What Have you Got to loose?

Written by Amza from the blog It can be confusing... on 24 Feb 2009
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So it is Saturday and I thought I must just drive pass my friend's house since I hadnot seen her in a while and I stood her up for our dinner date just the other night. I have a code to open her gate so I thought I’m not even going to buzz, I'll just let myself in. I knocked at her door and to my shocking horror her ex boyfriend opens the door ( this was like 8:00 in the morning) . Mhh… for a second there I thought I knocked on the wrong door and quickly said ohhh.. I thought this was so and so's place and he said yes it is at that time she was making her way towards the door I sighed as a sigh of relief. (I obviously thought maybe the bastard broke into her place) don’t ask me why I thought that. So I gave her that what is going on look as he walked away to go and a take a shower and I said to her but I thought you guys broke up months ago and she says that yes we did…phela at that moment I looked even more confused. She went on to say to me well we still keep in contact, speak every so often. And when we see each other more than often we end up sleeping together. We know it’s not the wise thing to do but we can't help it. We get on well still and both flirt all the time even on the phone, we're still attracted to each other, that’s clear! So I thought this is crazy bathong, as she was making her way to the Kitchen she turned and looked and said BESIDES WE HAVE NOTHING TO LOOSE? IT IS NOT LIKE WE HAD NOT DONE IT BEFORE?

So now I started asking myself it is okay or if it guarantees that if we are to do it again nothing is lost anyway?

15 Comments

Amza
24 Feb 2009 16:01

Is this justified?

andi01
24 Feb 2009 16:04

And when we see each other more than often we end up sleeping together. We know it’s not the wise thing to do but we can't help it. - My trilema i talked about on the other blog, we cant resist each ada shame, he is so good in bed.

Ngqesta
24 Feb 2009 16:09

LOL LOL LOL..All my ex(es) hate my guts....so in my case I'd have EVERYTHING to lose for I know fo sure it would be more to get bacck at me for WHATEVER they believe I did to them(...which I still don't know til today, that much I must add).

myname
24 Feb 2009 16:12

Amza dear it happens but it depends 2 both of u. Yes its strange kuwe but i know what she means lol.

Bye bye

Cande
24 Feb 2009 16:16

Nothing beats the pleasure of shagging an ex

J-Girl
24 Feb 2009 16:16

molo Nqesta... its been awhile (maybe on my side)
soze ndithi sleep nesdala unotshe iimpundu zelawu... soze!!!!!
its wrong and it mustnt happen if u have no formal plans of getting back together!

Amza
24 Feb 2009 16:16

Lol...@Ngqesta my thought exactly, my exes would hire hitmen to get rid of me,hahaha...

andi01
24 Feb 2009 16:17

As long as its not strings attached, tahts what happens when u break up while u still love one anada, when circumstanecs force you to break up.

Ngqesta
24 Feb 2009 16:22

Wazup J-Girl...it's been a while indeed....khumbula ke sanalwam...usoze sistulo sodaka...LOL LOL

@Cande....explain gain...what is it such a pleasure...is it bcoz you enjoy him so much...or is it a case of getting back at the current Ms Thang for picking after you ...LOL

andi01
24 Feb 2009 16:30

@Ngqesta- i think the fact that, you havent shagged him in a while, the energy he brings in just to prove to you that he is still "hot", and the fact that you know there wont be no heart aches after this, i guess that soem of teh pleasure that Cande is talkin abaout,

Ngqesta
24 Feb 2009 16:33

@Andi....sob'uphind'ndive ndithetha...ndikvile sistaz.

andi01
24 Feb 2009 16:35

Can anyone direct me to the "being saved" article

zolx
24 Feb 2009 16:48

when i first broke up with my ex...i spent most of my 'single'' time thinking of him. he was the only ex who made an impact in my life. So thot of getting back together with him and even missed the sex. So a year or so after the break up he came to my place for a weekend and we shagged and i thot to myself, 'but he's not as good as he used to be, argh i havent been missing out much". He left and we kept contact the no strings attached kinda friendship or sheggarship and he wanted to come for another weekend (cos we stayed in diff provinces) for a shag and i told him no. The way awayecasuke ngakhona, bet you he got the idea that he wasnt so good the last time..and since then no mo thinking of him for me, no ways.