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Office attitudes ... which one are you?

Written by carino from the blog Carinos Box on 22 Jan 2013
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After a longish break from working normal office hours, I’ve returned to the workforce. It has been a nice break, no doubt… And only today I realised  I had forgotten how interesting workplace dynamics can be.

In the office, there are people that you work directly with, and others that you don’t, but you’re all working towards one goal anyway, so you get to work together whether you like it or not. So…after my longish break, I’ve kind of gained a new eye of looking at what happens in the office…attitudes galore, I'm telling you. Here's some of them,

The Secretary
First, you get the office secretary, or receptionist or switchboard whatwhat. You can never be sure where you stand with her. She greets everyone with a smile; she’s friendly with clients and customers, only because she is expected to be. She has a name for everyone in the office, can pronounce every swear word with her teeth firmly clenched and basically knows everyone’s business.

The Bullies
Then there's that line manager who’s honestly just not so bright. He likes scoring brownie points with other people’s ideas. You do all the work, he gets all the credit. That one who gets you to brainstorm then he does the presentation. Yes, him! He pulls rank and you have to grin and bear it in the name of subordination and wait patiently for that one day when his domkop will be found uncovered.

I’m not sure what’s worse… him or that manager who’s just never happy… no matter what you do. She allows no creative freedom and it’s either you understand her or you are dumb. Could be… her husband is cheating with a younger woman, the Director never approves her work, she doesn’t get paid that much, and actually only has one meal a day. The reason she’s cranky is…she’s hungry, broke and frustrated. She’s also worried you’ll soon take her job or even get a better position…hence she goes out of her way to make you hate that place – just some tactic to claim her territory – coz then you’ll end up leaving and she’ll keep her job.



Or that stubborn guy that you’re supposed to be supervising? He never keeps to deadline and apparently he leads the conversations about how you are “the black face of the company”. Your sin? Being young and bright. He cant take that!

What about the cleaning lady who somehow ALWAYS forgets to empty your bin…or vacuum your corner. She opens everyone’s windows every morning mara wena you always find your office smelling a little funny. She collects everyone’s cup every afternoon except for yours. What’s funny, you two are very friendly in the corridors, you just somehow slip her mind when it comes to her work. She’s most probably even an oldish woman your mom’s age and you’re finding it difficult to ask her to vacuum under your desk too.




Ever had that old magriza who’s waaay past retirement? She refuses to learn new ways and she believes she’s the infotank of the company – no matter what responsibility you give her, she takes it waay to seriously. If it’s the key to the storeroom that she has to keep, she’ll guard it with her life – you put her in charge of petty cash, she will count it like her pension depended on it.

How about that guy who…is the last one to show up in the morning… yet come 4pm, time to knock off, his desk is empty, like he never occupied it. He complains about EVERYTHING! He speaks English in an ANC tone, He knows THE FREEDOM CHARTER off by heart, and he is always ready to jump and point at discrimination.

Then there's that one that is ALWAYS on his desk - never takes a lunch break! he's forever looking serious and at-work., meanwhile we all know all he does is download movies and porn.




All in all... the office is a very interesting place. Characters galore.

Which one are you?
What are some of the names that you've given your colleagues - especially your managers...and did they ever find out?
Ever been bullied at work?
How interesting is your workplace?



29 Comments

VusiK
22 Jan 2013 15:56

None of the above.

nice
22 Jan 2013 16:13

I hope no one from my inner ciecle blogs else I would be discovered.

Boss's boss= HHHP
Boss = HHP
Bosses to be = Juju, JZ, Jim Carrey/ Yes woman and Cougar
Secretary = Macbeth

tjo we have names for all non-blacks in our team except for two white ladies that we really, really like. 

ya employeees..............................will miss these days once I am over being an employee

ayashah
22 Jan 2013 16:59

haahaha dead ka magriza hahaha  none of the above is meoooo

VusiK
22 Jan 2013 17:20

Welcome back to writing Carino

I did miss you writing :-)

VusiK
22 Jan 2013 17:32

Which one are you? ...
None of them ...
I am the shadow / sort of absent / phantom ... The name on the wall that very few people have ever met & only about five people can say they know

What are some of the names that you've given your colleagues - especially your managers...and did they ever find out? ...
none (never had a manager my whole life long) ...  I've never worked for anybody or had a boss / manager.

Ever been bullied at work?...

No

How interesting is your workplace?

It is different from anything anyone has ever imagined (Says those who have worked with us)

bananasplit
23 Jan 2013 11:53

@vusiK Im also like the quiet one, never in your face type.

VusiK
23 Jan 2013 12:03

@Bananasplit ...

There is no name applicable anymore ...
I used to be known by floor number, lol

I'm certain security did not know my name (they know my surname ... but not my name) ...

anyone who came to see me said "I'm going to the 4th floor (My offices are that floor) / I have an appointment on the 4th floor", the person would be escorted u & if the outer receptionist acknowledged the guest / visitor ... it was OK...

no information is / should ever be gathered about who visits the 4th floor.

VusiK
23 Jan 2013 12:07

Question:

How many of you actually provide your ID numbers to the people who make people sign into the security books at the doors of buildings?

I do not provide; My telephone number, or my ID number....
I simply refuse.
I'd rather have someone come see me , or we meet somewhere than give any stranger my ID number.

VusiK
23 Jan 2013 12:38

it is absurd for anyone to provide their ID number to strangers and strange people in order to pass through a door.

Next Question:

How many of you provide your ID numbers in/ with your CVs ...
and Why?

I ran an ad in the paper for a simle position requesting candidates to send i their CVs including motivational letter , blah, blah, blah, and not to provide their id numbers in & with any part of their correspondence ....blah, blah, blah,

Only two people sent their CVs sans ID numbers and address information ... They got the job (even though I only needed one) ... every other candidate / applicant's CV went straight to the shredder (we did not even bother looking through the pile).
It did not matter how suitable they were for the position.

Logic ...
a.) I only employ people who pay attention to detail, no matter how small or different it may seem.
b.) Nobody needs to provide their ID numbers to anyone unless/ untill a security check / vetting / as a shortlisted candidate and/ or an employment contract is placed in front of them

VusiK
23 Jan 2013 12:39

We never did fill the position we put an ad out for ...
But that was never the point of the AD.

VusiK
23 Jan 2013 13:59

lol Tazz ...
DYK.
ID theft is one of the top 5 growing crimes on the planet?

VusiK
23 Jan 2013 14:01

I just write whatever number that come to mind.

One day .. don't slip up & actually think your real number, lol

TheLady
23 Jan 2013 14:24

I'm the over-sharing colleague. I am certain everybody knows my business :( I have resorted to not saying whoever I am dating's name. I dont want the 'awu there's Sipho now? Where's Themba?' situation.

Deemo
23 Jan 2013 15:12

im this girl who chats wth everyone in the same manner from the boss to the guy who collect our bins.im a no nonsense girl,i dont want those silly office jokes. As for the adress and phone numbers i dont ussualy leave those details.one day i went to the dry cleaners ,there was a new lady she asked for my number n i refused to give she called her boss told her the story they started quarelin wth me ,saying its just procedure.they thought i was a kid coz im very petite u myt think im 19 yet im 26.i gave them an option do you want my jackets or i will provide the damn details,they all kept quite then started to apologise,nw we a freeinds wth the lady.

Green.arrow
23 Jan 2013 20:16

Eish, I'm not sure what I am or what other people are. People in my division aren't as social as other divisions, offices are always half closed...motho a ka hwa in that division and only be noticed when they don't clock in the next day coz Monique will call after 8:30 if u hvnt clocked in.

Cnglemother
23 Jan 2013 20:51

@TheLady im exactly like you hun,i share alles from my child's school issues to the guy that stalks me!im currently in the process of reconciling with babydaddy (child' sake) after 6 yrs,now still thinking of ways to break that to them as they still know him as the deadbeat that dissapeared on us me 6 yrs ago.im a serial gossiper too.

Green.arrow
23 Jan 2013 22:03

Lol cnglema, your honesty is refreshing. Lol @ serial gossiper. I feel terrible if I find myself gossiping or anything close at work; you know those conversation about bosses, that they are horrible, I hate being part of them. Because I still enjoy learning from my superiors, so after the "bashing bosses" session, i become very uncomfortable when I must go consult with the boss. Eish...I actually just get stressed after such sessions, I feel terrible. So I prefer to be alone during lunch time or at prayer session, or with this nerdy super smart principal eng (male), we always talk about work and what's happening OUT there work related. PS: those "bashing the boss" sessions always happen when I find myself with the secretary and one/2 ladies, never with guys!? Oh except for Sthe LOL...

Green.arrow
23 Jan 2013 22:11

Lol @Deemo, I like you. Like your "office attitude"...

VusiK
24 Jan 2013 03:16

those "bashing the boss" sessions always happen

Would never know ... too busy keeping the company in business 5-10 years from now... (Which people are seldom aware is the boss' real job)

sisila
24 Jan 2013 08:47

@ Deemo i have the same attitude infact I think no one realy like me and i actually don't really mind cos everytime there is issues about who said what about who definetly i am not in the list. Im heading an all women department i have fought with everyone cos i take no nonsence and i call a spade a spade hate me or not we are all here to work and no babysitting if you have an issue meet me outside the gates of work we will sort it out doesn't matter how but we will sort it out. The non black also know me as the no go area person i dont have an ouma,oom,baas or whatever they call them we are all equal and yes i greet you once you dont respond the next time i dont bother. So in an nutshell im the one who is given names even thou no one has man in enough to come say it in my face.

maddie
24 Jan 2013 15:51

I get to the office and sit on my laptop and do programming the whole day well maybe a bit of tvsa there n there.

I have a boss who's so smart and lets u do ur thing mara he's too hyper o kare o na le ADD, our work is never understood/appreciated by the powers that be mara who can blame them they're from the stone age.

my colleagues:

there's only 2 ladies in our IT dept myself included, the other 1 is a desktop support person mara she feels offended when we call her that she wants to be referred to as a technician, helping people with basic computer skills that they should know in the first place to me is not technical. She started as an intern n u'd swear she was born angry.

she gossips like no other mostly abt me, it's embarassing cos as soon as I get out of the office she starts and I'll  catch her halfway through her gossip when i cum back n she gossips with this other guy who's also on the same position

n then we have a mr know it all indian guy who thinks he's the best thing since Bollywood yhoo that guy grates my tits, according to him women and IT don't mix, he'll interrupt u when u speak, hijack ur projects, badmouth u, backstab hai this guy is something else

afrikaaner in his 40s who's slowly but surely becoming an ancestor here. He's 4eva kissing the Indian guy's ass

network white boy - very moody


office yakhinya straight

VusiK
24 Jan 2013 17:36

Hello Maddie ... Loooooong Time Hey !!!

She started as an intern n u'd swear she was born angry.
LMAO !
It is called insipid entitlement, lol
I know the chip on the shoulder types.


n then we have a mr know it all indian guy who thinks he's the best thing since Bollywood
I heard, every office has one

network white boy - very moody
I heard I was always broody when I used to be in IT ... 25+ yrs ago... it has a lot to do with the irritation that people who unserstand machines expect those less gifted to know more/ better, truth is ... truth is ... most people are not even accomplished end-users.

maddie
25 Jan 2013 13:15

Hey VusiK long time indeed, do u facebook, if yes pls send me ur searchable name

sometimes i ask myself if the office environment brings out these characters in ppl or they're just that way nje

Favoured
25 Jan 2013 13:41

my surbodinates acts as if he is my boss and he like taking decision he is not supposed to and puts you in trouble 

hay ho thata ho sebetsa le batho 

reminded of a colleague who acts all serious and respected but the things he does! beyond closed office doors

Deemo
25 Jan 2013 15:43

@@sisila u a tough hey.what a lady.@maddie i just laughed reading yo comment.

VusiK
26 Jan 2013 20:26

@Maddie ...
I do not Facebook.
I will PM you my searchable name

tshepiso
28 Feb 2013 13:35

Which one are you?
I am the last one, always in my dest.I am forever moody and no one can confront me about my work as I am supporting the MEC. NO job description

duckie
28 Feb 2013 14:32

lolz,,

iam te secretary,greet everyone wth a smile, hv nicknames for al our boses

matasatasa
28 Feb 2013 14:38

Lol tshepiso.


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