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How do i

Written by Thozi from the blog helpout on 24 Jul 2008
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How do i

Hy u guyz all i seriously need your help here.
Ok,1stly i am bisexual and just recently broke up wit the gal (as im also a gal) i ws inluv with. kay- never mind that.

Now iv just met (wel not oficialy just yet;u'l get me dont worry)  this realy cute and irresitable one. its like this neh; i alwyz travel with her when i go to work, we dont go the same place, she gets to hers before i to mine. today was the 5th time i saw her and from DAY 1 whenever i do i quickly feel butterflies in ma stomuch,my heart beats faster than u cud never believe and i wont even know what to do with maself.

am not sure - i could be seeing what i wanna but judjing by the way i suspect that she might b lesbn or bio herself,iv been noticing some of her charicteristics- and i figure she's more alike with th one i broke up with as she was completely lesbian but still u could'nt exactly tell;sh has a famine side ud think twice.

k im gonna defferantiate these two as girl one girl two. basicaly im on abt girl two here.she's tall, white in complexion blond short dread (which is the most attractive thing i noticed in her.she's so sweet and kind of easy going but if u dont know her u'd think twice before aproaching her for any reason.i was like that- i still am. thing is i fancy her so very much.

we not friends its just a sort of a Hi and Bye thing,know.i m afraid of even opening a conversation with her as im scared she might nt be what or who i think she is.and she's quite older than me probably with only 2 or 3yrs but that daznt mater to me.
thing is ive been trying to figure a way of aproaching her in a way but i constantly fail to become creative. im alwz like tht- i want perfection i dont wanna ruin it before it was there at all. ive had many crushes in the past sum just disolve like suger in hot water, i'v neva aproached any of them but this particular one- i cant hold myself. How do i handle this?

Thanks friends.




78 Comments

Pooky
24 Jul 2008 06:36

andikwazi ukuyifunda le sms

Cande
24 Jul 2008 06:42

too much Mxit language...i cant read and understand

Nonny
24 Jul 2008 06:42

Where's Cande to tell Thozi, she will not be charged for long text here. Yeka ubuvila sisi and just write ur sms in full.

Nonny
24 Jul 2008 06:44

And all this chik talk lana is making me wish for some chicken, actually ama hott wings ase Chicken Lickin'!!!

Segololo
24 Jul 2008 06:45

I agree with Cande... Can the author change the lingo to be readable or one of the admins so we can help the sista out?

Pooky
24 Jul 2008 06:47

ok finsh rdng now....shu
ag gal shs only hmn, jst rlx & tel hr hw u fil...coz whl u stil procrastinating sum1 els mite jst swp hr of hr ft, dnt wst tm, tel hr man.....u get me

sjura
24 Jul 2008 06:47

pliz gal we not on Mxit here (asipixi), i cant read this..."Yeka ubuvila sisi and just write ur sms in full". so that we can all read and understand what you are trying to say.

thank you.

Cande
24 Jul 2008 06:47

really Nonny i went back to read and still i do not understand...
Thozi sweety, TVSA is for free internet(hopefully for you 2) is for free. why you abbreviating??
We old men and women here, and dont understand the lingo..

Nonny
24 Jul 2008 06:48

Pooky, ave uyithatha, I can't believe u are responding in mix it lang as well.....LOL

Cande
24 Jul 2008 06:48

LOL Pooky

sjura
24 Jul 2008 06:51

"And all this chik talk lana is making me wish for some chicken, actually ama hott wings ase Chicken Lickin'!!! u can say that again Nons(but dnt)...TLOL!!!

@Pooky
unomonde ntomabazana...

felfel
24 Jul 2008 06:52

Please rewrite Thozi then we'll try to help,uyeva Llalla......

Tynt!
24 Jul 2008 06:57

Haike!!
Well, if u r 2  tell her , then u wil nid luck... . Hope she duznt reject u, coz she might be the opposite of what u think she is...

Cody
24 Jul 2008 06:58

lo at the sms adn mms! 

k im nna deff thez two as chik one n chik two. all i can say is my word! (in my canadian accent) i cant understand this, or is it because im in canada?

Renegade
24 Jul 2008 06:59

Tsho, you guys are funny, i was reading the article and stopped after the second sentence coz i'ts such an effort to read so much shorthand. 

Molilo
24 Jul 2008 07:02

I thought I was the only one who cannot read this thing

cleve
24 Jul 2008 07:04

Thozi how old are you. We don't understand mxit language here. Please you are making it a bit difficult for us to read.

I tried and from what I could make was that you are lesbo, eish I have been out of the dating game for a while now. So lets leave it to the experts.

Anyways it also helps that you don't call women chicks it's quite disrespectful. It makes men not respect us as human beings but some kind of meat, like Nonny is thinking about chicken lickin now!!!! Just a tip.

Pooky
24 Jul 2008 07:06

Pooky, ave uyithatha, I can't believe u are responding in mix it lang as well.....LOL
the spirit of mxit took over and i started speaking in *tongues* i mean abbreviations...i was not my self Nons.....lol

Nonny
24 Jul 2008 07:09

"Anyways it also helps that you don't call women chicks it's quite disrespectful. It makes men not respect us as human beings but some kind of meat, like Nonny is thinking about chicken lickin now!!!! Just a tip."
Excellent Cleve, u hit it on the nail!!!!

Sam2say
24 Jul 2008 07:10

La ntshegisa kao fela ga lona waitse ha ha ha ha!!!

Mara lenna a ke understende

Renegade
24 Jul 2008 07:12

Oh my gosh, I can't get over how difficult it actually is to read this!!!!

Pooky
24 Jul 2008 07:12

@Pooky unomonde ntomabazana...

Sjura.....  kanene wha is the meaning of unomonde ??

Nonny
24 Jul 2008 07:13

"the spirit of mxit took over and i started speaking in *tongues* i mean abbreviations...i was not my self Nons.....lol"
@ Pooky, LMAO, speaking in mixit tongues......talking abt mixit, a guy was asking me out and he said: "Swidart * I'm sure he meant sweetheat*, are u on mixit, it really saves money yazi?"
I was so pissed off, I mean how cheap can u be.

Tynt!
24 Jul 2008 07:15

Lol @ sam2say...'

Nonny
24 Jul 2008 07:17

he meant - sweetheart

Mphoyame
24 Jul 2008 07:21

unable to read this please rewrite,...........nyaope ya betha jo !!!!!!!!!!!!

sjura
24 Jul 2008 07:25

Pooky...........umonde yi patience

mayandie
24 Jul 2008 07:26

I thought my PC has switched itself to another language for a second there.......
How do you actually type such thing.....
Hayini maan ngoMXIT please.....

zolx
24 Jul 2008 07:27

what y'all said...sorry nigga cant read this. A summary would be nice in proper English..

mabhebheza
24 Jul 2008 07:36

HOW DO I Read ????????????????????????????????

Da Rebel 1
24 Jul 2008 07:38

@ Thozi, I feel ya sista, just talk to her maybe the feeling is mutual, and guess what?  you'll never know until you've tried.

Good luck!

Noklunga
24 Jul 2008 07:39

@ Pooky... unomonde is a Xhosa word which means a beautiful lady... Yeva -ke kwedini!

pariri
24 Jul 2008 07:50

talk about toturing our eyes
he said: "Swidart * I'm sure he meant sweetheat*, are u on mixit, it really saves money yazi?"
I was so pissed off, I mean how cheap can u be.
Nonny
undigqibe finish ngale part ka swidart hahahahahaahah double LOL yhuuuuu hay sana

mabhebheza
24 Jul 2008 07:51

Beautiful day.....??????Hehake ngoku 
r sure its not  Patience...?? 

what aka mathata
24 Jul 2008 07:53

i think when you met someone and you think you are attracted to her, try to communicate with her like shis your frnd,after some days tell her that you are bisexual and what she thinks about them.

if she say negative thing about them move on.....,try some where but dont be open first day,people sometimes they can be cruel

get to know the person before you say it,and keep on trying like you look for good job,the olny thing i can say dont fail to try,sometimes you can be lucky.

and be honest if things go well

mayandie
24 Jul 2008 08:02

@ Pooky... unomonde is a Xhosa word which means a beautiful lady... Yeva -ke kwedini! 
Hayi Noklunga wawusifunda phi esisakho isiXhosa????????????????
 It means PATIENCE my dear......

Nonny
24 Jul 2008 08:12

Nice advice Mathatha.....

@ Pariri, phela when the looser said:"swidart" he already blew it, then when he went on abt mixit, gosh that was unforgivable, I could already see our first date at the Gugu Dlamini park in Durban having ikota with that redish polony, sipping on sugar water......LOL

Simmone
24 Jul 2008 08:16

@ Pooky... unomonde is a Xhosa word which means a beautiful lady... Yeva -ke kwedini!

I seem to remember my Xhosa teacher telling me its “Patience” and Nomonde meaning the one with patience and beautiful girl meaning Nobuhle or Ntomb’entle. 

am nt sure - i cud b seein wht i wanna bt judjin by th wy i suspect tht sh myt b lesbn or bio herslf,iv bn noticin sum o her charicteristics- n i figure sh's more alike wit th one i broke up wit s sh was completely lesbian bt stl u cudnt xactly tel;sh hs a famine side ud thnk twice.

I am preparing a 100page submission why mxit should be banned and I am printing this as evidence. iyho!!!

Thozi
24 Jul 2008 08:21

Thanks Da Regel 1 for your positive response

pariri
24 Jul 2008 08:21

having ikota with that redish polony, sipping on sugar water......
@ Nonny
I'm sure he'd make u pay for lo kota and polony hahahahahahah 
yhaz just the word "swidart" alone is enough turn off !!!

Thozi
24 Jul 2008 08:23

oh i am so so sory for mis spelling your name there meant Da Rebel 1

awelani
24 Jul 2008 08:28

u guys are hilarious, tltl tl tl tl tl, the blogger was probably in a hurry to finish wrting the article bathong, tl tl tl.

Wazup my "swidart" aka Nongoloza Nonny, lol.

pullie
24 Jul 2008 08:31

eisshhh Thozi can u re-write plz...it doesnt make sense @ all.........
& u ppl ur comments....bin missing TVSA so much & i'm surely back!

belz
24 Jul 2008 08:32

LOL!!!!!

Pooky
24 Jul 2008 08:35

@ Pariri, phela when the looser said:"swidart" he already blew it, then when he went on abt mixit, gosh that was unforgivable, I could already see our first date at the Gugu Dlamini park in Durban having ikota with that redish polony, sipping on sugar water......LOL


LMAO...
the imagery is killing me...first date+swidart+kota+suikewater =buahahahahahahahaahahahah
Swidart was a dead giveaway ba he's a broke a**, la type othi ma uyibuza ba baby uzondinika ntoni as a birthday present, athi yena something special..i'm gonna make love to you

Good advice Mathatha, i couldnt have said it better myself

Nonny
24 Jul 2008 08:36

"Wazup my "swidart" aka Nongoloza Nonny, lol."
@ Awelani - Hallo hunny......LOL

"@ Nonny I'm sure he'd make u pay for lo kota and polony hahahahahahah
yhaz just the word "swidart" alone is enough turn off !!!"
@ Pariri - Then after paying, he'd say: "My dali *darling*, please drop me off ehostela, I 4got my train fare at home yazi".........LOL

The chicken talk is gone *yipee*, thanks for editing Thozi *smiles*, now let me read and respond accordingly......

pullie
24 Jul 2008 08:38

@ Simmone.........i'm 100% behind you on banning mxit!

Thobeka Jeli
24 Jul 2008 08:38

thozi take time to know her and when u c that things are cool and u can tell her about your feelings for now be just a friend  and even if she is not what you think she is  dont lose your friendship cause things din"t work out  friendship is more better than being lovers  take care  ndimkile for now  c you good plp more  stay sweet and bee loved by my heart

Nonny
24 Jul 2008 08:40

Welcome back Pullie.....

"Swidart was a dead giveaway ba he's a broke a**, la type othi ma uyibuza ba baby uzondinika ntoni as a birthday present, athi yena something special..i'm gonna make love to you"
LMAO @ Pooky, gal it's good to be with u today!!!

Thozi
24 Jul 2008 08:40

ja and to all of you guys thanks for your time and ideas

Thozi
24 Jul 2008 08:40

ja and to all of you guys thanks for your time and ideas

Thozi
24 Jul 2008 08:41

ja and to all of you guys thanks for your time and ideas

Nonny
24 Jul 2008 08:46

Jokes aside, here's what I think. 

"thing is i bn tryin 2 figure a wy of aprochin her in a wy bt i constantly fail to become cr8tiv. im alwz lyk tht- i want perfection i dont wanna ruin it before it was there at all."
@ Thozi, there is no such a thing as perfection, so don't strive for the unachievable, wena just take it one day at a time and be urself, coz if wait for creativity u might wait 4 too long, be u so that it will come natural and the gal will aslo see that u are genuiwine.

what aka mathata
24 Jul 2008 08:47

dont go arnd telling ppl you love them,they will throw blackberry to you(naom cambell)joking

Pooky
24 Jul 2008 08:51

ROTFLMAO @ Mathatha.............................blackberry??? ahahahahahaha

Hlehle
24 Jul 2008 08:51

Oh guys i miss u so much and i've just spoken to uPariri and Cande wow their voice. Nonny plz email me ndiyakucenga bandla.

andi01
24 Jul 2008 08:55

all i can say is my word! (in my canadian accent) i cant understand this, or is it because im in canada?,  ROTFLMAOL, oh no please Cody just stop it OK, tl tl tl tl tl, hayman Khodeyi, pleae LOL

awelani
24 Jul 2008 08:59

Alo Khodeyi, Alo Andi,Alo eribadi, Ay miss u so veri much, ay heit may bos for slaving me laik this. I so wish i cud blog, dammit.nxx

Sorry Thozi..

andi01
24 Jul 2008 09:02

think when you met someone and you think you are attracted to her, try to communicate with her like shis your frnd,after some days tell her that you are bisexual and what she thinks about them.
@ Mathata True dat
  

pullie
24 Jul 2008 09:07

thanx Nonny i missd thz crazy place, now my work is gonna suffer & Thozi like TJ says establish friendship, get 2 know her mayb thtz wen u can get 2 see wetha she's strait or not & wetha u still wanna pursue a r/shp wit her afta gettin 2 know her...coz rite now ur on tha 5th day, gud luk gal!

andi01
24 Jul 2008 09:08

Alo Awelani

Sam2say
24 Jul 2008 09:09

Nna my advice to you Thozi is, when you finally get your way with this chicken and manage to get her number , what ever you do, do not use this Text, o tla go fire a so go qome bofsss. Like Nonny said "DO NT Strv 4 de unachivbl" by tryin 2  b cr8tiv..

Just Be yourself, Im sure she'd like the real you.

Ke galla go go utlwa ga o bua, Im sure o abbriviata mantswe. Ha ha ha!!!

Nonny
24 Jul 2008 09:09

dont go arnd telling ppl you love them,they will throw blackberry to you(naom cambell)joking
ROTFLMAO, blackberry eheheh Thata's u are a classic.

Nonny
24 Jul 2008 09:11

@ Hlehle, I don't remember u giving em ur email address, so how am I supposed to email u?
Just holla at my PM manje.......

andi01
24 Jul 2008 09:18

Yazi thozi i think just go and shela the girl once and for all, coz some one might come and still her right under your nose, and besides if uyakuphoxa she wont be the first or the last. And ke you will just have to change the transport if u the kind that doesnt take rejection.

The only reason that the girl will reject you, is bcoz u alredi think she will, its all in the mind, girl, its all in teh mind. Negative thoughts lead to less confidence and negative rxns. Pick ur self up, go and tell her that "ek se sani, ndiyagcwala ngawe 9-9", I am she'll be like "even mna, ndiyachitheka", and thats that ke sisi.

Nonny
24 Jul 2008 09:25

"go and tell her that "ek se sani, ndiyagcwala ngawe 9-9", I am she'll be like "even mna, ndiyachitheka", and thats that ke sisi."
ROTFLMAO @ Andi01, u are bad, Thozi, u know u can't use that lingo or ur mixit one as well.

andi01
24 Jul 2008 09:31

kanti nonny she might think that uThozi is playing and thats the way to break the ice, and after soemtime of being "friends", Thozi can say 'watsebe keng mfanakithi, bendiserious ngalaway, bendiyiringa ngala dag"  i like you joe big time.

Nonny
24 Jul 2008 09:41

OK Andi01, now I feel u......

pullie
24 Jul 2008 09:45

lol @ andi01.....i can imagine, yhooo!

Firstdvd
24 Jul 2008 16:53

lol @ every1

Firstdvd
24 Jul 2008 16:54

lol @ every1

Lady D
24 Jul 2008 17:21

You guys are crazy fo sho!!!And01,wa nketsa seriyase.

Nanana
24 Jul 2008 18:22

Firstly,lift your chin up,there is nothing wrong with being bi,secondly approach the girl and tell her exactly how you feel and must prepare yourself in a mature manner to handle whatever response she may have.When u are older u will regret the things you didnt do,so throw the sails,and your approach and your enthusiasm will help a great deal,best of luck nhe

Floh
27 Jul 2008 03:03


Thozi stop writting nonsense. If you want positive response from us you better write in plain english.

I'm sorry I failed to read, happy Sunday to you all!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

what aka mathata
27 Jul 2008 17:18

m.huuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuwi

what aka mathata
27 Jul 2008 17:27

The devil wears prada but this one wear spectacles.yoooooooooo.let me get my spectacles so that i can read good english.

if someone look for help pls dont slap her on the face.

what aka mathata
27 Jul 2008 17:55

with words,ka mantjwe the mogumanegi,amme ke ya kwagala,

Nonny
28 Jul 2008 01:16

"The devil wears prada but this one wear spectacles.yoooooooooo.let me get my spectacles so that i can read good english."
kwa kwa kwa Mathata gal, u arer a classic yazi!!!!!


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