupt areas and who dominates in those areas?

Seriously you can't go to another mans house, vandalise it and hope he'll just let it go NEVER!!

UberB
15 May 2008 00:47

i find this statement confussing, why is it that some people vote for tsvangirai and some for mugabe if they dont have a choice????
The majority voted for MDC back in 2002, Mugabe made a choice for the masses when he decided to steal the election hence leaving the people with no say in regards to who they want as president.

andi01
15 May 2008 00:53

people have to understand that that South africans are only looking out for themselves, which is understandable, but once again i am soo against what happened in Alex, no one deserves to be treated like that, foreigner or no foreigner.

spice
15 May 2008 00:58

I used to feel pity for foreigners whenever they come to my house selling or looking for work i would offer them something without even thinking twice ,and then last month me decided to give my RDP house a li'l make over ,bought moi  sum tiles, hired two zimbabwen guys to fit them ,i was very ,very nice to them ,offered them breakfast and lunch , I was so free with  them  that i happend to mention that im going out of town that evening, IM SURE YA'LL CAN GUESS WHAT  I CAME HOME TO FIND  ?????????? those MOT*** FU*** are nowhere to be found till this day ,so tell me bloggers what should poor sweet me do ??????? better yet how should i feel about foreigners now

belz
15 May 2008 01:11

from zim shuld go back to their country en face the consequences of voting mugabe into power in 2003 because they had cast their votes> im shocked, I dont know what to say!!!!!!!   Just as you are sitting here in SA not having answers to almost everything government does, how do you expect Zimbabweans to know or control what Mugabe does, during apartheid in SA, people went to other countries running away from what was going on here, no one in those cournties sent them back to FACE THE CONSEQUENCES!!!!!! how do you even know that all these people voted for Mugabe??? Where is humanity in all of this?????

realist
15 May 2008 01:18

@ andi01: Well said and well put. 

Remember this influx of foreigners is not something new, it was happening before 1994 elections. At that time no one was complaining because it was still relatively easy for a South African to get employment. Now with corruption at home affairs, it is easy for a foreigner to get an ID and as such it becomes tuff for SA citizens to compete with them for employment. Reason being they can afford to be paid low salaries. 

@ Mambox
As for Hillbrow and Point road you are 100% spot on. I am a SA citizen and boy oh boy I don't even think of trying to venture into those areas. 



belz
15 May 2008 01:27

why is it dat foreigners dnt go 2 other eastern african countries> They are everywhere, in Botswana, Namibia, Lesotho, Zambia, i know this for a fact! swazi - what exactly are these people robbing you of?

Toodecent
15 May 2008 01:38

QueenK you have no idea of how I feel about this sittuation.....I have just been told not to try use the Diepsloot to Fourways(R511 I think) road nor the Krugersdorp Highway as cars are being smashed and our african brothers and sisters being brutalised.....! So sad...........

belz
15 May 2008 01:56

There are a lot of people who fought for Zimbabwe (then Rhodesia) ,people died, a lot of them, for freedom! there are still alot of people who dying today in Zimbabwe for choosing to go the MDC route, people are tired of the things that are happening in Zimbabwe, it might not be visible to you, but some people are doing a lot!!! Nobody is asking you to take Zimbabweans into your homes and feed them, but please do not treat them as dogs( well not even dogs because some dogs are treated like human beings). If beating them up and killing them makes you sleep at night then well, i'v enothing more to say, but imini  iyeza nakubani (the day will come to anybody).  I think im going to stop here, i feel very strongly about this and i dont want emotions getting on the way.

Toodecent
15 May 2008 01:59

belz answer your damn cellphone........!

belz
15 May 2008 02:01

swazi: im very sorry about the mother who lost the child, but do you know for sure if these are foreigners from Zim.

I was robbed at gun point by Sotho speaking guys!!! for a mere cellphone.

andi01
15 May 2008 02:11

@Swazi, coudnt have said it better myself!!!!!

Mathaz
15 May 2008 02:20

What those people did and are still doing to foreigners is barbaric and inhumane.  I cannot find any reasons to justify their actions.  Chris Rock is right, blacks are the most racists for they hate their own kind.

Segololo
15 May 2008 02:25

After reading all these comments, I was tempted to be so honest that at the risk of offfending everyone that I walked to the bathroom and sobbed my heart out. I cried like i had just been told that one of my family members has passed on... I cried for the loss of humanity, I cried for the loss of "motho ke motho ka batho ba bang" (Ubuntu in Zulu), I cried for my own loss of hope... I cried so hard that I need to go home to just rest.

So, my decision was "be honest and let all the others decide if they are willing to learn or just be right in their own views"... 

Here goes, my honest response... 

To all those who feel and believe that foreigners are taking their jobs away and are overcrowding South africa depleting of resources, you are ignorant.

To all those who feel the foreign issues are not gonna impact on South Africa and it is THEIR consequences to deal with, you are ignorant.

To all those who feel that foreigners are causing crime, you are ignorant. 

People are people regardless of where they are from, we are all not alike and all have different reactions to life situations but we all want to live and feel we have the right to survive whatever hardship. 

I know a lot of South Africans, including family members, who have turned down jobs that I felt had great opportunities and development because they "did not pay well" according to their standards.. And the company eventually hired someone who appreciates having a job and finally you see the person developing beyond imagination because they took an opportunity. In America and Europe, Africans take advantage of opportunities that the locals deem as crap and below their standards and succeed. The lesson: Some people are willing to take any job or opportunity to survive. It is not your job since you turned it down and did not see it.

 I know a lot of South africans who left this country during the transition phase of this country due to violence and uncertainty. When people were getting killed in the townships during or before the 1994 elections (memory fails me) some people left the country and settled in other african countries. They were welcomed and since we never counted those people we really can't say how many left SA. They were not soldiers nor students looking for a place to study - they were refugees running to find a safe place. Some married there, had kids, took opportunities the locals deemed below them and were not persecuted. That is why you will find a Modise in Ghana, angola or Zambia!! The Lesson: When people are in need, they are to be assisted especially when it is not in their own choice to leave home.

I know South african brothers and sisters who do crime, they don't neccessarily do the deeds but they employ others to do the crime for them. We have South Africans all over the world in jails. Recently, 2 black South african brothers were caught in London for murdering someone and have been linked to all sorts of crimes there. So, please, those that choose to live on the wrong side of the law can be anyone. The lesson: Not everyone that moves to this country wants to rob, steal and murder we have enough of our own proudly South Africans doing that! 

I have asked all my foreign friends and relatives what is their biggest dream - and most say to be able to live at home; wherever home is. Due to things not being feasible and the opprotunities not very rife they do what they have to do here to live, even the Lesotho and Botswana foreigners. I have seen old Ex-pats coming back home after living years in Cuba, Nigeria, Angola, Mozambique and Mali and having a life there...

One thing I noticed is, we are all very comfortable buying chips from a portogeuse shop<

Segololo
15 May 2008 02:32

Shadow: << On a lighter note...Sego, Who'z this sexy boi wearing a white top>> 

Fally Ipupa - a Congolese musician who knows how to make my heart feel like butter... He just makes me wanna sip on a hot chocolate when he sings...Ha aha ha! You know what I mean?  I'll write an article about him on my african sounds blog soon.

Simmone
15 May 2008 02:43

Yesterday close to where I live a 10 year old child was knocked over by a car, and the community all gathered around the scene, what broke my heart was to hear a woman, a mother of two toddlers proclaim that these children do not respect cars and that will teach them to learn how to cross the road. For Pete’s sake a 10 year old was fighting for her life, *bleep!* how she got there.

Maybe the story is irrelevant but people especially black people have lost all humanity and daily they lose apathy and the value of human life.

@Segololo, South Africans have lost the sense of humanity not only towards Foreigners but towards each other as human beings. Somehow we feel the need to treat each other like animals and we find motivation in the most insignificant things. The value of human life has decreased to a point that no ones life is worth anything.


andi01
15 May 2008 02:45

Just last week i heard a song outside my window, it went on like this:
Hambani makwiri kwiri hambani (community members toy-toying)
As my mouth began to open, my conscience got the better of me. I heard my little nephew playing from behind me. Had I joined in the song that would mean i am fighting against half of my own blood, coz his father is namibian. Yes I would definetely hate for my nephew to grow up without his father and my sister to loose her man.

UberB
15 May 2008 02:51

as a wake up call that they need 2 go back 2 their countries and fight against what eva is making them leave dats country.
A wake up call? Killing people, stealing their property , rape and vandalising their homes is a wake up call? That is just plain inhumanity and barbarism at its worst. Who would not want to stay in their home and fight for liberation from tyranny? The militia in Zim is powerful, they control the media, the economy hell they even control what comes out of people's mouths. The MDC is fighting back by striving for a fair election. It shows how much power Mugabe has if he can hold still the results for a whole month!
The people of Zim want to fight and are slowly beginning to through their votes, just because they are not taking up arms against the government does not mean they do not want change.
 

Firstdvd
15 May 2008 03:07

In a polite way...THIS IS A WAKE UP CALL, FOREIGNERS! Hhay kabi!!!

andi01
15 May 2008 03:13

@ UberB Killing people, stealing their property , rape and vandalising their homes is a wake up call?, exkoos me (in sibusiso dlomo's voice), these things happen to South Africans as well

Fluffy Head
15 May 2008 03:19

Segololo:
Out of topic.....girl I'm loving your hot chocolate, dang___put some morepictures like you promised.

In topic: I guess this is one of those things one will never understand unless you've lived it...Unless you have been a foreigner somewhere you won't know how is feels to be a foreigner and singled out.
I myself had a bad attitude towards foreigners (I'm being honest)...not bad in a sense that I believe they come for our jobs but I just had some strange stereotypes and called everyone non-SA ikwerekwere...Untill I lived in another country for a year. It was bad and I came to understand a lot of things. It was when a little girl she must have been 5/6 said to her mom (we were in a fitting room qeue)..."mom look at her, she's dark and her hair is funny'...I found it cute (duh I had no choice) but later on it started bothering me and reflected on the way I've been acting myself (like amagana anentloko eziplati or amanigeria azizixhiliphothi)...stuff like that that make u stand out.

So I agree with Mr K, most people are ignorant and a bit of education will help them understand things...I'm fortunate cause even though I was not educated about these things but I lived as a foreigner. So I learnt from my experience.

So as  much as you hate what is going on girl, try and understand where all these people are coming from__and if you do so it will be less frustrating for you personally.

Plus you are someone of influence (atleast I believe so) you know most of the celebrities around town....so another 1m man march against xenophobia could help...Try organise it with your celebrity friends...It could raise awareness and educate the people....

Mathaz
15 May 2008 03:20

Some bloggers are so insensitive.  Even if the government deports those who are illegally here, that won't stop crime, drug abuse, it won't even halve the unemployment rate.

andi01
15 May 2008 03:30

Some bloggers are so insensitive;l  i see that some bloggers prefer sensitivity that the truth

realist
15 May 2008 03:44

The problem with SA is, they like  to discuss issues till kingdom come but never implement what is decided upon. The people in way are telling this present administration that they are failling them. In my opinion, at issue here is not about any foreigners, but those who are unskilled and coming here illegally.

Those who have an ID means nothing to the SA citizen as they know that the home affairs is corrupt and it is easy to obtain an ID.

Like they say, it is tuff at the top but it ain't crowded . At the bottom it is easy but the problem is, it is crowded. Now, how do you deal with a situation where 90% is illitarate and unskilled and all vying for the same job. To be academic about this problem will not take SA anywhere. This administration has to take a bold step and admit that they have failed their electorate and such they should take a decisive step like yesterday and deport those who came here illegally. If they don't do that then SA is in big trouble.

If SA was a first world country, this present administration would have long been given a vote of no confidence. For lack of a better word, the people at the ground are showing the present administration how to do things the African way. It is either my way or your way and nothing else.


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