Lord have mercy on me!! No on her rather...

Written by Amza from the blog It can be confusing... on 21 May 2009
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Talk about Khanyi Mbau , what some us of might not know is that there is more of them out there. So my friend calls me fuming on phone and all she could say was Lord have mercy, so Im thinking who do we need to fast for this time? She goes on to say she is getting married, I’m like who? Cause I knew she wasn’t talking about herself. Well indeed she wasn’t, instead she talking about her ex boyfriend’s ex wife who left him after he went broke. So here is how it all happened:

She had the most adorable relationship with her ex man 4 years ago and she is still has it for him. When she formally introduced her friend (celebrity) to her man (“Big mistake”). Her ex and her friend hit it and had a relationship; they got married after a while. He bought his wife a Merc and a mansion, when his business started to fall apart the wife uped and left him, they got divorced. Recently the woman found herself in the hands of some guy (who by the way has a wife and two kids) Loaded with cash and she is now marrying him (I guess he is a Polygamist) …the new man bought a Merc and a house in Jozi.

So why is my friend mad at the whole situation? She feels that if only that woman didn’t come into her life she would have lived happily ever after with her then boyfriend. And why did she have to hurt him so bad, kanti what happened to the vows? Who was she trying to get back at by marrying her man? Now because her and her ex boyfriend have been friends she now feels that she needs to let the man know that he is in her prayers (well I guess is the most sensible thing to do) but then where do you draw the line?
She swears that if she bumps into the woman she will give her a good talking to, so all I could say was that maybe the women is a sucker for inflicting pain on innocent lives or maybe just maybe she didn’t intend hurting anyone…

How do you easily get over it? Is she getting worked for nothing or rightfully so?

13 Comments

Amza
21 May 2009 15:01

Both these women must just be prayed for period....

Ms. Jay
21 May 2009 15:01

I just had to giggle @ this story - sorry amazed....let me go away and come back when I have cooled down..............

maud
21 May 2009 15:09

did you say her ex married her friend, if so who cares what happens to the ex he left her and marry her friend how cruel is that? she should be happy that he is having the taste of his medicine, in fact in few words uyalayeka.
let him suffer, i hope i undrstood the article.

GML
21 May 2009 15:10

There is a reason some people are in our past. Your friend needs to get over herself and move on. The man is an adult and he knew what she was doing when he started going out with the Celeb friend.

Your friend must just look at him and think he knows he made a mistake and now he's paying for it.

The man must look at he Celeb friend and think "That was my mistake"

Finished

Ngqesta
21 May 2009 15:19

Your friend should stay out of other people's business and mind her own. I mean this is an ex we're talking about not even the current lover's ex-wife. She should just focus more on her life, am sure she has quite a number of good things going than trying to track the sexcapades of an ex-friend that double crossed her with her ex in the past. maybe I'm just cruel like that...but I would not feel A THING for an ex that left me for an ex-friend.

maud
21 May 2009 15:34

sorry for the highjacking of the article ,i just want to pint something out.

my friends - my ex was very rich but after a year we met everything went well, he took me to school i went to the best university everything was fine, he had all the monies even patrice matsepe uya claimer, we moved together ,we bought a house in gallomanor. did i mention that he paid lobola, he was older than i not that old anyway.

i dont know what went wrong , he totally changed , my happiness changed into a night mare, i was enough i moved out, than when i promise myself i will never get married, i was going to use men and abuse them then leave them. Scorpions visited him after a two years we broke up, they took everything ,he moved back to the location , all this time i was praying that god must keep us safe both of us.so we should meet.

last year i heard that he was arrested and tere was no money to bail him , i went in and bail him, he said he will pay me back, i said thats for talking me to school.

he heard that i was getting married, he confracted me and i said yes and you are invited. but im making sure that when she sees me i am uptodate and in my mans hands.dont feel any pity for him.

Amza
21 May 2009 15:34

she should be happy that he is having the taste of his medicine, in fact in few words uyalayeka.

Hahahahaha....it seems he has just had a fulldose of his own medicine...

zozoe
21 May 2009 15:35

tjo!

cleve
21 May 2009 15:44

AG Maud. But at least you are moving on with your life.

maud
21 May 2009 15:51

@cleve- i am not moving on my friend iam flying very high.

i have been around i ave seen a lot, so now is take it or leave it. i have experience man cruelness first handed and good man are still alive trust me i am marrying one .good for now any way you will never know, not that i care.

DJ Why why
21 May 2009 17:25

Good for you Maudie atleast you had fun while it lasted.

Yo friend must please forgive herself, 4 years is a long time for being angry at what COULD HAVE ........ the choice was made by ex bf.......even if celebrity was poor and stayed in a shack today, it would not make a difference.

mjj
21 May 2009 21:57

Amazed can you please give names of these friends and celebrities...............i need to put a face to the story................else you can PM me the names.........

Foxxy
21 May 2009 22:37

@mjj, we also want to know... Name and Shame Amza!

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