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Tessa's Thoughts: Week 5

Written by TVSA Team from the blog SCD5: Tessa van Duuren on 03 Nov 2008
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Tjo tjo tjo, we’ve reached the halfway mark and the pressure is on, oh it’s OON!!

I had a breakdown this week; my body just couldn’t cope with all the physical training of dancing and horse riding that I cram into my days, and in our session on Tuesday I was literally seeing stars. Tears were rolling down my cheeks but I was laughing at the same time, because I didn’t even know why I was crying!

The mind was willing but the flesh was weak, so we cancelled two days of training. I’ve never been so in love with my bed before - I got home and fell into a coma at 5pm, only to wake up the next day at 10am!!! 17 HOURS of SLEEP!!! UN.believable.

The rest obviously did me the world of good, because by Thursday I was totally refreshed, and for the first time I think I was the only one that WASN’T nervous!! Big ups to the girls, Cindy and Hlubi, for their dramatic improvements… ‘twas tooo cool seeing their fighting spirits on the dance floor with the Paso Doble!

I still thought Rob was great entertainment, even though he looked a bit stressed about his routine and how he’d rushed through it. Ballroom is no joke I tell you, it LOOKS so simple but apart from the technical difficulty of feet and body positions, the timing and fluidity is crucial. And when that adrenaline hits you on the dance floor, you have to muster up all your strength and control to keep it flowing…

I feel like a young, over-excited thoroughbred going into a race as I start to dance, and all I hear throughout the routine is my trainer’s deep voice in my ear going “EEEASY girl, EEASY…”

Thankfully our routine flowed fruitfully, and we got top marks again baby, YEAH!!:) More importantly, I felt really chilled throughout the day and just had a blast on the dance floor that night. Because I’m an obsessive compulsive perfectionist, I often work too hard on getting the technique right, but I’m now learning to let go and make mistakes in the name of fun (I actually never thought I could have FUN in a ballroom dance - the Latin dances are much more conducive to that!).

What really had me laughing throughout the night was my oh-so-elegant use of my outfit. The ‘wings’ I had hanging from my arms definitely didn’t have me flying that night. I’m clumsy at the best of times - the type of person that walks into glass doors and trips and falls going UP the stairs, let alone down!

And on Thursday I put my drape to good use by getting it caught on every possible object that happened to be in my way - from the stairs, to the railings (twice!), to my SHOE at the end of our routine, and I even managed to hook it to the button on Grant’s sleeve while I was chatting to Sandy after our dance!

He looked like he had a nervous twitch - gently, repetitively jerking his arm aside while our backstage manager Schon tried to unravel the thing. He gave up and ripped the button off.

Huge thanks to our designer, Kurt van der Muller, for his magnificent creations. I never had Barbie dolls to dress up and play with as a kid (naturally, I had My Little Ponies - a whole stable-yard of them), so I’m definitely making up for that by dressing myself to the nines every week! I felt so glam in that gorgeous silver number. And Kurt also designed Cindy’s stunner-of-a-dress.

Now the whole day Queen’s song “Under Pressure” was resonating through my head, as I watched, somewhat serenely amused, at just what this competition has done to everyone competing in it ...

We’ve lost loads of weight (they should just put The Biggest Loser contestants on THIS reality show and all their problems will be solved!), our skins have broken out into spots, our muscles are throbbing with exhaustion, our emotions are aboard some ridiculous stomach-wrenching rollercoaster ride, the tension backstage is tangible, and even some of the bubbliest and most vociferous characters on the show are now sporting a blank look of oblivion on their faces that are too weary to even acknowledge what’s happening around them… and to top it all off, Grant worked himself up so much that he vomited his lunch out before the live show. Charming.

Despite all this, the couples are becoming even MORE determined to push through. One of them is now starting their training at 4 O’CLOCK in the MORNING!!! That MUST be a candidate for Crazzzy Monkey? EXTREME.

Grant and I average about four hours a day. Well, we set aside six, of which two hours are spent eating lunch, having interviews and general faffing. Grant and I are great faffers. We get on like we’ve been best buds since birth, so we sometimes get totally carried away on a tangent in some conversation that has nothing to do with Strictly. Then one of us (usually me) slaps the other back into shape and we get back to business.

This weekend Grant and I joined in a Downs Syndrome Association Fun Day with the Cape Riding Horse cc in Pretoria, which was a real eye-opener. My heart goes out to those kids; they are so brave. It’s just amazing and heart-warming to watch their absolute enjoyment of life. We met a 3-year-old girl who has survived Leukaemia after numerous operations. That was heart-wrenching. Puts your own silly problems into perspective.

After the fun day we went back to training for our Samba, which I’m super-excited about… I get to use my WHIP, and that’s all I’m gonna say...

So before I write a novel here (I have VERBAL diarrhoea this week…), let me end by thanking you for your votes, and please keep them coming in!! Please SMS couple “’3” to 34766, ‘cause me ‘n G have some serious moves that you need to see!!!



30 Comments

Toxic
03 Nov 2008 17:25

Tess, i love reading your articles....keep the verbal diarrhoea (silly that this word isn't spelt diarea) up.

Because I’m an obsessive compulsive perfectionist, I often work too hard on getting the technique right, but I’m now learning to let go and make mistakes in the name of fun (I actually never thought I could have FUN in a ballroom dance - the Latin dances are much more conducive to that!).

it comes across when you dance. The transition from tense Tess to what you've become can be seen each time you dance. There used to be a look of PURE concentration on your face before..now you look like it's something you do again and again.

We’ve lost loads of weight (they should just put The Biggest Loser contestants on THIS reality show and all their problems will be solved!), our skins have broken out into spots,

Why?


This weekend Grant and I joined in a Downs Syndrome Association Fun Day with the Cape Riding Horse cc in Pretoria, which was a real eye-opener. My heart goes out to those kids; they are so brave. It’s just amazing and heart-warming to watch their absolute enjoyment of life. We met a 3-year-old girl who has survived Leukaemia after numerous operations. That was heart-wrenching. Puts your own silly problems into perspective. 

True. So much we complain about that pales in comparison to the battles some children fight daily....

Questions i am hoping you can answer for me:

Is it true that you guys get paid R9000.00 for each performance on the show? Is it taxed? Do you get paid every week or will you get paid after the elimination?

With Blogzilla getting in 'trouble' the other day on his blog, do you sense that other participants treat him differently? Does he get the cold shoulder from some of the participants? Basically, how does everyone else relate to Gugu?

Do you offer horse-riding lessons? 

TessTess
03 Nov 2008 21:42

Thanks Toxic! 

So to answer your questions: 

spotty skins - because of stress, both physical and psychological.. 

I obviously can't talk about our payments on the internet... why don't you go ask Blogzilla, I'm sure he'll be more than willing to oblige :) 

Yes I do believe that everyone is wary of what they say around him, which is actually very sad for him because he may be stopping himself from forming any close or trusting bonds with people.  

I wouldn't say that any of us give him the cold shoulder, but personally, I now feel like I have one of those sensationalist journalists around me all the time, where you have to be so careful of what you say because anything could be taken out of context merely for the sake of controversial gossip. 

Hence, he misses out on the real juicy stuff that some of us keep between ourselves! He does seem like a nice guy though, so it's a pity that he closes doors on himself like that.

And lastly, no I don't give horse riding lessons. That IS what most people do to make a living out of horses, but I have so many other interests too that I want to pursue. I do run a stabling business though, where I keep horses for clients and look after them.




 

Beyonce
03 Nov 2008 21:50

>>>obviously can't talk about our payments on the internet... why don't you go ask Blogzilla, I'm sure he'll be more than willing to oblige :) <<< He he he, pretty and funny tooo, I like.

Looking forward to your dance this Thursday, Oh andmy offer still stand--- (pls check your WEEK 4 blog replies)

Brown Shuga
03 Nov 2008 21:56

<<<I obviously can't talk about our payments on the internet... why don't you go ask Blogzilla, I'm sure he'll be more than willing to oblige :) >>> 
Triple CANDE!

TessTess
03 Nov 2008 22:33

BAHAHAHA just checked week 4 again, thanks Beyonce!! Your muti will def come in handy...  It's gonna have to be some see-ri-US strong stuff cos he's a little energiser bunny!!

Segololo
03 Nov 2008 23:03

TessTess, my money is on you so keep giving me a good show, i'll keep spending my money on you... i just love the way you gracefully glide on the stage... you make it look ssssso easy but take care and don't burn-out, i need you in the finals!! a bit selfish but yah, we all pay for quality...

Toxic
03 Nov 2008 17:25

Tess, i love reading your articles....keep the verbal diarrhoea (silly that this word isn't spelt diarea) up.

Because I’m an obsessive compulsive perfectionist, I often work too hard on getting the technique right, but I’m now learning to let go and make mistakes in the name of fun (I actually never thought I could have FUN in a ballroom dance - the Latin dances are much more conducive to that!).

it comes across when you dance. The transition from tense Tess to what you've become can be seen each time you dance. There used to be a look of PURE concentration on your face before..now you look like it's something you do again and again.

We’ve lost loads of weight (they should just put The Biggest Loser contestants on THIS reality show and all their problems will be solved!), our skins have broken out into spots,

Why?


This weekend Grant and I joined in a Downs Syndrome Association Fun Day with the Cape Riding Horse cc in Pretoria, which was a real eye-opener. My heart goes out to those kids; they are so brave. It’s just amazing and heart-warming to watch their absolute enjoyment of life. We met a 3-year-old girl who has survived Leukaemia after numerous operations. That was heart-wrenching. Puts your own silly problems into perspective. 

True. So much we complain about that pales in comparison to the battles some children fight daily....

Questions i am hoping you can answer for me:

Is it true that you guys get paid R9000.00 for each performance on the show? Is it taxed? Do you get paid every week or will you get paid after the elimination?

With Blogzilla getting in 'trouble' the other day on his blog, do you sense that other participants treat him differently? Does he get the cold shoulder from some of the participants? Basically, how does everyone else relate to Gugu?

Do you offer horse-riding lessons? 

belz
04 Nov 2008 08:49

Tess!!!!!!! you rock that dance floor gal!!!! I think i saw you at VA in Lonehill, really wanted to do my groupie things which scare me sometimes but i was too scared. Go get that cup for the ladies. poor Blogzilla :-(

Cande
04 Nov 2008 08:57

LOL@BS

ziggi
04 Nov 2008 10:00

<<<Despite all this, the couples are becoming even MORE determined to push through. One of them is now starting their training at 4 O’CLOCK in the MORNING!!! That MUST be a candidate for Crazzzy Monkey? EXTREME. >>>

Ahaaa!!Isee now you are also taking lessons from Gugz.Good.That's very good.Now tell us who is that couple???C'mon dont be shy now.You started it so you better finish it. You are coming right.

BTW, loved your perfomance as ALWAYS you rocked the dance floor!

Cande
04 Nov 2008 10:03

sigh

TessTess
03 Nov 2008 21:42

Thanks Toxic! 

So to answer your questions: 

spotty skins - because of stress, both physical and psychological.. 

I obviously can't talk about our payments on the internet... why don't you go ask Blogzilla, I'm sure he'll be more than willing to oblige :) 

Yes I do believe that everyone is wary of what they say around him, which is actually very sad for him because he may be stopping himself from forming any close or trusting bonds with people.  

I wouldn't say that any of us give him the cold shoulder, but personally, I now feel like I have one of those sensationalist journalists around me all the time, where you have to be so careful of what you say because anything could be taken out of context merely for the sake of controversial gossip. 

Hence, he misses out on the real juicy stuff that some of us keep between ourselves! He does seem like a nice guy though, so it's a pity that he closes doors on himself like that.

And lastly, no I don't give horse riding lessons. That IS what most people do to make a living out of horses, but I have so many other interests too that I want to pursue. I do run a stabling business though, where I keep horses for clients and look after them.




 

Beyonce
03 Nov 2008 21:50

>>>obviously can't talk about our payments on the internet... why don't you go ask Blogzilla, I'm sure he'll be more than willing to oblige :) <<< He he he, pretty and funny tooo, I like.

Looking forward to your dance this Thursday, Oh andmy offer still stand--- (pls check your WEEK 4 blog replies)

Brown Shuga
03 Nov 2008 21:56

<<<I obviously can't talk about our payments on the internet... why don't you go ask Blogzilla, I'm sure he'll be more than willing to oblige :) >>> 
Triple CANDE!

TessTess
03 Nov 2008 22:33

BAHAHAHA just checked week 4 again, thanks Beyonce!! Your muti will def come in handy...  It's gonna have to be some see-ri-US strong stuff cos he's a little energiser bunny!!

Segololo
03 Nov 2008 23:03

TessTess, my money is on you so keep giving me a good show, i'll keep spending my money on you... i just love the way you gracefully glide on the stage... you make it look ssssso easy but take care and don't burn-out, i need you in the finals!! a bit selfish but yah, we all pay for quality...

belz
04 Nov 2008 08:49

Tess!!!!!!! you rock that dance floor gal!!!! I think i saw you at VA in Lonehill, really wanted to do my groupie things which scare me sometimes but i was too scared. Go get that cup for the ladies. poor Blogzilla :-(

Cande
04 Nov 2008 08:57

LOL@BS

ziggi
04 Nov 2008 10:00

<<<Despite all this, the couples are becoming even MORE determined to push through. One of them is now starting their training at 4 O’CLOCK in the MORNING!!! That MUST be a candidate for Crazzzy Monkey? EXTREME. >>>

Ahaaa!!Isee now you are also taking lessons from Gugz.Good.That's very good.Now tell us who is that couple???C'mon dont be shy now.You started it so you better finish it. You are coming right.

BTW, loved your perfomance as ALWAYS you rocked the dance floor!

Cande
04 Nov 2008 10:03

sigh

Anzo
04 Nov 2008 14:33

Hey Tess, wanted 2 say LUVED ur performance & I'm so lookin 4wrd 2 ur "WHIP" theme this Thursday, but PLEASE don't hurt him 2 much I would like my ma back in 1 piece, Thanx

Anzo
04 Nov 2008 14:33

Hey Tess, wanted 2 say LUVED ur performance & I'm so lookin 4wrd 2 ur "WHIP" theme this Thursday, but PLEASE don't hurt him 2 much I would like my ma back in 1 piece, Thanx

Anzo
04 Nov 2008 14:39

OOOOPPSSS had a bit of a moment there meant to say I would like my MAN back in 1 piece, LOL! U still ROCK BTW!

GML
04 Nov 2008 15:14

TessTess.  You are good.

I hope you win this. Well the comp it between you, and the two comedians.
Which dance are you doing? Samba? Please do it right and I will vote

Toxic
07 Nov 2008 10:53

Tessa, what went through your mind when you realised you could potentially be voted off?

I am glad you were saved :)

coutureguru
07 Nov 2008 14:26

Thanks Tess :o) ... it's such a pleasure working for and with you!!! Keep at it babes ... you are such a star!!! Kisses ... and no more peacock feathers :o) ... Kurt

monchooza
07 Nov 2008 14:32

Kurt and please make sure that her dresses dont disturb her when she is on the floor......this is our Dance Queen

TessTess
07 Nov 2008 21:14

Segololo... THANKS a MIL!!

Belz.... yip, we train at VA Lonehill a few days a week, so don'y be shy, come say hi next time!:)

Couture guru... what an apt pseudonym! Thanks so much, and keep those peacock feathers faaar away from me ok!!!:) 

Thanks so so much for your support guys.... and Toxic, I'm still catching my breath after last night...CLOSE CALL... but will write my blog tomorrow so it'll all be in there on Monday..

coutureguru
08 Nov 2008 07:42

Will definitely try monchooza ... dresses unfortunately have a life of their own and control freak that I am ... sometimes I just have to leave it in the hands of fate :o).

Beyonce
08 Nov 2008 15:25

Hey Tess, am so glad you survived gal! It would have been a disaster had you left- I was going to 'eliminate' someone :)


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