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Written by portcia from the blog dusting on 03 Oct 2013
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Come on guys lets talk about dusting, some of us cant even discuss sex with their patners, so this ia a good place to be, lets share our experiences.

323 Comments

portcia
03 Oct 2013 10:29

Im waiting for you guys, pls come in*wink*

yoyozz
03 Oct 2013 10:32

HEHEHEHEHEHE PORTCIA YOU ARE NUMBER 1 KING OF DUSTING KRKRKRK

i will come later im bussy NO 2 HURRRAY portcia we are waiting start

Goldi
03 Oct 2013 10:42

YIPPPPPPPPPPPYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY *DANCING LIKE A WHITE MAN* dankie siyabonga 

ok let's hear Posh you can go 1st *wink*

portcia
03 Oct 2013 10:44

wA PHAPHA wena yoyozz,

Guys have you ever had sex, on the same bed, with the other couple? like you and your friend, with her boyfriend, busy dusting at the same time?

portcia
03 Oct 2013 10:59

Okay let me share my story, couse no one want to confess lmao..

When i met my husband, he had a friend, and his friend was a lover to my friend, so we were drunk, at his parents house, that weekend he has the house all to himself, then it was now time to sleep, so we went to the bed and left his friend and my friend behind, while we were busy dusting, then boom, there they were,kissing and then the next moment they join us on the bed, and started dusting. I stoped concertrating on my man, couse now i wached them pumping each other strong, yoh the guy was not even embarassed to show off his dig.

pjvv
03 Oct 2013 11:00

Kikikkiii, no I would never do that, seriously, coz I will be dying to watch pornographic movie next to me.

pjvv
03 Oct 2013 11:07

Oooki, as for me, what I used to do was since I stayed with my aunt and cousin who was 2 years younger than me. I couldn't leave my cousin on her own when I went to see bf and I would take her with. So we would leave her in the lounge watching a movie and go dust in the bedroom but I would feel guilty for days...She never spoke about it afterwards but guilty was eating me and my bf was complaining why I bring her along.

Ntaksay
03 Oct 2013 11:24

Posh You are the new Queen of dusting......

Mfundow
03 Oct 2013 11:27

Portcia wtf am sure you not really married with the dude you had sex with bcoz I find it very slutty 4 2couples sharing a bed

Bk212303
03 Oct 2013 11:40

Kwaaaaaaaaaakest guys

Goldi
03 Oct 2013 11:44

Mfundow dont JUDGE 

NO lala i've never done that hey and i would never i love my space

i remember one day my friend went to a party later on my bf came to fetch me he was with he's friend wen they got there my friend and he's friend started chatting and what not then it was home time we all went to my bf's place and mind you it was on 1 room they were sloshed and never wasted any time the bump and grind started yhoooo O.o i was so shocked the heavy breathing and the worx they didnt even care if we watching or not then my bf suggest we also do our own thing since they are i said no ways papa i even went outside because i couldnt take it anymo that's how disgusted i felt hahahahaha

Posh where is your friend now? lol Ntaks as for the new who is the old? *eyeing Yoyo

Bk212303
03 Oct 2013 11:46

Haaa shocked.....

Ntaksay
03 Oct 2013 12:06

lol Ntaks as for the new who is the old? *eyeing Yoyo
I had you in mind Goldi. *hiding*

Posh I have never done it and would never do it.

Let us not be judgemental Mfundo, we are sharing experiences. If we judge people won't share.

Ntaksay
03 Oct 2013 12:15

What is shocking you Bk

Bk212303
03 Oct 2013 12:31

Mfundo

Bk212303
03 Oct 2013 12:32

and the friends dusting in one bed haa i would never shame cause i would be bussy checking the others so it wont work for me.....imagine hahahahh

portcia
03 Oct 2013 12:53

Mfundow, yes i am married to him, and i was 18 years old when it happened
Bk we both lost interest as we were now waching tehm homp each other, though we had different blankets, but we still slept on the same bed.
Goldi my friend is married to another man now.

portcia
03 Oct 2013 12:55

Mfundow, it was not slutty, we only shared a bed, not sex.

yoyozz
03 Oct 2013 13:02

why not guys. im asking why not. sex is sex and i wish i can be fly and watch you while bussy with your serious face dusting. i never do it BUT if is there any chance i would. my cousin used to dust with her boyfriend in the same room same bed she was preg and loved sex so much. i never knw this was wrong untill my boyfriend heard about it and come and face me how can i sleep in the same bed. my problem is that even now i dont like sleeping alone in the bed at night. i have fear of dark and i dont know how to overcome it. im used at watching people dusting as long im not alone in the room im happy. even my room mate at school dust and i watch tv thats it. but i would like to do the dusting thing with my friends WITH BENEFITS. not my boyfriend or husbby.

Pastry
03 Oct 2013 13:04

Mmmhhhh

Am waiting to Mims to tell her imaginary stories

Ive never shared a bed with another couple it even feels weird even if the other couple is on the room next door if i hear the sounds and moves...krrrrrrrrr

Pastry
03 Oct 2013 13:06

Just be careful should you do yoyoz cause these people take pics and make videos of sch scened next thin gyou are on FB

Goldi
03 Oct 2013 13:08

I had you in mind Goldi. *hiding* O.o and here i was thinking it's Yoyo lol

Has any1 ever tried 3sum? that's my sexual wish but it has to be 2 females since i'm also curious about making out with a girl *not hiding* hahahaha before i wanted it to be 2 males but since i'm scared of ANAL i prefer 2 females

yoyozz
03 Oct 2013 13:08

i need water next to me. kwaaax Goldi you are eyeing me and i was eyeing you MY QUEEN please dont disappoint me *hides*

yoyozz
03 Oct 2013 13:18

pastry

Just be careful should you do yoyoz cause these people take pics and make videos of sch scened next thin gyou are on FB.

we will make sure no fowns or computer. mara where did this cell phone thing come from.

GOLDI SHAKE MY HAND MARN I WAS ALSO THINKING ABOUT THAT  3 SUM THAT WOULD BE NICE HEY.

Bk212303
03 Oct 2013 13:43

Hahahahahahahaahaah yhoo you guys are killing me ngoku....

Oh Goldi u want a piece of yoyos punas hahahahhah

Bk212303
03 Oct 2013 13:44

If i may ask Goldi and yoyos in this three some what would each of you do or which position khani describe plzzzzz.......ndifunukroba mna....

VusiK
03 Oct 2013 13:47

Just been told about this dust page ...
The usual suspects are at it I see .

portcia
03 Oct 2013 13:53

i used to think about it, but im scared, yoyozz, i was also in the same situation as yours, one day, my bf was away, so i had to sleep in the same room with my friend, and her bf ( same people) but i didnt feel a thing, though they were making funny sounds.

portcia
03 Oct 2013 13:56

Hello malume Vusik, yoh...... i thought you will never find us *running away*

Bk212303
03 Oct 2013 13:59

Hi Malume Vusi was just about to say im missing you. Hayi you sooo quiet and now we decided to keep our selves bussy...as you can c hahhahahah

Welcome though its always good to hear from you...

Bk212303
03 Oct 2013 14:00

usual suspects .........kwaaaaakest

VusiK
03 Oct 2013 14:00

Hello BK, Portcia, Yoyos, etc.

Never been with another couple in the same bed ...
I am rather private ... & people love to talk other people's business... and
I've never had friends I was so close with as to share  a bed or dusting space with. (Thank heavens)

Been in threesomes - a-plenty (still do 'em ... but only with the right people (for me) ... always with two women ... even been with more than two women simultaneously (different combinations ... of inter-relationships, etc.)

(Not into men in my dusting space by any measure ... (If a man want's to dust ... buy a room or something.. or get his own bed))

Women are equally difficult & tricky & complicated ... and fiercely territorial.
I do not suggest a threesome if one is in a relationship, or wherein one has, or can develop trust issues ... life (and the relationship) can get irreparably complicated.

VusiK
03 Oct 2013 14:01

and Hello Goldi

VusiK
03 Oct 2013 14:04

I'm busy moving country, so extremely busy between that and work... absolutely not a minute spare

mna
03 Oct 2013 14:08

i've never had a three some and i never will. its jus doesn't seem ryt/ having to touch another woman's breast and kuku no no for me shem..

there's a time wen i went partying at boyfriends' house, i got so drunk. wen i thot now is the time mmm busy dusting, his friend walked in and started taking off his cloths  am thinking ah mayb he's drunk he doesn't see us. then i see him put on the condom coming to us jo! i ran to the room were his cousins were sleeping (necked) luckily everyone was sleeping there. i jus opened the wardrop and put on cloths that were there n went to the lounge and watched TV till morning. i left and never took his calls.

some pple are disgusting yazi.

Friend
03 Oct 2013 14:16

hi, hi. i can go for years without dusting, let alone think about it.am i normal okanye ....., wishfulthinking

VusiK
03 Oct 2013 14:20

@bloggers ...

Just because something is not agreeable with you does not mean everyone shares your opinion, so please be careful about the use of words like slutty, disgusting, etc in blogs such as the one we are commenting on because you might just alienate yourself, or someone else ...

Nobody knows what really happens inside anyone other than themselves.

What might disgust you might excite the next person and vice  versa.

portcia
03 Oct 2013 14:23

VusiK i think doing three some, and sharing a bed with ither couple, is almost the samething, the difference here is that you stick to your patner, tell me if im wrong
mna, i would also run for my life, so why were you upset with your bf, do you think he was gonna let the guy get some?

VusiK
03 Oct 2013 14:25

hi, hi. i can go for years without dusting, let alone think about it.am i normal okanye ....., wishfulthinking

Strangely (for most people's opinion of me ...

Ditto

(I've been cellibate for a while now, and everyone thinks my world is  imploding
matchmaking & making suggestions & referrals to eligible women (aunties and friends, etc))

When not into sex ... I am completely out of it
When into it ... I am completely into it.

simple as that.

portcia
03 Oct 2013 14:27

@VusiK  What might disgust you might excite the next person vice versa
i agree with you there.

VusiK
03 Oct 2013 14:28

@Portcia

a three-some or more-some in my case ....
has always been me (solo) and women dusting (the women also were free to dust one another) ... If another man wanted that kind of scene, he would have to make his own arrangements

Two couples in a bed can include swapping and swinging, or no swapping ... that it very different.

Friend
03 Oct 2013 14:29

0 some, 1 some, 2 some, 3 some etc, dusting is dusting, nothing sluty or disgusting about it.

Friend
03 Oct 2013 14:34

(I've been cellibate for a while now, and everyone thinks my world is imploding matchmaking & making suggestions & referrals to eligible women (aunties and friends, etc)) ******************************************************************************************* Do you masturbate at times? i used to.

Ntaksay
03 Oct 2013 14:39

Kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaakest Mna

VusiK
03 Oct 2013 14:40

Yes, I masturbate occasionally, as does everyone

Pastry
03 Oct 2013 14:49

Yes, I masturbate occasionally (I think you statement should have ended here), as does everyone (because the fact that you do it has nothing to do with the fact that other people do it right?)

Sawubona malume Vusi

Mna...thats so classic

Friend are you heterosexual?

Friend
03 Oct 2013 14:59

Friend are you heterosexual? @@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@ Yes i am (attracted to people of the opposite sex), (straight). Why do you ask?

Bk212303
03 Oct 2013 15:03

Remember dusting is IMPILO.


What might disgust you might excite the next person vice versa

I agree here, and you never know maybe what you like someone else hates so it is vice versa

VusiK
03 Oct 2013 15:04

@Pastry .... Evryone above puberty masturbates ...
or masturbated ... some earlier than puberty

whether they care to admit it or not ...
it is as natural a process of our development as the act of dusting.

Goldi
03 Oct 2013 15:07

I WOULD LOVE TO KNOW HOW TO GO ABOUT MISASTURBATION BUT I CANT PLS ANY1 NOMD PLEASE TLL ME WHAT MUST I DO? sorry guys i'm ot shouting my cap were on

Goldi
03 Oct 2013 15:15

Hey Vusi........

portcia
03 Oct 2013 15:18

Friend, are you a male?

VusiK
03 Oct 2013 15:21

hello Goldi

portcia
03 Oct 2013 15:24

Goldi, when am alone and hubby and kids are not there, and i really feel like dusting, i do it with a pillow, and just think of him, so in my mind i see him touching and kissing me all over, then undress me, then we do it, but the problem is that if i do it alone, i come up early than when im really dusting.

If you try it, you have to hold on the pillow tight, dont just leave it there. lol............

VusiK
03 Oct 2013 15:26

@Goldi ... experiment with warm water (just above body temperature) or your finger on and around your clitoris for starters ...
(the shower spout or bathtub spigot provides sufficient water stream)
You can get adventurous later once you know and understand what works best for you.also your erogenous stimulation varies so find out what works for you ...

there is no fixed formula.

Friend
03 Oct 2013 15:29

Portcia, Female. Mother of 2. hehehe why vele?

VusiK
03 Oct 2013 15:31

Masturbation is nothing beyond the act of stimulating yourself sexually
With most people ... this culminates in an orgasm (same as dusting, but not necessarily penetrative, or invasive)
Whatever form that takes

VusiK
03 Oct 2013 15:33

Goodnight !
I am exhausted.

portcia
03 Oct 2013 15:34

Woman dont always talk about mastubating, EVEN THOUGH WE DO IT.thats why i was lost, sorry Friend.

portcia
03 Oct 2013 15:35

60 replies already, i love this space.

Bk212303
03 Oct 2013 15:41

Haa yababa le blog i must say

Friend
03 Oct 2013 15:44

lol, Portcia. I guess I'm one of those who talk about it n do it. I'm married by the way.

yozza
03 Oct 2013 15:44

@ Posh i used to Share a room not a bed wen i was still@Tertiary and nothing was funny i dd it several times not once and not twice and i was enjoing as usual.....! 


@Friend yes i do Mastubate a lot and ndiyakuthanda shme i wont lie.....Dusting is ma second name Lmao!

Pastry
03 Oct 2013 15:58

Was just asking nje Friend...too much masturbation kills intimacy with your spouse, i hope your marriage is a healthy one!

VusiK
03 Oct 2013 16:02

@Pastry ... I differ on that opinion

One can teach their spouse how to pleasure them better ... regardless of  the presence of masturbation.
If I had a partner who did not pleasure me properly,
I would try teasch them how ...If that failed ... the relationship would probably be very short lived because I insist on learning what pleases my partner in every way.

Back to bed,
my woody ...
and my body pillow

VusiK
03 Oct 2013 16:07

If I could afford the time
I'd masturbate daily...
but alas ... the day does not have 40 hours!

portcia
03 Oct 2013 16:23

Can you guys stay bei faithful to your patner, even after they had a terrible accident that would leave them without their private part, i've read about a story of the lady who was kicked on her part, and the damage was too much, so she cant have sex.

Cinese
03 Oct 2013 16:23

I'm glad that there is a great exchange here and appreciate it. Honestly, I have never heard of the word "Dusting". Call me clueless. lol. I think it's good to have an open conversation about topics like masturbation. Especially if you can't verbally speak on it. This act is very natural. Just don't do it in public ;)

http://waterseed.bandcamp.com/

VusiK
03 Oct 2013 16:30

@Portcia

Depending on the relationsip type ...

It is quite possible for me,

mna
03 Oct 2013 16:34

eish i think some women wld stay @ Portcia. but men i don't think there's any who wld stick arnd.
@Portcia i was expecting him to chase out wen he was undressing/putting on the condom coz he cld also see him. but instead continued doing me. i was disgusted honestly.. no offence to the fans of three somes.

Mimibob
03 Oct 2013 16:35

68 replies already! Yho! Even Malome is here.. Let me go and read.

VusiK
03 Oct 2013 16:46

@Mna ... You expected intervention where none came ... that is understandable ... Evidently,
You were not a willing participant,
nor were you consulted nor consensual ...
Your disgust (now that you have filled in the missing information) is understandable.
If anything had happened and you had objected,
...
it would have been rape.
Regardless of your boyfriend's participation or consent.
Your consent was absent.

VusiK
03 Oct 2013 16:48

Hello Mims ...

I was wondering when you'd show up to express your views on dusting.

mna
03 Oct 2013 17:01

thank you malumVus for the clarification. i think they thot i was too drunk to see wats happening. thats actually why i decided to end things. crazy!

VusiK
03 Oct 2013 17:02

no offence to the fans of three somes.

fan does not equate to enjoy, or engage

(I enjoy R. Kelly and many other musicians work ... but I am NOT their FAN) ... I don't even buy their music (It is often donated or gifted)

VusiK
03 Oct 2013 17:04

@Mna ...
People do take other people for ranted, and assume things ...

That always makes me sad because clear communication is an art,
and clear communication eliminates messes from happening.

VusiK
03 Oct 2013 17:18

It is almost midnight ...

My sister and her husband are coming over for tea/coffee
I will not get sleep today.

Mims is Mute today

Be well people

Pastry
03 Oct 2013 17:24

Hhehehehe malume Vusi...you are still here!

Mims i hope you are feeling better ausi

Good night fellows, will catch up with the rest tomorrow!

VusiK
03 Oct 2013 17:29

I should have called a for a Massage
:-(

Mimibob
03 Oct 2013 17:57

@ Vus, Hello Mims ...

I was wondering when you'd show up to express your views on dusting.
Hi Vus. Lol... There you have it. And I thought you were sleeping... Mmmm...

VusiK
03 Oct 2013 18:14

@Mims ....
Congratulations on your 1st solo orgasm.!
:-)
Christianity has (in my opinion) nothing to do with masturbation.
I have company(Evidently my ex brother in law died)

Mimibob
03 Oct 2013 19:25

@ Vus, Christianity has (in my opinion) nothing to do with masturbation.
I grew up knowing masturbation was sin. 
The Pastor whose short audio clip I sent you the other day once touched on it. He did not encourage it, but said it was not sin. This unsettled many.
This "revelation" might have helped ease my conscience.

VusiK
03 Oct 2013 20:01

... The subject unsettles many still
...
The source is historical when social and religious norms were being drawn up.
...
the intent was to dissuade temptation, wanton behaviour, and debauchery ...
...
However, the eventual interpretation, delivery and absorption of the message got lost because it was delivered by men who claimed to have made an oath of celibacy (the priesthood) whilst engaging in debauchery of their own.

Everything is subject to interpretation ...

It is up to the individual to determine what works best for their internal moral compass ...

I tend not to listen to anyone who quites a book written, compiled, and translated, reinterpreted, re-translated, and peppered with doctrine, human agenda and human experience (or lack thereof) along the was ... as the absolute word of G*d....

To each their own ...

I do not judge anyone for their beliefs.

Everyone ... as a self determining adult, is free to believe whatever they decide is correct for them.

Riyat
03 Oct 2013 21:19

ahem

Goldi
03 Oct 2013 21:53

Funny you should say that Vusi I saw this episode on a movie were by this woman was doing herself via in a bath tub holding a shower down there ima try that after I'm done with my montthly payments mmmmm that really caught my eye I wana try them all until I find my SPOT :) ok night guys I love this house already hihihihi

Woman of God
03 Oct 2013 21:57

Goldie kakakakkakakkakka yowee all the bst shame

portcia
04 Oct 2013 08:41

Good morning guys are you here today?mna, i understand now darling, i would also end up the relationship.
I will still love my husband, even after he had an accident that would cause him his man hood, and would mastubate a lot, couse there will be no dusting,but i dont think most man will still be in that relationship if the tables were turned.

Goldi
04 Oct 2013 08:58

Morning my partners in DUSTING hihihihihihi Happy Friday to ya'll 

haaibo Aya what is the meaning of you laugh? *side eyes you* thanks for wishing me luck though tltltltltltltltltl

Well it's not always about the SEX so i think i would stay if i really love him hey.....

i dont think most man will still be in that relationship if the tables were turned.
why specifically MEN? cos even some WOMEN wont stay in such a relationship

mna
04 Oct 2013 09:23

good morning All.

eish kuyashisa lana.. all the best @Goldi with that kiki. i have tried doing it several times and it doesn't work for me. i get bored easily n find it silly for some reason. it honestly has never worked for me. thats why i stopped.

i also think most men wldn't stick arnd. most women wld. am saying this because rate of cheating men is higher than women under any circumstance.

yoyozz
04 Oct 2013 10:17

mimbob  body stiffened. My clit haddened. I felt "full" down there. I thought I was gonna pee on myself. My body vibrated uncotrollably. My toes tingled and curled. I suppressed a scream but groaned instead.

i know what you talking about and i know that small button in the clit thats my spot its not easy to find it, you have to take your mind far think about someone you love most even if hes not your boyfriend try to move touch yourself then you will find the spot its too small there inside ur clit on top once you are wet enough your clit will open and you will find that button. no one is gonna tell you that yes you are on the spot but your body will tell, you feel hot, high energy moving fast, warmth and smoothness you will sweat cry and your voice will come out after that you will vibrate come and get tired and sleep without saying a word. BUT please dont try it coz you will do it everyday before you sleep in the day when you are alone and you will never trust your man when it comes to sex you will always think about your finger. im glad im over it.

Goldi
04 Oct 2013 10:39

heeeee Mims come to think of it well i think 2months back i had a dream it was a hot steamy session i was even sweating but i was doing it with a girl that's why i wana try it *giggles* and 2weeks back i felt like that Mims thought i was gona pee right the in bed all i could do was just squeeze my thighs and felt like screaming and i was holding on to my pillow dammit i guess that was it *bleep!* ORGASM @ it's best but funny enough it only happens when i'm asleep when i try to play with myself it doesnt happen guess i have to fantise about some1 my IMAGINARY BOYFRIEND WILL DO *Smiling*

WOW YOYO! sounds like a plan hey

well i gave up trying to play with myself, even thought maybe these something wrong with my LIBIDO *sigh* SEX DRIVE GONE AND I LOVE DUSTING

mna
04 Oct 2013 11:07

@ yoyozz... i got turned on reading wat u jus wrote. kikik. i love sex but my fingers don't to it for me.

yozza
04 Oct 2013 11:17

Morning family


Is it possible to go 2 your periods when you are pregnant?

VusiK
04 Oct 2013 11:22

@Mna ...
i also think most men wldn't stick arnd. most women wld. am saying this because rate of cheating men is higher than women under any circumstance.

I assure you ... women cheat as much as men ... unless you are saying men cheat ONLY with other men.

VusiK
04 Oct 2013 11:25

@yozza ... It is actually quite common for a woman to be regnant and menstruate.

mna
04 Oct 2013 11:49

lol wat u saying malumVus?? most women are loyal lol. i gues u ryt tho nowadays we not too different. especially SA women *hides* they love sex too much *re-hides*

yep yozza but usually first month o second. but its always best to see a doc if this happens

Goldi
04 Oct 2013 11:58

@Yoz i only know for 2 or 3months babe

unless you are saying men cheat ONLY with other men.

Lol Vusi

Dhee
04 Oct 2013 12:01

mmmmmmmmmmmmmm Interesting stuff.

Riyat
04 Oct 2013 12:01

Lol

Riyat
04 Oct 2013 12:02

Dhee where were u?

VusiK
04 Oct 2013 12:08

@Mna ... it is easy to suppose that because YOU are a woman.

I assure you are not by any measure, an authority on MEN nor their behaviour. No woman is, can be, or ever will be.

Woman of God
04 Oct 2013 12:20

#Well i will try until i find my spot"am loling at this goldi mmmm i will stay in dat relationship but i will CHEAT dnt think i will manage to die of hunger nxa

Dhee
04 Oct 2013 12:26

@ Riyati I'm here just reading all yours comments.

Truth be told women cheat more than men its only that they don't air their dirty laundry, they are the expects at hiding each and every little detail even if they are caught right handed they are good at denying. So don't blame all the cheating on men only. Some women go to the length of approaching the men if a chance produces itself. Like malume Vusi said "Men cant cheat alone" we are also encouraging cheating.

Dhee
04 Oct 2013 12:29

Musterbating is actually much enjoyable than sex the only sad part you finish quickly and that short moment leaves very tired.

Dhee
04 Oct 2013 12:32


Well as for a partner whose cobra no longer performs I am very sorry bo daliza I will never stay in that relationship no matter how much I love the guy but I love sex more shame. If you cant stay with a partner who doesn't perform well how can you last with an overiped banana. No ways I cant.

VusiK
04 Oct 2013 12:36

@Ayah ...
I am not in Africa ... I do not take voice calls.

VusiK
04 Oct 2013 12:38

@Dhee ...
Women tend to be discovered less in their indiscretions because they tend NOT TO ALTER their life PATTERNS to accommodate their illicit activities.

Mimibob
04 Oct 2013 12:47

@ Vus, I assure you ... women cheat as much as men ... unless you are saying men cheat ONLY with other men.
I guess the assumption here is that the women in question do not have other partners other this particular man, and the man has another partner, so it is the man cheating.
I agree though that women cheat, maybe equally as much as men. If I were to get a poll on this blog I'd get a rough idea... *I can already hear everybody saying "I don't cheat"* Lol...

Bk212303
04 Oct 2013 12:48

Knti ukuphi Uncle V???

Bk212303
04 Oct 2013 12:50

Yeyi it is truth seriously we all cheaters sukaa.....

VusiK
04 Oct 2013 12:54

@Mims ... It would depend on whether the people you are polling are absolutely truthful.

People have a wonderful tendency to lie... especially about something that could embarrass them.
Personally, I never lie (some bloggers know me personally, and can vouch for this assertion), and ...

I avoid cheating wherever and whenever possible ... The risk is always that I could fall in love with the person I would be engaged in cheating with, and ..
that would never be a sound foundation to build any form of relationship, let alone a loving one.

However, If I was not in a committed relationship, and elected to see more than one woman (intimately), I would disclose the reality they fact
It all boils down to the tye of person one is, as well as their aspirations in life.

Personally I avoid any messy situation, or the possibility thereof. (I have been in quite a number of those, so my experience counts in my determining my risk matrix)

Mimibob
04 Oct 2013 12:57

Women tend to be discovered less in their indiscretions because they tend NOT TO ALTER their life PATTERNS to accommodate their illicit activities.
I could never pull off this one. I'd just get caught.

duckie
04 Oct 2013 12:58

mmmmh m a bit late

i once went to a party wth my & my BF, my brought hs frnd alng*wen m drunk i want my man nd hs manhood* so as we were drinkin me nd my decided to go ftch mre boose in the car as we were at an oopen place we went to the car, strtd kiddin,muffin nd yah roundinyana dd it, then my frnd nd my bf s frnd strtd kolin none stop sayin ere were cops send pipo hme coz it ws late,eventual i nd bf got bck pickd up those two, went to my bf s hauz(BAck room)
mind we were already hot dwn ere, so wen we got ere i jumpd t the bed nd we cntnued drinkn,myman joind me b4 we knew we were kissin thn the two got the msg took blankets nd went to slp in the car were ey also fnshd eir business nd forgot to clean the card

cum nxt mrng hubby needs to tke us home eres usd cndms in the car nd these two denied

VusiK
04 Oct 2013 13:04

LOL @ Mims ....

Same here !

and it is never worth it by any measure.
It is the one we take for granted who tends to be the absolute gem to preserve, unfortunately, the quest for immediate gain and satisfaction of whatever motivation clouds most people's judgment ... at that moment...

Especially where alcohol and environmental euphoria is a factor.

VusiK
04 Oct 2013 13:06

I happen to be a little older ...

Been there ! ...
Done that ! ...
...
Got a closet full of T-Shirts !!!

Woman of God
04 Oct 2013 13:18

Ok uncle v where are?

Mimibob
04 Oct 2013 13:20

Yeyi it is truth seriously we all cheaters sukaa.....
Lol BK. At least we have an honest one in you. 

Anyone else? *Open hands in the air... Eyes looking about...*

VusiK
04 Oct 2013 13:26

Presently Singapore

When Done here

France,
then Malta,
then Geneva Switzerland,
then UK,
then Cayman Islands
then Shanghai

Mimibob
04 Oct 2013 13:27

Knti ukuphi Uncle V???
Ok uncle v where are?

Le botsa thata. There is your answer:
I am not in Africa

*Self-imposed PA*

VusiK
04 Oct 2013 13:28

Anyone else? *Open hands in the air... Eyes looking about...*

I do not cheat,
I will not cheat.

If something does not work out,
...
I leave.

Pastry
04 Oct 2013 13:31

Oh Sharks you are all still dusting even today! Am sure a lot of you run to some private spot to go relieve yourselves neh, with some of the comments here!

Be careful that your puna's and cobra's dont age before the rest of your other parts of the body buddies!

Woman of God
04 Oct 2013 13:35

Yooo uncle vusi u travel too much most woman cheat or has cheated me included lol just dat we as woman is not rare that get caught bt we do cheat

yozza
04 Oct 2013 13:46

Heh Kakade Family Why do Men Like to Sleep Afta Sex......? Wats up

VusiK
04 Oct 2013 13:48

@Aya

I don't have a woman to worry about cheating on;
or of one cheating on me, ...

...so there's your answer !

@Mims ...

Sorry ..
Did not mean to scratch your wound!

VusiK
04 Oct 2013 13:49

@Mims ...

Awesome PA-ing there!
lol

MsKim
04 Oct 2013 13:55

YEY!! Dusting Topic!!

Hello everyone. interest topic.

@Mimi i don't think it ages. wen you are used to doing kegel/kegal (sorry don't knw the spelling) exercises it is easy to squeeze the cobra. from wat i learnt from my granny puna needs to be washed with cold water always so that it will stay tight. mens cobras do age tho.. kikiki 

Goldi
04 Oct 2013 13:55

Well nna i only Cheated once just for revenge and show him that i could do it 10 times better than him after i was done confessed it all *evil grin* since i was never caught and i wanted him to know that i'm also capable of such so yeah we all cheat and we *women* we very good at it you only get caught if you want to

Woman of God
04 Oct 2013 13:55

Haaa yozza can man answer that question? Wnt to know too

Mimibob
04 Oct 2013 13:56

Not judging anyone, I'm really a one man woman. I could never cheat. I'm so sensitive on what man touches me and how. From as far back as my early teens, men and boys around me have always known and respected that they keep their hands to themselves and would hardly suggest anything sexual to me. And people who meet me or get to know me now mostly assume I'm married, both male and female. Maybe I appear uptight... Lol... (I do not suggest in anyway that married women are uptight, before I get slaughtered here)

VusiK
04 Oct 2013 13:56

Kegel Exercises (Vaginal floor muscles)

The white women's secret to retaining their men ...

Highly neglected by black women.

MsKim
04 Oct 2013 13:56

apologies for my spell n grama.. its friday am siping on ma savanna.. patience to read and correct has run out..

VusiK
04 Oct 2013 14:00

One of the 1st questions I ever ask a "Possibilitity" is ...

"How are your Kegels"

if they draw a blank ...

I say "Do your research.

(White women teach their young women children about Kegels at their 1st period lunch)

MsKim
04 Oct 2013 14:02

i've also never cheated, tho there are times i have thot abt it especially wen hubby does me wrong. and offcoz i haven't been asked out by someone i really feel is worth it. yep i am still stuck in the stone age (wait to be asked out) .. kkk

Loveforever
04 Oct 2013 14:03

@ Friend U are not alone. I also experience the same thing. Female and mother. I am sure this is some kind of sickness or something

VusiK
04 Oct 2013 14:06

Well ... Neglect your Kegels at your own peril.

I once met a woman who had such awesome Kegels that she could crack a rather hard nut with them (wrapped in a latex condom) ...

She is still my hero !

VusiK
04 Oct 2013 14:09

@Yozza ...

It is because the perinuem & prostate actually burns a lot of energy during orgasm.
The heartrate accelerates,
endorphins accelerate
Adrenaline accelerates

they are actually somewhat exhausted and overcome by sense of calm bliss that inspires sleep and/or cuddling.

This is simple biology.

Do your research, and wonder less.

Pastry
04 Oct 2013 14:10

Its just a silly assumption i have in my head gore "that thing" ages there more its at work, no scientific proof though.

I have never cheated and I must say i am one of the most faithful women any guy can ever have. Sadly i have been accused of cheating even if i did not. Before it used to hurt me but not anymore.

I am single now and I plan to be a blessing to the next lucky fish that nets me!

VusiK
04 Oct 2013 14:17

@Ms Kim ...

Men's Cobras don't age either.

it is the alcohol and smoking that makes the phallic tissue not as elastic as it was during their youth.

The causal phenomenon is called Vaso-constriction.

We blacks tend to associate pleasure and fun with the consumption of alcohol, which most of the time goes hand in hand with smoking.
Diet (Great nutrition) is extremely important in maintaining a healthy lifestyle ... another factor we do not

I assure  you ... at almost 50, I still maintain the same status I did when I was in my 20s... Even after many bouts of cancer and heart attacks.

Stamina is directly related to the amount of exercise a person engages ...

It is possible that many men run out of stamina, which could be interpreted as a failing Phallus (Cobra)

We are our own worst enemies where our sexual health is concerned.

Mimibob
04 Oct 2013 14:22

(White women teach their young women children about Kegels at their 1st period lunch)
Sadly, no one ever talked to me about boys or sex. I had to lay down my own rules around boys. No one even spoke to me about periods, I learn about them in class. I remeber the first time a classmate had stained on herself, before we reached the topic in class, I had my own story on what I thought happened and everyone laughed at me.

My mother would probably faint if I were to mention the word "sex" around her. I know though that she wishes she had been closer to me and spoken to me, but it's difficult now, and too late. And I really do not wanna talk sex with my mother, but I will raise my daughters differently. 

My ex taught me kegels. He knew so much I was forced to research a lot. I had to learn a lot in a short space of time.

Mimibob
04 Oct 2013 14:25

@ Pastry, I am single now and I plan to be a blessing to the next lucky fish that nets me!
All the best nana, and lolling at the fish netting you.

VusiK
04 Oct 2013 14:27

My suggestion .....
Those with a smartphone ... download the HealthTap APP

Ask questions,
Do your research,

plus there are doctors on hand to respond to any questions that may stump you.

@Mims ... Your Ex .... would probably been quite a catch.
Any man who is concerned about his woman's health (sexual or otherwise) is a keeper in my book
If you are the kind of person who is easily embarrassed by the facts ... do your research in private.

VusiK
04 Oct 2013 14:32

@Mims ...

my family has always been open and honest discussing sex and sexuality

By age ten, we knew how we came about and what sex, love & intimacy entailed.... as well as the risks and responsibilities that went with such acts.

Had I been a scoundrel (I probably was) ... when my girlfriend at the time was expecting my 1st child's family came around ...
there was no denying my responsibilities to the life I had created.

`my father would have simply asked "Did you two have sex? " ,,,,, and that would have been the end of the discussion.

VusiK
04 Oct 2013 14:34

I discuss sex with my children from the time they are six.

None of my children have children
and
they say they will not have children until they are ready to be parents.

VusiK
04 Oct 2013 14:37

As a single parent, ...

I do buy my child's pads or tampons (whichever she prefers)

if they contract infections (from whatever source), they ask questions, and get truthful, complete answers, and possible remedies and/ or preventative measures.
(Tampons & pads can give a woman an infection ... especially the scented ones made of suspect fibre)

VusiK
04 Oct 2013 14:43

Fortunately ...
in my family .... we have the tendency to be allergic to mixed fibres (blends)

...so the children grow up sticking to single fibre everything ... be that cotton, wool, silks, or whatever. (never any synthetics or blends)

We never allow synthetics to touch our bodies, lest we be all itchy and scratchy as though we have been where we should not have been.

I also do not allow my children to be wiped when they have spoiled themselves ...
Off with the clothes, and a clean proper wash ...so nothing is left to burn their skin.

it all sounds tedious and laborious, but worthwhile in developing familial intimacy, trust, faith, and good will.

Mimibob
04 Oct 2013 14:43

@Mims ... Your Ex .... would probably been quite a catch.
Any man who is concerned about his woman's health (sexual or otherwise) is a keeper in my book
He was concerned for his own benefit. Lol... But I'm forever grateful.

Your children are blessed to have you Vus.

VusiK
04 Oct 2013 14:44

Even when it is only pee ...

I wash the baby.

Attention to detail is extremely important.

VusiK
04 Oct 2013 14:47

@Mims ... Thank You.

Well ... Presently, I have several egg donors to interview once I get settled (again)

Hopefully the egg donors I will be interviewing pass the psychometrics.
Aesthetically, they are pleasant, but I was to know what their genetic mental history is composed of...
I don't want an egg from a psycho.
The surrogates on my shortlist have all passed all my benchmarks wonderfully.

VusiK
04 Oct 2013 14:48

@Mims ...

All the best with that fish!

Goldi
04 Oct 2013 14:50

Pastry mabybe that lucky fish is your new TOY ben 10 lol

i dont think it ages down there hey for 1 after giving birth it goes back to normal you stay for so many months without getting any when you finally do it feels like it's your 1st time so i doiut if it does and also needs to be taken care off, keeping it clean like a treasure *smiling * that's what i call mine GOLDEN EYE OR TREASURE 

VusiK
04 Oct 2013 14:52

LMAO @ Godi!

Mimibob
04 Oct 2013 14:54

@ Vus, I don't want an egg from a psycho.
Hahaaa... This really made me laugh.. I can imagine...

So, you are getting egg donors and surrogates? Why can't it be the same person, i.e. the egg donor getting pregnant themself, or the "surrogate" coming full with her eggs.. Or am I missing something? 

Mimibob
04 Oct 2013 14:56

What fish Vus? Pastry talked about being netted by a fish, not me hon.

Mimibob
04 Oct 2013 14:59

Vus, @Mims ...
All the best with that fish!
I'm still in love with my ex, unfortunately. I will not look at any man twice until im weaned of this. Fish will have to wait for now.

VusiK
04 Oct 2013 15:01

@Mims ... Sorry .... My mistake

VusiK
04 Oct 2013 15:11

@Mims ...

It is possible for the surrogate and the donor to be the same person, but that scenario can have very complicated legal ramifications.
For my needs and purposes ... it is better to separate the two contracts completely (in the even of dispute or legal claim, or some other complications.) also the legal requirements for donors differ greatly from those of surrogates


Donors do not need to have had prior children (preferably) without complications... surrogates do
My donor candidates are picked from people who have the propensity never to want children of their own (eliminates having to track their offspring ... this mitigates genetic attraction and accidental/ incidental incest, etc.,)
The process is not as simple as people think it is when one plays through the possible scenarios.
Fortunately, I am a meticulous records keeper and my children will know who donated their eggs when they mature and will be properly equipped to avoid what I wish to avoid by separating the to requisite parts of theis particular quests.
My children will know how they came about (the obvious lack of a Mom" at home is the most obvious giveaway to spur their curiousity ... and the answers will be truthful.
Also ... when they wish to communicate by sending a "thank you for giving me the opportunity of life"card ... I will find that acceptable provided they (the donors or surrogates) do not violate the terms of their contract by attempting contact beyond what is agreed upon.

This is much harder than meeting someone , falling in love, and making babies ...

Trust me.

VusiK
04 Oct 2013 15:14

There have been cases where one or other party violated their agreement and ...

either won, or lost their children.

I have no interest in any measure of risk.

Mimibob
04 Oct 2013 15:23

@ Vus, Joh! Yah, you better not get an egg from a psycho, you are crazy yourself! *No offense*. And really Vus, I can give you 10 babies if you want them that bad mos, and we avoid all of that!

VusiK
04 Oct 2013 15:24

For instance ...

In South Africa ....
Surrogacy and donor laws are drawn by people without a clue regarding what scenarios to consider
... hence I emigrated to friendly territories regarding the protection of the children and myself.

(In South Africa ... It is illegal to reward the donor or the surrogate ... this eliminates incentive and candidacy.
South Africans are also not very au-fait with the legal implications of the various processes.)
I will not engage a candidate who drinks or smokes
I will not engage a candidate who has a sexual partner(to state only two of the most obvious complications)
People have lives and may not be inclined to be sequestered or their behaviour controlled or  moderated ... (My surrogates are also nursing (breastfeeding) candidates ... plus will be living on my yacht for their entire gestation under the supervision of dieticians, doctors and nurses ... most people cannot and will not abandon their lives for my benefit easily ... hence ... i do what is pragmatic and guarantee me the results I am desirous of.

It is not as simple as egg plus sperm equals baby.

Woman of God
04 Oct 2013 15:32

Ur kids are blessed to have u vusik mimi same here yowee my mom doesnt n never did discuss about sex n relationship even now whn i go home our discussion is bible verses n some songs or any issues bt not sex n relationship thats y i love blogs like this i wnt to learn more

VusiK
04 Oct 2013 15:33

@Mims ...

Somewhere among these "new children" is/ are my heirs.
(my present children have zero interest in following in my footsteps ... principally because their mothers raised them ... I eliminate the mother's influence (and expectations)/ factor this way)
These children will be 100% my product, socially, developmentally, and environmentally
for instance ....
My children go to the best school on earth (it also happens to be the most expensive school on earth) ...
The new children will also go to the same school, but will not have distractive influences imposed on them.
Somewhere in this lot, will be someone who is somewhat like my son who died ... 100% focused on Daddy and daddy will be his sole hero.

That child will probably decide (of his own volition) to follow in my footsteps and take over from me one day.

The rest .... They will inherit something, ... but not everything.

Children are as much a gamble as relationships.
One never knows the vagaries or result until it has happened.

I mitigate risks ... simple as that.

VusiK
04 Oct 2013 15:43

I already have one drug addict violent child ... whom I disinherited, disavowwed, and disowned.
His elder brother decided he wishes to work for me because it has now dawned on him that his chosen path is a dead end.
the other children are under their influence of their mothers and awaiting my death to inherit "fortunes) ... (Major surprises awaiting them in my will.) ... but truthfully ... they are their mothers' children ... not mine.
It is now my opportunity to have MY children.
Some people (my family included) find it distasteful that I intend to have children sans women (the mothers) ... neglecting the fact that I have been treated as a generous sperm donor my entire life long by the women (which everyone seems to support).
I don't need a woman to have raise child as readily as a woman does not need a man to raise a child.

it is when someone like me actually points out this reality that society, especially women, seem to lose purpose and get lost, and react in an unflattering manner.

It is my my decision,
It is my risk.

VusiK
04 Oct 2013 15:44

@ Aya

Thank You !

VusiK
04 Oct 2013 15:54

This might seem as though I am angry, or vengeful,  ...
I am not!
I have observed patterns and behaviours for approx 28 years ...

It happens to be that this path works for me

It tends not to work for many because it is ridiculously expensive.

and it eliminates the involvement of others beyond contractual scope.

I can deal with, relate to, and reconcile with these factors and odds.
Had my life evolved differently, I would probably view my position as abherrent as well.
I am now semi-retired,
I have at least 20 years of intense development (in children) left in me
(plus I have a contingency should anything happen to me)

I can afford this,
hence ....
I can do this!

VusiK
04 Oct 2013 16:06

@Mims ...

I might be a psycho...
However ...
I am not dragging anyone into my madness who cannot make a sound decision to be near my madness,...
nor am I duping anyone into something whose risks they are not aware of prior to making such decisions

Mimibob
04 Oct 2013 16:27

@Vus, I PMd some responses. Not fit for the children's eyes. Later guys. Water is finally here... Get my first bath for the day.

Mimibob
04 Oct 2013 16:36

Vus, I don't need a woman to have raise child as readily as a woman does not need a man to raise a child. 
The child in most cases needs to be raised by both parents (loving and caring parents). Most children who have been raised by a single parent always wish the other was there, or feel the gap left by the absence of the other. It is not just about the parent, but the child as well.
Maybe you are able to cater for that need and be both mother and father to the children, I don't know... 

VusiK
04 Oct 2013 16:44

To each ...

Their own opinion Mims !

I am doing this MY WAY !

Mimibob
04 Oct 2013 16:58

Ok Vus. I'm outta here.

MsKim
04 Oct 2013 16:58

lol Vus...

am with Mimi. i was brought up by my mother. didn't get to know my father. wen i was young honestly it affected me in a bad way. and i blamed my mother. especially wen your close friends have both parents. as i grew older, i think my mom did a great job considering she was alone.

MsKim
04 Oct 2013 16:59

also got to go..

HAPPY DUSTING!!

VusiK
04 Oct 2013 18:30

... as I said

Everyone is entitled to their opinion.

There is no attempt to convince anyone that my way will be ideal for anyone.

It happens to be ideal for me,
How others elect to live, is their business, and to be respected.

VusiK
04 Oct 2013 18:52

Farewell TVSA Family !

Mimibob
04 Oct 2013 19:07

Farewell? This family loves and needs you Vus. I'm sure most will see this in the morning. We are not complete without you. You are the voice of reason when we go astray, you have deep insight into issues, uncompromisingly blunt, the Uncle we all so adore and appreciate. We are family VusiK.

Mimibob
04 Oct 2013 19:22

Rather, they will see this on Monday. Good night Vus.

Woman of God
04 Oct 2013 20:21

I agree mimi we learn a lot frm u uncle please say u wl come back on monday

Goldi
05 Oct 2013 22:43

Yhoooo!! Every1 gone dusting wwheewwww I can't wait 4 Monday so that new topics will arise hehehe ok good night

NoMdazB
06 Oct 2013 20:24

Well, I leave Tvsa for a few days and this is what happens! So this is where Bra Vusi has been hiding. I don't even know where to start. I don't think I'm bold enough to be part of a threesome. Of course I masturbate, have been doing so since I was a teen and had my first orgasm through masturbation. Sometimes I sit infront of a mirror so I can watch myself. Have only been penetrated vaginally, I'm scared of using the other one.

NoMdazB
07 Oct 2013 07:04

Well good morning horny ones.

Dhee
07 Oct 2013 09:57

Morning NoMdakazane how was your weekend

NoMdazB
07 Oct 2013 10:09

Quiet and boring as usual. Sadly no dusting...

Bk212303
07 Oct 2013 10:24

Hi everyone howzit?

Goldi
07 Oct 2013 10:54

Morning Dusters lol 

hahahahahah Nomd as for the hony ones........i doubt if i can pay full attention if i can sit in front of a mirror hey

Dhee
07 Oct 2013 11:19

mmmm its very quite here today and the weather in Dbn is a good one for hot steamy sex.

portcia
07 Oct 2013 11:24

Hi everyone, im quite busy at work, so will pop up,if i have time

Bk212303
07 Oct 2013 11:27

Uncle Vusik whatsup? whats with the farewell you cannot leave us klk. You summoned to come back ....

Dhee
07 Oct 2013 12:00

RANDOM SEX FACTS:

-Wearing socks during sex makes it easier to reach an orgasm
-3% of women plan chores during sex
-Most people lose their virginity in June
-More women talk dirty during sex than men
-200 calories are burned during a fierce sex session
-The average male thinks about sex every 52 seconds
-Sex is more effective than painkillers in relieving pain
-During sex pheromones are released, which may make you appear more attractive

Dhee
07 Oct 2013 12:02

Before sex, you help each other get naked, after sex you only dress yourself. Moral of the story: in life no one helps you once you're f***ed

Dhee
07 Oct 2013 12:05

What is sex?

According to doctors sex is an illness, because if you have it you always end up on bed.
According to lawyers sex is an injustice, because there is always someone at the top and someone at the bottom.
According to architects sex is a mistake, because the entertainment area is too close to the wastepipe.
According to politicans sex is the perfect democracy, because both the one at the top and the one at the bottom are happy.
According to economists sex ain't a good investment, because it is more what comes in than what goes out.
According to mathematicians sex is the perfect equation: the woman raises the member to its maximum power, encloses it in parenthesis, extracts its common factor and reduces it to its minimum expression.

Dhee
07 Oct 2013 12:12

11 Tips to remember before sex:

1. Air condition the room.
2. Spray a romantic perfume.
3. Avoid noise.
4. Use quality condom.
5. Start slowly with a gental kiss and seducing touches.
6. Always prefer wet sex to reduce pain.
7. Have sex for atleast two hours.
8. Freshen up ur mouth before lip kissing.
9. Switch on some romantic music.
10. Have sex regularly for healthy living.
11. Return to your home after u had it.

Bk212303
07 Oct 2013 12:50

Yhoo Dhee

Dhee
07 Oct 2013 13:24

Ladies, ladies and ladies I would like to know about "Anal sex" is it nice or painful. How was your first experience and what was the first thing or reaction when your man brought it up. Did you discuss it or it just happened.

Dhee
07 Oct 2013 13:27

Hey Bk looks like the house is dead today people are still on the weekend bliss

Goldi
07 Oct 2013 16:12

i've never done ANAL and i dont think i'll ever do it my ex 1 day suggested it and i say told him straight that it's not going to happen cos that hole is meant for SHITING, no offence that was my response, i had a friend who did it and she had to go to the Dr cos she was anable to do # 2 and she couldnt sit properly O.o

MsKim
07 Oct 2013 16:55

jo Anal, never!!! if it means my marriage has to end then be it. that hole truely is meant for wat u jus mentioned Goldi. nothing shldn't be going in there, only some ... to be coming out. no offence but i normal assosiate anal sex with gays. i mean an anal is an anal whether woman o man its the same. no offence to gays as well.

lol@Goldi she had to go to the Dr cos she was anable to do # 2 and she couldnt sit properly O.o

EMk213L
07 Oct 2013 20:13

Hey Sister!!!! Yoyo, gold, mimi, portcia nd Bk exh guys everytym whn I read ur comments abt dusting I jst got horny*hide*

Bk212303
08 Oct 2013 09:52

Anal sex me never and i will never even try it. Somethings are meant for 1 reason and that hole is meant for *bleep!* not patlapatla qha... Mna i enjoy dusting when pinciponci is inserted inside there ......

Bk212303
08 Oct 2013 09:52

Anal sex me never and i will never even try it. Somethings are meant for 1 reason and that hole is meant for *bleep!* not patlapatla qha... Mna i enjoy dusting when pinciponci is inserted inside there ......

Goldi
08 Oct 2013 10:09

Morning hahahahaha BK pinciponci

Dhee
08 Oct 2013 10:13

Morning darlings Yho BK I think you have joined Goldi and Yoyos world the queens of dusting who have taken over from Kerri.

portcia
08 Oct 2013 10:57

Hubby and i wanted to experience anal sex, and he tried to put his thing there, yoh, it was so painfull, and we both ended up saying, NO noways, and i just imagine if it went through, i would have been in so much pain and never enjoyed, and afterall sex is about enjoyment.

Ntaksay
08 Oct 2013 11:16

Hello everyone

Bk, your and your funny terms. LOL

Anal sex is a NO NO  for me

Dhee
08 Oct 2013 11:36

The reason I asked about anal sex because my cousin says they had some patience who were torn on the ass and she said they had diapers on because no2 was just dripping and they had to be stitched. Then I asked one of my married friend if she does it with her husband she said yes at first it was painful but now she is used to it and she doesn't mind doing it but for me its a big NO

Nongo
08 Oct 2013 11:57

morning i was lost in the house coz it's dark people are in the dusting house ,thanks Ntaks for letting me know lols

big NO for no 2 very sorry else you leave in the middle of the night!!!

does not think 'bout trying it!!

Friend
08 Oct 2013 12:18

Hubby doesn't wanna try it, would love to go anal, pls help

Dhee
08 Oct 2013 12:24

kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa @ Maki you are so quick to volunteer

Dhee
08 Oct 2013 12:25

Careful now Friend you gonna loose your breaks

Friend
08 Oct 2013 12:30

Looool, lemme try harder to convince hubby before I jump off the wagon. But ke Makisto my man should b present, taking down notes. Dhee noted.

Dhee
08 Oct 2013 12:50

Haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa @ Friend you want your man to watch while Maki is pumping you. *shocked*

Dhee
08 Oct 2013 12:50


It will end up being a three some.

Friend
08 Oct 2013 12:54

lol, Dhee he'll kill me

Bk212303
08 Oct 2013 13:28

You c this Anal thingis does nt work u c i hear dripping of no 2s yhoo which means its a win or loose moss. So mna istill to my doggy style, my wide open legs,my hahahha need i say more...not this klk. You try it there goes yr wide open hole niyazithanda izinto stick to what you know best and just find ways to make it even more interesting like .....

Pps i enjoy watching my man  he goes up...and ...down and i even take a mirror and watch his bums yhoo just a turn on for me

Bk212303
08 Oct 2013 13:35

Have while busy then u are really enjoying it then all of a sudden ...someone knocks at yr door with me you will freeze outside cause i dont open neither answer ...hahahahah

This other day we were busy on the couch and i hear qoqoqqo we looked and each other and i was doing him cause i was on top with my leggs wide oooopen so you can imagine yhoooo i just kept on pumping him and doing my thing and he was whispering .....shsshhhhhhhhhhh and at that time everthing waascoming and he put his hand on my mouth cause me i m a loud woman shem cant help it

Dhee
08 Oct 2013 13:43

Yhooo BK hayi tana ndindizokoba ngembobo kakhiya. lolz

Bk212303
08 Oct 2013 13:59

Hahahahaahah@Dhee

Bk212303
08 Oct 2013 14:01

You will c someone riding a horse kwaaaaaa

@2012
08 Oct 2013 14:36

will never to the anal way........never

yoyozz
08 Oct 2013 14:44

you are disappointing me ladies. anal sex is clean and healthy you must all try it. gays do it everyday and enjoy it dont you wanna know why the handsome guys leaves us for another man its because of anal sex. make sure you are wet enought before doing it. dont just go straight to it start in your kuku and then when you high, wet, hot try the anal thing otherwise if you go straight to the anal u will shout yhoooooo but if you do it nicely with your loving man you will shout HALELULA. IVE NEVER TRY IT BUT ONE DAY I WILL i want to know why everyone is gay the only way to find out is to do it mybe i wont stop.

you are all saying nononono why no how was your first time in sex it was not nice same to anal sex try it and come tell us about it tyhini

guys im very bussy i miss this house.

Bk212303
08 Oct 2013 14:58

hahahahahahahha HALELUYAAA YHooo yoyos u killed me apha

Alyka
08 Oct 2013 16:14

Hi dusting family. Your comments especially the orgasm stories made me really wet and when we did dust I was quite high before pinciponci even actioned. I don't like like REAL penetration during anal sex and have never had full anal sex but I have had the area around it and the opening played with but like yoyoz said after doing it in the real hole and when wet and high you try the anal area. I want my hubby to just be pressuring a bit around the anal area like he is going to enter, it really stimulates the vagina and when he finally penetrates the vagina it will be a matter of seconds and I will be screaming. I am afraid of having 2 visible holes and when I go into labour even the nurses will be laughing at me that she is having it both ways. My hubby said if we ever had full anal sex and when I give birth he will not come to visit me in hospital. But there is a lot is stimulation in that area, your awhile body will be shaking and vibrating when pinciponci finally makes an entrance. You will feel like pulling your hair out. Try it a bit not the full but the tip and I mean TIP.

Nongo
08 Oct 2013 16:15

yoyozz ke letlhanya waitse lols HALELUYA  ai!!!!!!!!*

 

Nongo
08 Oct 2013 16:18

lols Aly are coming from the quickie , lucky you *running away fast*!!!!!!!

Lonjezano
08 Oct 2013 16:38

For those who use condoms like myself during sex, am still looking for Mr Right guys don't ever try anal sex for first timers because the condom will tear. I had a friend who tried it with her boyfriend and the condom ripped open when the boyfriend was coming and all the semen entered her they only realised it when he had withdrawn and there was no sperm at the tip of the condom. A week after that she developed sores around the area and embarassing as it was she went to look for treatment and was told it was an STI. Its not safe because you will tear in some areas and that's how HIV is spread. I support those who do it and will never judge but maybe for me I will wait to do it a faithful hubby. @ Alayka thanks for the tip.

NoMdazB
09 Oct 2013 00:26

Well happy Wednesday. Like I said, I'm too scared to ever try anal but I get what Alyka is saying about the vagina being stimulated by playing with the area around the anus but only when the penis wandered there by accident. I should probably actively get my man to stimulate that area and see what happens, but never, ever inside. I showed some people your posts about masturbation and they were disgusted by people touching themseves and I was baffled, I thought everyone did it. How else are you supposed to know what feels good? I haven't done doggy in a long while because incanca isuke imana iphuncuka (the penis keeps slipping out) so it kills the mood. Hey guys does anyone not enjoy performing oral sex or having it done on them? And would anyone masturbate infront of their man?

NoMdazB
09 Oct 2013 07:44

Mims, I have experienced I think one orgasm in my dream, but I didn't shake or anything. Definately nothing as intense as Goldi's. And I was dreaming about my ex- I tell you that man will be the death of me.

Bk212303
09 Oct 2013 09:26

Hey me i would dream im having sex with a man and when i wake im wet. When i told a frnd of mine this she said its evil to to that. But i enjoyed it shem

MsKim
09 Oct 2013 09:44

jo! interesting hey. 

i've never dreamt having sex guess that explains why i've never woken up wet. as for anal sex, am scared of "ingubhane" don't knw english word for it.

if i am ask ladies, circumcised or uncircumcised pipi do you feel the difference? jus curious. i've never had circumcised.

Goldi
09 Oct 2013 10:33

i have experienced such Mims hey eish now i feel like having SEX :'( it's been a while and now i haven't made time to learn how to play with myself *deep sigh*

Haai i dont like ppl who are too quick to say something is EVIL @ BK it was just a dream yhoooo!!

well for me is the same hey i've tried both, i think after circum it becomes a bit bigger hahahahah i've tried that with the same guy that's why but haaai maan it's the same MsKim

MsKim
09 Oct 2013 10:54

lol @BK i've heard that also. most pple believe wen you dream dusting wch means someone has been sending their tikoloshi/zombiz/ghosts... to sleep with you.

thanks Goldi for easily settling that for me. curiousity was killing me.

portcia
09 Oct 2013 11:34

I do dream of having sex sometimes, and wake up wet, and hey.. thats would be the greatest sex ever, so i guess that orgasm.

Goldi
09 Oct 2013 11:55

so i guess that orgasm....I concurr nana

you are welcome MsKim

Ntaksay
09 Oct 2013 12:04

I have had a similar dream but I was still young  and didn't understand what was happening (I vaguely remember it). It felt like there was a man (couldn't see his face) trying to get it on with me but I woke up with my panty on my knees. Tried to look around the room to see who it was but there was no one, just me and my aunt whom I was sharing a room with. I looked in the closet, under the bed and even behind the curtain but there was no male.

It was very strange but I have never told anyone one about it, It felt like something to ashamed of/embarrassed about.

Goldi
09 Oct 2013 12:42

That's very strange hey Ntaks but why do you feel like that? if there was some1 there your Aunt could have heard...it's not embarrassing @ all hey

Pastry
09 Oct 2013 14:15

Hey guys does anyone not enjoy performing oral sex or having it done on them? And would anyone masturbate infront of their man? 

NoMdaz....oral drives me wild and crazy. I like it so much when done to me, I have issues doing it to a man (selfish i know) for health reasons i cant seem to spare out of my mind. I can have it done on me 20times a day and i will come in all rounds(Sh!t now am so high)

Only time i would masturbate infront of a man is when he is the one playing with his hands on me...touching all the right places and doing all the right moves!

Pastry
09 Oct 2013 14:17

Ntaks...maybe it was your aunt hey! Ever thought of that?

NoMdazB
09 Oct 2013 19:17

I really don't mind performing oral sex and of course I love having it done on me. The only thing I have to try to like is swallowing, so far I haven't been able to. I want to summon the nerve to mastubate in front of my man and soon, I will.

NoMdazB
09 Oct 2013 19:19

Question: Am I the only one who does not mind having my man go down on me and then come back and kiss me with the same mouth and then go back again? I feel so abnormal...

TEE78
09 Oct 2013 20:36

@NoMdazB  I did had a problem with that and my man would be like...it`s your pu$$y mos. But it feels so weird believe me. I can do the oral sex but eish swallowing is a problem...I just can`t...Any help about swallowing ladies.

Bk212303
10 Oct 2013 08:20

Ntaks...maybe it was your aunt hey! Ever thought of that?

@Pastry you killed me here kwaaaaakest

Ntaksay
10 Oct 2013 08:35

@Pastry it was not my aunt. It was a dream and not real. I would have seen/heard  her climb into my bed. It was just a strange dream.

Chatai
10 Oct 2013 09:14

@NoMdazB you are not the only one I also love it hey and am surprised that most of you are saying no to anal without even trying it, l love it, the pain and pleasure of anal is intractable, ever had an itch that you want to scratch for a long time and finaly you do get to scratch it, that feeling you have while scratching is how good it feels, anal gives me an explosive orgasm, makes me scream my lungs out #but that myt jus be the drama queen in me#

portcia
10 Oct 2013 09:38

Yoh Chatai, i love  the feeling of scratching, but not anal, sorry. i like oral sex but when my hubby do it to me, i always jump on the first move, as if there is something tingling me.

Goldi
10 Oct 2013 09:44

ohhhh how i love oral sex but only when its done to me hahahaha like Pastry selfish i know but i do give blow job so far i've only given it to 2 guys hahahahah i know i'm SELFISH i'm been told many times but haai thats how i am nje eeuuuwww and swallowing *bleep!* that though nje makes me yaaaaak

Nomd you not the only one my ex used to do that whooooo and i would move my head so that i he doesnt kiss me he would 4s me until i was ok with it cause i would do the same lenna specially after 69.......

lol Pastry you just killed me there well Ntaks you did say when you woke you panties were @ your knees thats why.....

Chatai
10 Oct 2013 09:55

I used to think i am a giver not a receiver cause it always felt or looked weird when someone goes down on me until recently, l realised i was missing out, ever done it when yo pussy is on the guy's face n he is licking it and you also giving him head *explosive* is the word..

market
10 Oct 2013 10:27

i also love when my man goes down on me but i like it when we do it together at the some time shooo its turn me on.

Goldi
10 Oct 2013 11:00

i used to love 69, well i guess will have to practise it when i get a man so that i can give and also receive and stop being selfish hahahahaah 69 is best especially if he's very good i mean very good with his tongue,

Ntaksay
10 Oct 2013 11:30

Nomd you not the only one my ex used to do that whooooo and i would move my head so that i he doesnt kiss me he would 4s me until i was ok with it cause i would do the same lenna specially after 69.......

@Goldi I thought you were referring to #2, but when I saw this reply "i used to love 69, well i guess will have to practise it when i get a man so that i can give and also receive" No one practices #2

Friend
10 Oct 2013 11:47

I swallowed by mistake, all of it. Hubby loved it and said 'babe you'll never leave me for another man' coz u korobelad yourself by swallowing my cum.

Goldi
10 Oct 2013 12:15

hahahahahahahah Ntaks you sure have  a selective reading.....how can some1 4s you to taste your #2 O.o

Yhooo Friend o strong so did you do it again or it was a once off thing?

market
10 Oct 2013 12:29

u guyz are missing a lot just go with the flow u can't even teste anything when he kissing u after he goes down on u,tell them @friend u n i are in the same page girl.

Ntaksay
10 Oct 2013 13:30

Eeeeeeuw @Friend I don't know how I'd react if that happened to me, I would also like to know how it tastes like, would you swallow it again?????????????????

VusiK
10 Oct 2013 13:39

@Everyone ... Not returning to blog ... just addressing your silliness.

Anal sex is about choice ...
if you do not wish to do it ...
then don't!

Go to your local sex shop, consult about lubricants

Always use condoms ... the anus was designed for a completely different function and hemorrhoid secretions do not make for good lubrication.
...
ALSO ... If you do apply lubricant INSIDE your anus ... YOU WILL RIP !

Get a silicone or water based Gel lubricants ( not oil ) ... do not use vaseline ... the condom will rip if you do... and so will your anus ... and that opens you to STis

unless you are absolutely certain about your partner ... ANY form of oral sex WILL raise your possibilities of contracting an STi or one form or another. (research STis

and stop behaving ignorantly or as though you have only just discovered you have holes and penises)

The reason why most people are judgmental is because their desires are in coonflict with their beliefs relative to others' opinions ... in the long run ... reality is ... NOBODY CARES ABOUT YOUR SEX LIFE ... YOU SHOULD CARE !!

As long as you are not armed with proper information, there is always the risk of making the wrong decisions.

A Great sex health is about what feels good and right inside ...
it has NOTHING to do with anyone else ...
NOT EVEN YOUR PARTNER!!!

Anal, oral sex etc., can be awesome to some people ...
and absolutely terrible to others ...

as is regular sex.

How you view it is your business.

VusiK
10 Oct 2013 13:52

LIFE is not PORN
PORN is not life

the reason why porn looks pretty is because the women douche before and after each scene shoot
the reason anal sex looks good in porn is because they use enemas and colonic ... This flushes to clean the crap out
and they make extensive use of lubricant to enable penetration

It does not take much to figure this out if you'd just THINK your way through the process ...
The alternate is to do the research ...
that means READING about the subject !!!

VusiK
10 Oct 2013 13:54

They also MUST test for STIs every week, month, and sometimes EVERY DAY, depending on their shooting schedules ....

and despite that ...

over 80% of porn people are heavily loaded with MANY forms of infection !!!

VusiK
10 Oct 2013 13:55

Be Safe !!!

farewell

AGAIN!

SMH !!!

andi01
10 Oct 2013 14:04

Thnx so much VusiK!!!!!!!. especially on the anul subject.

MaWiNiZa
10 Oct 2013 14:06

MakuyiloVusiK... Unqesta wala.. uzwi lakhe.. umlomo kawuphikiswa.. mR KNOW IT ALL. UMLOMO ONGATHETHI MANGA. mr been there done that got the T-shirt. ende uzothola ukuthi he is all talk and no action. imfundakhwela

VusiK
10 Oct 2013 14:17


ALSO ... If you do apply lubricant INSIDE your anus ... YOU WILL RIP !


ALSO ... If you do not apply lubricant INSIDE your anus ... YOU WILL RIP !

VusiK
10 Oct 2013 14:20

You are quite correct Mawiniza ...

The ONLY things I have not done sexually is...

... sex with animals,
... or men

Goldi
10 Oct 2013 14:59

Kwaaaaaa Vusi eish you just killed me

Mawi what makes you say that Vusi is all talk no action O.o?

VusiK
10 Oct 2013 15:13

...
@Goldi...
It must be the nine children I already made.

Mimibob
10 Oct 2013 15:20

Lol... It must be the nine children.

portcia
10 Oct 2013 15:46

Yoh Mawiniza, why vele, malume Vusi, knows best, not that he is Mr know it all, and who are you. Pls intro

portcia
10 Oct 2013 15:54

Thanks Vusi for the advice, i guess we should not always want to do what we see on the porns, couse we dont know the procedure, but to tell the truth it is tempting, especially for married woman, we always want to come with something new, oh... not married woman only man also.

Anyway bra Vusi, what up with all the fare well? you know we need you in this house, so please dont do that to us, dont leave *sad*

Goldi
10 Oct 2013 16:04

Lol Vusi you just know what to say hihihihihihi

Dont be sad Posh Vusi's not leaving US akere Vusi?

VusiK
10 Oct 2013 16:04

@Portcia...
My life presently ...

I live six hours ahead and six hours behind you.

It is simply impractical to continue with TVSA

Mimibob
10 Oct 2013 16:34

Wena Goldi ke belaela o na le crush mo go Malome. Di giggle-nyana tsa gago... Mmm...

VusiK
10 Oct 2013 18:45

http://news.discovery.com/tech/biotechnology/five-scariest-bioweapons-120514.htm

NoMdazB
10 Oct 2013 19:39

Yho this place is never boring. I read somewhere that guys enjoy having the inside of their anuses stimulated? Anyone know if it's true or not?

Mimibob
10 Oct 2013 21:41

Yoh Vusi, scary stuff!

Mimibob
10 Oct 2013 22:44

I liked this: "Here's To The Crazy Ones. The misfits. The rebels. The trouble-makers. The round pegs in the square holes. The ones who see things differently. They're not fond of rules, and they have no respect for the status-quo. You can quote them, disagree with them, glorify, or vilify them. About the only thing you can't do is ignore them. Because they change things. They push the human race forward. And while some may see them as the crazy ones, we see genius. Because the people who are crazy enough to think they can change the world - are the ones who DO !" Steve Jobs

Mimibob
10 Oct 2013 22:49

Sorry Dusting fam. Just saw that and it reminded me of someone very dear, so I just had to share with friends. We can go back to dusting topics. :)

VusiK
11 Oct 2013 09:54

... Read
... Research
... Study
... Discover
... Know
... Apply
... Improve
... Innovate
... Create
... Re-Create

Such is the secret and solution to progress.

It matters not to me ... If I awake , I simply go look for something new and old to read.

HERE IS A FACT I used to tell my children (When I was weaning them off television!
"The ONLY Person ...
Not learning anything
Not benefiting
Not enriching themselves
Not Being earning anything progressive ...

is the person sitting in front of a television set.(Everyone else you see ... and don't see inside the Telly IS, and HAS)

Over Time ... I won THAT battle.

portcia
11 Oct 2013 10:05

Morning dusting family....

tshepiso
11 Oct 2013 10:16

I AM DRY

Goldi
11 Oct 2013 10:35

Wena Goldi ke belaela o na le crush mo go Malome. Di giggle-nyana tsa gago... Mmm... O.o what makes you think like that Mims?

Morning Dusters :)

Tshepiso DRY kanjani?

Riyat
11 Oct 2013 10:43

Hie goldi

Riyat
11 Oct 2013 10:44

I can see am missing a lot. This xul. I hate.

tshepiso
11 Oct 2013 11:08

@ Goldi<<<<<<I mean I have not do the dusting for about 3 - 4months. I think I'm rusty. 

Goldi
11 Oct 2013 11:11

Hello Riyat my Smurf :)

market
11 Oct 2013 12:30

3-4month you not dusting why u think dat u rusty

portcia
11 Oct 2013 12:34

I will go mad, if i have to stay 3-4 months without dusting. hey tshepiso,im sure gore moo o tlo e tholang teng, o tlo mamarela ngwana batho ne!..............

VusiK
11 Oct 2013 14:06

I think Tshepiso meant Thirsty

Goldi
11 Oct 2013 14:55

hahahahaha kante Tshepiso nna it's 5 full months nana and still counting without DUSTING sad hey!! being single sucks for sure mxxxxxxm

Goldi
11 Oct 2013 14:57

lol Posh used to say that lenna until now i'm singing a different tune *deep sigh*

Noted Vusi *wink*

NoMdazB
11 Oct 2013 14:58

Sawubona Bab'uKunene. Kunjani Kodwa. Hello to the rest of the family. What is the longest that anyone has stayed without having sex. I think it was over 18 months for me.

VusiK
11 Oct 2013 15:08

32 or thereabouts months

Mimibob
11 Oct 2013 15:09

@ Nomd, for me, you wouldn't believe if I told you. But long!

mbulela
11 Oct 2013 15:29

Will probably spend days reading all these comments. Tjo!! Let me get started.

mbulela
11 Oct 2013 16:09

Yes, I masturbate occasionally, as does everyone @VusiK,Very surprised that you will make such a definitive comment. Not everyone does.

VusiK
11 Oct 2013 16:22

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Masturbation

http://www.yourtango.com/experts/sean-jameson/how-masturbate-women

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=77LeCSGgaKg

http://www.plannedparenthood.org/info-for-teens/sex-masturbation/myths-facts-about-masturbation-33824.htm

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=77LeCSGgaKg

Pastry
11 Oct 2013 16:43

Havent read any comments here in two days. I will read tonite. Hope everyone is good.

Monday I wanna hear from everyone:
Do you think of someone else/an ex lover when making love to your partner to help yourself enjoy or come?

Pastry
11 Oct 2013 16:45

Hello to the rest of the family. What is the longest that anyone has stayed without having sex

My eyes just fell on this one.
A = one year

mbulela
11 Oct 2013 18:53

@Pastry .... Evryone above puberty masturbates ... or masturbated ... some earlier than puberty whether they care to admit it or not ... Eish baba, you are still on this flawed argument? The generalisation is not true. The issue of admitting it does not even come into play as you can see nothing wrong in act and still not do it.

Mimibob
11 Oct 2013 22:39

@ Mbulela, "... Eish baba, you are still on this flawed argument?" . Whom are you addressing here? It seems you are the one digging up old issues...

NoMdazB
12 Oct 2013 05:46

Bra Vusi, if I may ask, do you still have the desires at the normal frequency and just make a conscious choice not to act on them? Is it difficult or has it become easier with time? Thing is I cannot remember how I felt during my 'sabbatical', all I remember is I was terribly depressed by the man I was longing for so I probably had very little sex drive anyway.

VusiK
13 Oct 2013 11:39

Do you think of someone else/an ex lover when making love to your partner to help yourself enjoy or come?
NO! ... I don't.

@Nomdakazane.

I just don't think about it. There are so many other things to occupy my attention with.
With time, not thinking about it becomes normal.

@Mbulela
What is flawed to you is not flawed to me.
Masturbation is a normal, integral part of human sexual development, exploration and self appreciation .... It is a means to discover what works for oneself, not necessarily and end to itself.
I would be concerned if I encountered or was otherwise be involved with someone who has not explored their bodies, functions, and composition.
(About a month ago ... I was speaking with my mother about my 15 yr. old cousin ... and the subject of his changes into adulthood came up ...
and I said "We should be worried/ concerned if he does not explore himself / masturbate ... an agreed upon topic, point, and resolution).

mbulela
14 Oct 2013 09:57

@VusiK, you are inferring something i never said. I never said wanking is flawed. I simply said that assuming everyone does it and passing it off as a statement of fact is flawed. I have actually not giving masturbation much thought so i cannot say it is flawed. Not everyone wanks. There are very normal people who do not wank and it has not affected their sexuality,one bit. Crux of my argument.

tshepiso
14 Oct 2013 10:05

@ Dhee<<<<<< clarity please, is anal sex AIDS free?

VusiK
14 Oct 2013 11:12

@Tshepiso ...

Uprotected Anal sex INCREASES the chances of contracting STia.

@Mbulela ...

Whatever !!!

VusiK
14 Oct 2013 11:47

Masturbate ... fulfilled or unfulfilled
don't Masturbate ... fulfilled or unfulfilled
Irrelevant to me.

portcia
14 Oct 2013 12:41

Hi dusting family..............

Ntaksay
14 Oct 2013 13:17

This side is also quite.

Bk212303
14 Oct 2013 14:13

Woow hellow everyone howzit?

market
14 Oct 2013 14:39

hello everyone.

Bk212303
15 Oct 2013 14:41

Hayi waar is die mense vandag?

Bk212303
16 Oct 2013 10:27

Ndiyabulisa...Dr Zwane's voice(Mongezi)

tshepiso
17 Oct 2013 10:43

Dusters and dustees

Ntaksay
17 Oct 2013 11:45

Posh your blog is slowly dying. Give it more oomph dear

Goldi
17 Oct 2013 12:15

tjooooo who died bathong hi Dusting family!

Guys eish i tried playing with myself the other day yhoooo haai cha this is not for me i felt like i'm just wasting my time since i couldnt feel a thing felt so STUPID ai i guess it's not for me, next tep ima try vibrator /dildo what ever and take it from there

Bk212303
17 Oct 2013 14:47

Yeyi hayi this blog is really dying slowly

mbulela
17 Oct 2013 14:49

Wonder why you are getting worked up? I simply pointed out to you that not everyone masturbates,contrary to your earlier assertion. We are not discussing the relevance of the point to you. What was being discussed is the veracity of your assertion.

NoMdazB
18 Oct 2013 16:21

A guy friend said to me yesterday that vaginas are different in feel, shape etc, guys is this true? I think similar sized penises feel the same, except if the penis is too big or small. Ladies, anyone ever encounter a really, really small penis? How small was it?

Bk212303
23 Oct 2013 12:47

Where is everyone nonele yincanca ngoku or niyokhangela ezintsha hahahahah

Goldi
23 Oct 2013 13:10

hahahahahahah Nomd you just killed me the eish i've met the small ncanca, and shem brothers na rata DUSTING but he had a small pipi and a 2mnts man eish that guy but when he's on the dance floor you would swear gore he's the ish! in bed mxxxxxm sometimes i felt like saying to him just take it out the and put it in my ear *eyes rolling*

Bk angawari sisi baza vuka

NoMdazB
23 Oct 2013 13:36

Wish Bk, I think I've been quiet because I'm going through a short drought. Komile sisi. Soon I'll have something to talk about, hopefully.

NoMdazB
30 Oct 2013 12:53

I was doing a bit of setting and now I find myself very turned on. Problem is I'm at work and the person that can relieve this problem is far away. What do you guys d when you get turned on at work or infront of people?

Goldi
30 Oct 2013 15:10

lol i've never experienced such but i would normally hear ppl saying they going to the bathroom gore baetsang mo i'm not sure ask Pastry maybe she knows *hiding*

Pastry
30 Oct 2013 15:24

Lol Goldi...you bet it happened to me way too many times, so difficult to ignore and compose myself.

I have a few dirty videos stored up on my hard drive. They usually help me. All i do is play them...think dirty and start touching my clitoris (safely locked up in my office).,,then bang softly insert my index finger and walaaaaaa oohhh oohhhh oohhh priceless!

#eish am horny klaar!

Hopefully there is no camera in my office...shuuuu!

Mimibob
09 Nov 2013 11:39

Lol @ Pastry. Let's hope no one hacks your computer. I'm usually quite busy at work and hardly have time to think men or dusting. And I haven't been turned on for nearly 2 months now. I hope to stay this way for a long long time.

yoyozz
27 Nov 2013 16:05

YHOOOOOO DEAD

Mopedi Twiii
06 Dec 2013 07:46

Yah dis page is died neh??? #Sad

Woman of God
12 Sep 2014 14:58

commoon guys no more dusting topic Goldi,portia Bk etc come back  i wil el u a story lol

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