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Cheating Lying Cheek!!

Written by molibelis from the blog Cheat lying cheek on 21 Jul 2008
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Women of mzantsi,plc tell me if what im doing is agains the faithfull,cause bathong i have been going out with this boyfriend of mine for so long and now i haven't been to his home,i dont even know his parents,and now after four years i just met some guy who is grazy about me and im also the same about him,so i want to know,should i leave this guy,(my boyfriend)& take this new one cause everytime i mention this to him that i want to meet his parents he dont give me the straight answear,but nna o tla hae at any time,even my parents are asking me hore hey "mpe" my nickname,when are u going to meet this guy's parents.

So now i have decided to have this new guy 4 incase,dintho di tsamaya wrong,cause hothwe koloi e tsamaya ka spare wheel,so guys can i have dis spare wheel for in case im starked in the high way to the future,

can u c me as a bad person,i mean a cheater or a lier?

i cant take this anymore,i need someone who is more serious about the future,some one that i can call my lover,and another thing he dont give a damn,if he want to watch soccer,he better cancel everything with me and go to watch soccer,and when i frick out he want 2 put a blame on me like ii dont want him 2 have some fun with his friends,

and we are on a distance relationship,we only meet on the weekends and soccer usualy is playing during the weekends.so plc shoul we go on?

79 Comments

Toodecent
21 Jul 2008 06:41

*sigh*

molibelis
21 Jul 2008 06:41

Mans are so cruel sometimes,but hey re tla reng,

Shadow
21 Jul 2008 06:46

Here we go again..*rollin' my eyes*

Renegade
21 Jul 2008 06:46

Tsho, I'm sitting back, and waiting to ROTFLMAO.

carino
21 Jul 2008 06:46

/////sigh////// nam njengo tdc. Are we back here again????

DE------JA------VU ..... all over again!....

tha - bang
21 Jul 2008 06:50

aga shame. make a clean break.u know what u want and if you are not getting it.move on

Renegade
21 Jul 2008 06:50

Ok, I'm already ROTFLMAO after reading!

carino
21 Jul 2008 06:51

molibelis, i like you... so i'm not gon lomeletsa you.... akuthethwa ngamadoda apha kwaTVSA. I advise you to retrace your steps, withdraw the article and keep on bloging.. otherwise, you might just find yourself flipping a coin tryina decide whether to leave the site or change your username...

Nonny
21 Jul 2008 06:51

*double sigh!*

Ohee ngabe akuyona iTVSA!!!!!

Renegade
21 Jul 2008 06:53

Ok, let me be nice and say what I always say. If you are not happy in a relationship, then there is not point of being in the relationship. Ok, i'm done.

Nonny
21 Jul 2008 06:54

"otherwise, you might just find yourself flipping a coin tryina decide whether to leave the site or change your username..."
kwa kwa kwa @ Carino, I don't know if this is the right time to ask this, tell me is it true that Mathata is back, coz damn I was so excited in the morning to hear that?

HARAMBE24
21 Jul 2008 06:56

hlala mpya ye o dear...get a new totolozi, you derserve it...........

Nonny
21 Jul 2008 06:58

Hey there H24, kunjani kodwa?

Renegade
21 Jul 2008 07:01

BUT, on the other hand, as much as we have an overload of "man bashing" articles, we are not forced to read them remember, much less reply! At the end of the day, one is free to create a blog, and write about what they wish, but the audience of TVSA is more concerned with TV related articles, so if you want a response to your article, make it about TV. But still, you are free to write what you want, and we can just look away, or laugh...

stovu
21 Jul 2008 07:01

Does'nt this new bfriend have a gfriend?????????????

carino
21 Jul 2008 07:02

Mathata IS back, weNonny, she now goes by the name what aka mathata and she confessed that her two months old baby looks exactly like TDC you'd swear toodecent lost some sperms when he visited Canada.

Toxic
21 Jul 2008 07:03

But still, you are free to write what you want, and we can just look away, or laugh...

*as if on cue* LMAO!!!

myname
21 Jul 2008 07:11

LOL Carino tl tl tl tl tl kodwa where do u come from carino?...............Mob sometimes u must use your head darling bcoz la madoda are not going anywhere ok.............take ur time & choose the best dear. Good luck!

molibelis
21 Jul 2008 07:12

@......i like you... so i'm not gon lomeletsa you.... akuthethwa ngamadoda apha kwaTVSA. I advise you to retrace your steps, withdraw the article and keep on bloging.. otherwise, you might just find yourself flipping a coin tryina decide whether to leave the site or change your username...

I want to know what people think,and i wont change my username,cause im not ashamed,i really need advices from true friends,if u cant reply so let it be.

belz
21 Jul 2008 07:16

molibelis: if it makes you feel better cheating with this other guy, go ahead love, phela nakho ukuzistressa ngendoda akusizi mhlobo wam', yenza noma yini ekujabulisayo shlobo, peace!!

molibelis
21 Jul 2008 07:23

Some people dont understand this topic they will soon fell it when they got this types of guys,this topic remind me of the movie i like "Two can play the game"

belz
21 Jul 2008 07:26

LOL!!!

felfel
21 Jul 2008 07:31

Alrighty then...........

diamond
21 Jul 2008 07:31

LOL @ Mathata IS back, weNonny, she now goes by the name what aka mathata and she confessed that her two months old baby looks exactly like TDC you'd swear toodecent lost some sperms when he visited Canada!!
U R crazy wena!!

molebelis: U know what U have to do, trust your insticts and do what your heart tell U. Do What U makes U happy!

H24: plz how about blessing us an article, plz?

molibelis
21 Jul 2008 07:41

stop being so selfish

andi01
21 Jul 2008 08:05

Its been 4 blooding fuckin years and he hasnt taken you home, sweety the mafacka IS JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU, he probably has someone that his parents know and liek already secondly that someone is the person he spends time with during the week when you not there, and all the times he tells you that he went to watch soccer, he be lyin to you girl, he is with that someone, visiting his parents.

My advise, dont cheat on him, tell him that if he doesnt take you to his parents this cominmg weekend, he is history, i knwo this is blackmail, but it is worth it. If he refuses, dump his arse.

andi01
21 Jul 2008 08:12

I bet you the mafacka aint that good lookin either. Yo man need to stop trippin and treat you like a lady, or else you go leave him. We as woman sometimes have little time for "real men", and we spent a lot of time trying to please people that dont deserve us and treat us like second best. those are teh same rats that make us think there arent good men out there, well reality check, there are, loads and loads.

Girl, u r interesting, no football match or bunch of ampit-sticking "friends", can be more fun than you, unless the mafacka is shagging them.

speaking from experience

ratogal
21 Jul 2008 08:13

I think you should sit down le monna o and tell him tsebe go utlwa on how you feel about meeting his family, i think maybe he has a reason y he hasnt introduced u to his family.
Dont rush into anything before o imakatsa wena self.
Dont worry we will be here to hold your hand if wa makala.

Cande
21 Jul 2008 08:15

date all of them..

tshepiso
21 Jul 2008 08:21

iyho! iyho! iyho! iyho! iyho! iyho! iyho! iyhooooooooooo!
i qadile inkathazo madoda,

Da Rebel 1
21 Jul 2008 08:25

hlala mpya ye o dear...get a new totolozi, you derserve it........... lol @ Harambe

I agree, if he gives you grief get a new totoloz who'll treat you right!!!

Cnglemother
21 Jul 2008 08:26

H24: plz how about blessing us an article, plz? oh pls harambe-mbe!

andi01
21 Jul 2008 08:31

"Mpe", ke a hokopa hle, keatseba hore awuse tlayela empa wamorata mosimane eo, but the bottom line is, if he isnt satisfying you, hobaning are you still there. Let me give u the reasons 2 dump his arse
1. This man is breaking ur heart, you miss him the whole week, you finally go and visist him and he leaves you all alone to go be with his "friends"
2. he lowers ur self esteem by not taking u 2 his parents, coz u probably askin now, "whats wrong with u, why cant he take you", am I lying?
3.He is turning you to a s**t, coz havin ur cake eaten by more than 1 person at a time, u no better than a pros***e, but she is better coz she get $$$ for that.
4.he is turning u to a cheat and a liar.

Gorgeous, wake up and smell the roses. U dont deserve this, u need the man who is willing to call her mother, 4 minutes after meeting you, coz u amazing like that, 4 years, HELL NO.

belz
21 Jul 2008 08:35

u need the man who is willing to call her mother, 4 minutes after meeting you, coz u amazing like that> i like this.

Lady Caramelle
21 Jul 2008 08:37

hhayi we all agree that you shud get yourself a new totolozi otherwise "uzaphambana izinqa"(utlohlanya).lol

Cande
21 Jul 2008 08:38

i Like you Andi, i like how you think

molibelis
21 Jul 2008 08:45

andi01, thanx a lot guys,i really appreciate ur advices,cause ha ke thotse ha keno thola thuso,hothw ngwana ya salleng o shwella tharing,cause ha a lapile haa lle.so the best is to say it loud bua bothata o thuswe,BUA,i repeat again,BUA SOUTH AFRICA BUA,HARE BUWENG,STRESS SE FELE,BECAUSE O THOLE MOTHO A TSHABA HO BOLELLA DR.MATHATA A HAE ,SO THE DR WILL END UP TREATING THE WRONG SICKNESS,eg:INSTEAD OF GETTING A TREATMENT 4 HIV,U GET ONE FOR FLU,SO U WILL DIE IF U FILL ASHEMD ABOUT UR SICKNESS.

andi01
21 Jul 2008 08:50

@molibelis, seka njwayela wena, nna hake bua lewena, kebua sekgoa, maar wena awu arapa ubua sesotho, honahana gore ke-setsebelakae sesotho, nna keMxhosa ke tswa eastern cape, ukele wambona mosetsane otswa EC speaking sesotho, pls bua sekgoa ausi.

myname
21 Jul 2008 08:57

Hau Andy akere mob wabua to South Africans ure arebua. Njwale why ubuwa so wena?

andi01
21 Jul 2008 09:02

I have been learning but i am still very rusty, as you have noticed, please dont go deep on the Basotho (baja pere) language,

awelani
21 Jul 2008 09:02

Andi01 & Gamalami, Sesotho sa lona se ya mpolaya, tl tl tl tl.

andi01
21 Jul 2008 09:05

@ Awelani, do you mean that in a complimenting/ teasing or sarcastic manner. LOL, come now girl, you can mpolaya a girl for trying now can you.

molibelis
21 Jul 2008 09:07

@.andi01.....Ok baby,what i was saying as that,some of us,are so secretive,they wont even say anything when they have some problems with their mans,they better hang them selves or go to the DR. and tell them that they have some cronic illness,and when the dr asks about that illness they wont tell the dr the truth,so the dr will start treating the wrong diseas,so if we speak up,we will get help quikly and forget about comitting suicide,

we shoul learn to speak up,dont listens to those who will tell u to close the subject and change ur username,why,some people are not serious,

awelani
21 Jul 2008 09:11

Gal, I mean it in a teasing way sisi, LOL.

andi01
21 Jul 2008 09:15

Some people tell you to close the subject bczo they are indenial, their hearts are broken beyond repairs and when some1 talks about this subject to them its like you opening up a closet full of skeletons.

Some people say change it because there are articles "similar", to this, but remember guys "efanayo asiyiyo".

Some say close it cause they are tired of being punished for other peoples mistakes. Its bad to be called a dog while you respect women 100%. (can u hear me TDC).

Some say close it cause, they hear others saying that

And some people have it in their blood to just disregard other peoples ideas, opinions and pain,

Whatever the reasons being, dont ever let peopel tell you what to do. Rather take their criticism, use it and next time come up with a killer article.

Tshd21
21 Jul 2008 09:18

I think you should leave him..... 4 years and you haven't met the parents? But he has met yours?? Leave him because you are breathing life into something that is dead....
2cents worth

mabhebheza
21 Jul 2008 09:28

moving right along ----------------->next site activity

belz
21 Jul 2008 09:36

LOL!! mabhebhs!! wussup gal.

Firstdvd
21 Jul 2008 23:40

The choice is yours Molibelis...U deserve better!

molibelis
22 Jul 2008 02:12

@ andi01..girl,i have been reading ur replys and wow,u sound just like my friends,i think i should do what ever i fill is right 4 me,im not going to waste any minute,he dont love me,and he dont even bother to come and say love lets go and meet my mom or sisters,thanx,

Toodecent
22 Jul 2008 02:17

Some say close it cause they are tired of being punished for other peoples mistakes. Its bad to be called a dog while you respect women 100%. (can u hear me TDC).>>>> I heard you loud and clear ma gal but for the fact that we have less than 50 guys on the site while women are 9000 does it mean everytime one is cheated we have to get an article about it? And worse be called DOGS......eish.

mstick
22 Jul 2008 04:39

hey Moli sorry i'm lyt mara shoo gal tough neh!!!!!!! after 4 years and still havent met the parents n u asked hm a couple of tyms and wa go docha.......mmmmm(shaking my head).......mara its ur choice jst do wts best 4 u

Hlehle
22 Jul 2008 04:46

I feel u TDC.

cleave
22 Jul 2008 04:52

Hi Sister Mpe, if you are not meeting his parents, and he doesn’t sound like he has you in his future plans, then my advice is that you move along and go for the new guy. But, before you do that, please talk to your man first.
You have to go for only one dear, ‘spare wheel’ doesn’t work, because you risk losing both. So yes, go on with the 2nd guy, but as long as you dump the first guy.

Queenlicious
22 Jul 2008 04:55

Hey guys and gals. I'm have been a silent blogger for a while. So i'm kind of new. Hey cande, brownshuga, tdc ( Mr Moderator), nonny, carino (Ms/Mr Spellchecker), segololo and everyone. Hi Hi.

molibelis
22 Jul 2008 05:07

And there other thing is that u can even plan to have a child with some body like this one,cause now im reaching 2??? at the 31 of october and i fill like having a baby girl,but wow he just wasted my time for nothing,and if i go for the new one i have to take time to know him first,go to check ups mabye 6 times,then i can have my little baby girl,cause im working so what now.aish,LIFE IS LIKE A JACKPOT U PLAY,U LOOSE,WIN OR DRAW,THIS CHORUS REMIND ME OF LEBO MATHOSA.

Thobeka Jeli
22 Jul 2008 05:34

what if lontu akafuni ubabone cause ngabantu abaphantsi like bayazisela utywala and u know that guys like to play big in the small town ndi cinga ukuba khawu mlandele xa engoguka and ungambonisi that you have been following him or try to ask one of his friends but ungamdwebisi naye lowo so ke qala ngokubuza ngathi ukumemile fo ukubabona qa wena ufuna ukwazi ukuba bangabantu abanjani even if so myekile buza ngaye cause ndisitsho nje abanye abantu bane ntloni ge backgrounds zabo more ukuba wena ubonakalanganti unezinto kunaye like cars phones and nokunye so ke untu u endndapa esematyaleni to please lontombi ukhuba akunjalo kwezizinto sendizibalile lomntu it means u yathandana and uzibophelele and wena uyamonwabisa sukungxama ngokunikhezela cause nawe isizatho awusazi linda ndese ufumane isizathu esibambekayo ngaye uyothi kanti uphswa libambo lwakho

Thobeka Jeli
22 Jul 2008 05:48

you mean yr pr mara ungathini thats life for u cause u said that your reaching 2
but if ur preg it cant bee his hell no its july now and october or maybe i"m of topic andazi khawu cacise lombandela wakho ingathi uzokundi phambanisa kancici cacisa khutheni khanye and pls ungadlali nge feelings zam apha cause intliziyo yam ibuhlungu ka khulu hayi shame andiyazi lento ndiyithethayo sorry maan ne nxesi sisi

molibelis
22 Jul 2008 05:49

@ Thobeka jeli my love im lost,can u plc try other language cause this one,iyooo,plc baby im totaly lost mabye u are trying to help.so plc dont get bored,ntwana yase dladleng.

molibelis
22 Jul 2008 05:58

Thobs im not pregnat,i meant i want to have a baby,but how can i have one with someone like this,

On the 31 of October im reaching twenty something,which is im getting OLD,
Are u covered,plc the language,still lost but trying 2 follow.

Cande
22 Jul 2008 06:03

Eish, language barrier

molibelis
22 Jul 2008 06:14

@@@@@ Cande.....Eish, language barrier, lets hope thobes will come back 2 us

Thobeka Jeli
22 Jul 2008 06:33

thank GOD for that cause now i was wariend that there is a child in volvo kuyo yonke le mas hayi maan sana u have your life still there are abantu abadatswe nabantwana sorry nge language andikwazi ku khumsha mna i"m sorry sisi and take time to know samebody its not un overnight joy or job nditso u mngane wakho ke omtsha naye noba aka pholanga umfakhele izibukho zemafikizolo by the way uthi uzobe une twenty something hyo!!!!ungumtana hayi shem ndizokuba ngumama wakho apha e tvsa so ke no maboy friends zisuka

Thobeka Jeli
22 Jul 2008 06:37

bye ndimkhile nge language yam in siphokazi"s tone ndimkile ndiqandeni ndiyemka ndiyemka

Nonny
22 Jul 2008 06:40

ok!!!!

Thobeka Jeli
22 Jul 2008 06:56

hayi sham nonny just like that u thi ok yho plp are how kanti u are not even trying to stop me bye ke

molibelis
22 Jul 2008 07:08

THOBS whats up girl,u said u want 2go,so why o funa ukuthi nonny ako bambe,heeeeeheeeeee,city girl,ok Thobs plc dont go,n diya ku funa ke sthandwa samina.

Hlehle
22 Jul 2008 07:08

After u Nonny. Okay!!!

pariri
22 Jul 2008 07:09

hahahahahaah LOL haybo Thobeka sisi hahahaha

Nonny
22 Jul 2008 07:18

bye bye TJ.........uhambe ngoxolo...........LOL

And as u take ur final steps, I dediacte Mariah Carey's Bye bye song to u........

Nonny
22 Jul 2008 07:21

dedicate.......*eish I can hear Carino & Zolx at the back of my head!!!*

Hlehle
22 Jul 2008 07:27

@ Thobeka "hayi sham nonny just like that u thi ok yho plp are how kanti u are not even trying to stop me bye ke. Why didn't u stick to Xhosa coz the is no such thing in English. ROTFLMAOL

Lilitha
22 Jul 2008 07:40

Even IsiXhosa sakhe Hlehle is so borrring and difficult to understand .
She makes me so ashamed of my Xhosa language..I'm just wondering though how would her Xhosa teacher feel when she/he see her poor mother tongue?????

TJ sana what symbol did you get at school for your Xhosa, GG or HHH????

molibelis
22 Jul 2008 07:42

@@@@@ Nonny dedicate.......*eish I can hear Carino & Zolx at the back of my head!!!*

U just made my lunch,dont mind about my day!!!!Hey Nonny or should i say Nonx

molibelis
22 Jul 2008 07:49

Hey my lovers,plc i dont like it,Thobs,has the feelings also,shame Tobs,iyoooooo

Hlehle
22 Jul 2008 07:50

I'm not trying to be a spell checker or anything Thobs, but plz will u check before u post ur replies or reread them and see if what u have written is right or does it make sense or what. Coz now when i see ur reply i'll just pass and dnt read it coz i struggle to understand what are u saying. Imagine a person who doesn't know Xhosa very well how will he/she cope frm understanding ur message. Plz gal i urge u to take note of this.

Brown Shuga
23 Jul 2008 11:38

<<<Even IsiXhosa sakhe Hlehle is so borrring and difficult to understand >>> tl tl tl tl tl tl tl lt

Cande
23 Jul 2008 11:46

Hello Queenlicious.

Brown Shuga
23 Jul 2008 11:49

Quuenlicious ke mang???

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