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Pregnancy of School Girls

Written by Shuga babe from the blog Suger B on 22 Oct 2008
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What do you think about the Pregnancy of School gals, especially when male teachers (WHO SUPPOSE TO BE PARENTING THE POOR LEARNERS) are the ones who got them pregnant.

When I was in high school, my classmate Nomsa had a crush on our class teacher Mr Taylor; she would write notes and stick it inside Mr Taylor’s files. Nomsa would do anything to get him, if he’s a coach for Netball and Soccer, Nomsa would join the netball team. If he’s a choir master, she would join the school choir.

Until Standard 8 (grade 10), when she became an SRC president. She would arrange meetings with him just to look at his lovely eyes. Finally when she was in Standard 9 he asked her to go out with him. They were so much in love, until when she got pregnant with his Son on Standard 10. He told her to do an abortion because he’s worried about his job if the principal found out he could be fired.

But Nomsa refused to do an abortion and she didn’t tell us about the pregnancy until when we were writing our Matric Final paper. We were at the class when the police budged in, asking for all room 5 girls (us) to meet them at our room. We were all surprised no one suspected anything until when we got to the room and saw the crying little poky pooky baby under the bed, we were asking one another who the baby was, but no one knew. I was pregnant I checked if my unborn baby was still in my stomach, only to found she was there kicking as always.

Nomsa admitted the baby was hers and she was going to leave him at the boarding house.
She was then arrested and released after a week. Lucky her, she passed, found a job as a nurse and she’s married now. He’s son is as healthy as ever.
Mr Taylor ran away, he’s no where to be found till today.

Nomsa’s son is 10 years and he can see he doesn’t look like his siblings, he’s way too light, but Nomsa can’t tell him that he’s not her husband’s son, because she doesn’t know where to find Mr Taylor.

Her and her family are blaming Mr Taylor while she was the one who seduced him.

Who to blame in this case?
Mr Taylor or Nomsa. *Not real names, but Nomsa is black lady, Mr Taylor is a coloured dude*

75 Comments

Shuga babe
22 Oct 2008 07:08

Schoolgals are having babies Left ,Right and Center, its so breaking my heart to see a 13 year old carrying that Mkhaba!!!!!!

witty lady
22 Oct 2008 07:15

Kodwa labantwana ba these days ba ya phapha yhooo!!! ba rata dilo le banna too much.

tha - bang
22 Oct 2008 07:21

mr.taylor as the adult should have not let it get that far.when i was in high school i had numerous crashes on my teachers some new but none ever acted on it,it would be unprofessional .
but one day i hope she tells the kid the trueth.stuff like teen pregnancy should be avoided but people should not made to feel ashamed or like they are the wretched of the earth if they find themself preggies in school.
i say lets show love and mercy to all cause we all make mistakes theres no sense in gloating on the repurcassions

makgotso
22 Oct 2008 07:23

It's really heart breaking and I once worked next to the clinic iyooooooo they would use our office window as mirrors bachome ngemikhaba yabo. Uyazi kuvele kubve wuwe ozwa ubuhlungu but all they think about imali yeqolo. Okubuhlungu abezwa uma ubakhuza.

cleve
22 Oct 2008 07:24

I think the person who gets pregnant is to blame. Unless you have been raped then it's a different story. I got pregnant when i was 20. i knew exactly what I was doing and I didn't care. We all know that if you sleep with a guy without a condom you are gonaa get pregnant. I have myself to blame and not the guy.

But in this case Mr Taylor is also to blame because he allowed fell for the child's advances.

What is a13 year old doing with a boyfreind having sex?? I really don't undertand please someone explain to me.

Shuga babe
22 Oct 2008 07:26

Maybe Mr taylor had crash on her too, but hers was too obvious. at somepoint these days Teachers are even youner that the learners. so eish! they can't help it but sikalekhekhe ezinganeni.

tha - bang
22 Oct 2008 07:31

Maybe Mr taylor had crash on her too, but hers was too obvious. at somepoint these days Teachers are even youner that the learners. so eish! they can't help it but sikalekhekhe ezinganeni.
im sorry but thats unacceptable its unprofessional and so wrong on many levels its not funny.kids are sent to school to be educated,the teachers should know how to deal with things like these.cause kids are young and impressionable.,its easy for a 13 year to fall for older guys or ladies.i thinkthe taylor dude failed in his duties as a tacher.but thats my take

witty lady
22 Oct 2008 07:36

Couldnt this man get himself a colleague... Mistress mang mang a jole le yena instead like they normally do, I mean he was clearly more mature than the school girl, an adult.

Shuga babe
22 Oct 2008 07:37

@tha - bang, you right, yazi sometimes when your class teacher send your parents an sms saying you'll be home late coz he had to teach Mathamatics. your parents trust him as your teacher so even if you get home at 8:30pm they don't question you coz they know you were with a parent. but abothisha banmuhla you never know.

Cnglemother
22 Oct 2008 07:37

shame i was walking with one (looks 14) this morning to the taxis, she's taking the baby to creche first and the way she is holding the baby u can see udinekile. Imagine doing that everyday, winter-summer-spring as a teenager with no social life at all.

JadaPinkett
22 Oct 2008 07:41

Oh! Yeah......It's very sad to see some parent stuggling with their children and the fathers run away...But we keep on being pregnant while we see the bad thing happening to others, anyway Nomsa girl is the one who was following the Mr

JadaPinkett
22 Oct 2008 07:45

anyway Nomsa girl is the one who was following the Mr Taylor just beacuse he had a beautiful eyes buka-ke manje coz wamhlaba qede wamshiya kanjalo,
Kodwa you mean you can join everysport in school just because you aroung someone and you want that guy to *bleep!* you and live like amafinyilo.
Comeon ladies valani amathanaga enu otherwise you gonna have the babies who doesn't know their real dad.

JadaPinkett
22 Oct 2008 07:47

Ngike ngibone naloku kwasekhaya okuncane she's eleven yrs old but akuzikhohliwe kuna16-18 kuyawathanda amadoda, she used to play with one of my neighbour they alwayz together and kujabula kufe if u caaling umakoti kaSyanda.

LM
22 Oct 2008 07:55

Kodwa labantwana ba these days ba ya phapha yhooo!!! ba rata dilo le banna too much. You can say that again Witty Lady! In our times teenage pregnancy was there but not this rife...abantwana bamanje spread them legs too early maaan and they are too forward...when they want a man they go for him no matter what! okay, going back to read!

Best-Achiever
22 Oct 2008 07:56

Im with tha-bang ...a teacher atschool is supposed to be a parent to a student and to lead ...not to rob or allow themselves to take part i roobing children of their youth.... i just cant imagine how does one cope with being a parent at 15-22 year ..scary stuff.

molibelis
22 Oct 2008 07:56

Just wanna register my name and go to have all.

Shuga babe
22 Oct 2008 07:56

OMG JP, Its so sad coz kids are becoming killers.
see Nomsa was gonna leave her child at the school house, maybe she lied she was gonna kill the baby.

my 9 year daughter said to me one day, "Mom I want you to do my hair very nice, I want to be HOT at the school Movie Day" mmmmm ayi i don't know!!!!

witty lady
22 Oct 2008 07:59

@LM, True they dont care they'll even go after married men they even have the guts to tell u ukuthi they want your man.... mare they can't even write a decent essay, PHAPHA!!

molibelis
22 Oct 2008 07:59

@SugaliciuousWhat do you think about the Pregnancy of School gals, especially when male teachers (WHO SUPPOSE TO BE PARENTING THE POOR LEARNERS) are the ones who got them pregnant..........Ok,nna i dnt find it Bad cause those teachers need Girlfriends so if we dnt want to have them who will,must we through them away......?let me read the next Parag..........i will come back

molibelis
22 Oct 2008 08:02

look at his lovely eyes>>>>Nawe ono mo bekile(poor zulu or Xhosa)

Shuga babe
22 Oct 2008 08:03

Trible LOL @Molibelis

lepogo
22 Oct 2008 08:04

Oh come on now!!!

Please stop w\already.There has always been teenage pregnancy-my had me in her teens,and not too many of us can say they NEVER experimented at that age.

This is simple:theres now too many people in SA,compared with when lots of you were in their teens,so it will seem that theres more teenage pregnancy.

Im not sure whats everyones problem is-whether they having sex or the results of having sex are there for all to see??

Hlehle
22 Oct 2008 08:06

I have a 15yrs old cousin and she is 8 months pregnant. I was so ashamed when i saw her. She even dropped out of school. Nomsa is to blame not Mr Taylor coz she knew exactly what was going to happen and she shud tell the boy who his father.

molibelis
22 Oct 2008 08:09

@ shugalicious........ when we got to the room and saw the crying little poky pooky baby under the bed, pls man,Dnt play Monkeys with us........U girls Knew hore Nomsa was Preg.........9mnths,without seeing that Mkhize's Mkhaba? No,Man pls tell us the Truth........I mean Now.

witty lady
22 Oct 2008 08:11

@Molibelis....LOL!! true dat!

molibelis
22 Oct 2008 08:13

Who to blame in this case? No one is to blamed,cause Nomsa is happly married and Mr Tylor is no-where to be found.

witty lady
22 Oct 2008 08:15

HAHAHA HEHEHE!!! HUWIII!!

Cande
22 Oct 2008 08:18

This is simple:theres now too many people in SA,compared with when lots of you were in their teens,so it will seem that theres more teenage pregnancy

statistics work with %'s Lepogo, so it doesnt matter how many teenagers they are at that particular time if its 72% teenage pregnancy then it means 72% of the teenagers at that particular time are pregnant whether its 100 teenagers or 500 teenagers..
What the blooggers mean is that the statistics where not that high in their days, and there wasnt a lof of this STI's then.

Shuga babe
22 Oct 2008 08:22

"pls man,Dnt play Monkeys with us........U girls Knew hore Nomsa was Preg.........9mnths,without seeing that Mkhize's Mkhaba? No,Man pls tell us the Truth........I mean Now." @molibelis I'm telling you we didn't know !!
phela she was a sdudla. but really we didn't suspect anything. she anoyed us with the hair dryer which Mr Taylor bought it for her. we just left to do final touches of the subject we were going to write at the school. we left her alone maybe thats where she gave birth alone in the house. scary heee!!!!!

Best-Achiever
22 Oct 2008 08:24

i have a sister(my uncles' daughter) ... she got pregnant when she was 15, she had her first baby at 16, then again got pregnant and had her second child at 18 and when she was 20 she got a third child, she will be 21 in December and she already has 3 kids .... to top it all we just find out that there are from different boys(cant call them fathers), all along we only knew and she always fooled everybody including the guy who thought he was the father of all the children, only to find out he never got her pregnant in the first place.

faraimagic
22 Oct 2008 08:24

There is a lot of kids as young as 13 in Grahamstown who already have 1-2year old babbies...Its scary to think of it ...wen you put it this way...so how old was she wen she had this baby?

LM
22 Oct 2008 08:26

Please stop w\already.There has always been teenage pregnancy-my had me in her teens,and not too many of us can say they NEVER experimented at that age. Lepogo, our worry is that the age at which teenagers get peggies these days is getting younger/lower....when I was 13-16, I was still playing mgusha on the street. Kids of today are young hot things at the age of 12 n they won't be caught dead doing or playing childish stuff...

Im not sure whats everyones problem is-whether they having sex or the results of having sex are there for all to see?? Our concern now is that they don't take care of themselves by taking protective measures, hence the pregnancies! As for them having sex, I think we've already lost that battle!

my 9 year daughter said to me one day, "Mom I want you to do my hair very nice, I want to be HOT at the school Movie Day" mmmmm ayi i don't know!!!! see what I mean?

Mathaz
22 Oct 2008 08:27

It's sad that teenagers are engaging in sex at such a young age. As much as we can say that young girls are impressionable i think everything at the end boils down to the parents and the way the instill discipline, respect in their daughter's life. City Press covered this story thoroughly this past Sunday and is worth a read, check it out.

WhiteSockGirl
22 Oct 2008 08:28

Yeah, well, I can't reply to articles like these without writing an article within an article cause I have my own set opinion about people who are suppose to be the guardians and protectors of our children.

shnugy
22 Oct 2008 08:29

Nomsa o rata dilo....period! Why allow him to have sex without a condom in the first place?
U girls Knew hore Nomsa was Preg.........9mnths,without seeing that Mkhize's Mkhaba? No,Man pls tell us the Truth........I mean Now @ Mobelis.Im with u on this 1. How is it possible 4 a girl to carry a child 4 9mnths nd no1 notices?Hai gonkga legotlo mo!

LM
22 Oct 2008 08:32

Earth
22 Oct 2008 08:34

Teenage pregnancy has been around for many years,its just that back in the day,families used to hide this thing.ie..pretending the granny is the mom,or marrying away the girl.I myself became a mom at 19,so I don't judge teenage mothers,nor do I encourage it.sometimes teens make the wrong choices,I mean we've all done things we are not proud of.Nna I honestly believe gore if parents start spending more time actually raising their kids,government grant stops,sugar daddies should also be sent to prison,teenage pregnancy levels will go down.People don't care anymore,this whole children rights thing is just a mess,kids know they can do whatever they want and all that happens is that they get sent to their rooms.

LM
22 Oct 2008 08:36

@ Mobelis.Im with u on this 1. How is it possible 4 a girl to carry a child 4 9mnths nd no1 notices?Hai gonkga legotlo mo! Very possible molibelis and shnugy, not everyone shows when they are preg. there are a couple of cases where girls just kept quite until their parents found out on the last day

Shuga babe
22 Oct 2008 08:38

@Shnugy, a 13 year old girl from my grandmom rural areas got pregnant for 9months nobody noticed anything until when she gave birth. her mother was so shocked she helped her gave birth to a baby boy.
she ran to call my grandmom but when they got back the child was dead, no one knows what happened to the child, maybe the mother kill the child who know.

Best-Achiever
22 Oct 2008 08:44

And schoolwise, is she doing something about her future BA?

LM .... except for mothering her kids NO, my uncle gave up on her .... In June i went home and spoke to my uncle asking for his permit to take her with me so she can do at least i call centre course, my uncle exact words were "sisi, she got an equal chance as any other child here im my house, i forgave her at first, then second time i didnt know what have i not taught her and for the third time, i just knew that the only thing that she wants is to be a mother, so allow her to do what she wants, and if you take her(which i disapprove), be sure she takes all her children, nobody here will be able to raise children of another women " .... so ke ya things are just like that, and im so afraid she gonna get pregnant again but i cant afford to take her and her kids with me NO, i wont afford them and the nanny.

Cande
22 Oct 2008 08:49

shame BA yyou really tried helping her yazi, taking a cow with 3 calves Haiye thatz a bit too much.

Shuga babe
22 Oct 2008 08:52

@BA, sound like you have a baby making machine at your uncle's house.

We all make mistakes, but some people don’t learn from their mistakes. I had my baby when I was 18, I blamed nobody but myself. I leant on my mistake; I am old enough now with 1 baby. It’s a disgrace what somekids do!!!!!

molibelis
22 Oct 2008 08:52

Like God said,No child is a Mistake,we are all not Mistakes.............Can we just let them to produce more,

sexyd
22 Oct 2008 08:58

Like God said,No child is a Mistake,we are all not Mistakes.............Can we just let them to produce more,

LOL at Molibelis

Shuga babe
22 Oct 2008 08:58

"Like God said,No child is a Mistake,we are all not Mistakes.............Can we just let them to produce more," Molibelis, do you hear what you saying???? you have no idea how much i wanted to have a 21st birthday, but i couldn't coz i rushed things zabantu abadala. my child is not a mistake but I made a mistake by having her at such age. but because she's a gift from God I love her with all mu heart.

HOT BABY
22 Oct 2008 09:00

lady must be blamed bcoz is the one who follow the man and ask him many things. utitsha unemizwa naye kuba ngmntu and uyabona ngamehlo. also the teacher had put a blame 2 him coz of living da baby and not telling the lady where is going to.

JadaPinkett
22 Oct 2008 09:00

I have five babie two twins which are 13 months, one is Grade 5, one is Grade 3 and one is in grade 1 and I'm 21 years old but I never thought of living them emigqomeni/emapayipini.

molibelis
22 Oct 2008 09:01

Imagen falling Preg in 40yrs, i fall preg in 12 yrs,cause now our sister are married without kids,they told themselves hore they will fall preg when they got Marr.......but now emty tummy, SO who do we Blame?

JadaPinkett
22 Oct 2008 09:03

I think Mr Taylor can't be balmeat sometimes coz uNomsa was the one who wanted ukuvula amathanga for uMr Taylor,wampiqa wampiqa wampiqa mean(wamudla) uMr Tayor. phela amadoda anunuselwa ngenkomo.

Cande
22 Oct 2008 09:05

AS IN TWO SETS OF TWINS JADAPINKETT?? I FIND IT HARD TO BELIEVE THAT AT 21 YOU HAVE 5 KIDS.

sexyd
22 Oct 2008 09:05

but now emty tummy, SO who do we Blame? LMFFAO!!! do u ever stop mara!!!!

We blame them for not falling pregnant while they where in High School!!! ............. :-o

JadaPinkett
22 Oct 2008 09:06

can't be balmeat ..............meant can't be balme at sometimes

Shuga babe
22 Oct 2008 09:09

"i fall preg in 12 yrs,..I guess the father was your teacher !!! bengingakayi ngisho kumaperiod at that age Molibelis Wow! *with my mouth wild open* hahahah!!!!!!

its so hard when your parents had to take care of you and the fatherless baby!!! siyabahlupha abazali shame.

Best-Achiever
22 Oct 2008 09:15

shame BA yyou really tried helping her yazi, taking a cow with 3 calves Haiye thatz a bit too much.

@Cande ... ya shem i tried and i'll try again in Dec, i also afraid of what can happen if both her parents can die, who'll take feed her and her babies ...surely i wont be out there having good time knowing that some ppl im my family sleep in water ....so i'll just try to soften my uncle atlest to allow the kids to stay there, i'll pay for Nanny and once she finish the course and get job, she'll take over .....

PY
22 Oct 2008 09:17

Yha these things happens....my fathers sister got her firstborn...when she was 14...the twins when she was 16(unfortunately 1 twin died)...the other baby when she was 18(and this one also died)....she did the same thing again and again....now shes 42, has 5 children....3 died.....so all in all she gave birth to 8 children.....just imagine if there were all still alive
BA...ur sister (uncles daughter) reminds me of my fathers sister

PY
22 Oct 2008 09:27

My younger sister is 17 in her matric, and has a 2 month old son....shame shes strugling u can tell from her face that she regrets it....last nite we didn'nt sleep...the baby was crying for the whole nite.....I always told her about life...but she did not listen to her sis....feel for her though...

Shuga babe
22 Oct 2008 09:29

@BA you have a good heart, mina will never do that. coz to me it looks like you the one who's worried but yena akanandaba. The school fess is sooooo expencive in one child can't imagine 3 kuyozwakala!!!!!!

cleve
22 Oct 2008 09:38

@BA I would rather invest in the kids because the mother doesn't seem like she's serious. Some people just never learn.

I am married now but I will wait to be older before I have my next kid because I know I won't be able to take care of another baby so soon. My son is turning 3 next month. For now I am content with what I have. Making a future for me and my family, and making babies will come after.

andi01
22 Oct 2008 09:52

@ Jada PinkettI have five babie two twins which are 13 months, one is Grade 5, one is Grade 3 and one is in grade 1 and I'm 21 years old but I never thought of living them emigqomeni/emapayipini. sukuxoka man please, thyini whats the lies for.

two twins = 4 babies (thatha Mandoza)
one is Grade 5, one= that means she is 11 years old
1 and I'm 21 years = meaning u had ur first child at 10 years of age, nigga please

Nonny
22 Oct 2008 09:54

LOL

JadaPinkett
22 Oct 2008 10:27

one is in Grade 5 and she's 9 yrs old

JadaPinkett
22 Oct 2008 10:30

I hot the first one when I was 12 remember I got raped by Speedy(singer) but I love him though he raped me, he raped me so good and he's looking after his baby.

Cnglemother
22 Oct 2008 10:32

Jada where can i get iglycerine&borax? the mhlobo mdala one not johnson & johnson fancy stuff.

cleve
22 Oct 2008 10:41

JP are you okay in the head??? Just asking.

andi01
22 Oct 2008 10:42

one is in Grade 5 and she's 9 yrs old - i thot u can only start school when you 6/7, but your genius started at 5 woow, yazi i just hope when the topic is serious we can all be, there are a lot of humurous articles that we can joke all we want.

andi01
22 Oct 2008 10:43

@cleve-JP are you okay in the head??? Just asking. after so many births, i doubt if the womb is okay, or shud we call it the wooooooooooomb

Cnglemother
22 Oct 2008 10:47

Andi i think she's joking maan, she cant be for real

LM
22 Oct 2008 10:57

LMAO @ JP....haaai maan.

Cngle: glycerine as in the Dolly Vaden one? Check it at Pick n pay, Spar, checkers, shoprite...actually everywhere. don't know what a borax is....

Cnglemother
22 Oct 2008 11:01

LM no dear not that lovie, for the baby's tongue- its used to clean baby's tongue.

LM
22 Oct 2008 11:05

Ok Cnglema, then I'm clueless when it comes to baby stuff...

cleve
22 Oct 2008 11:16

Cngle ma I know what you are talking about.. But I did it the "black' way. Take sugar and a very clean cloth. Wet the cloth a little so the suga canstick on it and rub it on the baby's tongue. OR use NYSTACID it's drops every night just give him the right amount of drops and the tongue will be clean. You can find it in any chemist.

Best-Achiever
23 Oct 2008 01:56

@BA I would rather invest in the kids because the mother doesn't seem like she's serious. Some people just never learn.

@Cleve ... i did think about that but im so afraid that they gonna be many of them i wouldnt be able to afford all of them, so i thought maybe if i get the mother to Study and work then i'll force her to save money for her kids(stop order to their granny).

Shuga babe
23 Oct 2008 02:15

Talking about kids, Did anyone of you watched Khumbulekhaya last night tjo uNomathamsanqa!!!!!!!!

GML
24 Oct 2008 09:55

She is now Somaya. I cannot believe that she would allow herself to be put in that situation. But going back home ezilalini is just not on........
But ke at least someone has found her a job

Shuga babe
24 Oct 2008 09:59

@GML , Nami shame i don't think going to ezilalini its good idea, even if she's got a job. she needs to get out of that house and find herself a new place to stay coz she's working not going back . ya right visiting ezilalini is good idea.

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