I was woken up by this sms this morning
“one u ned to learn how to speak 2 people, an pls don concern urself wit my life development. Ur rude an ive been toleratin ur rudeness an ur mood swings a while now, if u have a problem wit me o me using ur assets kindly just say. I reali don appreciate ur attitude just coz u currently can afford beta than I can. Now I must not breath just coz I used or iron o tv, cum on now u decided 2 saturate d place. Don disrespect me or insult me, I don disrespect or insult you, im much intelligent 4 that”
From who? my flatmate, who was also in the flat at the time. I didn’t reply to the sms, or go to her room to speak to her, believe you me, I wanted to, but I knew that I was going to say some things that I would later regret.
So why the heated sms at 5am? Well since she moved in (January) she has been using my brand new queen size bed. So yesterday, I asked her when she’s going to buy her own bed coz I need mine (I want to give it to my cousins, who desperately need one)
Okay let me back track a little. So I got a permanent job at the beginning of this year and decided to move into a flat (two bedrooms). Initially I wanted to stay alone but I knew that I couldn’t afford the rent, so I decided to get a flat mate. I didn’t want to stay with a friend so I decided to stay with a friend of a friend, nice chick, or so I thought.
From the word go, the girl could not pay the rent in time; she would make excuses and ask me to give her a couple of days, of which I did. (I ended up paying the rent and she would repay me when she finally got the money,) this continued for a few months.
When she moved in she didn’t have anything, and I’m not exaggerating. I had to borrow her clothes to wear to work the next day. I didn’t ask question, I just gave her the clothes (this should have been enough to warn me that things were not going to work out, but I needed a flatmate and she needed a room)
By the end of January I had already bought sofas, dining suite, TV stand, TV, stove, microwave, bar fridge, radio. Her reaction “oh you’ve bought so much, what can I buy, oh I’ll buy a bigger fridge” ….3 months later we were both still using my bar fridge so I decided to buy the fridge coz clearly the girl had no intentions of buying one.
I bought the broom, mop, even gave her curtains to put up. now I’m the rude one??? I want her out, if it was up to me she would move out today. My rent is expensive, but rather stay alone and pay the expensive rent then having to deal with her daily drama, come month end she’s moving out…I’ve had it…I’m gatvol….I could go and on but I’m just too angry to do so.
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