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Possesiveness whats mine is yours

Written by Brightspark from the blog Family matters on 04 Mar 2009
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Ok….Hi guys I am new….rephrase…this is my first article, I have been monitoring the blogs , all very interesting….

I have however noted the slow down of pace of articles coming up, because everyone just bashes everyone’s articles. Sisan was the best thing since sliced bread and was criticised for putting up too many articles, you chased her off, she had fresh ideas….and debatable topics…now we are stuck to reading about so and so’s childhood- streetwise….which sounds more of a novel than anything…

I would like for us to talk about possessiveness in relationships…I have been dating this guy for almost 3 years now and am inlove with him, we are now engaged to be married….he is the best thing that has even happened to me. But for the last six months I have watched his behaviour changing from loving to obsessive loving….when I don’t answer his calls he hits the roof…I need to tell him where I am at all times….even when I go to the loo at work…I am not allowed to have ANY male friends and most of my female friends are a problem because they choose not to settle down ands prefer married men (that’s their provocative). Not to blow my own horn or something, but I am very attractive woman.

I have spoken to him a number of times and I have never given him the impression that I am cheating on him. I am there for him at his back and call I live with him and he has full access to my phone.. I dont know what to do because he is now talking marriage and it scares me because I don’t want to go into marriage with any baggage.

My friend (the ones I have left) say I have changed and I realise that- he doesn’t hit me when we fight- he just makes sure he ‘hits’ me with one really strong and nasty statement to make me feel like the cheapest most unattractive person on mother earth…

Don’t get me wrong, he is very loving and my family is fond on him and vice versa. He is supportive and very reliable…but…I guess I am speaking like a typical person in an abusive relationship...

Lets talk guys…have you ever been in an abusive relationship? What strengths have you gone through for a guy? Which is first your partner, or your friends? When do you know you need to get out? Where do you draw the line and say enough is enough...?

241 Comments

Best-Achiever
04 Mar 2009 18:18

I have however noted the slow down of pace of articles coming up, because everyone just bashes everyone’s articles. Sisan was the best thing since sliced bread and was criticised for putting up too many articles, you chased her off, she had fresh ideas….and debatable topics…now we are stuck to reading about so and so’s childhood- streetwise….which sounds more of a novel than anything…

@brightspark .... you have a choice to ignore an article if you dont relate to it, if other peeps bash someone's article it doesnt mean that you also have to bash. People have been writting about their lives around here and no one has ever forced anyone to respond to their articles, so you aint stuck . You are also taking us down your journey which to me isnt different from what you are mourning about.

Ngqesta
04 Mar 2009 20:59

he just makes sure he ‘hits’ me with one really strong and nasty statement to make me feel like the cheapest most unattractive person on mother earth......

girl...emotional abuse is one of the worst froms of abuse ever....been there, done that....it gnawls on your self esteem..and at the end of the day you have no scars to show for it hence people never understand your situation cause such abusers are rather charming when there's other people around.

My 2c worth....IT WILL GET WORSE after you guys get married...my take would be..rather stall the marriage issue until you are totally comfortable that he knows and has taken your feelings into consideration regarding this matter. Trust with time IT MIGHT even 'grow' into physical abuse...so rather nip it in the bud immediately.
Good luck

mjj
04 Mar 2009 21:13

now we are stuck to reading about so and so’s childhood- streetwise….which sounds more of a novel than anything…You are actually insulting the author of those articles.......and you stil want people to reply

I was called arrogant on another blog.....let me exercise my arrogance on this article.....

I would like for us to talk about possessiveness in relationships...what makes this article of yours different from the one you insulted??????

I have been dating this guy for almost 3 years now and am inlove with him, we are now engaged to be married...LAWD you have the audacity to say someone's articles sounds like a novel but still you write your own novel about your life????? I'm not going to read further because you have already made insult...

note - I have a choice not to read further....

everyone just bashes everyone’s articles. Sisan was the best thing since sliced bread and was criticised for putting up too many articles, you chased her off, she had fresh ideas….

who's everyone????

HARAMBE24
04 Mar 2009 21:40

Tjooo...Brightspark..you sound lik a real girl..the one that knows what to do but yet asks best friends if she is doing the right thing. Gal..u know very well that you cant marry this guy unless you have resolved his possesive issues...The mistake most gals or women make it to marry a man with a flaw thinking that the man will change..guess what, the man does not change......

Cande
04 Mar 2009 21:46

lol

Brown Shuga
04 Mar 2009 22:00

More like Double LOL Cande!!

Firstdvd
04 Mar 2009 22:08

mathata
04 Mar 2009 22:08

tell your dude to stop what his doing,or else you will blow his balls.

this never happen to me bcs kaloma ga ompalla.

i think you should get someone undergroud,just to compare(lord 4give me),you will never change him...bear in mind.

Lady D
04 Mar 2009 23:06

Vida
04 Mar 2009 23:25

~...Voet voet nonsense...~!!!!!

LOL

Foxxy
04 Mar 2009 23:33

Man, i love these relationship articles..... I never have good advice but they always make me feel better about my own loveless life.

The streetkid series is boring me to DEATH!

Kakapana
04 Mar 2009 23:44

kwa kwa kwa kwa cant wait 4 2mrw...heads are gonna roll...let me watch my delayed live game!

realist
05 Mar 2009 06:29

realist
05 Mar 2009 06:35

Not to blow my own horn or something, but I am very attractive woman.
Right there lies the problem. If you can fix that then you will know what you want in life.

Strolicious
05 Mar 2009 07:56

when I don’t answer his calls he hits the roof…I need to tell him where I am at all times….even when I go to the loo at work…Ur man is cheating on you,he just wanna make sure u not doing da same thing....been there my ex tried to control me...

TheLady
05 Mar 2009 08:08

Provocative--->perogative?

awelani
05 Mar 2009 08:10

I love this place,, LMAO

Brightspark
05 Mar 2009 08:13

Thanks TheLady- got tired of spell check cos I was getting into the article...

Thanks guys most of what you saud really makes sense, I guess deep in my heart I know what is good from me, I just needed to hear it from someone else..someone neutral..

So yes Mathata, ur so right...ur advise might just work...LOL

@ Ngqesta- you hit the nail on the head girl- solid advice..

awelani
05 Mar 2009 08:16

LOL @ TL..

I have however noted the slow down of pace of articles coming up, because everyone just bashes everyone’s articles. Sisan was the best thing since sliced bread and was criticised for putting up too many articles, you chased her off, she had fresh ideas….and debatable topics…now we are stuck to reading about so and so’s childhood- streetwise….which sounds more of a novel than anything… First of all, Sisan never wrote an article, do you call three lines an article?? Second of all, what debatable topics??please refresh my memory..and lastly,,Intead of reading about so an so's childhood, next time click on the red cross on the left of ur pc, go to the gene blog, u are not obliged to read/respond to any article.

i am tired of this voetvoet nonsense articles,people with issues must talk to their friends or go see therapists,or use face book for that matter.you know what you must do but still ask???year in and year out we give same advices,this is not Dr Phill's studio!! ROTFLMBVAOTIPAL....kwa kwakwakwakwa.....u just killed me my Lady.

Toodecent
05 Mar 2009 08:19

So what makes this article different? You just wrote a novel yourself.........

Cande
05 Mar 2009 08:21

yes man, this person knows exactly what she has to do. there is no dilemma here

TheLady
05 Mar 2009 08:22

Wow-I expected you to be defensive and come out with guns blazing.

ziggi
05 Mar 2009 08:22

Provocative--->perogative?
Maybe pRerogative:):):)

awelani
05 Mar 2009 08:25

Tru dat Cande..

She Hates to Admit that she has to leave this guy FAST..
She Hates to admit that she's afraid ppl will judge her and she will probavly be disappointing her family.

Brightspark
05 Mar 2009 08:26

@Awelani Thanks for taking the time to read my article....As I recall Sisan wrote three articles in one day, either you cant read or I cant count...on the same note, you didnt have to reply to this article as u have educated me in your response..

This voet voet nonsense keeps my day going...your welcome to post your interesting articles...I asked for advise, if you have no comment simply read something you CAN comment on

sjura
05 Mar 2009 08:26

First Period: English Class.............
Second Period: Grammar class.......
Third Period: Spelling Class..........

Short Break................................

awelani
05 Mar 2009 08:29

either you cant read or I cant count...ni songo thoma zwithu zwine a ni nga zwiimeli musidzana!!! Ri songo dowelana, ari divhani.

awelani
05 Mar 2009 08:30

LMAO @ sjura...

mademoiselle
05 Mar 2009 08:33

Intersting how people like Sjura have decided to quit their day jobs for teaching..Lovely article Brightspark....

Keep them coming

awelani
05 Mar 2009 08:34

either you cant read or I cant count..U cant count my dear, I mean since you also too dumb to realize that ur in an abusive relationship(emotionally, soon to be physically).

myname
05 Mar 2009 08:35

Iyhoooooo let me run!!!

Brightspark
05 Mar 2009 08:36

Thanks Madam...I put this article to get people talking...its working....I dont care really..bona now how worked up Awelani is...probably even sweating..LOL...*Hilarious..might have spelt that wrong...the again I might take up Sjura's classes ...

Cody
05 Mar 2009 08:37

ROTFLMAOTIPAL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Sisan was the best thing since sliced bread and was criticised for putting up too many articles, you chased her off again i cant stop to ROTFLMAOTIPAL!!!!

dali
05 Mar 2009 08:37

LOL awe nwu byeli ti mhaka ta yena!

nice
05 Mar 2009 08:38

I guess I am speaking like a typical person in an abusive relationship...

yes girl you are in an emotionally abusive relationship, and address it with him now before you even think about getting married. he will not change after you get married but his behaviour may get worse and possibly lead to physical abuse.

Any man who tries to isolate you from friends or family is no good, becasue he makes sure that you have no-one to reassure you, so he can do anything becasue he knows that you will have no-one.

Address it with him, and stall the wedding for at least a year to see if he changes, if he does not RUN for your life, because he will one day "love you to death"

sjura
05 Mar 2009 08:38

Teaching is my job lhalha!!!! MADEMOISELLE!!!!!!!!!!!

mademoiselle
05 Mar 2009 08:40

LOL...@ Foxxy...I am putting up an article on relationships later..hold on tight dear...
Awelani you need to calm down...your the only one having a fit...

Cape Hustlaz
05 Mar 2009 08:41

Which is first your partner, or your friends?

Seems your fiends come first thatn your partner,but i think partner first then friends but you must also have ME time.You Are not a terrorist who has to be kept under surveillance 24/7.Seems your guy has his own insecurities ,thats why he blows to the roof if you dont answer him!

When do you know you need to get out? Where do you draw the line and say enough is enough...?

Seems you have started drawing the line now!

Lastly keep on attacking other articles!!!!!!!!!kwa kwa kwa................ hoping it will be the therapy you need for your problems!!!!!!

monchooza
05 Mar 2009 08:41

<<<now we are stuck to reading about so and so’s childhood- streetwise….which sounds more of a novel than anything…>>>

Rather that novel than these relationship /agony aunt what evers that keep popping up here..........so yeah some of us(me) rather talk about street kids than girls gone confused about their men issues

Cody
05 Mar 2009 08:42

Reply from: Brightspark 3/5/2009 2:13:45 PM
Thanks TheLady- got tired of spell check cos I was getting into the article...

ihi ihi ihi.............to infinity!!! o leshano, you dont know the correct word. aha aha aha aha!!!!!

awelani
05 Mar 2009 08:43

I can the brightspark aint gonna b so bright very soon,,

@Dali, wa tiva leshi xi nhwenyetani lexi xa ni tolovela swinene,,lol

zolx
05 Mar 2009 08:43

I am putting up an article on relationships later..hold on tight dear... - made ithi uyadlala please (tell me you're joking)

awelani
05 Mar 2009 08:46

@Madem&^%^%...stop sucking a$$ and give the poor gal advice, u busy brown-nosing,,while tshisiwana tsha vhathu needs YOUR help...and get off my case,

Brightspark
05 Mar 2009 08:46

LOL...Mademoiselle....tlogelang Awelani tlheng bathong....o na le mathata moth o...I look forward your article my dear...I am sooo into the Dr Phil stories...but be warned mjj wont like it...LMASOWL...

Anyhoo...Nice thank you...you actually made sense....this does help, you have no idea cos the advise that I get from those relevant posts makes me rethink my decision ya this relationship...

To all y'all thanx for taking time to respond...

Cody
05 Mar 2009 08:49

Ya Awe tell them wa tiva nanne leshi xi nhwenyetani zwino ndibora eish!

andi01
05 Mar 2009 08:51

@Brightspark- first and foremost, when you post an article, do so without out defending other peoples stale articles, if you cant mind your own business how do you expect us to take you seriously. You aint no mother Theresa. OK

he is the best thing that has even happened to me- are you the best thing that ever happened to him ??, love is a teo way street, dont make anyone your priority while you are his option.
he has full access to my phone- do you have full access to his phone, if not
uyakunyela

I think the man is treating you this way because you allow him to, not that you deserve it of course. Remember, by marrying you he aint doing you a favour, even if he pays lobola. So stop feeling as though you owe him, you do not owe him anything.

Cody
05 Mar 2009 08:51

Nevertheless I must say, the advises were good people!

mademoiselle
05 Mar 2009 08:51

OK...WRONG BLOG...WHY DOES IT SEEM LIKE I AM ON MUVHANGO....???

awelani
05 Mar 2009 08:53

o na le mathata moth .eeerrrrr, u got it wrong gal, um not the 1 who just wrote an article asking for advice on the net from strangers, i dont have any problems sweety, you do, just dont realise it, or maybe u realize it, u'r just in denail.

Fadingspark and Made^%^&: be original, not need to re-register using different names, its really sick and pathetic.

sjura
05 Mar 2009 08:55

Awe plz pm me who these bloggaz are...........

awelani
05 Mar 2009 08:56

made&%^%$&..ni khou thoma u kaka nga zwanda zwanu zwino...

Brightspark
05 Mar 2009 08:56

@ MADEMOISELLE.....LOL....Sho , no lets not get personal...

@ Andi01 thanks for the tip and the advise...I never go through his phone becuase he doesnt let me....also I dont want to seem as if im crowding him somehow...

Yes Cody, most peeps her can give real good advise....

andi01
05 Mar 2009 09:00

@Brightspark- the only time you can change a man, is when he is still on daipers, after that, forget it sbali, rather get out while you still can. The person that really loves you will never make you cry, "no one desreves your tears, and the one who does, will never make you cry. So ke sbali wake up and decide ba you wanna be in an abusive relationship for life, or you wanna be a spinster, I would rather be a spinster than be with some one who doesnt appreciate me.

andi01
05 Mar 2009 09:03

I never go through his phone becuase he doesnt let me...haybo sisi, what is he hiding, to be honest with you, i think your man is cheating, watch this space, I am a cheat I know them signs. .also I dont want to seem as if im crowding him somehow... - isnt he crowding you by going through your phone, I have to say this in xhosa-(eliqiqisholo lendoda linamanqashela liqheliswe nguwe ukukuqabela entloko, ngqumakho)

Brightspark
05 Mar 2009 09:04

Oh guys just when I was getting into this whole blogging business...it seems all the social networks are blocked at work...just used my cellphone to get onto the site..to say thanks you all for your advice it really helped...I guess its goodbye to TVSA for me...

Awelani o sindile my friend....

myname
05 Mar 2009 09:04

do you have full access to his phone, if not
uyakunyela Did u have to b straight lyk that Mk LOL? Its like im luking to ur face hahahaha

andi01
05 Mar 2009 09:05

@awelani-U cant count my dear, I mean since you also too dumb to realize that ur in an abusive relationship(emotionally, soon to be physically).- this is unnecessary, uncalled for and very childish of you, please now, the girl is asking for advice and you dont need to throw it back at her face. There are many ways to get back at a person, but dont take her problems and use them to insult her, surely you can fight better than this.

nice
05 Mar 2009 09:06

I never go through his phone becuase he doesnt let me

Why wont he let you?

andi01
05 Mar 2009 09:07

@Brightspark- sukusiqhela wena, you ask for advice and manje uyabaleka, rhaaaaaaaaaa, get back here

myname
05 Mar 2009 09:08

-(eliqiqisholo lendoda linamanqashela liqheliswe nguwe ukukuqabela entloko, ngqumakho)

tl tl tl tl Hee joe im sure ur Matric certificate ithi

IsiXhosa

myname
05 Mar 2009 09:08

-(eliqiqisholo lendoda linamanqashela liqheliswe nguwe ukukuqabela entloko, ngqumakho)

tl tl tl tl Hee joe im sure ur Matric certificate ithi

IsiXhosa -

myname
05 Mar 2009 09:11

My bad sorini its this keyboard not me.

I was saying, Andy im sure wathole symbol A, First Language kwisiXhosa. Hai uyathetha sana

awelani
05 Mar 2009 09:14

kwe-kwe-kwe-kwe CHICKEN kwe-kwe-kwe-kwe,, I smell chicken sh!t right here,,

teemi
05 Mar 2009 09:15

@Brightspark I think you have the answer to your problems you know he is not right for you thats why you doubting getting married to him you just need to hear people say it well get out of this relationship its not healthy

belz
05 Mar 2009 09:16

sigh

Shuga babe
05 Mar 2009 09:19

((((((i am tired of this voetvoet nonsense articles,people with issues must talk to their friends or go see therapists,or use face book for that matter.you know what you must do but still ask???year in and year out we give same advices,this is not Dr Phill's studio!! ))))))

hahahahahaha!!!!!!!!!!! kwakwakwakwa!!!

cleve
05 Mar 2009 09:19

Brightspark this sounds very familiar and girl it will get worse. He will start beating you up soon. If you can get out now DO IT!!!!!!!!!! I promise you it will be the best decision ever. Don't get married to him yet............ Please girl I beg, I know exactly how it ends. And I'm not saying that he won't change, he might. Just let him know why you are doubting getting married to him. Ntombazana you are in trouble. And the worst part is that you are making excuses for him.. ncncncnc that's how it starts.

Guys please don't always look at the negatives of an article....................

cleve
05 Mar 2009 09:21

Shuga bAbe................. where have you been??

GI Jane
05 Mar 2009 09:24

Brightspark my dear I hate to break it to you, it's one word
"CHEATING", your man is cheating on you plain and simple. So you better wake up and smell the masala. He's playing reverse psychology on you trying to revert his guilt by making you feel and look bad.
One word of advice don't throw your friends away cause you gonna need them when this CHEAT breaks your heart. Don't live your life for a man and don't change either. His life is going on without any changes no questions asked, then WHY should you change? Life is very short girl, put yourself first.

felfel
05 Mar 2009 09:27

THIS ARTICLE IS OFFICIALLY CLOSED FOR COMMENTS, THE VICTIM HAS GONE M.I.A !!!!!!!!!!!! lol

TheLady
05 Mar 2009 09:32

"I never go through his phone becuase he doesnt let me....also I dont want to seem as if im crowding him somehow..."

RUN-err..not that way...the door...yeah.

Renegade
05 Mar 2009 09:33

I second belz's *sigh*

I think we must have a folder with all the "Seeking advice on relationships" blogs. THen, when someone gets an urge to write about that, that's where they must go, I'm sure they'll find something they can relate to.

TheLady
05 Mar 2009 09:34

Thanx ziggi-typo.

awelani
05 Mar 2009 09:34

LOL @ Rene,

Positivity1
05 Mar 2009 09:43

OK...WRONG BLOG...WHY DOES IT SEEM LIKE I AM ON MUVHANGO....???
LOL Kwaaaakwaaakwaa

andi01
05 Mar 2009 09:53

@myname-was saying, Andy im sure wathole symbol A, First Language kwisiXhosa. Hai uyathetha sana as a matter of fact, itsho sana, got 93% for Isixhosa in matric, even got an award, from the Khayelitsha secyion.

Toxic
05 Mar 2009 09:56

Oh guys just when I was getting into this whole blogging business...it seems all the social networks are blocked at work...just used my cellphone to get onto the site..to say thanks you all for your advice it really helped...I guess its goodbye to TVSA for me...

Awelani o sindile my friend....

So they waited for your article to go up before they blocked TVSA. How considerate......or is convenient the word i'm looking for? hmmm.

Cande
05 Mar 2009 10:00

more like triple sigh Belz

babetm
05 Mar 2009 10:00

@ AWELANI o na le mathata moth .eeerrrrr, u got it wrong gal, um not the 1 who just wrote an article asking for advice on the net from strangers, i dont have any problems sweety, you do, just dont realise it, or maybe u realize it, u'r just in denail.

Fadingspark and Made^%^&: be original, not need to re-register using different names, its really sick and pathetic.

I know u are happily married my dear, a songo tshinyeliwa duvha nga tshidaela tshire na thaidzo na munna watsho ngauri tshi khou toda u ntshela stess kha ene.
whatever tshine ado amba kana u nwala just LYAO. kwa kwa kwa kwa kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!

awelani
05 Mar 2009 10:03

LMAO @ babetm..

make that sixple sigh Cande, lol

Cody
05 Mar 2009 10:06

So they waited for your article to go up before they blocked TVSA. How considerate......or is convenient the word i'm looking for? hmmm.

Bhuwaaa ha ha ha!! Tox, how convenient indeed! anyway maybe she is going back to her original username, or is it initial? anyway dont shoot me Brighty after all that is my provacative! LOL

awelani
05 Mar 2009 10:08

LMBAO,,hi hi hi hi hi hi hi TOx&Cody,,kwakwakwakwakwakwakwa...

Y did Fadingspark and Made%$,, disappear @ the same time?? hmmmmmm

Cody
05 Mar 2009 10:09

make that sixple sigh Cande, lol

Make that seventhple sighs guys! lol

awelani
05 Mar 2009 10:10

hundrenthple sighs,, beat that cody,, LOL

myname
05 Mar 2009 10:15

Where is Moruti Mjj? We need prayers....

Cody
05 Mar 2009 10:20

zillionthple sighs Awelani! that is the last letter of the alphabet so you cant beat that lol!!!!

Cande
05 Mar 2009 10:21

lol eish nina maar. please leave brightspark alone

Cande
05 Mar 2009 10:22

positive infinity sighs Cody, LOL!!! speaking of multiple personalities i wonder what happened to "Hoti toti kinda girl"

Kapakapa
05 Mar 2009 10:23

I have however noted the slow down of pace of articles coming up, because everyone just bashes everyone’s articles. Sisan was the best thing since sliced bread and was criticised for putting up too many articles, you chased her off, she had fresh ideas….and debatable topics…now we are stuck to reading about so and so’s childhood- streetwise….which sounds more of a novel than anything…

@ Brightspark, you are starting on a very wrong note by doing exactly what you say everyone is doing - so i guess that everyone includes you. So please if you expect everyone to give input into your articles you refrain from insulting other people!

awelani
05 Mar 2009 10:23

+++gazillionthple sihgs,, beat that smart pants, LMAO

it's not brightspark Cande, its Fadingspark,,lol

awelani
05 Mar 2009 10:24

I second that kapakapa...

Mafresh
05 Mar 2009 10:29

Most girls rush to get married because they are scared of bofetwa (I don’t know the English word), my advice is don’t rush into this unless if u r sure it’s who u want to be with 4 the rest of your life. Marriage is a give and take, in other words one must be prepared to give and expect something back, even give more than u get or vice versa.
“I need to tell him where I am at all times….even when I go to the loo at work…I am not allowed to have ANY male friends and.....”
1. Does he inform u of his every step?
2. Does he have any female friends?
3. Do u have access to his phone?

In my opinion, I don’t mind informing my man of my whereabouts as long as I get informed of his every move. Whatever he wants u to do, is he prepared to do the same? Lastly I recommend marriage counseling before making any huge decision, after all this is your future and will affect your kids if u intend having any.

andi01
05 Mar 2009 10:29

You guys need a prayer, in tounges nogal

Cande
05 Mar 2009 10:38

speaking about tongues where is One & Only, i need contacts of that institution that teaches people to speak in tongues

maud
05 Mar 2009 10:39

sorry guys just to be off Topic

My so called husband to be, has this attitute of going through my phone, which we always fight about, and he will deny doing that. on tuesday i used my other phone and i send myself a message, ( thanks for last night, it was great) as usual when i was busy he help himself with my phone. ulale ekwate ubusuku bonke, without not even saying why?

Yesterday he phoned the number and guess what ,i answered he was so embarrassed, i dont think he will ever do that again.

TheLady
05 Mar 2009 10:41

Hayi bo my man doesn't go home (his home that is-where his mom is at), he calls his mom and she calls him, his brothers come and go home-he is always at his flat! I'm worried for real. He insists that everything is okback home, he'll be going month-end and always finds a reason not to when it's month-end. I'm worried now.

TheLady
05 Mar 2009 10:42

LMAO maud, so do you go through his?

andi01
05 Mar 2009 10:44

@Cande-ashuma ma mayero shwima mayere, ashwi nalo lemalomo TVSA (das me prying in tounges)

awelani
05 Mar 2009 10:45

LMAO @ maud,, ulayekile, uyaphapha, bekafunani e founini yakho?

TL, gal um sorro but, LOL

Cande, kwakwakwakwakwa

awelani
05 Mar 2009 10:46

LMAO @ andi01, please translate, LOL

Cape Hustlaz
05 Mar 2009 10:47

ni songo thoma zwithu zwine a ni nga zwiimeli musidzana!!!

Ha ha for sure you need to stand for what you start!

Cody
05 Mar 2009 10:47

Maybe ba motena ko hae TheLady.

awelani
05 Mar 2009 10:48

LOL,,Cape Hustlaz, u understand Tshivenda? um impressd,,

cleve
05 Mar 2009 10:50

kwa kwa kwa kwa @ Maud. Caught right handed!!!!!!!!!!

andi01
05 Mar 2009 10:50

@Awelani- i cant translate what the holly spirit says to me, you have to be holly (like me) LOL, to understand that.

Cande
05 Mar 2009 10:52

LOL@ Maud hahahhahahhah serves him rite

awelani
05 Mar 2009 10:52

LOL

Cande
05 Mar 2009 10:52

LOL@ andi speaking in tongues!!kwakwakwk

TheLady
05 Mar 2009 10:58

Ungahleki Awe, I'm worried for real-he says eveything is fine, he doesn't work on weekends, we spend them together, but when I go to my girls or home he still stays behind.

youngtodie
05 Mar 2009 11:04

hey girl, i might say i can relate very well to what you are going through. My life was like that for the past 8 months.Emotionally abuse is the worse than physical abuse (my experience)as it kills you inside and you feel like nothing at all. Dear i finnally mange to get away from that after i've done a lot thinking. For example,i ask myself how much do i love myself ,do i want to live a healthy life?,do i want to spend the rest of my life thinking i'm just a useless thing ,ugly etc.

dear itold him once and for all that i love myself ,i'm beautiful ,sexy and deserve to be happy.no one even him will let me think otherwise.And i mentioned to him to go and sort out his problem as i have tolerated enough .

so what i'm trying to say dear is up to,if u want to be happy or you want to spend the rest of your life thinking u're just a useles thing ,that he just did you afavour by marrying u.

maud
05 Mar 2009 11:20

@TheLady-so do you go through his? no thats why i wanted to teach him a lesson before its too late.

i always put a box of condoms in my car, and i know everytime i live him inside the car he will go through my things, uzombona esemuncu, who cares, ethe makabemuncu ibuye imenze abe sweet.

i think i need to hook up no Brightspark for just 30 minutes,the folowing day lomntu wakhe uzobe amkhethisa impahla azozicoka to go and visit her friends, and he will never ask her ama were about are you.

zolx
05 Mar 2009 11:33

i hate to admit that tvsa seems to be attracting weirdos these days...athathwa phi vele la mahlanya with multi-personalities.. (and no...i'm not on the wrong blog/article)

dali
05 Mar 2009 11:39

LOL zolx

awelani
05 Mar 2009 11:48

LMAO @ Zolx

nice
05 Mar 2009 12:01

maud I called the voice what - what and they are expensive, the pre-assessment is R500 and the coach's fee is R800 to R1000 per hour. they also have a website www.iegroup.co.za which unfortunately does not have much

I will have to look for other coaches

awelani
05 Mar 2009 12:04

coach?? nice?

nice
05 Mar 2009 12:12

eish awe, where do i begin to explain, check the I hate to admit blog, maybe it will help to clarify.

maud gave the details to myname, and since it was something I wanted to do I called them.

maud
05 Mar 2009 12:18

sorry babes, i know but they are very good, i will try and see if i can find other places.

The Punisher
05 Mar 2009 12:26

i am tired of this voetvoet nonsense articles,people with issues must talk to their friends or go see therapists,or use face book for that matter.you know what you must do but still ask???year in and year out we give same advices,this is not Dr Phill's studio!!

Lemme go to bed,its been a long day!! @ LADY D... thats very cold! Nobody forced you to read this article, so bzzzzz off! this goes to erione out there, if the article doesn't interest you just flippin move to the next one or come up with something better yerrrrrrrrrrr! ..

myname
05 Mar 2009 12:30

LOL nice i was surprised 2 hahahaha. I was embarrased 2 tell Maud ukuba its expensive, andisayi, thanks hihihihi

Sori 2 the Author 4 going off-topic....so lets go back to izingcebiso bafethu

BigMama
05 Mar 2009 12:31

@The Punisher.......who gave you the right to bash other bloggers, you can also bzzzzzzzzzz off if you did not like their replies, nobody forced you to read their replies........nxmmmmmmmmmmm.

dali
05 Mar 2009 12:33

eh joh

sjura
05 Mar 2009 12:40

kushubile baba biza amarhata........................

maud
05 Mar 2009 12:47

@sjura- amarhata ,mina ngithathi cover.

KeleFabulous
05 Mar 2009 12:52

it seems people have a habit of using numerous usernames. if you're not ashamed of saying what you want to say on this site why hide behind diff names? that's so juvenile

awelani
05 Mar 2009 12:56

Is that a um$uzo I smell??????? The punisher, how about u give advice and stop suzing thru your fingers...buzzzzz offf lewena maan. NX!!!!!

Well sed BigMama

awelani
05 Mar 2009 12:58

@Kele **clapping my hands***lol

Shuga babe
05 Mar 2009 13:09

(((((So they waited for your article to go up before they blocked TVSA. How considerate......or is convenient the word i'm looking for? hmmm.)))))

hahahahaha!!!!!! Mme Toxxy! unshapile, u r there (on Davidz voice)

The Punisher
05 Mar 2009 13:12

yari yari yari....nxm!

Shuga babe
05 Mar 2009 13:15

The Punisher.....STOP Punishing yourself dear!

awelani
05 Mar 2009 13:18

tl tl tl tl tl tl tl

myname
05 Mar 2009 13:20

Another khava tsotsi!!!!! (Kabelo ndicela umfihle tu (in Queen's voice))

andi01
05 Mar 2009 13:25

@awelani- yehy my friend, hay cha you are so strong today neh, someone rubbed you off the wrong way, vroeg in teh morning.

@myname- its obvious this fighting la soze iphele, on that note, ndiyayiphumlisa eyam ityesi (I rest my case)

Amza
05 Mar 2009 13:26

Man, i love these relationship articles..... I never have good advice but they always make me feel better about my own loveless life.

@ Foxxy...I FULLY AGREE

awelani
05 Mar 2009 13:29

not really Andi01, have been having the best morning this week, i feel so gr8,,,lol

The Punisher
05 Mar 2009 13:57

@ Shuga what? , why don't you try this maneuver: Take 50-60 paces backwards, take several deep breaths, Sprint forward at full speed, Do a triple summersault through the air, and disappear up your own a$$.... ... so next time you know the drill! You leave a message....and I ignore it!

myname
05 Mar 2009 14:06

ndiyayiphumlisa eyam ityesi(I rest my case) Hai Mk im gonna follow u, Its heavy (kunzima)

lorrelai
05 Mar 2009 14:16

lol...being a silent blogger really does help sometimes.

Shuga babe
05 Mar 2009 14:23

@The Punisher, am sorry dear I really want to reply but They have Blocked TVSA Network at work…lol.
But will do disappear up my a$$ as u want me to. The best thing about my a$$ is that they very big and beautiful. did I mention Sweet and delicious? Yeah that’s what my fiancé always tell me. so now how about spraying that perfume your armpit are starting to stink and yeah take a deep breath!!!

andi01
05 Mar 2009 14:28

@myname, LOL, its really pregnant and heavy at the same time, but we must learn to arrest ourselves (funeka sifunde ukuzibamba, MK)

Shugababe and the Punisher- haybo ninani,

Shuga babe
05 Mar 2009 14:31

@Andi01, and good nigga! *with my chicks visiting the ears*

The Punisher
05 Mar 2009 14:39

Hi Andie.....

@ Shuga babe I don't think you are a fool after reading your post, you are obviously suffering from Clue Deficit Disorder......so cry me a river, build yourself a bridge, and GET OVER IT!!!

TheLady
05 Mar 2009 14:42

nc nc nc

myname
05 Mar 2009 14:42

LOL Andile .....SB u r on fire babes (nivutha amalangatya today) not 4geting The Punisher (Umqeqeshi)

awelani
05 Mar 2009 14:44

and
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.........................................THE END.........................

andi01
05 Mar 2009 14:49

LOL @ Mqeqeshi, actually myname its umohlwayi, umqeqeshi yi coach

Shuga babe
05 Mar 2009 14:50

The Punisher, Cry me a Swimming Pool!

myname
05 Mar 2009 14:53

LOL Andy yhini ukundimenya hahahaha

Shuga babe
05 Mar 2009 14:55

(((so cry me a river,)))
Sweety pie i am from Durban and we dont have any close rivers so i think i'll just cry u a Sea!

dali
05 Mar 2009 14:57

ROTFLMSAO

andi01
05 Mar 2009 14:58

@Shuga Babe- actually Umzimvubu River is close 2 you
@myname- serves you right for ungasazi sixhosa, ma nigga

andi01
05 Mar 2009 14:59

so cry me a river
so cry me a river
so cry me a river
so cry me a river ( singing in JT's voice)

Cande
05 Mar 2009 15:02

LOL!!! eish what will TVSA be without beef

andi01
05 Mar 2009 15:06

@cande- LOL!!! eish what will TVSA be without beef- Beef Stock (khwe)

Shuga babe
05 Mar 2009 15:08

(((@Shuga Babe- actually Umzimvubu River is close 2 you)))
hahahaha!!! Andi01... u just reminded me of Umngeni River. but no its OK North Beach is closer to me so i'll just cry her a SEA.

andi01
05 Mar 2009 15:09

Shuga Babe- singing
You dont have to say
what you did
I already know, I found out from himmmmmmmmm

Punisher(singing)
Now theres just no chance
4 you and me, there'll never be

Shuga babe (singing)
arent you just mad about that

Punisher
so cry me a river, Mzimvubu river, Tukela River, Qude River,

Nice duet bana

Shuga babe
05 Mar 2009 15:12

LMAO!!!!!

andi01
05 Mar 2009 15:12

Try me a river, Try me a river, try me a river,

awelani
05 Mar 2009 15:13

@cande, Uma vegetarian....

myname
05 Mar 2009 15:14

Kodwa Andile why uphemba umlilo? LOL 2 ur duet or 2some

myname
05 Mar 2009 15:16

@cande, Uma vegetarian....LOL

awelani
05 Mar 2009 15:19

LMAO @ Andile, kwakwakwakwakwa,,,,and the Grammy goes to Shuby and Punny, LMAO

Cody
05 Mar 2009 15:20

Try me a river, Try me a river, try me a river,
Try mee, try mee try mee!

ROTFLMAO!!!!!!! andi what is wrong udrand joe?

Cande
05 Mar 2009 15:22

i dont know how will vegeterian survive around here myname, we selling beef waya waya

andi01
05 Mar 2009 15:22

@Awelani, you ar such an inspiration watseba, u have given me an idea for my next song, i tell you the album is coming well, soon we will be filthy rich

singing
Hakuna mathatha, what a wonderful blocker
hakuna mathata, aint no passing fly
we are problem free, sihleli phantsi komfula

hakuna mathata, Shuby and Punny

andi01
05 Mar 2009 15:24

( LOTFROR) Lolling on the froor rafing out roud @ Khodeyi,

Ndidrand, joe no stoly

Zah000
05 Mar 2009 15:26

ROFLMBAOTIPA!!!! Punny, I'm sure you didn't saw this coming!!

lorrelai
05 Mar 2009 15:26

lmao @ beef stokhwe

andi01
05 Mar 2009 15:27

Kodwa Andile why uphemba umlilo?- baby I am just a catalyst, to a mlilo thats been burning slowly but surely. Come on Punisher, and Shuga Babe, fight like crazy, like hungry children, thina sotya efileyo. Yhoooooooooo someone say to me I can cry a river, umlambo joe,
ndingalwa ndibebomvu, ndingababomvu
ayeye,
ndingatsha neHoki,

u guys are just cowards, period

awelani
05 Mar 2009 15:27

LMAO...

cleve
05 Mar 2009 15:28

LOL

JadaPinkett
05 Mar 2009 15:28

I still need time to read this article, then i will reply later

Shuga babe
05 Mar 2009 15:29

♫Twinkly Twinkly little The Punisher ♫
♫How i wonder what u r ♫
♫Down under the world so low♫
♫Like a Pain in the a$$!♫

awelani
05 Mar 2009 15:31

LMAO Andi, stop it,,, and who's you guys?? I aint no coward, I made umnikazi wale blog to lie and say <<<it seems all the social networks are blocked at work...just used my cellphone to get onto the site..to say thanks you all for your advice it really helped...I guess its goodbye to TVSA for me.>>>>>>> U balekile and took Madem%$$^ with,, lol

andi01
05 Mar 2009 15:31

so cry me a river- nci nci nci, a river joe, yhoooo, not even a smallanyana cup ethristi (atleast), yhooo hay hay, ndingazncama, ndimthuke athi saa, ndimdonatele ngoXA (phoxa), akutshiwo kun ndisiva, Shuga babe, are u gonna let him get away with that, yhooooo...........................

dali
05 Mar 2009 15:31

ndingatsha neHoki,............ andi plz tranlsate that

awelani
05 Mar 2009 15:32

Sixple kwas,, hi hi hi hi hi,, Shuby, hayi man nawe, u putting shim to bed already??lol

andi01
05 Mar 2009 15:34

@Shuga Babe

Twinkly Twinkly little The Punisher ♫
♫How i wonder what u r ♫
♫Down under the world so low♫
♫Like a Pain in the a$$!♫

@ Punisher, did u hear that, haha ha get back hear to defend yourself,

Mphula phuli lapho ekhaya-aaaaa
Ziyabuya ezikama gebhula la e TVSA
kothulana phantsi amabhaka bhaka (Punisher), kunye ne Santos (Shuga Babe)
Amanqaku mathathu macala, kushiywana ngotyefezo,

myname
05 Mar 2009 15:35

Im done with u Andile, i give up hehehehe

Cande
05 Mar 2009 15:36

watz the latest score? who is keeping the score?

Strolicious
05 Mar 2009 15:37

LOL.....keep them comment coming .,...
Reply from: lorrelai 3/5/2009 8:16:29 PM
lol...being a silent blogger really does help sometimes.

Shuga babe
05 Mar 2009 15:37

uyazi Andi01 uright maan.
cry me a river pho ayi nesixhaphozi a river,? nc nc nc ndidikiwe ndiyaveva sana. andazi noba ndifana nenyathi noba iQuantum. wena the punisher nesishwapha engathi iorintshi limunciwe!!

Cody
05 Mar 2009 15:37

Triple lol whuu haaai! khwa khwa khwa!!!!! ag stop it andi, why do you want other kids to fight like crazy?

Shuga Babe and the Punisher dont listen to andi, just chill and drink idrand pa! Triple lol!!!!

zolx
05 Mar 2009 15:37

people niyandikama, sideways futhi. Awe gal just the other day i labelled you a peace-keeper but you've shown me vandag that you dont eat kak noba ifakwe ispices, aromat, holsum and all the zqholos.

bamkile ngoku abanye abantwana? what happened to sisan by the by...i wonder if she became lo brightspark overnight...what did you say her name was again awe..not brightspark but ....

andi01
05 Mar 2009 15:37

@Dali-ndingatsha neHoki,............ andi plz tranlsate that- if you know that song (ndingalwa ndibebomvu), its a phrase we made up that rhymes with that, literally it means, (I would burn inside shack dwelling), just to be with the person I love.

awelani
05 Mar 2009 15:38

I am Cande,, Shuby 1 Punny 0

andi01
05 Mar 2009 15:39

just chill and drink idrand pa!- ROTFLMAOL, hay cha uyangiqeda we sisi,

awelani
05 Mar 2009 15:40

@Zolx..She was defending Sisan's three liners..

BTW, I am the peace keeper around here

LMAO @ SB....

awelani
05 Mar 2009 15:41

cody,, hi hihi hi hi hi hi hi hi

Pinkpoodle
05 Mar 2009 15:41

TENTRUPLE KWAS

Zah000
05 Mar 2009 15:41

Awe mah Awelani!!!! ttltltltltlt thixo.........

andi01
05 Mar 2009 15:41

@awelani- amanga alihlaza bhe ke lawo ntombazana, the last time i checked on teh score board, lamaqembu ebelingana, mphula---phuli apho ekhaya.

wena the punisher nesishwapha engathi iorintshi limunciwe- hawuuu labhajweeee ezintanjeniiiiiiiiiiiiii, 4 Santos- 3 Orlando Pirates

zolx
05 Mar 2009 15:42

wena the punisher nesishwapha engathi iorintshi limunciwe!!...izanazo ShugaBage...yho Punisher...ngendibomvu mna ngoku uba bendinguwe (i'd be red now if i were you) hahaha.i've always loved izincithwano...Punisher dont tell me you're scared now bru

andi01
05 Mar 2009 15:43

Mphula-phuli lapho ekhaya, the sun is going down for Pirates (Punisher), amalanga seleyashona kwi Punisher

Shuga babe
05 Mar 2009 15:43

The best thing is I'm wearing sneakers!! i'm gonna kick your A$$ the Punisher.

Cody
05 Mar 2009 15:44

punisher nesishwapha engathi iorintshi limunciwe!!

Kwa kwa kwa plus, ++++gazillion lols whuu haai, i like Shugababe yazi, akaphelumoya more especially if bemphoqa! triple lol.

andi01
05 Mar 2009 15:44

@Shuga Babe- i must admit mphula phuli, you are so sweet, you make sugar jelouse. Woza nazo mzala

awelani
05 Mar 2009 15:46

baphlaphuli, kujongeka kungathi u The Punisher(with an accent) u za ku thi forfeit le game, akuna muntu oyaziyo ukuba uyekuphi.....

*** trying my best to sound like the Xhosa commentator ku SABC1**, lol

awelani
05 Mar 2009 15:47

ps... dont laf @ my broken Xhosa,,,assomblief

Shuga babe
05 Mar 2009 15:49

The Punisher, nezandla ezinde aziqinile sengathi umshudo wasetilongweni kwi gate lika Ananius Mathe.

andi01
05 Mar 2009 15:50

@awelani- looks as if, the Punisher went for half time break, zange abuye

BigMama
05 Mar 2009 15:50

@andi01........What do you do for a living? You fit well in almost everything....Pastor´s wife.......David Kau can have a challenge........Dr Phil can do with a assistant........Ungubani uAndi01.
You just crack me up all the time, but note that l am not trying to suck up to you, ngifunukwa who is Andi01?

@JP.......l hear sisan is in Durban, please go and report her missing to the nearest police station, we need her with her two line articles.

Zah000
05 Mar 2009 15:52

Who's the ref??

Cody
05 Mar 2009 15:52

I cant laf no more. ss ss ss ss. i am shinifed!!!

andi01
05 Mar 2009 15:55

@Bigmama

singing in mzeke's voice
why ufunkwazi ukuthi kukhona bani phantsi kwale mask
uzangobudididi, angekhe ngikutshele

Uthanda kabi-iiiiiii, indaba zabantu-uuuuuu, ayeye right now-wwwww,

LOL just kidding me dear, thanks fro the compliment. ........What do you do for a living- I am a female impersonator, shhhhhhhhh, dont tell other blockers ke neh, its our little secret.

andi01
05 Mar 2009 15:56

........What do you do for a living

I am the people's poet

Shuga babe
05 Mar 2009 15:58

♫uThe Punisher u hamba phansi♫

andi01
05 Mar 2009 16:01

nezandla ezinde aziqinile sengathi umshudo wasetilongweni kwi gate lika Ananius Mathe.- hawuuu, why cant you say Schabir Shaik, i hate this black hate black thing, ngqumakho

The Punisher
05 Mar 2009 16:04

@ Shugs.....Let's see, I've walked the dog, cleaned my room, gone shopping and gossiped with my friends...Nope, this list doesn't say that I'm required to respond to your whole lotsa gibberish!!!!

Ms. Jay
05 Mar 2009 16:04

Hexdecillion sigh! Am soooooooooooooo glad that I was not active today....awelani you on fire today neh LOL!!!

Shuga babe
05 Mar 2009 16:04

Who's Crying a River now huh heeeeee??
The Punisher next time u must learn not to sukela me !!!

zolx
05 Mar 2009 16:06

hawuuu, why cant you say Schabir Shaik, i hate this black hate black thing, ngqumakho tltltl mnccm wena andi. but technically or democratically speaking uShaik is also black in our new Suid Afrika. this is is fun...carry on peeps

awelani
05 Mar 2009 16:06

and I think its very clear who the winner is....referree???

awelani
05 Mar 2009 16:07

LOL @ jael

The Punisher
05 Mar 2009 16:07

ROFLMBAOTIPA!!!! Punny, I'm sure you didn't saw this coming!! ......nope dear its the other way around!!

The Punisher
05 Mar 2009 16:07

ROFLMBAOTIPA!!!! Punny, I'm sure you didn't saw this coming!! ......nope dear its the other way around!!

Shuga babe
05 Mar 2009 16:08

Andi01, its Ananius Mathe cos he's a Dengerous Prisoner nigga so imishudo yakhe iqinile. Schabir Shaik is at home sleeping on a Personally Designed $500 Bed sweety pie. while abanye bedliwa (oSdumo) izimbungulu zasetilongweni

andi01
05 Mar 2009 16:10

OK Zolx- but he isnt black enough, you know black, black, as in swart,

Ms. Jay
05 Mar 2009 16:10

Shuga babe - i am shocked today by your replies- girl i didn know u cld give as good as you get...tjo TVSA has brought about sides of each each we never knew each each possessed...andi u r totally enjoying yourself.........hehehehehe....

Shuga babe
05 Mar 2009 16:11

The Punisher ayidle izishiyele mntakabawo. asithelelane amanzi!

andi01
05 Mar 2009 16:11

Ananiaus isnt dangerous, he is just Horny- if u ask me.

Shuga babe
05 Mar 2009 16:12

hahahaha!!!! Jael, am NOT angry with The Punny just enjoying myself.

Shuga babe
05 Mar 2009 16:14

((Ananiaus isnt dangerous, he is just Horny- if u ask me.))
hahahahahahaha!!!!!!! kwakwakwakwa!!!

awelani
05 Mar 2009 16:14

♫if you're happy and you know it clap hands♫ *clap clap*
♫if you're happy and you know it clap hands♫ *clap clap*
♫if you're happy and you know it and you really wana show it, clap your hands♫ *clap clap*

Shuga babe
05 Mar 2009 16:18

♫We selesele wadl' amasami♫
♫Wawabekethala♫
♫wath' ususuthi wathi xgu xgu xgu !!!!♫

The Punisher
05 Mar 2009 16:21

For the road shucks oops Shugs as all your airheads call ya!

Your post is the world's greatest proof of reincarnation; no one could get that dumb in just one lifetime. In future, kindly proofread your posts before assaulting unsuspecting readers ................have you ever noticed that whenever you sit behind a keyboard, some idiot starts typing?

to be continued...

Ms. Jay
05 Mar 2009 16:23

I can see that Babes!!! hahahahahahaha.....let me go - I can hear my boss singing and its a signal to get out of here!!! bye peeps

Cody
05 Mar 2009 16:24

ihi ihi ihi!! It can only be TVSA bathi onmunye umtwana ngu "not so bright spark" or "fadedspark" ROTLFMAO!!! kg kg kg kg!!

Zah000
05 Mar 2009 16:26

♫We selesele wadl' amasami♫
♫Wawabekethala♫
♫wath' ususuthi wathi xgu xgu xgu !!!!♫

LOL

"We The Punisher ushawe ubani
U Shuga Babe
Awumbize eze la. O hhayi ngiyesaba
Gibela nanti ihhashi"

Shuga babe
05 Mar 2009 16:27

Andikhathali noba uthini The Punisher ndiqgibile ngawe sana!!.
now u can chew that mint gum your breath is starting to bother me now.

Have a Super Dooper, Wonderful, Great, Best Absolutely Fabulous Evening.
Yours Faithful
Shugababe!!

Shuga babe
05 Mar 2009 16:31

Roling
On
The
Floor
Laugning
My
A$$
Off
Till
I
Pee
A
Little

By
The
Way

Ms. Jay
05 Mar 2009 16:33

ROTFLMAOTIPAL/ROFLMBAOTIPA - rolling on the floor laughing my balck ass off till I pee (dont know about AL)
LMAO - laughing my black ass off
BTW - by the way

Shuga babe
05 Mar 2009 16:35

(((((("We The Punisher ushawe ubani
U Shuga Babe
Awumbize eze la. O hhayi ngiyesaba
Gibela nanti ihhashi"))))))
kwakwakwakwakwa!!!!!!! hahahahaha!!!!!!! yoooooo Zah000!!

♫UShugababe wavele wayidedela iyooooooooooooo♫
♫uThe Punisher wavele wayijaivela iyoooooo♫

Cody
05 Mar 2009 16:35

ROTFLMAOTIPAL

Rolling on the floor laughing my ass off till I pee a Little

Laughing my ass off
By the way.

hope you are covered cheesa

Cody
05 Mar 2009 16:38

Tlogelang ngwana o mong a botse people after all that is her provacative bathong!

Zah000
05 Mar 2009 16:40

LOL

Ms. Jay
05 Mar 2009 16:41

To Brightspark -

I know I said goodbye but am waiting by the elevator - girl you sound like you are in an abusive relationship - think about marriage seriously before you commit your life to spending with this man. You don want to end up another statistic - i.e. divorce, abused or a victim of passion killing. Asking a group of people on the net is good for kicks but when it all boils down to it - the best place to get advice is from God; if you think a man or woman of God is better then go for it - and before you tie the knot you both need to speak to a trained consellor .

DJ Why why
05 Mar 2009 16:46

YAWN!

Shuga babe
05 Mar 2009 16:46

@Brightspark , plz dont do what i wound't do!
Jael is right, Think about it!!!

Bye good peeps!!!

andi01
05 Mar 2009 16:49

Oh Cody, nkose nofefe

Ms. Jay
05 Mar 2009 16:51

now thats my 2c worth - I wish you every success in life Brightspark. May you make the right decision concerning your life and those of your unborn and born children. There is a website - www.marriagemissions.org that can help you tackle some of these relationship issues. Google it just in case i got the .org wrong.

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