Mmhhh.. I don't even know where to start..but i have to..
Bloggers i have a serous dilema here, hope you can give a sista some help
I dated the following guys, which i left but they want to come back . I have considered some:
1. Handsome, successful + brains :
Problem : he cheated on me. He made me the happiest woman on this planet, but i left when he cheated. We dated for almost 3 years. I still think about him sometimes. He wants us to give it a try again.
2. Extremely handsome (taye diggs kind of looks) :
Problem : he could not hold jobs. Was always broke and the worst is that he had no brains. I mean if you ask what is 1 + 1, it would take 15 minutes to figure the answer out..Not that guys i undermined him, but you need someone who is stimulating you upstairs. You would really ask him a very important question, he would say "come back tomorrow, i need to think about it" Yhu, i stayed with him for 1 year six months. I dumped him. Also wants to come back...
3. Not so handsome, doing well careerwise :
Problem : very financially iiresponsible. He would borrow R2,500 just to take his friends out for beer. That drove me up the wall. He is so deep in debt. Whenever he sees money, his heart just starts beating faster than 300km per second. I mean he would expect me to fill in his petrol, give him some money etc..WHICH I REFUSED. He thought i was selfish....I left him after 6 months. He says he has changed and wanst to get married....but i doubt it...
4. Not-so-handsome,Lawyer,sucessful (Current boyfriend) :
He knows how to treat a woman. He shows love in many different ways. S*x is also very very good.
Problem : Sisixhosana (I mean you can take a lion out of the jungle, but you cannot take the jungle out of the lion). Its bad guys that sometimes on SATURDAYS he would wear a 3 piece suit to the MALL...i gently said "Babes, i think jeans on a weekend suit you a lot. infact even smart casual does"...Kaloku you can't bruise the brother's ego. He went to the Bantu education schools, which i went to as well, but maaaan, he TWANGS...hahaha. Guys if you went to a BANTU education school you can never master the whole TWANG business, sometimes i get so embarassed. There are a lot bethuna, these are just a few examples....We've been dating for 2 months..
My current man wants to marry me. He wants to pay lobola by December. I just wish i can take out some things from him..How do you treat ubuxhosana obunje? You've never heard him when he answers the phone....hahaha
The bottom line here is that you hardly get someone who will satisfy you 100%. Where or in which areas would you make a sacrifice?
I'm not inlove yet with my sixhosana, but we grow to love them..
Which one would you settle for..
Am i looking for a lot of things in a relationship?
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